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| 30 | Who else has heard “wear pretty underwear in case you get hit by a bus/car”? So, even when severely injured/dying, women must ensure they’re sexually arousing and visually pleasing the patriarchy. This is not cuteI dress mostly in black undergarments, cotton thongs and a bra designed for what I am wearing. Matching the color to me is important because I like making my life easier. I got rid of all my crazy colored victoria secret panties and just stick to black and beige. If I buy a lingerie set that matches. The term pretty is “eh” but I think it would be embarrassing to go to the hospital with underwear that says “I know you like it” or juicy or something lol. Non cotton underwear puts you at risk for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 07:00 AM |
| 42 | He at least cleaned his shit stainsThe 4 year boyfriend line says it all. 1-3 years max means shit or get off the pot. Literally. No “career” boyfriends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 05:34 AM |
| 24 | 😕I would have excused Myself to the restroom and walked out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 02:13 AM |
| 4 | There seems to be an influx on men on tiktok spreading messages that you must have sex before marriage etc for “compatibility”. As someone who doesn’t want to, this just reeks of a LVM tactic to coerce women into sexIt depends on your perspective, religious beliefs etc. But the problem lies when men have no intension of marrying or even a relationship someone and use it as a tactic to manipulate a woman into having sex VERY EARLY ON. Sex early on usually doesn’t benefit the woman as a man isn’t bonded to a woman, emotionally, financially, etc. There are some hvm who would be ok saving sex for marriage but it usually men who are invested in their religious faiths or come from a conservative family or upbring… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 03:40 PM |
| 27 | Have you ever rejected a man because of his sexual history?I have the power to reject a man for any reason. Maybe he talked about sex on the first date, maybe I can tell he’s lying by the way he sits or gets nervous and shifty, maybe he is into 3somes and I don’t want that, maybe he like facials. Dating is collecting data. I don’t make a scene and walk walk away then and there Infact often times my ability to listen and be quite it truth serum and makes a man tell on himself. The key point is get good at asking the right questions and listening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 05:38 AM |
| 9 | Has any of you bisexual ladies been told by a LWM that you are a lesbian if you don't enjoy bad PIV or don't orgasm from PIV at all?Some guys have small dicks which they can’t help. Others knowingly are bad or are just use to a woman pleasing them. I personally have better odds when it’s a exclusive committed relationship. I don’t fake an orgasm so a hvm is likely to want to see me have pleasure. He will feel insecure without my sexual approval, because my opinion matters to him. But I don’t directly say anything. You won’t get what you want that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 03:21 PM |
| 10 | How much of women's birth control use is simply to accommodate men?I have a honest talk with a man saying I tried birth control and it messed with my hormones causing major $$$ and time to fix. If he still is an idiot to push me to use birth control as the only method then he’s is seem as very selfish in the relationship. Birth control can contribute to infertility later on if it’s incompatible with you body. My take away is, if birth control isn’t right for you explain how much it can cause you to suffer. If he is willing to have you suffer then he isn’t a hig… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 11:16 PM |
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