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5

They lack integrity, something you most likely will have to live with. But i am telling you in the end they are not really worth it. You will most likely tolerate it because of the good sex and what else comes with it but down the road the tradeoff just does get you anywhere.
/r/seduction29/03/26 10:41 PM
1

And brush your tongue! Most bacterina sits on on thr tongue and spreads from there throughout the mouth.
/r/seduction11/03/26 08:02 AM
2

Actually i witnessed this exact thing happen in a bar once. I was sitting with 3 friends at the barcounter and sitting in the back was a guy who we later found out got ghosted for a date there. The older waitress and also owned of the bar let pretty much anybody in on what had happend since she knew him and it was a pretty "open" bar wo to speak. As a few minutes passed, 2 women stepped in and also sat a few seats next to us at the bar and soon heard of the guy being sad he got ghosted and one o…
/r/seduction13/11/25 03:30 PM
2

I wonder how ignorant somebody can be to this fact andxthen post this.
/r/seduction08/11/25 01:56 AM
1

Yes, in most cases
/r/seduction20/09/25 07:46 AM
5

You have to speak to them, apporach and have the balls to make the situation happen. They dont come on their own
/r/seduction05/09/25 08:59 AM
0

The amount you lose by walking is so minimal, it is not worth mentioning. Yes it is better than sitting but it is not worth looking at as a fat burning exercise. I can tell you from a first hand experience, i am a waiter since 13 years now and i walk way more steps on most days and it doesnt make a huge difference in caloric baseline for me compared to the time i am on vacation. And obviously i track my calories pretty accurate. It makes close to no difference. Intermittent fasting is a totally …
/r/seduction29/01/24 09:52 PM
11

Alcohol doesnt stop fat burn. The only thing alcohol does for you as add extra empty calories. All calories should be eaten in a best case scenario. Walking does not make you lose fat. Just like lifting weights doesnt burn fat. You need to do cardio to actually lose a significant amount of calories, the heartrate is a good indicator. The daytime does not matter. It is s myth that any sort of calories are digested differently depending the daytime. Sleep has hardly any effects on digestion. No sn…
/r/seduction28/01/24 10:00 PM
3

I think most of his philosophy comes from living in this high class circle. Women in these fields should not be desired anyway, they are terrible women who are just desperate for a man to finance their expensive lives. Same goes for F&F. However, some aspects do fit to the rest of society, like social media slowly killing the female perception of dating/men. You definitely need to filter out what applies to your surroundings and what not.
/r/seduction16/07/22 10:18 AM
2

I am very handsome, but struggle with sexappeal. I hear this often of being a 10/10 but the sexual edge is missing.
/r/seduction07/07/22 02:58 PM
1

Dude listen. Either you play your role as a man and shoot your shot, and i mean a solid do or die shot, or you leave it. She feels just as awkward as you do, and she is hoping for you to break that barrier. You have a woman here, that is clearly interested in you her personality cant handle the situation. Most women do this when they feel insecure about themselves. She is not playing stupid games at all in this case.
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:07 AM
1

Take the L and move on. This smells like a lot of pain even if you would end up in a relationship together. If i was you, i would try thing with the other girl you took with you instead. Dont givre the first girl any unnecessary attention please!
/r/seduction19/06/22 10:06 PM
3

Be yourself is actually the best advice i could give you in the dating scene. If you want maximum outcome, meaning a solid relationship, do not think you can frontrun your archivements and your future personality by acting so. However, if you want a higher successrate in the intitial dating phase, you can sure as hell fake it. You wont be satisfied with the following outcome. Be confident in what you bring to the table at present. If you are not confident with you present self, you need to work …
/r/seduction23/05/22 07:14 AM
15

Not getting a boner when in need is a bigger problem and takes alot of time to heal from. It can be a porn induced problem, physical , mental problem.
/r/seduction29/04/22 07:41 PM
3

I mean do u have the desire to be more "manly" to fight it off?
/r/seduction25/03/22 08:19 AM
2

Either you accept that a big bodycount on women is unattractive for males or continue living under a rock. Women know that it is bad for their reputation, thats why they never give u a straight answer if you ask them, same with age. Women get fucked, men fuck. A man who gets alot of girls has to earn that status, women get born hot and have free access to sex. Therefor it is not the same for both. You can play justice warrior all you want, you wont change a subconcious perception of a average ma…
/r/seduction23/03/22 08:20 AM
3

Men and women are not the same, and never have been. Or do u look it financially security and protection in your wife? You need to learn alot mate.
/r/seduction23/03/22 07:55 AM
6

Because the past of a girl matters and its a good indicator of her future, especially when she is only 20 years old. I would drop this girl if i was OP. Its just a massive turn off to have a ran thru girl by your side. You have every right to be turned off.
/r/seduction23/03/22 02:10 AM
0

Never ever!!! Correct or advise her on her exercises! Women pretty much always do their research on what to do in the gym and typically hate people coming up to them to show how things could be done better.
/r/seduction16/03/22 11:23 AM
1

I am nearby in Trier xD
/r/seduction14/03/22 02:18 PM
2

Why dont just ask her in person when you see her instead of taking the easy route by message?
/r/seduction10/03/22 06:42 AM
3

