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renaleah/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 01:59 PM
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The question is about probability. If you had a bad experience with one woman, how do you know it’s her femaleness that caused the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:08 PM
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My husband had a bit of this when we first got married but I sort of stubborned my way out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 03:19 AM
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Here’s one. Women now earn more than 50% of college degrees and medical school degrees and PhDs in many fields. You don’t see feminists out there helping improve things for men. Feminism was never about gender equality. It was always a power grab for women, even when they’re already in power.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 09:50 PM
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I am of course speaking for myself. What do you like about casual sex? If the sex is amazing, do you really want never to see the person again?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 03:36 PM
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More inhibited during my limited casual sex experiences a long time ago. Casual sex is okay for men, terrible for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 11:49 AM
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Do you consider your relationship a type of prostitution exchange?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 12:11 PM
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I totally agree, OP. I have been married an eon, but I really do everything I can to maintain or increase my MV. In addition to hair, makeup, clothes, etc, I also do personality-related things like helping build up my partner in his own eyes and the eyes of others. A lot of my female friends belittle their husbands; I think that lowers a woman's MV greatly. A high-quality spray tan can do wonders for some people. Relaxing can make you look and feel happier. Focusing on friendships with positive …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 10:45 PM
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Could he be talking on the phone about self care, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 03:01 PM
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Oh, and if he could be so obese that it’s disabling, that adds another dimension.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 11:38 AM
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Can I play? Wear a This is What a Feminist t-shirt While holding a baby in a baby carrier As a stay at home dad With a man bun
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 03:29 AM
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+1
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 09:57 PM
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I see. I didn't mean it as a "low effort" post. I meant to leave it open in order to allow more discussion. This is a variation of the question about whether ADHD medication is a feminist conspiracy (a thread I think I saw on the same board). A BP person would say of course not. A RP person would say, maybe, that feminists are trying to make men more docile so they produce beta bux and babies with low-value women. Same with this question. That is, are decreasing-value women trying to convince me…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 04:20 PM
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"PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues." Is this not a sex or gender issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 03:48 PM
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Agreed to a certain extent in certain situations. I was just explaining a model of what constitutes charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 04:03 AM
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It's not. It's his literal words in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 07:26 PM
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My experience as a woman: Penises are funny looking. Vaginas are funny looking. My husband is hot. Lots of men are hot. Lots of women are hot. Visual hotness is sexually appealing more to men than women. Variety is sexually appealing more to men than women. Power is sexually appealing more to women than men. I believe this is evolutionary on both sides. I am the higher libido (HL) of the two of us by a mile. I have always had virtually no sexual attraction toward men I don't care about emotional…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 07:13 PM
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OP-- Do you find vaginas beautiful?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 07:06 PM
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Why are you calling it a myth It's the name of a book: The Charisma Myth. https://amzn.to/2LncSQm
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 06:23 PM
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The Charisma Myth has a formula: - Warmth (he's not an asshole) - Power (he's not a wimp) - Presence (he's in the moment)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 06:08 PM
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We're all the hero protagonist in the TV series of our own mind, right? We all think the people who do things differently than we do them are wrong until we change our minds and then we were right all along. My husband has absolutely paralyzing indecision, and while he occasionally admits this indecision has cost him both professionally and personally, I'm sure he'd default to calling himself "thoughtful" or "deliberative." Meanwhile, I have two advanced degrees that allow me to make extremely e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 02:31 PM
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I wonder where you draw the line between decisiveness and impulsiveness as well as between indecisiveness and calculating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 07:20 PM
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I'm not sure who's into drawing, but I might try something that interests you and yet also attracts the type of men in whom you're interested. If you have friends who might be interesting but aren't interested (say, they're married) ask them what their hobbies are. If one interests you, try that place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 04:16 PM
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So it's interesting. I'm the more decisive one by nature. So there's the "man is the head of the family but wife is the neck turning the head in the right direction" dynamic for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 02:36 PM
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Also, over a long period of time, a man will rise or fall to his wife’s view of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 03:50 AM
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I’m afraid of de-anonymizing myself. But I know friends who met great husbands in running groups, at church or synagogue, in amateur musical groups, and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 03:49 AM
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And I would never want to be married to a woman, but they are soft and squishy in a pleasing way. :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 02:42 AM
