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relationship_padawan/r/askTRP08/05/19 11:31 AM
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relationship_padawan/r/askTRP24/04/19 02:51 PM
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I second wearing a dress. Also, grow your hair out to between shoulder length to bottom of your shoulder blades. That longer hair looks more feminine and doesn’t cost more than maintenance.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/20 05:11 AM
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The higher the n-count, the higher the inability to pair bond with a mate.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/20 06:21 PM
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This is what I came to say. Slim jeans are where it’s at (even though both regular and slim suck when you have thick thighs - they look skinnier/slimmer than they are intended to be). The important thing is wear something that you feel comfortable in. I stay away from skinny (which is the skin tight legging description OP gives) and wear slim. Slim works well with a good pair of Chelseas, Chukkas or dress boots IMO. I’ll wear regular cut or boot cut if I want something really casual with a more …
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:45 PM
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White Knights...
/r/MGTOW20/11/19 01:23 PM
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Even so, protect yourself. There’s no reason not to protect your ass. Keep your office door open, if legal try and have evidence of your interactions ie video, witnesses, etc. Don’t ever leave the possibility that since she was hired that your relationship is only professional. That being said, go lift. You’ll be fine long term. Hit the gym a little harder short term if you’re in your head. You’ll work it out how to keep frame and how to handle this hiccup in your life. If you’re truly over her,…
/r/askTRP20/11/19 10:29 AM
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This is briefly covered in Models. SMV is dependent on the venue and who frequents the venue. So tailor your lures (your SMV) to what kind of fish you’re trying to catch (the girls in the foreign countries you’re living in). Different cultures value different things as high SMV. Identify those things and adopt them into your persona. Also lift. Always lift.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 10:00 AM
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Reminds me of a story posted to a certain female only travel group that shall remain nameless: She told me about this slut that had convinced her beta bux to be in a semi-open relationship and by semi, I mean they’re in an open relationship when they travel. The story goes (for some reason my ex thought I’d be impressed or amused by this story), that this sluts latest post was that she was coming back from her work trip and had a long layover in some random airport. She desperately wanted to hit…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/19 06:17 PM
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She got served a nice slice of equality.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/10/19 08:53 AM
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Same. I’ve been wanting to buy this since I found TRP and can’t find it anywhere in physical form. The digital edition I have is shit format on mobile. Would love to get my hands on a physical copy of the book.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 01:35 AM
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Outcome independence. Sex and women should be the cherry on the sundae of life.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 01:44 PM
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I think I fell of my chair laughing 😂
/r/MGTOW27/07/19 12:34 PM
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Since OP didn’t provide, here is the article.
/r/MGTOW26/07/19 11:43 PM
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Vagina Brain > Religion
/r/askTRP26/07/19 11:12 PM
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I would rather have that one armed/one dude watching my back in battle than any of those women there.
/r/MGTOW24/07/19 01:57 AM
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Just make sure she takes a 20 minute ice bath before.
/r/MGTOW17/07/19 12:34 AM
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Yes. This is correct. They have a crabs in a bucket mentality. Don’t let them drag you down. Continue with your success. A little stoicism and an IDGAF mentality would help. Who cares what your mates think. It only becomes a problem when they actively cock block you or hinder your reputation somehow.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 12:30 AM
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Feminism also stops when you’re both getting mugged.
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 03:44 PM
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AWALT
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 03:43 PM
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😂 Add it to the reasons I will never get married (unless there’s a drastic change in divorce law to mitigate the risk - which won’t happen).
/r/MGTOW10/07/19 10:54 AM
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Ahhh. The good ol’ foodie call.