Ditch the bitch
/r/seduction03/03/22 01:09 PM
16

I can tell you that not watching porn makes a WORLD of difference
/r/seduction09/02/22 10:07 PM
3

Have sex with the other girl on the side until the first one lets you in. But dont tell her. Its her own fault for not satisfying your needs.
/r/seduction01/02/22 05:46 AM
30

I am 30 y/o, very good looking and had quite some experiences with older and younger women sofar. I have been noticing that majority of women in their 30s who havent found a partner yet, are in most cases difficult to deal with. Some have a toxic behavior towards men, blaming them for not being im a healthy realtionship. Others start to focus so much on themselves thinking they dont need a healthy relationship, not realizing that they themselves are the sole cause. On the other hand there are ex…
/r/seduction11/01/22 02:14 PM
1

Such a huge turnoff. People that need their phone to stay entertained and need it to entertain others.
/r/seduction02/01/22 04:06 AM
0

"I'll take you back to your teens"
/r/seduction31/12/21 02:43 PM
0

If your girlfriend had no titties, but she got an implant to D later on, would it give her more femininity or not in your eyes?
/r/seduction25/12/21 11:19 AM
1

Just to add something important. There are places in the world where women dont give a damn what status you have. If you are appealing then your chances are just as good as the guy with a phat bankaccount. I live in a rather small town in germany with 120k people, nobody cares what your profession is, everybody gets equal chances depending on their looks and character. If you live in the US in those "shitty dating clusters" you are bound to live by the environment that social media created.
/r/seduction22/12/21 05:10 PM
10

Look, there are two ways to approach this.1. Either you start working hard on yourself in every way, i.e. hit the gym, healthy income, understand yourself to know your worth, and learn how women function. 2. Stay unchanged and hope you will find someone that suits your life. Depending on your own value, you might end up with a woman who might not be as good looking or mentally fitting as wish. Basically you only get as much as you bring to the table.
/r/seduction22/12/21 01:32 PM
-3

The problem lies with the women nowadays. They love to get sold a dream, thats what they see on the internet on every single scroll. Look right past that shit, be yourself, it might take more time but you will find your soulmate regardless
/r/seduction22/12/21 11:24 AM
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Your successrate would be 0. U probably have a better chance of just asking for sex. It is way harder to please a woman orally than to please a guy orally. Women need to be in a perfect state of mind, need alot of trust to go down on her right, even if you know what you are doing. Ghr ROI for her is not worth it.
/r/seduction10/12/21 08:12 AM
2

It can hurt regardless if dry or not. There are a few factors than olay a role. Yes, your mindset at that moment, what size you are working with and if you had a good amount of sex recently. My current girlfriend still feels pain in certain positions because she didnt have sex for a long time.
/r/seduction01/12/21 04:45 PM
6

I often had a sitation where a girl was pretty rude but good looking, and i thought to myself: somebody needs to fuck the shit out of this girl so she finally knows her role. Sadly i was never the guy to do so, but if i had the chance, i'd probably would have done it. If sex for you can be a tool to teach a girl a lesson, then yeah, it definitely works. Same goes for when you get in a fight with your SO, the "punishing" sex afterwards can be quite lit.
/r/seduction19/11/21 02:49 AM
4

If i had to guess she is probably not talking about rough in terms of choking or spanking and such. I guess she just wants to get fucked harder, dirtier and longer. Change up positions, try to go deeper and longer.
/r/seduction19/11/21 02:42 AM
339

Just go up to a man u like and talk with him. Almost any man at a nightclub is only there because he wants that chance. Thats why we go to clubs.
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:39 PM
8

How much porn do u watch? Who needs viagra to fuck nowadays?
/r/seduction07/11/21 11:40 PM
8

Sounds like she needs to do a lot of mental work for herself first to open up for a useful relationship. If you want to truly make her your girl, you need alot of patience and try to understand her way of thinking. You will need to give her alot of attention, she needs to feel that you are sure about approaching her in a serious way. I am 100% sure she not making power moves nore playing any games. Seems like she is hurt from her past, and only someone who really wants her and takes all the the …
/r/seduction17/10/21 10:12 PM
-1

Dont actively try to set up the fight. Mind your own business and if he ever decides to pay you a visit, let him have it. Sometimes a man has to do what a man has to do.
/r/seduction15/10/21 06:08 AM
1

Focus on the 7 and 8s, learn to love to not give the 9 and 10s the attention they are desperately craving for. For me it is the best feeling i reap from a 9 and 10. I get a serious kick out of it.
/r/seduction05/10/21 09:16 AM
2

I am a 9,5/10 male not kidding, and i have experienced the same thing throughout life. But the answer is very obvious. Good looking women know their value and they typically dont want to "simp" for that reason. They want you to do all the work for their beauty, they mostly get alot of attention offline and online anyway, so you often have to live with doing the work to have a special place. Woman dont date down, so if she is already a 9 or 10, you are pretty much stuck with constantly simping fo…
/r/seduction05/10/21 07:39 AM
5

