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Did you record any of it? At least some screenshots to entertain us?
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 03:13 AM
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Although I agree with the wisdom part, the dating scene will not be the same in 100 years. Nor was it the same before. So frankly, the use is almost nil when we ask: “How do I get laid?” or “How to approach the scene in a big city?”. All contemporary questions that invoke the best responses from people that actively live in it and participate in it. I don’t invite it, but listen to what all sides of the spectrum have to say and make an informed decision, which is the rational approach. Any of th…
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 01:41 AM
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Stoicism is nice and all, but lacks the context to approach modern dating. Reading a few quotes and acting like these past men have any sway in your life is not the greatest approach. Tate is quite toxic, but he’s actually talking about modern issues no one wants to talk about, and everyone plays the incel card immediately to dismiss him. IMO I think a mix is needed to understand the nuance of modern day dating culture and the intricacies that come with it.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 01:09 AM
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How does that in any way justify being such a shit parent? Or even explain it? What mental health is needed to act like a rational, functioning adult that brings 3 souls into this world? Parents like that is how we end up with so many fucked up people.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 04:11 AM
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Completely delusional sub lol. But I can understand why someone prefers being lied to, it’s easier.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 03:33 AM
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Then get religion. Or strive for world peace. Whatever, doesn’t really matter. Just live for something.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 02:53 PM
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High IQ post.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 12:33 AM
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I’m from America, so yes, I do have an individualist perspective. Which is where the majority of dating cultures comes from, since we make so many things and other countries absorb our influence. Wouldn't contributing to that same system of only caring about your needs only make the situation worse for everyone as a society? Mind explaining what your diet is and what emissions you use on a daily basis? If you can’t answer that honestly; then you’re contributing to a much bigger global problem an…
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 12:12 AM
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It’s a matter of perspective, but nothing changes about an incel’s situation. Being ugly and undesirable sucks, so do everything to make yourself feel better about it. Just my 2 cents.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 11:58 PM
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When life gives you lemons. Regardless of whether or not you’re in a western country, you’re being exploited either way. Make the most of what you have; no one will come live your life for you.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 11:40 PM
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Gym time. Max out your money and invest in stocks or real estate. Get beneficial surgeries and a good skincare routine and diet. No need to quit on everything because it’s harder for you. At the end of all that; get a nice flight to Manilla or Bogota and catch up on what you missed out on.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 10:55 PM
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Do you actually read what is being said here, or make judgements based on your own perceptions?
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 10:09 AM
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Yeah, they still have options, but objectively not as good IMO. They have to work twice as hard to get the same guys as white women.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 06:33 PM
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They are bottom of the barrel in dating. Most FA women are fat black women. Most guys get jungle fever, smash and dash, then block and ignore. Yeah, they are extremely bitter lol.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 06:25 PM
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Don’t women constantly make remarks on how attractive other women are, or how their outfits look? Why is it gay when men do the same?
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 10:33 PM
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I know, just giving a few options. Women don’t want average men anymore.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 02:13 AM
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Europe is hard mode. You’re going to a world class city (Austria). You will be competing with top tier fashion models and vacationing trust funders. Honestly, you’re better off finding some local in a village with minimal contact. I’m assuming you’re not physically attractive and only have the degree going for you, right?
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 11:16 PM
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Not online lmfao. Your best bet is local places and get familiar with locals. Otherwise, what do you have to offer? If you can’t answer this question, women don’t want you.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 10:55 PM
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What are you playing at? Yeah, everyone suffers from thantophobia, it’s the end of our existence as we know it. Especially for the non-religious that have every reason to fear it, or even the religious as it pertains to them. Doesn’t mean that what happens now isn’t important, because it is. You’re living now and have every reason to improve and change. Death comes eventually, but it cannot change the past and the present. It’s a future event for a future time, which is not now. So make the most…
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 10:12 PM
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Yeah, that’s the point. They have that and we don’t.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 07:46 PM
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Alright, that’s pretty fair; it’s hard to tell between honest questions vs the soap boxers. IMO it’s probably because you’re not really in the same FA category as some of the lads on here. Some of the guys here are really bitter from personal experience or the overwhelming data, which it’s hard to blame them for. Have you tried the Forever Alone dating sub and the others?
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 03:45 PM
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What difference does it make for your research? Who the fuck cares? You should be reading the objective data + subjective experiences anyways, I fail to see how the status of “victimhood” changes the claims in any way. Every group does that to an extent: religious, ethnic, cultural or any others. I notice that you haven’t posted a similar question to the FDS related subs or the FA Women sub. I wonder why?
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 03:25 PM
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It’s immediately obvious to anyone that you’re begging the question and you’re not actually trying to find out why some of the men on here are like that. Also that mail order bride comparison is hilarious when many countries have already outlawed it and most will bend to the jurisdiction of the United States. Passport bros is what has replaced it, and you know the woman still has full autonomy in that relationship. It takes 30 minutes to figure out why most on here are complaining about and why,…
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 03:13 PM
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“You can’t understand someone until you’ve walked a mile in their shoes.” I’m sure it’s easy to resort to the desperate men on here as punching bags. You could just read and try to sympathize with the plight of the less fortunate. Or spam the same dumbass question over and over again as some sort of self righteous crusade against “incels”. Your call.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 02:58 PM
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She can read faces bro, ITS OVER.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 02:54 PM
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I would only believe that for the ultra hardcore nightmare mode Tinder, in the big European cities like London, Berlin or even NY. Literally competing with models and millionaires.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 02:51 PM
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Like I said, I don’t know what you typed, just guessing since the mods here understand power tripping mods; most came from PurplePill.
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 01:26 PM
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It’s a Reddit policy; rule 1. Blame Reddit not the AllPill mods. Idk what you said but you have to reword it properly as to not insinuate racism.
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 12:52 PM
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Are you American? If not, then yeah probably, I don’t know about other countries’ tax laws.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 04:25 PM
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Who is still saying this shit, the IRS and state agencies are on your ass if you smash and dash. Garnishing wages happens, I don’t know where you get this idea that men can have kids and walk away from them. As long as the mother fills out the form with CPS they will hunt that fucker down. Guys that get around this are paid under the table, and that rarely happens. Employers catch onto that and won’t do it.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 04:18 PM
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Ngl Dnr but yeah I agree. What gets me is that the FDS subreddit was never banned despite the s***** slur and the brigading they did. But they’re women so it’s okay.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 02:07 PM
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Then your reading comprehension ability is abhorrent. Read and understand why the answers aren’t an absolute no.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 07:58 PM
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Literally how, that’s the fucking topic lmao. Yeah, a mod checked your post history and banned you based on those merits. Same happens with that chick on PurplePill that made this sub exist.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 07:26 PM
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Why is this movie fucking everywhere man, people treating it like it’s the second coming. Can’t wait for the Looksmaxx org movie.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 06:13 PM
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It’s joever.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 03:36 PM
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Search /r/virgin and /r/short for “dating”. You’ll see plenty. If you don’t, I’ll spoon feed you some links.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 03:34 PM
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You can if you’re a former rotter like me. It just doesn’t affect me anymore; with time the terminology and concepts blend in with everything else and you go about your life. Most that find themselves here are still in the shock phase.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 03:07 PM
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Problem with that, is that the people were talking about are financially successful and handsome, and live movie-like lives. They’re going out to clubs, events, sports and enjoying themselves with women. If they use Reddit, it’s likely just for memes and car pics. No chance they’ll find such a small sub that’s a offshoot of PurplePill. Nor would they have any interest in discussing gender politics, lmao.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 03:05 PM
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…that’s what an anecdote is, a personal story or experience of someone to affirm whatever it is they’re saying. Click through the links.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 03:01 PM
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Live action role play, anyone who says they’re Chad sounds cringe as fuck. No one who is even knows what that is or bothers, they have a million other better things to do than learn Blackpill lingo.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 01:20 PM
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How is that not the same? You’re asking for anecdotes either way, why do you decide which ones count and don’t? You already don’t want to listen to empirical evidence.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 01:18 PM
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This is so cruel, it amazes me how no one cares since it’s passive cruelty; playing with an unattractive man’s heart like that.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 01:08 PM
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Materialism has not been proven and quantum mechanics points to an observable universe (via the double slit experiment). Meds. Now.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 12:30 AM
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Or the bar is much higher for men than women. Which has been consistently shown in several data sets
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 07:59 PM
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Stop letting society influence you, that’s what women and weak men do. You are your own master, command yourself to be better and strive for a better future for yourself. Fuck what anyone else thinks or says, focus on yourself.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 08:07 PM
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Did read. High IQ post. Should be stickied.