/r/MGTOW10/07/19 10:46 AM
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Pig roast if she’s fat
/r/MGTOW23/06/19 08:58 AM
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Lift. Fuck other women. Read up on Stoicism. Meditate. Journal. Talk to a counselor. Improve yourself. All in all, you have a wound that is slowly healing. It may never heal and that’s ok. The pain will fade to distant bad memories. If I ever think back to my ex I still feel bitter and I know that pain isn’t worth it. I know she’s not worth it. So I meditate or lift something heavy or journal or something. Know that you’re enough and that she’s just a piece of shit. You’re enough. Right now as y…
/r/askTRP21/06/19 11:29 AM
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The fat rolls are like extra pussies you can fuck /s But agreed. I see fat people as just lazy/don’t have self control. Given enough time and commitment, anyone can change the way they look. Except men’s height. I can’t grow any taller than short man I am. Some girls can’t look past that. They’re just missing out on some good dick. Their loss.
/r/AntiFeminists20/06/19 07:41 AM
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My best guess is most men’s profiles on whatever hookup app this broad is using have photos that have that harsh noon lighting when they hold up that fish or a dark photo inside at some dive bar. My best guess is she’s using PoF.
/r/AntiFeminists18/06/19 06:39 AM
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This is my go to. Works wonders. Plus it’s one of the best lines in cinema history. Ditto for above. You have to give them something. Some positive emotion while not telling them you love them. Leave the door open for the possibility of saying, ‘I love you’ in the future.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 01:41 AM
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Yeah I think I have this fetish too. I only want to be sexually involved with people who have XX chromosomes. I don’t necessarily need to be the only penis in the bedroom though; her husband could be in the corner jacking off to us.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 08:28 PM
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Agreed. Plus you can pay for sex if you want to take all of the bullshit that surrounds it away. You can’t pay for a relationship (not a “real” one anyways eg sugar mommas, etc.).
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 12:49 AM
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This. If you’re expecting to game over text - don’t. Texting should be limited in interaction and be used solely for minimal banter (read: 3 lines max) and logistics. Nothing else. Everything else can be lost in translation.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 10:03 AM
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Yes. This is the unfortunate reality of it all. I have several friends that are going down this path and I always ask, ‘why?’ They can’t come up with a better answer that, ‘it’ll make her happy.’ I come back with, ‘what about your happiness?’ And they come back with, ‘if she’s happy, then I’m happy.’ I ask about a prenup and they inevitably come back with they don’t need on because they’re happily in love. They don’t understand my analogy to insurance on a house or how a woman loses her SMV (rea…
/r/MGTOW05/06/19 08:51 AM
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Don’t. Not joking. You said you have higher SMV. Why would you settle for someone at least at your SMV? It sounds like you don’t have an abundance mentality. She has a higher n-count than you for fuck’s sake! Keep her as a plate and find other. Wake up. You have a lot to learn.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 04:59 PM
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Sounds like my ex. AWALT
/r/askTRP04/06/19 06:56 AM
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I think it comes down to being comfortable with expressing your sexuality. Understanding that erections when in a sexual situation is ok might not be ok in the mentality of someone who was shamed growing up. OP is 18, so he’s young and seems uncomfortable expressing his masculine sexuality.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 07:28 PM
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Women love opportunistically. Men love for the sake of love.
/r/MGTOW01/06/19 09:37 PM
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Women are the guardians of sex. Men are the guardians of commitment. Some dudes are just too thirsty for their slice of pie that they give up all power they have for it; they commit before knowing true abundance and what it has to offer. It’s just the way they’re programmed with their Blue Pill upbringing. Unfortunately, they have to choose to wake up; most won’t because they still believe in the Disney dream and the happily ever after. It makes me sad watching all my male friends getting marrie…
/r/MGTOW25/05/19 06:04 PM
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Ahh. The good old hamster spinning that wheel. And yes, agreed with everything here. Generally women aren’t used to getting rejected and don’t know how to handle it, hence they act like children and in turn become hypocritical in what they believe.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 01:40 PM
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This missed one of the biggest points for me: personal growth. That’s a big part of TRP. That’s reading the sidebar. That’s educating yourself on every aspect of life. That’s reading. That’s meditation. That’s waking up everyday with a purpose. That’s embracing your masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 04:02 AM
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I’ve never heard a split roast being so eloquently put. Well done sir, you made me chuckle.
