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Just wear scrubs to the bar next time
/r/seduction31/08/22 06:08 AM
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Well said my bro.
/r/seduction25/09/21 12:18 AM
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Baby steps my bro
/r/seduction12/02/21 05:48 AM
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Amazing and happy you made it through bro.
/r/seduction17/01/21 05:38 PM
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I packed my bags up in the middle of the night, hopped on a flight, and then hopped in a car with some girl I had only met twice. Tell us more bro. What's the reasoning behind this and what about the girl.
/r/seduction17/01/21 06:07 AM
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It's all in our head.
/r/seduction12/07/20 08:41 AM
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Haha this guy
/r/seduction03/07/20 10:59 PM
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Yeah shoot your shot. If she doesn't recipracate move on.
/r/seduction30/06/20 01:28 AM
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I'm similar to you OP and dislike alcohol. You can setup dates in a way that doesn't revolve around alcohol such as hikes or going somewhere with a nice view to chill.
/r/seduction16/06/20 08:42 PM
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Haha a study should be conducted on this research question.
/r/seduction12/06/20 12:56 AM
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Good advice. From my experience I agree with everything you said and think more guys should take heed.
/r/seduction30/05/20 05:47 AM
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Firstly, how are you at conversation in general? Point is you want to identify if issue is with your conversation skills or just something lacking in your game. Secondly, you want to ask open ended questions this gets her talking more. You also want to figure out and ask questions she finds interesting e.g. hobbies. This will get her to invest more than you eventually.
/r/seduction14/05/20 04:54 AM
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Wouldn't recommend using selfies as in a dating profile if you're a guy. Candid shots look much more attractive.
/r/seduction14/05/20 04:03 AM
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No problem! Goodluck OP and keep safe.
/r/seduction11/05/20 01:06 PM
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No time is the perfect time Tbh. But maybe before you guys start making out and getting into the mood you could tell him about your inexperience in this. After this there should be constant communication about what you like and turns you on and vice versa for him. Also it's important to have an understanding partner aswell. Allot of guys I've heard about on here seem to be very selfish.
/r/seduction11/05/20 12:57 PM
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I'm a guy. And the best advice I can give you is just be honest with him. Communicate your lack of experience and he can likely take it slow.
/r/seduction11/05/20 12:41 PM
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I can attest to this. Had a girl that used to like me for a while and I asked her why she didn't approach me earlier she mentioned I always look serious and unapproachable. I try and smile more now.
/r/seduction11/05/20 12:09 PM
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Nope you're absolutely right OP. Although love isn't valued in today's society. You ask any female what she honestly looks for and she will say nice house, job, car, etc. Love will rarely get mentioned and same goes for men. It's unfortunate that we choose material things over happiness.
/r/seduction11/05/20 12:03 PM
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Stonks
/r/seduction10/05/20 08:57 PM
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Recently got into modelling myself. Here's some tips: Relaxed facials Relaxed shoulders Don't half arse poses; Go all the way. Research poses if you want Research how to 'squinch' Learn men's style. Clothing helps improve your looks significantly. Note: A model is only as good as his/her photographer.
/r/seduction10/05/20 05:22 AM
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I find texting, calling and video chats as-well aren't effective in dating. Various obvious reasons for this. Answer to your question OP: Don't bother if you don't like it. Wait till lockdown is over and go on regular dates.
/r/seduction09/05/20 05:03 AM
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From experience I can tell you you won't get anything valuable. For example, if you ask an average girl what they want/look for for in a guy, they'll tell you, "someone nice, caring, loyal, honest, smart, etc." But these same girls actually go for the next FBoy or guy that treats them like shit. Basically they say one thing and do the complete opposite. Note: Not all girls do this/are like this. But there's still a good amount of them that do. I recommend asking guys who are good with girls or w…
/r/seduction09/05/20 04:41 AM
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Have an abundance mindset. Simply move on
/r/seduction09/05/20 04:20 AM
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Maybe I missed something but which part of your interaction with her was a shit test?
