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| 1 | I pissed off a girl I was trying to plate and she went from 10 to -10 in a day, is this normal?You need to ask yourself what is it within you, that made you interpret her reply as an indication to fuck off. Strengthen up your frame. My take is she was trying to tell me "I know you like me" and because she has a "boyfriend love of her life" kind of deal going on, I took it as a fuck off/back off. Maybe she wasn't trying to say that, I dunno. I still acted like nothing and later that day she came over and found an excuse to put her hands on my shoulder, flirt, and kino. who the fuck knows | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 06:08 PM |
| 0 | Why can I only build attraction to women when I'm not going after them, and why the fuck do I push them away the moment I do?I'm not, I read it | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 04:21 PM |
| 1 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!Maybe not "jacked" in the bodybuilding sense, but I am way more muscular than before, and it's working wonders. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/17 07:52 PM |
| 3 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!Can't give u more than that, sorry. And trust me, women will like him more than any fat, skinny or skinny-fat dude. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 09:06 PM |
| 1 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!I look like him: https://c1.staticflickr.com/4/3922/14557593504_0fc25a3d17_b.jpg Although with slightly smaller arms, and a different face and skin color. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 07:27 PM |
| 2 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!Oh man, the blue pill days, u gotta read this: I live in europe, and 10 years ago, my 8deg cousin or something came to our home from the states to spend the holidays with us. She came with her sister and her dad, and they stayed with us (I was living with my parents back then, 9 people in a big appartment lol). We were both around 20yo. I always saw her as "just a girl", no biggie, although she was pretty hot and extrovert. We hang out around city (it was almost christmas), spent some time toget… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 04:21 PM |
| 1 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!When we lift, we don't aim for mediocre, we aim for the best. It's a mindset. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 12:00 PM |
| 1 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!Oh, I see. Totally agree with you. In fact, if the other guy put on a little fat, he may even look better. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 11:08 AM |
| 1 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!Man, u and I have a very different idea of what "jacked" means. The guy in ur picture can be considered jacked, in my humble opinion. If he isn't, then wtf is a skinny-fat dude? XD U don't have to look like Arnold to be jacked, and in either case, I think the guy in the picture overdid it with the low bodyfat, I wouldn't wanna have that body. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 10:45 AM |
| 2 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!What about the attitude? Do u like ur job? Are u really good at it? Are u smart? Do u behave in a confident/cocky fashion? My guess is that face alone won't cut it, just like body alone won't do it either. Sometimes I see those guys whith a strong jawline and really masculine traits in their faces, and I have to admit to myself that I lack those. I'm not ugly, mind u, but I defintely don't have the "killer" face | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 10:17 AM |
| 2 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!Lol. I'm actually traing to gain all those pounds xD | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 09:57 AM |
| 2 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!Custom program, for now: ABA/BAB, mon-wed-fri. These are the excercises: squats, pull-ups, chin-ups, dumbbell bench press, flyes, dumbbell shoulder press, barebell row, hammer curls, dumbbell head crushers, dips. I'm currently eating 2.4k, but I usually end up eating more on many days because I move around a lot (walk, stairs, etc) and I, well, lift. However, I do recognize keeping up the caloric intake can sometimes be a pain in the ass. One thing I found has been really helpful is breakfast. I… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 09:56 AM |
| 1 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!Well, tricky answer. I've been doing push-ups for the last three years, give or take. Last year I bought a couple of dumbbells and added a couple of extra exercises. However, I wasn't being serious about the whole lifting thing, I was just doing the bare minimum and in an undisciplined way. 6 months ago I bought some extra equipment, set up a nice program, started counting calories, etc, and I started bulking in a serious fashion. A month ago, the first comments about my body came out of a coupl… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 09:04 AM |
| 1 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!No, but my body looks like his: https://c1.staticflickr.com/4/3922/14557593504_0fc25a3d17_b.jpg the difference is that my arms are slightly smaller (still trying to bulk them), and my face is different. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 08:52 AM |
