rengokusmother Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	just fucking sad. This is why you shouldn't force yourself to be cool with being a forever girlfriend. Displaced anger at the fiancee and not her own loser bf	FOREVER GF TALES	rengokusmother	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/21 06:07 PM

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58	If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows. And i bet if he did all that and she didn't immediately forgive him he'd go back to throwing those low blows, because how dare she not accept his half assed heartfelt apologies after such a permanently heartbreaking insult over just random dinner talk? He knew what he was doing. Very, very well. He knew it would hurt and that's why he said it. What a demon. And despite this, people are not telling the girl to leave in the comments, rather telling him to apologise. Men can literally abuse and ins…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/03/22 05:18 PM
106	LVM are out there thinking men don't treat women like shit. Drew's response is on point as always 👑 Men rape, abuse, assault, catcall, threaten, and murder women. Men in certain cultures will marry only if the bride's family pays his family an exorbitant dowry and other material gifts. If not then these men will abuse and kill those wives because of dowry based violence. Men will have genitals of women stitched up and encourage shit like "hymen checks" on wedding nights. Men will support honor killing. Men will prey on girls half their age and even have kinks insinuating having sex with their …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/22 02:11 PM
27	What do you think a pick-me is, and why do you think you used to be one? I had a serious, and I mean SERIOUS "I'm not like the other girls" phase, followed by pickmeisha phase. I was born in a very misogynistic South asian family, and am the firstborn, so everyone has since I can remember expressed huge sadness in the fact that I was born a woman and not a man. Everyone used to say this except my parents. I'm also very tall (5'11") and have very androgynous/masculine-leaning facial features, so I was always laughed at and told that no man was going to like me. When I…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/01/22 05:47 PM
1	Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man’s character, give him power Testing their loyalty/love for you in adversity is pointless. They don't have any resources they can use to manipulate or abuse you or keep you under their heel. Even if they do, if you're the breadwinner and have a social standing better than him, he'll try his best to keech off of you and keep you attached so he can use your physical, financial and emotional care, but will resent you for being in a better place at life than he is, because he knows you can easily get out of the situation if he …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/01/22 05:01 PM
189	Validation that we're on the right path. Too bad what used to be common sense is no longer common. Also, violent fantasies create violent crimes. Only serial killers and rapists used to get off on depravity. It's only women who will justify their partners watching and getting turned on to shit like this, even supporting it. If a man saw his partner spend thousands on male strip clubs, pay another hundreds to random OF accounts with very specific kink requests, visited and contacted sex workers, regularly watched violent porn, had fetishes in bed insinuating abuse on them or wanting to sodomize them, and could not orgasm/get turned on without these violent fantasies, they'd never stay with them. But …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/01/22 05:07 PM
75	What is it about South Asian/Desi culture that makes the men so depraved? Sons are coddled, and women are socialised entirely into treating their gender as shit and being beneath men. The only way a woman can earn even slightest bit of respect in our culture is by giving birth to a son, otherwise it's constant violent misogyny. Women often aren't allowed to study past a certain level, or take high paying jobs, because families believe it might scare suitors, off. Plus, competition is huge in our culture. We are 1.3 billion, competition is everywhere; schools, colleges…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/22 08:48 PM
42	Indian scrotes threatening to boycott marriage if marital rape is criminalized in India As an Indian woman, nothing would relieve me and give me more joy than Indian men boycotting marriages. So many of them are useless, sexist mama's boys who only see marriage as a way to acquire free bangmaids (with additional dowry) who they can abuse and traumatise. Short, unattractive and insecure men who don't put any efforts into their appearance, don't put any efforts into getting a good successful job, so only spend it all hating women and making their mothers do all the chores for them, a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/22 10:51 AM
29	We have to stop putting up with this shit 🤡 And if he's "totally" over her i don't understand why he lied. No person genuinely over their ex partner would do stupid stuff like this. I hate people who lie about such small stuff, really shows how easily they'll make up stories and extravagant lies in times of something serious happening.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/01/22 08:41 PM
28	We have to stop putting up with this shit 🤡 Why hide it if it's nothing to worry about??? If he's lying about "insignificant" shit, what else won't he lie about? I think he had a feeling OP wouldn't be comfortable dating him after such a fresh breakup, or he's still secretly in contact with her (hence the whole crying about messy breakup which he can use later as justification for conversations with the ex), hence why he lied. I'll never never understand the need to lie about stuff like this, it's baffling. Constantly keeping your partner…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/01/22 08:39 PM
