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Unsurprisingly I got banned from FDS for commenting on nicegirls, got unbanned with a warning, and then I got banned for saying I read Dan Savage and got dogpiled by a bunch of crazies who didn't have an actual reason why they didn't like him just "look it up" and when I did there was nothing. That place started off as a decent idea centered around female empowerment and self-confidence in dating and then rapidly went down the drain. Now mention on any XX sub that you listen to Joe Rogan (not LI…
/r/PussyPassDenied25/10/20 09:39 PM
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I think it's because we just weren't even in their radar. I was overweight in my teens and was only bullied by gross boys. The attractive and athletic ones just never paid any mind to me at all. I was also really never bullied in general. I didn't belong to any groups, I wasn't popular enough at all to be on anyone's radar. Except other fat and ugly girls and fat short ugly boys. I had a pretty face I just was about 60lbs heavier than I should have been. Funny how when I lost weight all the assh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 07:16 PM
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Man all the times I've been blackout drunk I legit don't remember what the fuck happened. If there were no credible witnesses then to this day I still have no idea what I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 06:35 PM
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Honestly I’m a very independent person. I tend to get annoyed with constant contact with people even loved ones. I need downtime to do my own thing on my own schedule. When he’s home I find my schedule turns to shit. We have a lot of fun but it’s difficult to take care of myself and maintain my daily routine when someone else is around. I do miss him. He used to be gone 6 weeks on and off at a time and that was rough. I do wish he worked from home and I saw him every night but he makes really go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:16 PM
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I don't want kids either. I don't want my relationship to change when I have kids. I don't want to lose my lover and gain a father of my child. I don't want to argue every day over who changes the diaper, takes the kid to school, etc. I already keep track of his appointments and "to do" list and I don't want to do more. I don't want to do everything, or almost everything, that most mothers end up trapped doing. That said my opinion changes based on the quality of male I'm dating at the time. The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 12:24 AM
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Also if you ask women what they watch, it's literally not anything marketed towards the straight male. It's lesbian and gay, because it's more real and tender, and less rapey. M on F porn is almost always the man overpowering and hurting the woman. I could stretch it and say more women probably would watch porn if 99% of it wasn't so fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 11:59 PM
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No wonder he's socially fucking broken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 12:46 AM
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OMFG please tell me people in the comments tore him apart?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:11 PM
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Yep. You have to just stop. Your private sessions are probably going to take a hit - you won't be getting your normal stimulus so you won't be turned on, or as turned on, probably won't be able to orgasm, you'll be frustrated. It takes awhile but your brain will figure it out and you'll get back to normal. It's like cutting any addiction or quick hit of serotonin. It's hard for awhile and then it's not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:02 PM
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Yeah let me know ahead of time if I'm gonna be paying for myself because I'm gonna show up in whatever I was wearing the day and might comb my hair but I'm not gonna show up looking like a 10 if he's not gonna treat me like I am. That said... That's probably a joke ... Maybe .... Anyway Out of all the dates I've ever been on, I actually offer to pay for myself or both of us, if I've already decided I'm not into him. If I want to see him again, I let him pay. If I want him out of my life ASAP the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:01 PM
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It all sounds a lot like "give them a chance to fix it" and "they don't know any better" umm I'm sorry who the fuck taught me to be a respectful, kind, caring and giving human being? It costs nothing to not be an asshole. I'm not gonna sit around and beg you to be nice to me and show you how to love me. You either do or you don't. If you don't, get out of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:55 PM
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Tbh calling them stupid for something like that is not much different than us calling girls Pickmes who are still indeed doing something stupid. It doesn't mean they are bad it just means they can do better - and let us show them the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:21 PM
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It's easy to disregard the intent of her creation when you realize the identity she's become, and also realize her creator was a sad lonely horny man drawing his kinks back in the days when it was still cool and normal to hate and abuse women (oops not much has changed) His creation grew out of his control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:20 PM
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I think thosekinds of people (the rude type not your sweet beau!) think it makes them edgy and original to be a contrarian but it actually just makes you tiring and miserable to be around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 05:43 PM
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The idea that someone would take action vs corporate America and materialism out on their significant other is ridiculous to me. I hate this so YOU don't get to enjoy it either!! I hate Christmas with a passion but it brings other people joy. Who am I to be a miser and deny them this? "Merry christmas!" "Well actually you know it was a pagan holiday and Jesus isn't real and buying all this stuff is just stuffing the pockets of the fat cats and nobody even needs all this and it's very materialist…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 05:28 PM