/r/MGTOW14/05/19 07:28 PM
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Easy answer is lower competition and complacency. Women who have the commitment do not want to lose their male. A slightly ‘dad bod’ man will have a lower SMV so he is less likely to be attractive to potential females. She likes the feeling of security that that provides her. Women are also lazy and don’t want to have to hold the standards they have to keep their SMV high as when they are on the open market. They think, albeit on a subconscious level, ‘I have catch of a man on lock down, he’s a …
/r/askTRP14/05/19 03:09 PM
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I’m not talking about ‘Guy Nights’ out at a bar. More like getting together and preforming male bonding activities like a hike or a poker night. Something akin to bonding in the absence of females to experience your masculinity. Either something physical like hiking, chopping wood, axe throwing, etc. or bonding like whiskey and poker night or a a night playing Smash. I also agree that a lot of these activities are pleasurable alone and can be fully done by yourself with great joy. I’m more curio…
/r/askTRP14/05/19 02:46 PM
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How the FUCK does the system benefit men? HOW? I don’t want to get married EVER primarily because the system doesn’t benefit men!
/r/AntiFeminists14/05/19 11:06 AM
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Education. Organization. Goals. Education: focus on anything TRP if you haven’t swallowed it. Re-read if you have. There is always something you can learn. Educate yourself to cultivate yourself into a better person. This doesn’t strictly have to be TRP; it can be anything that interests you so long as it improves you. You want to learn about Roman history and how Hannibal brought elephants across the alps? There’s a podcast for that. You want to learn about why the design of a can of soda is so…
/r/askTRP14/05/19 11:05 AM
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Ahh thou art a hypergamous bitch AWALT
/r/MGTOW10/05/19 09:16 PM
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‘I am the prize’ mindset.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 08:51 AM
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See, I never thought about it that way. I’ve always thought about the male group (especially a TRP group) would be a tribe of men focusing on bettering themselves and trying to elevate their masculinity while striving to meet their goals. Solidarity. Support. Loyalty. A Tribe as per Jack Donovan’s ‘The Way of Men’
/r/askMRP10/05/19 08:48 AM
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“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” - Jim Rohn
/r/askTRP10/05/19 12:33 AM
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Thanks for my morning laugh. Seriously though, this can be a response to half the asktrp posts. Good shit.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 09:20 AM
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Oh that last line made me crack up.
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 09:25 PM
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That was one of the hardest and most enlightening lessons I learned. And the hard way. There is no such thing as unconditional love, only opportunistic/conditional love. We, as men, have been sold on this lie of unconditional love and love for loves sake. I think we, as men, are capable of love for loves sake, but women can only love conditionally. AWALT and “You weren’t Mr. Right, you were Mr. Right Now.”
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 08:42 AM
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This right here. I was burned hard by an ex because of her solipsistic and hypergamous ways and used that anger to make massive gains (both weight loss and strength). Wish I could have her diaries for more fuel. Stay red pill brother. Never turn away from the hard truth of reality.
/r/MGTOW02/05/19 04:02 PM
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Not wanting to go back to wanting to kill myself. I still have a healthy flirtation with the call to the void, but it is no longer at a point where if certain sucky criteria were met and a few things holding me back had passed (Endgame comes to mind) I would have gone through. I hated this world so much, not because of hypergamy or my terrible ex or getting laid, but just because there so many shitty people in this world and I didn’t think I had the power to change any of that. I now know that I…
/r/askTRP31/03/19 04:50 PM
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This was surprisingly fun for me since I hated running and a lot of the other PT I did in the military (military can take the fun out of everything)
/r/askTRP31/03/19 04:45 PM
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Maybe 1st and 2nd wave feminist wanted equality, but today’s 3rd wave feminism movement is more interested in a power exchange that promotes a gynocentristic pyramid of power ie ‘the future is female’ and only concerned with inequality with the positions of power rather than all the other male dominated work areas (mining, deep sea fishing, military, trucking, etc. i.e. anything that has hazard or danger). They have no problem denying men rights in areas that they far exceed in i.e. divorce, the…
/r/MensRights31/03/19 12:02 AM
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‘Nice guy’ syndrome is a lot to do with hidden contract in your relationship. As long as your ‘niceness’ isn’t dealt as a double edged sword you should be fine. Just remember to practice that stoic ‘I don’t give a fuck’ attitude and don’t be the ‘nice guy’ when it comes to shit tests. You should be fine.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 10:52 AM
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The amount of dependa-hos that eventually turn into dependapotamus was one of the few things that surprised me in the military. That and the amount of idiots that believed each thots fidelity. Come on man, she’s a stripper and she was making out with several of your buddies the night you met and you think she’s wife material?