Cant speak for american women, i live in germany. I have quite some experience since i am 29 y/o and good looking. I see social media as the worst influence on women over the last decade. You can probably compare it to porn usage of a male. It in most part fills all their needs and always keeps options open for them at any time. I have a good female friend where i can see exactly whats going on with hot women who take care of their social media profiles. If you ever get to know a girl when out a…
/r/seduction14/09/21 08:40 AM
4

Not really. It depends on the woman and the setting.
/r/seduction04/09/21 02:20 PM
1

Sounds like a great experience to me
/r/seduction04/09/21 07:54 AM
4

Yes, age is often the only thing going for women until it doesnt. Men in all age groups are starting to compete for the same young women, the women see the lifestyles they prefer on the internet and dont care if it comes attached with a 55 year old man that can afford them a cute lifestyle. It leaves older women stranded with barely any options. I recently started working in a high quality restaurant and i am absolutely baffled, how many older men stop by with their hot as hell, 11/10, gorgeous …
/r/seduction31/08/21 11:49 AM
4

Are u stupid dude? Is it not obviously enough? Ask her what her intentions are! I mean it cant get any easier since you already know each other for a while now. U show all the balls when its time to defend her from somebody who is hitting on her bur cant ask a simple fucking question?
/r/seduction09/08/21 12:04 PM
1

It is not about being a real alpha mate. Its about fitting your role as a man. Its the womans instinct that wants protection and feel safe with a man by her side. If she has a physique close to yours, she wont be attracted to you. That is expected by women just like men have their expectations from women. Hit the gym and you will have your problems solved. Some are genetically blessed to not having to go to the gym and some just arent. At your hight, you are bound to be at least muscular to the …
/r/seduction08/08/21 06:41 AM
1

Thanks for trolling me...
/r/seduction08/08/21 06:33 AM
2

You need to accept that the women you want need a real man by their side. They dont accept you with your infant looking body the same way you dont accept the younger teens with their slutty mindset. Either you work your way out of it or you stay in your position for the rest of your life. Complaining everywhere wont help you, especially if you know how your problem is fixed.
/r/seduction08/08/21 06:26 AM
2

Banging wallets is the most fun
/r/seduction14/07/21 10:15 AM
1

Dont give advice, let her give you some. Try something like:hey, seems like you are into cereal. I am having a hard time choosing a new flavor for myself. What u think is the best one for morning breakfast? I also recommend using your hands for gesture alot.
/r/seduction10/07/21 09:22 AM
3

Listen to me, i am 29 years old have quite seen a few things in my life. Women who require you to play games are not worth it. The only reason you have to lull them into lalaland is because they themselves really dont know what they want. Its like blindfolding a woman who expects to open her eyes again at disneyworld. I just recently met a girl and we have been dating now for several weeks. I was straight forward and it absolutely worked, because she is not with that BS and knows exactly what sh…
/r/seduction27/06/21 03:51 PM
220

He gamed her so hard, she didnt even realize that she lost.
/r/seduction18/06/21 09:34 AM
10

No better feeling than carrying a muscular chest infront of you when you enter a bar. At least to me, it raises my confidence by a landslide.
/r/seduction12/06/21 03:07 PM
43

I always imagine and play it out ss if me and whoever i approach being best friends since highschool. Works everytime. Just dont go overboard with it
/r/seduction06/06/21 07:39 AM
1

This is a bunch of snakeoil BS. There is no mother of all proteins that magically makes you super sayan. Eat healthy, thats all.
/r/seduction25/05/21 06:00 AM
8

Turn of the lights and hit the cervix
/r/seduction24/05/21 09:33 PM
12

Very difficult getting out of your situation. Its like you are building a mindset/aura that prevents you from getting laid. I really dont have magic words for you, but i usually helped myself out of this situation by sleeping with a woman i was already familiar with. I turned to my neighbour recently for this exact reason, she might not be the hottest, but she definitely takes my urges, so i am not needy when i go on dates with other women or shit like that.
/r/seduction09/05/21 07:11 AM
18

Same goes the other way around. I find only 10% to actually know how to orgasm multiple times, 30% stumble upon it once in a while, and 60% havent even figured out their own body yet.
/r/seduction04/05/21 01:49 PM
9

i suggested this some years ago. my best friend freestyles exceptionally well and i have never met a funnier guy in my entire life because he comes up with the most phenominal responses to everything that get thrown in his direction. there is definitely a correlation.
/r/seduction19/04/21 08:53 PM
1

you should definitely meet somebody at a disco, sleep with her the same night if possible, avoid tp take her contact number or passing her yours, and definitely never see her again after that. yw. ddit:and dont get into a relationship with her!
/r/seduction11/04/21 10:24 AM
13

if you seriously want to have a good mouth hygiene u have to 1. (most important!!!) uses special brushes for between your teeth, since food can get stuck there for longer periods 2. clean your tongue with a tongue scraper 3. brush your teeth daily. I personally sometimes use mouthwater after brushing between all of my teeth to get that really cleared out. i never ever had problems with bad breath, some compliments tho.
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:54 PM
16