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Y'know what's funny? I posted about this on Facebook and ONLY women replied and joined the discussion. I'm friends with a lot of smart and well spoken and well educated women and it was a rational discussion. Not a single male comment anywhere. I can't say I'm surprised or disappointed. I thought maybe someone would try to defend their position somehow but I assume they would have felt guilty and disgusting considering how many women had strong opinions about it. Not even a single male "wow that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:17 PM
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Lmao why are they so ashamed if it’s sO nOrMaL? Guilt is leading you to a moral judgement there bud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:38 PM
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Whenever they ask for anal I say only if you let me do it first. If they suggest weird toys or BDSM I tell them to get a dick sleeve implying their member is too small because I'm a size queen. Threesome? Let's go hotwifing first. They're never up for it. Not very adventurous are they? If you're going to attempt to degrade me sexually you're getting it right back at ya. Oh, by the way, your underwear is by the door, get out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 06:36 PM
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That statement actually says a lot about how he feels about relationships and love - that people are replaceable. A hotter woman or a cute Pickme will come by and he'll go for her. Instead of staying with what he's built and invested in back at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 02:20 PM
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I was talking to a male friend about LVM vs HVM (we weren't talking about dating or LDS or anything in general, I actually can't remember how we got on the topic). But he told me that men view High Value as success, as in money, prestige, class. I told him most* women don't feel that way. I told that a HVM creates security with a woman, and that YES, of course success/money does lend to security, but you can be successful and be a LVM (in fact look at all the rich men who cheat on their women - …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 02:17 PM
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I always feel sad when I read those responses about how men are sad they don't get complimented more. Dude! I would LOVE to. I will compliment you on your hair, your beard, your clothing choices, your effort you put into something (cooking/baking, working out, whatever! The sky is the limit!) But ... but ... once that happens they think I'm interested. And this is because they don't compliment each other. And because when a woman compliments them, they think they're interested. In the same parag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 02:10 PM
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I'm just gonna flat out say I hate condoms. They hurt. Latex and non latex. And I've had a couple experiences where the condom falls off. And they're gross (my dogs will gladly dig through the trash). I will always use condoms with men I'm not in a long term relationship with though. It's a necessary sacrifice. I will never sleep with a man who complains about it. I am on birth control pills but I hate the idea of a systemic hormone. Other than acne control I just hate the whole thing. I am not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:22 PM
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An easy way for me to tell is to make some kind of controversial statement and see how easily they agree with me. Men who are actually friends with me will disagree and men who are otherwise will agree with me and I'll always be right. The kind of controversial statement depends on their personality and what you know about each other though. There's no one statement fits all. Use context and social cues. That said as long as they mind their boundaries and aren't creeps I'll continue being their …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:16 PM
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Coffee dates allow me to bail ASAP. Love them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:20 PM
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Oh my God the idea of that just sounds terrible. I'd have to listen to someone I'm not interested in drone on and on just for food? No food is too expensive for me to pay it for my damn self and avoid that whole scenario. Now if I'm dating someone and actually like him, uh, yeah, feed me please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:18 PM
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My mom gave me AWFUL advice and never supported me during a break up (it was always my fault) and once when moving out of a guy's house I refused to give the key back until I got all my stuff but she sat in his driveway and wouldn't take me home until I gave it to him and guess what? It took MONTHS to get my stuff back. My mom was also in an abusive relationship with my father for a majority of her life so she was just really clueless. I'll never forget how she never stood up for me or supported…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 01:09 PM
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That meme posted on nicegirls where it said "why are you single" and ended in "first off I'm not the problem" With people mocking it I'm like wtf? It's like that other one where someone said why are you hungry when there's a perfectly good hotdog on the ground. Umm I went on countless dates. COUNTLESS. And didn't end up with them because I didn't want them. Yeah I could have but I'm not desperate. Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 05:20 PM
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Ugh I'm so glad I never got called out for this. I had one go-to sexy pic I would send out if I liked a guy enough to be sexting. That way I didn't have to get up and do anything fancy to look cute and send something. I could literally be laying on the couch in my sweatpants covered in potato chip crumbs and my hair hasn't been washed in four days and I would send it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 12:35 PM
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Man I remember the first couple of years of having sex I was like "What the fuck, this is what I was waiting for? This hurts/is lame/boring" and I'd literally be just waiting for them to hurry and get the fuck off. I knew I could climax from oral and the boys I dated usually obliged, but not all the time and honestly it takes awhile so like, I have other shit to do... anyway I figured out that if I faked an orgasm they'd get super excited and finish as I was faking it. So I could get on with my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 12:32 PM
