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refrymybeans/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 02:30 PM
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Do you think women are the exception? I'm sure there are many men who have up and leave without remorse as well. Just because you got burned does not mean you can make a generalization about the group as a whole.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 06:37 AM
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I think the problem with RP is not that it is "true" or "untrue", but rather it is one perspective for generalizing an entire group of people. There are billions of men and women on this planet, not all of them think the same and are attracted / unattracted to the same thing. Any dogmatic belief system is inherently going to make you stupid!
/r/ExRedPill31/08/23 11:39 PM
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Even money at some level is artificial. The American USD isn't even backed by gold. It's a temporary, man-made, construct.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/23 06:49 PM
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You are so welcome. Relationships are the one part of life where you should simply be able to express yourself authentically and healthily. When you enter a relationship with any kind of "strategy" or agenda you are poisoning the experience for everyone. People who consume RP content should be pitied and given help-- they are consumed with so much insecurity. I hope you and your ex find the happiness you deserve.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/23 06:50 PM
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I'm not doubting that they are malicious or harmful, but if the only way that they can relate to others is through manipulation, deceit, and lies, are they truly bad people? Like is that really their fault?
/r/ExRedPill26/06/23 12:35 PM
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I believe in you!
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 07:51 PM
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Besides, would you really want to be with someone who only cares about looks, muscles, money, and sex? There are plenty of good women out there willing to sacrifice any of these things for a good man who sees them as an equal. Doubt you're going to find that with a RP mysogynist mindset.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 07:47 PM
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Would have to disagree. If your form of ultimate success is being able to seduce as many woman as possible, then go for it and focus on all of these things. But that's going to be a shallow, hedonistic life filled with meaningless interactions to fill an internal void. There are many successful and influential people throughout history who have been homeless, poor, ugly. The people who are changing lives and saving the world aren't focused on how many women like them. They're chasing their dream…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 07:45 PM
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Exactly. You should never be afraid of crying or showing "weakness" in front of a woman. Your partner should treat you as an equal on all levels. That includes opening up and letting those emotions flow. The idea that "real men aren't allowed to show emotions" is a toxic social construct. We aren't living in the stone age anymore and gender roles don't have to be intensely rigid for the purpose of survival. Anyone who thinks otherwise has the intelligence of a Neanderthal. Not saying you should …
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 07:32 PM
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I just cant accept the idea that we "love" eachother only as long as I provide her with stability and play a character of a rock. I think even this notion of being "a rock" as a man is outdated. Yes, men are expected to provide stability emotionally and financially in a lot of conventional relationships/marriages. But it's not the case with every marriage. Not every marriage involves a woman being dependent on a man without any kind of reciprocation. Ideally, you can be equals and support each o…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 06:46 PM
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You are not alone. Many people grow up with an absent, abusive, or neglectful female figure in their life. When you grow older and start dating, you begin to seek out those same experiences subconsciously. TRP is an echo-chamber for this. You begin to think that "women are the enemy" and that they are all horrible and out to get you. Being vulnerable is an incredible strength. Everything TRP teaches you about emotions is wrong. Emotions exist for a reason, they are there to guide you towards you…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 06:13 PM
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Regardless if they actually have any mental health condition or not... there are loads of reasons people act out the way they do. This includes lying, twisting the truth, etc. A lot of times behaviors are usually a coping mechanism and are caused by some kind of trauma or childhood neglect when you truly look deep. Doesn't mean they are not responsible but there is usually a reason behind it.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 05:30 PM
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But people are still to blame for not wanting to take personal responsibility of their own lives, and trying to take the easy way out by outsourcing critical-thinking to a bunch of random influencers lol. I think when people are trapped in unhealthy, toxic relationships or marriages they begin to look for radical solutions, when all else fails. A lot of people will only allow themselves to get burned so many times before they start turning to extremes to cope with their shortcomings. Hence, they…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 04:42 PM
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I think the term "narcissist" gets thrown around too easily. Very few people are diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder as a real condition. Some people just have lower emotional empathy than others. Low empathy is also sometimes correlated with autism or other conditions. In which case, its not truly their fault if they can't see how their actions affect others. But I think if people refuse to try to see how their actions affect others and get help or educate themselves, then they are…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 04:30 PM
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I think RP makes people dumb by oversimplified and exaggerated expectations of how relationships work.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 04:20 PM
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Sexual compatibility is a huge part of a relationship. That encompasses not only your sexual identity but kinks, frequency, and everything else in-between. I think TRP however often tries to boil a relationship down to just sex at its core. A relationship will never survive long term if you are only compatible sexually. There will be periods of time where you get sick, need a surgery, need to travel and maintain long distance. You will grow older and your body will begin to fail. What then? Sure…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 04:18 PM
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Maybe. Most bad people I've met are genuinely just tortured souls who are a product of their environment and don't really know better. Everyone deserves a chance to grow.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 03:16 PM
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Well good for you for breaking out of that. If you have kids one day, you can educate them on what a healthy relationship looks like. What sex means and how to approach it. You can be the parent that is approachable about these things. Lead by example by having a beautiful and healthy relationship that your kids can model after when they start dating. You got this and I believe in you.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 03:14 PM
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It takes time, experience, and maturity. Reflect on how your actions harm others, or how these things harm you. Nobody is born into this world with a perfect knowledge of how relationships work. TRP targets people who are already vulnerable and struggling with their own insecurities, doubts, and fears and poisons their minds / relationships. I think getting out into the real world and seeing an actual healthy relationship is a great eye-opener. I never was in one or saw one for most of my life. …
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 02:50 PM
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Actually it did. It poisoned my mindset and my relationships for years. But I reformed myself and am seeking to help others
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 02:33 PM
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