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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 18 | Faking Confidence | rembar | /r/AlreadyRed | 08/08/15 12:37 AM |
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| 1 | Compliment/Confidence transactionI feel pretty good about this post because for the most part I used to think dread/negging was a shitty and desperate move and when I did come to that it would be better to completely abandon the relationship. I've recently changed my mind because of certain events and believe you owe it to yourself to move feeling out of the way and do what works and has the best outcome. Women spend the entire relationship challenging and trying to change you, how is it monstrous of you to do the same? Using i… | /r/AlreadyRed | 18/09/15 01:00 AM |
| 3 | Faking ConfidenceSecond and last part: How friendship plays important role in confidence. In the first part I mostly attempted to look at what confidence actually is. In the second part I will attempt to expand on how you can get more confidence or rather better balance between knowing and acting on knowledge. One of the unfortunate results of being stuck in your head is that every tiny bit of external stimulus is over-analyzed and overblown. Tiny bit of negativity is put through a loop that makes it become so s… | /r/AlreadyRed | 08/08/15 01:28 AM |
| 1 | How do I become more self-interested?Lot of good advise has been given, but I feel much of it falls on the sociopaths end and not the rational one. The answer to "How do I stop worrying so much about my 18 y/o child" is not necessarily "They aren't "child" anymore, let them loose and focus on your own situation". A better answer would be "you have to let them go so they can make their own mistakes and grow from it". As for this situation I will only give my own views which have helped save me from stupidity. I had "I will save you … | /r/AlreadyRed | 07/08/15 11:30 PM |
| 2 | On AngerAnger isn't RP, it's start of RP, it's fuel that is needed to shed all the BS you have learned, but it isn't something to carry around. Only losers will say "she only wants to fuck me because of my looks/money", actual RP enjoys that privilege and uses it to it's full effect. In the end the point of RP isn't knowledge, it's action that can't be performed without that knowledge. "I want to fuck" precedes "How do I attract girls", asking the latter only is academic and RP isn't strong on certain s… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/15 11:59 AM |
| 2 | On AngerEven he moved past the anger phase, he says so himself multiple times that he was much worse before. He accepts the faults in his girlfriend, and adopts a "good man" approach where he will do nice things because he is a good man and he needs to prove it to himself, not because she deserves it. If you are still there it's fine, it's a bit condescending to tell someone not to do something you did, specially when it's vital part of maturing as a person. Just don't wallow in it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/15 11:51 AM |
| 1 | On AngerIt's one thing to see suffering people and be reminded how far you have become, it's another to have majority of discourse dictated by suffering people. When 10k subs are "veteran" and 1k new guys come it's possible to help them, when vast majority are new guys they won't know what the next phase is. Maturity doesn't just mean the number next to your age, some things take time to set in your mind. I'm afraid lot of people won't even know they are in the anger phase, because they think it means t… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/15 11:47 AM |
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