35	Even OTHER men can sense LVM/NVM/ZVM’s red flags with women at the beginning of a relationship, such as “being too busy.” It's so funny how every man and libfem pickmeisha shits on FDS and treat us as some demons for presenting these points all to be proven correct by men themselves. See? They know. They're not the emotionally challenged buffoons they present themselves as on the internet. THEY KNOW. they're very well aware of when they don't show interest, affection, or effort into a relationship. They just don't care and weaponise incompetence even in emotional issues to make women handle majority of the workload…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/01/22 10:51 AM
144	How to tell the difference between love bombing and a man being into you The biggest indicator is that genuine love is consistent and doesn't have the "hot and cold syndrome" that lovebombing does in order to keep you hooked and needy for more. Genuine love is also not as...extreme, in a sense, as lovebombing is. Lovebombing is at best, done to make the perpetrator feel good about themselves, make them think that they're great partners, and at worse done to abuse you and to keep you hanging on by a frail thread of hope that that affection in the "hot" phase will retu…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/22 07:19 PM
1	The idea that men peak in their 30s is a male fantasy Even funnier is that those men still have some things considered serious flaws in women like scars, acne spots, wrinkles on forehead or eye area. Most of them do. Some even get grey hair quicker, or will have potbelly dad bod even if they have a pleasing face. Yet they're never scrutinized, while entire worlds acts as if women turn into a raisin or something the moment clock strikes twelve declaring the beginning of their thirties.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/22 02:30 PM
38	Never stop vetting! Even after being faithful to your partner for 8 years, he could still think that he can do better and want to bang other women. Scrotes like this just want to get their dick wet and are never satisfied no matter how spectacular their gf is. Then why did he string her along for almost a decade? I'll never get this part. They obviously resent their partners but don't feel any shame lying to them and wasting their time. And look at the way he speaks about her, scumbag. He won't dump her because he knows if left single he most probably will not get anyone else interested in tolerating him half as long as this poor woman did, and she'll move on and find someone who values her way more.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/22 02:26 PM
54	Never stop vetting! Even after being faithful to your partner for 8 years, he could still think that he can do better and want to bang other women. Scrotes like this just want to get their dick wet and are never satisfied no matter how spectacular their gf is. "scrotalese" MY GOD LMFAOOOOO	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/22 02:24 PM
4	To those who were cheated on and took back their exes for a “second chance” how did it change you emotionally/mentally? What gave you the strength to leave? He emotionally cheated on me with our mutual friend and I took him back because "wow he's so honest and communicated he must respect me!" and even stayed with the friend..yeah I was a fool. I don't think I would've had the courage to leave if not for another friend. She was the one to drill it in my head that honesty and communication are the bare minimum and he mustn't be put on a pedestal for doing that. And he betrayed me anyway so that bare minimum meant nothing. I slowly realised I kept a b…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/21 10:02 AM
49	Men will marry women who they don‘t love, find attractive or even hate. How does one even vet for this? I've seen that post. Worst part is, some were still telling the poor woman to "communicate" and to seek "couple's counseling" , or blaming the female best friend entirely instead of the guy like ..girl. no matter what men do people will always defend that behaviour and try finding ways to blame the women around him for his actions. The female best friend IS messed up but none of this would've been happening if he actually respected his marriage and was dead serious about boundaries between frien…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/12/21 09:11 AM
10	Older does not mean wiser and they always use the "she's such an old soul" bs Lol yes omg one of the main reasons (besides obviously being creepy) why men go after younger women is because women of their own age bracket don't fall for their tricks and can see right through the shit they plan and imply. It's way harder to fool and manipulate a grown, capable woman who's well earning and doesn't need him than it is to manipulate women who just got out of school and are yet to experience all major life changes that adults do post college and degrees and sort of have a tinier…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/12/21 04:34 PM
2	Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind? Honestly i used to feel this looming feeling when I was constantly surrounded by people and content where it was a notion that you're incomplete and not worth much if you're single. I had a friend circle where all of us were pickmeishas and most of them absolutely hated to be single or go to places/do things alone. I enjoyed bits like these but by influence started hating my own presence too. A lot of relatives, teachers, social media, just... everything in general sort of made you feel like a s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/12/21 04:59 PM
144	Male friends are a myth. Oh boy don't even get me started. In my last relationship which was also my first, he was best friend with someone he frequently hooked up with when both were single or on a break. I played the cool girl pickmeisha because I was in the first relationship emotional haze and he always told me how much she meant to him (and I'd have felt like a shitbag if I made them end their friendship because she had introduced us) and guess who ended up getting emotionally cheated on? 💀 Women are really good at…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/21 05:26 PM
