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renateco/r/askTRP09/02/18 11:58 AM
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renateco/r/askTRP05/09/17 10:40 AM
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renateco/r/askTRP01/11/17 12:28 PM
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renateco/r/askTRP10/11/18 12:47 AM
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renateco/r/askTRP28/10/17 10:44 AM
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renateco/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 01:56 PM
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renateco/r/askTRP19/11/17 07:53 AM
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renateco/r/askTRP08/09/17 09:08 PM
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renateco/r/askTRP07/02/18 10:16 AM
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renateco/r/askTRP28/10/17 10:53 AM
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renateco/r/askTRP25/09/18 09:06 PM
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renateco/r/askTRP26/09/18 05:31 AM
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renateco/r/askTRP25/07/17 03:27 PM
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renateco/r/askTRP29/10/17 03:42 PM
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Own it. If you don't drink just hold your frame. Also there are a lot of options in dating that don't include drinking. It's only an issue if you take it like an issue.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 10:17 PM
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You are just comparing the quality of the pictures (which includes your looks and the skills of the photographer). That's not your true SMV
/r/askTRP13/11/18 10:51 PM
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Right-on
/r/askTRP10/11/18 10:40 AM
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Thanks for the answer. I found the same evidence. It seems like they freak out when they ask for your Instagram or Facebook and you don't have any pictures on it
/r/askTRP10/11/18 09:46 AM
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If you are passionate about those hobbies and you are able to transmit that passion when you're talking to someone about that then it increases your SMV. Sports, Dangerous or creative activities seem to be the best.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:47 PM
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Agree.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:45 PM
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There is nothing like having a good confident friend to lift you up and teach you some skills. Try to connect to people and get a mentor
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:43 PM
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Play it cool. Call or text in a day to set up plans and if not move on. Finding a balance when drinking and picking up girls is hard.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:41 PM
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I see your point. Be the proficient in making all the "worst" decisions. Live life wildly so you understand how all is irrelevant. The girls you meet today will be meaningless in a decade.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:39 PM
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I think you did well. Now an option would be to just say "see you there" and stop texting (as someone else suggested). When in doubt be silent or ignore her need for an answer. Builds some mystery and will leave her thinking about what you said for hours
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:37 PM
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Seconded
/r/askTRP05/10/18 02:19 PM
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I get a wingman and play the nationalities game. I go to someone and ask if they can guess our nationalities. Since I'm not living in my home country it's a funny thing to meet new people. It also makes the other person committed to make a correct guess so girls will give you a good look. You can build on that with some jokes regarding stereotypes. Now they have tons of options to ask you stuff like "why are you here", 'what you do" etc and build rapport. It's also quite fun to see people pinch …
/r/askTRP02/10/18 05:25 PM
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I'm Portuguese. the multiple girls have approached in Germany and Netherlands always guess that I am Italian. I use this game where I ask them to guess my nationality as a way to start a conversation. Perhaps you could use the fact that the way you look and your nationality don't obviously match to initiate conversations as well.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 05:18 PM
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Hmm that's opposite to the idea I had from the material I've read. Any source to support your statement?