/r/seduction07/05/20 03:51 AM
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Hmm thought it was pre-coded into all females but good to know. ​ Edit: " Been a female for many decades" - wait what were you before this lol?
/r/seduction07/05/20 03:49 AM
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You must be mentally strong. Unfortunately not all guys are/can be like that.
/r/seduction05/05/20 01:32 PM
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Shit tests are meant to test a guys confidence and/or reactions. But dude you seem to be attracting some straight up mean girls. Seems like you're handling them well though.
/r/seduction05/05/20 01:16 PM
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I agree. OP there's a reason why these precautions are in place. Use this time to improve yourself instead.
/r/seduction05/05/20 07:50 AM
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I get your point of view but you have to adapt with times bro. By limiting yourself to just girls in your proximity you limit your options so much. Especially if you live in a smaller city or town.
/r/seduction05/05/20 01:53 AM
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Good stuff OP. This is how it should be direct and number close sooner rather than later.
/r/seduction05/05/20 01:51 AM
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Thank you brother! I'm sure this will help all us guys looking to improve ourselves.
/r/seduction03/05/20 06:48 AM
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Awesome advice. Thank you!
/r/seduction03/05/20 06:36 AM
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Helpful. Thanks
/r/seduction03/05/20 06:35 AM
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sense of style. Any advice how one can improve this aspect?
/r/seduction03/05/20 01:15 AM
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"clothes, posture and body language, conversation skills and so on. " - Any advice on how one can improve on these? Any readings or resources you recommend.
/r/seduction03/05/20 01:12 AM
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Helpful post bro. Any resources/recommendations on improving non-verbal aspects of game such as eye contact, posture, etc.
/r/seduction30/04/20 03:36 AM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction16/04/20 01:12 PM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction16/04/20 01:12 PM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction16/04/20 10:04 AM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction16/04/20 10:03 AM
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Oh haha just realized. Thank you!
/r/seduction16/04/20 09:26 AM
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I agree. Although instead of turning off things I just kill the task itself on my phone. Only when I'm ready do I reopen the app.
/r/seduction16/04/20 09:14 AM
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Hey bro. Personally I'm using this time to improve myself so put dating on hold. In regards to your question I really don't see a point in doing this. Reason for this is because you can't physically meet and forcing interaction through texts always ends badly.
/r/seduction08/04/20 07:16 AM
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That's helpful; Appreciate you taking the time to respond. I'll give this ago. Thanks for that.
/r/seduction07/04/20 01:02 PM
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Thank you so much dude. I've screenshot it and hopefully this can help me with my journey aswell. Lastly wanted to know how you retain information from the books you read e.g. notes, memorize, etc.
/r/seduction07/04/20 12:05 AM
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fitness, fashion, career, finances, relationships, social skills, intellect, emotional intelligence but also mindset, attitudes, OP. Wanted to know how you improved these aspects of your life. Any course, books, videos you recommend?
/r/seduction06/04/20 12:07 AM
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He means in a man's journey, women shouldn't be the destination but should be part of the journey instead. If simplified, this means stop doing things just to get women but prioritize your energy and time trying to do things that will benefit you.
/r/seduction15/03/20 12:18 PM
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*sitting in silence intensifies
/r/seduction15/03/20 04:05 AM
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OP this right here should answer all your questions and show you the next steps in the right direction.
/r/seduction14/03/20 02:07 AM
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Stole the words right out of my mouth.
/r/seduction14/03/20 02:04 AM
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Good question bro. How often should we be talking to keep interest vs. be a texting buddy. Considering I despise texting regularly and prefer talking face to face I probably wouldn't be the best person to answer that. Won't see her in 1-2 months. Here's where the issue comes in. First, that's a very large amount of time. In that time you're going to have to keep messaging her else she will forget you. Bad thing about this is that eventually it will come off as forced and you may lose her if your…
/r/seduction12/03/20 03:31 AM
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I agree. There's not set in stone method or rule as to how to go about this. Sure you can text a girl and get to know her but from my experience an average good looking girl gets messages from multiple guys simultaneously and has a tonne of numbers on her phone. If your texting game isn't on par or e.g. you joke about something she doesn't find funny she will drop you like nothing. On the other hand for example when I was using dating apps I would get multiple numbers from different girls. Texti…
/r/seduction11/03/20 08:13 PM
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Well if you asked for her number and she gave you her number you both have a general idea as to who you're going out with.