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 03:46 AM
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If you’re American, the most immediate solution is to passportmaxx and go to any third world country with desperate women. My buddy /u/CanOfWoody was a self admitted fat loser here in the states and kept getting blown off and rejected. One trip to Manilla and he was sleeping with different women every day. Made the /r/Tinder mods so assmad he got banned by the admins.
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 03:42 AM
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You already know you’ll get away with it, so why do you even ask? You can demand anything, other women and male simps will validate you. The forum rotters that you wrote this for never leave their parents house anyways, so nothing to worry about.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 09:01 PM
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Corrupt tyrants that are historically…men? Sounds like you’d agree with a feminist then.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 01:22 AM
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It’s not “women” it’s everyone that participates in rampant consumerism that further funnels the wealth to the top percentage of people that own everything. 2020 should’ve explained to you why that is the case. When men have power they tend to try to make decisions that are best for everyone Fucking lol. Go to Mexico, Colombia, Thailand or anywhere else with underground cartels and try to play buddy buddy with the men that run things, and come back alive and tell us how that goes. That is if the…
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 12:26 AM
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And when you think about it, that’s completely in their control.
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 10:53 AM
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Although I agree, what I was referring to is the presence of phenotypes and what is colloquially referred to as “European features” that you likely have heard of being repeated ad nauseam as the beauty standard. Again, won’t go into it because there’s no way to talk about it without sounding/being racist but this a good study explaining that women of all races prefer white male faces the most. If you have a good explanation as to why black women perform the worst on dating apps compared to white…
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 08:16 AM
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High IQ post.
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 01:10 AM
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Does it matter? Is sexual validation not validation anymore? From a biological perspective, one of our sole purposes is to reproduce. DNA confirms far more women have reproduced than men, despite the fact the human sex ratio is skewed towards men. This is how we know hypergamy is practiced in human societies, men want women, but women want the best men.
/r/AllPillDebate25/05/23 09:24 PM
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What did she think would happen when the baby looks like her? There’s no way to explicitly say it without sounding racist, but all I’ll point out is that black women receive the least amount of messages on dating apps. A lot of FAwomen are black. Connect the dots.
/r/AllPillDebate25/05/23 08:10 PM
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True, but unless you’ve been to sub 12% body fat; you don’t know what you really look like. Plus there’s also a way to fix asymmetry from facial muscles if you overuse one side or the other. People who are paralyzed on one side of the face are a good example of this, we tend to favor one side of the body.
/r/AllPillDebate21/05/23 10:49 PM
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The rationale is you can change a awful person who’s good looking into a decent person, but you could never make a good natured person who is ugly into someone beautiful. Some women are even attracted to the “I can fix him” mentality, so they don’t care if he’s a mafia leader, or a rapist. They saw it in movie so they try it IRL. Jfl can’t make this shit up.
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 10:21 PM
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Sure, but what if they’re not? It should be perfectly fine then. Who gets to decide who is mature or not? IMO, just makes more sense to go all the way and declare the age of majority as 20 if discussions like this are still ongoing.
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 05:26 PM
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Source? Stanford found out that unpartnered heterosexual men in the U.S. met an average of 2.4 partners for dating or sex in the past 12 months. Unpartnered heterosexual women who were actively dating met an average of 5.1 partners in the past 12 months.. Overall less than previous generations, but the average single woman is having twice as much sex as the average single man.
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 05:21 PM
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What I don’t get about this, is why are you assuming the 18 year old cannot choose for themselves? If there is already a legal precedent for the age of majority, then it should follow than an 18 year old adult is capable of making their own decisions. Saying that the 28 year old is automatically a predator is downplaying the agency of the 18 year old, like they’re a complete dumbass that can’t decide anything and needs more coddling.
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 05:16 PM
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Not lookism, just the difference between democratic countries with societal safety nets versus autocratic shitholes with no stable government that are constantly at war.
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 05:11 PM
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Although I agree with you, nobody chose to be born; so it doesn’t surprise me to see so many just drop out and chose to rot. It’s their choice, and with how individualistic a capitalist society can be, it makes sense for some to not participate in the toxic dating scene and economic rat race.
/r/AllPillDebate17/05/23 12:11 AM
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How awful that there exists entire groups of average looking young college guys unable to find any romantic partner. OF women have successfully monetized and profited off of the loneliness and desperation of these men.
/r/AllPillDebate16/05/23 07:03 PM
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Do not say ANYTHING without a lawyer. Do not tell ANYONE else about going to therapy. Get it in writing of all the dates you went and get it signed, but otherwise keep it to yourself. It implies guilt, and you could easily be found guilty of rape if she got a rape kit done, and has enough forensic/digital evidence to claim you actually raped her. What happened was a consensual sexual encounter that she now regrets, since she believes you got way more out of it than her, so she’s coming for your …
/r/AllPillDebate14/05/23 02:46 PM
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Astroturfing to make us look crazy. There’s already been several low karma accounts making cryptic posts like this. This will be the justification used to ban this sub, calling it now.
/r/AllPillDebate10/05/23 06:13 PM
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It’s crazy, right? I sympathize with not being conventionally attractive, but all she literally has to do is OMAD to lose weight, light cardio and skincare routine + makeup and she’s good to go. If a guy posted the same in reverse his account would be banned instantly.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 08:10 PM
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JFL Paki bad boy made her break down crying. The market is inflated with Indian man, high chance many will die alone. It’s joever. Notice her wording, and how other femcels phrase it. It’s not because they can’t get matches, they’re just so disgusted by their looksmatch they throw a tantrum and cry. Just like a petulant child that doesn’t get what they want.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 06:43 PM
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Female bonding creates a social safety net for women. Which is why women have stronger bonds on average than men do, and are more likely to have a best friend. They work together to vet out threats, such as unsafe or inferior men. Mate switching hypothesis quietly confirms this. You don’t hear about this because you’re expected to get over it and vie for a woman’s attention. If you fail, too bad incel, it’s your fault. This is literally why humans cheat all the time, the belief they can find som…
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 10:25 AM
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I suppose it’s also GOOD that 602 million people live in poverty and they need to get over themselves, since the overall ratio of people that live below the line has decreased. With no empathy, you breed an entire generation of sexless, broken men with no desire to dream or contribute anything. Violence, hate speech, racism and division will only increase, as the ruling class laughs at how pointless our debates and discussions are. Perhaps she’s not wrong, but how heartless can you be? At this p…
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 09:39 PM
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Go to /r/TinderData and sort by Top of All time.
/r/AllPillDebate28/04/23 06:29 PM
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Critiques against women are seen as hate speech; critiques against men are seen a challenge to the status quo. This is why subs like this one are getting targeted with burner accounts that post illegal content; people can’t argue with us, so they paint us as psychopaths. Same happens to other sites that I cannot mention here.
/r/AllPillDebate24/04/23 11:25 AM
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Self confidence is good to have, but that is textbook narcissism. “Every women is a 10” is just female bonding, they know to work together to create an in-group to exclude inferior men they don’t like. This is where preselection comes from. Stuff like this is why no one cares about the male suicide rate being so much higher, not as important as one woman. It’s joever.
