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Go to the nearest YMCA or cheap ass gym. The only thing you need a solid squat rack and barbells. Start lifting. 5x5, starting strength, or some other program. Minimum 3 days a week. Do not skip workout. Update your resume and start looking for jobs. This is your new 9-5. Go to a coffee shop or library m-f and only wrk on sending out applications or developing your professional skills through networking/online classes/etc. If you drink, stop. Not permanently, just until you get back on your feet…
/r/askTRP04/06/17 03:55 PM
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Realize that happiness and fulfillment come from within. Loneliness is a bitch, but can be easily overcome. Try to live your days as if you had a best friend who was down for whatever. Invite people to do those things. If nobody joins, enjoy them anyway. Eventually you'll attract people into your life. Don't fall into the trap that you can only have fun/be happy/live a good life if other people acknowledge it. If all else fails, get a dog.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 03:42 PM
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Chore play is the expectation that you doing "womanly duties" or "helping her out" will lead to sex. A high value man owns his shit. This includes keeping his house in order. Dishes, laundry, tidiness, making the bed, etc. Traditionally the lady of the house takes over these duties to help the man on his mission. But if you have no mission and no other displays of value, and expect her to clean up after you, she will resent you.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 09:44 PM
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Don't confuse helping a person with helping your harpy-sex-denying-wife. Would you offer to help a co-worker, your parents, or a stranger? Then do it. As others have said - be proactive. If it's something that needs to be done, do it. If you're busy and she knows it but still asks you to drop everything and go buy her ice cream - that's a test.
/r/askMRP23/05/17 10:43 PM
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Yeah I see the forehead kiss as more of an amused mastery move to be used when she's being unreasonably emotional or acting like a child. I wouldn't reward constant denials with overt forms of affection. Save them for comfort tests or meltdowns.
/r/askMRP23/05/17 10:35 PM
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I know you said 13 month of mrp programming, but out of curiosity how long were you together / how long were things beta hell before turning things around?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 07:10 PM
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Personally it doesn't do anything for me. It's not something I actively pursue or push for, but it is a huge turn on to see her begging for something dirty. It's one of if not the most taboo (non fetish) sexual acts you can perform one on one. It toes the line between normal dirty sex and fetish/depraved sex. Getting your girl to drop her guard and lose her mind to the point of being a dirty whore is the goal imo, not sticking it in her butt.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 07:08 PM
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To be clear, I'm not trying to make an argument for jerking daily. Just weary of super-power/life changing/cultish claims that people from that sub make. My bigger point is - don't blindly follow advice. Not from anywhere - including this sub. Men desperate to turn their lives around will cling to anything and take it to the extreme (Just look at the RP Rambo cases in MRP). Avoid doing that.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 08:33 PM
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I'm glad you've found a solution to one of your problems. However, I think this type of quasi-preaching removes value from TRP as a community. If someone specifically asks how to combat porn addiction, point them in the right direction. But stop pretending it's a quick-fix solution to "being a beta". Part of TRP philosophy is learning how to digest information, internalize it, and apply it to your life in a positive manner. Posting this shit is the same as posting "wow guyz I went to bible study…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 08:10 PM
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Don't feel like you need to leave your house every time there's any sort of sour mood in the air. It's as powerful demonstrating you don't give a fuck can carry on in your home as it is to walk away. Plus if you leave the house every time she has a hint of bitchiness to her tone it loses all it's stopping power. Leaving is great if you honestly can't control your frame and will appear butt hurt/sulky when she acts up, but it doesn't do any good if she equates you leaving to being butt hurt. Next…
/r/askMRP15/05/17 11:16 AM
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What's your IF schedule like? I've notice a similar lack of energy in the evenings. I skip breakfast, eat a good sized lunch, then eat a smaller dinner and I'm still seeing lower energy levels after 630pm. I've been supplementing with a post work cup of black coffee - caffeine doesn't keep me up so ymmv. Could also be lack of dietary fat.