/r/MGTOW27/03/19 09:14 AM
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Reminds me of a post I saw somewhere recently underlining this point exactly with whatever the OP saw in Peppa Pig and other cartoon children’s shows.
/r/MGTOW16/03/19 04:38 PM
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Not at all. Yes I see couples ‘happy’ everywhere and I’m in a friend group where 80% are in some sort of LTR. But they’re not all ‘happy’. When I get down to the brass tacks, fundamentally, while they believe themselves to be happy, there are deeply flawed blue pill mistakes being made which I believe will be their undoing. How many countless times have I seen them not do what they want to do because they want to keep their SO happy or their pleasing ‘good guy’ mantra. I’m not one to step in and…
/r/askTRP09/03/19 05:16 AM
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I wouldn’t call any of that unpopular. A lot of the community advocates for NoFap and NoPorn. And some of monk mode could involve meditation (I recommend it, silence is amazing). I would say that both abundance and an abstinence from your PMO would help get over the need for female validation. I also advocate for absorbing a lot of the Stoic readings available out there. You should give a fuck about yourself, not what others think of you.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 03:28 PM
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Personally I try not to shit where I eat. That being said, I have fucked a few of my friends (they’re all hypergamous). I consider my friend group just that: FRIENDS. Nothing more, nothing less. I’m not invested in any of my female friends other that they’re doing good in life (mental health, etc.). Any value I offer them I know I’ll get in return in the future (not in a hidden contract ‘nice guy’ kinda of way, more like I need someone to take care of my cat for the weekend or I could use advice…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 03:22 PM
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Could be 1000 students, could be 250. That’s 500-125 girls. But it doesn’t mean he has to restrict himself to his school unless he’s super rural. And even if he only talks to 50-25 girls, that’s more than he would if he didn’t approach. All I’m saying is that it’s a skill and it needs to be worked on. And the only way to work on it is through practice.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 02:13 PM
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Another case of entitled toxic femininity
/r/MensRights08/03/19 07:00 AM
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Aim for 100 for the year. That’s one every 3-4 days or so. Rejection builds character and it’s part of like. Become stoic. After many many rejections you learn not to care. It’s a good quality. Rejection is rarely personal. Also take your time to learn about demographics. What demographic you have more success with and why. What social demographics do you enjoy more? Goth chicks (and the lifestyle), preppy girls, rockers, cheerleaders, nerdy chicks? Demographics is something usually something le…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:24 PM
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Being single now, my productivity is through the roof. All the time in the world to do what I want. No more, ‘where do you want to eat, honey?’ I just choose and go - alone. I can catch up on reading or some Netflix while I eat. Again - ALONE. No more, ‘what movie do you wanna watch, pumpkin?’ Just go to the theater and see a show - alone. Even better is watching the new flick during matinee hours because it’s cheaper and fits my schedule better. No need to argue and concede for some rom-com (do…
/r/MGTOW02/03/19 07:45 AM
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I learned a lot from a lot of the male fashion YouTubers. Yeah a lot of the are sponsored, so choose to ignore the products they’re pushing, but listen to the advice they give. You can find certain ones for whatever lifestyle and age group you want (even a few based on height). I found all of it useful. There are many videos on specific items and how to use them without looking like a tool. What items like boots that can instantly elevate your SMV. You can send me a PM if you want to know which …
/r/askTRP16/02/19 02:01 AM
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To pile on to this: success breeds confidence. That meaning: set goals (no matter how small and I advise starting small and building up) and complete them. At EVERYTHING. Men should be goal oriented, exerting every ounce of energy to complete that goal. From work to working out to your leisure time. If your goal is to PR some set then do that shit. If your goal is to earn more, set goals to make more money. If your goal is to relax and go fishing, go buy some beers and head out to a lake. If you…
/r/askTRP21/01/19 09:15 PM
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Lift + diet. Approach and make it a habit. Read the sidebar + books and internalize them. Figure out your goals, make a plan and take action to complete that plan. Every. Single. Day.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 12:42 PM
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No contact is there for a reason. Just don’t engage. You broke up for a reason, no use coming back to a tainted well.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 09:25 AM
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Probably suicide, as with any form of death, law cannot follow and punish you further (to my knowledge).
