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I know who would make for a generally good partner. Doesn't mean that all or even most men like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:26 AM
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Er.... Like isn't that obvious? For men and for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:24 AM
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Most people don't get what they want. Most people don't want to work 40+ hours weeks. But most people have at some point, if not in majority of their live worked 40+ hours weeks. That doesn't disprove the previous point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 11:00 AM
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I wouldn't moralize a man's dating success more than I would more moralize anyone financial success. I mean I know there are people who think that if you are poor it must be because of something you do. No shit, some of us are underage and have poor parents... Weird people indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:19 AM
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Oh sorry the title was kind of misleading. Yeah totally agree with your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:13 AM
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The same advice I give to kind people. If you want to bolster sustainable kindness you have to be smart. Also misplaced kindness does more harm than good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:09 AM
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I don't think anyone, men or women should be justified for reprehensible action.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:07 AM
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Hmmm... you know what? I agree. If the number of assholes was limited and we got to choose who gets to be an asshole it's much better for the asshole to be the people with less power. So yeah in dating world, if the number of cheater was set but we could allocate it I'd rather they be ugly guys than hot ones. What was the debate again?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:04 AM
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Plenty of weird people around.......and honestly even misogyny isn't a new thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:43 AM
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Ahah...that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:40 AM
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Errr.... anyone can be an asshole. The more fortunate and the less fortunate. Would you say poor people can't be assholes because they just can't afford it? No, that's quite obviously not true. In fact sometimes the fact they're assholes is what's keeping them poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:39 AM
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just because they're ugly to you doesn't mean they're ugly to everyone in the world. Also.......like you know that not everyone considers physical appearance to be the only element factoring in attraction right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:34 AM
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Look.....I don't know how to tell you but sexual selection goes both ways. Yes men are generally taller. But also women have generally wider pelvises. Ever wondered how that happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:29 AM
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I don't think you answered her question. "So what exactly is evil here about me only pursuing a guy who had a similar background to mine?" I would be curious about your answer as well since I am in a similar situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:58 AM
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Same goes for the husbands. Most men will never admit it but their wives's simply aren't their ideal or their first choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:57 AM
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Guys do the same thing. Unless they habe lots of female friends most think the average female experience is the one of girls on tinder. Even if only 25% of Tinder users identify as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:55 AM
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Well that's just called growing up. Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:32 PM
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Taking the next step of the relationship falls overall on women, whether it's moving in together or getting married. In my personal experience? Well for every man who plans dates there is one who never does. For every man who makes gives gift of Valentine there's one completely forgot. The rest of us have equal partners. I see 50% couples where both partners plan dates, give gifts, prioritize each other 25% where the guy does everything 25% where the girl does everything I can also see that may …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:03 PM
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What does cutting slack mean? Generally speakingg the closer and tge more time we have to speand together less accepting I am of bad behaviour. My friend can be as messy as they want in their own home. But I don't acceept that from a partner or even a roommate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:48 AM
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It is true that I use no social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:08 AM
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I'd actually say men think that too. 24F, 1 sexual relationship with current boyfriend. No sexual/romantic experience till 21. Crazy part? Most of my same age female friends and even female friends who are slightly older are to this very day virgins with no prior romantic relationships. Even crazier? None of them have ever even been approached, just as no one had ever approached me before my boyfriend. And the ones who are not have had sex with 1 person. I can think of just one friend who had se…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:00 PM
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Motsly agreed. But girls aren't blind to the world either. Parents raise good boys. Good boys go out into the world and see that bad boys get away with that, often having the time of their life too. What has their goodness lead to? Many friends and singlehood. Parents raise good girls. Good girls go out go out into the world and see that easy girls get away with that, often having the time of their life too. What has their goodness lead to? Many friends and singlehood. Good ugly boys stay single…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:22 PM
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Which is why men watch porn of ugly and beautiful women in equal measure. They clearly desire both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:48 PM
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Society doesn't treat men and women equally, I don't think anyone would put that into question, even feminist. Though it's hard to say which gender is treated worse, I would say neither have it too good. For instance - men are more likely to get hired and promoted if they have children - women are penalized in their career when they have chidren BUT - men are more likely to be shamed if they do not have a job - women are more likely to be shamed if they do not have children - girls have an easie…
/r/MensRights30/06/23 01:50 AM
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misogynist:people who, regardless of relationship status, see women as inferior to men. feminist:people who, regardless of relationship status, see women as equal to men misandrist:people who, regardless of relationship status, see men as infrerior to women
/r/MensRights24/05/23 09:11 PM
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I also think that most people against misogyny are normal;in fact most of people just claim ir. I also don't think that most incels are mysogynist, but the ones who scream the loudest and are active on social media are. Incels on social media, vilify everything that supposedly is keeping a them from having a girlfriend (government, women education women being able to earn their money, women being able to divorce, dating apps, pretty guys, pretty girls, ugly girls,...)
