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| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?You can look it up, and there’s a reason people neglect personal responsibility so much. It’s because it only gets you so far. You can tell an incel to go to parties and take drugs, but that’s not gonna get them laid all the sudden. They’re competing with people who’ve had so much more experience socially, and if they’re at the point where they’re arguing on here all day, or even worse, on the Chan, they’d sooner get laughed at, at a party, then slept with. Some people just don’t have the person… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?Everyone settles in some way. I don't think that's the crux of the issue. I think what hurts men the most is when the safe, secure guy that the woman only kind of likes never got to be the fun guy for anybody. If that upper middle class nerdy guy with the engineering degree and the good job was also hot, social, fun, and interesting and he spent his college years and most of his 20s having casual sex, then met a stable girl with her feet on the ground who understands the value of paying the bill… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?That report on the sex recession that came out a couple weeks ago said that 23% of men ages 18-29 reported no sex within the last year, so it's really not all that uncommon. The guy from a shitty childhood who got bullied in school and hates himself might be the extreme, but the discussion was originally just around people who aren't considered "fun", which would include a lot of people. And my point is that trying to say that those unfun people aren't fun because they "just didn't choose to" … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?We're talking about a bunch of men living ridiculously privileged lives in the West making 6 figures who are so pampered and coddled that they think it's someone else's responsbility to infuse their lives with "fun." Yeah, no. We're talking about people who are struggling in the social economy. All that extra shit about them making six figures (when many of them are working in some WalMart hellhole), being "coddled" and "pampered" (even though many of the people struggling socially do so in larg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?That’s another thing I see too often around here. People stewing in anger and resentment because they didn’t have the balls to live the life they wanted to The only thing resentful here is this assumption that not being an actualized person simply comes down to “not having the balls” (lol). It’s the same kind of shit you hear from (generally middle-upperclass) people opining about the poor; that they’re poor because they’re just, you know, worse than everyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Introverted girls make themeselves invisiblei mean, introverted has become a term of convenience for anyone socially inferior. i don't mind that, because the whole "being introverted doesn't mean your bad at socializing, it just means you don't get your energy from it!" sounds a lot like sugar-coating to me. i don't get my energy from socializing because i'm bad at it, not that i'm somehow predisposed to preferring books over people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/19 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Introverted girls make themeselves invisiblenow try being an introverted guy. if you're a guy with any significant deficiency in social skills, you'd better be content with cats, playing the guitar and constant feelings of inadequacy shoved in your face every time you try and (fail) to have a conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/19 09:26 AM |
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