/r/askMRP09/05/17 06:06 PM
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You're far from Rambo, don't worry about it. Rambo would be escalating from being a beta cuck to "fuck me or fuck you" in a week. Yes she's going to notice you're making changes and talk shit, hence shit testing. Learn to welcome it. It's been a week, you really expect a full turn around in her behavior? She probably things you're having a life crisis or started doing drugs - or both. Consistency is key. If you go full "alpha moves" (lol) in the first week and then slide back into beta bitch lan…
/r/askMRP09/05/17 01:42 AM
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I think I'm missing something. Why is forbidding her from going out a goal? It seems like an unnecessary power grab now that you've "taken back your life". Unless she's getting black out drunk, hooking up with strangers or something else that crosses the line what's the harm? If you're so insecure then the responsibility falls on you. Get more attractive, do stuff that's more fun, invoke more dread. Telling her "now that I've been the gym and want to be a man you can no longer go out" is not goi…
/r/askMRP02/05/17 04:23 PM
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Sounds like she wants you to lead her into doing more things together. Plan a date night (don't tell her about it) and invite her along. Have a babysitter or whatever lined up. If she wants to go and have a great time, cool. If not cancel the baby sitter, leave her at home, and do what you had planned anyway. Keeping busy outside of home is important, but part of gaming her is dating her, and she's not going to come up with it on her own. She's begging to be led.
/r/askMRP26/04/17 07:11 PM
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I recall an episode of the Black Phillip Show where a caller called in. He had a wife and a gf (or two gfs?) living in his house, and still didn't get laid every single day. Bullshit or not, the lesson is the same.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/17 10:34 PM
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First OYS post in a while - had to take a break from reddit/this sub for a while. Was spending way too much time worrying about what responses my posts were getting and refreshing the sub for new posts instead of focusing on getting shit done. Just passed the 6 Mo. mark on the RP path (as per this account creation, which was for my first OYS post). A lot has changed in that time, and a lot has stayed the same. I've still been keeping a OYS journal of my own for accountability and reflection, but…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/17 03:09 PM
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Been together 5 years. We moved in together after 2.5 years. Decision process was easy for me then. We both needed places to live (graduated college that semester, both of our respective roommates were moving away), we had soft-lived together for about a year, and neither one of us wanted new roommates. As others have said, quality of relationship dropped after officially moving in together. In retrospect I wish I had found a new male roommate and kept our houses separate. Things are turning aro…
/r/askMRP27/03/17 07:53 PM
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I've had huge up and down swings week to week. The important thing is to keep moving forward. One of the greatest things that lifting has brought me is the ability to persist after failure. Something I keep coming back to as a sort of mantra is: you have to improve either way. You can cut all ties with your wife/ltr now but you have to put the same work in either way. Keep your head up. One bad week doesn't undo everything you've learned.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/17 12:12 PM
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Get that preachy bullshit back to /relationships where it belongs. Add something of value or stfu. This isn't a place for you to spill your Bp guilt. Op is doing what he's doing. Not what you envision your self doing? Nobody gives a fuck.