/r/seduction11/03/20 08:05 PM
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OP you literally ripped off my post. Instead of trying to copy people's posts why not try and provide some value to readers by writing something original and new. I mean come on dude if you're going to rip someone off at least don't do recent posts. And for the love of God please stop spamming your YouTube channel links around different subs. If you actually had good quality content people would subscribe naturally not being forced like what you're doing. Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/seducti…
/r/seduction11/03/20 12:40 PM
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You have a point. But considering the average good looking girl has a tonne of guys saved on her phone and texting them simultaneously there's a high chance you'll fall down the pecking order and eventually get flaked upon. How about: there’s not one way to do it. I agree. But I'm talking 90% of the time use it to schedule dates not be another texting buddy. But there’s nothing wrong with building a rapport over text before scheduling to meet up. Well yes but doing this you risk losing her befor…
/r/seduction11/03/20 08:05 AM
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however, if there are no logistical obstacles, text should have no other purpose that moving to the date. You're absolutely right. However, I'm talking about the 90% of the time where texting direct is the best way to go. In certain circumstances such as what you mentioned is when you'd need to adapt a different route.
/r/seduction11/03/20 08:02 AM
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Removed and reposted. Because I want people to focus on the message being portrayed not the title.
/r/seduction11/03/20 01:54 AM
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Well I'd like to think anything that helps people form an opinion or make a decision/action is a guide. But I see where you're coming from. Can't change the title but feel free to remove mods, if inappropriate.
/r/seduction11/03/20 01:47 AM
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So i met a girl on tinder Find what she's after bro. You may be trying to lockdown a girl that just wants to get laid. she stopped texting after we set it. Tbh that's what you should've done. Only time you text her again is the day before the date to confirm if "we're still on for tomorrow?". The date was nice and i asked her on another one through text 2 days Hmm Abit early there my bro. Too early and shows you're needy and too late results in her moving on. Find the sweet spot. again she stopp…
/r/seduction07/03/20 07:41 AM
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Guys let me simplify this for you. Texting is a tool; only use it to set and schedule dates. That is all; nothing more, nothing less. Everything else should occur during the date itself.
/r/seduction07/03/20 07:16 AM
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Good advice but not sure it applies to all girls though. For instance I used to tell girls about my mental issues and try and be open but that just put them off me without even getting to know the real me. I guess I'm still genuine but tend to hide deeper things about me to try and be "normal".
/r/seduction05/03/20 04:27 AM
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Well done dude. You could have easily let negative feelings run free in your mind but instead you used it as a reason to better yourself. This is currently what I'm working on; well done and keep going.
/r/seduction19/12/19 07:26 AM
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Apparently Ibra is coming back to spanish league!
/r/seduction03/11/19 01:09 AM
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Any recommendations of the videos you mentioned?
/r/seduction02/11/19 02:10 AM
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Anyone here from Auckland, New Zealand?
/r/seduction22/09/19 03:17 AM
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Wait is that Slenderman? If so, what does that have to do with the message you're trying to share?
/r/MGTOW26/08/19 05:33 AM
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Good job brother. Better to be alone and in peace then be with toxic people that aren't good for you.
/r/MGTOW25/08/19 05:00 AM
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Yes but that shouldn't be what your life must be about
/r/seduction14/08/19 11:17 PM
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Yeah everyone has their own opinions and beliefs. Should learn to relax and enjoy life, champ. Agreed! Life's too short.