/r/AllPillDebate24/04/23 11:20 AM
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Interesting question. I believe it boils down to the progressive mainstream cultural zeitgeist accepting concepts like the patriarchy and social injustice. So, any deviations from the standard “manly man” in a contemporary setting can be viewed as a person in the in-group. For example, if you saw a man with mascara, shorts, painted nails and dyed hair, what would you assume their sexual orientation would be? Or political leanings? The internet has memed too many stereotypes into existence, and i…
/r/AllPillDebate20/04/23 09:57 AM
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That’s in addition to the dating range between 18-45, where there are far more men than women, according to the US demographics. Yet women are still picky even with a surplus of men. It’s joever bros…
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 08:21 PM
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FDS is the female equivalent of .is or even MGTOW. Name calling, slurs, hate speech, the works. They haven’t been banned since they use their website as a workaround. Of course, they don’t get banned because hate speech against the supposed “privileged class” (men) is seen as a critique of the status quo. IMO, the blackpill equivalent is Vindicta, but the women there are pretty chill; because they know they get hit on and dating matches either way, anything else is a plus.
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 01:34 AM
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Lol, the top comments all mention Nordic countries as paradises of gender equality. We all know what that really means.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 11:11 PM
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Which is exactly why the “online isn’t real life bro” and “that’s only in superficial America” arguments don’t work. America’s cultural domination over every other country influences every aspect of the cultural zeitgeist, which is why we’re seeing the blackpill slowly creep up. Height lengthening and hair replacement surgeries are only getting more popular.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 12:16 AM
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Alt account LARP
/r/AllPillDebate06/04/23 04:45 AM
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Funny how their main insult is to insist you do not have sex, as if the capability of having sex is the only unit of value they understand. No actual scientific information, just insults thrown at you so you’ll shut up. Classic.
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 08:26 PM
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Yes exactly, that’s what I’m saying.
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 11:16 PM
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Yes. Lesbians statistically receive the most orgasm frequency between bisexual women and heterosexual women, per the 2018 study.
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 03:56 PM
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Kinda fucked up, but yeah I agree. It’s hard to discuss this without coming off as an advocate for abuse, which no one wants. There is an orgasm gap between heterosexual men and women, 81% to 39%. Whereas the orgasm gap is not observed in homosexual couples. This is likely the culprit of what you mentioned. Makes me wonder how many heterosexual women weren’t actually raped and instead had a sexual encounter they later regret; seeing as the consequence for men that rape is several years in jail a…
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 04:00 AM
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Not true, men on average rate 61% of women as attractive, women on average rate 4.5% of men as attractive. Sure, I’m sure there are more guys that don’t practice personal hygiene, but no way is it over 95% of the male population. Women are naturally hypergamous and want the top men, that’s how we evolved to be taller, faster, smarter and stronger as a species. Strong men fucked multiple women and weak men died off. Proven by the variability hypothesis where men tend to display more variability i…
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 01:15 AM
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The argument has never been “Looks are the only thing that matter”, since there are plenty of anecdotal experiences and some research to insist otherwise. Even though you can larp as a registered sex offender and get away with it if you are model tier handsome. Women will do anything for a model tier guy. The position of the blackpill is that looks are above all. Period. Nothing I have seen disproves this or topples the mountains of peer reviewed research from respected think tanks and top unive…
/r/AllPillDebate02/04/23 09:46 PM
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Don’t worry about it bro, you’re better off than most guys that don’t know shit about women’s orgasms. Nothing physically changes you about being a virgin or having your first time, it’s all mental. Pro tip, check out women’s subs , particularly the ones that are NSFW and women majority. Huge difference in what turns on women and men, besides the physical of course.
/r/AllPillDebate01/04/23 08:09 PM
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100% correct, since it’s implied that being an older male virgin means that no one wanted you before, and you were unsuccessful in previous encounters. Virgin women are virgins by choice, and FA women know this, so they shift goalposts to “Oh, but if I didn’t orgasm it doesn’t count”. As if the validation of being desirable means nothing. But whatever. If you are a mid 20s+ male virgin, I suggest lying about it and work on yourself. Watching informative porn and the basics of female orgasms will…
/r/AllPillDebate01/04/23 07:39 PM
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Validation is validation. Trying to contextualize as “it’s online so it doesn’t count” makes no sense when millions of people post comments everyday on here to see their likes go up. You’re even posting from an alt, so clearly you have a good chunk of time spent online. Sure, but how many are? How do you suppose the ratio is? I have stats to show how much women heavily prefer the top men, whereas men tend to select based on Gaussian distribution.
/r/AllPillDebate29/03/23 07:52 PM
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So you still get simps and attention? Also you’re not interested in it, what do you think would happen if you were?
/r/AllPillDebate29/03/23 05:46 PM
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Don’t go to /r/TinderData and sort by Top posts…worst mistake of my life!
/r/AllPillDebate28/03/23 04:33 PM
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That’s why I preceded it with anecdotally, since I think the common consensus or memes in a community is important to understand its culture. I linked that one in particular because of this guy’s comment: > Lets be honest. Most of your bottom tier clients are looking for more than sex. They really are looking for a girlfriend. That is what all those "will she like me" questions are about.…. I am also someone who spent most of their life watching the world tip-toe around truth. I have gotten to t…
/r/AllPillDebate28/03/23 04:28 PM
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Whoops, forgot to link the study. In short, women are far more selective than men in online dating.
/r/AllPillDebate28/03/23 02:27 PM
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Pretty much, it’s already shown that the strongest predictor for attraction for both sexes was a partners’ physical attractiveness, which includes homosexual people as well. Not to mention in one study, men found 61% of women attractive, whereas women only found 4.5% of men attractive. Anecdotally, sex workers often joke about finding most men repulsive and tune out frequently. In addition, lying about being okay with virginity/short height/small penises for the sake of facilitating the monetary…
/r/AllPillDebate28/03/23 01:10 PM
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It’s over bro. You’re getting mogged to the slums of Mumbai and back.
/r/AllPillDebate27/03/23 10:53 AM
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Body positivity movement for everyone UNTIL someone says something that is against the general consensus. Then it’s 100% okay to make fun of his genetics, lineage, lifestyle, etc. Guarantee if you posted this on IncelTear or AskWomen everyone would be clowning his height or small dick. He’s a Bible nut, but I can’t blame him. When people are naturally prejudiced against you for something you have no control over, I’d be pissed too.
/r/AllPillDebate27/03/23 10:51 AM
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You’re right about that. Just know that you always have the option to leave the lifestyle and find someone. A lot of men on here or other online spaces can’t do that, so there will be some animosity or friction there when you interact with them.
/r/AllPillDebate27/03/23 09:41 AM
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You consciously chose the fujoshi/shut in lifestyle. Nothing wrong with that, but I 100% guarantee if you set up a profile over on /r/MakeNewFriendsHere or /r/ForeverAloneDating you will get so many chat requests from lonely dudes waiting to do anything for you. It doesn’t ruin you because you know you can do this and you’re desired by the opposite sex. Think about all the unattractive men on dating subs or dating online. How do you think they feel after being rejected several times over? You ar…
/r/AllPillDebate27/03/23 09:03 AM
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You said it yourself, you’re volcel. Who cares? You’re not disproving anything, actually reinforcing the blackpill. Although I will say this, most men aren’t innately perverts, we’re pumped full of testosterone which is what makes us horny. The conscious decision to act on sexual desire can be hindered heavily by it. Not excusing it, just explain it. Without it, most men would have 0 drive to contribute to society as a whole.
/r/AllPillDebate27/03/23 08:33 AM
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Lol thanks, but what did I do
/r/AllPillDebate26/03/23 06:41 PM
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PPD women use anecdotes and “correlation does not equal causation” for their arguments. Then they call their precious mod to ban anyone they’re losing in an argument to.
/r/AllPillDebate26/03/23 06:41 PM
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By the way, if you’re so desperate to have sex with an inexperienced young teenage girl, go to Europe. Germany and Spain’s AoC are 14 and 15 respectively. If that doesn’t gross you out, then put your money where your mouth is and stop complaining. Although you should know, that if you’re a citizen of an anglosphere country, the federal law constitutes 18 as the AoC. Which means you can be persecuted and tried as a sex offender for doing that.
