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Thanks for the advice, but I don't have the frame and confidence to pull that off right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 09:09 PM
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Reading this and the other replies I can see that I overreacted (in a butt hurt way).
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 09:04 PM
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You are not out of line; you nailed it. I want honest replies even if it's harsh. And yes now that I think about it more the reason I give a shit, as you get at, is because I'm insecure.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 10:15 AM
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Congrats on being a better man than me.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 10:11 AM
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Thanks. You are right.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 10:09 AM
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That was one of the most cringe worthy, pathetic, things I've ever read. If I had read it pre TRP I probably would of felt bad for the wife that she had such a hard day and thought he sounded like a super nice guy who would be getting laid a lot in a few years once the kids are older and less stressful; once she finally has enough child-free time to think her own thoughts, and conclude that she wants to make love to him non stop out of appreciation for being so nice whilst she was attending to t…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 11:03 AM
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I think the response "well, you'd have to be 10 years younger" is very good. However, it all depends on the tone. If you say it in a butt-hurt tone it's bad. Say it with a slight smirk like you think it's ridiculous that a pop star would even give her a chance, then it's good. Don't sound butt-hurt, you want her to think you think it's funny she even considered she would have a chance. If she presses you about what you meant, then something like "It's nothing personal babe, guys like that only g…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 10:31 AM
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If he felt like eating sushi for dinner then it's not a time sink, he's just doing what he wants to do and inviting her along for the ride with the bonus he might get laid. I guess it comes down to if he's paying for her or not... if he doesn't particularly like sushi, is paying for her meal, in the hope he may get his dick wet, then yes it's a time sink.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 09:44 AM
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It also implies he has been busy all day - which is an attractive thing. I think it would of been much worse if he gave a reason for why he only just saw it ("I've been at work all day"), instead he lets the hamster spin a bit ("out on a date with another girl").
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 09:29 AM
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From your replies to other comments it seems like you're rationalizing and making excuses too much. You have had sex with her TWO TIMES ever (I think I read in a previous post you've been married for years???), it's time to start listening to guys who have had more success and trying something different even if it goes against all your blue pill programming. Keep working on your SMV. At best it will increase her desire, at worst you will be in a better position to get some hot young pussy once y…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/15 09:03 AM
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""ugh, thus picture is awful." I like Athol's response to this (as mentioned in another comment). Personally I often say something like 'it's not the greatest picture of you babe, but I'd still hit it', in a slightly cheeky voice. The last thing you want to do is always say 'you look great in that photo, what are you talking about' when it's obvious it's a terrible photo. You also don't want to say something like 'ewww gross your double chin is really showing in that light isn't it'... I think a…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/15 08:52 AM
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I don't say this lightly, but yes you should call it off. She is not attracted to you and marriage will only make her less attracted to you, leading to even less sex. Even if you start to improve yourself and dread her into more sex, I would be very concerned that she wants to marry you right now when she's not attracted to you, that indicates she is using you and you're a clear BB. I would be very worried about her mind set. Note - If you ask she will say she is attracted to you, but clearly sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/15 08:21 AM
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Thanks for the advice. I've started reading Married Mens Sex Life Primer, it's great so far, No More MR Nice Guy is next on the reading list.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 09:23 AM
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Thanks for the advice, particularly the link to /r/marriedredpill. I've started reading Married Man Sex life Primer and so far (about a third of the way through) it's perfect - exactly what I needed to read.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 09:10 AM
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What's the reason for not letting her know I'm jacking it, if she's not putting out? She asks me this quite often actually and I'm never sure if I should be honest (which is every day we don't have sex). Usually I don't admit to it and say something ridiculous like 'only 10 times today'.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 08:02 AM
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Agree with your comments, however the reason I didn't leave is because she had already told my daughter (the older one) that they were going to a movie and I didn't want my daughter to be disappointed, nothing to do with my wife missing out. It pisses me off though, as I'm pretty sure she only purchased them online when she noticed I was getting ready to go out. And she knows I'm not going to let my daughter be disappointed.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 07:55 AM
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I just purchased the kindle version from Amazon. I should of done this when it was recommended to me on here several months ago.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 07:48 AM
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I agree if she makes an ultimatum then I shouldn't cave. I'm not so sure what to do if she straight up initiates though. And yeah I agree, the only real answer long term is to hit the gym and up my smv. I'm not in good shape.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 07:39 AM
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I can't leave, my daughter (the older one is at the movies with my wife) is in her cot sleeping. If I wasn't looking after her, I would of already left.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 07:36 AM
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