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| 1 | What strategies that work for hook ups in short term relationships end up hurting long term relationships the most? | Conversation | referendum | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 03:59 AM |
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| – | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyThey want a bad boy and then change him slowly to make him good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 06:20 PM |
| – | What are your sexual fantasies?Some people share them on the radio I wanna get you in the Georgia Dome on the fifty-yard line While the Dirty Birds kick for t'ree And if you like in the club, we can do it in the DJ booth Or in the back of the V.I.P. Whipped cream with cherries and strawberries on top, lick it don't stop Keep the door locked, don't knock while the boat rock We go-bots and robots, so they got to wait 'til the show stop Or how about on the beach with black sand? Lick up your thigh then call me the Pac Man Table … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 04:47 AM |
| – | “Women are wonderful” effect…At this point we should just look at each other as people. Unfortunately, we have to show a spark on a time table from instant attraction of today's disposable relationships, so nevermind that idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 03:05 AM |
| 1 | 3 Reasons Why Some Men Are Scared Of RejectionsI don't know at what point this was encouraged, but some seemingly smart and descent women will go and talk with their friends to brag about how they are better than you because they rejected you. They put you down to elevate their status. They make a point about making a scene about it. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Can women really sense thirstyness/desperation?The incentive for men to monkey branch is extremely high. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 05:54 AM |
| – | Why are Men's Troubles with Dating Invalidated by Women?Men and women used to get to know each other before they asked each other on dates. Getting to know each other was through church, work, neighbors, or friends of family and friends. Now we are judged by online profiles that force us to be superficial. We objectify in part because we don't see each other in context of family, friends, or co-workers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 04:58 AM |
| 3 | what does she mean by "can we spit tomorrow"?She challenging you to a hip hop battle. Practice your rhymes so you can spit some lyrics. | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 05:05 AM |
| 1 | The “men get other men, that’s why we don’t trust men with our women” and “women are unfairly judging men” dichotomyMen evaluate each other more on self control because we are more aware that our biology influences us to do things that aren't good for relationships. Men want to make sure interests align to to treat women well, and I think this also applies to evaluating women treating men well to some extent. Following every hedonistic desires appears more attractive, but a balance is necessary for men and women. I wish I could find the video where a relatively sane woman thinks she's being a good friend in h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 11:06 AM |
| 1 | When is a reasonable time and a good reason to ask for a DNA test?Run if she tries to cast doubt on the validity of the DNA tests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 09:28 PM |
| 0 | Women lose attraction to their husbands more than the reverse, and that's why women divorce much more oftenSpeaking strictly from a materialist perspective, men and women have tendencies toward both commitment and infidelity. Most women prefer a man who behaves in a way that indicates a certain level of testosterone in the beginning of a relationship, and prefer him to have his testosterone lower during the relationship. That is why men's testosterone drops and it is not a reason for a woman to leave him. Men in committed relationships appear more attractive to women, even when the women don't know t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 01:08 PM |
| 1 | What if your boyfriend had a past history of viewing only softcore porn?One study found that 47 percent were left wing, 33 percent right wing, and the remainder ambidextrous. I didn't see any sex or gender specific correlations from the study. https://www.reuters.com/article/lifestyle/parrots-tend-to-be-left-handed-study-finds-idUSTRE712774/#:~:text=Ultimately%2C%20they%20found%20that%20roughly,ve%20seen%20is%20left%2Dhanded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 12:26 PM |
| 1 | What if your boyfriend had a past history of viewing only softcore porn?My personal experiences with feminists is that the majority of them use their right hand when using a writing utensil. Before everyone attacks me, I will of course I will admit SOME do indeed write with their left hands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 05:12 AM |
| 3 | What do you consider to be traits of a functioning man/woman in society that you are shocked others do not?Small talk to strangers helps keep up a verbal skill set, which happens to be a more valuable skill set in the minds of women than men. Small talk also contributes to a positive ripple of influence, even from a materialistic perspective. I say this partially to convince myself because I value talking about the impacts of philosophy, science, and pop culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 06:06 PM |
| 2 | What do you consider to be traits of a functioning man/woman in society that you are shocked others do not?How did you arrive at the conclusion that small talk isn’t how many people begin connection? Being around other people (in proximity) is another way to build connection, but that does NOT mean small talk is useless. Small talk is useful. The point is that you build up slowly from small talk. Never getting past small talk will halt a stronger connection to others. Proximity does matter, also. It’s like if I said healthy fats are important in your diet, and you said “NO, protein matters. If spend … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 04:15 PM |
