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| 2 | For so long I’ve been obsessed thinking about fukin woman. But I’ve realized besides that I don’t want much to do with them... I’m realizing how negative of a mindset that is. U got to be in a good mindset and actually enjoy people.. anyone know how to get past this? Imma share my perspective too.It's not good to live in your head. Trust me, I suffer from this same problem. You think you are getting better by doing this but you are just making things worse. I did the same thing and never took any action. It's rooted in fear of rejection. It's comfortable to live in your head and write these long paragraphs thinking it's somehow going to fix you. I think you just got to throw yourself out there and figure it out for yourself, no amount of reading or writing is going to make up for action.… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 05:28 PM |
| 1 | For so long I’ve been obsessed thinking about fukin woman. But I’ve realized besides that I don’t want much to do with them... I’m realizing how negative of a mindset that is. U got to be in a good mindset and actually enjoy people.. anyone know how to get past this? Imma share my perspective too.I haven't been on here for awhile and just came to check up on... I can't believe after so long of not being on here that I literally randomly come on here and see that you posted this 14 minutes ago. This is not healthy. It's obsessive and it's digging you deeper and deeper in the hole. Please stop posting it's for your own good. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 11:23 PM |
| 3 | good trp podcasts?Black Philip Show is sadly only 12 episodes... but, if you can filter through all crude humor and some non-sense, within the course of 2-3 hours you can really gain some serious insight. There are nuggets scattered all throughout it. Truly eye-opening listening to him dissect them. Don't know much about the Beige Phillip show other than it's Dante, he was good on tbps but no where close to Patrice O'Neals level of insight and wit. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Sorry for the long post, kind of desperate. I feel myself slipping into blackpill ideology. Mostly because I feel it’s correct. At the same time I want to be happy. Do I have go delude myself in order to follow the RP? Please try to change my mind in the blackpill, its killing me.To some degree. It's not all guys here. Most are introverted and have a host of issues. Then they read trp and think hooray! now I have it all figured out little do they know it's a long long journey from reading it to actually experiencing it. Trp is just another theory, I don't think of it as the end all be all of male-female interactions. Certainly has some truth to it but it's not without its absurdness. I take it all with a grain of salt and you should too. Believe half of what you see and … | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Sorry for the long post, kind of desperate. I feel myself slipping into blackpill ideology. Mostly because I feel it’s correct. At the same time I want to be happy. Do I have go delude myself in order to follow the RP? Please try to change my mind in the blackpill, its killing me.How did you improve your physical attractivenee? other than lifting? | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Sorry for the long post, kind of desperate. I feel myself slipping into blackpill ideology. Mostly because I feel it’s correct. At the same time I want to be happy. Do I have go delude myself in order to follow the RP? Please try to change my mind in the blackpill, its killing me.That's a major detail bro. And you'll realize a lot of the guys here suffer from Aspergers or Autism. I'd say they represent a disproportionate amount of men here. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Sorry for the long post, kind of desperate. I feel myself slipping into blackpill ideology. Mostly because I feel it’s correct. At the same time I want to be happy. Do I have go delude myself in order to follow the RP? Please try to change my mind in the blackpill, its killing me.BP = Be yourself, the right one will come. Just have confidence. RP = It's all about Game/personality BlkP = It's all about face/looks The truth is probably a mix of all three to be fair because each one is an extreme. Truth is grey and nuanced. It's not solely Game/Personality and face/looks are important, even some BP advice isn't completely wrong. Your problem is that you are too neurotic, nihilistic, self-conscious, and in-your-head. Most guys getting laid on the regular have extremely low… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 04:27 PM |
| 0 | Why do y’all not like MGTOWA lot of the founding members are men who have been divorced raped yada yada. And so their philosophy was based out of that, shit that was happening in the 90s and 00s... so the MGTOW philosophy stemmed out all the male injustice. A lot of the members try to give a "learn from my mistake, don't make the same mistakes I did, marriage is a trap" type advice. The purist MGTOW I would say at this point don't hate women per se but rather want nothing to do with women. Some have talked about starting … | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 04:20 PM |
| 4 | Why do y’all not like MGTOWIt's a group of incels pretending like they had a choice in the matter. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Why do y’all not like MGTOWNot really, Braincels is their replacement. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Why do y’all not like MGTOWIt's also almost exclusively guys stuck in the angry phase. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Too many women hate me right nowYep, which is where we get PC culture from. People feel uncomfortable with the truth and would rather buy into comforting IDEALLISTIC lies about reality. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Too many women hate me right nowWhatcha mean? How you getting these girls? 4th of July bitch and others. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Too many women hate me right nowPosts like these just prove it's all about looks. The guy is self-proclaimed beta and still slays and get dates.... | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 11:50 PM |
| 13 | good trp podcasts?Black Philiph Show | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 11:47 PM |
| -1 | Huge introvert and not sure how to improve sociallyMan oh man... another *introvert* post. I'm beginning to think the real issue with most guys here isn't their Game or Looks per se, but their introversion... | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Most women act like complete bitches to me. Why is that?Not disagreeing with that, but it is what it is. It's the whole eggs are expensive sperm is cheap dynamic. So females become the natural selectors/judgers/arbiters of fitness. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 10:53 PM |
| 2 | if a 5/10 wants to bang you, does that mean you are in 10%Ofc they do, but if she's a realistic 5s most won't show signs of interest because they think he's too far out of her league so she'll act bitchy. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 10:51 PM |
| 2 | How do we know that trp is legit?I see what you mean by the whole "now I know I'm not crazy part". There are a lot of autists out there that who, on a base-level know/suspect this is all to be true but are too conditioned by the world around them, so they keep thinking they are wrong/crazy/delusional for thinking that reality is not as it seems. Disney, music, and most BP/MSM is a complete farce that lies to people. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 02:11 PM |
| 1 | if a 5/10 wants to bang you, does that mean you are in 10%No, it means you are a either a 4, or a 5 maybe a 6. Women sometimes date laterally but mostly date one or two points above their own SMV. It's likely she sees you as a 5 or 6 if your rating of her is accurate. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Most women act like complete bitches to me. Why is that?What you consider normal they consider ugly. They've done studies on this countless times. Women see 80%+ of men as completely undatable and unattractive. If you think you are in the normal category (5 or 6) you are probably looking like a 2 or 3 in their eyes. They are completely brutal when it comes to a mans looks. Which makes sense when you think of how much they obsess over their own looks, why wouldn't they be just as critial towards how a man looks. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Most women act like complete bitches to me. Why is that?Normal looking dude meme... | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Most women act like complete bitches to me. Why is that?The only way to genuinely get those things you describe is to be an attractive man in the first place. Those mentalities fall apart like a house of cards if you don't already have natural abundance... i.e. money, social support, natural good looks. Go tell an ugly poor manlet to "just have dgaf mentality" and see how that works. Looks work as the foundation to build ones confidence and all those mentalities naturally fall in place. People believe your confidence is authentic based on how natural… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Most women act like complete bitches to me. Why is that?It's not just looks. But the thing is once you improve looks it has this domino effect towards all other aspects of your life. Game improves when your looks improve because it gives you added confidence. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Most women act like complete bitches to me. Why is that?They give you the bitch shield just in case you try to think you have chance with them in the future. It's a preemptive strike move. Making sure you'll never try to hit on them. So they establish a bitchy vibe around you. Could also be that you have really poor social skills. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Most women act like complete bitches to me. Why is that?Low-smv is usually the culprit. Check your lms levels. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 01:40 PM |
| 1 | What are physical traits in men women are attracted to?Those two seemed to be overlooked in low-smv men. Same with a thick neck. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Best YouTube channels for Red PillLFA is pretty damn good. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 03:26 AM |
| 4 | Do you think your location affects your SMV?Yes. Read Mark Manson's "Models" he goes into how important Demographics are to Game. And demographics and location are closely tied together. Where you live will affect your ability to Game, the type of women you have available and how receptive they will be to you. Socio-economics change. Location affects everything! | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Why the fuck are women always on their phones?Attention and validation. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 03:20 AM |
| 6 | How do we know that trp is legit?This is interesting. What aspects do you remember her resonating the most with? Like it's all about what you provide you can provide them? So your looks, money, status? | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 03:19 AM |
| 3 | How do we know that trp is legit?So you accept it's all about face and looks? | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 03:16 AM |
| 13 | How do we know that trp is legit?This is all good. I think trp is partially a placebo. You didn't need trp to tell you those things, you already knew you were a loser before you ever read trp, you stumbled upon trp because you were already in the process of changing. Trp just confirmed what you already knew. about your life Trp is obvious, it just serves as a firm reminder of some fundamental points of life. Trp didn't do those things, you did, you put in the effort to improve yourself. Much of what you changed really has nothi… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 03:13 AM |
| 1 | UPDATE: Girl i've been in class with for 3 years - I acted on what i saidShe sensed your lack of congruency in what you said and you overall aura/energy, body language, tone of voice et cetera, hence the "I don't believe you". She sensed how wobbly your frame behind this whole situation was. Your lack of emotion/feeling is really what is getting you here. You have to display that shit to a degree in order to engage her. Show you are serious with your emotion. Just being completely emotionally unavailable/withdrawn is going to get a lot "I don't believe you's" and var… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here go from introvert, not enjoying being social to extrovert and genuinely like talking to people?This question gets posted here like every other day. Can you go from an introvert to an extrovert? In the traditional sense of the word, No. It should be of no surprise that the guys who struggle the hardest with women are your introverted/shy types. You can't change your brain chemistry. Introverts and extroverts quite literally have their brains wired differently. They react to outside stimuli differently. Usually possessing an over-sensitive nervous system and physiology (ectomorphs). Which i… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Why.. oh why.. do girls have bad hygiene... and why is it only black chicks.Uh source? | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 12:53 PM |
| 1 | “Fake it till you make it. Be yourself, be you’re best you.”Introvert doesn't mean poor social skills, it's all about how one re-charges themselves. Introverts re-charge when alone while extroverts re-charge while being around other people. There is science on how introverts and extroverts have different brains (wired differently). So there is a different from a brain chemistry pov. But any person can become socially intelligent with enough theory and practice. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 12:49 PM |
| 5 | Where is everyone getting girlfriends?I much as I dislike the term, the 'normies' you are referring to here that have gfs, they get them through Social circles, close friends, and friends of friends. You can bet your last dollar that these guys aren't daygaming/cold-approaching...Thing is, these soyboys/beta bux are usually pretty sociable in a beta kind of way and are meeting these girls through their extensive social networks. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 01:55 PM |
| 3 | Where is everyone getting girlfriends?This is it right here OP. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 01:50 PM |
| 3 | I feel weird making eye contact with random girls??? Even when I notice a hottie staring at me something tells me to look away. How can I get over this? If they’re someone I know it’s different for some reasonHow'd you work through it? | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 08:26 PM |
| 9 | I feel weird making eye contact with random girls??? Even when I notice a hottie staring at me something tells me to look away. How can I get over this? If they’re someone I know it’s different for some reasonWould be my guess, have a similar issue. I feel extremely nervous and anxious any time a woman shows the slightest amount of interest in me. I flare up. It's a fear of intimacy and rejection. And a host of other irrational fears. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 08:26 PM |
| 169 | I feel weird making eye contact with random girls??? Even when I notice a hottie staring at me something tells me to look away. How can I get over this? If they’re someone I know it’s different for some reasonYou're scared, nervous, have anxiety, low self-esteem/self-worth. You don't feel worthy of the attention so you look away like a scared little boy. It's a real problem that a lot of men face (myself included) but few admit to. It helps to write things down and journal, do some introspection you might find the root of your irrational fears, insecurities, and phobias. It is possibly a fear of women, commitment, intimacy, or rejection. Feel free to send a message if you wanna talk through it. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 08:23 PM |
| -1 | In references to Looks in LMS, what are Looks composed of? face? body? height?The whole idea is to get your LMS up so you can command better quality babes. Understanding my LMS gives me some points to work on to increase odds of women being receptive. I understand Game is King, of course I'm honing that as well. But LMS massages Game. Trying to figure out what Looks is composed of. Many seem to think it's face, I think that's a pretty large percentage, like jaw, face shape, eye color/eye area. Then it's body, height, hair, hairstyle, overall sense of fashion/dress. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 08:12 PM |
| 0 | Forced to say goodbye to student life?Koolio | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Shit test: "I like to make a connection and know the guy first before I have sex with them"Right, cause it doesn't overinvest/pedstal, outcome indepedence, DGAF. Just be relaxed but be escalating and leading the interaction, nothing forceful like you're thirsty for it. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Shit test: "I like to make a connection and know the guy first before I have sex with them"For the record, don't ever bicker. Just makes a man look pathetic and has you sinking to her level. She wants you to bicker, that gives her attention/validation. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Shit test: "I like to make a connection and know the guy first before I have sex with them""Yeah.. I understand" then proceed to escalate as normal. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Shit test: "I like to make a connection and know the guy first before I have sex with them"They all have some romantic fairy-tale reasoning like this, you just gotta be like "yeah.. I understand" then proceed to escalate as normal. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 07:41 PM |
| 0 | Forced to say goodbye to student life?Idk sometimes it's a good place to save money and collect your barriers. What works for one might not for all. Like you gotta slow down and process life. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Early LTR Dreading MeYou've pedestalled her. Need more abundance. Many more fish in the sea. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 07:30 PM |
| 4 | Why do women gossip?It gives them a psychological boost. The judger always has more power than the judged, at least in their minds. So by bashing X person it makes them feel like they are better/superior to that person. It's rooted from their own insecurity. It's a social phenomena, humans have to feel important and feel like they are doing something or else we'd get depressed. Social hierarchies are everywhere, they need to feel on top to feel happy/secure. Our ancestors that didn't have any motivation to do shit … | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 07:25 PM |
| 3 | "I make a lot of bad decisions"I'd say you're right on the money with that one. "I make a lot of mistakes" means "I'll fuck other guys oopsies!" | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | What should you do/say when a girl you’re trying to plate talks about her sex life with other guys?I think so, jealousy in it's essense is an UNCONTROLLABLE response to external stimuli. By not being able to control it it means you aren't the master of your emotions. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 06:36 PM |
| 1 | What should you do/say when a girl you’re trying to plate talks about her sex life with other guys?Non-judgemental is where is at, that's the mindset. Best way to NOT trigger ASD is to act non-judgemental about their sexuality. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 06:33 PM |
| 1 | What should you do/say when a girl you’re trying to plate talks about her sex life with other guys?Amused mastery. Act like she isn't even talking about it sorta smirk about it and find an avenue to segway into another conversation. No good is gonna come from you engaging in a conversation with her talking about her ex's and sex. Remember you have a choice in what to talk about. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Girl was interested but I fucked up...So many mistakes here. It's mainly down to all the free attention and time you are giving her. You clearly don't respect you time. First, you liked her picture on instagram, free validation no reason for that. Secondly you talked on the phone for 2 hours with her, huge mistake, more free validation. You give her all this stuff for free, in return you get nothing. Talking and attention is like sex to them, so they see no point in doing anything else. You basically put all the cards on the table f… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 06:29 PM |
| 0 | Forced to say goodbye to student life?Rollo started college at 32. Life isn't a race man, everybody is different. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 06:24 PM |
| 1 | No progress on 3x12 sets, getting lightheaded around 9-10 rep.Should be getting at least 1gal a day of water. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 06:22 PM |
| 1 | No progress on 3x12 sets, getting lightheaded around 9-10 rep.How do you improve low blood pressure? Cause I seem to max out at low reps to and just get winded too easily. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Any cities I can live in with a high income-to-cost-of-living ratio for people working in accounting & finance?What professional field? | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Where do I meet hot girls? They’re basically impossible to findYep, my knees hurt for a week or so after I did my deadlifts at 180lbs, anytime I'd walk down a flight of stairs I'd get sharp pains in my knees. My diet is kinda shit though. But someone else was saying on here to focus on squats to strengthen the knees. Probably the best route is to strengthen the knees up first with squats like give or take 100 or so pounds with squats then build up from there working the knee strength. I think I made the mistake of lifting heavy being untrained and it hurt m… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Where do I meet hot girls? They’re basically impossible to findWhat straps? When you first started what were your stats? Abs and pecs are my goal as well. Are you doing a lot of crunchs? ab-roller? that sorta thing? | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 05:25 PM |
| 1 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?I don't see it like a PR manager or anything like that. Again, it is two-pronged (at least the way I've come to understand it). First it's your internals and a base-line understanding of who you are (you have to understand yourself first and foremost, which is another thing I think autistic may people have a hard time grasping but I'm not 100% on that), as well understanding others, how you are perceived by them and then being able to encapsulate them inside your world. It's like when someone gi… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Gym routineDo you mean +45 for the weight of the barbell? | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Gym routineDeadlifts are great because they workout almost every muscle in the entire body. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Where do I meet hot girls? They’re basically impossible to findDo you use knee pads, back brace, and those deadlifting arm braces? What are your lifting stats? What's your diet consist of? Other than deadlifting what's the best way to strengthen your knees and back? | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Where do I meet hot girls? They’re basically impossible to findYeah I mean I was doing deadlifts but it was seriously hurting my knees. Got up to like 180ish and my knees felt like they were going to explode. Although it's the type of thing if you are out of practice or literally just started it's gonna feel like that until you improve. I'm weary of my form too. I've watched so many videos on how to properly deadlift and it never seems like I have it right. Also, I've read that deadlifting is one of the most dangerous exercises you can do. Seriously can fuc… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Where do I meet hot girls? They’re basically impossible to findYou can bench 2 45lbs on each side? So 4*45 = 180lbs, how long did it take you to get to that point? That's kinda hard for my current deadlift, but I've just really started taking it seriously. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Where do I meet hot girls? They’re basically impossible to find3 plates on each side, meaning 45lb each? so 6*45 = 270lbs. Is that a lot of weight to be squating, deadlifting, OHP, Benching? I'm seriously wondering here. Doesn't seem like that's a lot of weight, especially for a deadlift. You said the biggest guy at your gym is doing 4 plates on each side of 45lbs, so 8*45 = 360lb deadlift. I know dudes doing more than that and they aren't some amazing miracle to the sports world. Basically average joes that just stayed consistent with it. Were you saying t… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Where do I meet hot girls? They’re basically impossible to find3 plates on each side, meaning 45lb each? so 6*45 = 270lbs. Is that a lot of weight to be squating, deadlifting, OHP, Benching? I'm seriously wondering here. Doesn't seem like that's a tone of weight, especially for a deadlift. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Where do I meet hot girls? They’re basically impossible to findHow did you avoid knee and back injuries while doing deadlifts and heavy lifting? Heard once guys hit a certain age you should stop with the heavy weights. Thoughts? | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Where do I meet hot girls? They’re basically impossible to findWhy no deadlift? | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Where do I meet hot girls? They’re basically impossible to findI know you wrote this awhile ago but there is absolutely a sequence to this... first, second, third, fourth... you fix yourself, your body, mind, spirit, finances. You don't go looking for a relationship when you are all fucked up in your mind and life. That's cart before the horse, and you'll end up fucking yourself up even more in the end by doing so. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Where do I meet hot girls? They’re basically impossible to findI know you wrote this awhile ago, but I got to say this is probably one of the most insightful and best comments I've read on here. You really pin-point down exactly what OP is going through and how to fix it. And I don't mean to come off as a jerk here, but is the reason you have these insights because you've gone through a similar transition in your own life? I think a lot of guys that hit rock-bottom like this are legitimately not trying/putting in the work or effort necessary to garner the r… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 02:15 PM |
| 2 | I wasn't nervous but suddenly I am.I'd even wager to say half or more of the issues guys find themselves in are related to them overthinking, overanalyzing, and overcomplicating the situation. Just some food for thought. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Being the "20 percent"I think it's something that gets confused here in this subreddit because some many guys are thirsty and fixated on the whole notion of sex. So alpha = high n-count, beta = low n-count. Not everything is about sex... literally every situation on here somehow is spun to be about sex in some way shape of form. It's actually quite a fucked-up worldview to think that way. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Are AMOGs trying to scare you off and weed you out of the competition?Exactly. I think it follows a pareto 80/20. Most don't use their physical and mental strength against others to intimidate and scare off... but most certain some do and that's who I am referring to in this post. I think their whole motivation for doing so is to scare off other men from the competition and thus draw in female attention to them, because women often gravitate to the strongest most dominant male. And what better what to display that then to AMOG and scare off other men? | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:55 PM |
| 1 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?I'm really not understanding how you saying autistic men should have the strongest frame. By what measure should that be true? Do you mean in the sense that basically nothing can break through to them because of their disorder? Because literally their brain doesn't operate like others do? Can you explain on that. Also, I said that frame is two-pronged there. It's your reality upon another's reality. It's also you holding your ground and integrity. So you can't really have one without the other, … | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:53 PM |
| 2 | I wasn't nervous but suddenly I am.That's what she said. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:44 PM |
| 2 | I wasn't nervous but suddenly I am.because you weren't thinking and were out of your head. When you THINK you begin to overanalyze stuff. Naturals just DO and FEEL they don't think everything thing out they are going to say. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:44 PM |
| 1 | What is the overlap between pickup and trp?Game | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:33 PM |
| 2 | My customers hit on me but I m afraid to respond. What should I do?Don't flirt with your customers... you don't shit where you eat. Besides you'll get a bad reputation for your business and be known throughout the mall as "that guy"... | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Just Lifting vs Lift/BJJRight, that's why I said it depends on what you're doing it for. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 06:50 AM |
| 1 | How do you do any of what is needed to get a date when you have social anxiety?I'm actually quite a happy go-lucky type person. I'd wager my real issues are from diet, sex, sleep, exercise, and stress from work. You're a fuckin moron tho f'real that's why you need some feel-good pills. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Are AMOGs trying to scare you off and weed you out of the competition?Like I said I don't think most do this. But like most things it's probably a pareto 80/20. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Are AMOGs trying to scare you off and weed you out of the competition?What do you mean by 'market position'? | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Just Lifting vs Lift/BJJDepends on what you are doing it for, generally it takes 3 days week to expect belt promotions within time. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Are AMOGs trying to scare you off and weed you out of the competition?Fuck that I don't want the fucking post-wall bitch I want the best for myself. I'm sick of being second fiddle. Sometimes I think the most alpha of the group is the dudes who is the most competitive and works the fucking hardest, be that of strongest (physically dominant) or mentally (socially dominant). | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you do any of what is needed to get a date when you have social anxiety?It's mood altering. Why can't you fix yourself? You needs pills to make you feel better. There is no biological free-lunch, somewhere you are screwing your natural brain chemistry up. You can't cope with reality so you need mood alerting pills to fix that for you. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:52 AM |
| 1 | How do you do any of what is needed to get a date when you have social anxiety?Oh even better you offer drugs as a solution? How about I fix myself? how about fixing other areas of my life, like sleep, diet, exercise, meditation. You're just looking for the easiest escape and don't want to actually put any real work or effort into fixing yourself. Doctors don't want what's best for you, just what's best for their pocketbooks. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:46 AM |
| 3 | Are AMOGs trying to scare you off and weed you out of the competition?But the whole AMOG thing is the alpha wants first dibs and the best of the best of the flock. So alpha basically gets the top girl and the betas get the second rate girls, if any at all. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:43 AM |
| 21 | Shit test: "I like to make a connection and know the guy first before I have sex with them"You're straight up calling her a slut. You think she'd going to take kindly to that? Ever heard of ASD | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:38 AM |
| 108 | Shit test: "I like to make a connection and know the guy first before I have sex with them""awww been pumped and dumped too many times?" Gott dam... whatever you do don't say that. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:37 AM |
| 23 | Asked girl to come over and watch netflix and she said she's down but now she asked "is that all we're doing?"Good choice | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:32 AM |
| 13 | Asked girl to come over and watch netflix and she said she's down but now she asked "is that all we're doing?"This is a dumb line plain and simple, it's not smooth and something I'd use when I was in middle-school or some shit. Way better material to use and sound much more covert about it. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Are AMOGs trying to scare you off and weed you out of the competition?I know some guys do also get a kick out of intimidating other guys. So it's that age-old question of "am I too sensitive or are you actually doing xyz thing?", truth is probably in the middle. But again I think most don't do this, but some do which is basically why we have the term AMOG in the first place. This does happen. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:28 AM |
| 19 | Asked girl to come over and watch netflix and she said she's down but now she asked "is that all we're doing?"Horrid. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:25 AM |
| 34 | Asked girl to come over and watch netflix and she said she's down but now she asked "is that all we're doing?"That will trigger some ASD, it's too forward not enough mystery. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:24 AM |
| 11 | Asked girl to come over and watch netflix and she said she's down but now she asked "is that all we're doing?"Which one did you choose to go with? | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:24 AM |
| 23 | Asked girl to come over and watch netflix and she said she's down but now she asked "is that all we're doing?"Damn goooood | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Are AMOGs trying to scare you off and weed you out of the competition?Alright, good points not gonna lie. Part of me thinks you are right and it's just my imagination, the other part thinks "I legit know some guys do actually do this." I'll say most are probably not doing this, but some are for sure. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:22 AM |
| 2 | How do you do any of what is needed to get a date when you have social anxiety?No, it's that your advice is some cookie-cutter nonsense that basically anyone under the sun could state, and 1. It does not help and 2. actually makes men worse, because it doesn't identify any problems "Just be yourself" "The right one will come along" are two are the worst pieces of advice ever uttered. I hoped you were joking, but it looks like you were honest. Good grief. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Being the "20 percent"TRP is sexual strategy, yeah. It's something that many people conflate, a man who has a high n-count is automatically alpha, a man with a low n-count is automatically beta. Meanwhile that supposed beta works harder than anyone, big as fuck and is a true leader. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:16 AM |
| 2 | How do you do any of what is needed to get a date when you have social anxiety?You are fucking joking? Just be yourself is a fuckin meme. Get the fuck outta here with your nonsense advice. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:12 AM |
| 0 | How do I stop thinking about a girl without having an abundance of other girls?Action without reflection is also a road to depression. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:08 AM |
| 3 | How do I stop thinking about a girl without having an abundance of other girls?GOT DAM! | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:07 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop thinking about a girl without having an abundance of other girls?Courtesy of the late great St.Patrice | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:07 AM |
| 1 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?Oof. Yes, ofc it's build from within, but what's frame if it does not draw people in. That's where perception management part comes into play. One aspect is yourself, the other aspect are other people. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Hard to deal with super extroverted, bubbly, social butterfly type women?Fuck all that, I'm just gonna lift and get big. I use to think that advice line of advice was ridiculous but it benefits you so much and you stop thinking about nonsense situations like these. Just lift. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Hard to deal with super extroverted, bubbly, social butterfly type women?I've encountered that type too. The ones I am talking about are the super extroverted and super confident ones. Just for an example, you're out on a date with a girl, the date just started and she yells "A ROUND OF BEERS FOR ME AND HIM" or something to that effect, like she takes the lead in everything. In that situations I'm like "Ok...", and she keeps upping the ante doing more and more outlandish and social extroverted things, like dancing when there is no music or banging on the table. Thing… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 06:35 PM |