/r/askMRP23/01/17 11:43 PM
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go dark via text. The only texts you should be sending/responding to are logistics. "I'm on my way home", "I'll be out till later", "going to the store, need anything?". Everything else is just noise. She's trying to get you to validate her emotional tantrum and you are. Why is her being "upset" over you not finishing the dishes worth a conversation? Hint: it's not. If she's a SAHM and gets stressed out over a few dirty dishes what value is she bribing? You probably should have finished what you…
/r/askMRP20/01/17 02:33 PM
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OYS: Been lazy about keeping up with these posts and owning my shit. Need to get better about checking progress against set goals, even if I don't share here. Fitness/diet: 5x5 on track again, re-adding weight at a high rate and quickly approaching my previous weights. Bench is my biggest struggle right now, keep getting stuck right around a plate on each side. On a still do the lack of calories is most likely to blame. Dropping the weight added over the holidays and looking at another 6ish week…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/17 02:29 AM
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There's 3 solutions for fixing a fat wife: 1) lead her to fitness by being an example and taking control over working out and diet. 2) get a hot side piece that meets your needs, dreads your wife into changing, or both. Should be easy enough if you've improved to the pinnacle of your manliness. 3) leave You say she's resistant to diet/exercise changes. Really the only thing you need to focus on is the diet. Plan, make, and pack all her meals. Yes it's a lot of work, but you got lazy and she foll…
/r/askMRP30/12/16 04:22 PM
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Been lax about posting OYS this month. Need to start holding myself accountable. Overall been a slow month for my MaP; took my foot off the pedal a little bit. Between being knock down sick, the holidays, and a couple work related major curve balls it's been hectic to say the least. I know excuses are bullshit. Getting everything back on track. Fitness: diet slipped around holidays along with gym time. Missed a week due to illness, took a deload week after, then gym had limited hours due to holi…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 06:18 PM
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Kill your oneitis. You're operating from a standpoint of fear. Nothing screams "I'm not the prize" like being afraid to live without your wife. She knows you won't ever leave, change, or be exciting so why should she put in any effort? As a child from a "broken home" - don't make your kids an excuse to be unhappy. They will see the resentment between you and your wife and grow up thinking that's the gold standard for relationships. You can 100% not be married and still maintain a happy healthy h…
/r/askMRP29/12/16 05:36 PM
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I second this. I think "addiction" is thrown around too easily and is applied to anything that is habitual. Watching porn once in a while and enjoying it in conjunction with a fulfilling sexual life is not a problem. Spending hours every day watching other dude spill loads instead of taking control of your life is a problem. IMO telling another dude to never touch him self and never watch porn is just as bad as doing it 24/7. As a high value man you should be able to decide what you want and ach…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/16 11:31 PM
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I've also been on SL for a while now while cutting. I'm thinking about switch to PHUL or some other 4 day split once I go into bulk mode. The biggest attraction of SL for me is the efficiency. In and out in under 1.5 hours on the hardest days means I have time to do other shit I like. IMO there's no reason to spend countless hours fucking around at the gym, the main compounds are enough for me right now. When I first started I though about switching to a diff program because it felt too easy, it…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/16 03:53 PM
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Correct. I should have clarified, didn't mean to imply mrps focus was on fixing marriages. I meant to say you won't see many "just end it"s thrown around here because the focus is, as you said, on fixing the man first and foremost. In most cases it seems that the choice to leave or stay is viewed as tangential at best.
/r/askMRP21/12/16 11:56 PM
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Since this sub is the married (and LTR) side of rp, I'm not surprised "just end it" wasn't thrown around too much. I commend you for doing what you have to do to be happy. I don't have much to add other than to address your nerves re: tinder. Don't be nervous, you are the prize. Good luck in your path.
/r/askMRP20/12/16 12:11 AM
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This is not even close to a FR. How can anyone, including yourself, benefit from this? No question, no insight, no thought at all. Just jerking yourself off for "seeing the code". Also, what's the joke?