jealousy
/r/seduction06/04/21 11:41 AM
2

honesty. the worst thing a woman ca do is blurry her feelings , play games with men and overcomplicating situations. be true to yourself. biggest turnoff for me, now that i am getting older.
/r/seduction13/03/21 06:20 AM
2

maybe she sensed your disapointment with her not going further. and it sounds like your are very focused on getting your nut. just relax, dont rush anything and it will come by itself down the road.
/r/seduction18/02/21 09:01 AM
1

very happy for you. and yeah it was a good question to ask a woman, ill keep that question in mind. also i had the strong urge to cut your hair to a high fade. it would greatly increase your looks since you have a perfect headshape mate...
/r/seduction16/02/21 04:39 AM
6

you should talk to her about your concerns. other than that, take your time with her and take her for what she is, not her history. just because she hasnt been around too much, doesnt mean she cant be the perfect GF down the road. but make sure to take some extra time for critical decisions
/r/seduction07/02/21 09:21 PM
1

bye?
/r/seduction07/02/21 06:59 AM
1

focus on showing her that you love her instead of telling her.
/r/seduction06/02/21 12:12 PM
1

there is no rational explanation for this behavior. just a big ass red flag and you should distance yourself from him as far as you can. chances are he is way more off than what he did there to you, it might only have scrached the surface. and i might also call him out on this if you get the chance.
/r/seduction22/01/21 08:10 AM
5

well obviously first of all, you should never overdo your contact with you SO even in your honeymoonphase for this exact reason. any rationally thinking person knows that too much of everything, even water, is harmful. next step, if its already too late, you guessed it, distance yourself from each other in a healthy way so that you have something to talk about again when you see each other. but talk about it with her before going into the solution. i cant even count how often i have seen this pr…
/r/seduction20/01/21 01:38 PM
7

if there is anything that summed up my entire life, i'd say its : "it is not the goal but the way there that matters, and the harder the way the more worth while the journey." -Wilfred Thesiger. it is probably the most simple and common quote but the most accurate for human psychology i think.
/r/seduction18/01/21 11:16 PM
2

in most cases i find it very attentionseeking. it makes you look like you took too much time in advance to figure out how to make a impression to your surrounding. sure there could be coincidences that go in your favor like the example you had with being at a music festival, that is totally fine. but the rest i find to be pretty cringy to have direct messages displayed on your shirt. at least for males, i think females are totally fine with doing so, it would be their pure intention to get hit o…
/r/seduction17/01/21 09:52 AM
0

Dude I'd love to play with those. I'd treat her like shit if i had the puss already. But sadly i am not a goldmine..
/r/seduction05/01/21 10:14 AM
2

To a certain extent you can not change your looks. You should focus on shining with your personality. How many people do i know that dont look good but have a good looking girlfriend. Make the best out of your looks and become a caring, funny, nice to hang around with human and please dont focus on your lovelife. Same as with woman, if you dont chase it, it will eventually chase you.
/r/seduction31/12/20 09:26 AM
-5

Dude if you dont really see him as friend then fuck her. Dont do it in his own home tho. Try to fuck her in your home. Next time you see her, ask her if she is interested in picking up "something" at your place. Leave it at that and if she says yes then go all in. But it all depends on how your relationship is with the dude.
/r/seduction31/12/20 09:15 AM
2

How are we suppose to answer this question? You yourself give absolutely no hint, if you like her looks , her character, if you are sexually attracted to her, if you can see yourselfs in a realtionship...? I mean the signs are obvious, if you are into her, then just meet up with her and ask her. You seem to be more woman than she is.
/r/seduction04/12/20 12:20 PM
1

Get him naked, kiss him as usual, transition to his neck, from there go down south with gentle kisses and slowly, from the middle of his chest to his bellybutton, then further. As soon as you get to the spot, maybe try to breathe a little stronger so he notices a breeze and then gently do your thing. There is nothing better to me than a girl that sucks it with passion. I feel the joy and it makes it so much better. A combination of hands and mouth at the same time is the absolute best
/r/seduction04/12/20 10:52 AM
1

Write a letter if you cant do it in person. Maybe evr let somebody esle hand it over. But describe your fear of not approaching her in the letter as best as u can so it doesnt turn her off completely.
/r/seduction30/11/20 12:14 PM
6

I really think this could be your real problem. Learn to have sex to pleasure the girl, not to pleasure yourself. Make her feel like she is the winner. Women smell this mindset.
/r/seduction30/11/20 12:42 AM
6

If you really cant, just tell your roommate to play the wingman for you. He knows what to tell him and it might end up in him approaching you.
/r/seduction28/11/20 06:04 AM
6

I dont know why so many people here are fine with playing the beta guy at times but in this situation i'd definitely just leave her alone once again. Even if you are only chasing a fuck or a cool buddy to hang out with, there are enough out there that will actually care about you and give you at least somewhat the attention you deserve. Man up and stop simping for a hole that doesnt deserve you.
/r/seduction28/11/20 05:59 AM
2

I would definitely not escalate out of nowhere. It seems as if she is the perfect person you should talk to about it before actually getting intimate with her. Next time the subject comes up he should just simply ask her if there is anything he could do to help her with her problem.
/r/seduction27/11/20 03:23 AM
1