| 1 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?Because it's something you build from within by analyzing yourself and others in many social situations. Which would be difficult for someone autistic because they find it difficult understanding social-cues and how others perceive them. A lot of frame comes down to perception management. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Logistics problem.What exactly is the logistics problem? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Should I stop being a people pleaser completely?NMMNG + WISNIFG | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Mode One Approach Thoughts?You've already overinvested and set up an outcome dependent situation. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Tinder BioI don't fucking think they read those. Tinder is all about looks/face to be honest. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:39 PM |
| 3 | So disinterested shit tests exist?She has boundless options, unless you are better tier than the other guys hitting her up that night she most likely isn't going to humor your advances. And why should she? If you had girls coming up to you non-stop would you humor a girl who had poor game/bad eye-contact etc? Or in terms of what men find attractive, if she was fat and grotesque. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Hard to deal with super extroverted, bubbly, social butterfly type women?Right... all they ever talk about is themselves. The second you make something about you they go *silence stare*… then they go right back into talking about whatever they were talking about. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:31 PM |
| 0 | How do women view sarcastic bluntness?Good motto. Also, "Be anything but boring to her". | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 03:57 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when dudes just blatantly ignore you and not even face you when you talk to em?Because he sees you as some sort of competition or obstacle to getting further with women. He isn't able to really run game when you are standing there. He was focusing on gaming women, smooth talking, then all the sudden you walk over, he's probably thinking "fuck this guy, he's just competition, adds no value to me". So basically you become like a nuisance to him being able to escalate with women. It's the whole thing of if you don't provide some kind of social value you are basically worthles… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 03:52 PM |
| 1 | How would you guys deal with a girl that messages you complaining about her bf?Change the topic? Nah cut this girl off she's already friend-zoned him lives far away, there's no point in continuing this relationship. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 03:44 PM |
| 4 | How would you guys deal with a girl that messages you complaining about her bf?Cut her off cold-turkey. She's straight up using you as an emotional tampon. Have some self-respect man. And ffs find better prospects and stop digging in the garbage can. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Generating fun vibesThis contradicts some of the other RP literature, where it says to make statements not questions. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Generating fun vibesWere you cocky-confident when you were you saying these things? energy/aura is pretty critical. Sounds like the second girl was digging you but your body language or tone of voice wasn't in it. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Sabotage?Sounds like classic cockblocking. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 03:36 PM |
| 7 | What value should i bring into a girls life?Right. What you find so attractive about her femininity she finds the polar opposite of that (your masculinity) attractive. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 03:33 PM |
| 10 | What value should i bring into a girls life?Masculinity, sense of humor, confidence/frame. Personalities connect on a deeper level beyond those traits. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 03:32 PM |
| 11 | SexualityWhat's your relationship like with your parents? What's your overall thoughts/opinions on sex in general? Do you think it's wrong/bad or positive/good thing? Usually there is some dark corners in our minds and we haven't exposed to light yet that needs some addressing. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 03:30 PM |
| 4 | Hard to deal with super extroverted, bubbly, social butterfly type women?That's the thing they are chatter boxes, super extroverted, wild'n'crazy, which are better than the wallflower type where you have to carry the entire conversation. It's hard to describe, it's almost like they are trying to dominant and control you by how social and bubbly they are, if that makes sense. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:46 PM |
| 24 | How do I stop thinking about a girl without having an abundance of other girls?Imagine her licking another guys dirty ass. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:44 PM |
| 29 | How do I stop thinking about a girl without having an abundance of other girls?You mean the ultimate question of "how do I have abundance mentality when I don't actually have abundance?" | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Approaching for the first time in my life.Wow what are you even talking about.... tangent much? save your politics for another subreddit bruv | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Approaching for the first time in my life.I'm not, I listen to a lot of debates from both sides. Try to keep myself well-versed from both points of view. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:31 PM |
| 1 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?Well you have your answers, also you have a defeatist mentality. Pretty much like "I didn't win the lotto so I'm just gonna sulk", the fact that you are here however shows you want to improve. So keep at. Identify the problems and work to actively fix them. So first, you are reserved. You have to work to slowly exposure yourself to people. Nothing too crazy, just realize most people don't really care one way or the other. People are generally not malevolent or benevolent, mostly just focusing on… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Approaching for the first time in my life.No wonder they have such an issue with immigration. I can't hear of men in Sweden being for harsher immigration laws... I'd bet a lot of them are beta guys/AFCs that aren't getting in enough lays. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Do women not only shit-test your emotions but basically everything else too?I'm saying that they appear to shit-test but they are just being women and moody. All women try to control men whether or not they have actual interest in you, that's what I'm saying. What's i'm asking you is, if a woman says "Do this for me", "Don't do that", "Hold my purse", or just generally has a bad attitude, how do you respond to those? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:02 PM |
| 1 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?Being in your head does kinda kill game and the spontaneity of it all. When I was a teenager I seemed to be way more relaxed. Reading all this stuff to a point starts to work to your detriment because you over-analyze every situation, like the stereotypical "She just breathed in my direction... she wants the D guys!" The nervousness and anxiety comes from lack of experience and fear of intimacy, as well as low self-worth/self-esteem, do you think you might have those? It's something you can work… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Do women not only shit-test your emotions but basically everything else too?So what do I do when they try to control me "go do this", "don't do that", "hold my purse". Just say "No" or be defiant? Just feels like a kid disobeying his mom not a man standing my ground. I've gotten anything from 3.5 - 5.5 on the looks-scale. So maybe they are just fucking with me? Sometimes it's hard to tell what's a shit-test from just being flat out disrespectful. I know old ladies in their 60s and 70s aren't shit-testing me, they are just moody af. I think they legit just do it to every… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Being the "20 percent"Then the 20% isn't composed of just natural alphas? It's also composed of betas would just lifted and worked hard? And potentially the 80% has a few alphas in there too. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Being the "20 percent"I agree, an alpha (20%) has control over both himself and his environment. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Being the "20 percent"There are plenty of guys I've known that had solid Game, no money, and no physique and sweeped the floor with other guys with money/physique. Maybe we shouldn't even base our assessment of how alpha a man is by how many HB's he sleeps with? I think that definition is poor. A man can be alpha and not sleep with women if he doesn't want to. But being alpha it will have the by-product of attracting lots of beautiful women. But by being alpha that should never be the goal, it should always be about … | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Being the "20 percent"From my experience it can just be having supreme confidence in yourself and your abilities (frame > all). These guys are just super extroverted and game comes natural. Most of the time the 20% guy have a few boxes checked off, like he clearly works out, has money in the bank, dress/fashion is on point, and is socially-skilled/ socially-dominant. We are talking Alphas. I think we generally conflate the ideas of the guy who checks off those boxes and the guy who was born alpha. The first guy was b… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Approaching for the first time in my life.I've read this too, as well as middle-eastern men. The white guys there are literally rioting over there... wonder why. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Approaching for the first time in my life.Heard NYC is one of the hardest places to game, do you find that to be true? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Approaching for the first time in my life.Where you located around if you don't mind me asking? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Do women not only shit-test your emotions but basically everything else too?How do you internalize TRUE indifference? I care too much about what they think about me. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Should I look for attraction signs before approaching?Thanks | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:00 PM |
| 1 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?I don't see how your reply had anything to do with my comment there. Truly autistic people have the most difficult time holding frame because they lack in other social areas like social-awareness/social-dominance/social-presence, because frame is a social phenomena. You can't pull one into your reality, when you don't even understand it or how others see you. I don't know where you get the impression that autistic people have rock solid frame. It's the total opposite from what I've observed. RSD… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Do women not only shit-test your emotions but basically everything else too?As a general rule, don't do things unless you want to do them. Yeah sometimes my reality gets a little distorted by them when they get all huffy and puffy and loud. Sort of like I'm thrown off balance by them. And when they have a high-pitched nasally tone of voice. They do appear to always want to be controlling me. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Approaching for the first time in my life.Watching a few in-field pickup videos never hurt. Have you read any books on the subject? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 12:46 PM |
| 1 | My roommate thinks I’m a psychopath because I am red pilledI spoke with my mother recently about how "women love opportunity" she basically had a meltdown.... | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 05:34 AM |
| 1 | My roommate thinks I’m a psychopath because I am red pilledNot stirring, just food for thought. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 05:31 AM |
| 1 | How to change internally?How's that suppose to help him in the group hierachy? So you're out with your boys having a few beers and flirting with ther girls... now to bring out my secret weapon my advanced knowledge of AstroFlying tree monkeys. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 05:05 AM |
| 10 | Should I look for attraction signs before approaching?What's a cluser b personality? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:59 AM |
| 0 | Should I look for attraction signs before approaching?Maybe i'm being a fag you are. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Should I look for attraction signs before approaching?Can you link to Bonecrker's post? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Maybe? The guy sounds like a weasel. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys take notes reading the sidebar?Personally I am always writing little notes to myself about RP material. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:53 AM |
| 1 | How do I stand up for myself without pussying out?So you just sort of freeze when you are in confrontational situations? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:50 AM |
| 4 | The late 20s phaseMGTOW here you come. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:48 AM |
| 2 | I find it difficult to live knowing that I am genuinely alone and how ruthless nature and people are to meHow old are you? I get the impression you are a teenager. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:44 AM |
| 1 | I find it difficult to live knowing that I am genuinely alone and how ruthless nature and people are to meThis post is basically why people need religion. When you start going off the deep end into nihilism you lose all hope in existence and humanity. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:41 AM |
| 2 | I find it difficult to live knowing that I am genuinely alone and how ruthless nature and people are to meEven this comment in some way shape or form is helping the human race. I think everything we do is weighted according to how it benefits the species or not. Those that do not are shamed. But it's all subconscious. It's all about survival and genes. By you helping someone else you help promote human genes. I think it also might be why things like racism exist, the further it is away from your genes the more you shame it. It's messed up but you can kind of understand it from a genetic standpoint. … | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:34 AM |
| 1 | I find it difficult to live knowing that I am genuinely alone and how ruthless nature and people are to meIf you are a weak man (short, ugly, poor) you are basically absolutely worthless to the world. At least if you are a weak woman you can mate with an alpha and give offspring to something stronger than yourself. It's all about the survival of the species at the end of the day. Also, I think most people feel this need for common decency/acceptance. I know I sure do. It's in itself selfishness. No one owes you anything, just like you don't owe them anything. Are you being kind to the poor, short,… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:24 AM |
| 2 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?It's the positive reinforcement all their lives which boosted their confidence to where it is now. The opposite can be said for most ugly people. They've had negative reinforcement their whole lives which has put it to where it is now. Sure there is your good-looking outlier with no confidence, and your ugly outlier with amazing confidence but they aren't the norm. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Someone else said it best on here, in that situation where someone who isn't your boss is telling you to "come here" like a command and as OP put it "Shouted" you say "No, you come here", no one is shouting "come here" at me if I don't know them like that. You promote what you permit. You let a few of those slide and he'll think gaming your girl is easy. If he wants to talk to me so bad he can just as easily walk over to talk to me. Situations like these CAN but generally don't get out of contro… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?It might seem like not much of a difference but the "bro" at the end is kind of important. I tell you to "come here" it's a command, not a friendly invitation. That's how gymbro comes off, that's why you don't humor this and hold your frame. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 03:42 AM |
| 3 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?So you'd comply (in front of your girl) if I commanded you right now "Come here!" | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 03:36 AM |
| 1 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?I'm going to be the first guy on here to say I'm not great with women (big shocker considering the community right..). I'm constantly reading the material and internalizing/implementing it. I'd say I'm still in the growth phase of it all (as well as the anger phase), because I've always been incredibly shy and introverted. Being outgoing and charismatic (life of the party) has never really been my thing. It's quite draining to be around people for more than a few hours. I am also lifting and see… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 03:32 AM |
| 4 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Wait what? Lol | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 03:14 AM |
| 3 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?I'd say yes do that sort of approach if the three are chatting at the gym and all, but not when the gymbro starts texting her "nice ass", it will just start escalating from there unless OP steps in, or if hypergamy goes extinct. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 03:10 AM |
| 2 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?Already I think I've identified your problem you're angry, negative, and bitter. Your results won't change unless you change that attitude there. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 03:03 AM |
| 1 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?What have you done to improve? Where are you on the Truerateme scale? I've gotten anything from 3.5 - 5.5 and I've still gotten laid, not anything crazy (HB5's and HB6's) but it wasn't like lifting 1000lbs or some shit like ugos make it out to be... like it's the hardest thing in the world to get laid. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 03:01 AM |
| 1 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?Don't tell someone to kill themself. That's seriously fucking low, really low. You should feel extremely ashamed of yourself. Nothing gives you any right to say that. You don't know what he's actually going through. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:57 AM |
| 1 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?I think you overall point is good, witty and impudent, the charming sociopath. Yep, we've all known them at one time or another. They do exist, just rare, they are generally the exceptions to the rule or the outliers. This guy Gabriele D'Annunzio was not ugly, despite being bald and shirt, he had tons of status to back him up. A playwrite, poet, journalist, and solider. Was pretty famous at the time, celebrated even, and went off to inspire Mussolini. This is no ugly broke bum. The problem with … | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:53 AM |
| 1 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?Your best self. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:47 AM |
| 2 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?Usually the trifeca of: Masculinity, Sense of humor, and confidence. Could always put in DGAF and frame but that sort of all fits together within the package. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:46 AM |
| 5 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?Some men are super realistic about their chances with women and it hinders their game (even if they are good looking and rich). While some other men are (unknowingly) super unrealistic about their chances with women (even if they are ugly and poor) and it wins them big time with women. It's unstoppable confidence that these guys usually have. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:43 AM |
| 1 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?Your mindset and self-awareness plays a big part in all this. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:40 AM |
| 1 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?It's immaterial stuff. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:39 AM |
| 1 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?So you think TRP only works if you are good-looking? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:39 AM |
| 1 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?That's the thing about Frame it has to be your own. Any fakeness would make your frame built of straw. It's got to come from within. Women can sense the authentic from unauthentic. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:35 AM |
| 8 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?This is a place for men of failures who stumbled in here and were not able to find out things by themselves. Sad but true. I've met men like you describe. One was a skinny smart asian guy who had like 3 women at his place at any given time... at the time it just made absolutely no sense to me, he was weird (in a good way) and charismatic af. Also knew this dirty hippy who was extroverted beyond belief, would start up a conversation with a tree... learned a few things from him. His energy was cra… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:23 AM |
| 2 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?Because they would never have travelled down the same path and stumbled upon trp. People find trp when they suck with women and are trying to figure out why they suck. Ugly naturals wouldn't need to do such digging. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:22 AM |
| 9 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?Yeah I wager their perception is something men cannot even conceive of, quite literally impossible. People act like "feeling/emotion" is irrational bs. I don't think this, it's a powerful gut feeling that I think has developed evolutionarily. Guys have it too but at significantly lower levels. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:19 AM |
| 2 | What is the secret of ugly or broke men that get laid?Frame + game are King. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:17 AM |
| 6 | Approaching for the first time in my life.What's gonna be your overall approach? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:14 AM |
| 5 | How to develop commanding, masculine frame/voice/presence?Yes I do this too. Also watch how men that are good with women talk and behave. Don't just watch your interactions but watch the interactions of other people too. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:08 AM |
| 2 | How to develop commanding, masculine frame/voice/presence?Do field-reports those help you and the community. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:06 AM |
| 3 | How to develop commanding, masculine frame/voice/presence?People that aren't afraid to be wrong are often the ones that are most willing to take risks in life. Taking risks is respectful. It gains you confidence, you can't always be wrong. It gets you futher than being careful. It's better to be risk-taking than risk-adverse (within reason), don't go jumping off bridges. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:05 AM |
| 2 | How to develop commanding, masculine frame/voice/presence?Frame doesn't just help build frame, frame isn't even possible without confidence. Confidence to frame is like a good foundational to a house. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?It depends and is situational here. If both gymbro and OP are at relative levels, gymbro could potentially offset the scales in his favor and trigger her hypergamy. Which by the looks of things seems like what he was trying to do. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?That's seriously naive to see if he could help him, that was obviously a ruse to get that girls FB. Then all the sudden it's like "what job? oh nvm that fell through" | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?*Grabs her ass* .... "Well aren't you gonna grab my ass too?" | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Dude it's free-speech, don't be that guy. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Think of it as part of your workout. Hahaha yeah that's some good cardio right there. A full-body workout even. Gives new meaning to the BroSplit. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:45 AM |
| 3 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Gonna run Dick Chaney game on him ay | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Wait, so she gave him her number... that's a pretty big red flag then. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Wow dude... that brass knuckles part... did not see that coming Lol | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?OP needs to give'em a blowie. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?BJJ all the way, it's not just about learning how to defend yourself, it seriously improve confidence and well-being. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Damn that would put him at like -12 then. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Not disagreeing but sueing is a pain in the ass process where you usually end up spending way more money than actually getting. Although the "win" if you even want to call it that (I don't) is it would fuck up his record. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:22 AM |
| 5 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Of course, cause he did that shit covert. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?They take on the characteristics of the strongest most domimant male because that's the one they most want/admire/envy. If you are with your girl and some more dominant male comes along you'll notice some changes in her behavior and mannerisms. I've had girls take on my music taste, and then break up, be with some other guy and all the sudden total 180* of what she liked before. Malleable is right. He's trying to act like he is HIGHER VALUE than OP. The whole "I have this job you could work" is … | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:13 AM |
| 5 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?As one door closes another one opens too though. It's just life dude, a never ending series of problems and your ability to solve them. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?The worse fucking things happen in the gym... it just brings out the terrorialness in men or something. Lifting weights, testosterone flowing... the worst stories I've read on here have almost exclusively happened at the gym. Take the advice OP just DGAF because it's just your turn... | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Why's it so bad tho? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?What's the best books / videos / articles you've seen? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Maybe, maybe not. I often wonder how much these events are actually entertained in a girls mind. Like do events like these once in a blue moon really affect the way OP's gf is going to behave and respect him? So one guy told him to "come here" and he did, but other times he has better boundaries/assertiveness. So who to know how much of an impact it makes in her mind. We are all just speculating what goes on in her mind, that's kind of the essence of trp. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 12:50 AM |
| 6 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Absolutely, it's all in the wording. The "Can" in "Can you come here?" gives a friendly optional situation, whereas the "Come here" is a command and a display of dominance over the other person. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?You learned pickup from this girl? I hate to say this, but isn't the traditional advice that they have no idea what they actually want? Seems bizarre a women giving dating advice for men. Seems like it would have the opposite effect. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 12:35 AM |
| 6 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Saying he isn't cool just makes him look butthurt and mate-guardy. The more you try to mate-guard and keep that guy away the more attraction builds for gymbro. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 12:32 AM |
| 5 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Yeah keep them away but not in a mate-guardy way. Someone else on here said it like "Don't bring a hen to a pack of wolves" or something to that effect. A bit of what you are saying sounds a little butthurt and try-hard. I'd just try to make him feel small without looking like I am trying and act like IDGAF about the whole situation. The more butthurt you get the more the other guy wins in her eyes. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 12:29 AM |
| 2 | How much of this comes down to believing you and the girl will workout?I get that but it's seriously hard to turn off. I see a 9/10 and think "no chance" I see a nerdy girl with a few extra pounds and think "yeah this is possible". Do you just see every girl as the same with the same chances with gaming them and being successful at it? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Exactly. Too much theory not enough actual real-world experiences that can be applied directly to your life. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 12:24 AM |
| 5 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?I'd also even add to that don't let other people do favors for you -- by doing that you feel obligated to do things for them in the future. When someone offers free help, be weary. Not always, there are genuinely awesome people out there, but a rotten apple can spoil the bunch. Better weary than sorry. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?You are misinterpreting that all wrong. It's not showing you're threatened, in fact it does the exact opposite. It shows you don't fear him and are willing to humiliate and embarrasses him. The threatened move would be to either get completely mate-guardy and emotional, or cower in fear of the guy. "Shut the fuck up" - Absolutely no hypocrisy whatsoever there buddy boy. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 12:18 AM |
| 7 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?He is offering a farce, a dream, an illusion. Most times it's like a trojan horse, not a gift but a move. Many-a-times I've been promised Y gift or something, call people, no one has spoken to anyone, still being processed. It's generally just some trick to get what they want. Not always ofc but I've had it done to me enough times keep my guard up for it. Got to watch who you trust, if anyone. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 12:14 AM |
| 4 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?The alpha doesn't give a fuck of the girl is scared of him. He cares about what he feels, not what other people do. The alpha doesn't care about the girl just what he feels about the situation. True DGAF is only caring about yourself above all else. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Kool. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?In the backdrop of hooking up with girls, humans are social animals, and men like to establish hierarchies. Women, the physically weaker sex, then use those hierarchies to get what they want. You have a lot of knowledg on this subject. Can you explain how women exploit the hierachies that men estalbish? | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 06:45 PM |
| -4 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Then be silent and let him walk all over you and game your girl? yeah... that's a much better approach. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?This is good stuff to know. It's like arming yourself with some artillery for battle. Do you know of any posts like these conversational battles? Or have you written more about them somewhere? kinda wish trp was more about this because it's much more hands-on and practical instead of theory posts. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 06:38 PM |
| -1 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Seriously is. I'd like to hear a detailed back-and-forth type post about conversational situations like these because I find myself in them a lot and not sure what my offense or defense should be in them. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 06:37 PM |
| 9 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?You make it sound like it's a series of chess moves. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 06:33 PM |
| 18 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Right, gymbro could play it off and make the BF look like the bad guy/overly emotional type. But in actuality the gymbro was trying to sneak his way into the girls pants... | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 06:33 PM |
| 0 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?How's that gonna drive the girl to the gymbro? | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 06:30 PM |
| 4 | How important is BF%IOI in terms of like eye looks/glances? | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Just corrected it. I mixed the two up actually. X is what they want, so they will give the illusion of offering Y to you. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 06:14 PM |
| 1 | How important is BF%Wondering this myself. Clearly shows definition so that's def an attraction factor. What's preventing you from lowewring the BF%? | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?What's group game at night clubs with mixed sets? I'm not really gaming per se, but I've experienced similar behavior just going out and about. Anytime I am alone and with a couple the subtle insults and amogging almost predictable starts flying. Like it's becomes a one-upmanship/dick waving contest between me and the other male to see who can humiliate and make the other more timid and embarrassed. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Corey Worthington I think was his name, yeah if he didn't really give a fuck, he'd just laugh it off and up the ante. So people like Corey would no no bounds and make you look ridiculous. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 04:35 PM |
| 7 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Too emotional and taking it too serious. He'll see it as weakness and just amog more. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 04:24 PM |
| 31 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?That's exactly it PLAUSIBLE DENIABILITY. The smoothest ones are the ones that make it look like they weren't doing what they were doing. "Nah dude I was just trying to help you out with a job" "Nah man just trying to make some friends". Beware people bearing gifts. The whole friendship-line is the plausible deniability from the gymbro. Let's be real, any dude that wants to hang out with a girl or have any sort of friendship is 95% trying to bang her, it's just nature. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Yeah it's confusing how to even handle that situation. I don't think I'd know what to say, just look dumbfounded and draw a blank... so it's a good move. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Outbro you Lol | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 04:03 PM |
| -9 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?Totally agree... call him out DIRECTLY on what he is doing, but in a playful way that it doesn't trigger some sort of anger or amog behavior from him. DIRECTLY ADDRESS it out in the open but in a playful manner, that will throw him off guard and make him look ridiculous. By directly addressing it you completely discombobulate him, while probably triggering some sort of male-hamstering and denial and backpedaling. Too many people ignore shit and act like it isn't happening. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 03:58 PM |
| 49 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?It's manipulation. I have it happen to me a lot. I'll see someone who wants something from me, call that X, so then they'll try to offer some value as an incentive to get X. Call that other thing Y. Convo: Person: "Do you have Y, yet?" Me: "No" Person: "Sorry to hear that, well I know of some people who can give you Y" This is their wedge in the door to start using their power(some value) against you to get access to X. If you have something of value X, they will use their value Y to get to your… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Today I've been black pilled, I've seen how attractive people have it and its just ridiculous.You speak of this Italian guy has having a great sense of fashion, mediocre build and a good face, BUT you do not talk of his personality, charm, or charisma, DGAF mentality, sense of humor? These elements play a even larger role, but they are often not talked about. People in the BlackPill camp appear to many-a-time, gloss over how important personality is to ones overall attraction. People who subscribe to BlackPill from what I can see are often very angry, bitter, and negative... and this jus… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 03:14 PM |
| 1 | How do I unfuck myself when I have no motivation and energy?Fapping + sugar are probably the two worse things a guy can do to himself, aside from actual drugs. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 02:56 PM |