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Ok so, I just have to say something because the whole thing of everyone blaming Megan for all this is driving me bonkers (she's an easy scapegoat, just blame the woman, she'll steal you away) Harry has always kind of been the black sheep anyway, but other than some stupid teenage hijinks (I think?) he's always been a good man (not linked to the pedo shit and all the other weird crap his family has been into). It's probably not really like he had to be super convinced, he was already one foot out…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 11:25 AM
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Most wealthy men I've met were absolute turds. They brag and flash and hold it above your head. And even if they don't hold it above your head from the start, at some point, some day, they will make a comment either flat out, or implying, that they don't think your job is as important as theirs, and that your income (if you're the low earner) is not useful. It will come out some day. And like the saying goes, men only hate gold diggers if they can't afford one. Flashing money is a good way to br…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 10:14 AM
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Haha mean comment Judgemental accusations lol Lol haha lol if you're mad I'm just joking Haha right babe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 08:54 PM
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Don't ever let anyone question your choices, period. I hate it when I state a preference and someone replies "Well you ___ so you can ____" NO. THAT IS NOT WHAT I SAID. Respect my decision.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 11:18 PM
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It's because there's too many spaces at the beginning. Less than 3(I think) and it will format properly, more than that it does the weird quote box. "I’ve run into a few guys who are not willing to cater to your needs/preferences when setting up a date. For example, I matched with a guy online and he asked me to get drinks and a pizza with him. I was choosing healthier lower carb options plus I’m gluten intolerant so I have to watch how much bread I eat. I told him that I prefer to eat healthier…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 11:16 PM
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I left all social media and I have never felt better. I did have to reactivate Facebook just for stupid social appearances or events but I no longer use it. And seriously fuck Instagram. I started out using it for lifting and fitness and like 99% of that world is soft core porn and posing fake models and eating disorders and bullshit. I also side eye any males who use insta for reasons that need not be explained.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 06:59 PM
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OLD is the only way I meet men who don’t interact with me just to cat call me or hit on me. There were a few men who talked to me at the gym and were non threatening (never hit on me, talked to me as a peer) and I could see that having worked out but then if we dated and it sucked it would have ruined the gym. If I were still in college or an extrovert with a large friend group I could see meeting someone organically actually working but... nope I’m in my 30s and an introvert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 04:15 PM
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My ex had a micropenis and it actually wasn't a huge deal (lol). I don't climax from penetration and he only lasted like two minutes max so it didn't bother me, like to sit there and wonder if it was in yet or whatever, he was good in bed other ways, we were together for a really long time. Lots of other issues though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 07:24 PM
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So idk how much weight this carries as we were all like 20 years old, but like 16 years ago I played an online game/MMO and somehow the topic of cheating came up and I was like one of the two women in the guild while the overwhelming majority were male. I still remember this like it were yesterday because it confused me so much. But I put out a poll what's worse your partner cheating on you emotionally or physically? And me and the woman said emotional and then all the men said physical. So it's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 01:26 PM
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Dude I dated a guy a full foot taller than me and he was so freaking boring I could have died. I basically kept seeing him because on paper he sounded perfect and my mom would have loved him but ugh I'm too funny and smart to drag myself down like that. Also kissing someone that much higher than me really really really hurts my neck. Current bf is my exact height, super hot, pretty smart, fairly generous in bed, and pays for almost everything but he has a very low emotional IQ which is where mos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 01:14 PM
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Physical affection is one of my love languages and not the highest (acts of service) it's still up there... I've been a member of that subreddit for a long time afterh last relationship we had sex twice in the last 8 months of our relationship. That said... A lot of times reading the posts I'm left thinking "has he ever attempted to make sex nice for her? If so, how often? Every time?" Good service leads to repeat customers y'know what I'm saying? I have a pretty high libido but I also absolutel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 12:43 PM
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I'm the opposite actually - I don't have family around because they're toxic and I make it absolutely clear, zero uncertainty, that I don't tolerate people who treat me poorly. This includes faAaAmiLy so if I'll ditch them I'll ditch your toxic ass too. I'm also an introvert so I seek other introverts. I tend to not enjoy men who have a large family or who are super family oriented because that means they usually keep toxic shitty people around in the name of faAaAmiLy and thus by extension I ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 11:35 PM
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I've only dated one man who didn't have an Oedipus and Jacosta complex and he was also the only one who didn't beat his dick senselessly to images of women he longs to be with online. Unfortunately he also still couldn't clean up after himself for some reason. What are men going to do when all women reach this level? I don't need your limp dick (I've got an amazing vibrator that guarantees me an orgasm every time) and I don't need your money (I've got an amazing job and simultaneously I'm a mini…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 09:17 PM