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 01:23 PM
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Do you lament over the first time you ate chocolate? Or ate fast food? Or made a friend? Or worked out? Very unlikely, yet all of these create the same endorphins in your brain as sex does, if not more. Sex is important. But obsessing over when you get to do it is unhealthy. Pleasure yourself if you need to and go about your day, don’t be a coombrain.
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 01:17 PM
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Virginity is a social construct. Stop letting it fuck with your head. Feminists insist that having sex before 18 is grooming and damaging to their mental well being, incels and the like insist your life is over if you never experienced teen love. Get over it. Stop blindly believing into such stupid bullshit that doesn’t matter and work on yourself. Nocebo is a thing, and you’re killing yourself if you act in such a gullible manner.
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 12:19 PM
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As much as I agree with “men exaggerate their sexual partners, women lower their numbers”, this hasn’t been scientifically proven, as it is very difficult to prove systemic behaviors, especially in a politically correct environment. So I will point the massive flaw in your source. DatePsychology quotes General Social Survey, specifically their 2021 survey, since in the 2019 survey women reported having more sexual partners. In both surveys, neither account for gay men. Statistically, gay men are…
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 11:25 AM
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Don’t know if you deleted everything or got banned, but just in case you come back: The least attractive women get more messages than the most attractive men.(page 118) Even black women, the least desired race of women in online dating, get more interest than White men, the most desired race of men in online dating.
/r/AllPillDebate24/03/23 11:24 AM
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“Just be gay bro” I thought the common consensus was that homosexuality is innate?
/r/AllPillDebate24/03/23 11:12 AM
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Makes no difference, your rebuttal is irrelevant. If men were getting pussy IRL, what financial incentive is there to pay for subpar pictures?
/r/AllPillDebate24/03/23 12:28 AM
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The point is that even the most lardass woman can still find an audience of desperate, lonely men to profit from. There is no empirical data to extrapolate an average income on OF, so anecdotal evidence like this is extremely useful.
/r/AllPillDebate24/03/23 12:02 AM
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Wait really? What do they say, haven’t checked that sub lol.
/r/AllPillDebate22/03/23 02:42 PM
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YouGov is a public data analytics company that profits from selling their market research. They use trackers (in house polls) to source this data. It is not peer reviewed (like Pew Research, the institution I sourced), and therefore not accountable. They can make up any number and no one would be the wiser. There is even a section in their Wikipedia article about a whistleblower claiming they fake their data, although later retracted their statement. Evidently, it would take a person risking the…
/r/AllPillDebate22/03/23 02:19 PM
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Eventually, yes. Doesn’t change the fact that over 30% of Americans are single, with 68% of young men under 29 reported being single, whereas only 34% of young women under 29 report being single. only 20% meet online Source?
/r/AllPillDebate22/03/23 02:03 PM
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About 5 years, maybe less. Look how common the virgin Chad meme is, soyjak, Pepe, based/cringe, the pills, etc. All originated from 4chan.
/r/AllPillDebate21/03/23 07:58 PM
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The categories are separated because they are not mutually exclusive. ”Some respondents met online and also met through friends; for instance, if the friend had made the introduction online or if the friend forwarded an online profile.” Which means it was counted for both, as many encounters can be both online and IRL through an intermediary. In addition, it was calculated that the growth of meeting online has strongly displaced meeting through friends. It is assumed the mass adopt action of sma…
/r/AllPillDebate21/03/23 07:55 PM
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No shit, doesn’t change the fact that the trend of online dating is rising and beats out all other traditional warm/cold approaches in dating. Online dating is likely already the #1 way couples meet in the US and western countries now.
/r/AllPillDebate21/03/23 04:52 PM
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It does, but that doesn’t mean it’s inaccurate. Demographics across all countries consistently show more men in the dating ranges of 18-45. Also, the natural human sex ratio is skewed towards men. Does that mean all sex related studies are trashed because the ratios are uneven? No, of course not, so why are online apps different? Also, despite the fact there are more gay men reporting in these studies than lesbians, men consistently report barely getting any messages. Which means even with an ov…
/r/AllPillDebate21/03/23 01:52 PM
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Exactly, ignoring it doesn’t make it go away. Especially when over 40% of American couples meet online first, and this number only rises each year. Not to mention shorter attention spans across the globe. Fertile women are attracted to tall, muscular, arrogant and attractive men.
/r/AllPillDebate21/03/23 12:31 PM
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LARP.
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 05:11 PM
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The reactions to your comment made me understand why people are so hostile to the blackpill at first. Impossible to get a thorough message across when it’s being blabbered out by sexist idiots that needlessly insult others.
/r/AllPillDebate17/03/23 12:16 PM
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There isn’t a collective agreement on what constitutes “the wall”, so I won’t argue where it begins and ends, since that’s a biological and cultural concept that can be argued for hours on end. If you want my personal opinion, men will eventually age better, since testosterone boosts skin thickness and it’s more culturally accepted (silver fox). But women partake in self improvement more, there’s an entire billion dollar industry aimed at women to prove it. I believe the science points more towa…
/r/AllPillDebate15/03/23 10:21 AM
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No, neither one is inherently more “immoral”, since that depends on your personal convictions on morality (universal vs relative morality). Those who try to frame men that like younger women as pedophiles are not doing so in good faith, since it’s easier to claim anyone is a pedophile rather than actually debate. Just study anthropology or evolutionary psychology for a bit and you’ll find out why men prefer younger women. Since laws depend on your respective jurisdiction, it makes sense to have …
/r/AllPillDebate15/03/23 09:47 AM
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But we do know that Asian women crave White men.
/r/AllPillDebate15/03/23 02:21 AM
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Happens all the time on other subs as well. Don’t even bother replying, don’t give them that ban satisfaction. Anything they don’t like is incel/sexist. Just move on, they have the mental capacity of a little child that covers their ears.
/r/AllPillDebate13/03/23 04:56 AM
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It’s a scapegoat that quietly affirms the blackpill. People use it to propagate those who are like that must be creepy and have some innate problem that can be changed, which would support the blue pill. Unfortunately for them, if Chad says your typical /r/niceguys shit women would be all over him and sexually please him.
/r/AllPillDebate12/03/23 07:38 PM
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No one’s crying, dumbass. Just pointing out the obvious double standard.
/r/AllPillDebate11/03/23 04:37 AM
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That’s literally body shaming. No different than making racist or sexist insults.
/r/AllPillDebate11/03/23 04:08 AM
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Let’s go lol. She was such an annoying bitch. Couldn’t argue without insisting you had a small penis.
/r/AllPillDebate11/03/23 01:02 AM
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No one pointing out Asian women are 36% intermarried? Fucking lol, over for Asian men.
/r/AllPillDebate09/03/23 09:08 PM
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They’re just memes lol, nothing more to it. “Chad” was used and picked up on lookism because of White men being the most successful on dating apps, and overall rated as the most attractive to women. “Tyrone” comes from the BBC porn meme, also from lookism or 4chan. Looksmax also has “Abdul” for Arab and Middle Eastern men or “Medbvlls” for Mediterranean men.
/r/AllPillDebate07/03/23 05:06 AM
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IMO, closest for free speech would be small subs like this one or the Chans. Problem is, with little to no content moderation means a lot of junk info is spread so quickly. There’s no formula for genuine, free speech online. Just have to hope that people are willing enough to engage in a good discussion.
/r/AllPillDebate07/03/23 04:19 AM
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Right, that’s what free speech should entail. Banning or censoring discussion on thoughts and ideas only harbor and incite radical believers even further, under the guise of persecution. This sub is less than 1k members, and it’s growing. You’ll see more people from different places once it picks up steam. Mods here are chill and haven’t banned anyone that’s arguing in good faith.