| 4 | Real life examples of IOI'sAnd, looking for an excuse to talk to you. Like some random shit that comes outta the blue while waiting in line for coffee... | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Real life examples of IOI'sone words are either a shit-test or an iod. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Real life examples of IOI'sAnother that I didn't see mentioned here is, she will find reasons to talk to you. If a girl is TRYING to find a topic or reason to talk to that's usually a strong ioi. Like you are just waiting in line and she starts talking about something random to you, "that's an interesting drink on the menu, ever tried it?". If she's looking for a reason to talk to you that's an ioi. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Real life examples of IOI'sIt's all in the eyes... that's usually how you are able start the game. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 02:50 PM |
| 1 | My roommate thinks I’m a psychopath because I am red pilledWhat exactly is so bad about Stoicism? I'm pretty sure your idea of Stoicism is skewed as it is with most people on here... they think it's acting like you are a statue or something... | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 02:46 PM |
| 283 | Guy flirting with my girlfriend at gym, how do I handle this?I was at the gym today with my girlfriend this lad starts talking to her and then starts talking about me. What this sounds like is he is trying to establish the dominance hierarchy by talkin shit about you. Or calling you over, like you are some puppy dog or something. So in her eyes she sees him as the top-dog and you as low-tier, trying to trigger her hypergamy. This is a typical tactic. He is trying to swoop in by acting like he has some sort of VALUE to you, dangling the carrot of a potenti… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Breaking it down, is shaking another mans hand entering his frame?Yeah he's overthinking this beyond belief. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Theory clarification: If you are not AF or BB you are basically invisible?Good point. Got to play up to demographics, or people who find your attractive. Very few things are universally attractive. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 02:10 PM |
| 1 | How much of this comes down to believing you and the girl will workout?What if my mind is like "she's totally within my league" as opposed to "she's out of my league"? I subconsciously place odds on how likely it is for me and her to date or whatever. If she's a 5/10 in my mind, I'm like "yes this is possible" if she's a 9/10 I think "this is not possible". I have somewhere placed a valuation on myself, as well as others I see. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 02:04 PM |
| 1 | How much of this comes down to believing you and the girl will workout?Right, but then it's like that's what comes natural. So it comes down to what I believe I am capable of achieving. My mindset is set to a certain LEVEL of women that I deem achievable and unachievable. That's the thing that gets me. I see a girl who is 5/10, brown hair, maybe just a few extra pounds, maybe a little nerdy looking and I think "This girl is within my league" then I see a 8/10, blond hair, amazing figure, and I think "This girl is too perfect, I don't stand a chance". Like it's all … | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach feels weird?So basically once eye-contact has been made several times, then you go into introducing yourself? And only approach those that give you the flirty eyes or some "signs" first? | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 01:53 PM |
| 2 | How to develop commanding, masculine frame/voice/presence?People here don't step out of the bounds of the manosphere... | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 01:48 PM |
| 3 | How to develop commanding, masculine frame/voice/presence?You don't know how to communicate your actual thoughts and feelings through body language, tone, pace, This is my problem. I don't know what I am communicating to people. I don't know how I am being perceived by the other side. Anything else you think could help fix this? | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 01:45 PM |
| 3 | How to develop commanding, masculine frame/voice/presence?Toastmasters class, acting class, singing class, stand-up class. Basically anything that forces you to get up in front of a large group of people. This will develop your masculine frame, voice, and presence. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Theory clarification: If you are not AF or BB you are basically invisible?got dam hb3 flakes on me too... | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 02:54 AM |
| 1 | How do I unfuck myself when I have no motivation and energy?You do what's best for you. That's a problem I think millennials have, they don't want to hurt anyone. Don't want to rock the boat. You got to just figure out a way to make things work in your favor. Cause in the end you're really the only one that's got your back. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 02:39 AM |
| 1 | How do I unfuck myself when I have no motivation and energy?Stop with the victimization already. You aren't 12 anymore, grow up! | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 02:20 AM |
| 3 | How do I unfuck myself when I have no motivation and energy?Did CS too same with friends. They tell me basically all they do is google/stackoverflow all day. It's not as difficult or grueling as you usually hear. My friends told me for their interview wasn't some whiteboard where you gotta code some rare data structure or algorithm. Basically like talk about your interests/passions, background, and coursework. I'd wager you are much better than you think. Besides a lot of that is like muscle memory, guessing you know Java, C, Python? Once you get back in… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 02:16 AM |
| 1 | How do I unfuck myself when I have no motivation and energy?I literally said the same thing without even reading this comment. OP maybe we are on to something. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 01:21 AM |
| 1 | How do I unfuck myself when I have no motivation and energy?Depression, lack of sleep, anxiety, and low self-esteem will do that to you. You'd probably blow them out of the water if you got your life in balance. You aren't seeing reality, you are operating at low levels. I think of it like a computer even, you have quad-core but with depression, lack of sleep, and anxiety it's like you have only a dual-core. The worse it gets the more you start downing yourself and reality seems more fuzzy/disorted. This is a positive feedback loop you're stuck in. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 01:20 AM |
| 1 | How do I unfuck myself when I have no motivation and energy?Think of how crucial your sleep is. You basically can't function like a normal human being without proper sleep... OP please do the work for yourself! | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 01:17 AM |
| 2 | How do I unfuck myself when I have no motivation and energy?Was thinking the same damn thing a CS degree is the #1 in-demand degree to have. Even from a shit-tier liberal arts college a CS degree is still a CS degree. I know basic laborers who can make $25 an hour. With a CS degree? That's crazy low... OP doesn't know his own worth/value so he undersells himself, typical of low self-esteem people. Working a cashier job with a CS degree is ludicrous. I could see someone with like an English degree or Dance theory working at Starbucks but CS?.... | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 01:14 AM |
| 3 | How do I unfuck myself when I have no motivation and energy?Yeah OP could easily find a job in another city or even another state with a CS degree, it's basically the most in-demand degree, OP has given up in life. He has all the tools his needs to do this but convinced himself he is helpless and hopeless. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 01:09 AM |
| 1 | How do I unfuck myself when I have no motivation and energy?They've babied and coddled you and that's why you victimize yourself. Unable to deal with the stress life throws at you because you've been cared for by helicopter parents. Tough love is what you need. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 01:06 AM |
| 1 | How do I unfuck myself when I have no motivation and energy?There is a virgin cashier post here once a week... something about that job just creates virginity and rage. This is a vicious feedback loop he's in. Hates his job but continues to go to it, gets depressed, loses motivation, keeps going to shit-tier job, gets more depressed, faps furiously, goes back to work, gets more depressed, more anxious, social awareness gets worse... doesn't stop until he pulls himself out of the hole he's found himself in. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 01:03 AM |
| 1 | How do I unfuck myself when I have no motivation and energy?How do you suck at programming and yet have a degree in computer science? Why you working at a grocery store with those qualifications? Also, how do you work at a grocery store and not develop some social skills, I mean you're at a place where you basically have to talk/interact with people all day, I'd imagine you have god-tier social skills by now. Sounds like that job is killing you. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Theory clarification: If you are not AF or BB you are basically invisible?Was talking to this fatty on Tinder who ghosted me... damn if I fucked her my self-esteem would nosedive. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Theory clarification: If you are not AF or BB you are basically invisible?I was getting anything from 3.5 - 5.5 on rateme sites. So idk guess I gotta lower my standards and run Ahab game. Game is basically nil, I know trp and the mentalities but what to actually say is where I draw a blank. I don't know where trp covers what to say to them when you are interacting with them. More I understand the right mentalities, like being stoic, prize and dgaf mentality, as well be having outcome independence and ending covert contracts. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Theory clarification: If you are not AF or BB you are basically invisible?Sometimes I think I need some sort of personality transplant in order to get laid... just so fuckin bored and bland. Idk if that's the case with the 80% but got damn if it hasn't stagnated my ability to hookup. Constantly nervous, neurotic, and anxiety, not able to strategically play life's power game like the rest. Men always using Power Talk on me and I just lay back and take it. To be honest, the exact same with me. Luck, emotionally broken. I don't really try all that much. The girls that sh… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/19 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Theory clarification: If you are not AF or BB you are basically invisible?How do you get laid being a beta without the bux? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach feels weird?Right, someone needs to force you to do it then. A hard kick in the ass, some fire in your belly. Go skydiving, then afterwards go the mall and feel the fear... and do it anyways. Why do you think you fear this? Reason through it. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 11:52 PM |
| 6 | Real life examples of IOI'sHair flick as she's looking in your direction is always a win. Idling for awhile within a 10ft radius of you, kinda looking like she is waiting for something that isn't there yet. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Girls being bitchy/tough/masculine as shit test. How to deal with them?Stoic, unfazed, unemotional, unreactive. Anything that shows you aren't being rattled by them is the right way. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 11:47 PM |
| 2 | my philosophy regarding why trp worksYou were pedastalling hard. You gave them all your power/control. So this is basically the opposite of being dominant and assertive. And if you give anyone the power to judge you basically give them the power to hurt you too. Bro it's actually really basic and a fundamental truth that's been said many times outside trp. Women want a man who can protect and provide for them. It's that simple. Any and all things which adds to her survival builds attraction. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 11:46 PM |
| 7 | Cold Approach feels weird?It's called approach anxiety, it's pretty well documented in the game/pickup community. There are countless videos on YouTube addressing the phenomena. I have something similar too, a wall that keeps me from doing it. It's just fear man... just like when you have to give a presentation in front of the class kinda fear. Only way to get better at it is the practice it by yourself and then practice the real thing. You gotta do warm-up runs, like asking people for the time, or little chit-chats when… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Come off as having weird/odd or boring sense of humor? Just tend to say the wrong thingsI don't get the second one? That's the whole point of Tinder. Why's she even there? Also, I don't see how that comes off as werido, honest. That's what I said after "How ya doing today?", she says "I've been better Lol" then I talked about exams and how she needs to blow off some stress. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Girls find Peter Dinklage hot?Not saying that... was just making a general point about their head shape and how if he were 6'4" his head would be more attractive. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 11:21 PM |
| 1 | How do you know when to kiss and how do you do it?She was waiting for you to lead her... girls aren't going to make that move... they are waiting for you to do all the work. And the ones that try to lead you are MAJOR red flags. Just be natural, people like to autistically break this stuff down into steps here, like you take hypotenuse and your square the base then find the Riemann sum of the bottom part of her lip... believe me it isn't that complicated just let it come natural as it does. Here you don't think, just feel. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Why are they almost proud to be short, fat, and know nothing? Double-standardIt's not fair. Guys have all these fetishes and shit for women, but women don't have fetishes for men. So women are able to play up all this stuff like Short Fetish, Fat Fetish, Dumb blonde Fetish... the list goes on. They just gotta exist and people will come up to them. Men on the other hand, we got to do ALL the work, the charm, charisma, personality, humor. They are mysteriously silent on what they want from men, they don't want anything to be concrete. Just keeping the options open. Women's… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 06:20 PM |
| 1 | An older guy tried to bully me in the gym, should I sue him or not?If this story isn't completely made up, the other guy had a gym bar he'd bash OP good. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 06:12 PM |
| 3 | An older guy tried to bully me in the gym, should I sue him or not?Wow I had my doubts at first, but you are indeed a true alpha. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 06:10 PM |
| 1 | An older guy tried to bully me in the gym, should I sue him or not?Yep a whole 1 point. Wowzers. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 06:09 PM |
| 0 | An older guy tried to bully me in the gym, should I sue him or not?Yeah something smells off... grabbed a gym bar and started choking me sounds like fanfiction. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 06:08 PM |
| 1 | How do I get rid of my feminine energy?Facial expressions, tone of voice, what you say, and body language. All these can be feminized if you grew up around exclusively women and were conditioned from an early age with BP media. Best advice I can think of is get around more men, and be around them as much as possible. Limit your exposure to women and BP media. Lift and do BJJ. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Why are they almost proud to be short, fat, and know nothing? Double-standardBecause they crave novelty, once they've achieved him all the mystery is gone so they need their next dope hit and therefore a different Chad to try on for size. CC all the way. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Is anyone here familiar with Varg Vikernes' (up-to-date) ideology etc? These views are conflicting with the TRP mindset so here I am torn between two worlds.And he's overtly racist, has helped and promoted church burnings... say what you will about religion but burning churches down, someone could be killed as a result. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 05:26 PM |
| 1 | In MSM/BP media often good conquers evil. But is the reality that evil reigns supreme?There are people that find it justified, even still. As hard as it is to believe. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Why are they almost proud to be short, fat, and know nothing? Double-standardI meant as far as why we have as many female ancestors as male ancestors. As to your other point, it pretty much is that. They don't have to really do anything, they can act any old way and know that still hundreds of betas will line up to fuck them. So there is no motivation to be better, unless they are chasing only Chads. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 05:18 PM |
| 1 | She told me she wanted some time to think, I first agreed, then watched a youtube vid and called her to end things.What YouTuber? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Why are they almost proud to be short, fat, and know nothing? Double-standardThat first paragraph is basically my thoughts on this. They've been pampered their whole lives, and know that they can act any old way and there will still be hundreds of betas lining up to fuck them. Social media has ruined so much. It's not good for women nor men. I think it's actually detrimental to everyone involved. There is reason why TRP appeared around the early 2010's... | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Why are they almost proud to be short, fat, and know nothing? Double-standardIt's 20% not 25%, and 10% of men still. I think women often have pretty fucking high self-esteem as compared to men. They act like they have it bad when Chad won't look at them... meanwhile nearly a third of all American men between the ages of 18 - 30 are incel. Give me a fucking break, there is no comparison. They just blow their problems way out or proportion to get attention and validation. They can't ever get out of the mindset of "the grass is greener", which is basically their hypergamy. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Why are they almost proud to be short, fat, and know nothing? Double-standardIt's not even so much that they believe the lie, it's that they are trying hard to believe is so much that if they didn't their reality would feel like total shit. Because they know almost all her value is based on her appearance. It's also the whole thing of, "well I'm fat, I'm not going to put in the work to loose weight, so I'm going to make everyone accept this as a good thing" it's where the fat pride movement stemmed from, as if it's some sort of discriminatory thing now like being homosex… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Why are they almost proud to be short, fat, and know nothing? Double-standardI find tall women more attractive personally. But I think they know men will fuck them regardless so they can almost any way and still men will chase them. So they act like complete bitches and show have no value other than having a vagina. That's why they have these shitty attitudes 24/7 because men pedestal them all day, so they take all men for granted and don't even try to be pleasant to be around. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Why are they almost proud to be short, fat, and know nothing? Double-standardDo you think they really value sex that much, like winning a trophy in the same way men do when they fuck a HB9? If a female has sex with a 80th percentile man does she really have this feeling of superiority of all the beta males now? I know women like sex and all but I don't think it's like some victory walk after they've mated with an alpha. It's more the commitment/relationship part that they seem after, but they can't even really acquire that from a alpha male with many more options. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Come off as having weird/odd or boring sense of humor? Just tend to say the wrong thingsI think if I sexualize the conversation too soon it will scare them off. Recently I was talking to this girl and she told me she was stressed. I told her "yeah I know those exams are hard, sounds like you need to BLOW OFF some stress". I tried to do some subtle sexuality. Then got ghosted, no clue why. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Is LMS taken wayyyy too seriously?But there is usually a TYPE that you attract. I always tend to attract a similar type of girl, like her personality is quite similar to the previous. I'd rather have a shotgun style to dating but instead it seems linear. And what you are talking about is basic sidebar material Pre-Selection. It is also that thing that happens where a baby is playing with a toy and is surrounded by other toys and the second you take away one of the toys the baby isn't playing with it starts to want that one. Peop… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone here familiar with Varg Vikernes' (up-to-date) ideology etc? These views are conflicting with the TRP mindset so here I am torn between two worlds.Let's just gloss over the fact that he is a murderer. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Is LMS taken wayyyy too seriously?Because your mentality changes subconsciously. I've noticed when I pretend like I have a lot of girls in my pocket, all the sudden women behave different. They are preceptive to the slightest changes in your behaviors. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Is LMS taken wayyyy too seriously?It does appear rather scattered across the board. Like absolutely no consistency to their attraction. That's why I don't like the term AWALT, it's more nuanced than that, there is probably like 10 different TYPES of girls and each one has a particular thing she is attracted to as far as men go. Yeah there is always some heavy hitters like being masculine, dominant, and assertive. But then you always see some skinny feminine guy with a decent looking woman. I'm with you on this, I don't see consi… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Isn't "game" just betas replicating certain natural tendencies of true alphas?not just like other guy, Patrice was on another level. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Why are they almost proud to be short, fat, and know nothing? Double-standardWell they control reproduction basically, they are like a bouncer who decides who gets in and who stays out. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameYeah if he's good looking and has game, he will beat an average looking guy with game. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameoh no he's not, pretty weird looking actually. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Once you go black...show her big red | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gamereeee | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Do you people feel that (alot of) American woman are very entitled or have some sort of daddy/mental health issues?Wait what... you've NEVER seen anything talking about the harmful side effects of antidepressants. REALLY? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 04:09 AM |
| 1 | What's this sub stance on Semites (the Jew)?You're saying what exactly? They are trying to rot western civ from the inside? What's the end game there? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 04:04 AM |
| 2 | What's this sub stance on Semites (the Jew)?The Jewish Quarterly? Yes, tis a fine magazine. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Do you people feel that (alot of) American woman are very entitled or have some sort of daddy/mental health issues?What are you even talking about? There is a new documentary or media post every day about stopping this prescription drug or that one. What you say doesn't add up with reality. If it wasn't drugs it was alcohol, if it wasn't alcohol it was cigarettes, it's just human nature to get addicted to things. I think it's generally because people are less able to cope with stress and how complicated modern society is. All this awakening about fentanyl is having a lot of people reconsider medicine. A lot … | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 03:58 AM |
| 1 | What's this sub stance on Semites (the Jew)?So you basically confirm he's on to something then tell him to fuck off? wth | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 03:45 AM |
| 1 | What's this sub stance on Semites (the Jew)?Something with Stein or Berg right? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Do you people feel that (alot of) American woman are very entitled or have some sort of daddy/mental health issues?It's a consequence not deliberate is what I am saying. That was my point all along, people are lazy and look for an escape. Science has advanced to the point where people can get what they want. But those people always existed in some form or another. It's not some elaborate power structure. Power structures are natural, humans want to dominant each other. Taking drugs is willful after all, no coercion. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 03:35 AM |
| 1 | I hate this game where everybody sees other people and hides it from one anotherOkay man, if that's true you're doing better than 90% of guys out there, yet at the very same time you seem to be wrangling with some hard emotional issues which doesn't really add up. But whatevs. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Girls find Peter Dinklage hot?What about that guy who was on Teds talk who was a literal mutant, yet had a beautiful wife, ay? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Girls find Peter Dinklage hot?dwarfs usually have oddly shaped heads which gives their face sort of a bloated look. However, if he were 6'4" it would probably fill our nicely and he'd be far more attractive by conventional norms. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Isn't "game" just betas replicating certain natural tendencies of true alphas?He has his mind made up, he's not willing to listen. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Isn't "game" just betas replicating certain natural tendencies of true alphas?This is absolutism fatalist non-sense. If you can't change that doesn't mean others can't. What makes us human is our ability to understand and change. Sure, genetics play a part in us. But you are made of the stuff of your ancestors, there are alphas in all our blood... none of our ancestors died virgins they all learned. To me TRP is about invoking that essence that may lay dormant inside you, of years of conditioning you to be beta, there inside you is an alpha. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Isn't "game" just betas replicating certain natural tendencies of true alphas?Patrice ONeal had no father and shit upbringing, yet the guy comes off like a true af alpha. Where the fuck is the forging of that alpha coming from? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 03:00 AM |
| 3 | What's yall's take on dating women who really aren't doing shit with their lives?Well let's be real, they don't have to. Because guys will bend over backwards to have sex with them. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Just Lifting vs Lift/BJJ1 days isn't enough BJJ. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 02:55 AM |
| 4 | Just Lifting vs Lift/BJJ6 days a week of BJJ? Man where do you find the time? I'm doing 3 and it's hard to make those. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Isn't it kinda weird that we're actually investing so much time in women with RP?You are bordering on MGTOW with this... this is the rage phase, I'm feeling it too. They say it will pass with time. Just realize it's their nature and just learn to love yourself most of all. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 02:50 AM |
| 2 | If you can't get a woman to enter your frame, are your forced to go MGTOW?I think that's pretty clear by his username. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 02:49 AM |
| 1 | If you can't get a woman to enter your frame, are your forced to go MGTOW?If you can't get *any* woman to enter your frame, you are either: a. retarded or b. not trying hard enough. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 02:47 AM |
| 1 | I hate this game where everybody sees other people and hides it from one anotherYou mean that information like this is hidden from plain view? That you people met or knew people that had this kind of RP information, but for whatever reason never told you about it? Like how the game works? how women work? Maybe you didn't listen, maybe you wouldn't listen even if they told you, maybe they knew you weren't ready. Also spinning 5+ plates.... YEAH FUCKING RIGHT, I don't buy that for one second. It's been scientifically proven that a man can only spin 3 plates otherwise the univ… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 02:43 AM |
| 2 | I hate this game where everybody sees other people and hides it from one anotherThere's no fuckin way this guy is spinning 5+ plates... | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Ladder Theory(1994) Was The First Red Pill?He did say a lot of it was field-tested, whether that's actually true, who knows. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 02:33 AM |
| 4 | Ladder Theory(1994) Was The First Red Pill?I was thinking about the same here. What we think is so revolutionary about trp is just a collection of information that's been floating around different areas of human thought for eons. TRP just combines all the latest data together. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 02:31 AM |
| 4 | Ladder Theory(1994) Was The First Red Pill?Read most of it. This was 94? well ahead of its time. That whole attraction deconstruction is on point. Even goes into DGAF mentality, outcome independency, no codependency. Doesn't state those directly ofc, but it's basically implied in the wording. I found some raunchy magazines from the 70s' recently and I was shocked to read how RP-like they were... a lot of this stuff isn't as NEW as we like to think. It also might be how PC the west has become, I don't think there was much of a filter back… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 02:24 AM |
| 1 | She told me she wanted some time to think, I first agreed, then watched a youtube vid and called her to end things.The real question is, what did the YouTube video have to do with any of this? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Do you people feel that (alot of) American woman are very entitled or have some sort of daddy/mental health issues?Climbing up the hill is great, rolling down the other side is not. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Do you people feel that (alot of) American woman are very entitled or have some sort of daddy/mental health issues?Alright, now you gotta do the Dr Red Phil show. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameNah, sorry man all the ep's just sorta form a big blob for me. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Do you people feel that (alot of) American woman are very entitled or have some sort of daddy/mental health issues?What you're basically saying is drug the masses and make them mindless worker drones? I don't subscribe to that. And if they truly wanted that we'd be seeing even worse stats than 20% for females and 10% for males. And they'd be doing some major brainwashing and like manipulations beyond the naked eye. Or putting stuff in the food supply. You sound delusional and paranoid. The government or transnational corporations are not out to get you or make you into their slave.. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameIt is what it is, was no rp terms back then but people can look back now see what was done right and what was done wrong through the rp lens. Patrice never broke frame in all 12 ep's, not like emotional Dante, Patrice always did things righteously when he responded to them hoes. There was one episode where Dante was yelling like a high-pitched little girl, you could tell the woman on there was pressing all his buttons and she was basically playing puppet master with his emotions. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameMirin hard... | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameSo masculinity | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameYeah that's a real issue around these parts because a lot of guys here just mentally masturbate about game and never actually implement any of it. Another problem is that just because you can read and understand it on paper, doesn't mean you can actually pull it off irl. It's why TRP preaches internalizing, implementing, practicing and learning... constantly refining your game (or the ways in which to get them into your bed, be it words or actions). But also with that said, I think you can take … | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameYeah I watched them fuck it was amazing. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameTrue. Game and social skills, sometimes I see them overlap. More Game being the ability to get them to want to sleep with you. Social skills is tied pretty strongly there. If a guy can't hold a conversation Game will be impossible, so clearly social skills comes first before any of the sexualization or being able to talk the talk to make the want to fuck you. Totally void of codependency and approval seeking. I sometimes conflate these with just being a GOOD PERSON, I think I have some things ba… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 01:09 AM |
| 1 | If given the choice most people would rather you be weak than strong? Thoughts?I get what you are saying too, that it's a power imbalance, yeah sure, but not the definition of crab bucket. For sake of the definition of crab bucket mentality. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 12:56 AM |
| 4 | Do you people feel that (alot of) American woman are very entitled or have some sort of daddy/mental health issues?You're talkin some massive-wide conspiracy. It's not that complex, simple explanation, people are lazy and want an easy escape. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameHe broke frame several times on The Black Philiph Show, hope he got better with that. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 03:20 PM |
| 13 | Do you people feel that (alot of) American woman are very entitled or have some sort of daddy/mental health issues?Got damn almost a quarter are on medication? That should cause outrage. There is no need for it. Doctors are giving medications out like candy... | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Do you people feel that (alot of) American woman are very entitled or have some sort of daddy/mental health issues?I think it has to do with the ability to cope with stress. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Question about mental states getting visible on face.Become your own mental point of origin. Do not rely on others for external validation. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Took the pill, now employers are scared of meFunny stuff. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Took the pill, now employers are scared of meBecause an ideal employee is one who is both competent and easily bossed around and controlled | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameEh, I try to get my mindset off any number that just fucks with my head. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameYep it was bear, gotta go in there with a club when hunting bears. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameI think he called them BEARS as I recall Lol | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you do any of what is needed to get a date when you have social anxiety?250+ days of NoFap bro. I've been there first hand (no pun intended), my mental state improved because the dopamine addiction was gone. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameI think so, inner strength and inner game is greater than physical strength or being tall. I think I am too realistic, like I think if I am not making 6figures have a 6pack and have xyz skill than I am not worthy. Meanwhile the homeless short guy is able to pull dimes cause he has inner game beyond imagine. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gamewhere it potentially emanates from I think all of us wonder about. Where does that point of origin come from? Is it parenting? Is it just innate? Did he cultivate it through some other means? I think if we had that answer a lot of our game would go up ten fold. A lot of shorter guys do that have inferiority complex masking it with a superiority complex. Probably got shitted on his whole life and just decided he would never allow people to treat him like that ever again. Which is the opposite cas… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 01:47 PM |
| 0 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameNope, she's been there longer than him. They were working on the same project but he just look authority in the situation. No guy I've seen talk to her like that, and she responded well. Most guys just pedestal her and cater to her ever wish. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameThe ones who are actually Chad I doubt spend time thinking about Chad. It's just their natural state. Then again, I know there are Chads who had to create it within themselves, generally what these forums are all about. Understanding and cultivating Chad within ourselves. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameIt's knowing what you are, instead of being what you are, if that makes sense. Some guys bank all of what they are on looks/height/muscles. Other guys (more successfully) put their KNOWING into who they are. Personality, charisma, charm, game, leading, this guy had that on point. He was focused on BEING something like muscular Chad, he knew what he was and showed it. You're right, height/looks/muscles and any other thing that is not within your personality can be used a substitute. A lot of guys… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Experience with tinderNo they try and fail still. You haven't talked to them like I have... girls will pay more attention to the skinny guy with a good face than an ugly face a body. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameYep, I tell you it's natural, feels hardwired to pedestal a woman. You see a HB8 and you're like "I wanna make that my wife/gf" "wanna have sex with that"… yep, I know that sounds autistic. But I think if you get down to the base-levels of guys it's the same thing "I just wanna have sex with that". This guy seemed to embrace the whole IDGAF, do and say whatever I want to do you mindset. To NOT pedestal, overinvest, have outcome independence, no covert contracts, this is where I think 90% of guys… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameI'm taller than 90% of guys that's why this was a shocker to me. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 01:20 PM |
