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| 1 | Fell out of frame with an LTR, issue arises, need advice | rendex6 | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 08:43 PM |
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| 1 | Can you overdose on the Red Pill?The red pill in my opinion can be a very bad combination if a person in particularly insecure. Nature alphas don’t care at all and just love their life, think athletes for instance. The problem becomes when you have dudes who were low SMV/incel discover the truths of the pill. This is where you see guys have insane anger phases and hate women. The red pill is about truth, but people use it as a way to justify their shitty actions because they feel slighted for their earlier years. You can be a g… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 02:50 AM |
| 2 | I realized I have a crooked ribYou’re not a hard gainer your just not eating enough. You should’ve been bulking all winter. Lift to look good for summer , and do exercises for your posture | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Why do I always lose interest in an LTR?Any more advice with all of this? I find some of OPs struggle to be me to a t. If I do anything for too long I start to feel trapped in a cycle and then need to change it. For the most part I actually enjoy it, but it can definitely be hard on relationships and potentially work. When you say meditate do you simply mean to just meditate and think about what I truly want and need to overcome? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 11:22 PM |
| 3 | TRP and pronI quit porn and my sex drive tanked so hard around the 3 week mark. Last about a month too my gf started crying one night after I didn’t finish because she thought I was no longer attracted to her. That was a fun convo lol. My sex drive came back much stronger and I have morning wood more often aswell, and my mind feels healthier in a sense when I’m having sex. Now I only jack off to my memory bank, or videos/pics of me and my girl when I need to, helps keep me out of trouble lol. I may try a 3 … | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 05:34 AM |
| 5 | branch swing mental gymnasticsHonestly bro this is kinda just part of the game lol. You two are FWB so there is no current commitment to each other and you two live in separate cities. When were you even planning on moving there? Sounds like she’s just trying to let you down easy. She could’ve ghosted you instead. Obviously it sucks hearing the backup shit but you know where that’s coming from through TRP. You got some ways to go just take that one on the chin and acknowledge that she’s moving on. We’re not entitled to every… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 11:54 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being afraid?Recently George St. Pierre was on the JRE. And he said not having confidence is like having all your money in the bank, but not having a card to spend it. When you are working on yourself you are “earning your money” but without confidence it’s not worth anything since you cannot access it. You are aware of your lack of confidence which is good now you need to take control of it. I’m sure you can think of examples in your life where people you didn’t think were the smartest achieved a lot becaus… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Don’t know if this will be viewed as beta but...is it my looks? I know y’all won’t lie to me.If you absolutely want to keep it, get a wahl beard trimmer. And us a 1 or 2 guard. Def want to keep it short until it’s full | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Don’t know if this will be viewed as beta but...is it my looks? I know y’all won’t lie to me.I feel you that it sucks, but you’ll be better off in the present rather than seeing the marginal improvements of your beard. With all due respect you have a ways to go anyway so you’ll notice when you shave once you have more coverage. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Don’t know if this will be viewed as beta but...is it my looks? I know y’all won’t lie to me.You can keep applying min but keep it short or shave it during the process. Also dermaroll if you’re not already. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 12:42 AM |
| 9 | Girls ex makes me RAGE, advice?Gunna tell it like it is. You are extremely insecure, have a fragile ego, anger management issues, and a case of oneitis. You have only been seeing this girl for a week which means you are overly attached at this stage, or are hoping that she is a good girl and are disappointed that she isn’t. You should assume that she isn’t wife material until vetted properly. But you shouldn’t be disappointed in her for not being a good girl, just enjoy your time with her for what she is. Your anger tells me … | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Are we supposed to just be okay with the idea of being cucked?To me it sounds hella insecure to feel like you are being cucked by a girl you are not in an LTR with and don’t have any inclination to lock down. You don’t own your plates and FWB, it’s a type of interaction that goes both ways. If a girl I’m banging is a good time and wants to go on a hike or something else that I am interested in doing as well then by all means. There are cool chicks out there and that’s the friends part in friends with benefits. You can enjoy your time with girls and remain … | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 03:21 PM |
| 5 | Are we supposed to just be okay with the idea of being cucked?You’re caring way too much. Sounds like a friends with benefits, where you actually enjoy her company without the long term commitment. If you enjoy her company and want to go hike with her who cares what she does in her time away with you, you’re not committed to each other so idk why it matters. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 02:33 AM |