441	Male friends are a myth. There was a post on the ask men subreddit literally few days back where the question was if they thought of their female friends sexually. It's got loads of replies and, surprisingly (/s), majority said yes, and said they think about it almost daily. Some even said they would go the extra step with alcohol courage. I had to scroll down too deep to see barely few 4-5 comments saying no they think of them as family. But the prime statement they use to shut their girlfriends up whenever they're unc…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/21 05:12 PM
2	Two of the biggest lies patriarchy tells us: “men age like fine wine” & “age gap relationships are totally natural” Very much so. I love skincare, but I realised that a lot of my interest in skincare generated because I wanted to adhere to the media representation of a woman: flawless, spotless, even toned skin with no wrinkles. That's never gonna happen. And my mindset towards my face and body has been so much healthier ever since I stopped assuming that the male gaze's perception of beauty is of utmost value. Wasting my time crying over natural features on my face and body all because a man decided it's bad…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/21 04:34 PM
251	Two of the biggest lies patriarchy tells us: “men age like fine wine” & “age gap relationships are totally natural” That quote has always been horseshit. Society is just way more accepting of men's natural ageing and isn't selling magazines and gazillions of products trying to blur or shame any of their natural features, that's it. I know teenage guys who already had lines on their forehead and undereyes because they don't give a rat's ass about moisturizing or using sunscreen and drink like they're a barrel to store that beer, but nobody would point those out and they won't be stressed about those lines, wou…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/21 02:15 PM
141	Why do men think that saying "enjoy being single forever" is supposed to insult us? "single 40 year old cat granny" you say that like it's a bad thing? 😁 No harassment, no need to deal with male friends who disrespect my boundaries in relationship or female friends who call me a prude then flirt with you right as I watch, no expectation to engage in violent or degrading sexual acts, no extra stress from completing both professional and household chores alone, no fear of being left to take care of a whole new life by your own self... AND I'll have a pet cat? how's this a bad thi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/21 04:51 PM
10	Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds. "everyone has a type" when men deliberately don't go out with fat women, androgynous women, women who are flat chested or have no curves, or women who belong to a certain race, women who are conventionally unattractive or women who are very intimidating. "Don't stick your dick in crazy" when the female partner has mental illnesses that are not media's representation of damsel in distress but actually have violent outbursts and painful physical manifestations "belongs to the streets" "gold digger…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/21 04:29 PM
97	Porn is SO normalized Exactly this. You'd have to not consider these women as women at all and just some objects to ogle and use for self pleasure, hence why you believe it's not cheating. People try acting like visiting strip clubs and getting lap dances isn't cheating just to appease depraved men in their lives. If I saw any naked woman on top of my partner I'm dumping him, doesn't matter if that woman is a friend, neighbour, coworker, ex, or a stripper/hooker. It should be considered cheating even more seriously c…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/11/21 10:58 AM
5	Which one of you is this about It's really funny to see the difference in opinions now that a man isn't getting to climax. The girl is getting called all types of stuff, abusive, controlling, crazy, hell I saw a few comments call her a narc, all over not getting to cum. But guess how many women will be told it's normal to not climax and to "C0mMuNicAte!1!1" if they'd posted that their man cums way before them and they're always left dissatisfied? And that's again my issue, multiple women post exactly this all the time. Nobody…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/21 09:32 PM
25	Pick me gf and pornsick bf vibes And that's why they trickle truth that shit. Nobody, not even the most libfem pickmeishas of all would happily date a guy who's into really degrading and abusive porn, has multiple friends he had a situationship with or attends strip clubs and brothels without batting an eyelash. Even they know men like these are textbook misogynists who see women as just boobs and butt. First the exes part will come up. Then they'll slowly lie about their fetishes and porn categories and bring the abusive bdsm …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/11/21 06:38 AM
6	Woman translates the real meanings behind men’s dating demands. Just a reminder that men defined ‘femininity’ as submission, passivity, performance & endless forgiveness because it serves abusive men & makes us easier to exploit. Ugh exactly!! Women have been conditioned to give up so so much when they get into serious relationships and marriages. As a South asian woman, I've seen so many women around me post marriage who end up with barely any healthy social support circles, have to give up so many career prospects because their "King" husband might get insecure, so much physical strain from all the household chores where nobody helps her or during pregnancies, mental strain from constantly being berated over the little…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/21 01:04 PM
9	Woman translates the real meanings behind men’s dating demands. Just a reminder that men defined ‘femininity’ as submission, passivity, performance & endless forgiveness because it serves abusive men & makes us easier to exploit. The communication part is so funny, because by that they mean that you should be a cool girl who always agrees with everything he says and does and never gets uncomfortable with his shit no matter what, because the minute any woman has any opinions or strong boundaries she's crazy and a bitch who is trying to limit him 😒 they hate putting even a percent of the effort into the relationship	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/21 04:45 PM