You should definitely move along. The worst thing you could do now is chase her, dont evrn respond to that BS. if you ever notice her chasing you again, you could definitely consider. Until then take that trophy and put it in your showcase.
/r/seduction26/11/20 03:26 PM
1

Pretty sure the no.1 thing that makes women hot is if they have a strong mindset and be open and honest about their feelings. Be straight-up, dont overcomplicate everything and dont try to make everything as confusing as possible. if you like somebody, tell him! Do it in a classy fashion but embrace that feeling.
/r/seduction26/11/20 03:53 AM
1

In what setting? During sex, looks, dates, approaches?
/r/seduction25/11/20 07:43 PM
1

Still not gotten over her yet, Elon?
/r/seduction24/11/20 10:23 PM
1

I am pretty sure that she wont be uncomfortable if you speak with her about it. It might go away after sleeping with her. Until then i dont believe there is much you can do, you probably already tried certain things like thinking of mickey mouse while having her around or what not. But you should actually be happy about it in some ways. Many people complain of not getting any errections in most cases.
/r/seduction24/11/20 09:32 AM
2

5 million upvotes if i could. And respect a man who is honest instead of a man only telling you what u rather want to hear.
/r/seduction20/11/20 12:02 AM
1

You have to live with the fact that women usually search for a deeper connections with guys they fuck with. I as a man who has experienced this from time to time would find it super rude to kick her out just because you nutted into her and finished up your business. She gives you the ass and you give her her mental needs afterwards. You cant be thaaaat busy if you have time for 2-3 hours of sex you might aswell to the extra mile to satisfy her need of cuddling etc. If this reaches extreme levels…
/r/seduction18/11/20 03:08 AM
2

Technically the correct answer. You take your own age, divide it by 2 and at 7 years ontop to get the age you are allowed to date with. A rule we live by here in germany.
/r/seduction14/11/20 11:34 AM
3

No
/r/seduction10/11/20 11:54 AM
1

Well fuck her then, as long as you dont have anything to do with her BF. You will be in for a rough ride tho since she already told her boyfriend now. Some bitches ca keep it a secret, she obviously cant. But trust me, if you dont give it to her, somebody will in the future. She is obviously built for sidesteps at the moment and never let this be your problem. Eat or get eaten!
/r/seduction09/11/20 06:43 PM
2

This is the most important of all. If you dont lift your own value, your chances get smaller. It is quite easy to appeal to women if you work enough on yourself. Some people are just too lazy to admit or even start doing something for themselves. You are in essence marketing yourself.
/r/seduction08/11/20 10:32 AM
1

Yeah something like: not bad, keep it up!" And then leave it at that. Make sure you say something very positive so she feels your positivity
/r/seduction08/11/20 08:33 AM
1

I can not speak for everyone but i have come across few people who have done a work and travel trip to australia and they have all said that it clean up your view on life, gives you a more positive view and has thr ability to change your personality in a positive direction. It is pretty common here in germany to travel there. It symbols a journey to find yourself so to speak, meeting many different people from around the world, having fun with strangers while trying to stay alive and enjoy the c…
/r/seduction07/11/20 09:46 PM
1

I highly suggest you go abroad for 1 year, maybe australia, and find yourself there. I have a good female friend who sat in the same boat as you and after she came back from a backpacktrip to australia a year later, i could barely recognize her personality again. All this bullshit i read in the comment section so far really wont help you. You need a trigger to change your perception of life. This wont come by just telling yourself how great you are doing if its not the case.
/r/seduction07/11/20 06:12 PM
-1

Going down on a woman is alot of pressure on performance and i personally dont have alot of fun doing so. I'd objectively say that sucking on a pole is more fun than licking a small marble. I am as straightas it gets and i would have way more fun with sucking on a PP
/r/seduction06/11/20 04:58 PM
1

Thats perfectly played! Keep the texting at a bare minimum and give her another shot in person! She is totally aware of the fact that she doesnt need somebody that constantly chases her, so be cautious and dont tell her of your plans to keep her stranded from time to time. Just turn the game around!
/r/seduction06/11/20 04:25 PM
1

Blonde
/r/seduction02/11/20 12:05 PM
2

Mathematically yes. I hope that helped!
/r/seduction01/11/20 12:29 PM
3

Funny enough, if you talk to grandpas and grandmas on the real, most of them always went out banging somebody else at times to then come back home to the SO they belonged to. People my age (30) seem commited to something they know is damn near impossible for most people. Not saying our grandparents did it right in the early days but it is definitely a way to go if you talk openly to your partner about it. Down thr road i could see a shift in how we see a perfect relationship, just like a perfect…
/r/seduction14/10/20 08:56 AM
1

Dont play games on a messanger with her. Keep it short and set up some next dates at best. This push and pull gane can lead to nowhere pretty quick.
/r/seduction14/10/20 01:29 AM
16

Conversation one: how about i take you to my place when all is set and done. Conversation 2: yeah sounds like a nice place, but i'd rather take you to another good restaurant i know. Easy as that. Do it in a jokey way and pass that shit test right back to her.
/r/seduction11/10/20 10:18 AM
3