/r/AllPillDebate07/03/23 03:55 AM
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I just realized we’re replying on two different posts lol. But anyways, if you consider speed dating a “controlled social environment”, then what is work? Or school, church, bars, clubs etc. anywhere where you meet women? We don’t exist in a vacuum, everything is a controlled social environment when there are things you can and cannot say. I didn’t, that’s what I interpret from the source I linked, as it is measured with other quantifiable attributes.
/r/AllPillDebate07/03/23 03:45 AM
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Because people that try to argue with stats get banned on subs like /r/PurplePillDebate It’s a lot like 13/50, bring it up and you’re the devil incarnate. Stats and objective information don’t matter in an overly politically correct society.
/r/AllPillDebate07/03/23 03:36 AM
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I agree on a technicality, since personality does matter for long term relationships. However, even when face to face and speed dating, physicality is the most important factor. In addition, over 40% of American couples meet online first. This number only increases by the year.
/r/AllPillDebate07/03/23 03:11 AM
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If you seriously can’t infer my position from my comments to you alone, then you lack proper reading comprehension. That, or you think all of the blackpill ideology is synonymous with the guys on incels.is that are legitimately psychopaths.
/r/AllPillDebate06/03/23 11:28 PM
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Just Hypergamy at work, and the halo effect. Women are far more forgiving of misbehavior if the accused is attractive. Anecdotally, just look at the fan clubs of Richard Ramirez, Dahmer, the Columbine shooters. You can get away with a lot of shit if you’re attractive.
/r/AllPillDebate06/03/23 10:22 PM
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If you indulge in scientific research, then you should understand the premise of seeking a higher or collective understanding of social phenomena (in the context of psychology and social discrimination). Especially in this sub and in subs that debate and discuss society within the framework of sexual selection. You’re not embarrassing anyone, you just come across as an unsure bystander trying to dissuade genuine discussion by being pedantic for no reason; either because you don’t like the topic …
/r/AllPillDebate06/03/23 10:07 PM
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No shit, then why even comment about the abstract definition of a scientific paper, when you somehow missed the entire point? Blackpill ideology has a basis in several different peer reviewed studies by prestigious universities and think tanks from across the globe. The whole point is that it’s objective, quantifiable data that can be reproduced. Just sounds like you’re trying to take a stance on something pedantic and miss the data entirely by giving some false pretense of disinformation. No on…
/r/AllPillDebate06/03/23 09:02 PM
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You know, you can read the paper, and you’ll find out what the word “abstract” means. Basically; it serves as the summation of a paper and the findings they were set out to find after they posted a hypothesis.
/r/AllPillDebate06/03/23 05:47 PM
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Uh nope, he’s quite spot on. Although there is no proof of the more test = more bone concept. There is definitely a link to low test in young men.
/r/AllPillDebate05/03/23 07:37 AM
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Yeah I’m not sure, hard to tell. Both pics are taken from different focal lengths, his zygomatic width is longer in the left photo. I was thinking BFR + jaw implants or widening.
/r/AllPillDebate05/03/23 07:05 AM
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Did you get a buccal fat removal like the guy in OP?
/r/AllPillDebate05/03/23 05:15 AM
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Yep, just got banned lol. Accurate.
/r/AllPillDebate04/03/23 08:21 PM
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Congrats. Get on snake juice and OMAD if you want to lose the last 8% body fat.
/r/AllPillDebate04/03/23 08:10 PM
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Although chadfishing is funny and often very informative, the strongest argument lies in all the scientific peer reviewed studies from several prestigious universities and think tanks from across the globe. I have yet to find anyone to even disprove them or argue as to why they’re incorrect, besides “correlation does not equal causation” and pathetic anecdotes. Even when writing coherent and logical arguments; I still get banned from subs when I bring up the stats, lmao. Some people hate science…
/r/AllPillDebate04/03/23 08:07 PM
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Your height is fine then, I was expecting 5’2 or below. Hopefully you’re not in the Netherlands or somewhere where the heights are skewed. Yep, spot on. You don’t need to be someone’s romantic or sexual interest to enjoy their benefits of being a good friend. This is how we get an entire generation of simps and beta bucks that do whatever women say. They think that acting like subservient golden retrievers will give them a bit of pussy, so they’ll do anything to please them. When evidence alread…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:33 PM
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Curious, what do you think of the people on here shitting on you and telling you it’s your personality that’s the problem? Also, how tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:29 AM
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Every peer reviewed study I’ve seen thus far takes this into account. Physicality is held constant and the general population of dating apps is already examined. This study explains that women receive likes rapidly at a much higher pace than men, but you don’t need the study to know that. Either way, that has no bearing on the information presented. Besides, the human sex ratio is not 1:1. Would that mean all sex related studies are now worthless, because the populations are not inherently even?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:42 AM
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Yes; it’s super liked in the context of this study. The aforementioned studies introduce the concept of physical attractiveness, which is cross referenced here. There is no peer reviewed study that deals with the general attractiveness and ratio of attraction of males and females (not talking about physical attractive characteristics, that is well studied. Only the ratio), for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:38 AM
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Yup, also the obesity epidemic. Helps out women far more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:38 AM
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Yes. Men find 61% of women attractive, women find 4.5% of men attractive. In addition, women are more far more likely to not use condoms with attractive men. This plays into the concept of hypergamy, men find who they can get, women find the best and only want the best men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:15 PM
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Especially when more gay men responded to that survey than lesbians. Even for surveys that account for LGBT. They just want any excuse to blame LVM and their “personality” and not admit it’s their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:05 PM
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That’s a presumed theory, which has strong ties to the possible causes of autism and schizophrenia, but this is something neuroscientists can’t agree on. It’s also a bit, ahem, problematic, because of the inherent implications that come with what defining IQ is, because of the proposed IQ gene (HMGA2) and the observed gap of IQ between people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:09 PM
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RIP /u/CanOfWoody, dude is the reason why Tinder and this sub brings it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:32 PM
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Fucking lol. I love science, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:16 PM
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Becaus there is no concrete definition of g, the intelligence factor. If they were as intelligent, where are their tools or technology? Culture can be argued, seeing as they recognize the dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:15 PM
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Interesting. Is there science behind this? I’m impartial to reference this when the variability hypothesis is the currently accepted theory. For every genius male scientist, there’s a dumb fuck weeb addict. Women are more consistent, mathematically speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:11 AM
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The link is that testosterone is linked to sex drive. More test = more sex drive. This is also observed in women. But women have less testosterone, which means a lower sex drive. Defining it as “unhinged sex addict” is arbitrary. Defining it as a scale and a spectrum (which is calculated, weighted via daltons and measured via nanomoles) makes far more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:07 AM
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Essentially, taking advantage of economically disadvantaged women in developing countries, that do not have access to the resources (education, housing, economic mobility) of developed nations. There was a guy on here who was full blown incel, couldn’t get laid or dates in the US; he booked a one way to Manila and got laid like crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:46 AM
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testosterone doesn’t make you act like an unhinged sex addict https://www.psypost.org/2022/12/a-single-dose-of-testosterone-increases-sexual-impulsivity-in-men-study-finds-64507 https://www.psypost.org/2022/11/testosterone-levels-help-explain-why-women-tend-to-experience-lower-sexual-desire-for-their-partners-64339 https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0018506X22001544 Come on bro. This is like the first few links for testosterone studies. Got more if you need them. As for the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:44 AM
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That’s fair, then don’t complain when guys hit on young women or SEA/LatAm maxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:39 AM
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what is testosterone Besides that, you can’t blame someone who never asked to be here to be forced to contribute. It’s easy to NEETbux and leech off of the system if you’re smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:38 AM
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Dude, that’s not the win you think it is. MGTOW is giga cope. Especially if you’re a LVM, women will be thankful you’re not bothering them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:28 PM
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American culture permeates throughout the world via the internet, military prowess and cultural exports. Media often represents the current cultural zeitgeist and attitudes towards topics, and since over 85% of American use the internet daily, it’s no surprise why you see it so often.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:48 PM
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It depends on the context. In particular, you need to make sure what you’re saying is politically correct. This is important, especially on Reddit, otherwise you’ll get banned from subs from power tripping mods. There are government backed statistics and peer reviewed studies out there that are extremely interesting, and could promote sensible discussion, but you’ll get called a racist/sexist/bigot if you post it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:37 PM
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He is the way he is because he is ugly and women he’s into won’t see past that. Escorts are a meme anyways, just paying to rape someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:44 AM
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But the percentage of unattractive men is what, around 80% with the OKCupid stats? Actual unattractive women are rare, both because of men’s rating scale of attractiveness (Gaussian distribution) and Juggernaut law. Probably around 5% of women or less are “unattractive” by western standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:15 AM