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Marital rape is a thing. Getting married is not infinite sexual consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 02:38 AM
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The thing is, my dreams were never about earning a fabulous amount of money. I do prestigious and well compensated work but within the context of marriage and motherhood. I could earn more, but I didn’t have to give up life dreams, which makes me lucky. I struck platinum, not gold. Look for good men in the places good men can be found. Pursue wholesome hobbies, not Tindr.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 02:34 AM
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Understand. Women are fun, too. ;-)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 02:32 AM
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Okay, I’m on your page now. I could do that. She’s allowed to partake?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 02:11 AM
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I’ll tell you my life experience if you accept I’m not talking about all men: I see the guys with a This is What a Feminist Looks Like shirt on carrying a baby in a front pack and sporting a man bun, and no part of me tingles. If my particular husband were still himself in all his manliness but also just loved doing housework, fuck yeah I’d love it. But just like he accepts me with my pros and cons, so I accept him. He is rarer and more precious than my Ivy League degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 02:09 AM
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There we agree to disagree. I’m all for swinging, but together. Does your wife know?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 02:07 AM
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Does she have the right to take side guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 01:55 AM
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To me they’re equivalent in that they’re both critically important and I wouldn’t want to raise my kids without either one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 01:48 AM
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What is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 01:47 AM
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Why would you be frustrated? Did I add he is magic in bed? :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 01:21 AM
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My husband does the traditional man chores (the outdoor ones), helps put the kids to bed sometimes, plays ball with them, washes dishes after dinner sometimes, and does a lot on weekends. So there’s that. The only time I feel resentful is when he complains that the house isn’t clean enough. I feel like, clean it yerself, man! But fortunately he doesn’t do that a lot. My husband models putting others first, particularly me. Because of his attitude of service to me, it’s easy for me to have the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 12:47 AM
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I do 100% of the ball emptying :-) and 99% of the cooking and driving and grocery shopping. We have a nanny who helps with the laundry. We need to hire someone to help with bathroom and other heavy, periodic cleaning. Does that answer your question?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 09:48 PM
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How old are you? I’m 41.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 09:28 PM
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My husband is beyond amazing. I could not reasonably expect all men to be like he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 09:23 PM
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I’m a married woman. Most of the married women I know don’t understand the basic wife job requirements (keep the belly full and the balls empty) and the more advanced “look nice and be nice” requirements. I’m not sure what the equivalent is for husbands, but I’m sure they exist. I have a very fancy education that enables me a very well compensated job, but no one taught me how to be a good wife. I had on the job training. Without an understanding of the requirements, the institution is worthless…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 05:52 PM
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Selling scarcity! You want a Ferrari or a pair of Ferragamo shoes because you can’t have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 12:58 PM
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If your math were right, there are twice as many non-mediocre men as women, and I would be extremely surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 02:48 AM
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C'mon, u/dubslav_von_chekem! Tell us about how you hold 265 device and business-process patents in 14 countries. Purty please?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 08:41 PM
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He didn't buy the gum. His harem of barely legal hard-10s bring it to him after calculus because they know he's working on the project.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 08:18 PM
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I don't think that's what he meant, and I'm excited to be exchanging messages with the Duke of Nonmediocrity. I can't wait to hear how he broke the sound barrier with a plane he built out of gum wrappers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 08:12 PM
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A woman is a sack of mediocrity. I'd love to know what you consider not-mediocre about yourself. Are you the world's best polo player? Do you run fast? Do you jump high? Did you go to Harvard and Oxford before curing cancer? Do you have a billion dollars in gold bullion?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 08:00 PM
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I think most feminists are socialists, yes. Wait, what? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 05:19 PM
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Hilarious comments notwithstanding, it's not a wage gap if you work fewer hours in lower-compensated fields. It's a lifestyle choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 03:45 PM
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In response to the original question, you cannot ask why certain groups of people behave in certain ways. Why is it that 1,000 people of one ethnicity can be forced into a ghetto and behave a certain way while 1,000 people of another ethnicity forced into the same ghetto would behave a totally different way?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 03:28 PM
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No reasonable person denies there is a wage gap. The wage gap is the result of women's choices to work fewer hours in less well-compensated fields. There is little if any real wage gap. See the recent Uber Chicago study.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 04:20 PM
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I don't think the numbers are large enough to draw statistically meaningful conclusions one way or the other. But as a cis/het married women, I do sometimes fear that women are impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 07:46 PM
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flylady.net has been doing this for like 20 years. Very comprehensive. I would also suggest reading The Rules, which is a 20-year-old book about being feminine in a man-appealing way.
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