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Lol! Nooo don't worry. There were my natural creases and now I have smile wrinkles. I find them charming on people (better than frown lines). Those are probably just you and you should cherish them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 07:37 PM
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Only if you sign a prenup first of course. Blah blah blah men get fucked in court blah blah whine. I too hate that this is my experience. Even my male friends have said some awful things about their girlfriends or wives or their ideals in dating. Like wtf I don't even want to talk to men anymore. If this isn't a sign that sexuality is something you're born with then IDK what is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 07:35 PM
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My age didn't really start showing until I was like 32 and it's just some smile lines under my eyes. I've had stretch marks since puberty hit me hard at 11 so not even my body has changed much (just as many disgusting men cat called me as I was riding my bike home from school as they do now when I'm out running to the bank - gross). Most men don't care what you bring to the table, they just want a hot bang girlfriend (they don't even want to get married) they can show off. they want to reduce re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 06:47 PM
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I feel like someone just stabbed me right in the heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 11:02 AM
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🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 10:39 AM
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I do like some facial hair because I think a lot of men just look too young without it but I'm super sick of the duck dynasty beards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 05:51 PM
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I can't get over the fact that those ridiculous points are what he got after reading this sub. You find what you're looking for I guess. He was already looking for reasons to leave her, if this post is even real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 07:30 PM
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Oh my God this is amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 10:37 PM
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Being high value is more about effort than anything. We can't all control our looks or our salaries, we can't control all of the cards we've been given, so we make the best out of them that we can. It's consistent, sustained effort. Don't stagnate, don't go stale. You can't compare yourself to someone else, because you're not them. You can only be the best you that you can be. So don't date someone who isn't being the best them that they can be, because you wouldn't do that to yourself either ri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 03:35 PM
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My friends bought me this ridiculously large glitter pink dildo- like idk 12" long and atleast 2" across. The size of my forearm. You could have clubbed someone with it I'm sure. Literally unusable without probably some serious training. Anyway my ex found it when he was looking for something in our closet and got all sad puppy like and threw a huge pity party and said it made him feel like less of a man. I seriously laughed so hard. Yeah if you wanna take it that way then any man should feel li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 11:52 PM
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Lmao it's so ridiculous. It's been so normalized in sexuality YET like 99% of them will bitch and moan about having to go down on a woman. I know popular opinion here is to wait before sex, but I have a high libido and I need to know before I waste my time on some selfish chump that he's game and going to care about my pleasure. If they're bad or selfish in bed they see the door. This seriously weeds out so, so , SO many men who otherwise would have seemed worthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 11:32 PM
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I'm only calm when I've given up so it's not particularly a good sign lol... He comes back Wednesday so we have a few more days. He texted me last night and we did talk a tiny little bit so he's trying but it's nowhere near what it used to be or should be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 01:30 PM
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I'm not really sure at this point - we live together so it depends on his methods of 'damage control', if any, when he returns home from work. Otherwise it's gonna be real super awkward! lol Oh yeah I used to be super reactive and angry and point out bullshit immediately, but it's becoming tiring. It's not my problem if he doesn't know how to act like a normal human being in a relationship with someone, and I'm not going to babysit him and teach him anymore either, so he better figure it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 11:33 AM
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Man I'm just gonna do me and go about my life and if he wants to act right he's welcome to it but I've got my job and my dog and my friends and hobbies that can have me instead 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 04:36 PM
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Yeah he thinks I'm mad at him (we did have a brief chat where he asked why I was mad and I told him he stopped making effort so I did too) and thennn... 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 10:20 AM
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It's absolutely frustrating that their courting behavior changes once theyve got you. I give what I get so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 10:18 AM
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I feel kinda numb about it TBH :/ kinda disappointed. Kinda mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 10:13 AM
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Yep, no answer is actually an answer, just not the one I wanted..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 10:12 AM
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Two year anniversary is coming up - we live together even.but he travels for work 50% of the time. I think it would be more common if I dropped the reins more often.. I usually don't because I'm pretty obnoxious and pushy but it's exhausting being the driving force.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 10:11 AM
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I stopped being the one to initiate everything with my boyfriend and guess what! We haven’t talked since LAST Tuesday. Welp 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 12:46 AM