| 0 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameI could see this she looked like she felt safe but then still giving the short-guy a little pushback/resistance. It's all about trust/comfort building. When a guy is telling her what to do (aka leading), she feels her safest and secure. She is able to ease into the feminine and not worry. Leading her is paramount to building attraction. She knows she has someone that can handle/deal with every situation at hand. The bigger guy just looks uncertain and wouldn't know how to handle/deal with any of… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameRight, I know we get a post/question here every so often where a guy will say "I'm 6foot, make 6 figures, have a 6 pack but am incel, what gives?". They are banking everything on the physical. They think they can coast on their looks alone. If I have to choose between being the physical embodiment of Chad and the mental embodiment of Chad, I'd choose the mental aspect every time. I've seen more times than I can count the guy who isn't all that attractive be able to talk his way into a girls bedr… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameTotally agree with this 100%. There is the physical aspect of Chad and the mental aspect of Chad. The guy who has both is what we often see in our minds. But the guy who has (like you said) the Thundercock mindset can be short/skinny and still slay. Someone else here called it Big Dick Energy. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameYou are right, this doesn't prove game. It's just more his interaction with her were much smoother than 99% of guys I work with. It made me realize how I use to think girls would shit on any guy that was short and skinny, but it's not true. If you are confident, have high self-esteem, and lead, she will follow. And she seemed hung up on him after some time. Like she was addicted to his bossy-type behavior. He was kinda being a dick but at the same time humorous. Wasn't her job, they were working… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 01:05 PM |
| 0 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameThey were working together on the same project, but he just took the lead in the situation. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 01:03 PM |
| 2 | How do I apply RP knowledge when I feel like I have imposter syndrome?Yes I know it. And you get shamed/guilted for it. I think people can tell when you aren't authentic, probably a lack of congruency. We all know how perceptive women are. They know a faker from the real deal. That's the whole thing with trp, you have to fake it first and get loads of shit. Eventually you will break through that wall. I sense I'm at a similar stage as you in this. You start acting different around people and they start calling you out on it "why you acting different" or just gener… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 03:39 AM |
| 6 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameI've known Chads in various shapes, colors, and sizes. Chad doesn't fit into a neat box. It's a whole lot of social qualities. I think the physically goes with it generally because, the taller, more muscular, and more good looking a guy is the better his social skills will be because he gets so much positive reinforcement everywhere he goes. So gaming is set to easy mode. But that's not always the case. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 03:10 AM |
| 14 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameChad is an essence quality. It's not an actual human being. It's like a character. I think anyone can invoke it. You can look like your stereotypical Chad and be an incel. And you can look like this short skinny guy and be slaying because you have the Game down. Being Chad isn't looks or height just like the alpha isn't the strongest or most good looking, he was the one that good garner the most social following, the leader. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:58 AM |
| 3 | How to stop disrespect coming from someone (guy or girl)Sounds like an incel fantasy as he talks to his anime pillow "I opened a can of whoop ass with my tay kwan du and I slayed tha pussy" | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:52 AM |
| 6 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameIt's a possibility. But she was following his every order. "Do this" "Do that", and she just followed him everywhere he went. Fucking bizarre, when the picture you have of Chad is just demolished. Meanwhile the guy a hundred feet over is 6'5" 200+ and is shy and unconfident af. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:45 AM |
| 14 | Saw a skinny short guy make me reconsider my whole mindset on gameWhat I've noticed many times is that Chad doesn't always look like Chad. He isn't always tall and muscular. Chad can be a short skinny dude whose game and social skills set him far past the other guys. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:43 AM |
| 1 | If given the choice most people would rather you be weak than strong? Thoughts?I suppose it's similar but crab bucket is more of "if I can't have it, neither can you". As this is more of like "I have it, and I don't want you to have it". It's much worse than a bunch of loser "friends" trying to pull you down at keep you stuck. When a crab is ascending and the losers are pulling me down I can feel above them and keep ascending. But when someone who is at a much higher level is trying to keep me from succeeding it is almost debilitating. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:33 AM |
| 1 | How do you do any of what is needed to get a date when you have social anxiety?I was on NoFap for 250+ days dude... I know all about this. I was less anxious but that was because I was recovering from the dopamine addiction. Now I try to limit it to a few times a week. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:27 AM |
| 1 | How do you do any of what is needed to get a date when you have social anxiety?Meanwhile Chad faps whenever he wants and still gets laid... it's genetics. Also Rollo is a great writer and all but he's no scientist. I think he said he got his degree is Fine Arts in TRM. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:24 AM |
| 1 | What is meant by "text only for logistics?" what about making jokes, banter, and asking some questions?Alright I'll slow it down a bit. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Experience with tinderThat's debatable, look at gymcels. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:22 AM |
| 1 | How the fuck do I just get some muscles without all of this complicated and stupid machine cable bullshit?BIG guys yeah weights. But guys that are shredded looking are doing more callaestics, they just cut into the meat more. Less power sure, but looks more appealing. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:20 AM |
| 1 | How the fuck do I just get some muscles without all of this complicated and stupid machine cable bullshit?Doesn't appear to be the case with a lot of guys that do SL. Sounds genetic? Probably need to do a different routine. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:19 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop acting so goofy, stupid, and aloof?Ok man, go suck a dog dick | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:17 AM |
| 1 | If given the choice most people would rather you be weak than strong? Thoughts?But it's not even crabs in the bucket. Because that's the weaker ones trying to pull down the stronger ones. This is the strong ones trying to hold down the weak ones. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:15 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about blackpillChris hemsworth He has hunter eyes, that slight squint like the sun is in his eyes 24/7. I honestly think his eyes are way too close together. His jaw isn't bad. But he's got that bad-boy/threating/intimidating look. Looks like he works out a ton. I think a lot of facial attraction comes from the eyes. It's not even the jawline that really makes the look, it's like the overall head. Forehead, cheekbones, overall curvature to the face, length/size/proportionality of facial features. looks like he… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Experimenting with a new workout I made, half in the morning half at night. Thoughts?Yeah that's a big part of it, like you say PROPORTIONALITY. I don't want my bicep to be huge and then my forearm to be this shrimpy looking thing. Everything in proportionality. Trying to work all muscle groups, while honing it on my weaker spots like the forearms and pecs. Also, it's not reverse curls. But thanks for the info, that looks like a hella good exercise. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Experience with tinderNot quite, I think lifting is part of the equation. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 03:17 PM |
| 1 | How do you do any of what is needed to get a date when you have social anxiety?I can talk to the 90 year old granny no problem because there is no pressure, but Becky will cause my nerves to flair up because their is social pressure and because I desire her. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 03:13 PM |
| 1 | How do you do any of what is needed to get a date when you have social anxiety?Wait wait wait… those are some gigantic leaps of logic. Fapping causes one to act more femine? to not have a deep voice? to have a rounder face? get outta here with all that. That's some of that NoFap pseudoscience. Has no grounding in science whatsoever. A round face is determined by your genetics not how much you wank. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 03:10 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about blackpillThat Hentry Cavill has a great eye area (strong masculine gaze), solid jaw-line for sure. I've heard people chew gum a lot (for the ramus) and do mewing exercises to achieve this. That's true about wider faces being more aesthetically pleasing, but only so wide, like anything too much gets unattractive. There is a lot of Fibonacci's going on. Another thing that isn't often talked about is eyebrows. Look at any male-model and notice how great their eyebrows are. Almost all are slightly downward p… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Ugly ex hmu on email wanting to be fwb. What should I do?Put a paper bag on her head. There problem solved. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:47 PM |
| 0 | How the fuck do I just get some muscles without all of this complicated and stupid machine cable bullshit?How's your diet and sleep? SL5x5 is a beginners program for gaining core strength not for asethetics. I'm not an expert here but you would probably want to just do callaestics for that. So mostly body weight exercises, pushups, situps, chinups, burpees, lots of running. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | How the fuck do I just get some muscles without all of this complicated and stupid machine cable bullshit?Chins meaning chin-ups, right? | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | How the fuck do I just get some muscles without all of this complicated and stupid machine cable bullshit?Yes someone finally mentions Kettlebells. Just getting a 25lb and 50lb can really help. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:41 PM |
| 1 | How the fuck do I just get some muscles without all of this complicated and stupid machine cable bullshit?Was wondering this about his spine, knees. Lifting that much could really do some damage me thinks. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:40 PM |
| 1 | How the fuck do I just get some muscles without all of this complicated and stupid machine cable bullshit?He just wants to feel validated like a woman. Weak frame seeks validation, even when it's wrong it will try to force itself to look right. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:37 PM |
| 0 | How the fuck do I just get some muscles without all of this complicated and stupid machine cable bullshit?Stick with SL5x5 and follow the routine to a tee. This was my problem too. I gave up too quick with it and half-assed it. I'm going back to it and seeing it out. Also sounds like you should be clean bulking. You get back what you put in to it. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Went to the mall yesterday to cold approach but I frozeYou don't understand. This is cart before the horse thinking. You don't go from riding a bicycle to riding a motorcycle. There are fundamental elements that must be established first, like balance and steering. What this means is, if you are having a hard time sexualizing the conversation and say you have some intimacy walls from your childhood you should be focusing on those areas first before slowing exposing yourself to women. You are going about this from the wrong angle. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Went to the mall yesterday to cold approach but I frozeI think it's because when you cold approach, you're basically putting yourself and your ego on the line to be judged by somebody that you perceive as high value. That's why you approach women you aren't attracted to, therefore you won't overinvest and will be naturally outcome independent. Go in with the outcome of nothing, just is what it is. Whatever will be will be. With that you'll come off as higher value because you'll have the air of IDGAF. I agree, it's totally a self-worth estimation at… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Went to the mall yesterday to cold approach but I frozeI think so. It also will cause him to feel defeated and a failure which will prevent him from doing it again. He needs to focus on just playing some basic notes correctly. Don't even focus on women for the moment. Just talk to his guys friends. Start from the bottom up with social skills. Make statements not questions. Break in a few jokes. Going into cold-approaches without having a solid foundation of male friends and social support will have you hurting hard. That's like going into the deep e… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Attitude to respect.Those are fictional characters, using them as examples is against the rules here. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:16 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop acting so goofy, stupid, and aloof?Add D3 and Korean Ginseng. Also, haven't tried it yet but people keep ranting and raving about Kratom. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:13 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop acting so goofy, stupid, and aloof?Damn poen | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:12 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop acting so goofy, stupid, and aloof?Anyone having issues with self-acceptance should read The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem. I just started this book and it's a wealth of information. A good majority of problems that people ask here could be helped with that book. A true gem. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:11 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop acting so goofy, stupid, and aloof?Fair point. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. The best time to do that something was yesterday, the second best time is today. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:08 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop acting so goofy, stupid, and aloof?Oh yea? well I had sex with your wife! | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:06 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop acting so goofy, stupid, and aloof?Essentially that is trp in a nutshell. Trp is a collection of tools/mentalities/solutions/behaviors/methods/techniques/strategies... but all follow that you internalize them so that they become a natural part of your being. It's basically this, you become MINDFUL of who you are, realize yourself as you interact with people, then in that awareness you realize how you come off to others and what much change, you pull from trp toolbox and begin internalizing the parts you need. It's like a beaten u… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Attitude to respect.Self-esteem and frame is a motivator, it inspires behavior from other people. In turn, it is directly affected by how we act. Causation flows in both directions. There is a continuous feedback loop between our actions and the world and our self-esteem/frame. If you trust your mind and judgements you are more likely to operate as a thinking being. Ultimately if you trust your mind it is unlikely you will inspire these disrespectul behaviors. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Went to the mall yesterday to cold approach but I frozeLame af. Sounds like some generic ass shit that most people will humor but be bored of real quick. There is an element of uniqueness and cleverness that truly holds people's attention that isn't being captured here. One has to develop this to be able to converse with people, not just canned generic shit like "interesting weather ay?" | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Went to the mall yesterday to cold approach but I frozeBecause you are still a child. There is an element of maturation in being able to cold approach. That's why you asked for directions, like a little boy. Not being able to show sexual intent or being able to sexualize the conversation comes from fear of intimacy. Yes, your parents had something to do with it. If they didn't show you enough love and affection growing up it can still have an effect on you now. You need to work through your mind, sounds like some major internal work needs to be done… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:35 AM |
| -2 | Experience with tinderHate to break it to you but being attractive is way more than just lifting. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:33 AM |
| 1 | How do you do any of what is needed to get a date when you have social anxiety?Eye-contact can be considered a threat too ofc. Depends on your type of gaze. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Attitude to respect.I asked a similar question like this when I started on my rp journey. It's all about FRAME and not giving a fuck. If you are happy and content with who you are that's all that truly matters. The second you start feeling guilty/ashamed of what you are is the second you are lured into another's frame. That doesn't mean you shouldn't do some self-evaluation every once in awhile. But once you get to a certain stage of self-esteem in yourself (which I think what is this really all about) you stop wor… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Experimenting with a new workout I made, half in the morning half at night. Thoughts?So I should be aiming at 100 reps for my forearm workouts? Do you know the exercise I am referring to? Where you put your arm on the bench and curl up a weight with your hand? | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Experimenting with a new workout I made, half in the morning half at night. Thoughts?Thanks a ton for writing back all this. Any PPL programs out there you think are better than the rest? | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Experimenting with a new workout I made, half in the morning half at night. Thoughts?But I have a lot more strength when I am curling standing up as opposed to being on a bench and pulling my arms back and forth it feels much more straining. I carry my arms almost down to touching the floor when I do those bench flys to get the maximum effect of stretch and flex. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:12 AM |
| 1 | It’s so rare to see unfiltered confident peopleWhat's this Phenibut shit everyone keeps saying? Drugs aren't the answer, just a temporary escape. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:01 AM |
| 1 | How do you do any of what is needed to get a date when you have social anxiety?Thanks, I think it's true. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 09:34 PM |
| 2 | What is meant by "text only for logistics?" what about making jokes, banter, and asking some questions?Right there is def a mystery part that they love and that is ruined when I give away too much info. In your opinion what exactly would that rapport building be like? I've had Tinder messages go on and on... for like weeks and it never materialized. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 08:44 PM |
| 2 | What is meant by "text only for logistics?" what about making jokes, banter, and asking some questions?Right, there is no conniving. A true alpha doesn't need to convince anybody, it just is. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 08:27 PM |
| 3 | How do you do any of what is needed to get a date when you have social anxiety?How long are we talking? like a few seconds? I tend to avoid eye-contact, although it does feel good. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 08:23 PM |
| 2 | What is meant by "text only for logistics?" what about making jokes, banter, and asking some questions?No, impress her, convince her that you’re an alpha, provide value then set up a date. Are you being sarcastic? I can't tell :] | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 08:22 PM |
| 0 | How do you do any of what is needed to get a date when you have social anxiety?How long of a run? Am really considering NoFap again, did it three times last night and felt depressed beyond belief. Then got some sugary Chinese food and I've felt like shit ever after. I think that combo of fapping and eating sugar foods really fucks with the mind. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 08:21 PM |
| 2 | How do you do any of what is needed to get a date when you have social anxiety?I hear you with that last one, but it's like the closer I try to do that the worse it gets. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Experimenting with a new workout I made, half in the morning half at night. Thoughts?Better leverage or something? Idk it's just easier for w/e reason. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Experimenting with a new workout I made, half in the morning half at night. Thoughts?I'm doing BJJ and trying to train for that, while getting my forearms bigger. I'm at 180lbs which is average for my height. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Experimenting with a new workout I made, half in the morning half at night. Thoughts?Thanks. I'll be adding hammers. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Experimenting with a new workout I made, half in the morning half at night. Thoughts?So like SPLITTING up the muscle groups for a specific day? What program would you recommend for someone new that wants to get big? My forearms are too thin and scrawny I want to get them bigger. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Experimenting with a new workout I made, half in the morning half at night. Thoughts?Any clue on how to work the extensor carpi ulnaris, extensor digiti minimi, extensor digitorum, and brachioradialis muscles? | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Experimenting with a new workout I made, half in the morning half at night. Thoughts?This has been working well so far, seeing gains and such. But mainly my biceps not anywhere else so I prolly need to divesify. What do you recommend bruv? | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Experimenting with a new workout I made, half in the morning half at night. Thoughts?What is a split? Also, does this workout cover most of the muscle groups? Seems like I am working my biceps nice and good but then my abs/pecs and all other muscles aren't being touched. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Experimenting with a new workout I made, half in the morning half at night. Thoughts?Deadlifts works the legs. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | How to be social asf?Talk to everyone, old young rich poor black white. Try to make a connection with everyone you meet. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 04:49 PM |
| 0 | Why are white Guys called white boys and black guys are called men?Um I didn't say it's something I concern myself with? You seem to be assuming a lot with very little. I'm clearly telling you something I've read before not something I believe... Jesus this sub sometimes.. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 04:46 PM |
| 1 | more RP youtubers to listen to?RSD and all their material is a mountain of information. It's good but their typical video is like 1.5hr long, and that format just screws with me. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 04:29 PM |
| 1 | more RP youtubers to listen to?Patrice O'Neal and AMS | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Elliott rodger and monk modeWait what? Who says he wasn't suppose to have sex? | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 04:25 PM |
| 53 | It’s so rare to see unfiltered confident peopleThis is part of a lot mindfulness and eastern thought. To rewire your brain to your mindless state of when you were a child. Ever noticed how free and fun loving spiritual monks are? They were able to rewire their brains back to the state of boundless curiosity like children while maintaining the wisdom of an adult. BTW we've ALL gone through this. It's called becoming an adult. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 04:21 PM |
| 10 | Why are white Guys called white boys and black guys are called men?I think "boy" is a racial slur when referring to a black person, could be wrong. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 04:18 PM |
| 1 | You guys should know about body language: is feet pointed at you actually a sign of anything?There you go, you have the answer. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?May do this some time in the future, I have heard about this from a few people so I know it's not some cult. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 03:30 PM |
| 1 | You guys should know about body language: is feet pointed at you actually a sign of anything?Might just be attractive or have a warm presence. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?Then I'll donate. Thanks for the tip! | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?Then I'll donate. Thanks for the tip! | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 02:36 PM |
| 2 | You guys should know about body language: is feet pointed at you actually a sign of anything?No, that definitely means something. People often point themselves towards the people they feel the closest/most connected to. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Just saw some simp post on how to de-red pill himselfIt is hard for weak men to accept the fact that half of our species participates in a collective lie designed to minimize his chances of happiness and maximize theirs. Got damn! yep One side manipulating the other side, so that their side gets all the happiness and the other is basically spinning it's wheel. The master class and the slave class. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?How is it free? | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Do girls think it's weird when guys approach them?if you are ugly and weird, yes. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Do chicks fuck guys to get them into orbit and then keep them as friends?yes, | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 01:46 PM |
| 1 | I get jealous when I see my girl talking to other guysyou are purple pill. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?Is this it? https://www.dhamma.org/en-US/locations/directory Is it like a retreat I go to? | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?I couldn't find it free. Link please? | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Fat obese fuck in my class gets more attention from the females than me. What is going on?Probably because you are bitter and serious while he is funny, charismatic, and outcome independent. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Fat obese fuck in my class gets more attention from the females than me. What is going on?Problem identified, your frame fucking sucks. If you are getting all bitchy over some internet comments can't even imagine how bad you must be irl. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Fat obese fuck in my class gets more attention from the females than me. What is going on?Problem identified, your frame fucking sucks. If you are getting all bitchy over some internet comments can't even imagine how bad you must be irl. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?I agree with what you are saying, disagreeing witht eh hivemind/trying to keep things peaceful, all boring ass NiceGuy traits. How did you break free from this? And not only break free but have fun, interesting, exciting things to talk about? I just draw blanks and can't think of anything fun/cool to say. I also don't want to be the guy forcing it, being try-hard to be funny/cool. Just want that shit to be natural. Someone else said it on here like "you have to be attracted to your own value", w… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 03:30 AM |
| 2 | LTR - how to deal with 'other guy'She's about to visit NY with her girlfriends (long planned) and he's out there visiting family, so is going to show them round Friday. aw fuck | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 09:49 PM |
| 8 | 3 years of celibacy has fucked me upGood psychological breakdown. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?Right, basically what I said to Samonji. That's the wrong way to go about it. If ever you are doing things for others and not yourself, you will constantly come up empty because you bank all your validation on another person (covert contract/outcome dependence). It's like giving another person the helm to control you, if they have the power to give you joy/validation you also give them control to take away joy/validation. True happiness comes internally, not externally. People come and go, you a… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Are conversations just another form of attack/war?I read it, yeah Power Talk appears to be similar but not exactly on the money. It's more of like verbal chess-moves, manipulation, or even like fight moves but in verbal form. Like people will throw tests around to see if you are a bitch or not, throw a few landmines, or a hidden jab at your ego. Every word is like a bullet/bomb, subtle insult, but one that cannot be attacked. Like you said, plausible deniability like "Oh I didn't mean it that way you just interpreted what I meant wrong", even t… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?I don't have food or any addictions at all. If I have one it's the addiction to self-loathing. If anything I don't eat enough. I was bulking about a month ago because I was too skinny. Now I'm working out more and burning the fat off. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?Yep, I wondered this too. Basically people are just going to start using you for things if you think of it like that. Besides that's a MASSIVE covert contract and creating a very OUTCOME DEPENDENT situation by thinking that way. Someone else was saying how they learned Piano and Fitness so that people would like them more and would want to hang out with him to learn those things too... so basically he learned those things to be used/leeched by other people? this isn't the right thinking. This wh… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?Are you on NoFap? or some type of dopamine restrictition program? | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?That's another thing, how does one even fix identity issues? Fake it till you make it makes no sense, because identity is something you are born with? kinda? sorta? Identity is a strange beast indeed. I don't think many people understand what it actually is, if it is a thing at all. In fact, what is actually surprising is how different everyone is, and what causes that difference. Like, is it nature or nurture, did you create an identity or was it something you were born with. It's kind of a sta… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 07:58 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with lower-tier men trying to blindside/insult/bring me down?I think so, it's a way of establishing the dominance hierarchy. This is especially true of shorter, smaller men who have something to prove so since they can't intimidate physically, they have to do it mentally. Small dog with a loud bark. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?Not just GirlChase, that was in the first section of trp sidebar. One thing that GirlChase said that I think is absolutely true is to make sure you are masculine and humorous. With that attraction becomes a lot easier. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 07:40 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about blackpillI know there is some sub called BlackPillScience, but I'm actually trying to break down the question of "what makes a man good looking", you say facial aesthetics but other than symmetry what else is there? A lot of guys I know have symmetrical faces but aren't considered good-looking by conventional norms. Hair and muscularity are mutable. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 07:37 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with lower-tier men trying to blindside/insult/bring me down?What plate? Still working my way up to that... I have some major hurdles I am overcoming. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?So be a fake version? | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?Manson talks about this in his book "Models", he calls it working to your demographics. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?Thanks. So essentially it's related to covert contracts and being outcome independent. I tell you, I never realized how many covert contracts I'd been setting up, even mini ones. Haven't a certain desired outcome in some many situations. Completely ended that. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?Yeah I have always had fatigue problems especially since about 5 years ago, that's when I remember my energy levels really started going down hill. From what I've read it might be Thyroid related. Work is really stressful. And when I was in school I was commuting back and forth and it was draining me beyond belief. Maybe high-carb? tbh I don't really understand what high-carbs or what carbs even are. Masturbation is like once a day or once every other day. Sleep is kinda shit too. But there is s… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 07:16 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with lower-tier men trying to blindside/insult/bring me down?In terms of nature, in his personal life who knows. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 07:09 PM |
| -1 | In every interaction it seems like we are seeing where we rank in comparison to each other, if one is above or the other below?Yeah I wish most interactions were like that, instead it's like whose better? | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 04:49 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about blackpillnpd, asd? | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?Ok, I see your point. Where/how do I build value? I am liftingand starting to see some gains. But there appears to be this massive disconnect when I ask people how to gain value? Especially internal value? How do I begin to see myself as valuable? I've had a shit-ton of negative reinforcement telling me I ain't shit. And to be perfectly honest, it's generally because I take shit a lot harder than most people for some reason. May be a highly-sensitive person so when someone insults me it cuts in … | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 02:37 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about blackpillAutism right? | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?If you want to be valued; you have to value yourself enough for others to see it; and be attracted to it. Be attracted to myself and my own value? | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?Looked it up. Could you explain it? | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 01:53 AM |
| 15 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?Deep level Twain. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 01:29 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about blackpillWhat exactly makes a man good looking? Is it all just facial aesthetics? | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 01:09 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about blackpillHow did it make it worse? trp to me just revealed reality from fiction and gave a series of mentalities for being more successful. You wouldn't have the blackpill w/o the redpill so they share similar philosophies. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 01:06 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about blackpillBilly Joel has massive status, and he isn't even bad looking? Seriously what the actual fuck.. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 01:03 AM |