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That’s not what irony means.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:10 PM
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6’2, 210 on Creatine, 6 and a half, technically 17% but it depends, not leaning atm
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:43 AM
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Yeah that’s fine, just a link or ISBN if it’s serialized; I can get to it. Whenever you can, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 11:07 AM
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Could you link your source? I’m trying to find the article/book you mentioned, all I found was a Hegel book from Ruda. I’m down to read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:54 AM
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Are you trying to say a single metaphysics book by a German philosopher is somehow a legitimate counter to several peer reviewed studies by universities and think tanks across the globe, including the NLM?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:04 AM
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Yeah, it sucks, but testosterone is the reason for that. Not excusing it, just explaining it. I know a few women that competitively bodybuild and they understand now why men are so horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:59 AM
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Seriously, facts bro. Jfl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:50 AM
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“It’s okay bro. Just don’t have feelings bro. But be a golden retriever and do whatever she says bro. Otherwise you’re an incel, bro.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:39 AM
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Provoking is a fun strategy, rather than playing it straight. Easier to discern what true intentions the initial poster has. Besides, I do like your posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:24 AM
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I love that the implication must be racism. Nothing but laughs, mate. You gotta try harder than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:22 AM
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No logical discussion should ever be interpreted as “stupid” if the general consensus is finding out objective truth or perceptions on reality, like social sciences. Which is what this sub is all about. And science, really. If you don’t want to partake in that, fine. But you can expect shitposts and derailment when you offer nothing of value to a conversation. Welcome to the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:56 AM
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Don’t care. That’s all that matters tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:48 AM
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Yes. It was intentional in the sake of promoting discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:38 AM
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Just imagine that article in reverse, blaming women for not meeting the standard. People would be losing their marbles, lmao. The researchers also stated that many racial and ethnic minorities, specifically African American women, were experiencing especially low numbers of economically attractive potential mates. Oh boy. I can’t possible wonder why this is the case. Must be men’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:30 AM
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Prostitution is just paying to rape someone. So no, it’s not the same. It’s cheaper, sure, but the inverse is staying in a LTR and having kids that cost thousands of dollars a year. Arguing semantics at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:06 AM
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Yes, just like the housing “industry”, yet there are still millions of homeless people. Any more astute observations, smart-ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:26 AM
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Laughably ignorant, but that seems to be the norm with boomers. Must be nice being able to scalp so much wealth from the next generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:04 AM
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Only way to get sex reliably if you’re not a Chad is in a LTR. Or if you jestermaxx. Beta buxxing is common. Men put up with so much shit just to stick their penis in something. It’s kind of what we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:51 AM
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Lean into Med, actual Med guys perform well on dating apps and IRL. Hispanics don’t have a meme trait to pull like White men and Black men do, so you’ll have to put in some extra work. However, stats are in your favor, Hispanics (even Latinos) almost always rank 2nd on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:49 AM
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Hopefully your name is not Jen, but anyways, I wholeheartedly agree. Problem is that the current cultural zeitgeist perpetuates this idea of a culture war. For example, Right vs Left, White vs Black, Men vs Women, and so on. We fixate on individualism and a “I’ll get mine” attitude, just like how economic system plays out, and it’s tearing us apart. No longer is it worth it to sort through problems with someone, just dump them and in a few swipes, you’ll get another desperate dude to date you. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:21 AM
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Why do you think that is? Being seen as traditional now at days has connotations with being a sexist, racist, bigot, etc. Doesn’t help that guys in the manosphere, which seek to improve manliness in men, are lambasted as incel icons. The world doesn’t want traditional men. And look at what’s happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:00 AM
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Because as a man, if you date or fuck women who are younger than you, you’re going to be called a groomer/rapist/pedophile, even if she’s an adult. So why bother now at days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:09 AM
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Why’d you flee? Political prosecution or safety reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:07 AM
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Agreed, but that is a dogshit source. There’s some better ones conducted by unis that go into further detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:32 AM
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A Reddit poll is more trustworthy than this trash study. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:12 AM
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What do you gain from being on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:23 AM
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An Anglosphere country or Europe? It’s up to you. I won’t save anything and you can delete if you want. Or you can just give a general description.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:33 AM
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Your account is literally an hour old, so I don’t think you’re arguing in good faith, and you’re trying to debunk a well known concept. So, are you actually unattractive? And where are you from? It is literally impossible for women to not receive matches on Tinder in the west, unless you are truly repulsive, or you’re blacklisted and broke the matching algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:14 AM
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I agree on the overcoming shyness part, but not the “men and women are similar” idiom. Respectfully, I disagree completely, and that mentality is actively harmful for unsuccessful men and unsuccessful women who are actively dating. Men and women are competent different, and face different problems while dating. Practicing equality in that manner will not work, just look at the extremely unsuccessful men on here, or /r/virgin , or /r/short Not to pick on them, but whatever advice you may have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:44 AM
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It depends heavily on where you’re from at that point. Clubs in SoCal are full of men and usually women can go for free or get paid for promos. The culture is different here in the East Coast, it tends to be easier over in Florida where I stayed. But not by much. Besides, what advice would you give to shy men that wouldn’t apply to shy women? Men have this expectation of making opportunities and cannot stray from that. Sure, there are definitely too many anti social or anxious losers on here tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:38 AM
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Water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:42 AM
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Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:05 AM
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You would be correct in a non-westernized culture. However, within Westernized countries, then no. This absolutely does matter, because that hypothetical Becky can easily download any of the mainstream dating apps and find a fuck + date in hours. This isn’t cryptic or hidden knowledge anymore, there’s just a lot of lying and “bee yourself” horseshit that gets paraded. The stats themselves tell a larger story, and the overall shift of power dynamics within the dating “market” so to speak. No one …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:55 AM
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Let's not pretend it affects dating culture overall, though. It specifically affects a sub-culture within dating, which is online dating apps. It should not effect the rest of dating culture. Did I read this wrong, or did you mean to empathize the last sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:35 AM
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Aren’t women turned off by the idea of a guy they like messaging multiple women? Same concept here, no one wants to be the last pick out of however many. It’s not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:25 AM
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If you were a heterosexual man, you would understand the importance of the online dating app culture, even if you didn’t use them. Internet culture no longer exists in a vacuum, that was over 20 years ago. It has been adopted into the mainstream cultural zeitgeist. That should be painfully obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:06 AM
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It’s not completely hopeless, but it sucks. Too many drama kings that are stuck online all day. But that goes for the state of world in general, not just dating. Everything is harder, and will continue to be so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:22 AM
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Interesting. What do you think in cases of objectively attractive traits, for example: height, frame, symmetry and skin color?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:56 AM
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Why do you denote yourself as low value?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:27 AM
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Facts, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:09 AM
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He posted proof that was deleted by /r/Tinder mods. Also, some schizo freak in Manila (where he was staying) recognized him IRL, commented on that thread and threatened to doxx him. As for SEA, that’s indisputable. Western men have powerful passports and can leverage it for easy sex in developing countries. There’s a gc and a small forum for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:13 PM
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One of the few women on here to tell it like it is. Great stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:02 PM
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He’s a SEAmax lad, former US vet. It’s absolutely real, it’s been going on for the past few years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:59 PM
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30% of your sample size of women aged 35-40 are completely sterile? Before menopause? Wow, you have some interesting clients. Irregardless, that 70% can still find sperm donors from banks. Which will, more often than not, be: tall, white, blond hair, blue eyed men with an education.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:50 PM
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It’s a copypasta, you dumbass normie. Jfl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:22 PM
