reformingbeta123 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
98	Never over invest	Field Report	reformingbeta123	/r/TheRedPill	23/04/18 09:02 PM
12	Market Economics	Red Pill Theory:theory:	reformingbeta123	/r/TheRedPill	04/06/18 07:09 PM

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5	Latin Dance Lessons AKA “Alpha Dog School” Been dancing for years. Not just Latin. Ballroom. Country. I highly recommend. Plus it’s insurance if your wife plays the divorce card (which mine did). As a man once told me, it’s the last bastion of male dominance. You lead, she follows. You establish and hold a frame. She fits in. Anything else, sit her down and pick another woman but there’s a catch. You must know what you are doing. You can’t fake it.	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/09/18 10:59 PM
1	She's Bored, Evoking Emotion in Her Find new and exciting ways to show her you are interested in her. Make a list of as many things you can. On my list is; canoeing, snowshoeing, crab fishing, day trip to interesting place, outlet mall shopping, bike ride, zip line, dance lesson, outdoor concert, mystery location, spontaneous trip, berry picking. Active things that engage. Forget the boring dinner and a movie. Even bowling is better. The Book of Pook covered this topic well.	/r/TheRedPill	02/08/18 05:39 PM
4	Thank You Red Pill. I'm Departing. Red Pill is just a tool, but can be an avoidance crutch as you say. I’ve wondered about going cold turkey with it, except that every so often there are some great pieces of wisdom that pop up. I treat it as another tool in my toolbox, alongside being on a men’s team and others. Good luck on your journey.	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/18 01:07 AM
3	Feminism is not a shit test. Feminism is a macro level compliance test, and we're all failing it. Wow. Interesting perspective. I don’t agree with everything, but the main message rings true. I started listing the compliance tests my last woman threw at me. With no effort, I cracked 20. With a little more effort, I could double that number. She was all over my life, extracting compliance. I thought, that’s what I had to do to make it work. That’s what I was taught, happy wife, happy life. All it did was prove to her that I was a low value man that she disrespected and felt contempt for. Inad…	/r/TheRedPill	16/07/18 10:30 PM
1	Never over invest Good insights. Trust a Red Piller to kick my ass. New account only because she got at my old account and prior posts. Been around a while. Read way more than chapter titles. That said, I was in her frame and ended up letting her use me as her emotional tampon. By the way, I do lift. I’m in the gym at 5am, 5 days a week, 1 hour a day, lifting. I don’t do video games, waste of time. Don’t do drugs, don’t drink, eat right. What happened this year was me taking frame back. I realized I was coming fr…	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/18 11:13 PM
2	Never over invest Great point. I did a stint long time ago teaching. It was the kids acting out that got attention. Which caused them to act out more, since the reward was more attention, which is what they wanted. I’m not saying anything about positive and negative reinforcement, which is an entirely different topic. I have been thinking lately about making sure I get a payoff from my investments, and cutting loose things or people in my life where there is no eventual payoff. Some people are users. Weed them ou…	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/18 05:13 PM
2	Never over invest Google search “Managing Your Bitches Red Pill” and “16 Commandments of Poon”.	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/18 05:08 PM
7	Never over invest Yea, I’m not saying don’t invest in anything. That won’t get you anywhere. You have to invest your time, effort and money in whatever turns your crank to get started. Look for balanced investments and reciprocity as the relationship moves along.	/r/TheRedPill	23/04/18 11:02 PM
2	Never over invest I used my own story so thought of it as a field report. But yes, theory if you like. It took me a long time to realize what was going on. Even though I read about this, humansockpuppet comes to mind, I thought, no, not her. This one’s different. AWALT.	/r/TheRedPill	23/04/18 09:41 PM
1	To those who are getting over an ex or oneitis that dumped them - Stop being a Bitch I commented yesterday about my girlfriend sort of breaking up with me by doing a disappearing act. Last night she met me in person and did the brake up. I’m going read this post daily until I’m out of the danger zone. No contact. No contact. No contact. Red Pill is like the AA for beta males. It’s the truth and it works. And yes, I’ve read everything on the sidebar. Some of it more than once or twice. It’s important to internalize it. The girl offered me the conciliation prize of remaining her “…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 02:10 PM
8	To those who are getting over an ex or oneitis that dumped them - Stop being a Bitch Thank you bro. Your message came at exactly the right time for me. My girlfriend just cut me off late last week. No breakup, nothing. No responses to my texts. No seeing me anymore (she lives minutes away). I was left wondering, did she break up with me? Was she playing games? WTF? It isn’t so much that I needed closure. It’s just seemed like a really strange way to end things. But I know she’s not good with conflict and tough emotions. I know she’s a runner, meaning she runs away from tough emo…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/18 03:28 PM