| 3 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!My guess is that gains alone won't cut it. For example, at work, I was already the top-shot employee, I was already confident, and I was already casting shadows on every other guy, without my body. It's just one factor, although an important one. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 08:35 AM |
| 1 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!Sorry man, if you have that body and you are not getting attention, there has to be a reason. It could be your personality/face/attitude. It could also be context: if you are constantly surrounded by jacked guys, then you are not "special" in any way. 80% of the guys I meet are not muscular at all, and that plays in my favor. EDIT: regarding the baldness issue, these two pictures should be inspiring: https://www.maxim.com/.image/t_share/MTQ0NzQyMzIwMTQxNTA5ODAw/gettyimages-504368184111.jpg https… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 08:21 AM |
| 2 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!Judging by the front page they need to be reminded of how actions actually work. Yeah, they do. And the most amazing thing is, it's guaranteed we'll get good results if we put in time and effort, which women cannot absolutely get, and that's really, really cool. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 08:01 AM |
| 2 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!I've been bulking and going to the gym 6 days a week and I've noticed some solid noob gains coming from a skinny fat guy. I hope to have some moments that you're describing in the next 6-12 months. Nevertheless, congrats man! I was skinny fat AND short, which is not a good combination lol. Lift, diet and rest man, don't overdo it, and be careful about the 6 days a week program, it may be too much. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 08:00 AM |
| 1 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!In my case, I meant that my muscles show a lot. I'm not at the traditional "jacked" level yet, but working towards it. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 07:59 AM |
| 1 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!Yeah, I had to. Maybe because I'm surrounded by people who are taller than me, lol, even 90% of the women I know are taller than me! I can assure you, being short (1.67cm) and skinny (52kg, before bulking) made me look like a child or a totally unappealing male. Sure, I may be able to hook up with girls shorter than me, but even many of them were already going out or being banged by guys way taller than me, so a nice face wasn't a deal breaker. I guess it helped in the sense that I wasn't treate… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 07:57 AM |
| 1 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!Probably, I'm not sure. I'm always joking that I'm really pretty, but I know it's not exactly true. I'm white, blue eyes, but I always looked more like a child than a man. Some short beard, muscles, the right eye glasses frame and an improved posture helped a lot. I can tell you this though: being short (1.67cm) and skinny (52kg, before bulking) made me look like a child or a totally nonthreatening male. And that is not a turn on. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 07:55 AM |
| 1 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!Lol, I'm not exactly there yet, plus I don't like that type of body with really low body fat. Normal muscular body will do for me. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 07:51 AM |
| 3 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!Lol, "jacked" may have been the wrong word. I'm 1.67cm tall and weight 61kg at the moment (coming from 52kg six months ago). I'm bulking at the moment, so my body is not exactly "amazing" on every aspect, but under a t-shirt, I look great. And for some freaking reason, chest muscles + posture have given me a really nice chest. Now I'm kind of waiting for my arms to catch up lol | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 07:49 AM |
| 5 | It's the summer, I'm jacked for the first time in my life, and women try to talk to me on their own... I love it!Could you describe some of your interactions with women in greater detail? It started as girls looking at me or listening to me or trying to see what I was doing, without actually getting involved unless I said anything to them directly, and this especially happened when I was talking to other women. Now, any small opening is good to start talking to me. Granted, there has to be compatibility in terms of my SMV are her hotness, but it's way easier now, on average, compare to how it was before. O… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/17 07:46 AM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?I mean, if you had just been attractive rather than strict, she might have worked hard for your approval. But u don't have all the facts. She used to try to flirt and connect with me so whenever she said "help" I was supposed to run snd help her. Instead, I cut her off. I'm still sttractive, and she's in a serious LtR. There's no chance of us hooking up, so whatever interwction we had (she using me for my knowledge, me using her for social value) ended when I got tired of helping her. How is thi… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/17 04:07 PM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?Any exmaple on how to behave? Because I'm already focused on