| 3 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Godamn man wtf... why would you marry that? | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 12:52 AM |
| 3 | Realize that no one likes/cares about you unless you provide some kind of social-value? How to improve personality without supplicating/being something I'm not?I think friendships are almost identical in a lot of ways to bf/gf relationships because it follows a similar transactional type system. In that social hierarchy, however, men will more often befriend men who fall laterally and little below rather than higher up. Social hierarchies are present everywhere including friendships. If you aren't the same level of sociability, income, intelligence, humor it's hard to form a friendship with that person. That's why it's usually the case that people of s… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 12:21 AM |
| 3 | #1 plate got a number and texted in front of meYep that sounded deliberate | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 12:14 AM |
| 1 | #1 plate got a number and texted in front of meBut she's a plate? who cares | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 12:14 AM |
| 0 | How to deal with lower-tier men trying to blindside/insult/bring me down?I'm sure they try but I don't even humor it. They basically don't exist in my eyes like you said. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 12:07 AM |
| 1 | The mentality of women after a breakup is appallingThey are so predictable had one do almost the exact same shit. You are good, she'll stop. Keep up the good work. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 12:05 AM |
| 2 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Hate to say it but YOU think you were good at concealing it. I thought I had a good poker-face too... then someone told me how obvious I was. We like to think the best of ourselves, humans are ego-centric and have a positivity bias, we often believe the best. Those hulks prolly dp'd her. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 11:45 PM |
| 1 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Are you trying to impress me Lol. You are conflating math and relationships... oh lordie the autism. That is catastrophic. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 11:01 PM |
| 1 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?You were the one giving shitty advice. But any who it's not thinking, it is overthinking. And it keeps guys in a loop. Thinking of all this stuff like a step-by-step math equation is autistic af. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 10:51 PM |
| 1 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Many many guys here are overthinkers. You can see it in the way they write, the questions they ask, and what they talk about, analyzing the most minute detail. It's not being in prison, this guy was like that before prison, he didn't think he just DID, that is a key difference from a lot of guys who have difficulty with game. The problem with PUAs and why most of them are really con-artists is they expect everyone else to be able to replicate what they are doing... it doesn't work by a step-by-s… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 10:44 PM |
| 1 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Yeah some point REALLY cross the line, to the point where you want to punch them hard af, but you can't cause laws. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 10:33 PM |
| 1 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Yep, everyone tests your strength. Basically came to the realization that everyone is trying to fuck with you, not maliciously but for fun/entertainment. That's why your reaction is paramount. Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 10:30 PM |
| 3 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?But you can also Hamster the fuck out of yourself by getting lost in all the details, AND overcomplicating things. Material science, physics, the right people, DiffEQ... yada yada yada… you are overanalyzing, overthinking, overcomplicating things, keep it stupid simple. This is why we are here... I tell you fuckin what. Men who overthink the shit out of the simplest things like DGAF. I can think of some <IQ80's who can implement DGAF perfectly because they have the magical gift of not overthinki… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 10:24 PM |
| 1 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Not saying spill one's guts.. but you're not going to convince me that talking about your problems/emotions is not a good thing. It's a bad idea to talk to your SO about this. But not talking is why people go nuts, because they don't express this shit and just repress all their thoughts/feelings/emotions. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 10:17 PM |
| 1 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?What's the right approach? Are you saying if they give an IOI from afar? | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 10:15 PM |
| 2 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Humans. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 10:14 PM |
| 1 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?You are lucky if you have guys friends who will never betrayed you. I can honestly say that every friend I have ever had has dishonored/disregarded me in some way shape or form. I realize people aren't perfect, forgive and forget. But yes, you can't trust no one, everyone will backstab you at some point if given the opportunity and it benefits them. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 10:13 PM |
| 2 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?That whole "be open about your feelings" is straight up beta-bait. I'm not even sure if they are aware of it, they just do it naturally. Like that whole thing with shit-test, it's all biologically hard-wired. They've developed tools over thousands of years to extract information about your "fitness", either tests to determine if you are a weak male or strong male. They got to get that REAL information somehow out of you so they act/pretend/manipulate it out of you. And yes the average girls, and… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 10:05 PM |
| 3 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?That is the problem for countless countless COUNTLESS guys. They put her happiness over his. It's a bad habit, and a hard one to break with BP/MSM media only reinforcing guys to do that. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 03:53 PM |
| 4 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?As much as I hate the whole "just do it" lines of advice that really is it. You gotta stop male-hamster-ing and start internalizing/implementing it on your own. It is a gradual process, just like abundance mentality, prize mentality, outcome independence, and ending covert contracts, once you identity the problem you just gotta start working on it. Once you have the definitions then it's your job/duty to start making it take place within yourself and your life. Portray it in your own way. My DGA… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 03:50 PM |
| 1 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?THEY ARE ALMOST NEVER ALONE! I've been out and about looking for women to approach. They are either with family, bf, friends, or in a hurry glued to their phones. They make it difficult to approach them. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 03:45 PM |
| 2 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Being intimidated just confirmed in her that those dudes are better. I hate to say this but if you felt intimidated by them, it probably showed in your body language/tone of voice etc. Ykno how women are, they are super preceptive. When she saw that you were intimidated by them, it prolly made her wet for those hulks. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 03:43 PM |
| 2 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Probably obese and a foot head, thinkin a honeybooboo | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 03:41 PM |
| 3 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?ya got that right | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 03:39 PM |
| 2 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Oh that's a solid point right there buddy. Many-a-girls I told were Pretty, Sexy, even Gorgegous and they were below average. I'm not happy about it now, but I was bp beyond belief. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 03:03 PM |
| 2 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?AHALT | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 03:02 PM |
| 2 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Without understanding frame, and in particular masculine frame I think most men by default will be holding a feminine frame. Because it's a maturity thing, like male children hold female frames. Without a father or strong male role models your frame will stay feminine. This is compounded when you are raised by a single mom and reinforced by BP/MSM. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:59 PM |
| 4 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?And they are dirty, sometimes dirtier than men. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:55 PM |
| 1 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Did you two just start college together? Freshman class? One thing I've noticed is they are scheming without giving away a clue to their scheming. What I mean is, they act like your best friend, like it's okay to not having your own place or car or money... it'ss okay honey, you don't need a car, house, or money, I still love you ... all lies... then they dump you in a week. They are acting/pretending that it's okay to tell them anything and they will still love you, it's all one big lie. They a… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:42 PM |
| 5 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?The real question right here. I don't think he knows what a 1 looks like... | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:35 PM |
| 2 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Damn, I feel for you dude. We've all been in similar situations. Hurt don't it? | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:33 PM |
| 6 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?And all your neighbors see ya doing it. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:32 PM |
| 3 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?"and don't cha come back no mo no mo no mo no mo..." | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:31 PM |
| 2 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?That's key. They hate a defeatist or a man who can't actually solve his problems. A hopeless man. However, a man that has problem and is actively working to solving those problems, that's sexy af to them. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:30 PM |
| 2 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Damn good point. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:26 PM |
| 1 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Actually probably part of the fear for sure comes from said brother/bf/orbiter/amogger will try to rough me up if I approach her. I know it's an irrational fear, but fear of the amogger mostly as well as crushing rejection. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:25 PM |
| 1 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Internalize alpha behaviors like IDGAF, Prize, Abundance mentalities, as well as outcome independence. Right now you are jut tryng to figure out what's going on, stop thinking, internalize those behaviors, and your beta problems will go away. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:22 PM |
| 16 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?If you don't know how, then you don't know how. It's like having a Ducati but never ridden a motorcycle before. Can't expect to get to that point over night. Yeah it sucks but it's a learning process. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Having no issues with the women, but men tend to give me issues.When a woman asks you what you do, she's really only asking what your status is and how much money you make. When a man asks you what you do, what he's really asking is what talents and skills you have developed and what value you could bring to his crew. Thats exactly it. It's all about the value that you could bring them. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:07 PM |
| 1 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?actions > words. Female lies. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:02 PM |
| 2 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?If something upsets or impresses you that is the time to deal with the situation. Good point. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 01:52 PM |
| -4 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?true friends are like true love, it doesn't exist, they will betray you. AMALT. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 01:44 PM |
| 6 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Those help, but do you not understand humans are social creatures? You can't just do activities and expect yourself to be all better now. It's why solitary confinement breaks even the hardest criminals. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 01:40 PM |
| 6 | Girls with porn addicitionIf she thinks you're an alpha you unlock this sort of behavior with most women Yep, good way of putting it, "unlocking". | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 01:36 PM |
| 3 | Theories on why nearly all girls between 18-30 are into astrologyIt makes life more interesting, just like movies/tv/social media. The problem is when they actually believe it is real. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Theories on why nearly all girls between 18-30 are into astrologyThey are incredibly gullible. There is no nuance at all. They pour ALL of their energy into one area and go head first into it. No grey, just I BELEIVE THIS YOU CAN'T CONVINCE ME OTHERWISE, I HAVE MY MIND MADE UP! | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Theories on why nearly all girls between 18-30 are into astrologydumb | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:45 AM |
| 16 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?If you don't got any tho? | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:43 AM |
| 10 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Pressure cooker man... You gotta talk to someone. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Eye contact is fucking with my headIf you have threatening eyes smiling will only make it worse. Imagine Cheshire Cat from Alice in Wonderland smiling while staring at you. And you say you have limited social skills, yes, this is a deadly combination. You probably have intense eyes and it's hard to look at. That would be my guess. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:42 AM |
| 47 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Damn then who do you tell your feelings to, yourself? your dog? just bottling them up is not good. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:27 AM |
| 1 | I can never successfully control the frame in online dating. Any advice on this?Tinder is all about looks, instead he needs to focus on cold-approaching. Tinder's algorithm is all fucked now. He could also post pictures displaying his smv through cars/house, expensive vacations. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:15 AM |
| 1 | I think i found the ultimate Red Pill movie.Right, I think a lot of guys are if they are born in mid to high socioeconomic level, beta father or no father, and raised by single mom... as well as a big dose of bp media. Weird seeing the actor who played Rick now, cause he's the opposite of what you'd consider an alpha. But the movie is fiction so he was able to embody that essence through acting. That movie totally encompasses a lot of RP truths which are hard to deny. More people should realize the reality of that movie. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:10 AM |
| 1 | I can never successfully control the frame in online dating. Any advice on this?You stay an incel by giving up your frame. There is absolutely no benefit to conceding frame, men and women won't respect you. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 05:05 PM |
| 1 | First plate ever, why does she keep coming back despite numerous fuckups?...then while watching said movie your clothes start coming off? hahaha my boy | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | I can never successfully control the frame in online dating. Any advice on this?Max your LMS. Don't ever expect them to come to you, no matter how good your looks are, still do the work. You'll have to put in some kind of effort. However, proportional to your SMV I would wager it's significantly less. I'm an outsider looking in, my SMV isn't high af, just going off what I've witnessed here. Once you get your SMV to a certain level it does tend to speak for itself. Also, no matter how love your SMV is, make no mistake, you never NEVER concede your frame to theirs. Don't put … | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 04:22 PM |
| 1 | What's the motivation behind people being condescending/patronizing/mocking?What I mean is on average bullies have high self-esteem and they are generally the ones that do this sort of thing. I don't think it's a self-esteem issue, I think it's more of a tactic. Not everything is a result of low self-esteem, that's thinking too myopically. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 04:19 PM |
| 4 | Eye contact is fucking with my headSo you do realize that holding eye-contract can be seen as a threat right? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 04:13 PM |
| 3 | I can never successfully control the frame in online dating. Any advice on this?They have a bunch of other options at their disposal, they don't need to waste their time on me. That's the reality of dating for guys in the 80% sadly. You have to boost your SMV or you're going to keep coming up empty. You'll never be her only option, you can only hope to be her best option currently. They control all the cards, the game is rigged in their favor. That's why TRP preaches SMV so much. Unless you're a few notches up on her SMV it's damn near impossible to get them to date you. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 03:57 PM |
| 1 | How to keep a boner for 10+ minutes or is it not possible without ED meds?A lot of guys say it's something mental. But idk if that's completely true, I mean you body is composed of a network of veins and muscles as you get older I'd imagine those veins and muscles stop functioning as well. So maybe see a doctor about it? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 03:55 PM |
| 0 | What's the motivation behind people being condescending/patronizing/mocking?You think that's ALWAYS the case though? I know people with high self-esteem that do it. Most bullies have high self-esteem. This is BP vs. RP thinking, fantasy vs. reality. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 03:52 PM |
| 4 | Red Pilled guys, based on your experience, what do girls REALLY like in a guy?DGAF + Prize + Abundance mentality. As well as Outcome Independence, ending the habit of covert contracts. Read NMMNG follow it religiously, and stop being so damn nice all the time. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 03:50 PM |
| 2 | First plate ever, why does she keep coming back despite numerous fuckups?Why were you nude grinding on her while you're supposed to be tutoring? Was she trying to solve a difficult math prob while you just slowly started undressing.. then start grinding nude? How the fuk | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Am I fucked in terms of bone structure for aesthetics?Got the perfect twink body haha jp. Get into a workout routine and you'll be good. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Always DARE never DEER with everyone?What's DARE and DEER? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Why do I place such value and power on attractive women?Biology/evolution. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 03:35 PM |
| 0 | How to keep a boner for 10+ minutes or is it not possible without ED meds?Can you not get hard at all? Or is it more of maintaining an erection? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 04:09 AM |
| 0 | Why are underage girls so aggressive and think it's ok to hit on an older guy?This sounds made up, idk why tho. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 03:41 AM |
| 1 | What's the psychology of a woman feeling shy/embarrassed/ashamed when she's talking to a guy she likes?Probably the same reason why guys get super nervous and super nice around a hot chick, higher perceived value and lack of experience. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 03:34 AM |
| 1 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?"Why not have gf?" I've gotten this dumb question a million times, I never know what to say, I think last time I was like "don't make me regret talking to you" or something to that effect. What's your go-to response for that? Noticed that almost all the girls that ask me that question are dumb as a bag of rocks too. To get this story straight you pick her up in your truck and are driving around using a translator she asks dumb questions, you answer vaguely, you say "How about Mexican food for yo… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only one who can't get dates on Tinder?Those fuckin medocire thin women! Getting all that free validation tiss tiss | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 02:17 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys deal with existential crisis?going deeper into your head with someone else’s thoughts is a waste of time. I actually really agree with this. Too many people recommend books/videos and their own advice. What works for one may not work for another. All you need you already have, it's deep inside you. Spending time alone just thinking is some of the best advice out there. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 02:13 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with existential crisis?The story you are referring to is The Egg by Andy Weir. I believe this is true, we are all one consciousness understanding itself from many different points of view. I think of consciousness like electricity where every living thing is hooked into it but has different manifestation like a lamp, tv, stove. I think separation is an illusion, all is one entity, from you to me, to the pebble and drop of water, to the fabric of the cosmos. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 02:09 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys deal with existential crisis?Just found the audiobook is on YouTube if you or anyone else is looking for it here it is: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zF65lvwQPbw Interesting so far... goes into existential analysis. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 02:04 AM |
| 2 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?Yep I need to provide value, and currently don't have much social value to draw from. Any advice on that? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 12:59 AM |
| 1 | I just realized I depend on my parents too much? How do I fix this?o baby | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 03:32 AM |
| 1 | I just realized I depend on my parents too much? How do I fix this?any dick fights? | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Thought I held frame, but...This girl sounds like an attention whore, forget this. Find better prospects. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 03:16 AM |
| 2 | What book/s would you recommend specifically for practicing game?All of Roosh V books. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 03:15 AM |
| 1 | I just realized I depend on my parents too much? How do I fix this?were yu suckin dick, how so low? | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Religion and Red pillrpchristians sub would say otherwise. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 01:30 AM |
| 1 | music festival this weekend661lbs for those using the imperial system. Crazy. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Do you maintain the intense alpha game, is red pill supposed to be this draining? Feedback welcome.Not exactly, the brains of introverted people and extroverted people are actually wired differently. There have been several scientific studies done with brain scans to show this. Introverts interact with the world differently and are more sensitive to external stimuli, that's why they often need to be alone to recharge. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Do you maintain the intense alpha game, is red pill supposed to be this draining? Feedback welcome.You ain't alone I'd venture to say 90% of the guys that find themselves here are probably suffering because of their introverted personalities, it's kinda a game killer. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 12:55 AM |
| 7 | Do you maintain the intense alpha game, is red pill supposed to be this draining? Feedback welcome.He's forcing it and using his levels to the redline of his speedometer, most men can't be like that without draining themselves hard. It's like when people do MDMA they are social butterflys, alpha af, then the next day they feel like a complete depressive wreck. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Do you maintain the intense alpha game, is red pill supposed to be this draining? Feedback welcome.You are putting on a mask of who you really are, of course that's going to be draining. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 12:51 AM |
| 1 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?I need cooler shit to be doing and talking about. Seems like anytime I engage a female she just isn't interested in anything I have to say. Like I tell her xyz thing happened, or xyz story and she'll just be like that bored face and sarcasm like "oh yea... really.... oh wow... " generating no tingles or interest whatsoever. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 12:46 AM |
| 1 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?Wait what? Can you explain that some more. How did that interaction go down? Where did you meet her, why were you driving her home? How did the interaction go from you driving her home to sucking dick? | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Average, how easy is it to cross into the 20%?You've gotta be rich af to live there. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 11:22 PM |
| 1 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?Can I hear some successful approaches you did? Where it happened and the interaction. From open game, mid game, and closing game. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 11:13 PM |
| 3 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?They can see into your soul. They can feel your intentions before you say a word. But I think this can be used to your advantage, just start feeling and thinking the right ways and it can be used as a way to show interest. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 11:09 PM |
| 1 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?Give me some situations/scenarios and places where you met girls? People say this too much, let me see some hard evidence. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Average, how easy is it to cross into the 20%?What books? Noticing a lot of the issues I have with women are a result of not having enough self-awareness or even knowing who I am. Like identity issues, not certain of who I am, like I don't have a defined personality. I'm just sort of like a walking void, nothing inside. I feel like a shell. Like how are women suppose to get to know me if there is nothing there to get to know. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 11:00 PM |
| 2 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?How do you build interest? And how is this situation where me and the girl are one-on-one even suppose to happen in the first place? Not to be snide, but it's not like I magically walk out my front door and there is a girl saying "hey wanna chat a bit?". It's actually getting into the interaction to begin with that is the problem. This whole thing is kinda weird, because first I am trying to get with her but at the same time I am acting like I dgaf about her. So how am I suppose to generate any … | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 10:58 PM |
| 1 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?Been working out consistently for the past few days. Watching Arnold is quite inspiring, even if his gains and body are mostly a result of having good genes. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 10:56 PM |
| 0 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?I'm probably a few points better looking than I think but I have low self-esteem and confidence issues and there is like a massive wall of shit I haven't addressed from my past. I get AMOGGED, intimidated, scared, embarrassed very easily which makes me kind of a bitch and this obviously turns women off me. Hard for me to connect/relate to people. And hard af for me to express myself and be outgoing, I am extremely concerned with what people think about me. I overinvest very quickly and find it h… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 10:50 PM |
| 1 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?At least you generate attraction for hot girls. I get the cold-shoulder with BPD HB6,7,8. It's always these whale that think they are gonna get some IOIs from me, I can see it in their eyes. So they must see me as a 5 or 4, because women usually date up at least 2-3 notches. I believe I could be much better looking if I tried, hair, facial hair, body, facial expressions, mewing, and numerous other things... but I just don't try and I think it's mainly stemming from apathy and depression. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 10:46 PM |
| 5 | Average, how easy is it to cross into the 20%?How'd you do it? | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 10:42 PM |
| 3 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?girls are ALWAYS trying to fuck dudes out of their league, which is why you’re rarely attracted to the girls who show interest, they’re almost always lower than you in SMV. Girls fuck up the sexual marketplace, men fuck down the sexual marketplace. Which makes sense, women hold all the cards, the game is rigged in their favor, I don't fight it cause what's the point. Women are a lot more strategic about their attention/sex, men just give it away freely. It's the whole eggs are more valuable than… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 10:35 PM |
| 1 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?This goes against the whole cold approach philosophy. I'm not getting IOIs all the time, and very few guys I know get IOIs like that. If I were only cold approaching the ones giving me IOIs that would be like 2-3 girls a day. Women seem super picky with which guys they give their IOIs to. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 10:24 PM |
| 2 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?I hear ya. It's the whole When They Want Me I Don't Want Them, And When I Want Them They Don't Want Me thing. Maybe an EC or something can chime in on this. I don't think there is an easy solution here, just got to keep at it and find the best of the ones that are interested in you. It's generating that initial interest and attraction in the first place which is the real crux of all this. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 10:04 PM |
| 1 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?You say it's a shit-test so basically they are just faking it? What's the deal here? it's all just one big act, that's hard to believe. What the hell is the point of it all? Why act/test the whole population on how they want total equality of the sexes, no differences. What's the end game here? Also, everything you are saying with the "be Interesting, be fun, be unpredictable, be mysterious, be a good story teller, be comfortable, be uncomfortable etc" this all comes from talking? Problem is I'm… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 10:00 PM |
| 12 | Average, how easy is it to cross into the 20%?A lot of things are fixable nowadays unless you are the elephant man or something. Short? get lifts, giant forehead get mess hair/bangs, greasy hair? shave it off, wirey frame? bulk and lift like your life depends on it. The problem is most guys just give up and don't try. Especially not with porn, video games, and all kindsa different media sources. It actually makes things much easier for the guys who even put in the slightest amount of effort. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 09:43 PM |
| 21 | Average, how easy is it to cross into the 20%?Apparently it's quite easy from what most people on here say on here about crossing over into the top20%. The hard part is crossing into the top10% and the super elite top5%. It's because look around you and you'll see most guys aren't even trying nowadays. They are fat, low status, poor, no game, no sense of style or fashion. That's why with a little work passing into the top20% is relatively easy. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 09:38 PM |
| 2 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?It seems every time I show direct genuine interest in a girl, I get rejected. When I don’t give a single flying fuck about a girl, she’ll chase me and stick like a moth to a lamp. This is exactly my experience, the less fucks you give the more fucks they give. But just being indifferent doesn't make every girl want you, you have to have some traits/attribute that makes them attracted to you (high-smv). And that's the crossroads I am at, I have to have some actual social value for them to be inte… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 09:27 PM |
| 2 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?Where do I meet 15 women? People say they are everywhere, but they are always with either their friends, bf, parents, or in a hurry and glued to their phones. It looks they REALLY don't want to be approached, like they are almost pissed by it because it illustrated female and male differences? and goes against feminism being everyone is equal so no one should approach or be the lead... idk if that makes sense but I can almost sense that, they don't like traditional gender roles, don't want to be… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?Thanks, I see what you mean. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 09:07 PM |
| 1 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?That "I want to have sex with you" was just an extreme exaggeration. I'd more so drop subtle sexual things like "love the way your hair looks against the moonlight" or some corny shit like that. I have a lot of bp conditioning on how to treat them, Disney version of Treat'em Nice and compliment their beauty, treat'em like princesses. Ugh to weed out that mindset. Always ramp up the kino, actively listening for verbal and no verbal cues and seize opportunities. Right, I pick up on all sorts of no… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?The combo of stoicism + frame control + outcome independence seems like it would make for a very boring and uninteresting guy. I just imagine a dude who says only what is necessary and looks like a robot. Do you have a good example of what you mean by this combo? Like a person from TV/Movies or YouTube? I'm trying to get an idea of what this combo actually looks like when executed. What's your opinion on smiling, laughing, and joking? I tend to smile a lot when they look at me, crack jokes and g… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 08:54 PM |
| -2 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?Just straight telling them exactly how I feel, unedited? Like "you've got a great set of tits" "amazing ass" "love those lips"? I think coming off too bold/forward will have them running because it shows neediness and thirstiness? Besides it's sexual af, they want chit-chat/intimacy/getting to know you and all that jazz first before they hop into bed with a guy. I can't imagine a convo going like: Me: "Hi" Her: "Hey, how are you?" Me: "Good, great set of tits you have, wanna come back and fuck? … | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 08:48 PM |
| 4 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?How do I not feel those things? for me it's like saying "don't think of a purple elephant", it's inevitable that you will. So practicing mantras like "today I will not be clingy, needy, desperate, or lonely today " only draws more attention to what I am lacking and doesn't improve my state of mind or what I am suffering from. I need an ACTUAL physical, real, tangible difference in my life not to feel such ways. I think sometimes game can be thought of like a form of manipulation/hacks into the g… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 08:41 PM |
| 1 | How to show interest in her without overinvesting? Indirect Vs. direct game?What's the best approach towards showing interest in her? While maintaining DGAF, prize, outcome independence, not overinvesting, as well as not coming off as clingy, needy, desperate, and lonely. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 08:27 PM |
| 1 | How to be socially dominant?how you making 6 figures? | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 05:17 AM |
| 1 | How to be socially dominant?What self-help books helped with this? how did you learn game? Joined public speaking groups and other groups where social skills are paramount. What groups? Tonality is the absolute cheat code for social skills. It’s the most underrated but possibly most defining factor. Can you explain this bit? Tonality is something vague for me at least. Emotional control (or ‘state control’) was the most difficult to build. Only truly became stronger when I swapped my profession to sales. What exactly is st… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 05:15 AM |
