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remo_williams1/r/askMRP25/06/18 02:34 PM
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The 40+ year olds are where the jobs come from......
/r/askTRP07/03/21 03:18 AM
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Thanks, that makes a lot of sense. "pathological roles learned in childhood" So fucking true. The apple does not fall far from the tree. I wish I had known any of this before now.
/r/askMRP04/07/18 05:00 AM
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Be aware that she is a psychological dumpster fire.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 04:17 PM
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Read WISNIFG.
/r/askMRP28/06/18 04:16 PM
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TRUTH! I've wasted the last three years "working on the relationship." The only result is being dumped in spectacular fashion. I owned my shit and addressed her concerns, went to counseling, started meds and a bunch of other shit and while I did find RP and have improved vastly as a person the effort for her was a waste. *Bonus points for using defenestrated. She defenestrated my ass with prejudice.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 04:15 PM
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Before I was 21 I got in a lot of alcohol related trouble and was in jail a few times. Jail doesn't scare me but being a fuck up does.
/r/askMRP28/06/18 03:59 PM
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I was not arrested and talked to the cop on the phone the next day. After talking to him for about 30 seconds he said "she's not credible and I got the impression she's trying to get someone in trouble." I thought that was it and nothing would come from her report. That was the beginning of my education in the court system. I spent $4000 fighting the temporary restraining order. Then charges were filed and I dealt with that. Since December 26 I've been dealing with the divorce. I'm over $15,000 …
/r/askMRP28/06/18 03:56 PM
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Agreed on both points. The first time I choked her during sex I just did it without taking about it first. Afterwards she was like "umm, could you check with me before you try new things?" She loved all the choking, spanking, hair pulling; etc. She ALWAYS responded well to me when I took leadership. Even now, since we began to interact, she's followed my lead. Ultimately her paranoia won out and she got me before I could get her.
/r/askMRP28/06/18 03:51 PM
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Maybe, but probably not, she's very dependant on financial support from me. Right now we have a good working relationship and I'll keep it that way.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 08:17 PM
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Perceptive. I am but what does that matter? I do my research and make informed decisions.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 08:13 PM
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True about the men with guns. Women's emotions are like the clouds in the sky, they change often. Plus, anything a woman says you can tack "right now" onto the end of the statement. I'm not actively trying to get her back but for now I'm open to the idea of reconciliation under certain preconditions.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 08:11 PM
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Good question, yes.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 08:05 PM
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All good advice. Pick something and start.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 08:02 AM
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Yup. I'd never thought about it until someone on MRP brought it up.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 07:10 AM
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This was before #MeToo. She told the cop that her ass was red and no one looked at it. Last time I saw her ass it was red. There was bruising that she photographed the next day or days later.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 07:08 AM
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I didn't know it enhanced my SMV, that's interesting. Headed over to read more Heartiste. The charge will stay on my record and the protection orders will as well. I'm over it.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 06:59 AM
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Without question she did an amazing job of completely severing me from my home.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 06:39 AM
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Generally you do the networking and line up a job before leaving your current job, even if you hate it. That's called maturity. The Seattle area is great and it is the number one growing city in the nation. The number one and number two growing counties in the nation are above and below Seattle. I hope your economics prepared you to understand what this means.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:36 AM
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Great point; good reminder. I was/am such a needs cunt. Neediness = woman repellent. Actually, no one wants to be around a needs person.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 06:28 AM
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Hey, I have a similar situation. My wife of 20 years got rid of me in a really scheming, shitty way. No warning, no recourse, no power, no control, nothing. 20 years, 4 kids, three born at home and all home schooled. We had a business together. She made up a situation, called the cops, got a restraining order the next day and I haven't been home in right months. In fact "home" no longer exists for me because she stole it. I didn't have access to my computer for seven weeks, she slandered me to e…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:18 AM
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Already did and it didn't help. Fuck.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 08:04 PM
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25 years, 20 married, 4 kids; easier said than done.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 07:31 PM
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True, and between the restraining orders and the DV Assault 4 charge I am permanently marked as a "bad guy." I can't run for water district commission with that on my record, not to mention anyone I date doing an ounce of research would be problematic.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 07:13 PM
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Yes, but not because of that. We've been married 20 years, so there's a lot more to it. She definitely created a story around the spanking to initiate the divorce.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 07:08 PM
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We had just met up at a tavern to go over some financial matters that needed to be resolved. We had a good meeting that got tense but we resolved the issue and ended up having a good time. This was the last of several meetings where we discussed, negotiated and agreed on all legal aspects of our divorce. After seven months of no contact and a slew of legal crap it was surprising that we really had a good time together and worked everything out.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 05:57 PM
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I don't need leverage I need good boundaries. I would like my marriage back and if that's not possible then what do I want our divorced relationship to look like? I know I don't want to be there providing everything she needs while getting to hear about her newest Tinder exploits.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 05:51 PM
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I've known her 25 years and I'm watching what she does, not what she says. Eight months ago and today are very different scenarios. I understand what she did to me and the consequences of her actions to everyone around is, especially our children. I also understand that one year from now I will be with a woman whether that is her or someone else. I have a good idea of what it would take for she and I to get back together and it's possible, just not likely.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 04:56 PM
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Thanks, good advice started clearly. She wanted wanted to kill the puppy, now she will need to deal with the consequences of that decision. She doesn't get to divorce part of you (lover, friend), and keep the parts she wants (handyman, financier, emotional tampon) This is exactly what she wants.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 04:46 PM
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Take what into account?