the job, I don't have time to meddle with girls... | /r/askTRP | 25/03/17 04:01 PM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?Becuae I'm not the type, I don't like organizing stuff. I don't like being excluded, either... | /r/askTRP | 25/03/17 03:59 PM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?In the work environment the less mature ones will turn this into ways to isolate you socially and/or get you fired or otherwise in trouble. Reading this makes me feel so much better, at least I'm not alone. I also had one guy trying to pull this on my last job, needless to say, he was one of the "gossipy" kind of guy who expected to act as a nice person and be rewarded professionally for being a good guy. Didn't work out so well for him. social alpha you'll be making friends with management and … | /r/askTRP | 20/03/17 07:23 AM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?Sorry, I thought you were younger, my mistake. But dismiss if you wanna complain about her. That's the point, I don't wanna complain about her, I just don't want her playing stupid games. It's like she knows she can get away with it because I'll be non-aggressive towards her (I used her in the past to get what I wanted and I had to slowly elevate her value). Now that I got what I wanted inside the office, this bitch is using that same value I gave her (or helped her attain) to push me out social… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/17 06:54 AM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?Yeah, it's fucked up. Does she have social standing with the other women? | /r/askTRP | 20/03/17 06:38 AM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?Meaning? | /r/askTRP | 20/03/17 06:36 AM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?I'm not her boss, I'm her peer, that's why it bothers me. She's trying to exclude me high-school style because she doesn't like me and got into her little fucked up head she's the queen. You know what she did last week? A coworker of mine told her "she didn't have time to go out for drinks", and she remained for a couple of minutes staring at her monitor, looking at the conversation from her coworker, trying to figure out what to say. This is the kind of social obsessed pussy I'm dealing with... | /r/askTRP | 20/03/17 06:36 AM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?Outside of the sexual realm of TRP, I don't see why people actively exclude integrating what they've learned her into their workplace. Because it's dangerous. I don't know how old you are, but in general terms, you go to work and you tone down your ego and world view in order to cope/interact/coexist with others. You don't choose who you work with, so you cannot go to work imposing yourself because you are more RP than others. I work with a lot of women and it's clear being charming and pleasant… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/17 06:32 AM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?Don't burn the bridge. OP burned that bridge. No I didn't. It may have come off that way, but I didn't. I just don't run to her when she says "help, I wanna keep chatting on MSN and I can't do it if I have to work". That's different. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/17 06:27 AM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?I said I didn't understand your point, who cares about the 39 upvotes... who's the child lol | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 09:38 AM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?I get it. thanks. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 07:50 AM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?Lunch was example, in this particular case it was going out for drinks. It's just some bitch at work. You went uninvited?! Are you a 15 year old girl? Do you have any self respect at all? Yes, I do, that's why it bothers me. Not because I didn't get to drink with her, but because to get back at me she went into full "let's ignore the guy" mode. That is what bothers me, that level of aggression. Should I reply the same way and spill to my boss that she hasn't done her assigned task for almost 6 m… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 07:19 AM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?like, everyone out for lunch and such I thought it was clear "lunch" was an example, my bad. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 07:15 AM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?Why don't you just invite people for lunch yourself? Why rely on her to arrange that? It wasn't lunch, and I wasn't relying on her. She just suggested to go out after work, and went out of her way to not tell me and make sure others didn't tell me either. That seems like the easy answer, although I don't understand why you care in the first place. Because she can exclude me all she wants from her personal stuff. But here, she tried to exclude me from work stuff and made sure others don't ask me … | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 06:30 AM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?You know what she did? She acted offended and pulled this off. My guess is that I should expect more crap like this just to bother me... | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 06:28 AM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?I know this. I'm sure she didn't invite any other guys anyway, but almost all of them were going to be there for other