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Apart from fixing the other things you don't like about your life, I'd say the best thing you can do now is just go out and approach as often as possible. It's hard to pick up without strong inner game, but it sounds like you also really need experience. It's hard to tell where someone's sticking points are from a reddit post, but it sounds like you may just need to escalate more quickly. If you're having trouble getting numbers, ask for numbers in more interactions. If you're having trouble wit…
/r/seduction11/10/11 01:20 AM
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Just having them around you when you go out will be a huge help. Apart from that I wouldn't worry about it too much at first, it's best just to make sure the three of you are having fun so that they'll keep wanting to do it.
/r/seduction11/10/11 01:04 AM
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So, I'm definitely no master, in fact I'm in basically the same place as you at the moment. From my understanding, the best thing we can do at the moment is honestly identify our sticking points and go out on practice nights to get through them. This will mean blowing through a lot of sets to push the envelope on kino, disqualifiers, or whatever, but the payoff of course is solid game. I've been listening to the Love Systems interview series. If it were even remotely affordable, I'd recommend bu…
/r/seduction04/10/11 05:17 AM
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Yep. And smile. You can say whatever you want if you have a genuine smile on your face. Back when I was an AFC, I started a conversation with a girl by saying "Do you hate puppies?". Since I was smiling, she went along with it.
/r/seduction27/09/11 01:23 PM
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I know the feeling of "oneitis with every girl" - it happened to me when I stepped up my game and started only dating 8.5s and 9s. At first every girl I went out with, I couldn't believe such a gorgeous girl was into me, then I kept approaching the hottest girls in the bars, kept getting their numbers, and kept hooking up with them. Now I still get excited about these girls, but I know that there are plenty of cool and beautiful girls out there. It might sound crass and reductionist, but gftog. …
/r/seduction27/09/11 01:20 PM
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Great FR and followup, thanks. It's good to see someone in a Seddit FR actually getting laid ;)
/r/seduction27/09/11 12:59 PM
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No kidding. It's been a game for girls since before we had a spoken language, just like roughhousing is for boys.
/r/seduction27/09/11 12:46 PM
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Absolutely on the abundance mindset. Gftog. Also, don't beat yourself up for trying, it's more important to try and fail than to play it safe. Especially with that level of IOIs.
/r/seduction21/09/11 07:40 PM
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I agree that you don't want to continue for ages in that vein, but I think as a one-off it's fine.
/r/seduction21/09/11 07:37 PM
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That line is fine. It's funny and gives you a pseudo-logical excuse to bounce to your place earlier, or just set up arbitrary time constraints / scarcity. Though a lot of people favor straightforward texts, I like to have fun with them. What I like about text game is my iPhone saves every text convo I've ever had, so I can just use the same lines over and over, and I'll know how they normally play out. I like to do a lot of future projection in text, also I like to set frames that they have no c…
/r/seduction21/09/11 07:32 PM
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How often do girls tell you "bite me"?
/r/seduction21/09/11 07:13 PM
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First off, great job. As for why it didn't go farther, it sounds like a kino escalation issue to me. The girl's ditched her friends and followed you to a party after you asked her to come home with you, I'd say that's a pretty strong IOI. From that point on I would just do physical compliance tests interspersed with DHV or comfort stories until a kiss close, then get a number close before suggesting you guys bounce to another location / your place. Anyway, gftog, sounds like you're doing great.
/r/seduction18/09/11 04:05 PM
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You can probably still hook up with whichever one is there last. Note: I was in a similar, but less dramatic situation recently, and you may find that your friends will hit on whichever girls you're not with. Just an FYI. Although maybe you have better friends than I do.
/r/seduction17/09/11 03:26 PM
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Awesome. Unfortunately, the first ten google results for me are random models and actors, because apparently I have a great stage name.
/r/seduction13/09/11 03:00 AM
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My pleasure, cuppajoe. Godspeed.
/r/seduction13/09/11 02:58 AM
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Is that such a problem? My assumption is that girls will go look me up on facebook as soon as they have my whole name, so all there is to see is a photo of me and the school I went to (prestigious dhv). Hope the googling worked out for you, I'm curious whether there's a funny story behind this.
/r/seduction12/09/11 07:19 PM
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As a rule, I never set up dinner dates until I've been dating a girl for a long time. I always go for drinks, for the following reasons. it's more casual and easier to set a relaxed context when you're proposing the date. "grab a drink" sounds much easier than dinner. If the date is terrible, you can get up and leave. I try not to do this too often, but there have been times when I discovered that a girl was out of her mind and I'd rather hang out with my friends or watch tv or whatever. At dinn…
/r/seduction12/09/11 07:02 PM
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TIL that sedditors are saying the same things to girls that I do, pretty much verbatim, and yet I have never been called on it. Cheers to you.
/r/seduction12/09/11 06:50 PM
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