To a point where she couldnt handle her liquor anymore and maybe had to throw up? Sounds to me like she had to do something embarassing.
/r/seduction11/10/20 09:14 AM
2

Did she drink alot?
/r/seduction11/10/20 09:00 AM
2

Dude you are totally the problem, not your brother. All this hate towards him shows your weakness and your thoughts you present are probably the exact chatacteristics shining from you when interacting with other people. You need to work hard on yourself and become a better person for yourself not trying to compare yourself to whoever.
/r/seduction06/10/20 10:43 PM
3

She broke up with you and now you try to get her back? U are failing all men if you do so. Move on and look for better times with other women.
/r/seduction01/10/20 11:16 AM
1

What the hell? How much more obvious does it have to get? Do u need a reddit forum to greenlight your next move? either you go for it or you waste your time asking yourself if you shouid until its to late.
/r/seduction25/09/20 08:06 AM
1

She def likes you. She got put on the spot, she cares about your opinion on her looks. Go for it asap
/r/seduction24/09/20 03:10 AM
3

Here in germany if yiu step out another persons cigarette on the floor, it means thr person wants to have sex with you. Dont know if it corelates with your ecperience.
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:07 PM
5

Dont text. Only to set a date tomeet up somewhere. Simple
/r/seduction22/09/20 12:35 PM
3

Dude, if you give her another shot you are the biggest sucker on this planet. And you should also laugh in her fucking face and dont say a word and drive off.
/r/seduction08/09/20 11:08 AM
1

Keep your eyes out for spaghetti, there must be a mum around aswell...
/r/seduction07/09/20 06:19 PM
0

There are definitely hot girls bad at having sex but i believe emotional connection in combination with more time to develop sexual expertise with her is a far better indicator of where you will stand in a full blown relationship with her. For me personally tho, i prefer a hot girl that is not good in bed over a ugly/mediocre girl who does it well if emotions are on same level to each other.
/r/seduction06/09/20 10:11 PM
2

No offense but i personally completely disagree with this comment. As a guy, her looks should tell you enough about how much you will enjoy sex with her, no need to hop in the bed the first night. Also sex tends to get better over time with communication and both parties being more open after exploring each others bodies over a longer period and last insecurities fall somewhen, so i wouldnt measure the first night as being an idicator of how your sexlife will develop. And thirdly, which also dep…
/r/seduction06/09/20 09:48 PM
3

I'd like to add that while women tend to look down from time to time while giving you the sexgaze, as male you should avoid it as good as possible. Keep looking at those eyes and try to seal the deal as quickly as possible. It could get awkward if you take too long. Yeah you can look at her fine body for a brief moment but if you do so, let it seem clear that your sexual fantasy led your eyes downward. You are the predator and the shy look downward is a first indicator of missing comfort.
/r/seduction25/08/20 07:09 AM
1

If your attentions were to get together with her, you should definitely not text her at all afterwards and see what it does. if she gets both, her BF and you from time to time, you will end up losing the game, so just dead drop her from now on.
/r/seduction25/08/20 06:52 AM
1

Most people are about as overcomplicated with their pickupgame as women are in general. The two dont match. If you keep it simple, chances are that you will come out as winner in the longrun
/r/seduction25/08/20 06:44 AM
2

Try to get something out of your coworkers. Set them up to ask her indirect questions about you.
/r/seduction24/08/20 08:23 PM
5

You pretty much know where all of your problems are. You are not trying to get better in any way, shape or form. Its like admitting to being bad at playing chess eventhough you had never even played it before. It is work to get womens attention, it doesnt just fall from the sky.
/r/seduction22/08/20 11:15 AM
1

If he doesnt think in your interest in this situation then he is not a good friend. If i had this type of situation, where my friend has a better shot, i'd be happy to see him get what he is wishing for, even if we share the wish. Its like: oh if i cant hit the lotto, i damn well dont want you hitting it either.
/r/seduction22/08/20 11:07 AM
1

I personally would never approach in a gym. The scene is fixed for it to be a complete fuckup. The only thing i can think of is maybe try to simultaneously walk out the door and start a conversation at the exit or on your way to the car. Or maybe at the bar for a shake. But while training they mostly concentrate on it and listen to music, way too distracted for an approach.
/r/seduction12/08/20 08:30 AM
9

Do not hold long conversations before meeting up with her in person. You dry out her interrest too fast and when u do finally meet, there is less to talk about. Set up a date as soon as possible and keep the messaging at a bare minimum!
/r/seduction09/08/20 07:46 PM
2

Are u different to both types in person too?
/r/seduction09/08/20 10:34 AM
1

You should be exactly forward and direct. If you dont show him right from the beginning that you have changed and really want some physical action, he might not even get started with you.
/r/seduction24/07/20 08:08 PM
8

As a woman, there is almost nothing that could go wrong. There is a 0% chance off a woman seeming creepy. Keep that in mind and stay confident in either way. The "coward" but safe and easy way is to just send your friends to do the job. Let one of them go up to the dude and just let her tell him that you find him attractive and if he is interested.
/r/seduction20/07/20 06:05 PM
4