| 1 | The ‘Friends First’ approach to dating is a huge waste of timeFriends first doesn't work if you are hiding your romantic desire. Women tend to want genuine connection. If you genuinely just wanted to be friends, then it could develop from there. Hook up culture has people trained to obsess on sexual attraction first. From a man's perspective, sexual attraction will develop for us ~3-10 times easier than for women on average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 03:12 PM |
| 4 | What do you consider to be traits of a functioning man/woman in society that you are shocked others do not?Small talk is a way many people begin friendships, business connections, and romantic relationships. It can be a way to build up trust by establishing patterns of listening and speaking and expressions that you value and understand what the other person is saying. Small talk can be just that, it doesn't have to develop deeper for it to be appreciated. I was a lot happier when I would think about how our relationships will continue after death and how we can look back at how we communicated durin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 02:52 PM |
| – | This subreddit has a “Men Are Wonderful/Victims” bias.Overall, the effort to get fathers to step up to be there for their kids should be about 3 times greater relative to the effort to get women to be more encouraging to involve the father. How much effort should go into dropping government incentives to get couples to break up so that governmental entities can get a piece of the child support money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 04:57 AM |
| – | This subreddit has a “Men Are Wonderful/Victims” bias.On a average, men and women have roughly equal intelligence with the way IQ tests are measured. Some small variance is possibly due to differences in caring about abstract things that don't seem to have practical uses. [insert joke here about how both sexes would do better if a higher score meant they could go on a date with Ryan Reynolds] There is some subtle prejudice against boys from the teachers. There is something to the fact that many teachers have lower expectations for boys. Part of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 04:46 AM |
| – | This subreddit has a “Men Are Wonderful/Victims” bias.Do you live in the US? It's concerning that you describe men in general as people who murder based on gender. Can you explain how you arrived the statement, "men literally kill women for being women"? Psychopaths tend to be the ones who kill women. This is not a fair characterization of an entire gender. US 2021 stats show 4,979 females were victims of murder and non-negligent manslaughter (about 1 in 34,000 each year, but closer to 1 in 500 for a lifetime). This is an unacceptable and men are a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 03:46 AM |
| 1 | What actions make a man look like a creep? And what’s the difference between a guy checking out a hot girl vs a girl checking out a hot guy?The biggest thing that makes you creepy is worrying about how you might be creepy. Any worrying is creepy. You get tense worrying if you’ll be creepy and many women will pick up on your tense body language and assume it’s because you are worrying about getting caught trying to do something bad to them. It’s the same thing with how police react, you get tense and that is a sign you might be guilty of something. There are genuine threats to women and police, so you worrying about anything is somet… | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 02:29 AM |
| 6 | From a woman's perspective: Being negative is a universally unattractive trait, regardless of genderTalking negatively about other people within the frame of an in-group/out-group bias used to be a guilty pleasure, like a junk food form of bonding. I think it's inevitable to have this form of bonding in a relationship, but it doesn't seem healthy for it to be the predominant form of bonding. It seems to be the only form of bonding for some people. I'm remembering an episode of Seinfeld where George and Elaine have a great time together when they talk about Jerry, their mutual friend. They late… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Stop playing video games, get out into the real world.Every time I go somewhere it seems someone is trying to frame me for a crime. | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 11:37 PM |
| 2 | examples you do that show you're not a "nice guy"You have good points. To add one small complexity, I would broaden this into 3 characterizing categories. More along the lines of long-term attractive, short-term attractive, and not attractive. | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Are We Dating The Same Guy (AWDTSG) - Thoughts?Murray had alleged that the women posted a variety of false statements about him including claims he had lied about being an attorney, had tried to swindle money from them, and had sexually-transmitted diseases. He also highlighted that the post made more serious claims, including that he was facing several domestic violence charges as well as being suspected of murder and involved in a homicide case. Murray has denied all claims, alleging he only recalls meeting one of the women 'for less than … | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Are We Dating The Same Guy (AWDTSG) - Thoughts?Hopefully these groups are monitored by law enforcement. It seems like prime grounds for a “witch hunt”. Through a series of random people having bad enough days and taking it out on a guy by making stuff up, or lying about someone out of a bond with a friend. Enough people say bad things about someone, exaggerated retelling kicks, someone embellishes a story, and then someone feels justified to cause legal troubles with an allegation because “the guy HAS TO BE GUILTY OF SOMETHING ILLEGAL, and s… | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 02:43 AM |
| 1 | As a black woman how can I be more attractive to men in everyday settings?Women show interest first in most successful romantic interactions. There's nothing wrong with your looks, you should learn how to flirt better if you want to attract someone. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Pretty sure I'm losing my virginity tonight, need advice. 25mIt might hurt a little bit penetrating at first, if so, go really slow, and don't speed up until she's loosened up down there. | /r/seduction | 31/07/15 05:49 AM |
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