/r/askMRP20/12/16 12:07 AM
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Yeah mine usually goes full shit test too, or ignores completely. Maybe she was just in a care taking mood at the time shrug. That being said as my health is returning so are the shit tests.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/16 07:20 PM
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Short OYS this week. Skipping formatting until next weeks. Last week was decent. Was on track for fitness, diet, hobbies, and social stuff. Mon-wed was pretty busy for me. Maintained a friendly, fun frame with zero cracks. LTR was super busy with her side project/hobby that makes her some money around this time of year. She threw a few comfort tests my way which I handled with ease. For the most part she was quiet and kept her head down to work. I kept my focus on myself and used the quiet time …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 08:50 PM
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Slow and steady is my motto right now. I figured I don't have any trump cards until I'm objectively hawt and I have some fuck you money. SMV is on the rise and she's taken notice but not enough to kick any mate guarding behavior into effect.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 12:19 PM
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Skipped last weeks OYS. Had some time off from work for holiday and limited my time wasted by cutting out Reddit. Diet/fitness: took a week off from lifting, and cut hard the weekend/early week heading into thanksgiving. Had 3 days off alone and wanted to do a self imposed "purge" to prepare for all the food over the holiday. Needed an off week since I've lifted every week for 4 months straight, mostly mental but my muscles didn't complain. Cut an extra 350 cal/day sun-wed and then didn't track/…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 03:40 AM
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I think if op is approaching dl 6 and is being proactive in his initiating with the wife some word getting around might not necessarily be a bad thing. If you're giving her ample first picks and she's still denying than there's nothing wrong with flirting/approaching other women. Especially since it's just catch and release. Even if you choose to go through and get some strange, at what point does it fall on the wife? Assuming you're following the dl's to a T and have given her time to catch up …
/r/askMRP17/11/16 10:40 PM
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Everything has been covered so far. You provided a ton of information about her and your (her) relationship. What's your life like? Lifting is the only starting place. If you already lift, lift harder and more often. I was always of the "gym bros are Fuckboys" mentality, until I picked up the bar for the first time. It will save your life. One thing that helped me change my mindset at the start was this; time is going to pass regardless of what happens to your relationship. Put your self first. …
/r/askMRP16/11/16 11:54 PM
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There's a lot of text in this thread about nothing. Stop trying to fix her. You can't. Be worthy of receiving respect. Stop demanding it. When she whines and bitches about you never complimenting her does it make you want to do it more? S.T.F.U
/r/askMRP16/11/16 11:41 PM
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Fitness/diet: was down 8 lbs from starting weight on Friday, sticking to diet and hitting all macros. Need to finish cutting out the excess sugar. Work has a lot of office snacks sitting around, mostly candy, that's hard to ignore some days. I only grab a handful maybe every other day but it's still an impulse I'm trying to kill. I did go way over on calories this weekend because we hosted a friendsgiving event and ate/drank all day Saturday and most of Sunday. I knew it was coming and planned f…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/16 11:25 PM
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Kill your covert contract. You're only improving to get the sex you think you deserve and she can smell it. If you are truly the pinnacle of manliness than getting some strange shouldn't be a problem and your wife's low libido would be her problem not yours. It is possible the pill is the "reason", in which case she would have no problem switching to something that wouldn't turn her into a dried sponge. Otherwise it's just a convenient excuse.
/r/askMRP14/11/16 10:31 PM
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Honestly? At the moment sunk cost fallacy. That and my financial situation isn't good enough for me to walk out without taking a huge hit. I'm not fooling myself into thinking this relationship (or any) will last forever. Even if I tap out in 6 mos or a year I'll have a sparring partner for now. I don't see any value from nuking this right now. And to be fair - I've only been owning my shit for 3 months. The relationship sucked before that but I'll take ownership. I'd like to give her a chance t…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/16 11:26 PM
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If you're hitting DL 10 already you should be ready to walk out tomorrow because it will dissolve quicker than you can type another tirade. Slow down. You're walking around shouting "I AM THE PRIZE!". Better make damn sure you are before you command she treats you like it. Don't expect her to beg for your dick. It won't happen. By not initiating, DEERing every interaction, and pandering to her with fore head kisses and "I love yous" you're only digging your hole deeper. You mention lifting. Grea…
/r/askMRP09/11/16 10:39 PM
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Staying positive / upbeat is the hardest thing right now. I'm holding frame externally but I'm still having huge waves of resentment internally. They're washing over me a lot quicker than they used to, but still trips me up a bit. I keep telling myself that I need to make these improvements regardless of if I'm getting laid as much as I'd like or not, and that pussy isn't the goal but just a nice. Also have to remind myself it's not her fault I'm this way, and I'm the only one who can make any c…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/16 07:53 PM
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Yeah diet is on point. Hitting protein intake is only real goal while cutting. Low carb, lots of nuts for fat. Still eating white meat just not for every meal.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 11:21 PM
