renaissance82 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	[FR] Back in the Game		renaissance82	/r/seduction	03/03/17 01:52 PM

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1	what makes girls lose interest after making great first impressions? It's possible in this situations (with your friends) that they actually were friends for a long time and then some ting changed. In your situation though these girls are most likely actively looking for a boyfriend and when it looks like you arnt in to them (note this is after they say things like "your cool") then they move on.	/r/seduction	10/03/17 10:07 PM
2	what makes girls lose interest after making great first impressions? I don't subscribe to the idea that there is ever "no hope" its just makes things a lot harder. At some point you would have show so much higher value to get them back and attracted you would have to be the POTUS. What I mean when I say the clock is ticking is that once you have hit a point where they are saying "your the best!" you've maxed out. It can basically only go down. They already like you and probably have decided that you would make a good "match/mate/whatever". Its still on YOU to mak…	/r/seduction	10/03/17 08:23 PM
3	what makes girls lose interest after making great first impressions? Too many hangouts. you need to escalate. Are you doing Kino? (gently touching them, making physical contact)? Have you kissed them at this phase? As soon as they get into the "your the coolest guy I've met" phase you peaked in the comfort phase. You need to start making things more sexual. When you hear that line "your sooo awesome" the clock is ticking. you cant stay in that phase forever. Try running a kiss gambit or something. 2 easy Kiss close Gambits or easy canned kiss gambits EDIT: added …	/r/seduction	10/03/17 07:57 PM
1	Failed to approach. Again. And it's soul crushing. Honest question, are you social at work or the gym? If you don't have a face to face conversation with anyone all day of course your going to have an approach problem. It's possibly one of the most stress inducing moments (approaching a stranger especially a girl you've already decided was attractive) Here's a hint. Try and be more social in your everyday interactions. Converse a little longer with the barista or server at places you go. The grocery clerk? talk to them a little longer, ask them …	/r/seduction	10/03/17 07:41 PM
4	First date, Live Music or Darts/Pool/table football? I was always partial to miniput... 1) no one is really "good" at it. 2)if you are its miniput...who give a shit 3) Its a great excuse to make fun of her a little when she misses and its low key and silly. After you head to pub to grab drinks and celebrate your victory (or defeat) I would argue against live music for a first date since you really can't talk while the band is playing. (same reason movies make for bad dates). Unless of course you are at the back of the room and the music isn't too …	/r/seduction	09/03/17 04:37 PM
1	[FR] Textbook Tinder Date Glad to hear it, (I am aware that you can still get STI's even with a condom) its just the way I interpreted your comment I guess.	/r/seduction	07/03/17 06:52 PM
1	[FR] Textbook Tinder Date Did you bare back a tinder girl?!? You're a wild man!	/r/seduction	07/03/17 06:17 PM
1	[FR] Textbook Tinder Date yeah, your way past the part where this matters. Go ahead and text her when you want, if she waits a long time again then start the whole text game thing over again. If you wait too long all that attraction you built up might get wasted.	/r/seduction	07/03/17 06:16 PM
2	Curious, was this her blowing me off or legit your pretty much hooped but... in a week or 2 you could message her but don't ask her if she is free to hang out. Tell her you are heading to "activity A" (make sure its a group event or something, not a date), Tell her she's welcome to come (or tell her she is coming though this is risky) since you know she was having a rough time. No matter what she responds unless its "Where is it?" do not respond. anything else just ignore the message. If its via messenger or anther app that gives read recei…	/r/seduction	07/03/17 06:06 PM
1	A girl that I was hitting on told me that her boyfriend cheated on her a few days ago. I'm not sure of what to do. You could tell her you not interested in being her revenge lay (use your own words obviously) but if she wants you can go do something fun to take her mind off of it. (if you do hang out don't even talk about her boyfriend. Remind her if she brings it up that she should stay in the moment, be fun and playful about it though) if she still cant stop talking about it just tell her maybe she needs to talk to a friend about it. ultimately what you are going for is; - You are not her female friend but…	/r/seduction	07/03/17 05:52 PM
1	Am an absolute noob (m/ 24) and have no idea where to start. Yes! The game is played on the field. You don't know the people you will be interacting with and in all likelihood you wont ever see some of them again. Just go open some sets without the intention of even running game. Ask a mixed set where the bathroom is...doesn't matter just open.	/r/seduction	07/03/17 05:41 PM
5	Hoping to f-close or at least k-close a girl on Saturday. Got some questions/things I'm not sure about. I would suggest you go to whatever place she is supposed to go with YOUR friends and practice you night game. This does two things 1) Gets your mind off the outcome and let syou have a good time 2) ^ this gives you the added effect of demonstrating higher value if she see you having a BLAST without her. 3) most likely she will approach you at this point. introduce yourself to her friends and (Initially) ignore her for like 10 seconds. if you don't win her friends over they WILL NOT let you take …	/r/seduction	03/03/17 07:57 PM
1	Are relatives good judges of your attractiveness? short answer no... longer answer, depends... How honest is your family? your sister probably isn't going to say your "Hot" and she'll probably say your attractive when you're not just to spare your feelings. A cousin? maybe...again it depends. overall I wouldn't put much faith in a family members judgment unless they are known to be unabashedly honest.	/r/seduction	03/03/17 07:18 PM
2	[FR] Back in the Game Thanks! I'm going to try and get a better format down for future FR's. Maybe organize it by time instead of set. I'm not sure.	/r/seduction	03/03/17 07:17 PM
3	Am I doing something wrong? Girls seem to lose interest after Tinder match second this and this is good advice for all dating apps/sites. (and text game for that matter). You need to transition to a face to face situation as soon as you can. This doesn't mean pestering the person but your overall message should be about transitioning to in person interaction.	/r/seduction	03/03/17 07:08 PM
1	What do you do if every girl your interested in has a bf? no problems! no apology necessary DHV: Demonstrate higher value. Show through story telling and body language that you are a person of value who is worth her time to invest in. ok so, you know that way you feel when you see a 10/10? you have to make her feel that way about you. The difference is (for the most part) its more based on personality and resources then good looks (generally).	/r/seduction	03/03/17 06:53 PM
1	What do you do if every girl your interested in has a bf? Agree with the other people here but there is a second possibility. are you sure they have boyfriends? sometimes women will use this as a protection mechanism... they may not actually have a boyfriend. Its possible you havn't DHV'd enough. I would probably treat it like shit test and just continue conversation as normal (unless the BF is actually there) worst case scenario its good practice. obviously I don't think you should close a girl with a BF (my personal moral code) but harmless flirting …	/r/seduction	03/03/17 06:43 PM
2	New here advice for cold approach banter examples to get a conversation going a couple of classics that probably havn't been used in awhile -"Do you floss before or after you brush?" -"Do I look like (insert a celebrity you share a skin tone with.)? 3 people in here tonight said I looked like him its starting to freak me out" - Do you think spells work? Sometimes this will send the woman off on a long blab, but if the conversation needs to be kept going, the follow-up routine is: “The reason I’m asking is because my friend over there met a girl in a club last week. He was…	/r/seduction	03/03/17 06:32 PM
1	I can talk to and get girls numbers easily, but why do I never convert it to a hookup? ^ this. Its an issue of looking like you are in control. Also, there are two schools of thought on how to go on a "date" 1)High Value: "I'm taking you on a date because I think you are interesting and want to get to know you romantically" 2) Still building attraction: "Hey I'm doing this interesting thing on (insert day about a day or two away) and I figured you could use an excuse to get out of the house" (playfull). keep in mind most girls are NOT going to go on a date with you on a Friday or …	/r/seduction	02/03/17 04:22 PM