/r/askTRP26/09/18 09:17 AM
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True that.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 09:13 AM
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I said "Tuesday and perhaps thursday"
/r/askTRP26/09/18 09:12 AM
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I had a 6. Had problems with it so I changed to a cheap Motorola (gets the job done). I see your point. I'm just fascinated by the thought process when people in general say those things.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 07:01 AM
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I know it's a stupid example.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 06:19 AM
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I tend to agree. It's incredible how she changed her mind from the first date where she was all over me to now
/r/askTRP26/09/18 05:22 AM
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Just wanna say that from what I've read on your updates you were very brave and a great representative of TRP. One part of my mind says that you should call media attention to these fake accusations issues. On the other hand I don't know if that would be a the correct course of action for a proper man. I do find some value in taking this public considering other men might face the same problem as you did.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 09:14 PM
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Thanks man. Any ideas also considering that I'm in Germany (don't speak the language ) and I'll be leaving in 3 weeks? (Will add that to the post)
/r/askTRP25/09/18 04:22 PM
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She has a lot of friends (from what I've seen in the club) so I think she wasn't trying to make me an emotional tampon (at least fully)
/r/askTRP09/02/18 05:06 PM
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Thanks man. I think I was to overt again. Regarding the 1st mistake: I was trying to create a better connection with her - she was opening up a bit more and I thought that could be a good way to make her rely on me
/r/askTRP09/02/18 05:05 PM
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Surely bad timing ---> Next
/r/askTRP09/02/18 12:07 PM
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Agree. Just strange since first few times she was IOI all over the place. Can't see how I fucked it up
/r/askTRP09/02/18 12:02 PM
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We have been together twice now. Last time at my place when she was distant and told me her mom left home so I stopped escalating. Seems hard to tease her with this state of mind
/r/askTRP07/02/18 10:32 AM
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How can they realize that if I'm very quiet in social media (don't post photos bragging that I'm in another country)?
/r/askTRP18/12/17 07:08 AM
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It doesn't. I eat a lot of soy. Never been better.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 10:22 AM
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I was thinking about that because that looks more assertive and saying something like "Why trying to hard to add you on facebook when I already have your number?" But that might be creepy
/r/askTRP19/11/17 08:07 AM
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Just don't smoke
/r/askTRP03/11/17 08:16 PM
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I am not familiar with the actual accounts of Weinstein's assaults but I understand your point. Still, from what I heard something happened in his hotel room so it's a lot of naiveness. " Cat calling, leading with a sexually charged pickup line, following a girl around the bar after she shot you down and walked away repeatedly, telling an employee they are fired if they don't, etc...." that I also consider harassment.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 01:08 PM
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"It's up to the interpretation of the individual woman, which is confusing to some guys." So basically you are saying that if they feel like they regret that event they call it harassment? It is still pretty hard for me to believe that if you tell a girl to have sex with you and she says yes that could be harassment just because she regrets it
/r/askTRP01/11/17 12:58 PM
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It's a good compliment to the TRP
/r/askTRP29/10/17 05:45 PM
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Is not about what a woman thinks, it's about what works
/r/askTRP29/10/17 04:27 PM
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Don't stress. I read a few pickup books and was able to get chicks using those techniques. Got introduced to TRP a few months ago and I'm still in a dry spell. So, you are pretty fine xd
/r/askTRP29/10/17 01:01 PM
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I don't know but for me, if you wrap with some joke or something, it worked in the past
/r/askTRP28/10/17 05:47 PM
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I was thinking maybe I am being to serious in the conversation and not the funniest guy ever. Maybe I should try to take more time making jokes or funny observations
/r/askTRP28/10/17 05:20 PM
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Thanks to TRP that's what happened to me. Only now I see that my pussy magnet friend did it all along
/r/askTRP28/10/17 03:57 PM
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I usually do little touches in the shoulder, then the arms and then the hips. Try to do it as if it is unconscious.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 03:31 PM
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Man the only thing I can say is that it helps to touch her since the beginning. I also do some jokes like "you didn't give me a goodbye kiss" or something like that. It worked. Make it so that you are getting closer to each other and if she looks at your lips just kiss her. (this was kind of a use-case that worked for me with a particular girl). I also have the same struggle as you have about escalation
/r/askTRP28/10/17 03:19 PM
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Actually yesterday I think I was on that point but my mind was racing between "she's not that hot" to "it could be a good practice to just kiss her". So I kept getting closer to the girl and I lost my chance as she literally said "I'm not feeling it right now". Pretty enlightening
/r/askTRP28/10/17 03:08 PM
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Usually it's just something like: "we need to go that place that we were talking " or "coffee this weekend "
/r/askTRP28/10/17 03:06 PM
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I don't think I do that. I just text for logistics
/r/askTRP28/10/17 03:02 PM
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I guess she was trying to give you tips to go ahead and kiss her.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 02:11 PM
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She texted me but ignored my question about when she was free. 2 days later she sees me at a pub in Uni talking with another girl. After having fun with my friends for a while I go meet her and she starts with the same jealousy act as before saying "you are too busy with your girl friends". I confront her with the way she as been and she basically tells me I'm a fool/toy. I just end the conversation saying that if I'm a fool then it was done for us. What do you think?