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Yes counting calories. On a cut. Cutting out red meat for personal / hippy reasons. And yes I know about lmr. I push till I get a hard no which for my girl is very distinct. Big distinction between "no but I want the attention/for you to keep trying" and "no and if you don't get off me I'll turn this into a fight". I usually consider the first two verbal no's a keep trying and the third as a full stop. I could probably keep pushing but at that point how is it different than begging?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 10:30 PM
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This marks month three of following my MAP and taking it seriously. Only mention it as a bench mark, gone 90 days with 0 discussions, whining, begging or general faggotry from lack of sex. Fitness: diet is coming along. Had a cheat/refuel day over the weekend. Stayed within reason and went for a casual 10 mile bike ride beforehand. Down 2 lbs from start of cut. On course. Lifting is fine, maintaining intensity and volume form now. Working up from a reload and focusing on form. Planning on adding…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 08:55 PM
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Your DEER'd and then negotiated sex. She probably initiated to get you to STFU which you should have done from the beginning. Don't talk about not having sex. The only time you mention sex is if you are initiating hard or using innuendo to a&a. A high value man gets sex when he wants it. He doesn't beg, or ask, or schedule, or keep score. He is too busy living his wife to care about all the times he didn't have sex that week.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/16 02:17 PM
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Hold your self accountable. Make a plan and stick to it. Don't make decisions based on how you feel, that's what women do. If you can't respect your self enough to follow through, nobody else will ever respect you.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 04:17 PM
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OYS 11/1/16 Fitness: Cut is moving along. Down 1.5 lbs from beginning of cut cycle. Diet wasn't 100% on point this week, had a few days where I missed my cal deficit goal but was still under maintenance. Also not getting enough protein. Getting bored with my regular sources of protein intake, need to mix it up a bit. Meal prepped tonight for the rest of the week so shouldn't be an issue moving forward. Went out Friday and Saturday night's last weekend and managed to limit myself to two beers eac…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 12:32 AM
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OYS 10/25/16 Fitness: On a cut, sticking to my kcal goal pretty heavily. Had a few outings this weekend with some beers, could have been a little stricter on that but made up for it by cutting heavier a few days towards the end of the week. Hardest part of my cut cycle is eating enough. Doing IF for breakfast which isn't a problem, but need to make sure I don't cut so hard all my lifting progress goes down the drain. Still working on finding that sweet spot. Lifts are going well, had to deload o…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/16 09:57 PM
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Mini fR Adding this here since I don't think it's worthy of its own FR post. Had a mini event / comfort test on Friday night. Normal day, got home from to the LtR sitting on the couch, full pajamas, scrolling and watching Netflix (around 6pm). I try to engage in some light conversation; how was your day, how are you feeling (she's still getting over cold), etc. she's pretty obviously not interested in taking so I change out of my work clothes into something more casual but sill nice and go run a…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/16 01:10 PM
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Don't mate guard. If the only reason you're going is to keep an eye on her, just go do something else. If you're genuinely interest in meeting these dudes then go and have fun, but I have a feeling even doing that will make you look bets unless she specifically asked you to go. She wants to be attractive for him because she is attracted to him. Trying to make him seem less so will only lower your status.
/r/askMRP18/10/16 11:32 PM
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Always play the nice card first. BPP had a lot of stuff on this. Right now she's not making the connection between turning you down and you withdrawing attention. Your presence has to carry weight, and for that you need to build her image of you up. If she keeps turning you down at night after you've been kinoing/flirting all day, change up when you initiate. Try first thing when getting home. Most likely she'll say no, then you can continue doing the shit you were going to do anyway. Then try a…
/r/askMRP18/10/16 11:26 PM
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Fitness: Changed up my plan here a bit this week. Orignally was going to finish out October on a slight bulk (maint+350ish), but feeling pretty round right now. Switched over to my cut cycle fully. At a 500 kcal cut. Lifts are ok, not as high I was wanted before switching but that's fine. I'm squatting 1.2x bodyweight at 5x5 right now, hopefully can keep it at BW or above while on a cut. Bench is lagging behind so might shift my focus to that while dropping some lbs. Diet is pretty much unchange…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/16 01:22 PM
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Keep doing you. She doesn't really care that you're going out, only that she's being left at home. She's trying to guilt you into hanging around so that she feels better about her self, it has nothing to do with wanting to spend quality time. That being said make sure you're actively leading her to do fun things and not just hanging out watching tv all the time. If the situation was reversed, she wouldn't give two flying fucks that you were left behind.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 10:03 PM
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I'm not saying you can't or shouldn't, I'm saying if you do she will shit test. You can't stop her from poking holes in your frame, so your only choice is to deal with it or to not put your self in that situation. Since OP isn't handing it when it happens, avoiding the situation is a logical solution.