| 7 | How do you joke with your male friends without taking it personal?Is having a sweating problem that big of a deal that you have to go for the dudes dead mother? | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 02:30 AM |
| 3 | Why don't guys make Fraternities or Frat-like clubs out of college in major cities? Or just exclusive Men's Clubs?I think potentially golf/country clubs or athletic clubs could fill this void. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/21 10:10 PM |
| 4 | When does psychological F**kery go too far?I’m gunna go against what others have said throughout this and say don’t LTR. Why put yourself in that situation at all if you know it’s never going to workout, seems like you’re looking for justification on actions you know are manipulative. It doesn’t take that much work to get laid if you have your life in order especially in college. Just download tinder, put yourself out there and have your social media presence and status work for you on campus. Just tell her straight up you don’t think it… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/21 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Is anybody on here into nootropics ?Maybe so. I’m aware of the risks but I have some exams to take for work, and the benefits appear to be worth the reward for me as I’m not handling a desk job as well as I thought I would. I’ll definitely keep this in mind, but at this point of my career the experience and certifications are worth it to me in the long run. Once these exams are finished I’ll remember to keep it to busy season only. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Is anybody on here into nootropics ?Little worried about doing so in Canada | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Is anybody on here into nootropics ?L-Theanine and caffeine is a very nice convo, removes any jitters or anxiety that can come from caffeine. I recently got an adderall script and it has made me so much more productive. Once busy season comes for work and I’m working crazy hours I may make an attempt at getting a modafinil script aswell. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/21 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Need Help Deciding on a Martial ArtYeah I would start with that. 2 days of bjj a week and a flexible workout split is a good start. The best BJJ guys in the world are huge but they also dedicate their lives to the sport and don’t have jobs, and possibly juice lol. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 01:55 PM |
| 3 | Need Help Deciding on a Martial ArtBoth are going to make it difficult to maintain muscle mass because they involve so much cardio. Whichever you one like best is ultimately the one to go towards. I prefer BJJ personally. My last gym was BJJ/mma so it was a good balance of striking and grappling. I’m currently moving to a new city so I’ll be joining a pure BJJ gym and doing drop ins at a boxing or MT gym to keep some striking experience. BJJ + striking is the best balance you can have in the real world. If you decide to go the BJ… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 01:48 AM |
| 6 | Do you think there is an agenda to emasculate men in the west?I’m unsure if I think there is an “agenda” like a rival country trying to steer us in this direction, of it is actually the way of our natural human behaviour. I don’t believe all men are supposed to be alphas chasing excellence, which is what makes it that much more valuable to be one. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 05:52 PM |
| 3 | LTR Reasons?Wanting to have kids is a big one. For me I’m currently in an LTR because I genuinely enjoy my girls company. We get along great and she checks all the boxes for me, plus I’ve seen her grow and try more in all aspects of her life since meeting me. But I still at this point remember all TRP truths and stay on my game. There was a point towards the end of last year where I let Covid get to me and I was slipping up and saw how it affected my relationship. Took that as a wake up call to get my act i… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 04:58 PM |
| 7 | Is LTRing or marrying a single mom ever congruent with TRP?The only way I would ever do it is if I were 30+ and she had a good reputation before hand and say she lost her husband to an accident or some kind of sickness. It’s not ideal but there’s no shame in that in my point of view, life is hard and tragedies happen. But these woman are extremely rare , so definitely don’t let yourself be the answer to a single moms problems after years of poor choices. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Becoming the man my son deservesI think that’s on you to decide for yourself then. Can you work at all while still in school? Calculate the cost of school and also the amount you would’ve made if you were working and saving during that time. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Becoming the man my son deservesWell that depends on your goals. If I were 30 years old and living in North America I would consider a trade because you can work and earn instead of pay tuition. So in 4 years you can save money, earn a skill, and invest in other options to have multiple sources of income. The way your country operates is going to be a significant factor in this decision. If you were going to go to back to school I would pick something like engineering or nursing because in 4 years you will have a skill and wil… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Becoming the man my son deservesI’m not sure what country you are from or in but I have experience with Canada and the US. By trade I mean some sort of skilled labour that does not require you to go back to school. These trades offer apprenticeship programs that allow you to get paid while you work towards your certification. Trades I would suggest are electrician, plumber, CNC, machinist, die maker, welder...etc. These jobs are hard to automate so they will also give you job security in the long run, while paying a good livin… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 11:35 PM |
