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| 8 | Female attention means nothing unless it’s leads to something physical.lol what the incel | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 10:05 PM |
| 9 | Glasses in pickupur not even ugly pull ur head in | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 10:15 AM |
| 1 | What's the best way to maximize results from cold approaches?That's... literally just playing the numbers game. You're making more opportunities for yourself. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 04:34 AM |
| 2 | What's the best way to maximize results from cold approaches?Realistically, someone that is deep into PUA (dedicating time for approach etc.) is gonna get with around 5% of the shots they take (like 10% if we're being unreasonably generous). Everyone knows this is really just a numbers game. Doesn't matter how sexy or witty you are if someone is simply not available for a hook up or relationship. That's not saying looking good isn't important, but what gets you over the line is mostly just getting lucky. It's most productive to see yourself as being entit… | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Do you mind being "that guy"? If so, what do you do about it?Make an effort to be a little more aware of how people are responding to you. If they're not reciprocating, tone it back a lot or just stop. | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 01:16 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]It's more likely for a girl to be creeped out by a strange guy suddenly approaching her and talking about how he saw her through the window and would like to walk alongside them. Holy hell you'd have to be a super open person to even entertain that thought. What if she ain't interested? I wouldn't want to walk the same route if I knew someone was watching me everyday from afar. Just tell her you're into her after being friendly with the dog and ask if she's free sometime. If it works into a rela… | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 03:56 PM |
| 14 | [deleted by user]"I've been watching you for a long time now." | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 03:48 PM |
| 0 | Epic crash and burn after a k close (this one is gonna hurt to read)lmao deadass | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 04:20 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Or be based and read lacan | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 03:01 AM |
| 6 | Do you still believe in the whole "Alpha Male" thing?The alpha/beta fantasy is at best a very sideways method of accessing the basic OCEAN traits in psychology, and is more often than not a perverse representation of social hierarchies. Its use as an objective analysis of sexuality and dating is akin to that of treating masturbation as a substitute for the 'real deal'. | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 12:02 PM |
| 5 | Guy hasn't texted me in 11 days.Because you didn't reply. Duh. | /r/seduction | 27/11/20 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Do girls like to be called "Daddy" by their BF?lmao | /r/seduction | 28/10/20 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Empathy seems to be a fundamental you all forgetting here.fax | /r/seduction | 25/08/20 08:34 AM |
| 2 | Why is this so hard?Find something/several things to focus on other than trying to attract women. Most aren't stupid, and can probably tell that you're coming from a 'position of weakness' - something tells them that you're needy or resentful, and that's a generally off-putting quality. Think about it, with all this rage and frustration, would you want to date yourself? I'd recommend reading about Nietzsche's idea of 'amor fati' (love of fate), and higher man vs slave morality - which he argues are the two fundamen… | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 08:42 AM |
| 1 | A real man shows love to everybodyYeah I'd agree but prime Mike Tyson was pretty manly ngl | /r/seduction | 11/08/20 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Roadmen on the Trains.k | /r/seduction | 05/07/20 08:47 PM |
| 2 | a question about my genitalsGo to the doctor pls, sounds rough. | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 07:34 AM |
| 115 | This is the last post on Female Attraction you'll ever needtl;dr do well in multiple hierarchies | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Did I pass this Shit Test?And? | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Did I pass this Shit Test?Bro this is legit cringe. Talking behind people's backs is only appealing to others who like to talk behind people's backs. | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Why do people stay this subreddit if they hate seduction advice so much? Your "just be your best self" advice is just pure crap.Alright your not worth talking to. To dumb to understand how to pickup chicks. Have a nice day with your routines because that’s what all chicks like. Guys on this sub if you just use routines chicks will like you don’t worry don't do anything else just use my routines. “I know for sure you can't pickup good looking chicks in how you answered that question” so what you saying here is that you got the supreme answer on attracting chicks. How do you know how successful I am. And u assume we need t… | /r/seduction | 23/05/20 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Why do people stay this subreddit if they hate seduction advice so much? Your "just be your best self" advice is just pure crap.I read what you wrote you absolute brainlet. You, on the other hand, seem incapable of reading comprehension - how about you read what I'm saying (carefully this time, so you don't trip yourself up), and rewrite your response. God some people lack any self-awareness. If you can't wrap your head around what I've written, then you're not worth talking to because of how stupid you are then. Go out and actually talk to some people. Stop lurking around on PUA forums, and thinking up bro science psych… | /r/seduction | 23/05/20 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Why do people stay this subreddit if they hate seduction advice so much? Your "just be your best self" advice is just pure crap.Lmao Anyone can come up with a cute lil opening bud, you don't need to rote learn some routine to do that. Attraction is contextual and dependent on many subconscious factors - factors that aren't influenced by conscious action. Pinning down success on your ability to put up a thin veneer of charm is ignorant of that fact. Low neediness is a contender for the most desirable trait, if the other person isn't looking for a high maintenance partner. What sort of question even is that? It's like you'… | /r/seduction | 22/05/20 01:04 AM |
| 3 | Why do people stay this subreddit if they hate seduction advice so much? Your "just be your best self" advice is just pure crap.Because this subreddit isn't about PUA, and there are better ways to go about being attractive than learning 'tips' and routines. | /r/seduction | 20/05/20 09:08 AM |
| 1 | This community fucked me up. Fuck this place, just get out there and focus on being the best guy you can be and girls will come naturallyAmen | /r/seduction | 19/05/20 12:12 PM |
