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Bachelor Pad Economics by Aaron Clarey will get you started. It has all the info about women, finance etc
/r/askTRP14/06/20 05:08 AM
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Check out Jesse Lee Peterson's church sessions on Youtube
/r/RPChristians08/05/20 05:49 AM
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Rim jobs would work too
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:40 AM
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If her actions suggest she's jealous but words suggest she wants a threesome, simple rule to follow is 'watch what she does, not what she says.' In other words, it's a shit test.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:24 AM
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This is what's working for me during quarantine. I read messages (or reply depending on the person) once a day and never open chats again until next day.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 11:45 PM
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Withdraw attention and remember to use texting only for logistics. During quarantine, focus on self improvement. That's all
/r/askTRP29/04/20 11:15 PM
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Oneitis, read the sidebar
/r/askTRP07/01/20 12:39 AM
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Practice forgiveness. Forgive yourself for all the mistakes you've made but don't forget. Forgive others for all the mistakes they've made but don't forget.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:58 PM
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I wouldn't suggest completely cutting off from your friends as you've mentioned you learn a lot from them. So, cut contact to a minimum and in the meantime work on yourself. Law 16 - Use absence to increase respect and honor.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 12:15 PM
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I'm one of those who came to this sub through nofap. I totally agree with you
/r/askTRP05/11/19 06:34 PM
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More sexually aroused as in having a boner? Then no. Desperation as in let's say I'm in a situation where I'm with a woman and all I'm thinking about subconsciously is fucking her and all the conversations we're having in that moment are just words.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 05:32 PM
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Nothing concrete Let's start from here. Write down precisely what you want to achieve and work yourself backward. For instance, I want to become a successful photographer. How will I get there? I need to be good at taking photographs that look professional. I need to practice everyday to develop such a skill. I need to have a set of habits to make me practice everyday. I need to know what set of habits I need to form. I pickup a book on the same topic. (Atomic Habits by James Clear) I read the b…
/r/askTRP07/06/19 08:28 PM
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Read - Read TRP books and once you've started reading the book, make sure you finish it. Must read: The Way of The Superior Man by David Deida, Meditate - A good start is to meditate for 10 minutes each day, usually after waking up and hydrating yourself. Stay present and pay attention to all the noises around you (birds, car horns etc) and within you. If you get into a thought loop, observe your thoughts and write them down after you're done meditating. Read your thoughts and see how you began …
/r/askTRP07/06/19 08:01 AM
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I want to analyze it and improve. Stop arguing and contradicting yourself, you look stupid. Listen to what u/FearGarbhArMait is saying. That's how you'll improve.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 10:31 PM
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Rules of becoming a Man by Gavin McInness Get your ass beaten Beat someone's ass Get heartbroken Break a girl's heart ​ LOL! Read the sidebar brother.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 10:17 PM
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there were remarks that the date felt as an interview at certain points - maybe I was trying way too hard to keep conversation going? Been there, done that. ​ Only way you can do something about it is by practicing taking pauses when you get pumped up while speaking. The calmer you will be while talking, the lighter the conversation will feel for both you and the woman.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 06:55 PM
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Stop masturbating my man to save energy and time. Apply that saved energy and time at approaching people.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 06:47 PM
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this a butt hurt response that will trigger an ego battle. This.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 06:31 PM
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she's the only girl I've been with ​ I'm pretty sure she still thinks you are blue pilled and will try to pull you into LTR with her. Keep your frame strong as she'll be looking for ways to break it and get you in LTR. She knows that it's only you who dealt with her mental problems for years and no other guy will deal with her for that long so she needs someone to be there to deal with her shit and she knows it's you. Keep Abundance Mentality and be willing to walk out anytime you want.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 06:29 PM
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Step 1 - Relax. Step 2 - Breathe. Step 3 - Be genuinely interested in knowing the person you're talking to. If you're not curious enough, don't bother and save yourself some time and energy. Step 4 - Don't put pussy on a pedestal. (I make this mistake sometimes and as a result give creepy vibes) Step 5 - Start with keeping your conversations short. (The most common are 'asking the time' and 'directions to a location'.) Step 5.1 - Approach men and women, both initially. Step 5.2 - Asking the time…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 09:14 PM
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Today she posted a pic of her eating a fucking sandwish with another guy.. Like no romance shit... I told her nice husband... And she said thanks... I proceeded to tell her that shes a pain in the ass. ​ Let your jealous ass sit down for a second and spend time on yourself than on her.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 09:01 PM
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Reading books would be a great start to build habits that would last long. ​ Recommended read - Atomic Habits by James Clear
/r/askTRP31/05/19 07:13 PM
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Dress nicely.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 05:49 AM
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Set the mood by rambling about anything as having sex in cars can be tricky. Talk, talk and talk some more to make her feel safe and comfortable as the location itself is not a comfortable environment to have sex in the first place. Go for a drive and observe things around you to start with rambling and keep the conversation going for some time before escalating physically.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 03:04 AM
