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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | TRP and self criticismI understand that consciously but still can't seem to change those thoughts. It's still the same thought process that understands that because I lack those qualities to make me stand out, I know my value is lower especially as a single man. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | I never got around to thanking you guysBeen on my journey for a while but curious, where did you start and specifically what did you implement? I ask cause I'm kind of bouncing around. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/18 04:38 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread March 21Got a quick question. I'm 25 and doing alright for myself however I find myself holding back when it comes to women because honestly I'm not great in bed. Kinda have a feedback loop where I even stop myself cause if I've either had pe or Ed and I'll just end up losing the girl. Tips for fixing the mentality, sexual confidence? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/18 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Holy shit I took action and it worked outThat's another habit I need to kick from my provider days. My mind goes straight to "I need to plan something!" To thinking about getting dinner then stressing/getting anxious over thinking about closing and logistics.im In the process of kinda just, ditching the idea of closing and getting used to casually dating. Baby steps. However, got suggestions for something casual the I could do? | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 07:32 AM |
| 8 | Holy shit I took action and it worked outCan't fault him for that though cause I was like that too. Took me like 1 and a half years of affirmations, working out and general improvements to like myself enough to being open to go for it like I did. Lol I can only say that I'm glad he took the first step by seeking information. Next comes action :) | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 07:28 AM |
| 44 | Holy shit I took action and it worked outIt was literally just "aren't you from my class?". Try it out lol | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 01:44 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread September 13So a lot of it is through personal references and have the DNGAF mindset to let them happen. My life mission is currently written on a card thanks to books like Think and Grow Rich but I probably need a better sense of style and more hobbies. Do you have any suggestions for hobbies to try and advice on clothes? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 03:49 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread September 13Honestly I'd love to have both of these types of goals in my life. What would you suggest for really learning more about style and for developing a better/more focused group of friends who value personal growth? Unfortunately I do have several groups of friends that are the type to settle and play video games rather than work or workout. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 03:46 PM |
| 7 | askTRP Megathread September 13That basically the same reason that brought me here. I see that i was a pussy in my relationship and why my ex did what she did. The hard part is converting my entire mindset away from that provider/beta figure into something else. As for concepts, I believe in pretty much all i've seen from the pussy pass to shit tests but It's hard not to become bitter about the whole thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/17 04:28 PM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread September 13Currently 24. I guess i'm still trying to see through the red pill lens and internalize what I see. Years of living with a single mom and only women, growing up in a christian school and a bit of bitterness of seeing other friends slay while I'm not has definitely put me back. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/17 04:26 PM |
| 8 | askTRP Megathread September 13Even after a year and half i'm still having a hard time internalizing the concepts here. Been lifting, working, even doing sports but still can't get though my head the core ideas here and put them into effect. My question is how long did it take you to finally internalize these concepts and how did you project/use them in your life? That and how long did it take you/what was your come to Jesus moment? P.S: i've read the sidebar several times | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/17 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Congratulations, you gamed yourselfThank you for this. A year in and i'm still a sappy fuck that is trying to change how he interacts with women. Saving this to re-read. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/17 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Men of March: Day #8Currently going through again and rereading everything i can. Still on the manipulated male | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/17 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Men of March: Day #8I am doing my 100 a day even on chest days (25x4). Definitely could use help on the girl and sex aspect quite a bit. As for the budgeting I'll definitely start something. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/17 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Men of March: Day #8This is me putting myself out there, looking for mentor(s) for guidance/words of wisdom for a few things. Grew up without a dad and he passed around a year ago so haven't really had much to go off of but just my own shit. Any help with fitness, sex, finance budgeting would be appreciated. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 07:34 PM |
| 6 | How to pick up girls if you're good lookingAs a guy who's 24 and doesn't have anywhere near the success you've had, it both hurts and makes me want to improve. Not sure if I'm what people would call good looking but it is what it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Men of March: Day #1Glad to hear that the book has helped you out so much. Motivates me to fully accept what is talked about in the book. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 01:13 AM |
| 5 | Men of March: Day #1Reminds me of a book, Extreme Ownership. Just started reading it yesterday then I see this post. It's a sign to get my 24 yr old ass in gear. Got a month of nofap so far so I got to keep it up. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 11:45 PM |
| 1 | February 24 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadI'm feeling you on those negatives especially the BP thinking. Keep it up and you'll get there. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/17 11:13 PM |
| 1 | February 24 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadThanks man. Trying to get a better job to make that possible. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/17 11:05 PM |