/r/askMRP12/10/16 01:15 PM
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IMO this is the correct way of approaching it. The reason feminists are so hell bent on not relying on men are because the "men" they have in their lives aren't worthy of being relied on. How many men do you know personally that you would consider a top 10% male? YMMV but for me that number is pretty damn close to 0. You can't negotiate desire, sexual or otherwise. You will never be able to lead a woman through conversation.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 01:01 AM
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If it's that important to do nothing, do it alone so she doesn't see the lack of frame. Wait until she's out of the house or asleep to have your wind down time. If you appear lazy, she's going to call you on it. That's her job.
/r/askMRP11/10/16 08:06 PM
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I used to get a lot of fetch requests. I stopped "hanging out" with her. The only downtime I have anymore is at the end of the day in bed. I made it clear that once I'm in bed I'm not getting out unless there's a fire. Make yourself busy. If she keeps asking for shit ignore, laugh at her requests, or pressure flip and tell her to fetch it herself and one for you as well. My go to is "what, your legs are broken?" (Although this hasn't been working recently cause, well, her leg is broken). You can…
/r/askMRP11/10/16 12:17 PM
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Fitness: Starting to slow down on linear progress. Continuing to eat at maintenance or +250-300 cals. Not trying to bulk, just maintain weight while adding some to my lifts. Readjusted my MAP to continue this through October and switch over to a cut cycle starting Nov 1. Making decent progress on lifts but I will have to start eating more if I want to hit big numbers. Way to fat still to bulk. Will stay on cut cycle until I'm at ideal weight range while holding onto as much strength as possible.…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/16 11:15 AM
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Just like anything else. Time management. Figure out how much time you want to spend, block it out in your schedule, and maintain discipline about it. Start small - 30 mins twice a week (or whatever works). Make that time count, come to with a plan and execute then move on. Adjust how much time you put in based on how much value you get out. Or, pick a topic or post you want to write about, spend free time throughout the week writing then post once. I have projects and writing pieces I've worked…
/r/askMRP10/10/16 07:55 PM
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Doesn't matter if you're out doing things alone or with 20 friends, the point is that you're having fun with or without her. If she turns you down or is being a ice queen and you leave, don't say "I'm going to a diner by myself to sulk", just say you're going out. If she inquired further tell her you're running errands, meeting a friend, going to a sex club, make something up, whatever, just make keep it light and don't be upset. The point of leaving is to with drawn presence. It only works if s…
/r/askMRP07/10/16 07:38 PM
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More as in go fetch me this, put this away for me, get me a drink, etc. if it's her just being lazy and demanding that I get her shit I respond with some form of no/get it yourself/ignore/laugh out loud or make it sexual. She knows the second she starts money grubbing I'm out. I'll a&a and make it sexual but I can't pull those lines off without appearing butt hurt about our lack of sex yet so I play it on the safe side.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/16 02:52 AM
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Fitness: Making linear progress on the big lifts. Accidentally skipped a work set last week and added 10lbs to my squat instead of 5. Wiped me out but felt amazing. Broke through my ohp plateau. Still eating At maintenance (not counting for exercise). Weight has been stagnant but muscles have been growing. Planning on riding this out till I plateau on all lifts for a few weeks then switching to a fit cycle to shed some fat. Diet has been sipping a little even though weight is flat. Too many carb…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/16 11:01 PM
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Isn't the ideal situation one in which you have a wife who WANTS to meet your needs, without needing cash incentives? If this is the end goal and you want to have a situation where you directly exchange cash for sex then you have that, what more progress is there? If it's not the goal then it is undermining you. I can't imagine giving out sex because it was paid for generates any sort of tingles.