/r/askTRP29/09/17 08:38 PM
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She texted me but ignored my question about when she was free. 2 days later she sees me at a pub in Uni talking with another girl. After having fun with my friends for a while I go meet her and she starts with the same jealousy act as before saying "you are too busy with your girl friends". I confront her with the way she as been and she basically tells me I'm a fool/toy. I just end the conversation saying that if I'm a fool then it was done for us. What do you think?
/r/askTRP29/09/17 08:37 PM
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You mean, noon in which time zone? Probably a number of hours until I respond would be a better tip
/r/askTRP25/09/17 03:24 PM
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"cool meet you tuesday 7:30 at ____ bar?" - I used that with her and she just says that I make the plans myself, like I'm just deciding for myself. "Get back to her that day, but never after 6 pm" - Apparently in Brazil people do vague arrangements and they should confirm it. I said to her that if I make a plan I assume it's gonna happen.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 03:16 PM
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gold ahah
/r/askTRP25/09/17 03:09 PM
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True story
/r/askTRP25/09/17 02:40 PM
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She Responded right now. Should I get the topic of going out againor ignore her?
/r/askTRP25/09/17 02:24 PM
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She Responded right now. Should I get the topic of going out againor ignore her?
/r/askTRP25/09/17 02:24 PM
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I’m talking to other girls but this one caught me eye
/r/askTRP25/09/17 01:54 PM
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I actually study rocket science and that is easier than this ahah. I also thought so
/r/askTRP25/09/17 01:53 PM
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I’ve had the same problems. I believe it’s mostly in your head. It’s the fear of being bad or that you are not good enough that haunts you. Stop overthink.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 05:44 AM
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Most guys here will say "text for logistics only". I think she is just using you to be entertained so she might have invited you to the car to see if you would try to kiss her.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 09:33 PM
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That is what I was thinking as well
/r/askTRP08/09/17 09:16 PM
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Shit test to see if you get upset. Should have gone along with it and just said something like "it's awesome to be a baby. Bla bla bla "
/r/askTRP08/09/17 10:56 AM
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My family's women always told me stuff like that. It's redpill theory 101
/r/askTRP08/09/17 10:35 AM
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In which country did you grow up? "I just have it so ingrained in my head that if you touch a woman inappropriately, you're automatically... not a rapist but I guess "bad". That sounds like a huge brainwash
/r/askTRP08/09/17 07:39 AM
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Had the same thought when I was a virgin/new to date scene. After that I just want a girl who knows what she is doing and how to behave in a relationship.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 08:54 PM
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I decided to go for my first venue. She did ride her bicycle for 40min to reach it. Nice time and talk. in the end I was grabbing her to say goodbye and she said that that situation felt strange. She was waiting for a kiss so I just grabbed the opportunity. I believe that her venue idea would be a safer place for her where she felt more in control.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 10:20 AM
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I've found that if you are not exciting and talkative enough right in the first time that you are in a group setting you will be outcasted. Enter the group like you are the most exciting guy in the world. Don't let anyone label you shy.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 10:16 AM
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🙏🏻
/r/askTRP04/09/17 10:11 AM
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The way I did something similar was because I wasn't aware she was older than me. It felt like she was less experienced so I just took the wheel. Forget about her age
/r/askTRP04/09/17 10:09 AM
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Feel comfortable touching. From the first day you meet her start poking her in the arm to get attention or in the middle of the conversation (I live with an Italian guy and he does this unconsciously). After that it's only escalation to a point where it's normal for her to have your arm around her. I usually hold my arm around her a few seconds more after a hug or something. Dare to do what other man are afraid to do.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 10:06 AM
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She's probably looking for a Beta and you behaved as a Alpha. She'll come back begging
/r/askTRP04/09/17 10:01 AM
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She is a Pro. She is shit testing me every time that I talk to set up things
/r/askTRP02/09/17 10:07 PM
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Netherlands, we ride bicycles, so we will only meet at the venue
/r/askTRP02/09/17 10:02 PM
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Compliance test. Subvert the challenge and make sure that she knows that you do whatever you want. She will (hopefully) be intrigued and trying to figure out how you are going to act.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 07:15 PM
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I'm vegan. My girlfriend can actually pin point if I have been eating well or too many sweets or Crap. Just eat well and have good hygiene
/r/askTRP30/08/17 07:12 PM
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You are clearly not happy ➡️ Next!!!
