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Oh, man. I can really relate. Also chronically ill. Also came to the terrible realization that the innocent-seeming hypothetical questions snuck into conversation was taken as my agreement against all logic and reason. The reason they were snuck in is he was gauging my reaction because he was doing that shit to me, I just didn’t know it. I was so exhausted and just wanted to be left the fuck alone. I don’t miss that mother fucker AT ALL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 08:07 PM
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Really stoked y’all handled this and nipped it in the bud. Thank you for protecting this sub and for all y’all do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 10:40 PM
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SAME. Now I look at it like I’m beyond grateful and impressed with my intuition, and I’ll never take it or myself for granted again. For a long time, the injustice of being mistreated and abused while he faced zero accountability really ate me up. Honestly, some days it was all I could think about. Knowing that I was now added to his “crazy ex” list too would just about send me over the edge. But I thought about it a lot, and I hope what I’m about to say helps in some way. It drove me nuts wanti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 03:25 PM
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I feel like Mary made that shit right up to try and victimize herself to the person SHE victimized. Gotta do better than “I met some real life witches, and although you are not, I deserve to fuck your husband without you getting mad.” I mean, TF?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 12:04 AM
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Happy for you and your husband! I love hearing FDS success stories ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 02:13 PM
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Ya I was under the impression pregame sausage parties ended about a decade ago. I’m barely older than this piece of shit scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 05:57 AM
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Rape by deception. That’s exactly what it is. Fucking infuriates me this dud of a guy who was driving women away left and right a mere 2 weeks earlier, can get away with rape by deception. Worse, he feels ENTITLED to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 05:54 AM
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I mean I was only four comments in thinking this guy is a generic, no personality having piece of shit… but WOW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:17 AM
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Somebody engrave this on a plaque
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 02:33 PM
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Lmao that’s exactly what he thought he was doing. No shortage of male audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 03:19 PM
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Omg. Now I know why my loser ex would get all huffy and puffy when, after asking me asinine question after asinine question, I would finally look at him and say, “have you thought about googling it? It’s a new thing…” Edit: no wonder he screamed “you think you’re better than me!!!” at random intervals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 03:09 PM
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It just makes me feel bad for her. She’s been through so much more than I can fathom, all on the world stage, available for unathletic male fatties, who can’t skip jump rope for more than 5 seconds without eating dirt, to cast their public scorn onto her, all because they don’t know shit about gymnastics but think they knew better than she does about what her mental health needs. Not to mention being abused during the Olympic Games by the most prolific pedophile to date. She’s definitely vulnera…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:58 AM
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This made me LOL. I heard, “you think you’re better than me!” and my all time favorite, “you’re just using those words on purpose because you think you’re better than me!” …my vocabulary isn’t even that good. I’m kind of ashamed it’s not better tbh. Edit: but yeah I am passionate about language I guess, but only because our love of language is what makes stand up comedy so fire
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:40 AM
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Because it’s normalized and people are conditioned not to intervene, so that it stays normalized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:36 PM
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This is so fucking appalling. Yeah no shit BDSM doesn’t do well on OnlyFans. Men see themselves as the DOM in control already, and don’t want you to run interference. Beyond that, I don’t know wtf he’s talking about beyond being entirely delusional and full of shit. I’m so sick of these idiots. It would be one thing if they were just a harmless idiot, but they’re not, they are extremely dangerous to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:23 PM
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Congratulations on leaving the undeserving scrote in a pile of his own shit. I picked it back up right before Christmas, and after highlighting nearly every sentence in the 48 hours it took for me to re-read it, I was gone. The importance and value of this book to women feeling trapped by abuse cannot be overstated, and I would say the same of this community.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:15 PM
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“I’m a feminist. I’ve been a woman for a long time now. It’d be stupid not to be on my own side.” — Maya Angelou
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:10 PM
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All of them! I could have avoided ALL OF THEM. I’m so, so grateful for this validating and uplifting space, because now, I do get to avoid all of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 09:20 PM
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I strongly second this. Anger fueled me to leave an abusive relationship, at a time in my life when I needed him the most. I was debilitated and extremely sick from an illness likened to “The Infectious Disease Equivalent of Cancer.” I had already been sick for 5 out of 6 years together, but I literally would never have gotten sick in the first place if he wasn’t a part of my life. The value of anger cannot be overstated. It can compel you to superhuman strength. It certainly did for me and I wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 03:09 PM
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I used to feel this way too, because it’s easy to see how avoiding them can protect yourself. The thing is though, it doesn’t. It enables them to get away with it, while you’re deprived of resources you’re entitled to, which would also help you heal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:38 PM
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Also, Rape by deception and intentional infliction of emotional distress. The latter being what Virginia Roberts is suing Prince Andrew for. It’s the most winnable civil suit against abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:37 PM
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Right? Like if you need to clarify with that right out of the gate before you say anything else, that’s exactly what you are. “I’m not a racist, but…”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 05:49 PM
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It does. Nixon’s buddy point-blank admitted to it; they use excessive punishments on non-violent “crimes” as a form of oppression and social control. The lack of punishment for rapists, abusers, etc. is also a form of oppression and social control; the state sanctions male brutalization of women because we are women. The UK has better IPDV laws than the US does on the books to start with. Coercive control was recently made illegal there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 05:56 AM
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I think my favorite might be when they take it from denial to outright delusion, I.e. “she is just mad things didn’t work out so she changed her mind after the fact and is now calling it rape.” Anytime a man imposes his view on a woman’s “true” feelings 🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 05:41 AM
