reluserso Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Flirting calibration	Escalation & Calibration	reluserso	/r/seduction	02/04/25 04:45 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	I am 27 and never had a girlfriend. How do I cold approach 500 girls?please help me guys How are you a 3/10? Seems like that's probably mostly in your head. Just get a haircut and hit the gym a few times a week, you'll be above average soon. Imo don't focus on girls too much, build a good life first: hobbies, friends, exercise, work, hygiene etc. Walk before you can run.	/r/seduction	29/04/25 09:02 PM
94	If a Girl Looks at You for Even a Split Second, Do This Destiny brought us together? 😂	/r/seduction	21/04/25 01:19 PM
15	How long do I wait to ask her out again? Sex on first date. There is no fixed time frame. the longer the wait the clearer you communicate that your only looking for sex vs valuing her as a person Same goes for location activity there is a spectrum from a "you up?" Text at 3am to a romantic city trip IMO give it 1-2 days then text her with plans for grabbing a drink/watching a movie at your place over a bottle of wine. Definitely fuck, then after you can have a talk to make sure your on the same page re expectations	/r/seduction	03/04/25 03:58 AM
2	I think I need to give up on dating Bro "I have no interests" is probably the key issue here. Yes you're right you should focus on yourself, but that doesn't mean giving up on dating. Join a student club or sports group, look for open events in your area on meetups or look for local discords and reddits. Find things you enjoy and also learn to share them with others. It's fine to not be a huge extrovert but often it's just practice and habit or insecurities masking as introversion. I am sure you are genuinely fun and interesting, …	/r/seduction	02/04/25 09:24 PM
1	Flirting calibration Thank you for your thoughts! What I told her was along similar lines to your suggestions, really nothing wild - I think it's maybe inexperience/cultural that some people, even in their twenties, aren't comfortable with innuendos - however I struggle to adapt my game to that, I guess I am a bit blunt	/r/seduction	02/04/25 09:07 PM
1	Flirting calibration Thanks! I agree, in general attraction is easy to build in person - but ofc if she doesn't wanna meet and I don't want a pen pal I do have to escalate somehow at some point	/r/seduction	02/04/25 09:03 PM
2	Flirting calibration I am not going "wanna come back to my place? Haha just joking....unless?". I am broaching sexual topics in a light-hearted, indirect way to gauge comfort	/r/seduction	02/04/25 08:57 PM
1	Is she testing me? How should I respond to this? She is just having fun - just tease her "okay come to XY with me and I'll be the judge of that" or better yet when she says she is bad at it go for something like "fine I'll do the talking for both of us you just come and look pretty" etc. tldr she is being playful you aren't	/r/seduction	12/03/25 10:50 PM