/r/seduction10/08/19 04:34 AM
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Hey bro, most possibly a liar - not a hypocrite. Sorry but I don't agree with you again. A liar is someone who is aware that they are not telling the truth. Whereas a hypocrite is someone who says one thing but does another. In this case, girls say they want a nice guy but psychologically go for bad guys. It's just the way it's hardwired in their brains and I know this from being both a nice guy at first and a bad one. So a hypocrite would be more relevant. Have you considered that your experien…
/r/seduction10/08/19 04:02 AM
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It's called being a hypocrite. And no, not surprised at all. I said that from experience just didn't agree with your advice that's all.
/r/seduction10/08/19 02:02 AM
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Yeah it's quite well written. Was thinking of getting his other books. Have you read or would you recommend them?
/r/seduction10/08/19 12:16 AM
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Currently reading models. Is his advice any good. Was it helpful for you?
/r/seduction09/08/19 11:42 PM
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From my experience girls don't know what they want themselves so no point asking them. Girl: Oh I just want a nice guy, that does x, and looks like x and treats me right. Girl: *goes for a douche that treats her like shit.
/r/seduction09/08/19 11:39 PM
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Hey bro, Don't blame the reader for your bad writting. Sorry when did I blame the reader. And if you're going to discredit someone's writing make sure yours is up to par please. Your first sentence has a spelling error genius. It literally means that is wrong to "try and get girls". It does not matter what you think you meant. That's what you wrote. Okay I'm a non needy man who has his shit together I know when I make a mistake and admit. But if 90% of people here understood my message and agree…
/r/seduction09/08/19 11:20 AM
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Hey bro. I'm tired of explaining my message to people who don't understand so you're the lucky last person: Let me start by saying you are correct but also not correct. Firstly, read my message carefully. I'm not telling you not to chase girls or not to practice pickup. I'm telling you don't make girls the destination. This means don't sacrifice your goals, ambitions and self belief for them. Don't spend absurd amount of time picking up, pleasing and spending time with women who will never recip…
/r/seduction08/08/19 12:45 PM
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Fair enough my bro. What I shared is my motto and mantra and is what I live by and has gotten me quite far in life. I'm not sure you understood what I meant so I'll try one last time because I fully stand by what I said: "girls should not be the destination." Countless times I've seen guys spend time, effort, energy and money trying to get girls. There's nothing wrong with this but what is wrong is when you make them your destination. For example I've seen guys skipping class, failing University…
/r/seduction08/08/19 12:30 PM
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I agree. Just don't sacrifice your self beliefs, goals and career to get these women. Getting the right women should be in line with these. What I mean is if you're e.g. failing in University, career going clubbing trying to pick girls won't help you on any way. Fix/work on what's important first then girls as a side effect. Balance is key!
/r/seduction08/08/19 02:32 AM
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No but an average guy will increase his confidence doing these things. And we all know confidence leads to female attraction.
/r/seduction08/08/19 02:29 AM
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Kaizen is key my bro. Never too late to learn new things
/r/seduction08/08/19 02:20 AM
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I'm really confused over here.. u talk to them u ignore them? Haha my bro the message I'm sending is not to ignore them but to prioritize what's important first then girls as part of your journey. Is a hug too much to ask for right now? If you're serious there's no shame in confiding in one of your girl, guy friends or even family and just asking for some affection and a hug.
/r/seduction08/08/19 02:19 AM
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This is what I live by, it is my motto and mantra. I'm getting tired of this stupid quote. And yes I'm also tired of seeing my fellow brothers spending all their time, energy and effort and money trying to get pussy. I see guys that put girls on a pedestal, be an orbiter while she bangs other guys. If you follow what I've shared you won't be in such situations. Kaizen is key!
/r/seduction07/08/19 10:01 PM
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If we look at approaching: then I agree with you. BUT! If you improve all aspects of yourself as I mentioned you will display 'non-neediness' this is important and you won't care about rejection. As a result you will become a high value man. Overall this will increase your chances of attraction. Not telling you to rethink trying to get girls but make it part of the journey not destination.