As a man: if feel guilty because everytim i flirt, its more like passive semi wannabe flirting. I cant go thr whole way and i am probably exactly the problem why this post was created. I do smile and stare right into her eyes and say something charming, but i also do this on a woman i dont habe any sexual interest in.
/r/seduction16/07/20 08:28 PM
18

Well straight up tell her next time she throws something your way : "no need to be teasing me if you dont want to spend time with me." See how she reacts.
/r/seduction08/07/20 10:05 AM
1

If you ever use it, please let me know how it went. U will definitely remember me in that moment lol
/r/seduction02/07/20 07:52 PM
3

The is a technique i found very interesting a while ago and i since then used it 2 times and it really helped in both situations. If you feel tension at one point just randomly give the girl a "is this the part where we kiss?" It is very passive, tests the waters and leaves it totally open for the woman to react. The only question is with what tone u ask the question. U can do it more sarcasticly or serious. It is super helpful for me. You can exchange "kiss" to whatever fits your need.
/r/seduction02/07/20 06:52 PM
2

This so much! If you generally had the feeling he was into you then it is your part to go a step closer or keep him at a distance yourself if you dont wish for more. I myself act exactly the same if i think i am the weaker, more vulnerable one in this situation. It is a very awkward feeling to meet someone you cant read but have more feelings for the person. You need learn to act what men give you. edit: if you want to end this situation, you have to straight up tell him your feelings about him.…
/r/seduction28/06/20 06:30 PM
2

Dont be surpised if this ends up sticking you in a friendzone longer down the road. U do have to signal a special interest at some point early on.
/r/seduction26/06/20 06:07 AM
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You can make more impressions by your looks from your looks. Use those.
/r/seduction26/06/20 01:07 AM
1

You are in a very bad position. If i was you i would straighr up tell her that it is not a good idea to be friends since you have a huge crush ob her. Walk away and see how she reacts. But u need to definitely get out of that situation asap.
/r/seduction21/06/20 08:41 AM
2

This helped me alot! Thank you!
/r/seduction20/06/20 12:26 AM
1

Latch -disclosure
/r/seduction19/06/20 06:46 PM
1

Fear of showing weakness towards a persons strength. Fear of getting rejected. Depends on your own personality
/r/seduction16/06/20 09:35 AM
1

Troll account
/r/seduction09/06/20 03:14 PM
1

I get where you are coming from. U have 2 options: either you fight your way through and learn to not missstep throughout your dates and sell yourself as something you arent. Or you say Fuck it and be exactly what you are, Because that will ultimately be what she is dealing with in the future. I myself come clean right at the beginning of dates and tell her she gets a full blast of my real personality , which is veryvery important because it might save you from a few fuckups lateron. This mostly…
/r/seduction02/06/20 01:42 PM
2

My best friend always has something fitting/funny to say nomatter in what situation which makes him extremely successful in flirting eventhough he is actually pretty ugly. He constanly trains his brain by just randomly freestyling about stuff around him during the day. One of the skills i would love to develop because i am the exact opposite of him ( handsom, often loss of words) which makes my approaches way harder.
/r/seduction29/05/20 08:22 PM
3

Might sound awkward for sure but before i go on a first date i jerk off a few times to set my mind straight and i usually dont give girls anything except my raw personality and thats it. If they feel me, they might show interest in a second date but going in for the first kiss and stuff went more wrong than right in my experience.
/r/seduction25/05/20 10:14 AM
1

U should behave like being in a relationship with her. Just hang out with her as often as possible, give her that good sex, she might develop something over time. Thats your only chance.
/r/seduction16/05/20 09:06 AM
5

You should cross-fish for hints with your buddy. Its easier that way than doing it straight line.
/r/seduction15/05/20 03:58 PM
1

This!
/r/seduction03/05/20 10:55 PM
1

U should immediately backpedal in this situation. Being in love with her while she doesnt feel you that way will hurt you in the longrun. If she somewhen asks why you dont call her anymore, tell her the truth. It might make something happen, it might turn her awa even more In either case its a win for u. I been in the exact same situation 2 months ago and i did it the wrong way.
/r/seduction03/05/20 09:42 PM
1

I dont like blaming others at all but most off the time i deal with woman that are super full of themselves and sadly those are the ones objectively more attracting and exactly the visuals i need for a relationship. Nevertheless sometimes it is simply my fault. Sometimes i just dont follow up because i feel lik i am losing my "manilness/ toughness" by clawing for a second date. Or i simply fuck up with making my first impression. I also feel like i am often not in line with my body, situation wh…
/r/seduction28/04/20 11:43 AM
1

Sitting in a similar situation. I am very attractive aswell but i can get the ball rolling when it comes to hooking up. that first contact always leads to nowhere. kinda frustrating, as i see alot of people think looks are the only thing that matters.
/r/seduction28/04/20 11:20 AM
1

Aim for the baby, the rest will come attached.
/r/seduction26/04/20 06:38 PM
1

I say go ahead and try it. There must be something she has that you should try out with all these boners and dreams. U got nothing to lose m8t. Just make it straight and tell her you are only trying it out but you are still planning on being gay. Anyway, this is often the case between straight females and gay men. Females tend to see them as the same species and let their guards down quicker than with straight males. Gay people are more tangible.
/r/seduction13/04/20 08:17 AM
9