/r/MensRights21/05/23 07:08 PM
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What they mean is "tell me you want to cheat" before cheating so we can - work it out - leave without the shame of being a woman who's been cheated on
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:34 PM
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Well, some of the people against feminism are misogynist as well. I don't think either are true in fact, most of feminists I know aren't misandrists just as most incels I know aren't misoginysts. It should be noted though that I know a lot more feminists than incels. Stupid and close minded people come in every shape.
/r/MensRights19/05/23 12:53 PM
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Does being a feminist equal being a misandrist to you? Just curious.
/r/MensRights13/05/23 10:34 PM
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As if we've never heard of guy with his cute gf that he "loves" sleeping with a hot woman when the opportunity presents itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:04 PM
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Sorry, I come from a Western country I just assumed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:13 AM
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That's quite a low bar. I feel most of boys I know meet the criteria by the time they are 18. It's also true that I'm selective about people I hang out in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:51 AM
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I do see many good girls out of college working a job wanting older men. I see women wanting older men. What I don't see is the truly beautiful ones wanting older men. I'm not questioning whether there are enough young women. What I am doubting is whether there enough hot young women. Notice I could've asked "Are women in their 20s actually interested in men in their 30s?" Instead I asked "Are there hot women in their 20s actually interest in men in their 30s?" Why did I add the "hot" part? Beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:40 AM
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Your are so similar with another female commentor that I'm actually thinking you're the same couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:25 AM
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There hot and rich and in their 20s and the hot girls are the ones who can get them. Why would the hot girls choose hot and rich in their 30s/40s over hot and rich in their 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:23 AM
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Something that I don't quite actually get is why women looking for men with a higher status is called hypergamy but men looking for women with higher beauty is called biology. And again a woman looking for options is monkey-branching and a man looking for options is again biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:20 AM
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Can I ask you a question? Most of people want a mature and patient partner when they're looking for a serious relationship and are fine with lowering their bar for casual relationship. What are the reason behind your wanting a mature and patient partner but not a serious relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:15 AM
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The question was never about the morality. I don't think there's nothing amoral in two people finding someone who fulfills their needs. The question is, are people who couldn't date in their 20s but accrued wealth over time realistically aiming for the hot 20 year old? And if not who are they realistically aiming for?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:10 AM
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Why just FWB if he's a good man?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:00 AM
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Why would she choose your money over someone else's money, someone who's also young and attractive (if sh's hot enough to have that option)?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:59 AM
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Question, are there really that many hot women, who can date the few guys in their 20s who are mature and have their lives together and look good, preferring successful men in their 30s?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:50 AM
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I actually have had the opposite experience. Quite unattractive 22F. Took one date for my boyfriend, who's one year older, to ask me for a relationship. He started his own company two years ago and has been doing incredibly good. He's more mature than most older men I know, more emotionally available than any woman I know. And the strange things is that all of my male friends around my age are quite mature and patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:42 AM
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No one said it is wrong. The question was on what was the realistic end goal. What I actually see truly beautiful women chasing are Chads with status/money. The beautiful young beautiful women I see in my life are dating young beautiful men who are also rich. Are there that many young attractive women who would choose average, older and rich over the former?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:32 AM
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I do believe there are women who also like guys in their 30's. But I'm having trouble thinking about any woman I know preferring guys in their 30's to guys in their 20's, especially attractive women who can choose both. And more importantly are there really enough women like that for all the guys that didn't have girls in their 20s but will make it in their 30s?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:13 AM
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I don't think they're only interested in 30 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:07 AM
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Is that the aspiration young men have? To one day become sugar daddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:05 AM
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Generally it means you think you are the exception and rules should not be applied to you. Imagine me valuing kindness people, preferring kind people but claiming that there's nothing wrong with me being rude to people because hey, that's their business they should be responsible for their own choices. It doesn't even occur to me that it is because of rude people like me that even kind people lose their kindness. Or imagining me condemning littering because I believe it's bad for the environment…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:48 AM
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As a woman, my instict is to defend the girl in any given ambiguous argument, even if I don't personally know the girl. I thought that was what people did: girls sticking with girls and guys sticking with guys. I asked my boyfriend and he said thst guys don't do it, not for guys they don't know at least. I think that's a historical-cultural thing, being the weaker sex, that women stick up for each other just for being women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:22 AM
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