/r/seduction07/08/19 09:56 PM
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Hey bro. Here's my thoughts on your comment: I feel like you're mixing pleasure and instant gratification with what's good for you and will help you reach your potential. If you want pussy and you go for pussy, you’re going to be happy. I'll try use multiple examples to explain this: Caveman: do you think these guys had time to chase pussy. Absolutely not they had to hunt, protect and provide. This is what made them successful. Women of the tribe only chose the strongest and healthy male to prod…
/r/seduction07/08/19 09:51 PM
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Exactly! Make yourself the difference, unique, be non-needy, high value, be an alpha male.
/r/seduction07/08/19 09:38 PM
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Hey bro. Some of what you wrote is similar to my life story aswell. I responded in detail above so I'll keep it to the point. That's why I don't like those advice of work on yourself and it will be alright because it won't if I don't meet girls. You have to really read and understand the message I'm trying to share with you. Read carefully, "girls should not be the destination but be part of the journey." Think about it in caveman times. These men didn't have time to chase pussy. They had to get…
/r/seduction07/08/19 09:36 PM
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Hey bro, I completely understand what you're thinking and from reading a tonne and experience I'll try explain the message I'm trying to convey: You mean that If I keep going to the gym, keep working on myself and improving myself girls will just come themselves Read my message again properly. Girls should not be destination but be part of the journey. Meaning that as part of your journey to improve you joined the gym which is great. But while at the gym perhaps you will meet that special girl. …
/r/seduction07/08/19 09:27 PM
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What you wrote completely depicts what I'm trying to say: i had no hobbies, no friends and did not go to school, so all my time went to this girl This is what I'm tired of seeing. Yes, you put her on a pedestal. We're all guilty of doing this. Once you start doing this she will take you for granted. i had this «i can do anything i want at any time my life is gonna be so full of adventures now»-mindset Well said! She was attracted to you because you showed non-neediness i.e. you showed her that y…
/r/seduction07/08/19 09:07 PM
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Everyone has their own opinions bro. If you want to spend your life chasing girls, putting them on a pedestal, making them the reason for all your actions go right ahead. Just shows that you're a needy man. sex is a need not a want I agree. But it's a need only to produce offsprings not to focus all your time and energy trying to get. u dont know shit Yes, I'm no expert. Just what I've learnt from my experiences. u greedy fuck Sharing something I believe that may or may not help doesn't make me …
/r/seduction07/08/19 08:52 PM
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This could lead to home being in the friend zone. Honestly just make your intentions clear and if she doesn't reciprocate then move onto another girl. Don't be like those guys orbiting girls while she bangs another guy.
/r/seduction06/08/19 09:58 AM
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I agree! But at the time I was ignorant to what girls actions meant. But will do in future
/r/seduction05/08/19 11:13 PM
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Agreed! Live and learn I guess
/r/seduction05/08/19 08:09 AM
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Haha it was more of a playful punch to my arm. Although not sure if she just liked punching people or she liked me and was trying to get physical. Guess I'll never know.
/r/seduction05/08/19 08:02 AM
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What if she punched me?
/r/seduction05/08/19 03:19 AM
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Same boat as you my bro. but one advice I've been given is to not have time to think about it. Just jump straight into the set. Thinking is what causes approach anxiety. Also maybe having a wing-man or someone who will hold you accountable will help.
/r/seduction28/07/19 05:45 AM
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Inner game is your mindset and how you think. Outer game is how you look and act I believe.
/r/seduction07/07/19 12:47 AM
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Damn dude! My situation/background is similar to yours. Let me know how you manage to go about it?
/r/seduction27/05/19 09:22 AM
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Hey bro, I was quite similar to you when I was younger. Below are points that might be helpful: - don't compare yourself to other people. - go gym. You will physically look better and also mentally more confident and happier. If you can't afford this do calisthenics at home. - educate yourself/get some hobbies: the more knowledge you have the more conversations you can engage in/hold therefore connect with more people. Goodluck brother!
/r/seduction26/04/19 05:20 AM
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