| 1 | How to get over a one night stand?God, part of me is like thinks you need to stop being a pussy and get over your oneitis, but then again we've all been there and it sucks... we think they are so special and it's hard af to step outside ourselves and see things objectively. To be fair, it's probably over for good and you should game other girls. Are you staying busy? Cause I can remember in this situations like this and it's usually when I am not doing shit with my life and that's causing depression and the oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 05:09 AM |
| 1 | How to be socially dominant?Have you ever been with a group of people? I've seen MANY and I mean MANY times where the shorter guy is the most socially dominant. That's why you have the napoleon complex. I can think of dozens of time where the short dude was leading the interaction and pulling people into his reality. It just takes practice and lots of will-power. You act like this stuff is impossible, it's only impossible in your mind. It's a skill mutually exclusive from your height, weight, money, voice. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a calm and stoic introvertIt's just a defense mechansim that prevents him from being hurt while acting like he is the superior one. That's what most nerdy type guys do. They act like they are better when all they want is to be accepted/loved by others, but they were teased/bullied so now it's they find a way to try to beat the system, "I'm smart/above you, begone low IQ peasant". It's legitimately a fear of intimacy/fear of rejection in most cases. Here he uses the excuse/hamster of intelligence to push people away so th… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a calm and stoic introvertfuckkkkk you saying you know more about OP than OP knows about OP? | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a calm and stoic introvertYou mean both yalls cocks, he aint no one person faggot | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 11:25 PM |
| 0 | Dating as a calm and stoic introvertYeah it definitely is some Law of Attraction going on there. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a calm and stoic introvertYou literally said it yourself. And read the book, it goes into much more details than his lectures. I thought I knew JP's work, nope, 12RFL is a much more impactful read than all his lectures. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Dating as a calm and stoic introvertYou'd be surprised at how much you can infer about a person from the information you give. It's personality traits and such and the way you describe yourself, it's a common occurrence that a lot of guys around here face. Most are in the realm of INTx so you can generalize a bit. Well if you think I'm being condescending by giving you my free advice, that's surprising. There is no argument to win, I was genuinely trying to help but never mind just go about your shit then if you don't care to actu… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a calm and stoic introvertI am more than willing to tell people that I do not know something and let them give me some of their knowledge. Do you realize how arrogant that sounds? People offer you free advice and you bite their heads off. You aren't as smart as you think you are. You are disagreeing with 90% of people here and you think they are wrong? Do you see a problem there? If 90% of people are telling you something maybe they are on to something... and you're not as complete in your intelligence as you think. You … | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Dating as a calm and stoic introvertMaybe you're not as smart as you think you are. Maybe you don't know what you don't know. You should read 12 Rules for Life, you'll start to see a lot of the mistakes you're making. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Dating as a calm and stoic introvertYou're too arrogant to listen so you go into defense mode. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Dating as a calm and stoic introvertYou are too focused on being "right" all the time. Your ego gets in the way of you being able to form relationships. The opposite of a NiceGuy is an integrated man, as described by Robert Glover. Being an integrated man doesn't mean always having to show you're right. In fact, you wanting to be right all the time comes from a source of insecurity and scarcity. Agreeing with everything your ex said is wrong, but trying to show how you are RIGHT about everything is also wrong. Seek a balance. You … | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Dating as a calm and stoic introvertYour superiority complex is what's going to push people away from you. Your EQ is already low making it difficult to interact with you, having that superiority complex makes things twice as hard. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Dating as a calm and stoic introvertIt's this whole IQ>EQ thing. One isn't better than the other, they are both required for a successful life. The problem with OP is balance. He has considerably offset his general intelligence for IQ. I think at some point people unconsciously choose which direction to focus on, IQ or EQ. OP has focused all his energy, time, and attention on IQ (logic and critical reasoning) and has starved his EQ. Probably due to years of CS and mathematics classes, time spend alone studying and little time to f… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 06:16 PM |
| 4 | Dating as a calm and stoic introvertJoy now, rage later. You sound very INTP, logic-based, and see things as systems. This is female-repellant and makes dating quite difficult. Women want you to evoke feelings/emotions... INTx do not evoke that. Because of this you really must work at it harder than others do, INTx are rare so more than likely you'll be interacting with extroverted types or more common personality types. Look at small-talk as a gateway to get into deeper topics. You don't just go from "Hi" to "So what do you think… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 05:57 PM |
| 2 | How to be socially dominant?aka living in their frame and not your own. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Other men of higher skillLike someone else said accept your *temporary* place in the social hierarchy. If you are indeed lower, then be working harder to improve yourself. Just take it all in stride and as a learning process in order for YOU to get better. Anytime you feel indirectly or directly AMOGGED use amused mastery, like "ha, isn't this funny how this is happening to me right now? the world is funny". Maybe they are more talented *currently* but won't always be. I cannot tell you the number of times I've seen peo… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 04:15 PM |
| 2 | How to be socially dominant?I don't think that is true automatically, more it's a skill/process. Just by virtue of being tall, buff, and rich doesn't make you the most socially dominant guy in the room. A man who is short, skinny, and poor can be socially dominant. They are not mutually exclusive attributes. A guy can have all of that but still be lacking in personality and social dominance. They generally go together, but it's something which also takes work and time just like getting buff and rich, they don't happen auto… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Ignoring a girl, good idea?Your time and attention is valuable, so don't be handing it out like candy on Halloween. Prize mentality OP | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Skin care tips? How to get rid of acne scarsaloe vera will help heal those scars | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Other men of higher skillWhat's the question here? How do you deal with situations where you don't know as much / the other person is better than you in some way? | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Ignoring a girl, good idea?Only if your attention is valuable to her. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 02:36 PM |
| 0 | Have feminine and flamboyant body language and voice. How do I change this?I don't wanna be a dandy | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Update: I fucked up.Get your T checked asap. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Have feminine and flamboyant body language and voice. How do I change this?Yeah, been using free-weights and doing compound exercises. But I need to be more consistent and spend more time with it. As well as incrementing the weights each time. Fitness is still kinda foreign to me because there is just so damn much info out there on it. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 05:03 AM |
| 3 | Why when I am a dick people talk to me more?Becuse it shows non-codependency, IDGAF, Outcome Independence and living in your own frame, as opposed to supplicating others' frames. Most people are followers (80/20) and want someone to listen to, lead, and look up to. By being a dick you become that source. This just goes to show you how much people hate supplicating betas. It's literally unattractive to everyone, including supplicating betas. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 02:18 AM |
| 1 | How do you make protein shakes more palatable?Just eat an extra thick pb&j before you go to bed every night. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 02:09 AM |
| 1 | How to get into the top 20%?Got damn! | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 02:05 AM |
| 1 | How to get into the top 20%?I always found this mindset kinda hard to implement because we are always in-flux as human beings. One day we are head, the next we feel like shit. It's hard to be consistently getting better each day because life throws so many random variables at you. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 02:04 AM |
| 1 | How to get into the top 20%?That takes care of the L of LMS. But what about the MS aspect? | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 02:02 AM |
| 1 | How to get into the top 20%?You maximize your LMS as much as you possibly can. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpIt was a radio-show called The Black Philip Show, sadly only had 12 episodes. Somehow he was able to fit every rp concept/idea into it and much more. It's like trp come to life. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 01:56 AM |
| 16 | Thoughts on healthy masturbation as mentioned in No More Mr. Nice Guy. Not sure whether NoFap is a good practice...Do NoPorn, in my personal opinion it's much better than NoFap. Try to aim for a few times a week or less. That way you get that venom out of your system and you can focus on your purpose. Actual porn can become toxic af. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 05:59 PM |
| 7 | Is being very selfish the best way to live life?If you haven't read the 48 Laws of Power you should. It puts these things like these questions into perspective. Just do what you want to do. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Can being too stoic make you come across as a doormat?Stoic to me, means learning to take their shit a whole hell of a lot less serious. Most guys flip their shit real easy, and that's the mistake a lot of guys make. By taking on a stoic frame you mostly learn to relax and not take them serious, that makes a important difference. Take it easy man, no one's getting out of here alive. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpIt truly is the 'expectations' that I think causes the rp rage. I believed the lie, and realizing all this and seeing the world with red-colored glasses is having things crash down like a house of cards. I cannot UNSEE it. It's the whole, they are whores (to Chad), but act like they aren't whores (to Billy). That's the source of a lot of anger. And how society concedes to them in many ways. It's like one big manipulation. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpit’s all geared to benefit the women because if u look at human history this is not what men wanted men always had a goal that was higher than themselves women where just secondary now men grow up being brainwashed that a women is the end all be all What happened? This is a messed up and amoral system. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpI'd say I'm past the fake-nice phase. Now I'm just angry and numb about the state of society (the double-standards, the beta blindness), the Game/their biology, how I never just got it and figured it out and how people are constantly in denial about the differences between men and women and how this whole system works. The fantasy world I was living in and led to believe about women and dating and reality, it is clashing inside me. What they say they are attracted to as opposed to what they actu… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 03:00 PM |
| 0 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpCool. Let me know when you hit your rp period. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpAlright stay gay and ignorant you fuck. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 04:18 AM |
| 0 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpoh we have a grammar Nazi. Good job there little boy you pick the lowest hanging fruit. So you want a cookie to feel special about yourself? You're the absolute worst. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpYou definitely aren't either there buddy boy. What I'm telling you is, everyone on here at some point has experienced this rage and yet magically you aren't effected? I think you have your thumb up your ass and are damn ignorant. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpI will say this, you were downvoted heavily there for a reason. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpI'll shorten it to fuck off good sir. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpBro everyday feels like a fight against my RP self and the BP world around me. Like I am told none of this is real. Now that I see it for what it is, it's like people out in public are trying to tell me the exact opposite. Like "women aren't like that" "you'll find the right one". I have to keep reminding myself of what's true and what's fantasy. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpWhen I say Patrice I am referring to our Prophet, St.Patrice O'Neal. He's covered trp from a-z, but he was able to illustrate things in a way that way more impactful than any readings on here. Hearing him directly have women on his shows, hearing their lines/stories and then hearing him get an analysis was eye-opening for me. Most of what I read on here and other places I felt like I had a haunch of but I was like "shrugs" "oh well". If you haven't gone through the rage yet I'd say you're in for… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpI would say it's the whole thing. Listening to the whole 12 episodes over and over again and reading here... something just clicked hard... and I slowly started seeing things I couldn't unsee about them. I think before I just thought this was all kinda fake? I see it for real now. There is a real reason trp exists and why PUA exists, because women are very different and the world around us is based on a massive lie about how dating actually works. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpNow that we both realise how full of shit women are about what they want, we can actually become the guys they will fuck instead of the ones who are led on. Being strong and confident instead of compassionate and understanding. That part I really agree with. It certainly gives you an edge. I sense a lot of guys know this at an instinctual level just some of us need it spelled out real clear for us to understand it. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpExplain the advantage... all I feel is rage and pain. It is a reality constructed on lies. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 07:50 PM |
| -1 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpAs time goes on you'll see it... it's hard as fuck to describe. It's like the allegory of the cave or something. Once you see it you try to describe it to other people but they don't believe you. You can't see it until you see it, once you do you can't unsee it. Reading and listening to Patrice and then witnessing that shit irl starts fucking with the reality you've constructed. I'm not saying you are BP, but you sound like me before I really started digging deeper. It's one thing to read someth… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpIt probably is, it's like killing the beta inside. Like a baby, a child inside. That's what it feels like. I feel it's just purely something I always knew just never wanted to progress towards... seeing men treating women like shit my whole life but then they somehow always got the bitches? thinking Just how were you allowed to do this? it frustrates me and don't like that it works and women are really like that.... this is where the rage comes from. Raised by my mom, female dominated schools, a… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 07:40 PM |
| -1 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpI don't think you've hit the rage yet. I swear I thought the same as you when I first read it awhile ago. It comes in stages... it's beyond anything I could have anticipated. I thought I'd gone through the rage in high-school or something... the well is much deeper. But maybe I am wrong. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpIt's that who I am naturally is not attractive to them. It's been this way my whole life. The sweet, sensitive, nice guy.... just been shitted on repeatedly. No one took me aside and said "dude you're doing this wrong... here's what they actually like" idk I suppose I'm just an idiot and should have realized this innately and saw the writing on the walls... it's a hard pill to digest. I'm tottering back and forth between anger and numbness. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpIt is kinda like that. But I'm still mad... can't just turn it off... what I am is not attractive naturally. I have to change to be something they find attractive. It's like two worlds clashing inside me. Reality is shattering. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpAt the core it's just biology... that's the Game. They are what they are attracted to... I suppose I am angry at myself? Because what I naturally am is not what they are attracted to. So I feel I must change my personality in order to be attractive. That's what hurts. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 07:28 PM |
| 0 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpI'm just mad about how they REALLY are as opposed to how they portray themselves to be and how I thought they were. When I act like a different person (asshole stoic DT) they respond in a sexy manner, but if I act like who I naturally am I get shitted on. It's just the whole Who I Am at Heart is not what they are attracted to. At the core that's where the anger comes from, my natural personality is not attractive to them. I have to be something else to attract them. It is like two opposing reali… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Best full-body workout?Right, I start with a deadlifts, always seems to make my free-weight workouts a lot easier. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 07:20 PM |
| 1 | “Have you been sucking too much dick?” Shit testExactly. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpIt's easier said than done. I'm processing it all. Feeling like I am changing in the process. Part of me thinks it's not bad, other parts are like fuck are they really that bad? I'm like 50/50 in my rage, it comes in waves. I just don't like being lied to and manipulated. And just seeing it all first-hand of how they use betas, lie to them, then go fuck the alpha just really irritates me. Reality is not as it seems... It's not just that it's just so damn many things. It's a huge list of problems… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpI think it's almost better to be without them for awhile... just air it out. I see why Monk Mode is the given advice a lot of times. Especially if not naturally mid or top-tier male material. I appreciate this community a lot the gym + bjj is a great place to blow off this anger and just process the REALITY of things... | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Delayed red-pill rage? helpWhen I first started reading trp I thought I had already naturally accepted trp. That I didn't require an anger phrase because I'd been cheated on and had girls do screwed up things to me before... boy was I wrong. I thought I had gone through what other people were talking about on here... nope it's now hitting me. I didn't actually realize the severity of it all. Or how real it all was. I think I've been dreaming for awhile... it's not what I thought it was. Patrice O'Neal was the straw that b… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 04:38 PM |
| 1 | “Have you been sucking too much dick?” Shit testYep, flipping the script like "projecting much?" much. Although it's better to make a statement rather than a question cause that gives her an opening to rebuttal it. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Does the red pill apply to European girls?I suggest you check out RooshV he has a whole series about how to game women from different countries all around the world. It does vary from his experience but the central tenants hold true. Romania, Poland, Latvia, Belarus, Brazil, and many other countries he's covered. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 04:19 PM |
| 2 | “Have you been sucking too much dick?” Shit testThanks. What's a better response? | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 04:05 PM |
| -3 | Day game for older guysYou have the rule of 6-6-6? | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 03:24 PM |
| 1 | How did you kill your betaI think a lot of us are. We know the mistakes we are making and working to adjust them... but bad habits die hard. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | How did you kill your betaI see what you mean. They want what they can't have. The more I hear of this whole "I'm gonna commit suicide if you break up with me" the more I think it's just a fuckin shit-test or complete bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 02:50 PM |
| 7 | Is it good to be heartless?No, it's having a balance. If you've read NMMNG it's all about being an Integrated Man. A man can range his emotions on a spectrum. The real power is having control over your emotions and not letting your emotions control you. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 02:48 PM |
| 2 | “Have you been sucking too much dick?” Shit testAwful. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | “Have you been sucking too much dick?” Shit testBroken frame. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 02:44 PM |
| 6 | “Have you been sucking too much dick?” Shit testI'd like to hear an endorsed contributor comment on this. Because Agree and Amplify can sometimes come off as supplicatory and self-depreciating. Her: "You are such a dick sucker Billy!" Billy: "Yeah I've sucked almost as many dicks as you" When is a good time to use A&A? Most of the time pressure-flipping seems to be the right go-to response. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 02:40 PM |
| 2 | How did you kill your betaYou experienced what things must be like for the alpha Chad in America where women are just fawning/pining over him. I think that's why Chad naturally has the idgaf/prize mentality because it's like he sees the lines that women draw a lot more clear than blind billy beta who can't see things from the macro scale. Beta billy is constantly operating at the mirco level because he's never been exposed to the upper level where you can see how all the things work. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | It's not a matter of reading but understanding what I read and not overcomplicating itBehaviors meaning my physical actions? what I am "doing and saying" as opposed to me just thinking/living in my head. I have a bad habit of overthinking, overanalyzing, and overcomplicating things. It's my nature to think, think, and think some more. I think of things as steps, systems, and algorithms. Like mathematics or something... I think this is the problem that a lot of nerds have, can't get out of my damn head and just LIVE. I just need to DO, DO, and DO some more. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 02:24 PM |
| 2 | How did you kill your betaBp is the comforting lies. Rp is the uncomfortable truths. It's interesting because St.Patrice tells a similar story to yours when he went to Brazil. He noticed the women acted entirely different to him. Women respected him, sure, probably do to being an American and thinking he had money. But not only that they as he tells it "they were selling what we were buying". Meaning American women sell this masculine, super-independent version of themselves relationship. They don't sell us what we want,… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 12:59 PM |
| 2 | How did you kill your betaI think so. Trp is a collection of strategies and mentalities, sexual and otherwise. It's a hodge-podge of PUA, self-help, eastern and western philosophies. In essence, it's a set of the most effective life techniques for getting the most out of life (crystallized without BP overtones). And what you do with those is up to you. There isn't any you MUST do this, you MUST do that. You take what you need and apply it to your life. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 12:48 PM |
| 2 | How did you kill your betaRight, the 80/20 rule applies to you as a person too. You are 80% beta 20% alpha, key is to eliminate the beta and embrace that 20% of the alpha within. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 02:47 AM |
| 37 | How did you kill your betaI'm absolutely no where near killing the beta. But one thing I've been doing along with reading is what I call 'Observing the beta'. Basically go through your life as you normally do, but instead now observe yourself objectively like you would if you were watching a movie about some guy. And you will start to see things like never before (take mental notes). You'll start becoming more mindful of the beta mistakes. Even today I noticed myself overinvesting, making covert contracts (seeking valida… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Anybody else here end up making way more gains in the gym when switching to fullbody workouts ?I misspoke. How do you have less frequency (less time a week) yet see better results? More volume or sets be added? Curious to know the science behind how that works. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Anybody else here end up making way more gains in the gym when switching to fullbody workouts ?Can someone explain what's happening here? How can someone go from working out 5-7 days a week and not see gains, then go to 3 days a week and be getting huge results? | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 01:45 AM |
| 3 | Actually successful cold approachers who aren't blessed with looks and are the naturally good talkersbetter than shitting on a incel. at least provide some sort of value. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Which self-help book impacted your life the most?Look up the mbti personality test. INTx is one of 16 personality types that people generally fall into. Even those buckets are huge categories in themselves. INTx stands for Introverted - thinking - x. The 'x' could be P for perceiving or F for feeling. It's usually people who are purely logic-based and see things as systems, thinking rather than feeling the world. I find it interesting that a lot of books suggested here are the product of INTx personalities. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 01:30 AM |
| 1 | "you cant use rp ideas to achieve bp goals" why not?Why would a woman leave her best option by far? Probably because he doesn't generate feelings/tingles like bad boy Chad does. Women are fickle with their emotions, one day they are hot the next day they are cold. But I hold the truth of what Patrice said about situations like these: "It's your fault if a bitch starts acting out". You fucked up somewhere, not her. It's your job to generate those tingles and keep things fresh. Men really got to be constantly honing their craft or else they'll get … | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 05:23 PM |
| 1 | It's not a matter of reading but understanding what I read and not overcomplicating itThanks. What are a few things (ideas/concepts/lessons/principles) you gained from those books and implemented irl? Can you give me an examples or scenarios where you implemented them and saw results? A lot of trp is about theory but hearing application is infinitively more beneficial in my personal opinion. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:49 PM |
| 1 | "you cant use rp ideas to achieve bp goals" why not?I don't see how your question and the body of the question are related. In any case, you'll never be her only option you can only hope to be her best option. She's not yours, it's just your turn. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:42 PM |
| 1 | It's not a matter of reading but understanding what I read and not overcomplicating itI'm having difficulty going from written word to irl implementation. For example of the 20 or so books that are recommended reading here I am having a hard time using their advice and getting real-world impact. Do you have any examples of rp implementation that you began to see results from? | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:34 PM |
| 1 | It's not a matter of reading but understanding what I read and not overcomplicating itWow then just fuck off | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:31 PM |
| 1 | It's not a matter of reading but understanding what I read and not overcomplicating itDo you even read the questions or just give the most generic advice that's circulated 100s of times here? | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Get extremely nervous when a girl acts interested and sexual (direct sexual eye contact) flirting feels impossible?Why the hell does sexuality make me uncomfortable? Why do I feel shame and guilt when I talk sexually with women? Like I couldn't just said I want to Gorilla-fuck you, i'd feel cringy and embarrassed. There is some deep rooted shit I need to get past. Being overtly sexual to women is just some bridge I haven't crossed yet. In my mind there is still some guilt, shame, nervousness, and embarrassment in it. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 02:42 PM |
| 64 | Fucked my ex-crushed, I feel God is pranking meNothing makes a girl more horny than knowing you have other options. Drives her bonkers. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Are conversations just another form of attack/war?Power talk is talking strategically/tactically? I thought Power Talk was more about being dominant/domineering in conversation? | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 01:55 PM |
| 3 | How do i handle being provoked in social circleGive examples of his blatant disrespect? context helps. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Shit-test from males, not femalesBe careful to understand that men are more honest than women about your looks/style. They might actually be telling you the truth. Or it's fear of you being competition, in that case crab-bucket mentality. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Actually successful cold approachers who aren't blessed with looks and are the naturally good talkersPersonally, the way I see it is most guys aren't Chads but they are still getting laid. Sure there is that 29% incel stat for guys not getting laid in the past year, still leaves 71% of non-chads getting some. However, I think with enough work at the gym and practicing talking, anyone can improve their Game. Here's the thing that hardly ever gets talked about, calibrating to your SMV. You need to know where you are in the sexual marketplace. Don't just walk up to any girl you see and ask for her… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 01:46 PM |
| 6 | Actually successful cold approachers who aren't blessed with looks and are the naturally good talkersHe's asking a legitmate question and all you can answer with is he's an incel and sidebar? Certaintly the man at least deserves an honest reply. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Why am I getting "Matrix red/blue pill" doubt about having children as the end game?Someone made a point on here awhile back that breeding is just a way now for the government to generate money from taxation. Especially if billy beta gets here pregnant, then she divorces him, she takes half of his silicon valley money and spends it. Whereas billy beta would have consolidated his money. It's like a machine to get slaves. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Which self-help book impacted your life the most?This forum is self-filtering. I'd guess most of people here are quite similar irl. Their personality traits are probably what lead them down this road to begin with. In fact, there was a post awhile back that polled people on here of their personality type. Most clustered around INTx. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 01:27 PM |
| 1 | (a bit off topic) Need every opinion regarding a beta giving me shitThe cringe... | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 04:18 AM |
| 1 | (a bit off topic) Need every opinion regarding a beta giving me shitwhatchu talking about, OP's the beta and the other guy is the alpha. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Any endorsed RPers willing to get on a call?There are a shit ton of PUA guys that with a few hundred or less will train you/talk with you about how to go about these things. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:51 AM |
| 1 | "assholes dont get laid" and "red pill is a cult" and "feminism vs RP"The conscious part and the hamster both are at odds with each other. I think part of her hates the fact that she is attracted to an asshole (conscious part), but then the biological half (the hamster) is attracted to it. It's like split personality disorder, one fighting the other. One is verbal the other is physical. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:41 AM |
| 1 | "assholes dont get laid" and "red pill is a cult" and "feminism vs RP"actions > words They have such massive cognitive dissonance it could plug a supermassive black hole. Everything they say are contradictions. They say one thing, then do another and yet never realize/be aware of it. There are two parts, the conscious part and the hamster. Both are at odds with each other. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Opinions on NoFap?Porn gives the brain the illusion that a man is getting loads of sex with beautiful women... so then the brain stops trying to improve itself and gets weaker and weaker. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:32 AM |
| 3 | Opinions on NoFap?That's exactly it. I was on NoFap for 250+ days when I broke that streak it literally took me less than 10 seconds to cum. And it took several times after that to get back to a long duration. With NoFap you'd blow your load if a fly landed on your shaft. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Opinions on NoFap?The problem is porn. Just like video games retard your desire to go outdoors and explore/hunt/invent, porn retards your ability to interact with the opposite sex. Porn kills your motivation to do this. Your mind goes: "Why go out and work hard to find a real woman who might reject you when you have on-tap hundreds of beautiful naked girl having sex without any fear of rejection, pain, or hurt". People often choose the path of least resistance. Porn is just that, an easy way to get your sexual ne… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Is the Kalergi plan inevitable?Statistically what he's saying doesn't even add up. Most marriages are not interacial. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Is the Kalergi plan inevitable?A closet racist, more like an actual racist. That's pretty clear from the way he describes things. Yeah the world isn't perfect, but it's not some Zionist controlled mind control scheme that everyone keeps trolling on about. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:15 AM |
| 1 | how exactly do you use the redpill info to benefit you?It's absolutely a bigger picture thing for me. An attitude, a mindset. You start see that people treat you entirely different when you present yourself with a rp mentality. It's because the rp is based on science. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:12 AM |
| 6 | Asktrp podcast?I think Rollo does some sort of Podcast same with Roosh-V. And there is The Red Man Group on YouTube. The Black Philip show. Tom Leykis show. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Anybody else here end up making way more gains in the gym when switching to fullbody workouts ?Any chance you could post it? If you are getting results it's likely others here could benefit too. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Anybody else here end up making way more gains in the gym when switching to fullbody workouts ?What's this program called? I'm looking for something similar to a full-body workout. You are doing this 3x a week? What is your diet like? | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:06 AM |
| 6 | Which self-help book impacted your life the most?Being BP is just a strategy in the popular world to win public favor, all politicans do it. It's like the law of power, "be like the others, but think differently". | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 02:51 AM |
| 5 | Which self-help book impacted your life the most?I think the winning trifectra truly is: NNMNG, WISNIFG, and 12 RFL. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 02:49 AM |
| 6 | Which self-help book impacted your life the most?Glad to hear this getting its due praise. JP gets a lot of flack around here, but it's mostly from some of his bp exposure/afflilations. It only takes a little digging to see the RP side of JP. This is especially true in the first few chapters of 12 rfl. JP knows exactly what he's talking about from a deeply psychological level. Many of the people in this forum would be doing themselves a tremendous favor to read his works. His thoughts/ideas are so lucid and clear, I truly love his style of wri… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 02:47 AM |
