reidcm Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	How should I respond to "You're too old for me"? "At least now that I finally reached 17 mom lets me borrow the station wagon on weekends. We should have a great time." Big smile. BTW, I'm 35. :)	/r/seduction	21/01/15 05:44 PM
1	Day cold approach: defusing the "why are you talking to me?" look. I've noticed that when I start a conversation with a random stranger (anywhere, not just seduction), if I go through the "Hi, how are you?" the conversation is often stilted and awkward. Consider just bypassing all that and going straight into the conversation. For example, based on your scenario, you see that girl hammering away on her phone again. Jump directly into whatever it is you want to say. Then do the introductions if you find that you're interested in her. "I'm surprised that phone is…	/r/seduction	09/02/14 03:41 PM
78	Example of max level PUA. Worth the read. No seriously I can't stress this enough, fucking read it. I like your bravery and your different way of looking at it. Upvotes all around. But I would also like to challenge you. Assuming that everything that you said is true, does it detract from what this gentleman does or the lesson that people can learn from it? I do some public speaking. Does the fact that I start with an exciting opener or question make me less of a speaker even though I engage the audience and get them interested? Any public speaking textbook includes those in the list of ten ea…	/r/seduction	07/02/14 02:33 AM
2	7 years after learning about the game, I am yet to talk to a girl Hilarious! I thought I would be the only person that would attempt skydiving to try to tackle some of my fears with women. The crazy thing is it actually helped me a lot. Then I found out I really liked skydiving. I just completed Jump #33 last weekend. Here's me finishing my student course: http://youtu.be/PJttgI0wQCI	/r/seduction	23/05/12 12:32 AM
2	7 years after learning about the game, I am yet to talk to a girl I agree with TofuTofu. If FBISurveillanceVan has spent seven years with severe approach anxiety, his problem isn't simply that he can't approach. At this point, the game and women should be the least of his worries. He needs to go a lot deeper and figure out why he's so anxious. Once he starts working on acknowledging and resolving those issues, then focus on game again.	/r/seduction	23/05/12 12:27 AM
2	7 years after learning about the game, I am yet to talk to a girl Let me make two suggestions. First, as TofuTofu pointed out, your issues go beyond what any message board can offer. Seek professional help with a therapist. After being introduced to game, I went through a period in my life where I began to wonder whether I would ever be able to have relationships or friendships of any substance or fun. I went to a therapist to get some direction and just to talk out how I felt. It was one of the best decisions I ever made. I gained clarity, a new confidence, a…	/r/seduction	23/05/12 12:23 AM
2	Tucker Max Gives Up the Game: What Happens When a Bestselling Player Stops Playing? I feel the author's pain when he talks about being the weakling, always being envious of others, and the PUA stuff. This article brought forward an idea I've had in the back of my mind for a while - go to therapy. Frankly, if even Tucker Max sees benefit in it, it might be helpful for me too.	/r/seduction	22/01/12 05:52 PM
2	sleepynate's guide to unlocking the achievement of confidence Awesome advice sleepnate! Many people that I've met in 'the game' are usually shy and withdrawn in general. I, like many others, always hoped for the 'magic wand'. If I do X, poof, the magic wand will fall on me and I'll suddenly feel like or be like X. No work, no thought. It will just happen. It doesn't. Changing yourself takes work and a lot of awkwardness. If anyone reading this has issues with shyness I would like to recommend a great organization. Toastmasters. It won't completely solve yo…	/r/seduction	21/10/11 04:34 AM
15	Made other approaches today... almost ended up crying. Congrats! You're super nervous but you went out and tried anyway. You trembled, maybe made a fool of yourself, and didn't give in. You manned up and went for it despite the obstacles. Awesomeness man!	/r/seduction	08/10/11 07:15 PM
3	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned I spent some time in Thailand and got some really cool and fitted suits made. They're top-notch - in any business environment. I've had limited success out in clubs, even high-end clubs. Usually, I think it either looks dorky, or it sets me so apart from everyone else I'm unapproachable and out of some women's league.	/r/seduction	17/09/11 10:30 PM
19	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned Dude, you just solved a major problem for me. I work shift work and I'm off on odd days and odd times. I've always had a problem finding the 'happening place' for when I'm able to go out. The yelp idea is great. I've tried searching Google a thousand times with hit and miss results. I liked your other ideas as well. You sound like a smart, cool guy. I've recently started forcing myself to do very uncomfortable approaches, and I can relate to some of your advice.	/r/seduction	17/09/11 10:28 PM
1	4 years later, still no approaches... What's up throaway? Often, when I go out to "game" my goal is to talk to as many people as possible - men, sales clerks, a quick joke while holding the door open for a woman I'm not interested in, and even some innocent and sly flirting to an octogenarian or two. The point is to be social and have a good time. You've received some excellent advice by some of the people in the comments. First, I agree that your inner game is not good. You can't feel confident and insecure at the same time. If you…	/r/seduction	13/08/11 01:54 PM
3	Nick Savoy Love Systems PUA Q&A Hey chumpta, I attended a Love Systems Bootcamp last month. While I haven't had any experience with the competitors, I can tell you that Love Systems and the instructors are top-notch. Everyone came away from the Bootcamp I attended feeling like they gained tremendous value and knowledge. Everyone was impressed. In addition, we had a blast and saw immediate results from our training in the club. One of our attendees hooked up with a girl, I had great interactions with two 7-8s, something I've ne…	/r/seduction	16/02/11 03:28 AM
6	Nick Savoy Love Systems PUA Q&A Hey Savoy, I took a Love Systems Bootcamp with Vercetti in Las Vegas last month. Vercetti and the rest of the team that flew out to Vegas were phenomenal. I learned a ton, and I've continued to try to sharpen my skills and "get out there". Post Bootcamp, what are some tips to continue with learning and moving towards mastery?	/r/seduction	16/02/11 03:16 AM