| 9 | Becoming the man my son deservesDon’t chase your ex. You need to get your act together to show your son that hard work and being a man has value in this world. At your age I would suggest looking into a trade. Look at a few and pick one to begin an apprenticeship to learn a skill to increase your value in the workforce. This could lead to potential to even work for yourself if that is the route you go. Next take care of yourself, clean your diet, stop drinking/smoking and lift weight as-well as cardio. This stuff isn’t easy wh… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Giving the same advice to bp friend over and over again...It’s not your job to convert other people to TRP and fix people their lives. If he’s your friend you should know his character by now. If he’s strong enough to hear what he needs to hear then tell him, if not just remain neutral or tell him something he wants to hear. It’s his fault not yours. I find it impossible to convert people to this mentality to see the truth, but honestly the less people that see the world the way we do the better for us. If he’s high value and overall a good person/frie… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | What do you do if a girl is great but has red flags?How old are you? | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 04:34 AM |
| 1 | What do you do if a girl is great but has red flags?She’s fun now but will hit the wall just like all the others. The best case is you get a few years of great sex with one girl, the worst if she takes half your shit, child support, and more importantly your time. 50 is simply too high for me. Have your fun and fuck her, but do not LTR. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 04:31 AM |
| 1 | How to ask a girl to fuck / get physical over textI’ve been out of the game for a year due to an LTR. But if you’re working on your game through text you gotta have a few things going for you. She must think highly of you, so either how you carry yourself around her, how you look, and other factors determining how she perceives you. If your social media demonstrates your high value this could help. Then you just have to game her through text. Send some flirty messages but don’t simp, just enough to show you have stuff going on throughout your d… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 09:37 PM |
| 1 | How to ask a girl to fuck / get physical over textI’ve been out of the game for a year due to an LTR. But if you’re working on your game through text you gotta have a few things going for you. She must think highly of you, so either how you carry yourself around her, how you look, and other factors determining how she perceives you. If your social media demonstrates your high value this could help. Then you just have to game her through text. Send some flirty messages but don’t simp, just enough to show you have stuff going on throughout your d… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 09:37 PM |
| 2 | “Don’t shit where you eat” still applicable to short-term job?Your reputation is everything in your career. If you can’t help yourself then reach out to her once you leave the company, and even then still be careful especially if the connections at the company have any benefit down the road. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 09:14 PM |
| 5 | Saw one of my plates post her getting drinks with another dudeWhy do you care tho? I think you’re letting your ego get in the way because you feel another dude bested you or you liked her a bit deep down. Nothing wrong with either case but it’s something to think about to better yourself. Keep working on yourself, let a girl prove her worth don’t create an image of what you hope she is. And tbh, you can’t really be upset when you’re doing the same thing. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 04:32 AM |
| 21 | Saw one of my plates post her getting drinks with another dudeShe’s a plate why do you care. You’re fucking her without commitment. Now you know not to LTR and to wrap it. Spin more plates. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 04:06 AM |
| 8 | Is it reasonable to do a soft next to a plate whos getting a little too comfortable around me?Hard to tell based off limited info. But I’ve seen a clip of call her daddy or some podcast telling girls to leave immediately after sex or leave without saying anything to drive a guy they like crazy. If you’re holding frame well before it may have been an attempt to break you. However this could just as easily been her losing interest and just leaving unwarranted. Up for you to judge the situation but this does sound similar to that clip I saw. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 04:01 AM |
| 16 | Girlfriend and parents died in 2020, I can't take it anymoreTake all the time you need and look after yourself. You have a community of brothers here to support you. No one deserves to go through this, but the world will be a better place with you here. This is not a time to be worried about “being weak” or holding frame. Take all the time you need to grieve. You always have this community for support and feel free to message if you need more personal advice. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/21 11:48 PM |
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