| 4 | Which self-help book impacted your life the most?It's certainly not rp in the sense of TRM, but it is pro-male and it addresses a fundamental problem that most guys nowadays are completely blind to. A problem which once seen cannot be unseen, it's absolutely a life-changing book if used to its fullest extent. Along with a healthy dose of introspection and self-observation one can reverse course and begin addressing this major problem. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 02:41 AM |
| 1 | In horrible painHe lacks abundance and therefore he overinvests. It's like that. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 01:39 PM |
| 1 | In horrible painYou are whining and in pain because of your stupid oneitis from college. Get over that shit. Game other girls. There is no ONE/SOULMATE... Have you read TRM? She doesn't care about you, is getting her ass licked by your friend and they are married, it's done.. it's dead, accept it and move on. You say you've been reading trp for awhile yet it seems like you've gained no insights or internalized anything. You are hung up on one girl living in her frame. If this person is doing NOTHING for you. An… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 01:35 PM |
| 21 | Is the Kalergi plan inevitable?I think you want to bang Tyrone. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to train your split second wittiness? Especially responses to shit tests.That goes for anyone not just women. If you give someone the power to validate you you also give them the power to take that away and de-validate you and take your happiness away. All happiness should be self-sourced. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 01:12 PM |
| 1 | What to do post-sex?It's true.. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Is this the sad truth about how people treat people who are perceived as weak?I appreciate the insights. This balancing of the nice guy and the asshole and calibrating between them I think is what Robert Glober termed The Integrated Man. For me it does appear at times to be at either one extreme or another. I think this is mostly because I am still feeling out the territory of being NOT a nice guy. When I try on that hat of being a non-NiceGuy it comes off as me being a harsh jerk/asshole. I don't have enough experience to calibrate it yet. I've noticed in myself my behav… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 02:09 AM |
| 1 | What do women like more sex or love?After reading your words a lot of this seems like Game is a biological/evolutionary hack, in that if you understand what ticks those switches you can win this game. Like she is a big box of switches, and by acting a certain way, saying and doing certain things we trigger those switches to go from "off" to "on". Knowing how to flip those switches in the correct configuration is Game, essentially? Saying and doing the right things, dressing and looking a certain way. All act as ways to trigger and… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Where do you find plates?Kitchen | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 11:31 PM |
| 16 | What're the attributes of a top 10% man?Strong social skills. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Alpha podcastsBelieve what you want idc. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Alpha podcastsBro, Just read his books, listen to him on Joe Rogan he drops RPs all over the place. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Get extremely nervous when a girl acts interested and sexual (direct sexual eye contact) flirting feels impossible?It is critical to HOLD that eye contact. Cause most guys will look away and that's when the attraction is lost. What do you think even makes a guy nervous? Seems like a useless evolutionary mechanism. Always thought it might be related to saving you from getting your ass kicked from alpha males. Like if you didn't have that nervousness mechanism you'd just walk up to any girl, but instead you have this nervousness mechanism to make to take a step back and think before you act. If I had to guess … | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Is this the sad truth about how people treat people who are perceived as weak?Any other books you recommend on this? Been listening on and off to NMMNG. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Alpha podcastsIf that's the way you choose to see it. I see it more as a transition people have to go through. It's not BP to RP overnight, there is nuance and shades of grey in the transformation. For some people JP is that entry point into going deeper into the spectrum of RP. It's kinda like how I remember people in high-school first listening to mainstream punk music, then after time they were able to go deeper into the real punk. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Is this the sad truth about how people treat people who are perceived as weak?I don't believe that people are being manipulative when doing that. I think you are projecting yourself into those people. I am sincerely a nice person because it's my natural state. I legitimately have been fighting it for awhile because it's all I know and I've seen how it gets me taken advantage of and shitted on. There is no ulterior motive. I enjoy being nice and kind to people. Some people don't understand this. It's not manipulation. I think a lot of people have your mindset that you are … | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Alpha podcastsHe's bp at times, but that's the only way to get masses of people into things nowadays. People won't listen to shit unless it's bp. He's been able to present himself in a way that's BP while dispensing RPs. It's incredible really that someone like him was able to break into the mainstream. All you are doing is trashing him and not seeing any of the positives in his work. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Is this the sad truth about how people treat people who are perceived as weak?I am legit nice, kind, and friendly to people and people shit on me. It's happened for awhile. And I've noticed the same thing happens to other people who are nice, kind, and friendly. People see that as a weakness and an invitation to attack you. It's open-season on people who have those traits. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Get extremely nervous when a girl acts interested and sexual (direct sexual eye contact) flirting feels impossible?Right. Because her words are lies. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Is this the sad truth about how people treat people who are perceived as weak?I agree with this. Lifting and getting stronger is the only solution. As well as reading and improving mentally. But one can't help but realize how fucked people are when they get their rocks off by picking on people who are nice, kind, and friendly... and then leave people alone who are strong, powerful, mean, and rude. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Alpha podcastsHave you read any of his books? 12 Rules for Life is RP af especially the first few chapters. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Alpha podcastsHe didn't mean chasing pussy. He was saying even learning Game and those types of skills are basically a mental illness. He doesn't promote masculinity as a solution to the problems he covers. Mostly like "here do this instead and stop being a lazy SOB!". | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to train your split second wittiness? Especially responses to shit tests.If you want to be attractive and pass shit tests, there's some basic rules: * Never care, never be flustered * Always remember there are millions of other girls, you have options * Silently walk away from bullshit and drama. * Always be a sexual man * Don't take anything as an attack Would you say that's it in a nutshell for passing shit-test. I very often just get stoic/unreactive/indifferent when they try to shit-test/gaslight me. They will say things designed to evoke emotion responses... I h… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Is there a way to train your split second wittiness? Especially responses to shit tests.It helps a lot. But much like trp as the reading/listening/watching in the world won't beat actual practice/implementation. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 09:15 PM |
| 7 | So... I Approached HerI said to her ,,Hey! I also really like pickles(She was holding pickles)! ….lord have mercy | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Alpha podcastsYou can blame the guy for that one thing he did in the past. He's done plenty of other things which supercedes that. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Alpha podcastsI like Peterson and all but he's not right about everything. He legit said that PUA is a mental illness. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Get extremely nervous when a girl acts interested and sexual (direct sexual eye contact) flirting feels impossible?The problem is absolute truth. Because everyone lies. You'll ask if she was flirting and she will lie (or hamster, same thing really). So it's impossible to know what's a real flirt and what's not because no girl admits this shit. They are constantly lying to themselves, each other, and us guys. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Get extremely nervous when a girl acts interested and sexual (direct sexual eye contact) flirting feels impossible?How do you know she is flirting? What constitutes flirting? | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Get extremely nervous when a girl acts interested and sexual (direct sexual eye contact) flirting feels impossible?What's the indication that she is flirting? | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Correlations between socio-economic factors and frequency of sexual partners?What does that mean "start goal might be the guy at the desk next to you"? What aim is there? To be better than him? What is the metric/measurement that I have achieved better than him? | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Get extremely nervous when a girl acts interested and sexual (direct sexual eye contact) flirting feels impossible?but you don’t know how to act so you try and play it off like she’s being friendly and end up coming off as aloof or awkward. I pretend like it isn't happening or straight up ignore it. It's a self-value/self-worth thing. I don't feel worthy of their flirtations so I react in various ways to self-sabotage it. I don't feel comfortable with myself or where my life currently is, so when a girl acts sexual and flirty I shut myself off, and disengage her. Sometimes this has the opposite effect and ma… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Get extremely nervous when a girl acts interested and sexual (direct sexual eye contact) flirting feels impossible?How exactly are you flirting? What represents flirting. The lines seemed blurred at times. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Get extremely nervous when a girl acts interested and sexual (direct sexual eye contact) flirting feels impossible?are dealing with an uncontrollable physical response and you feel frustrated that you cannot control it. Yes it's this. I see an attractive woman or she gets flirtatious and I become extremely nervous, shy, embarrassed, reserved. What do you mean get psycho-analytic about it? It could be diet related. Virtually everything has processed sugar in it, it's nearly impossible to avoid it nowadays. Each a sandwich from a restaurant, drink a juice, eat a snack. They all have it. How do you truly avoid … | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Get extremely nervous when a girl acts interested and sexual (direct sexual eye contact) flirting feels impossible?Basically GO INTO IT. Going into the feeling/emotion/moment? And see where that leads me. Feels like I am fighting against myself. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 11:52 AM |
| 3 | Is it worth banging a fatty?There's a fat chick there that I'm pretty sure I could lay if I asked her out. However, there are other hotter chicks there that I think I could get to they just haven't made themselves available to me It's always this dynamic at play. The ones that make themselves easily available you don't want, and the ones that don't make themselves available you do you. Had this happen many-a-times. It's frustrating. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Get extremely nervous when a girl acts interested and sexual (direct sexual eye contact) flirting feels impossible?Yep, 250+ days, it's better just doing it a lot less frequent. Reading here and internalizing/practicing what I read helps tremendously more. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 03:02 AM |
| 4 | What's more important looks or game?This has been asked a lot. Each time it's usually Game is king while looks are important. like 75% game and 25% looks in terms of your overall attraction. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Girl i asked out, said "I am not sure if i will be free". How should i act?Always assume attraction, don't give her a reason not to fuck you. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 02:15 AM |
| 1 | I get sex easily but never with pretty/feminine girls. What am I doing wrong?Rarely lateral. Girls date up, men date down. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 01:34 AM |
| 1 | I get sex easily but never with pretty/feminine girls. What am I doing wrong?Well the other part give a bit more detail of "why" he comes off that way. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Anyone seen this - 27% of men 30 yrs or under have never had sexIt's been a little while for me. 1.) I'm at the computer screen a lot, like I want to say 5-8 hours minimum daily. So much so that it hurts me eyes. But that's everyone nowadays? 2.) Porn use is like once or twice (at max) 3.) I haven't been exercising much. 4.) Raised by mom, father was the damn alpha. 5.) I think my situation can be overcome, already seen huge difference by reading and implementing rp principles. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Correlations between socio-economic factors and frequency of sexual partners?I'm actually curious how I got it wrong. Legit want to understand it. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 12:52 AM |
| 1 | I get sex easily but never with pretty/feminine girls. What am I doing wrong?That is advice, if he listens. He comes off as extremely arrogant in a bad way. As well as vain. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 12:51 AM |
| 3 | I get sex easily but never with pretty/feminine girls. What am I doing wrong?Being too smart is actually a negative as strange as it sounds. Once you reach a certain threshold of intelligence it becomes a turn-off for women. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 12:49 AM |
| 1 | I get sex easily but never with pretty/feminine girls. What am I doing wrong?No guy no matter how good looking should think he can coast on his looks alone. That's why game is king. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 12:47 AM |
| 1 | I get sex easily but never with pretty/feminine girls. What am I doing wrong?For a hot head that sounded pretty level headed. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 12:46 AM |
| 10 | I get sex easily but never with pretty/feminine girls. What am I doing wrong?Because there are humble brags littered throughout his post. Top 2% IQ, n-count, poor but goes to rich elite school, is obsessed with all his physical features, has them down to exact details. It's basically like he's saying "I'm better than other people so girls should be throwing themselves at me". It's like he has everything going for him but he still isn't happy, he wants more. Cunt is the perfect description. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Why does redpill believe that looks matter in game?It's getting past the initial interaction that is the hard part. Once you get your foot in the door and can sell yourself to them/interact well (game), they will be all over. Looks matter as far as getting them to interact/give you a chance, but having game and frame make them stay. Women are much more worried about their looks, a mans looks isn't all that important. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 10:26 PM |
| 4 | Why does redpill believe that looks matter in game?Starting to realize this more and more. It's like the words of St.Patrice who said : "The day I realized women aren't us and that they like us for other reasons is the day my problems with women ended" If women judged men like men judged women a lot guys wouldn't stand a chance, but it's not like that. A mans SMV is multivariable, a woman's is single variable. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Correlations between socio-economic factors and frequency of sexual partners?Yeah I think this is true. Not so much with the video games but the pornography for sure. Personally, my worst was 4 times a day for a long period of time. Hours and hours of my time were devoted to it. No surprise that I was pretty depressed too, so porn became a coping mechanism... however because of that I didn't have to address my problems. Now it's either once a day, or once or twice every two days. I don't really know what my problem is. I feel extremely anxious, worried, fearful, and have… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Correlations between socio-economic factors and frequency of sexual partners?A side question to this, how do you beat apathy? I think a lot of guys just feel like giving up and the world is stacked against them. I don't want to sound like some whiny victim. But hell if it isn't difficult as fuck to gain what it takes to be considered high SMV (top%) in todays world. SMV being LMS. Looks being mostly genetic, Money being either balls to the walls hard as fuck work or rich family (basically genetics again), and status being mixed up with your charm/charisma/personality/dom… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Seem to forget everything about trp when I get into a conversation? Can't seem to internalize/implement?I think part of it is talking is so draining and annoying. People just want to get their rocks off and shit. Just listening makes me tired, talking makes me more tired. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls throw themselves at you when you are cocky?Which book? | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Starting my TRP and lifting journey. Am i doing this right?What's RECOMP? I am done with my bulking with protein shakes from 150lbs to 190lbs. Now I'm at the weight I want to be, just got a gut, trying to pack on the muscle. Wondering what programs to use? Got the equipment and all. Keep reading good things about PHUL and nSuns program. Right now I'm just using free weights on my arms. I do 3x10 curls with 20lbs, then 3x10 laterals with the same weights, then I do this curling exercise with my forearm on the bench and just curling my wrists with 10lb we… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Do I "brag" about it?OP not confirming nor denying it. He did gay porn. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Starting over at 30 after being cheated on - should I wait to approach girls again?I don't want to name names just cause. But that was basically it. I am considering it myself as I am in a similar situation. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 04:31 PM |
| 1 | I'm only interested in talking to women since I like their feminine energy. I want guy friends but I can't find the interest in talking to men. How to be genuinely interested in bonding with guys?I think guys that exclusively talk to women are gonna have some serious issues when it comes to dating. No sexual polarity. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 12:03 PM |
| 1 | I'm only interested in talking to women since I like their feminine energy. I want guy friends but I can't find the interest in talking to men. How to be genuinely interested in bonding with guys?That's a very good point. Women bond by talking, men bond by doing things. But men also talk, usually very purposefully-based, like there is some goal/game to it. With women it's emotionally based, talking for the sake of emotions. I'd say men also bond by talking but not in the way women do. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 10:57 AM |
| 1 | For men, the level of motivation for mating doesn't justify the benefits. Evolution screws up men.You go girl. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 10:50 AM |
| 1 | I'm only interested in talking to women since I like their feminine energy. I want guy friends but I can't find the interest in talking to men. How to be genuinely interested in bonding with guys?Acceptance is the first step. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 10:46 AM |
| 1 | For men, the level of motivation for mating doesn't justify the benefits. Evolution screws up men.No. Actual accuracy. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 10:44 AM |
| 4 | I'm only interested in talking to women since I like their feminine energy. I want guy friends but I can't find the interest in talking to men. How to be genuinely interested in bonding with guys?You are laughable. The majority of people find you useless which is why you don't already have bros. Sounds like you need a dick in the butt to bond with. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 10:38 AM |
| 1 | For men, the level of motivation for mating doesn't justify the benefits. Evolution screws up men.A bitchy woman | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 10:36 AM |
| 1 | For men, the level of motivation for mating doesn't justify the benefits. Evolution screws up men.You're an asshole. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 09:17 AM |
| 14 | I'm only interested in talking to women since I like their feminine energy. I want guy friends but I can't find the interest in talking to men. How to be genuinely interested in bonding with guys?I want the benefit of having guy friends (security, protection, support, cooperation) wtf are you a woman? YOU sound feminine af | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Seem to forget everything about trp when I get into a conversation? Can't seem to internalize/implement?I don't think it's just that. I use to have long conversations on the phone with women and I was just miserable. It's something more. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Girl stares at me shamelessly for two months, we meet organically, mentions her boyfriendWho knows man, I sure as fuck don't. Go with your gut. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Seem to forget everything about trp when I get into a conversation? Can't seem to internalize/implement?I do a lot of small-talk but not many long conversations. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 03:31 AM |
| 4 | Girl stares at me shamelessly for two months, we meet organically, mentions her boyfriendAah it's the way they just slip it in there too, like it's just part of the conversation. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Seem to forget everything about trp when I get into a conversation? Can't seem to internalize/implement?I think it's like a self-confidence thing. Like deep down I am not proud of who I am, and that comes across in conversations. I remember St.Patrice saying something that stood out to be about his mindset he said: "I give them no choice but to like me, I make being a fat motherfucker the shit". I do all this reading but it still doesn't seem to fix these underlying insecurities, irrational fears, inhibitions, toxic shame. I understand that women aren't like us, and women love anything with a sens… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Starting over at 30 after being cheated on - should I wait to approach girls again?Already got the A+ cert? That's one of the harder certs to get. Now just get your security+, network+, and CNAA. There was a fellow on here who had those four and started out making $60k right off the get-go and then within 6months was making $80k. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Are guys actually afraid to approach 9s and 10s?Yup. They'd have you believe they don't get approached... lies. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Crab bucket mentality with close friend.moved to Alabama from Oregon I left to find better opportunity for myself something in that sentence doesn't make sense. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Seem to forget everything about trp when I get into a conversation? Can't seem to internalize/implement?I mean it's a handbook/manual, like if one wanted to work on a car he'd read the manual to fix it. So this should be like a blue-print. I talk to girls but it never seems to go well. Again, I forget all the rules and ideas discussed here. I freeze up and go blank. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Been residing in china a while...can somebody clarify that not all of the pretty women OUTSIDE of china are basically prostitutes? (Because the prettiest mainland chinese women tend to be. If I was extremely financially wealthy, it would be more fun here)Shenzhen is a first-tier city ofc it's going to be difficult. HK girls are gold-diggers from everything I've read. You need to go to lower tier cities. Guessing you are teaching english? | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 04:36 PM |
| 1 | "dating gets better for most guys in their 30s"Also where do you go where people aren't within miles of you? Camping? | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 04:33 PM |
| 1 | "dating gets better for most guys in their 30s"Moves 14 times in 10 years. You mean you'd work one job, be there for x amount of time, then you'd research and find out they aren't paying you the going rate and the job over in y state is paying 2times what z job is paying you, so you move there and re-establish yourself. I'm guessing you don't have any kids? I'd find it quite hard on the mind, body, and soul to keep moving around like that. Did you basically move from x to y and then open up Tinder, change he location, and start gaming in a n… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 04:30 PM |
| 3 | "dating gets better for most guys in their 30s"Some questions: 1.) How to you build charisma? Or is it something innate? I can be quite social, but it goes "on" and "off" some days I am in-the-zone, other days I just want to be left alone and sleep. 2.) How do you keep the energy going? I am a introvert-type so I need time along to re-charge my batteries. However, I am motivated to increase my social presence. I always seem to run into the AMOG type when I am opening a set or just chatting it up. Some guy will come along and want to either… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 04:06 PM |
| 5 | "dating gets better for most guys in their 30s"Most guys in their twenties are a mess. Still learning, insecure, skinny-fat, no confidence. It's rare to find a guy who truly has his shit together in his twenties. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 03:58 PM |
| 2 | "dating gets better for most guys in their 30s"The attraction comes down to your maturity (including your Game). A lot of the girls I know that say they date older guys are referring to guys >30 who have their shit together financially, are mature, and a biggie is knowing how to have fun. Remember: Girls Just Wanna Have Fun They ain't lying.. Girls in their late teens and twenties are especially like this. Being a man who is mature, financially safe (stability), and knows how to press those buttons (fun and excitement buttons) goes a long wa… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do women try to provoke men?What the hell is Food Law? That sounds made up. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 03:33 PM |
| 6 | Why do women try to provoke men?Shit-tests and attention/validation. By them messing with you they get an emotional high from it. And you give way too many fucks. Let me guess, you work in retail? | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 01:13 PM |
| 14 | Is it just me or are 9/10s so much more pleasant to be around?why tho | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Are dry streaks normal?Well w/e you get the point. Drop the dead-weight and go for the gusto. Remove those buffers and find the substance. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 02:41 AM |
| 9 | How to handle ASD before first dateYour convo is cringy af. You are overinvesting.... You're doing most the talking and she's just nodding along. There should be a balance. There is also no IDGAF attitude there. You seem very concerned about what she thinks of you (approval seeking behavior). You're sending consecutive texts (4 in a row... ). You've become her emotional tampon for her to throw all her ex-bf non-sense about onto. That's not the position you want to be in. Please tell me you are 17 or something. This conversation s… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Are dry streaks normal?Rollo talks about this. He called them buffers. Things we do to buffer potential rejection. Like having female friends are just buffers for rejection, by not making a move on them. It's all about overcoming your fear of rejection. 90% of AFCs concerns come from female rejection of intimacy. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 02:28 AM |
| 3 | How did i fk up this tinder convo ?Receptive and responsive to your advances. Good. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Are dry streaks normal?By definition yes they are, as hard as it is for you to believe. 1/3 of men haven't have sex for 1 year or more. Most are just unaware of what's happening. You haven't adapted to your environment (i.e. stronger, faster, better than your competition). | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 02:17 AM |
| 9 | There seems to be a lot of negativity toward women here. Why I disagree with that negativity.What's your question? | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Are dry streaks normal?The squeaky wheel gets the grease. You miss every shot you don't shoot. If you don't try, don't expect results. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Are dry streaks normal?Incel by definition is involuntary celebrate, nothing more. All the other stuff are just associations/stereotypes of incel. Just look at by its definition not its stereotype. That's like saying all Muslims are extremists. The ones you are speaking about are just the vocal minority of incels, the majority don't even really realize they are incel like you. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Are dry streaks normal?Yeah, the stat was posted by The Washington Post and few other news outlets. It was making the rounds a few days ago on the manosphere. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Are dry streaks normal?Fitness, fashion, lifestyle, and a huge aspect is being social. Having fantastic social skills is a huge turn on for most women. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 12:52 AM |
| 6 | Are dry streaks normal?The term incel has a lot of negative connotations. I am not saying you are one of those loser incels, just it is what it is. There are more incels now than ever in the history of dating. So just keep that note in mind. Dating apps have destroyed the dating market making it harder for an average guy to get a lay. That's why 1/3 of men are incel. Incel being haven't had sex for a year or more. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 12:49 AM |
| 5 | Are dry streaks normal?Social Media and dating apps. That's why 1/3 men are incel. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 12:37 AM |
| 4 | Took a girl for drinks and now she doesn’t replyShe tested him with the eye-contact and dancing too... waiting for him to make the move. So when he failed to esclate kino on the dancefloor she got the hell outta there. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Took a girl for drinks and now she doesn’t replyDon't do the steps like a calculus problem, let it be as smooth and natural a progression as possible. If you try to follow it like steps for a math problem you'll just come off as socially uncalibrated. Do what feels right in the moment, improvize and experiement. There are no hard and fast rules. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Took a girl for drinks and now she doesn’t replyDon't wait for her to make the first move. You lead. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Took a girl for drinks and now she doesn’t replyDon't put the meat in the oven before pre-heating it. Gold. He bored her and didn't add to the excitement. She dances, he stares... ofc she wasn't going to be interested in him after that display of un-confidence. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 02:49 PM |
| 5 | Took a girl for drinks and now she doesn’t replyMy thoughts exactly. He bored her because he didn't escalate. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Took a girl for drinks and now she doesn’t replyBecause you are boring. You just observed her while she dances and didn't partake in any of the fun or add to the excitement. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 02:46 PM |
| 2 | I was getting outplayed at dinner and felt helpless to do anything about it.oneitis | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Younger girl I cold approached asking me how old I amI was adopted no one knows. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Is this a type of shit-test? when they try to make you sweet, nice, and sensitive?castrate ya | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Where do I meet hot girls? They’re basically impossible to findJournaling. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 03:31 AM |
| 2 | is it beta to ask a girl if she ever liked u before? (havent spoken in a while and use to be close)It's beta to ask if something is beta. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 03:05 AM |
| 1 | What's the evolutionary advantage of mating with an attractive woman?Lolz | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Cockblocked at the gym tonight. What should I have done differently?Needs to wear slim fit tees like the ones at H&M, the one he is wearing isn't hugging his body, looks lose af like one of those cheapo Wal-Mart 12 packs. But damn gotta say.. he's really rockin that hillbilly look... mhmmm you got that look where you would cry under enough pressure. Saying OP a soy boy? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 02:58 AM |
| 1 | What's the evolutionary advantage of mating with an attractive woman?Sexual selection is evolutionary. And beauty is based on fertility and symmetric faces. Offspring will also share those traits. I addressed your question directly. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 02:55 AM |
| 14 | What is the purpose of life if AWALT?Women are sluts who act like they aren't sluts. You are making your entire life about women... find a passion, find a hobby, find male friends. You are the prize, not them. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 02:53 AM |
| 1 | What's the evolutionary advantage of mating with an attractive woman?Attraction for a woman is based on her fertility (breasts, hip to waist ratio), as well as universal beauty like symmetric face. Mating with a woman like this means the children will also share similar features and thus have a better survival/lives. Beauty at its core to a female is a survival trait it's why they obsess over it. It all comes down to biology. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Cockblocked at the gym tonight. What should I have done differently?Noticed that too. Pants look like they are semi-falling off. I legit want to go up to guys and tell them how awful this looks when I see it. Like lord almighty dude... why would you think it's a good look to wear saggy jeans? Dude needs to grow a full beard too. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Done a bit of experimenting with tinder, here's what i've foundProbably knew it was fake. Did a cat-fish profile as an experiment. You'd be surprised at how well women are at detecting fake shit, like detectives using reverse image search (prolly from watching all those TrueCrime shows). | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 02:37 AM |
| 15 | Fucked on first date - crying during sex - soft next?That's when you pull out that 12inch python. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Cockblocked at the gym tonight. What should I have done differently?Pee on him next time he tries this kinda shit. Then get them digits! | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 02:15 AM |
| 35 | Fucked on first date - crying during sex - soft next?Then she's just more emotional than she realizes. Actions not words. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 02:15 AM |
| 4 | Cockblocked at the gym tonight. What should I have done differently?He supplicated/validated the guy. He didn't amused-master the situation. He was being too nice to the girl and not teasing her enough. He gave his power away and made things too easy. Her: Can you do this for me? Him: YES! OF COURSE!! He should have resisted and made it more difficult to get his help and attention (neediness/seeking female approval/attention). Don't be polite to assholes, but also don't pick fights you can't win. Absolutely. He just sounds like your typical doesn't know how to h… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 02:07 AM |
| 4 | Cockblocked at the gym tonight. What should I have done differently?You should have got his number. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 02:02 AM |