/r/askTRP16/08/17 07:13 PM
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Are you already working? Have you paid college debt or anything else? Are you fully independent (economically)? If so, just tell or list your concerns as a son. Let him take the decisions he thinks are the best. Probably she is going to date your dad, go to the states and stay with him. It's better than living in the Philippines. Don't suffer because of someone else's bad decisions. Check this show about marrying immigrants like girls from the Philippines :"90 days to wed". It's pure Beta/Onetie…
/r/askTRP16/08/17 05:41 PM
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Only give advice/help when she ask you for it.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 05:45 PM
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It's over. You can keep the "relationship" for those times you can get together and share some good times (read sex). But keep in mind that she will most probably cheat on you.(physically or not). Find some plates to spin and keep it low profile until you want to end the relationship. Try to take advantage of your situation.
/r/askTRP13/08/17 02:41 PM
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I was starting to loose some "nice guy" symptoms before I discovered TRP but the greatest thing I learned was the difference between Alpha and Beta. how being a powerful confident alpha is different from being a cunt and how to embrace it
/r/askTRP13/08/17 02:34 PM
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First time with a new girl I always get a little bit nervous and sometimes condoms are a hassle. Nevertheless with time and comfort things get easier. It's probably just your mind overthinking. Imagine you are the most badass alpha fucking this girl and it should all turn out ok
/r/askTRP13/08/17 02:31 PM
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Search for HasFit channel on Youtube. It has tons of free guided routines for muscle building or cardio with various lengths. I used to do a 20min full body routine before starting the day when I was particularly occupied. Great value
/r/askTRP13/08/17 02:27 PM
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Start saving it. Open a savings account and do not think about using that money anymore. The sooner you start to save the more you'll end up with.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 10:21 AM
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Same as me. There's always an alpha male lurking in all of us.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 01:15 PM
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I have a friend just like George. He helped me get my mindset straight and he checks every single point on the alpha checklist. He is not that handsome and kind of short but gets pussy like it's easy. Really glad you met that guy. Keep learning with him
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 09:42 PM
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Yeah got it mate.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 03:02 PM
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With other girl who I initiated conversation through social media like this example (and was responding), I just said I would text her to hang out once I arrived at the university and that I was going on vacation (faking that I had more important things to do). Despite the bad start do you believe this will be a good quick fix?
/r/askTRP27/07/17 01:54 PM
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Great story. Great points. You reached next level TRP. That's what it one can accomplish with TRP, understand women in general, attraction and what are the reasons behind girl-man attraction.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 01:41 PM
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Take your time to experiment and then you will see what is adding value to your life.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 01:20 PM
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I don't know about universities like Yale but from my experience in European universities I can give you some tips: 1- getting straight A's is impressive but most employers will only be concerned if you had mostly great grades or if you barely passed. 2- getting absorbed in the courses is not enough to really understand who you are, what you want to be as a future professional or what the real world is about. Join some discussion group, student union or student organization to get a feel for int…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 08:58 AM
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What's the context? Is it that you were complaining or generally complain about some behavior of her? If so, from my experience: I think it might be because you are depleting her relationship bank account. By that I mean you are not letting her deposit feelings of trust and mutual understanding in everyday life. It feels like a struggle for her to change when she can't fully trust you with who she is. It's not that she does not want to change, but first she needs to know you will listen to her, …
/r/askTRP25/07/17 03:45 PM
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