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King shit brah. Make them feel what we felt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:15 PM
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Dark triad Paki bad boy. Mirin’ hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:33 PM
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Doesn’t work lol. You’ll have to listen to their feelings and talk with them and that gets irritating quick. No way to skip out on that and not give up the disguise. Just smash and dash.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:33 PM
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Not at all lol. Just stating the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:17 PM
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Damn, that’s badass, reminds me of transhumanism. Too bad that’s fantasy and not making much progress, thanks to Moore’s Law. We’ll see though. Yes. Because you are one too, fellow homo sapien.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:04 AM
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A society of 9 women and 1 men will reproduce much faster than one with 9 men and 1 women. It’s over, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:56 AM
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Bro, this is a self own, and not the flex you think it is. Even an extremely unattractive woman can still find a man to reproduce with and make babies, her lineage will live on. Guys that buy this are dying alone. It’s completely over, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:41 AM
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I’m aware, I’m not saying that’s hypocritical. I know cishet women face far more risks in casual hookups than cishet men. I suspect most men on here wouldn’t like a taller, stronger, aggressive gay man hitting on them either. I just wish we were more honest and stopped lying to nice guys that are unsuccessful. Looks are all that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:16 AM
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This is cope. They can just forge bonds with people they aren’t sexually attracted to, or ones that they are. Men don’t gatekeep relationships like women gatekeep sex. Cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:44 AM
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Using females as a noun (it is) is extremely offensive now, you’ll get called an incel. Use it as an adjective instead. Instead, say women, even though nobody cares if you used male as a noun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:19 AM
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Rest In Peace, Hamudi. The world doesn’t deserve you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:35 PM
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That’s completely fair. As someone who was formerly none, and now all, difference is night and day. The truth always prevails. From now on, women should stop the bullshit comfort threads on /r/AskWomen and /r/TwoXChromosomes on what they really want in men. Redpillers are right, and so are guys like Tate or Hamza. All that matters is your SMV and not your personality. Which is what most redpill guys on here have been saying the whole time, and is backed by online platform dating and their anecdo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:34 PM
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Bro, you’re never going to find that anymore lol. Unless I’m mistaken, that is literally impossible in westernized countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:23 PM
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I know this is a month later, but fantastic job writing this up. Deserves to be stickied tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:01 AM
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It’s fine if you want to stay ignorant, but that’s the reality of the situation for most men in developed countries. I speak from my experience being the typical nice guy who was a skinnyfat loser that now can get away with so much bullshit because I made it. You’re lucky you’re not a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:28 AM
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I never said that it’s impossible for average or ugly men to girlfriends or long term relationships. However, those average guys have to work their ass off to stay in that relationship when they know she can dump them and find a quick fuck and relationship in the same day. Ugly guys have to betabuxx as well in hopes of getting a crumb of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:12 PM
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I would enjoy to see you set up a Tinder/Hinge/Discord/Reddit profile as an average man and try to set up a date or “long distance relationship” with a woman. Report back to me what you find, you’d be shocked. Looks are all that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:41 PM
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Okay, so you are joking. Did you literally stop and talk to all of them about their dating life? Why would they tell you? No, you did not. STEM is a dick fest, so it wouldn’t surprise me if you were bombarded yourself. Many of those stem dateless guys end up as sexpats or digital nomads and find women from third world countries to fuck. Kind of hilarious, actually. Also, fun thread you might enjoy from the male perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:18 PM
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I can tell you as a blatant asshole I’ve still been approached and have fucked on the first date. What would’ve taken most nice or sweet guys on here 5+ dates and months of commitment, I’ve done in a week. but the truth is that in a lot of cases the lack of social skills and reading cues is creepy. How exactly do we quantify this? I guarantee whatever you classify as disgusting, rude or creepy, I’ve done and can get away with because I meet the looks threshold, which is all that matters. You don…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:16 PM
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Then stop the 🧢 and just say the truth. Looks are all that matter, and it’s what makes the difference between a creepy guy hitting on someone and a hot guy. Yes I know, being in both positions I can affirm my stance. There’s not a lot of women that will approach a man just because he’s pretty or sort of attractive That’s basically the only reason a woman would approach a man. Which is why most men have never been hit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:34 AM
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The point is that in any context in which a man is discouraged from approaching, like gym, work, board game nights, etc, it’s acceptable for women to do. The only time it’s not is when the man is attractive enough to not come off as creepy. Some women even admit they don’t like being approached by unattractive men. Because the ratio online is even worse. On any site, anywhere, you’ll find more men than women. Your chances are severely reduced when the women you’re trying to talk to is bombarded …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:03 AM
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Clubs Clubs are 80% men. Women can go in for free and are sometimes paid to go. Not the case for men. Why pay for a small chance of meeting women? Parties Best shot, but you have to have exceptional conservation skills and good looks to not initially creep her out. Pubs Again, mostly men. This must be a joke. Board game nights Except women don’t want to be bothered here either. Online Lol. Feel like this has to be a joke. No way you meant that without context.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:32 AM
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Fucking facts man. You’ll be called an incel, misogynist etc, but that’s exactly how it is. People forget that we’re animals and evolutionary psychology is always present in our social interactions. Which is where the halo effect comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:58 AM
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They say it themselves. Spot fucking on. I can say anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:49 AM
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Every other post on /r/TwoX or other women oriented subs explain how Torres they are of being approached at gym, college, work, hobbies, trains, grocery stores, etc. The inverse is never true, however. Women are free to approach men practically anywhere, and you’ll never hear resistance from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:28 AM
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Explain how regular men are supposed to meet and approach women then, without being told it’s creepy or wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:02 AM
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They’re just saying what they’re actually thinking. Most of the women that left those disgusting comments would never say that to him in person, and would lie. Likely the same women that think all sizes, colors or genders are equal, when it’s just virtue signaling. Blessing in disguise, you get to see what humanity is really like and what we think of each other without the social filter of needing to conform. Looks are all that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:14 AM
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Yes. Women perceive sexually successful men as more attractive, especially if he is already in relationship. Which explains why they have no interest in sexually unsuccessful men and virgin men are such a turn off. To anecdotally support this, top Reddit reply from two weeks ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:59 AM
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Brutal. Just read your post. Yeah, I know how that felt. People lying to you and telling you horseshit, instead of the ugly truth. If it makes you feel better, I can give you some pointers, that you may or may not have tried. Otherwise, there’s always a trip to SEA and fuck around for a bit, sleep with different hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:21 AM
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I don’t want to say the uncomfortable truth; but I think you already know it. Sorry man. But to be fair, it only happened to me after I got lean and asked a friend of mine to take professional pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:51 AM
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I’m a guy. I love reading and going to the library after the gym, so I just put that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:04 PM
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Insta alone should be considered a dating site. I’ve been hit up more on insta than Tinder or Bumble. Women feel a lot more relaxed to e-approach when they can scope out your general interests and friends that aren’t tailor made to a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:48 PM
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Yes, that’s the juggernaut theory. Immediately discrediting extremely conventionally attractive women for the homely type, because it’s “more likely” they’ll get a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:51 AM
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Holy shit bro, you actually SEAmaxxed. Goddamn trooper you are. Nice fucking job man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:34 AM
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So what if he does? He knows he’s not conventionally attractive, no need to beat him down even further. All that does is further justify the blackpill and proves the halo effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:17 AM
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It’s far enough though. Tinder and Bumble don’t post the online population for a reason. Only OKcupid ever did, it was 80% men and 20% women, and that was over a decade ago. Most average men are far better off staying away from online apps and socializing and meeting in person. His chances rise astronomically when women feel safe with him and know he’s not a creep. However, the average guy has to be outgoing and make opportunities. Average shy guys and ugly guys will die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:15 AM
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Absolutely. Spot fucking on. Especially when you consider the differences on what a women tells you versus what an attractive, successful man tells you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:44 PM
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Especially because men have to do all the approaching, women never want that to change because they like being chased and fawned over. I feel bad for younger guys, they have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:28 AM