In general women are just harder to get. To me its a simple supply and demand issue. Men try to conquer, women choose. Nothing unusual in todays culture. This effect applies even more the higher u get in the "looks ranking"
/r/seduction11/04/20 06:38 AM
1

Very bad environment to make contact. I'd knock that out of my head. If you see anyone standing around stretching or taking a break, thats your only chance to make a move. Ask for directions or simply tell them you hate running alone, if he minds joining for a bit.
/r/seduction28/03/20 06:52 AM
1

"Ure in"
/r/seduction23/03/20 12:47 PM
2

Well, sorry to let you know this but you are not the chick a regular man wants to conquer. If i had to deal with some attentionseeking girl that isnt even happy when she gets attention, you are the problem and i am totally fine with not getting a piece. Its just a stupid game that overcomplicates peoples lives. Get inline with yourself before trying to with other people
/r/seduction22/03/20 09:34 PM
1

True, but there are humans that have serious serious issues with parts on their body that hauntxthem their whole life, some more, some less. Girls can get very sensitive if you dont give them comfort in being okay with their huge nose. You can be bad abiut everything else as much as you please.
/r/seduction22/03/20 06:34 PM
1

If you ask me, that is absolutely the wrong way to handle a girl in a friendzone, especially if you have been knowing her forever. I'd highly recommend you taking a deep dive into her mind first by trying to understand her feelings/problems/thinking, to a point where she realizes she hardly gets that from anybody she is dating.
/r/seduction22/03/20 01:16 PM
2

I'd say something like : honestly, i am not really bothered too much by small nuances. I think you are totally fine just the way you are." Something along those lines. Try to swerve to her total appearance and that you are totally diggin the whole package. Give her the feeling that you already made up your mind on her looking.
/r/seduction20/03/20 03:47 PM
1

Slow down girl, you making it too easy for me...
/r/seduction08/03/20 05:36 PM
1

If that is really the big problem, you should probably convince your surrounding that you are very shy. The same way she didnt come up to you but have her message being sent to you in a different fashion, you could use the same tool and let others at least signal to the girl in whatever form, that you are too shy to make the first move. I'll assume you had somebody around you who u trust and can have an open conv about your problem.
/r/seduction05/03/20 01:27 PM
0

You should probably move away from your social surroundings Miss.
/r/seduction29/02/20 11:05 AM
1

Dont know how in gods name you could draw this conclusion by a short massage lol.
/r/seduction29/02/20 11:01 AM
0

Here is another tip : i try to massage her shoulders around 15 minutes before going in for a kiss. If you are at a bar and decide to go to thr bathroom, when you come back just stand behind her and massage her shoulders for 2-3 minutes and keep a conversation going. You can come up closer to her ear and talk. Girls will link the massage to something more intimate and it gives you a good feeling how how she acts to intense physical contact. Massaging a girl is mx ultimate tool to hook up with a w…
/r/seduction28/02/20 11:32 AM
1

Dont worry about me lol. I am fine and already seen through all of this. I just straight up walk to girls and tell them whats up.
/r/seduction28/02/20 10:57 AM
5

Flat out overthinking the situation. Just tell him what you would love to do with him or ask him the other way around and get the ball rolling girl. Why so complicated. Things like this are the exact reason why men have a tough time approaching women these days.
/r/seduction28/02/20 10:04 AM
2

Dude listen to my comment and my comment only. You either eat or get eaten. If you are attracted to her and have the feeling she is also attracted to you, go in heavy! F her boyfriend, she could be your perfect match. Look out for yourself first, especially if you dont have any ties to her boyfriend!
/r/seduction28/02/20 08:04 AM
2

Simple, there is no competition! You are the best thing that could happen to the girl, period! Dont let whoever tell you something else and keep that in mind when u approach! -N.G. ,28Y, Virgin for a living
/r/seduction19/02/20 04:54 PM
3

Dude u bascially left her ass because you didnt feel her. And now u complain about her taking the distance needed to get you out of her mind. She has been clearly thinking about how to solve the problem of you not being interested and it was probably one of her friends idea to stay away from you as good as possible. Totally logic reaction.
/r/seduction18/02/20 10:44 AM
1

Its called "mid sentence priod" and happens occasionally. the door you came into is the exact door u need to head back to to find your way out in those moments.
/r/seduction18/02/20 10:40 AM
1

There is no wrong hole. Keep that in mind at all times
/r/seduction17/02/20 09:12 AM
3

Too much for me to read. But the magic for me and what i have noticed over the years is smiling and being a happy personality in general. If you are open minded, have a steady smile on you face and feel confident, the rest is absolutely irrelevant. I have a not so good looking friend who could seduce whoever he get around of by his postive vibe and happiness. Its crazy.
/r/seduction05/02/20 04:34 PM
1

Dont ever give the girl more attention in those situations than she deserves! you played it perfectly. Head back to the dancefloor and keep an eye on another chick would have been my answer in this case anyway.
/r/seduction31/01/20 11:44 AM
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