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Ditto! I would feel inappropriate to spend any time with a male friend (my best friend is a male but he's so asexual and harmless and anyone who met him would realize) and I would expect the same from my partner. I barely bring up my female friends as it is, other than if there's a party or outing with several people, so it would set off some red alarms if a female friend of my partner started popping up in stories. It's never "me or her", if there's a her then there's no me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 09:03 PM
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I used to be possessive and jealous! I still am to an extent (partner porn use really messes me up and kills my ability to love my partner) but I’ve come to realize feeling bad like that won’t make them turn around and stop and love me and fix it... they’ll just get better at lying and hiding it. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 08:47 PM
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When I think about it he clearly has some power struggle issues and uses his income and material goods as a way to make up for how he lacks severely in every other aspect of his life. His new wife is a sweet girl but she deserves better - but she was looking for a stable father figure for her son because her ex husband was a total absolute complete pile of garbage. Unfortunately she found a neglectful piece of trash who was an upgrade from previous but still trash. He writes on his reddit about …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 06:21 PM
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OMFG for shits and giggles I just looked up his reddit account and he just made a comment on some political sub about how he'd gladly pay more taxes if it meant helping his fellow man... but he always held the fact that he made 7x my income above my head and wouldn't even give me a grocery "allowance". You'd theoretically pay more taxes to help a random stranger but not allow your GF of 10 years buy something other than breadsticks and hot wings for dinner? Right, put up or shut up. Every now an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 06:13 PM
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He cheated on me ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ And got married less than three years of being together with her despite us being together close to 10 years and nothing close to a proposal. I'm not gonna lie, I still miss him and probably always will, I have nice dreams about us sometimes. We did have good times and got along extremely well and in general he was very sweet and good to me. But our intimacy was awful, he was neglectful (ADHD and obsession with video games), and then, yknow, at the end cheating on me w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 06:08 PM
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Ouch. Insert "i feel personally attacked" meme comment. "Healthy love is kind, considerate, thoughtful, reciprocal and nourishing." The guy I'm dating right now will every now and then do a grand gesture type of thing, which is wonderful, but I prefer small and consistent reminders that he's thinking of me. And every time it involves dropping a lot of money.... fancy night out for our anniversary, large shopping spree to decorate our living room, expensive presents at Christmas... as a very frug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:33 PM
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This is frightening to me. I've always had a high libido but I'm at the tipping point where mine is currently increasing and all men in my appropriate age range start decreasing. My previous LTR was a deadbedroom situation and it was so lonely and miserable and yet... and YET ladies... I was still picking his dirty boxers up off the floor and cooking him dinners where he'd complain if there were vegetables. FFS, love is a hell of a drug, it was like stockholm syndrome or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:06 PM
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It really just kind of depends - it's called something like the "honeymoon period". Where both parties are on their best behavior. What's important is to keep the effort going even after the honeymoon period is over. Don't ever stop courting each other. Of course you can only control yourself - so if your man stops at some point, he's either out of the honeymoon period or he's bored/done/found someone else/whatever. Either way no matter what, it's time to reconsider the relationship and ask your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 03:58 PM
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I always say good business gets repeat customers. I have a very high drive, but if my partner is not good, why would I try that again? Of course I'm not going to want to have sex if I know it's going to be lackluster and I'll be left without release. Can guarantee men would not want sex if after two pumps you made them stop, or you'd just lick a little and be like "did you cum yet? I'm bored". They'd go masturbate and stop pestering you because you weren't a reliable source. DEAR MEN. IF YOU WAN…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 12:01 AM
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I can only multi-orgasm when masturbating. If it's from a partner it's such a great orgasm that I'm one-and-done. Different sensations and there's more feelings and stuff with a partner than just a vibrating wand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 11:59 PM
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Sure! What's the chances of BOTH of us being an axe murderer?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 11:54 PM
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When someone is interested in you, there will be no uncertainty! They will make it abundantly clear that you are the one they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 11:51 PM
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I'm starting to find myself in the same spot. I look back at every relationship I've had, whether it was short or long, and see something that I was taken advantage with whether it was blatant or not (ie obvious abuse, vs just laziness). I spend a lot of time on personal growth - identifying my problems and fixing them. I realize most humans are in some point of growth, not all of us want to stagnate and be terrible human beings. But so many men I have met, some men that I have loved, will have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 07:02 PM
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Probably not because TBH if she tried to leave the marriage something awful would likely happen. :( She's not leaving that marriage alive that's for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 11:24 PM
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