/r/askMRP25/06/18 03:56 PM
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I didn't see it coming, at all. You do not want to go where I've gone.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 03:55 PM
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Agreed, and if I didn't value the input I wouldn't be here. I've watched long enough to know who's advice I will take under advisement. I see your comments to different guys on TRP and can see you have advice worth sharing.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 03:50 PM
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Thanks, I'll read what they have to say. Regarding leverage, I am fully aware of what it is and what it feels like to have no power and no recourse.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 03:32 PM
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She fucked up, but I look at her as a reflection of me. She had a drunk captain for a long time and when I began to change things she responded but was also very leery of bad motives. In the end she pre-emptively struck based on her insecurities.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 03:29 PM
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I want my marriage, family and home. I don't want a LJBF relationship with my ex-wife. Going no contact except for necessary logistics provides me the best chance to reconcile if the opportunity arises while, at the same time, my feelings for her are tapering off. I see what you're saying but they're not mutually exclusive.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 03:19 PM
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I had explicit and implicit permission to spank her.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 03:10 PM
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Great points, but my marriage is over. I'm specifically wanting to know how much to interact with the woman. Is fixing shit and advising her on things I used to take care of too much? I'd like to keep it to being friendly and handling logistics amicably without being friends. My goal is to have my feelings for her fade away, or for her to revisit "us" but on my terms.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 03:01 PM
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Sure, a ton. She decided she wanted a divorce but needed a more compelling reason than "I'm not happy." Our children, family and friends would have seen her as the initiator and "bad guy" in the situation if she had quietly filed for divorce. The last three days we were together were bizarre. On day one we took our daughter to college and somewhere on the drive I hurt my wife's feelings. She wouldn't accept an apology and after we dropped my daughter off I thought things had blown over. I drove …
/r/askMRP25/06/18 02:55 PM
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Thanks for the tip. I just bought the book.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/18 06:10 PM
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When I Say No I Feel Guilty; read it, do it.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 04:00 PM
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Shortly after the end of my marriage I met a woman online that was 100% into me and down for anything. She was crazy into me and I always find that attractive. Shortly after we met in person I was completely honest with her about where I was regarding the future and relationship potential. She very quickly soured towards me. I will say that we did message each other a ton before getting together and I can see where I was a complete aspy. I essentially emotionally body slammed her. I've evolved t…
/r/askTRP23/06/18 03:53 PM
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Maybe work more on not being a piece of shit and you won't have to worry about it. Regardless, if you do divorce your wife, suck it up and pay the woman what you owe her. Side note, if you fuck your wife over your kids will know or find out and you will pay for your selfishness in ways you've never thought of, probably for your lifetime. Here's what will happen: you will lose in a divorce. What, family law attorneys have no experience finding hidden assets or income? You have an 85% chance of co…
/r/askMRP12/06/18 11:12 PM
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Why would your belief in different but equal preclude you from being RP? You said you have concluded from your RP readings that men and women are different but equal. That works, go with it. All people have innate and intrinsic value regardless of the extrinsic value they provide to you, me, or society.
/r/askMRP17/09/17 04:24 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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