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| 0 | "Rape" fantasies are the result of being sexually repressed. They are not an actual desire to be raped.The ultimate part of rape fantasy is that it is a fantasy. It ends as soon as you want it to. It goes exactly as you want it to. Kink play is consensual and trust is mandatory. The scene ends whenever you want it too. Nobody wants to be raped. Rape doesn't end when you want it to. Rape doesn't go like you want it to. I hate seeing them compared. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/21 12:57 AM |
| 3 | "Rape" fantasies are the result of being sexually repressed. They are not an actual desire to be raped.This is a weird thought. I was raised religious and I understand having those thoughts but by no means do I think all people have them. Hell, I dont even have those thoughts. I think you need to continue your journey through theocracy and self discovery. People have similar thoughts with vastly different reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/21 12:53 AM |
| 1 | "Rape" fantasies are the result of being sexually repressed. They are not an actual desire to be raped.Thats one reason, def not the only one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/21 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Promiscuity is bad for men and womenIm seeing a lot of comments suggesting promiscuity is a result of baggage or creates baggage. I dont think this is necessarily true. If a person is satisfied experimenting with non monogamy in a safe and consensual way, that doesn't create baggage. Obviously if you have a noncon experience or are not practicing safely you may develop some kind of baggage, whether that be mental/emotional, physical (stis), or interpersonal. Sexual experimentation can be an important part of developing ones sexual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingClub I was born into, hell yeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingAs a woman, I've never experienced the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 03:16 AM |
| 3 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingSooo. Every social media inbox I have stays empty. Im not crazy hot, but I am okay. Its another weird thing that men think ALL women have crazy amounts of success with/attention from men. Pretty privilege is a thing for men and women. Of course women know what loneliness and an empty inbox feel like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 03:01 AM |
| 0 | Neither gender really wants sex. What they really want is desire from the opposite sex.I think I pretty clearly stated that sometimes its more difficult but its not necessarily more difficult, its just different. Many women don't need assistance to "get in the mood". Some women don't need a lot of foreplay. I guess I struggle to imagine a situation where no foreplay exists unless its done intentionally. You're telling me you don't kiss before sex? You don't enjoy the buildup? A good chunk of the OP discusses being desired and I feel like foreplay serves that purpose for men as wel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Neither gender really wants sex. What they really want is desire from the opposite sex.Well actually its not that its more difficult to give a woman an orgasm; but rather most women can't orgasm from penetration alone. I feel like we just need to be more comfortable talking about these things from both sides. I know women who were talking about how to give blowjobs at 13. They read magazines. Men dont have that experience at all. Im simply recommending men familiarize themselves with the physiology. Different does not necessarily mean difficult. Sometimes its harder, dont get me w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Neither gender really wants sex. What they really want is desire from the opposite sex.Sorry you had that experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Neither gender really wants sex. What they really want is desire from the opposite sex.Men get more physical pleasure from sex because fewer men know how to get women off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Neither gender really wants sex. What they really want is desire from the opposite sex.But thats a false dichotomy. Some people absolutely would be fine fucking prostitutes. But some people want sex with meaning and attachment. There isn't only 2 extremes. Sexuality is fluid in many ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Neither gender really wants sex. What they really want is desire from the opposite sex.Uh, no. I want sex. The desire to be desired is separate. I do want to be desired, but I also want sex. Granted, I prefer sex with someone I love. Sex with strangers is not for me, but some people love it. For me the pleasures of sex are sensation, passion, love, and trust. I enjoy sex separately from the feeling of being wanted. Your careful calculations seem to miss 1 major thing... gay/bi people exist. They don't value eggs/sperm in the same way. As far as literotica, that serves a difference… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 02:09 AM |
| 0 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Actually, no. Im not a feminist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 11:26 AM |
| 5 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.No idea what an HVM is, but based on these conversations? No, I dont think "well-adjusted" is the right term. People act like the differences are primarily gender based instead of based around personalities. I thought this sub was a place for open discussion about gender issues on both sides. Honestly, the vast majority of debate I see is just toxic. There's no betterment here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 12:30 AM |
| 11 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.I wonder if there is a single well adjusted adult in this sub. Some of these topics are absolutely insane to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerI feel like maybe there are some things the study didn't take into account. Hormones cycles, emotional labor, cohabitation issues, etc. In my relationship, I am the one with the higher libido. I know many relationships that are similar. For me personally, I'd take sex pretty much anytime I can because I know my partner doesn't have a high drive, but that means I accept sex when I just finished cleaning the house by myself, when I know I may not cum, when my partner is not meeting my immediate em… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Kindness, and Respect are not sexually attractive to womenCan you explain how a person is decent without performing kind and respectful acts? That will help me answer the question. Anyone I hold close in my life is like me in that we enjoy doing kind things for people. As far as do I expect a guy to do things for me to be considered kind, no. But is he doing things for others? That includes offering a smile and words of support when someone needs it, stranger or friend. That includes being aware of the needs of others. I choose to be close to people wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Kindness, and Respect are not sexually attractive to womenKindness and respect aren't attractive or sexy traits, they are BASELINE traits. I am not attracted to you BECAUSE you are kind and respectful; I expect all people to be that way. If you are not kind and respectful, I do not want to interact with you. If you are kind and respectful, cool we can interact. Then I find out we have similar interests/hobbies/styles/etc or complimentary personalities/attractions? Now I may be interested in you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 05:09 PM |
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