/r/askMRP29/09/16 11:52 PM
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Just curious as why ditching the job to "save the marriage" is your recommendation. If he was getting the sex he wanted would this still be the advice? I understand that 8 months is a long time but isn't giving up a job for a woman (especially one who isn't putting out) a nice guy thing to do?
/r/askMRP29/09/16 10:30 PM
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What's your experience with lifting heavy on a cut? Do you see much strength loss on the big lifts? I'm working my way through SL5x5 but want to start a cut cycle soon, curious how much I'll have to deload. Planning on cutting at -500 calories for 8 weeks and tweaking then. Thanks for the write up.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/16 12:16 AM
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This is on point. It's become routine, so shake up the routine. If you have time and want to participate in the morning scramble do so. But if it's a problem just get out earlier. Don't respond to the "I'm sorry texts", it just reinforces that the daily routine including her bitchiness is fine. The other option is to just take control of the entire situation your self. Prepare your work stuff the night before, take over the morning kid duties and kill it while making it look easy. Let her lay in…
/r/askMRP28/09/16 04:36 PM
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My go to is to take care of something around the house or continue doing what I was doing before, since I've been trying to initiate earlier in the day it makes it easy to get busy quickly and make it seem routine. If she's been cold or otherwise unpleasant during that time I'll leave the house or go read in another room/work on hobbies. Not remaining OI 100% of the time. Was getting better until this latest dry spell but it's getting to me and I'm going from initiating/flirting mode to get shit…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/16 02:39 AM
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The problem I'm having with the comfort tests is that they seem to only come up in response to my withdrawn affection/attention after getting denied. I try to initiate, she denies, I withdraw, she comfort tests. Do I just keep responding to the comfort test as advised? This cycle has been going on for a while and to me it seems she thinks it's fine to deny me sex because I'm still there to bear hug her when she has feelz. Genuinely asking. I agree about the trip. Should have involved her more. T…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/16 07:10 PM
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OYS 9/27 Fitness: Lifting is going according to plan. Still getting linear progress on the main lifts, although they are starting to get much more taxing. Weight is going up slowly to match the lifts. Planning on eating at maintenance +300 until I hit 180 then switching to a cut cycle. Will continue to do main lifts with as much weight as possible and add in some accessory work to mix it up a bit. What should I expect in terms of losing progress on the main lifts? Planning on doing a 500 cal def…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/16 02:05 PM
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Fitness/diet: most of last week was on point. Meal prep last week was key. Got sick over this past weekend and was in bed for most of it. Did not eat enough to hit macros and calorie goals while sick. Still pushed my self and got to the gym on Sunday. Workout was sub par. Didn't stay on track with progression but didn't go backwards either. Skipped meal prep on Sunday for this week and kicking myself now, had to buy over priced salad for lunch today. Spent some time last night making meals for t…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/16 11:40 AM
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Overall pretty good week. Making good progress in some categories. Had a few slips but nothing I can't adjust for and make up for this week. Fitness: tweaked my knee on 2nd work out of last week doing squats. Skipped 3rd squat day to rest and prevent injury. Feeling better after weekend rest, deloading 10% to make sure form is tight this week. Diet was ok - eating less than I should, work outs were feeling more draining than they should be at this level. Course corrected by meal prepping on Sund…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 02:46 PM
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First OYS post. Been "following” (lurking) TRP/MRP for close to a year, just recently decided to quit fucking around and get serious about it. Background/TLDR: LTR/cohabitating with GF of 5 years. Lifelong nice guy/beta bitch. Graduated from college in 2014, moved in with GF, had a promising beginning to post grad life with decent job that turned to shit real quick. Led me way into debt, depression, and 6 months of unemployment. Sex life is shit. Trying to unfuck my life. Found TRP and MRP last …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/16 02:44 AM
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