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You can take up things you find interesting instead of gaming. Write a list down of things you can do in a week. 168 hours in a week. 3x7 - 21hrs hours gaming? 3x7 - 21hrs some hobby 3x7 - 21hrs some other hobby 8x7 - 56hrs sleeping You're still left with 49 hours to eat, shit or do whatever. Of course you can change the number of hours for things as it suits you but start with keeping a track of your weekly activities and divide your weekly hours accordingly.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 10:52 PM
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Be prepared to get treated like a beta for a while and see where it goes or just next her.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:14 PM
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I understand your intention to give a spare basic point and shoot camera but realize this that you have set a precedent of you being a provider.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:07 PM
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Models by Mark Manson
/r/askTRP23/05/19 06:59 PM
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I'm facing a similar phase in my life where I feel un-calibrated with my thoughts and reality. TRP knowledge was too much for me, I could feel my mind and my body getting distant from each other everyday. One day, I gave up on everything and everyone. My friends, my life goals and everything else out of sheer frustration. I picked up writing as a hobby. I wrote anything that came to my mind on a piece of paper. ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING! I did so as it helps me get my thoughts out of my mind witho…
/r/askTRP23/05/19 03:10 AM
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Get curious about people, talk to them, know them and something will eventually click.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 11:28 PM
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You are an orbiter to her. Increase your SMV and plate more women.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 10:58 PM
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Focus on self-improvement Be in an abundant mindset
/r/askTRP22/05/19 10:22 PM
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She has found chinks in your armor. It's too late now. Get out before this turns into a shitshow.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 02:04 AM
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You're ranting about millennial women not dressing well and elderly women dressing well, pornstars having no coordination and unable to give a titjob and you're praising hentai porn as women give their full effort. ALL in one post! Here's what to do to fix this problem - DELETE ALL PORN FROM YOUR FUCKING COMPUTER!
/r/askTRP22/05/19 02:02 AM
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Watch the 2nd presidential debate from 2016 and pay close attention to Trump's body language and notice how he breathes during the debate.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 01:48 AM
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Bad idea.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 01:46 AM
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My brother, read the book 'The Way of The Superior Man' by David Deida
/r/askTRP22/05/19 01:45 AM
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Keep me updated.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 12:43 AM
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Stop masturbating.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 11:30 PM
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If he hates talking to you about relationships then call him out when he does. Problem solved!
/r/askTRP21/05/19 11:28 PM
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When she replies, text her back in 2020, no need to rush.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 11:25 PM
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My point is this. Your gains in the gym are a bi-product of your self-discipline. Your daily writings on that piece of paper are a bi-product of self-discipline. You living a healthy lifestyle is a bi-product of self-discipline. The next thing you'll know is these micro-habits have made you a better person with better problems and those better problems will not be playing video games or watching YouTube etc 24/7
/r/askTRP21/05/19 02:37 PM
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Tried a lot of stuff with no long-lasting results so far You'll not see a change in a few weeks or sometimes even months. I've kept myself frustrated thinking change is just around the corner. It never happens. The more you want it, the less it'll happen. Only focus on doing it everyday with no expectations. Expectations leads to disappointment.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 01:54 PM
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Read 'Models' by Mark Manson
/r/askTRP21/05/19 01:46 PM
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You've described my life (excluding gaming) Make writing daily your friend. I see it as you talking to yourself as another person and figuring stuff out. It has helped me figure stuff out and work on it one day at a time. Here's how you can start - sit down for 5 minutes a day with a pen and a piece of paper you don't have to write, just sit down pay attention to your thoughts write in whatever shape or form make this a daily habit gradually increase the time to 10 minutes, then 30 minutes and s…
/r/askTRP21/05/19 01:29 PM
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This will turn into a shitshow.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 12:40 PM
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I was in LTR with a woman who always cheated her previous relationships. I ignored this red flag before getting into the relationship. Guess what? I found out after 6 months of dating that I'm also being cheated on. Morale - these hoes ain't loyal
/r/askTRP21/05/19 10:44 AM
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I'm living this life for past 3 years. Here's what I'd like to share through experience - Write down a list of everything you want to do in your life. List examples - Books to read Movies to watch daily task list (simple tasks like visit my doctor, shampoo my hair etc) week planner (how i do it is by breaking down my week in 168 hours and filling in those hours with things I plan on doing, 56 hours sleep, 14 hours of writing etc) Weekly/Monthly task list (finish reading a book, complete a projec…
/r/askTRP19/05/19 03:49 AM
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Avoid the bitchiness going around and focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 03:32 AM
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I cannot usually hangout when she wants to (80% of the time). She probably realizes she's bothering you too much and now wants you to take the lead Or She got a better option and the plate will break eventually.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 02:05 AM
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Read the whole post, no skipping. https://illimitablemen.com/2014/03/30/mental-models-abundance-vs-scarcity/
/r/askTRP19/05/19 01:46 AM
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Text her and feel like a complete idiot after she ignores you again or makes excuses. Forget about her and find something you've been planning to do for a while? Which one would you rather chose?