reasons, so in the end, I was one of the few left out... you go figure, not so transparent after all. The funny thing is, she was going to be among people she shits on behind their backs but given they are the "popular" kids, then that's ok for social events... fucked up.... | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 06:27 AM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?Maybe she thinks you're some sort of ass trying to implement some weird social and professional behavior that is disingenuous. Meaning? Where does this even come from??? | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 06:26 AM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?All valid points. The thing that bothered me was the intentional attempt to keep me out, not the gathering itself nor the fact I was/wasn't invited. It was her trying to keep me out... Just do your fucking job or quit if you don't like it, don't try to exclude someone just because they won't run to you to kiss your feet... we are at work, it's stupid to act like this. If I did the same shit to her, she would have flipped out big time and run to me and say "you didn't invite me eh? nice..." | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 06:26 AM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?Have you ever worked with a group of people that was, I dunno, a little more than totally strangers??? | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 06:23 AM |
| 0 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?Sneaking into the event? Yeah, I made it so that another woman mentioned it and asked me to go. But it's still besides the point, it's coworkers stuff, you don't like that you have to do your job, then that's your problem, not mine... | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 06:23 AM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?wtf??? meaning?? | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 06:22 AM |
| 1 | A woman at work realized she couldn't manipulate me like she did with others so she's trying to actively exclude me from office related social stuff... wtf?his is Scarcity Mentality in its purest form. I don't understand this... what does work stuff have to do with what I do outside of work? I can be the most successful guy outside and it would still bother me if a woman acted like this just because she couldn't get me to my knees... A person I see everyday acting like a bitch will bother me if she tries to "actively" get others to exclude me... | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 06:22 AM |
| 2 | CorporateLand: How to Ask For a RaiseThis is crap. Many times, especially when you start, you have to settle for less in order to learn and grow. You can puff your chest at every interview and get rejected in all of them, or you can settle for less and get money to eat every day. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/17 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like I'm the only one in my office who doesn't gossip as a way to criticize management and vent off? Is it normal for people to act like my coworkers?I see your point. Then the only option is to manipulate against them and get them fired or in big trouble. I won't let people ruining something I like and getting the same merits I do by acting nice. If that's what it takes, then fuck them.... | /r/askTRP | 22/01/17 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like I'm the only one in my office who doesn't gossip as a way to criticize management and vent off? Is it normal for people to act like my coworkers?But if this crap becomes really manipulative, ie, the people doing this are extremely nice to my bosses faces while shitting on them behind their back? They are basically getting their way because nobody is stopping them, and the last timeI saw my boss giving value to one of these idiots just because he was acting friendly it really pissed me off... Bottom line, if they still get benefits from acting one way while making trouble, wouldn't you do something? I get all my benefits from my work and … | /r/askTRP | 22/01/17 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Any stories of people who managed to change the social dynamics inside a group (from the bottom clown to the top)?In case OP deletes or edits this (which he will after he realizes he's asking for information that nobody with that information would ever give out). shut up and get off your high horse... | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 07:02 AM |
| 2 | How to stop giving out this "computer science guy" vibes?(social guys, help)Have you ever seen a military-type guy dressed as you described? Have you also seen how bad had it with women??? Exactly... | /r/askTRP | 25/12/16 07:43 PM |
| 11 | How to stop giving out this "computer science guy" vibes?(social guys, help)Exactly. I'm a nerd, I work with computers, wear glasses and I'm really smart. I'm also jacked, do sports and have no issues getting women. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/16 05:02 PM |
| -1 | How to stop giving out this "computer science guy" vibes?(social guys, help)Lol, you don't like graphic tees?? :p | /r/askTRP | 25/12/16 05:00 PM |
| 19 | How to stop giving out this "computer science guy" vibes?(social guys, help)It's a nice way of telling you they don't like how you look, computer science has nothing to do with it... | /r/askTRP | 25/12/16 05:00 PM |
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