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It’s probably something to do with the stable, predictable interaction of XY, vs the XYY interacting to produce a bunch of error codes. For example, XYY males are also more likely to develop breasts in late puberty, and have small testes. IQ is 10 to 15 points lower on average when compared to XY or XX siblings. A lot of shit can go wrong. Edit: NORD reports XYY males actually aren’t more likely to be aggressive, but they are more likely to have learning disabilities, which are reported in half …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 05:31 AM
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If they actually felt bad, they wouldn’t be bragging about it in their sad, pathetic ED-infested circle jerk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:50 AM
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Rape statistics in the US reliably and consistently show that 99% of perpetrators are men. Ninety-fucking-nine percent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:47 AM
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But they’re not the bad guy for cheating, right. They’ll use any excuse to do what they want (which always involves hurting a woman.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:43 AM
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I moved out one day while my abusive ex was at work, blocked him and all of his family on everything, no explanation, no hand holding, no mercy. He came home to a completely empty fucking house. It is so nice not having to pretend to buy their bullshit anymore, based on a misguided notion that not pushing back is a form of self-protection. I will always push back and push away. They ALWAYS know better. That’s WHY they do the shit they do. That’s the whole appeal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:35 AM
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Turn off DMs in your settings (turn all of it off) and get an FDS only Reddit account with its own FDS only email.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:08 AM
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It’s rape. Among scrotes, this is the most popular way to set up the dynamics which are ultimately described as marital rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 11:44 PM
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This is rape. I’m disgusted. It’s no coincidence her husband waited to rape her until she was already carrying his baby (can’t easily leave) AND she’s pregnant and struggling (also vulnerable.) This is scary. Men absolutely will play that long of a game, and put that much effort into deceiving you, just so that one day they might get away with raping you in the middle of the night. This is why it is so vital to never stop vetting. I can only speak for myself and ask by that point though, is it e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 11:41 PM
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Yes, that’s exactly what it is. A mass congregation of PickMes handing out unlivable advice. It’s a horror show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 11:30 PM
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Yes, they did used to say women who’d just lost a lot of weight suddenly thought themselves 10s, “and she used to be chubby now it’s all gone to her head.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 11:17 PM
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Oh, this will be fun. What exactly is chemical castration? How is this administered, and what exactly is it? It is the DEPO shot (Depo-Provera), which is a common form of birth control. I shit you not. Depo Provera Treatment for Sex Offending Behavior Also, this government brief calls Depo-Provera a cruel and unusual punishment for male rapists, knowing it only lasts for 3 months in the system. The same Depo-Provera routinely prescribed to 12 year old girls through 50 year old women. As Always, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:05 PM
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I completely and fully agree. We need to teach this exclusively to girls. All forms of abuse, manipulation, assault, coercion and everything else I am leaving out, need to be a part of comprehensive sex education. It needs to be explored in detail every year. It is vital. And yet, no one talks about it. It’s stigmatized and shamed to acknowledge behavioral traits you see in men (yes, they are almost always a man!) like the dark triad, sociopathy, antisocial personality disorder, psychopathy, etc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:35 AM
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His kInK is to assert dominance, power and control over women through causing physical pain disguised as mutually beneficial sex. It’s disturbing how he has gotten along this far in life without ever thinking to ask himself, what exactly is so appealing to him about sexually imposing himself on his wife in a specific, notoriously painful and potentially dangerous way, not because of how it feels physically, but because it violates her express wish and desire. I can only speak for myself, but the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:46 PM
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LOL. Just… someone. Specifically someone in a bar, with blurred vision and diminished inhibition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:12 PM
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He’s obsessing over building up a case against his wife to tear her down. Not giving him blowies every time he gets in a car is apparently the worst thing about her he can come up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:07 PM
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Letz b honest. His kinky exes, weren’t kinky, and they left him. Probably for reasons he described in his post, like his shitty personality. It really bothers me how ENTITLED he feels to act out unhealthy, painful, degrading sex acts on his wife, who, by his own admission, told him NO. He’s complaining that his wife’s boundary remains a boundary. It’s almost a guarantee he is an abuser by his backwards ass admission that he feels his wife’s needs are somehow a personal attack on him. These types…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:03 PM
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I hate that term, “withholding sex.” Withholding implies entitlement. You can’t withhold something (sex with your body) no one is entitled to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 07:03 AM
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NVMs have reached a new low when incel trolls are a step up in the presentation of their dilemma. What a SLOB!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 06:13 AM
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“Hold on… let me move this vat of ravioli from 2006 off this table, just a few cob-webs… a little squeaky, maybe you should lose weight first before I try to fuck you.” I hope this part-time nanny puts him on 💥BLAST💥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 06:11 AM
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I love to hear it. I just left an abusive scrote a few months after finding FDS, and he, stupidly, said “the only single men you can have are in their 40s and have kids.” Like, a) that’s a lie because I’m beating young guys away with sticks. b) I’m not averse to age or kids if the man is high value. and c) I’m so insulted that he based my worth on who my next partner would be, if that man alone was the sole arbiter of my happiness. That’s fucking insane! I keep thinking about ALL THE SHIT I can …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 09:28 PM
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Yes! I am here for this. We are all dying to say this too. Because it’s the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 08:01 PM
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Their depravity is unlimited. It feels so irritating and overwhelming that they INVENT opportunities based on unchangeable feminine traits to… do whatever the fuck they do. I’m SO SICK OF IT. Women should NOT have to be made to feel like we are “stupid” or “should have known better” when our ONLY crime is EXISTING! God damn it makes me MAD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 07:51 PM
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