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Because, in my experience, high n count women are less enthusiastic overall about sex, and experience is worthless if you don’t share chemistry with your partner. Which is why I (and other men) prefer virgins or low n count partners. Could be anything for any reason, but if you go off online dating stats, it is women who are not committing, because they have many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 01:05 AM
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Which is exactly why you need to focus on yourself and socialize, and give yourself options. Women don’t worry about that because they know they can attract many partners. You need to be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:30 AM
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Just say you enjoy pretty privilege. Looks are all that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:21 AM
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Most of our scientific evidence and knowledge is based upon a correlation of variables. Which is why the article I initially linked is a peer reviewed study that has been crossed references 11 times in books, columns and research papers. Your logic is the opposite way of thinking from “correlation does not equal causation”, and is a logical fallacy in of itself. That’s how the anti-vax movement started.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:14 PM
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No offense, I’m sure you mean well, but literally every time a stat get posted from a peer reviewed source I get told the “correlation does not equal causation” line. Sounds more like you don’t like what it’s saying and can’t refute it, so that’s the go to one liner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:25 PM
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Never ceases to amaze me how dipshits like you use sexual attraction as an insult, or leverage it in an argument. I feel so bad for ugly people, there is little hope for them. Well, if you’re tired of being told the truth; there’s the block button, big boy. Use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:30 AM
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Multiple sexual partners decreases sexual quality, communication, relationship satisfaction and relationship stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:40 PM
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Done? That’s an adjective, just use “had”, as in: “I have had”. Just a different experience then, since my best times were with inexperienced women who I had great chemistry with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:19 PM
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I don’t think so; since pair bonding is a thing, and is the foundation of monogamous relationships, which is what is considered to be the norm in romantic relationships. Nobody is getting upset if someone has sex exclusively with one partner, but with multiple, well there are a plethora of names that be attributed to that person. You know. IMO, it doesn’t really matter, since most virgin or inexperienced guys like OP are never going to find a virgin woman. Just something they have to deal with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:09 PM
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It matters when they’re no longer enthusiastic about sex and just see it as another activity, since they’ve done it with multiple men for most of their youth. Rip OP
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:23 PM
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Spot on. It’s just something we have to deal with, unfortunately. Western women are spoiled.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:57 PM
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Not words on a screen. It manifests in the form of a higher suicide rate for men than women, favoritism in family courts as they prefer women, 70% of men are homeless, over 95% of workplace fatalities are men, lower life expectancy and more likely to be a homicide victim. Less educational opportunities and disproportionate media attention (in the context of missing persons cases). Not to mention the dating market, which women have complete control over. Misandry is more common than you think. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:55 PM
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misandry doesn’t affect men the way misogyny affects women Care to elaborate? If you’re not from a westernized developed country, then I totally see your point. Otherwise, discrimination is discrimination. So if women aren’t on apps, how should a man approach a woman? Since women almost never approach men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:29 PM
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Why not? I can still browse /r/TwoXChromosomes despite its blatant misandry. the normal posts are just “average” men trolling women What you see there is the jester, men that are so desperate for love, they act like fools in hopes of some response. Memes, pick up lines, icebreakers, puns, anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:16 PM
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Nope, you’re thinking of a high value man, who knows he can get away with the pump and dump. Average or ugly men that try that are met with resistance and being blocked, which is what you’re talking about. They get “bullied” off from being showered with attention, gifts, dates and offers. I’ve seen my friends on there, its effortless being a woman on these apps. So much to choose from, literally not enough time to sort through all the responses you get. You’re lucky you’re not a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:01 PM
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How do you know every man on there is trying to run through woman? Especially when the majority of users on there are men asking for advice on their profile? Women can get dick and a relationship the same day they install the app, it takes weeks for many men to even get a date, that’s if they don’t get ghosted first.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:20 PM
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No offense, but you have no idea what the average man goes through. You can go on /r/tinder for a rude awakening on what the average man goes through whenever you feel like. Otherwise, feel free to stay ignorant in your bubble. You’ll be coddled either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:07 PM
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There are desperate women for a high value man. Not an average man. Otherwise, we wouldn’t even be speaking and this sub would be sparsely populated. You should really try catfishing as an average guy on Tinder and see how well you’d do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:57 PM
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Nope. Unless you are legitimately deformed, every woman has options. There are many desperate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:52 PM
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Anecdotal evidence means nothing when that average man is not getting laid, young male virginity is on the rise and dating apps are a nightmare for average to ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:40 PM
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It’s not. Try any dating app as a man and see how just being a good partner works out for you then. You need to be the whole package, good looking, tall, fit, wealthy in 2022 to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:45 PM
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Great analysis. They don’t appreciate, nor do they really care, because now women are on top of the food chain. Historically speaking, it makes sense, but women have to realize at some point that most men cannot meet their criteria. Even with all their options, they still complain and bitch about not getting what they want. As a guy that meets the standards, it is no longer worth it to commit or get married. I can fool around and lie and get what I want out of relationships, how many men can say…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:18 PM
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Thankfully there's not many men irl who believe this is the best lifestyle. Our species would have died out before we created agriculture. Not saying you’re wrong, but can I get a source for this? Or is this a personal belief?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:56 PM
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No one is entitled to that kind of affection, as cruel as that may sound. Do you respond to every DM and comment you receive? What if you were hit on by people you were uninterested in? Point is, it is no one’s responsibility to give affection or romance en masse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:27 PM
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There are superficial people, which can be men or women, as there exists superficial men. Hop on over to AskWomen or TwoX if you need a anecdote, which is how you came to your conclusion. As to which there are more of, superficial men or women, cannot be answered in good faith. The population of dating sites are heavily skewed and cannot produce accurate or reliable results which can be applied as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:16 PM
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Women aren’t superficial. That is a massive generalization. There’s nothing wrong with wanting an attractive and sympathetic partner with emotional vulnerability and communication skills. There are many factors that come into play for the problem, some within control and others are factors outside of one’s control.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:57 PM
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I know the other sub is satire. All this does is confirm people aren’t able to debate with the topics at hand, hence this sub. While there are crazy guys spouting incel rhetoric, vitriol and misogynistic garbage, which dilutes the philosophy; others are coming to terms with the dating “market” and how they’re unable to compete in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:41 PM
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It’s not about if he told you, but rather, the fact you obtained that information. As well as the conclusions that can be derived from that. But that’s besides the point. Right, and they’re not. Universal attractive traits have been known since modern civilization. At least around hunter gather societies. TRP, while incorrect in certain scenarios, does an overall better job of explaining what is happening to the dating scene more than TBP ever could.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:16 PM
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Right, because he was competitive in the dating “market” and was able to signal to you that he had other options, ergo, preselection. This is all evolutionary psychology to a T. A desperate man who’s never had that experience isn’t going to know how to do that, or fake it. Again, only harmful when crazy and destructive people take it to such extremes. Men have injured or killed others for petty issues and for far less than a recent social phenomena that would explain the massive amount of lonely…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:58 PM
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He’s never had to worry, because he’s conventionally attractive. Having a good personality is a bonus, and clearly worked in attracting you. The rhetoric is only harmful when psychopaths are using the ideology to push for violence and crime. Otherwise, it’s the ugly truth of the situation for many men. Dog eat dog world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:49 PM
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It’s not about strength, it’s about aesthetics. Past a certain point, you’re doing it for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:01 PM
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At the end of the day, it’s still a conscious choice. Giving out excuses like candy is just removing agency from their actions and assumes people can’t decide for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:35 AM
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For fucking real, man. It’s like you have to be at some magic sweet spot, too nice and it’s creepy, too stoic and you’re toxic. It’s best to focus on the universal attractor and work from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:31 AM
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