/r/askTRP19/05/19 01:24 AM
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ABUNDANCE MENTALITY!
/r/askTRP19/05/19 01:20 AM
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Read books you've always wanted to read. If you don't have a list yet, start with some redpill books as it is helping me become more calm and confident.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 11:53 PM
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Read e-books, notepad apps to keep a journal, podcasts.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 06:19 PM
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Firstly, why would you give gifts expecting something in return? Secondly, let her ask if something is wrong and tell her you were being stupid and expecting something in return for all the gifts you gave. She might find it funny or just ignore you. If she finds it funny, great. If she ignores, move on. You'll be saving a lot of time and energy for both of you.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 06:14 PM
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Good thing is you're self aware to the point where you know 'this is an insecurity' Step 1 - Delete all social media apps for a week (no peeking) Step 2 - Keep going to the gym (specially when you don't feel like going) Step 3 - After a week write down exactly how you feel on a piece of paper. Step 4 - Consider getting back on social media or delete your accounts depending on your observations about your week. On a sidenote, read 'Models' by Mark Manson and work on creating abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 06:05 PM
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To add on that, say it and see what happens. She might like it or she may not like it. This will only help both of you establish some concrete boundaries. Once said, stick to your gut. Don't apologize.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 05:48 AM
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My brother, pickup the book 'When I Say No, I Feel Guilty' and read it. This book will answer your question.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 05:44 AM
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Relatable? No as I masturbated my way through school watching porn but later on in my life, I did experience the same as you did. All I'll say is have fun and keep the abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 12:48 AM
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sometimes I'm a bully, sometimes an annoying prick. You need to ask yourself why you want to fix it. Is being a bully causing more harm than good to people around you? Is it annoying people and they've vocally said that you're annoying them? If not then maybe it's only you who think you're a bully and an annoying prick? Some of my friends are what people would classify as a "bully" or an "annoying prick" and I get along with those friends, tough love.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 12:41 AM
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Agreed. Try reading books and hitting the gym regularly (specially on days you don't feel like going)
/r/askTRP11/05/19 07:45 AM
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Create a 'morning ritual' where you occupy your mornings with things that will give you great start for the day. Include activities like meditation, exercise, reading a list of some of your favorite quotes, clean your room, write down body measurements after workout like arms, chest, waist, weight etc (can do weekly if not everyday), also write down the time you fall asleep and wake up and keep a track of your sleeping pattern. Also, eat, drink water, bathe, comb, brush, dress decently. Morning …
/r/askTRP06/05/19 07:14 PM
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Read DayBang by Roosh. Gives good examples of rambling
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 04:54 PM
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Power of Now by Eckhard Tolle
/r/askTRP19/10/18 08:22 PM
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I've heard a lot about these books in the community but somehow missed adding these books in my list of books to read. Thank you
/r/askTRP16/10/18 07:23 PM
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I'll get back to you once I've finished reading the books that you recommended and I will watch the Joe Rogan podcast as well. Thank you! Also, I do have a Kindle that I got as a gift, haven't researched Kindle unlimited yet. I'll see the plan and would consider shifting completely to ebooks. Thanks again.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 07:20 PM
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