| 1 | People complaining about dating and PUA tactics as manipulative has failed to see the pointI think zero percent of the process occurs consciously. But that’s why people who are naturally good at or learned how to seduce another person use PUA like (key word) tactics to do it. ? PUA focusses on adjusting your behaviour to seek approval/acceptance/attraction from others. How isn't that a conscious process? I believe aside from the outliers the majority of human behavior is extremely predictable. It’s like clockwork so units easy to analyze what works and doesn’t work. That's exactly w… | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 01:17 AM |
| 1 | People complaining about dating and PUA tactics as manipulative has failed to see the pointThere's nothing to suggest that PUA tactics are a sound avenue of psychotherapy for people significantly affected by autism. Much of the problems manifesting in later life are primarily ameliorated by early intervention. Practicing 'push-pull' or whatever at age 20 isn't gonna address the underlying pathology. If you're actually going to give advice for people with communication disorders, and subsequent social problems, you should refer them to a good speech pathologist. If they just need more … | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 09:51 AM |
| 1 | People complaining about dating and PUA tactics as manipulative has failed to see the pointAttraction doesn't boil down to PUA tactics. Much of the time, getting laid is dependent on circumstance. Maybe you look like her ex, or she was feeling lonely, or being peer-pressured into hooking up with someone, or wanted to get out of a dry spell - point is, only so much of the process occurs consciously. Correlation =/= causation buddy. | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 04:15 AM |
| 1 | People complaining about dating and PUA tactics as manipulative has failed to see the pointThen you've divorced the word from all meaning. "Every human interaction is human interaction." Manipulation = "exerting shrewd or devious influence especially for one's own advantage". You also don't account for self-sacrificing behaviour. Are people just acting out to get a lil dopamine boost? You should probably get out more, jeez. | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 04:05 AM |
| 8 | People complaining about dating and PUA tactics as manipulative has failed to see the pointTwo words: "Prosocial behaviour". Lmao | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 11:48 AM |
| 5 | People complaining about dating and PUA tactics as manipulative has failed to see the pointPUA is counterproductive and needy af. Pretending to be un-needy is just another way of practicing desperation. Playing games, like push-pull, only attracts partners that either indulge in such games or are needy on their own part. Best-case scenario, it gets people out there so that they may teach themselves how to improve. However, It's more often that people attribute success and failure to how proficient they are at surface-level performances. Why go about general self-improvement in such a … | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 10:22 AM |
| 1 | "Pickup Artists Will Always Be Pathetic" Video and Why Society is FuckedObviously attraction isn't chalked up to building a high-status lifestyle, people still have to maintain their emotions and ability to approach. However, the willingness to approach is the least important if you're looking for long-term relationships with certain, high status women. PUA is a short term strategy because it is good at one thing: acting as a placebo effect to help get you out there, AKA prompting exploration with approach. However, learning routines and banter and framing to appear… | /r/seduction | 06/04/20 05:08 PM |
| 8 | "Pickup Artists Will Always Be Pathetic" Video and Why Society is FuckedPick up is wrong when people use its techniques as a crutch, and neglect putting in the work to make themselves more valuable. The criticism here is most relevant to those who subscribe to PUA and only manage, in the best-case scenario, to pull off the veneer of charm. It's barely a short-term strategy, and the whole act comes off as highly needy and unattractive once the facade eventually crumbles. | /r/seduction | 06/04/20 07:42 AM |
| 1 | meyou | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 06:14 AM |
| 1 | What are some of the physical things that men do when they are sexually attracted to a woman?Big peepee. | /r/seduction | 30/03/20 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Why Women Like Men Who Challenge ThemImo it's not needy, if you're really hung up on it you could always just tell them ur plans and invite them to come along. If someone's turned off by something as simple as that, or if someone's so emotionally constipated that they have trouble organising a second date, then I'm happy for them to reject me. | /r/seduction | 23/03/20 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Why Women Like Men Who Challenge ThemThere's a difference between being interested and being needy. Wouldn't you agree that telling someone straight up that you want to see them again, and that you're free next Saturday, is different from blowing up someone's phone? It's also less effort, and more efficient, than trying to seduce people while acting like you don't particularly care. When people forthrightly open themselves up to rejection, they display a level of self-confidence and social status that is genuinely attractive. Why e… | /r/seduction | 23/03/20 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Why Women Like Men Who Challenge ThemWell there's an obvious incongruity with your priorities and their priorities if, after waiting a week to text back, they don't bother to reciprocate. See the first paragraph, it takes two to tango. Even if you're not trying to shit test them, they may just think you're too high-maintenance since you're "naturally aloof". If you're busy, the least you should do is communicate that - and suggest a time when you're free. Sometimes that won't work out, which is just unlucky. Finally, the answer to … | /r/seduction | 23/03/20 03:13 AM |
| 6 | Why Women Like Men Who Challenge ThemKeeping a lower investment doesn't necessarily mean low investment. If both of you want a relationship, then you obviously need to put effort into that. You can be super invested if your partner's super invested. But don't try and go about moving in if they just want to see you every weekend. On playing 'games' to try and shit test others, like waiting a week before consolidating any plans, you're either going to... A. Come off as needy and high-maintenance, with people who see through the act, … | /r/seduction | 23/03/20 02:46 AM |
| 19 | Why Women Like Men Who Challenge ThemAKA maintain a lower level of investment while dating, and don't be a pushover (speak your truth etc.) | /r/seduction | 22/03/20 04:16 PM |
| 7 | Texting follow-up help.what u do is stop spamming up her phone like ur spamming up this subreddit blocked | /r/seduction | 21/03/20 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Why couldn’t Elliot Rodgers get laid?xd she has corona | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Why couldn’t Elliot Rodgers get laid?He was needy as hell, creepy as fuck, and was a ticking time bomb. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 10:23 AM |
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