| 2 | February 24 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadPast year has been a hell of a self-improvement trip for me. Currently 24, still have a ways to go. What I'm doing right - Working out 4-5 times a week (went for 155lbs in january 2015 to 178 currently) - drinking more water, cooking more, sticking to a bit more to a diet taking vitamins, etc. - Reading more (6 pillars of self esteem, feeling good, NMMNG, rational male, trp, 48 laws of power and much more) - Working on school, finishing in December. - Talking more and being much more social than… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/17 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Developing unconditional positive regard for the self.This made me feel a rush of encouragement. To know that I'm trying and part of a group of guys who are improving themselves is a great feeling. Curious, any tips or habits to implement to really make positive self image/talk a habit? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/16 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Just want to know if I'm following the path.I just read the first article. Fml man....I've got a long way to go before I even consider really getting trp in my veins. Thank you for that link. It explains....more than I would like to admit. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Just want to know if I'm following the path.I have passions for a lot of things. I love tennis, love the idea of making music, acting, programming, 3d modeling, hell I'm in school for programming and to make video games. I just never seen to pursue them beyond some interests. I want to succeed and want to change but I fall into old destructive time wasting habits all too easily. It's frustrating to say the least. Also, in regards to music production, I just got a class on udemy to learn to use fl studio and got a few samples to work with … | /r/askTRP | 28/06/16 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Just want to know if I'm following the path.Thats what I feared, that I adopted that female rationalization( hell it feels like I have female hamstring ingrained in me). How the hell do you break free and get those results you want? I get pursuing my dreams is one... You know honestly... I've never pursued something to fruition. I want to get out of this victim mindset but don't see the way out. Trying not to feel sorry for myself and take responsibility but fuck, I just don't know how. (Yea I sounds like an entitled bitch bit this guy re… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/16 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Just want to know if I'm following the path.So adopt the mindset that I caused everything that happened to me? Makes sense but at the same time doesn't. I see how bit could benefit but it's hard to change into that mindset when I've been raised by women and just can't stop feeling bad for myself and my situation. I mean I'm improving cause I'm actually pursuing dreams now but I've barely made progress. It's daunting and sucks to know that my escapes in the past, being raised by women and my shitty choices have gotten me this down in a rut… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/16 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Just want to know if I'm following the path.See I've always had trouble making mini goals to reach. Trying to learn how but it's difficult. Unfortunately I only have a part time job that doesn't pay enough for me to move out. That combined with school full time and I'm kind of stuck. Though I see what the others are saying about making excuses. I just made one right now. As for the fitness, I'm trying to follow a plan but not seeing much results. Might go back to stronglifts and continue where I left off. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/16 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Help on really changing myself and just doing.In school full time and have a part time job. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/16 04:36 PM |
| 1 | How the did you guys stop comparing yourself to others? I'm having trouble.I want to think like that but I can't stop comparing myself. Inadequacy in terms of success and following what I truly want Secondly and honestly, biggest regret was not fucking her/being able to. Literally couldn't stay hard after I had my suspicions and then later knew what she did. Lots of hits to self-confidence and on top of that, realizing RP truths kinda has me on the downward spiral. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/16 02:36 AM |
| 5 | Still can't swallow the pill. Advice?Three. I don't know what it is but when i want to escalate to anything really, I shut down. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/16 06:19 PM |
| 4 | You'll be happier and more confident if you accept the harsh truthsLogged in and saved. Gotta be happy and this article was a great read. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/16 11:43 PM |
| 2 | How to get over a break upFantastic post. Also wanted to give the extra +1 for the prince skit reference. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/16 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Theory Friday - No Stupid Questions ThreadAlright let's see what I got. Been trying to implement TRP ideas and had mild sucess with my own image of myself. Read no more Mr nice guy along with other great TRP reads but I have run into a few bumps that also probably deal with my past. 1) Question part, how does one get out of that mindset of always wanting sex or at least develop a mindset where you're not a damn addict? 2) Also, when it comes to game...I lack if. Approaching has becoming easier for me (i don't mind starting conversations… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/16 07:26 AM |
| 4 | Shameless Brag ThreadStarted lifting recently. That's all I got. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/16 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Reading TRP and angry at myself. Could use some guidance from you guys.Actually in college and 23. Full time with a part time job, dad passed in december, ex cheated on me with some guitar dude she was chasing for years, and going to a 12 step for all of this shit and being told to focus on myself and not date for now... I feel crushed and just want to change but Fuck man... I lift now more than ever, 3 times a week for 2 months now. Trying to improve myself but the anger is there. Really want to change my views but it ain't easy. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/16 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Reading TRP and angry at myself. Could use some guidance from you guys.I do lift but I feel like a loser still. It's hard to like yourself when you live at home, 23 in college and on top of that have put women on a pedestal all your life. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/16 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Reading TRP and angry at myself. Could use some guidance from you guys.Been lifting for a few months now but I get what you mean. Currently at 140 on the bench press but getting better. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/16 06:02 PM |
| 1 | I'm sick and tired of being beta. What do I need to do?Ive read no more Mr nice guy and it's resonated with me so much. I'll check Out the other books as well. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/16 06:03 PM |
| 1 | I'm sick and tired of being beta. What do I need to do?Think is i'm not exactly sure what to practice from reading. A lot is mindset but what actions do I take? I at least work out now and I know now that I should go out more instead of sit in my computer chair but what else? | /r/askTRP | 11/03/16 08:38 AM |
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