/r/MGTOW03/12/18 01:15 PM
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As a curious man fixing his finances, what did you do the past decade plus to have a liquid 6 figures? Just trying to learn what direction to take from where I am to where you are and beyond.
/r/MGTOW02/12/18 03:11 AM
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Two pieces of advice. Have goals and write them down. Make them measurable. Get a white board or something and write them on that and stick it to your wall. Have that be the first thing you see every morning. Have your big goals ie lift to become bigger and more attractive; and then chop them down into smaller goals ie follow a strong lift 5x5 work out plan; and then those into daily goals ie today is Wednesday so today’s workout is X. The more I’ve followed this, the easier I’ve found implement…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 04:28 AM
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I remember reading a long time ago that although height is always a determining factor for a man’s attraction, you can overcome it by providing the fundamental feeling that a man’s height provides a woman: comfort and safety. That’s why becoming big and mean (read: fit and muscular) makes you attractive. At least that’s how I’ve thought about it. I’m also 5’ 5” so I’ve more of a battle uphill.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/18 12:03 PM
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There are days when I need a good laugh. Today wasn’t one of those days. But I did enjoy the good laugh.
/r/MGTOW31/10/18 11:39 AM
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100% agreed. At the end of the day it’s about charisma and frame. If you’re dressed to the nines but when you open your mouth you’re a timid mouse then your frame is someone who doesn’t have charisma and confidence. No amount of style and working out will help if you can’t back it up when you open your mouth. Charisma/frame > everything else. No amount of SMV will help if you aren’t charismatic/can’t game (whatever you want to call it). Your SMV will increase with any self improvement, but your …
/r/askTRP27/09/18 09:16 AM
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Ignore and keep your frame.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 08:47 AM
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One simple thing you can do is upgrade your wardrobe and improve your style. There’s a lot of good resources out there for this. But at the end of the day it’s about your charisma, your game and maintaining your FRAME.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 06:22 AM
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She looks like she could play the evil Queen/old hag in Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs.
/r/MGTOW18/09/18 09:25 PM
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AWALT
/r/MGTOW08/09/18 04:50 AM
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I was about to say this. This applies to any place that has a dance floor. Also why I love dancing in general.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 07:57 AM
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Something I still do to this day is buy American Eagle stretch jeans. I forgot the exact terminology they call them. But I squat and hike and ruck a lot so my thighs are thicc. It’s the only brand that’s held up. Plus buying a size bigger on waist than what I need (sucks too cause I’m short so it’s hard finding the perfect length).
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 05:07 AM
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Where is the evidence to back up this statement I’ve seen thrown around so much? The study and raw data? I’ve only seen it thrown around by SJW and feminists but I have never seen the study.
/r/MGTOW10/08/18 10:46 AM
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You arent going to make friends with everyone, but pick up a few high value male friends that you think would be a good influence and hang with them for time to time. To highlight this I’ll add that you’re the sum of your five closest friends (something I learned from the Knowledge for Men podcast). Quality is more important than quantity. Don’t sacrifice your core values to become friends with someone. It sounds like you have your shit together now and you don’t want to fall into the ‘you suck …
/r/askTRP10/08/18 10:42 AM
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As someone who’s getting into BDSM, where would I find info on quality restraints and tools of the trade? I’m looking for under-the-bed stuff and maybe a few other things. Also is there a viable community on reddit?
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