| 78 | Fucked on first date - crying during sex - soft next?St.Patrice covered this, basically she has some fucked up trauma (rape or something similar) or is just more emotional than the average chick. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Cockblocked at the gym tonight. What should I have done differently?he insults you and you compliment him?.. Damn he's probably plowing her right now. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Where do I meet hot girls? They’re basically impossible to findYou may think that now. However, body dysmorphia is a serious problem, and it might go a lot deeper than you actually realize. You might not realize how all the pieces fit together. We often have lack of insight into what our internal worlds are actually like. Or maybe I am wrong here. Just a suggestion. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 01:46 AM |
| 4 | Managed to get a date with a woman that could pass for my mom. HelpLike roast beef... old roast beef | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Managed to get a date with a woman that could pass for my mom. Helpwut.. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 01:36 AM |
| -1 | How to win with a-hole AMOG @ work - feedback welcomePiss on him | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 01:35 AM |
| 1 | I'm an idiot and don't know what getting told to "grow up" meansPee on them | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 01:34 AM |
| 5 | Girls my age in (high school) think that I'm too intellectual. * Not trying to gloat but girls always imply that I'm weird for not caring about things normal for my age eg. Sports, drugs, overall banter, etc.. Thoughts?Pee on them | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 01:34 AM |
| 5 | Went back to university, insecure when confronted with questions about it.Rollo started at 32, who cares. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 01:33 AM |
| 0 | How to deal with people bashing your looks:] | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 01:28 AM |
| 0 | How to deal with people bashing your looksReference? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 01:06 AM |
| 2 | How to look more intimidatingWhy exactly is this bad advice? He gave solid adive to keep OP safe and not do somethings stupid. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 12:31 AM |
| 1 | How to look more intimidatingCongrats on being an endorsed contributor of the beta horde! | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 12:26 AM |
| 1 | How to look more intimidatingRunning is good. But if you can't run and it's one on one you can then at least limit ones range of movements and choke someone out. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Where do I meet hot girls? They’re basically impossible to findMy man likes'em young | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Where do I meet hot girls? They’re basically impossible to findhave you seen a therapist? I'm quite certain they could open some doors man. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Where do I meet hot girls? They’re basically impossible to findCause you truly don't give a fuck. This guys problem is he cares too much and isn't convinced he is good enough. It's a self-esteem/self-confidence/self-image thing. Everyone in the world could tell him he's good enough but it doesn't mean shit if you don't think it yourself. You've gotta be your own best friend, that's something I think you've done but I think a lot of guys struggle with. Positive self-image I believe is critical to Game. This might even be an issue with certain personality-typ… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Where do I meet hot girls? They’re basically impossible to findEgo. Perfectionist. How you think about yourself > all. You can be Brad Pitt but if your self-image is shit everyone around you will feel the same. All in all very weak frame. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 11:58 PM |
| 1 | How do you eat clean?Pork is awful for you same with red meat. Fish and chicken are way healthier. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Is this a type of shit-test? when they try to make you sweet, nice, and sensitive?Is betaization a shit-test? The whole luring guys into traps to see if they will take the bait "be nice, be sweet, be sensitive", they act like what we are attracted to is what we find attractive about them. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Escalate With Average Chick for Experience?I second the other poster, do it if you are attracted, don't if you aren't. You will both end up feeling shitty afterwards. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 11:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you eat clean?Yeah I will have to read up on this more. I enjoy fish and chicken, not big on red meat. I think I'll cook up some fish and chicken with lemon and lime, and some spices. And follow that up with fruits and veggies. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 10:59 PM |
| 2 | How do you eat clean?Is there a certain kind of chicken? fish/ red meat? Also how do you cook this stuff right? I've never been able to cook this stuff right, it never tastes as good as just going to a fast food place. I'm thinking I really need to learn to cook if I want to eat clean... | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 10:28 PM |
| 2 | How do you eat clean?That breakfast and lunch sounds unhealthy, except the salad. Dinner sounds good though. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 10:24 PM |
| 3 | The sexual revolution and things similar benefits the top 20% of men and 80% of women, the rest suffer in silence?I'm really starting to understand that whole line "it's not difficult to be in the top 20%"... Just looking around me there is a lot of low-tier men. I mean straight up fat, unkempt, socially awkward. You can really see the 80% when you are rp-aware. I'd say (non-arrogantly) that I am generally the best looking guy/highest status guy in most situations. There are plenty of times that I get AMOGGED ofc. But on average I'd say I'm doing better than a lot of other guys I see. I'd say I'm in the 4th… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 08:49 PM |
| 2 | How do you eat clean?Where do you even get good foods like this? All the food I seem to find is all non-organic. And anything expensive like Whole Foods is expensive af. What are the alternatives? What clean foods are you eating specifically? Such as veggies, meats, proteins, fats, carbs. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 08:43 PM |
| 7 | Question about "Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved"We want to be loved unconditionally for who we are. There aren't any no-string-attached relationship. Her love for you is based on the value you give. The way you love her is not the way she loves you. She can only experience the love you have for her, not give it back to you. Love to her is the love you give. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 08:38 PM |
| 4 | Long nofap streak and needinessGot mine up close to this guy 250, when I fapped it literally took 5 seconds. If anything it made me oversensitive to stimulation. Eventually got back to normal but the first few times lasted up 10 seconds. Dopamine addiciton is the problem. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 08:37 PM |
| 21 | Weirdest cockblock everSounds like the ultimate alpha to me. You got a pack following your lead. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 08:35 PM |
| 4 | How to respond to a guy in my friend group who challenges me or asks questions like “what would u do if I hit you in the back of the head” I assume he’s trying to evoke a reaction or seem cool in front of the group. But I just don’t know which way to respond? Aggressively or passively?No. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 08:32 PM |
| 7 | How to respond to a guy in my friend group who challenges me or asks questions like “what would u do if I hit you in the back of the head” I assume he’s trying to evoke a reaction or seem cool in front of the group. But I just don’t know which way to respond? Aggressively or passively?This is the right answer. Flip the script. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 08:31 PM |
| 6 | How to look more intimidatingJordan Peterson covered this quite well in 12 Rules for Life. You essentially have to become tough/strong in order to avoid fights. The less tough/strong you are the more people will try to push you. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 08:30 PM |
| 4 | How to look more intimidatingI'd say being past 60 is prime age for being robbed. At 17 your are basically on gear and can easily escape, have smartphone etc. You aren't an easy target at 17. To look more intimidating you got to lift constantly and do bjj. Take more risks and put yourself in difficult situations and navigate/maneuver your way out. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 08:28 PM |
| 1 | A bit of a field report, but no successWhat mean? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 07:22 PM |
| 1 | A bit of a field report, but no successWait who the hell is he to be saying this shit? Does he own her? What is this shit | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 07:21 PM |
| 2 | A bit of a field report, but no successThe other dudes don't respect you, see you as lower value and thus proceed to convince the girl you are of low value and they are of high value. Basically trying to steal her attention from you. Cockblock city definitely. It's just part of the game. Maintain frame and proceed. "Hey X, I see everything!" What was meant by this? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Going to Asia as a sex tourist?The whole run just by white game or things like that reminds me of guys who don't want to learn to fish... so they just get a stick of dynamite and throw it into a pond. It's not going to help you learn anything. Just like putting in cheat codes into a video game won't help you get better at the game. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 06:41 PM |
| 1 | How to stop changing my behavior(approval seeking) when attractive women are around?But aren't I trying to impress them when I put on IDGAF + prize + abundance mentalities? At the end of the day aren't I doing this to get them? This is what I don't get, it's like I am doing two contradictory things putting on a mentality to get them but then acting like I am not trying to get them. IT IS ALL FOR YOU! We are the kings, brother. WE ARE THE BETTER SEX. What is attractive, is a man who thinks of himself as a prize. A man who is self-assured. I need to internalize this fact. I have … | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 05:26 PM |
| 4 | I saw photos of this girl naked posted by a friend of herBecause you think she is hot and special. She isn't. It's just the way men are wired. That, and you lack abundance and other options. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 05:25 PM |
| 1 | The sexual revolution and things similar benefits the top 20% of men and 80% of women, the rest suffer in silence?Right, but what does that encompass? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | The sexual revolution and things similar benefits the top 20% of men and 80% of women, the rest suffer in silence?But what is Game? Is it being able to talk the talk? Situational awareness? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | The sexual revolution and things similar benefits the top 20% of men and 80% of women, the rest suffer in silence?There are losers who are confident as fuck, it is all the in perception of yourself and your worth. Yep, I've known a few of these dudes. They have multiple kids, they are unrealistically confident, and cocky-funny. And just lure them in with their words while basically being a bum. Craziest thing I've ever seen. I should start hanging around those guys again just for learning, they actually make me depressed at times. What in TRP/PUA gives you game? Is it the mentalities is it the scripts/canne… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 04:50 PM |
| 5 | The sexual revolution and things similar benefits the top 20% of men and 80% of women, the rest suffer in silence?You basically cannot be average now. The stanards are excessively higher because social media allows them to isolate and fuck only Chads. And Chads will fuck and validate them because men have a quantity strategy while women have a quality strategy. Chad will have a soft-harem of equivlanet beta girls. Alpha chick (HB7-10), will have a harem of beta guys (80%) for validation but will only fuck alpha (20%). Alpha dude, will have a harem of beta girls (80%) and will fuck all of them and disregard … | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 04:43 PM |
| 8 | The sexual revolution and things similar benefits the top 20% of men and 80% of women, the rest suffer in silence?Is this basically why women are on their phones 24/7 now. They are glued to their phones. Because this is where all their validation comes from and where she can isolate the absolute alpha from the masses of betas? Like a needle in a haystack. Constantly sifting through them. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 04:22 PM |
| 1 | The sexual revolution and things similar benefits the top 20% of men and 80% of women, the rest suffer in silence?What about just coming off as confident? Also what's your definition of Game? Everyone one here says you have to have Game. But what is Game? Right, getting laid is just a byproduct. Having an awesome life is the overall goal. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 04:18 PM |
| 1 | I think I realized my biggest barrier.. I can talk to girls somewhat like friends but I’m terrified of showing interest and I don’t know how to do so correctlyYes, you have to go into the pain. Move into the fear, not resist it. Facing it is the only way to conquer and move past it, at least become comfortable with it. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Is this a type of shit-test? when they try to make you sweet, nice, and sensitive?Poison dripping? I agree, resist and remain alpha, despite all their positive reinforcements for beta and negative reinforcement for alpha. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 04:09 PM |
| 4 | The sexual revolution and things similar benefits the top 20% of men and 80% of women, the rest suffer in silence?I've been reading a lot of philosophy from the past. Changes your understanding of how the world has changed. Masculinity is in crisis/danger right now. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | The sexual revolution and things similar benefits the top 20% of men and 80% of women, the rest suffer in silence?Other than lifting and dressing with style what else can I do to bump myself into the elite percentile? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 04:05 PM |
| 1 | The sexual revolution and things similar benefits the top 20% of men and 80% of women, the rest suffer in silence?Yeah I've been thinking along these lines too. Life is what you CHOOSE it to be. You make your own life consciously and unconsciously. If you really wanted something you would have already taken the steps to achieve it. It's really all thoughts. You design your own life. No one is holding you back from an awesome life but you. Basically, an alpha is a winner and a beta is a loser. Most beta guys i know IRL are extremely resistant to change/getting out of their comfort zone That's me in a nutshel… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 04:04 PM |
| 1 | My looksLow self-confidence, self-esteem, and belief in self is your problem. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Lack of sleep weakens frame?Make you cranky, puts your in a weak frame of mind. Everything is hurt when you don't get enough sleep of course frame would weaken. No good is going to come from lack of sleep. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 03:59 PM |
| 1 | How are women naturally on the "I'm the prize" mentality 24/7?What's a good job? What's good money? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 03:54 PM |
| 2 | This girl I see in the bus every few days...When you overthink/overanalyze the situation your kill your Game and any attraction she has of you. You truly got to not give a fuck what she or others think. Otherwise you'll be nervous and break frame. Internalize the ideas here. Watch tons of PUA videos. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Handsome and fit White male, although not extremely monetarily wealthy, and been residing in china for months. In china it seems possible more women do prostitution than normal dating. Which is maybe great for a fat wealthy pile of crap male, but hasn't been great for ME. Advice?Probably just adventuring and teaching English like most white guys do. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Handsome and fit White male, although not extremely monetarily wealthy, and been residing in china for months. In china it seems possible more women do prostitution than normal dating. Which is maybe great for a fat wealthy pile of crap male, but hasn't been great for ME. Advice?Run just be white game? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Accepted a new job, need some sense talked into meAlways a pain in the ass for everyone, in the beginning. But yeah OP will get use to how things work. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Accepted a new job, need some sense talked into meWhat's the problem? Afraid of success? Afraid of the work load that will be upon you? Sounds like you are making the right choice. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 03:05 PM |
| 6 | This girl I see in the bus every few days...You are overthinking and male hamster-ing beyond belief. All this mental chatty kills any confidence and Game you would have. Ever notice the guys with the best Game don't look like they care, nor are trying or thinking about it? They just do it... they don't think about it. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 03:04 PM |
| 1 | How important are facial expression in terms of your frame?But what if my stance, mindset, and worldview isn't attractive? What if my personality isn't attractive? The whole "just be yourself" mantra never helped me. It was only when I actively tried to change myself and do things I otherwise wouldn't do is when I began seeing different reactions/results from people. A stoic facial expression to me conjures of images of like the Godfather Don from The Godfather, just neutral or a little pissed-off looking. resting dick face. That's me! | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 02:44 PM |
| 2 | How important are facial expression in terms of your frame?SS-man? What's that? If you mean a Nazi, then yes I have a similar expression. Very sullen and partially anger and a little depressed. Like I have a dead stare. It doesn't seem to attract them, some seem to find it attractive. Depends on the girl. Some like a scowl others like a smirk. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 02:41 PM |
| 1 | How to stop changing my behavior(approval seeking) when attractive women are around?How do I demonstrate that I am the prize without it looking like I am doing it for her. There is this dynamic I don't understand, where basically we are and aren't doing things for them. Meaning, we hold frame, IDGAF mentality, abundance mentality, prize mentality... we do all this FOR THEM, so how is it not supplicating them or playing into their frame? If I am putting on all these mentalities isn't it essentially me being controlled by them? I am doing all this shit for them to get their atten… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 02:40 PM |
| 1 | How To Deal With Cognitive DissonanceWhat exactly are you seeing differently now than before? Is it more of an experience or are you seeing things entirely differently? If you could explain this that would be great. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Need some advice on how I can develop self control.It's the only way. And it's not easy. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 02:47 AM |
| 1 | How to stop changing my behavior(approval seeking) when attractive women are around?"Mode One" by Allan Rogger Currie Thanks I'll read/audiobook it. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Good characters to follow like Patrice o Neal?Dante was pretty on point a few times. Always got annoyed when Patrice wouldn't let him talk. Dante would drop nukes at times while Patrice was more a steady stream machine gun style. Haven't listened to the Beige Philip Show but I'd imagine it's good too. Check out Tom Leykis he has things figured out too. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Good characters to follow like Patrice o Neal?Patrice was on another level. He was able to connect all the dots. I've never seen a man who could dissect them in a matter of a minute and leave them absolutely speechless and horny. He was truly a unique guy in that. Countless lessons I've learned from him. One was: You're better than them, never forget it! I think the problem you are running into is that what you heard from St.Patrice was his authentic personality, not some script. You trying to implement Patrice's style is going to be tough … | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 02:23 AM |
| 1 | How to handle a chick that seems to be trying to act like she is a wannabe dom instead of full sub? (Her BJ efforts are good, but she was pissed and sent a gif of a woman with a strap-on when negotiating the third port)Shit-test city right there... you navigate yourself out of that with amused mastery/self-amused. Don't take any of her shit seriously. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice on how I can develop self control.Willpower. Do what you tell yourself you are going to do. No excuses. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 06:40 PM |
| 10 | I think I realized my biggest barrier.. I can talk to girls somewhat like friends but I’m terrified of showing interest and I don’t know how to do so correctlyAll guys do because there is the fear of rejection and hurt. There is an art to it. It's escalating her to the next level from friends to something romantic. You have to build attraction and sexualize the interaction. And even then you could crash and burn, just have to accept that things could either go your way or not. Outcome Independence + Abundance Mentality + Prize Mentality + IDGAF Mentality helps a lot with this. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 06:36 PM |
| 19 | I think I realized my biggest barrier.. I can talk to girls somewhat like friends but I’m terrified of showing interest and I don’t know how to do so correctlyYou are scared of what other people will think of you. You have phobias, irrational fears, and anxiety. Realize that these walls are self-created. I have this problem too... it's taking it a step further. Being 'just friends' is safe, no pressure/stress, no fear of rejection. When you take it a step further that's when you head into the unknowns, that's where you might get rejected...that's where fear is, that's where hurt is. We all know that women will be friends with lots of guys, but she wil… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | How to stop changing my behavior(approval seeking) when attractive women are around?It's almost like I have a female perspective. Like I see things like a woman does and she is the man. It's fucked badly. My mind operates with the gender roles reversed. I fucking hate this shit. I am internalizing it, I read trp everyday and I keep the ideas in my head all day. For years I use to think men and women were the same... no more, I see the difference more and more each day. Am seeing past all the MSM, BP-brainwashing. I have been around weak beta men and strong soul-crushing women m… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 06:14 PM |
| -1 | Should I cuck this guy?Why are you dealing with this thot? screw her if you want but I wouldn't. FTOW. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?Technology has made men lazy, afraid to act, docile, and nice. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | How to stop changing my behavior(approval seeking) when attractive women are around?I have diagnosed myself with hsp (highly-sensitive person). I can take on the emotions of others. When they feel happy I feel happy, when they feel sad I feel sad. It's like a wave of emotions 24/7, and I feel drained. Also feels like I have no control over how I feel because I am constantly concerned with how others are feeling. I need to go against the grain. Like girl says "I like x", and I say "I can't stand x, I prefer y". Not exactly like that of course, but to that effect. Not just agreei… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 03:46 PM |
| 1 | How to stop changing my behavior(approval seeking) when attractive women are around?Would you say to some extent Prize Mentality is like telling yourself "I am enough" "I am the most valuable person in this relationship". Not needing female approval. How is prize mentality different from IDGAF mentality? Frame appears to possess Prize + IDGAF mentality. I definitely worry too much about HER and what she thinks about me. Not if she is up to my standards. My mindset is all up her ass, the "She's the Prize" mentality. No wonder they act the ways they do, I know I see a lot of othe… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 02:51 PM |
| 2 | How to stop changing my behavior(approval seeking) when attractive women are around?Why the hell do us guys do this? I've noticed it from other NiceGuys too. Thinking we are going to nice our way into their panties. It's such a terrible strategies. I'm thinking it's from years of BP-media, raised by single-mom, and years in the female-dominated school-system. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 02:49 PM |
| 4 | How to stop changing my behavior(approval seeking) when attractive women are around?Thanks. I see the value of Prize mentality in this now. Being the Prize is being proud of yourself, who you are, and all that you are. It's like your self-esteem and self-confidence. Being happy to be you because you are the prize. The prize wouldn't try to change his personality to appease or gain the approval of others. He'd just do what the fuck he wants because that's what he wants to do. And then that goes into internalizing DGAF mentality, just not caring anymore about what people think ab… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 03:20 AM |
| 3 | How am I doing? Too strong? (Tinder texts)"well, what time are you free?" Came off as emotional, needy, pushy, and breaking frame. Stop with the Lols. You gotta stop letting her lead you around. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 01:01 AM |
| 3 | I care about them. They dont even think...Also read the No More Mr.Nice Guy. You are falling into the trap of Covert Contracts. Basically you expect people to do things in return for you when you do nice things, world doesn't work that way buddy. People are selfish af, accept and move on. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 12:27 AM |
| 1 | I care about them. They dont even think...When they have hard time and are depressed, im the one by their side. Helping them out. Taking them out when they are depressed and bored. Why the hell would you do this? But they never initiate shit. Cause you add no value. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Knowing women’s true nature (they will cheat on you the second they can, looks are essentially all that matters etc) how are you all still interested in them?Bravo on that explanation of AWALT. Gun analogy is on point. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Knowing women’s true nature (they will cheat on you the second they can, looks are essentially all that matters etc) how are you all still interested in them?You think they care about looks as much as men do, they don't. They don't know what they want, we have to show them what they want. Your issue is that of being able to take the lead, take-charge/control of her. Generating tingles is what game is all about. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Knowing women’s true nature (they will cheat on you the second they can, looks are essentially all that matters etc) how are you all still interested in them?You're thinking about this all wrong, women will sleep with guys who have no money and are ugly but can generate tingles. It is ALWAYS transactional in some way shape or form. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 11:25 PM |
| 1 | "No Hookups": Why do women say that?ASD. No other answers needed that's all it is. This question has been posted a million times before. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Knowing women’s true nature (they will cheat on you the second they can, looks are essentially all that matters etc) how are you all still interested in them?Keep telling yourself that and you'll stay a virgin forever. Broaden your eyes, there are countless ugly guys dated good looking women, but not for no reason. They like these guys for other reasons. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Knowing women’s true nature (they will cheat on you the second they can, looks are essentially all that matters etc) how are you all still interested in them?Da Patrice line gives it more street-cred. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 10:55 PM |
| 1 | What do women like more sex or love?The norms you had been taught are not the universal BP norms on all countries. They are only the arbitrary norms imposed on the culture you were born and educated. Biological instinct is universal. BP norms are not. I am becoming more angry and resentful thinking about this. The brainwashing. Being taught ways/behaviors that aren't effective at life/dating. Not just with women but with business and friends. I don't feel respected by anyone, anywhere I go. Maybe I am taking this much too serious,… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Knowing women’s true nature (they will cheat on you the second they can, looks are essentially all that matters etc) how are you all still interested in them?You have to have others things going for you. That's the line of wisdom Patrice always gave "The second I realized women like men for other reasons is the day my problems with women ended". If you are an ugly motherfucker you can't afford to be some wallflower with no humor or money. Women care way more about what a man is than what he looks like. It's fucking apathy causing this 1/3 of men not getting sex for years. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Knowing women’s true nature (they will cheat on you the second they can, looks are essentially all that matters etc) how are you all still interested in them?Perfect example: St.Patrice Oneal. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 10:15 PM |
| 4 | Knowing women’s true nature (they will cheat on you the second they can, looks are essentially all that matters etc) how are you all still interested in them?negative SMV got damn! didn't know it could go into the negative | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Any ugly guys/incels “ascend”?Grow a beard bro | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?Technology has hindered mens social skills to the point of social retardation. And technology has made it easier for females to isolate Chads and disregard anything less. It's these too factors. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 09:06 PM |
| 5 | Where do I meet hot girls? They’re basically impossible to findYou are not really trying. Probably like everything else in your life. You are frustrated, angry and upset. But you don't have the willpower to make changes in your life. ^This is it right here. Trp means nothing if you don't internalize and implement what you read. It's just mental masturbation. People cry and moan about how terrible their lives are all the time, but then you see that they aren't actually putting in any effort to change their current situation. You truly got to elevate yourself… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Where do I meet hot girls? They’re basically impossible to findI know we've chatted before. See a therapist when you can. Also consider PUA training as a last resort if your approach anxiety is that bad. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?Good stuff. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?Interesting. Is indifference the same as IDGAF mentality? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?From the 80s to today what have you seen as something that consistently works on women to get in the lay? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 04:51 AM |
| 7 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?Dating has NEVER been like this. With dating app tools allowing them to select Chad like a bigmac at the drive-thru. MSM reinforcing land manatees to keep chasing Chad for the long-term and disregard the beta average guys. As well as feminism pedestalling all women as pure goddesses and men as complete trash/servants. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?The stats don't back you up on that. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 04:40 AM |
| 4 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?I've been wondering what dating was like in the 80s... must have been a magical time where people actually spoke face to face. Game still applied back then of course... dating rules are much more complex it appears. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?Have you seen a doctor about the ED specifically? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?There are plenty of dudes getting good looking babes that are obese. I see it all the time. Ffs look at St.Patrice O'Neal if his fatass took care of himself we might still have him here, but that didn't stop him from getting a high n-count. It's male hamster-ing, men getting lazier/apathetic about the dating world. I'll give that the apathy has probably increased a lot more due to more complex dating rules, but cmon, step it up guys! | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Any ugly guys/incels “ascend”?Thats kinda true, they rate some people ridiculously hard and just straight trash on them. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Any ugly guys/incels “ascend”?What makes you ugly? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 04:10 AM |
| 5 | Is this amused mastery?That's self-amused not amused mastery. AM is a response to shit-tests and other shit life throws at you. Like "hmmm isn't this funny this is happening to me". | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 04:04 AM |
| 2 | What’s your go to for getting a her jealous?By wanting to make her jealous she is controlling you, and thus you are living in her frame. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 03:59 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with feelings of inferiority and insecurity?You sound like Gary from The Last American Virgin. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Always being serious around girlsThey aren't funny cause they don't have to be. No motivation whatsoever. Men on the other hand... we have to be doing all the heavy-lifting. They are serious because you are - exactly, the mirroring-effect. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Always being serious around girlsHe probably means all like all gitty and giggly like girls get. Which is breaking frame. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Guys who grew up with masculine, nonbeta fathers. Did your dads teach you to be dominant with womenInstead you get a forced education... after you learn the hard way one too many times... | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Guys who grew up with masculine, nonbeta fathers. Did your dads teach you to be dominant with womenI kind of feel like a dumbass for not realizing this earlier. you and me both... better late than never. To be fair we probably had a shit ton of BP-conditioning (guessing you are from the states) and raised by your mom, all your teachers were female aside from the gym coach. And then no guys at school were going to fill-you-in cause that would just create more competition. No woman is going to tell you cause they are blind to what they are attracted to. It is difficult to break down that wall w… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?Good philosophy | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?Yeah interesting, I don't think you are lying about this either. You done any FRs before? Where did you learn game from? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?The ED is psychological then. Yeah I think I remember us talking about NoFap right? Keep on that and do some hardcore mediation and yoga. Id even suggest taking a break from TRP. At this point 4 years in, you have all the information you'll need to be successful. Going deeper down will just cause you to overanalyze and overthink situations. I notice most alpha guys just really don't give a fuck about a lot. I think you think about sex too much and it's causing you issues. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 03:28 AM |
| 6 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?People always do this shit, they round numbers and tack on a few percentiles.. because, eh why not? The original stat was 28% not 33%. That 5% is a huge difference actually. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?No, anger is warranted when it is warranted. A niceguy beta is one who never gets angry and resents himself later for it. Bottles up all his emotions and never expresses it, then he explodes. Look at Gary from The Last American Virgin, he's a perfect beta example. With that said, he did get emotional, especially here where it doesn't even matter. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 03:22 AM |
| 8 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?It's not obesity. It's apathy from men and dating apps. And on average there are more fat women than fat men, at least that's what I've noticed. and that whole headphones thing is you male-hamster-ing, women would just ignore men in other ways. Technology sucks for the entire race, we should have just stuck in the 80s or something. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?How much of that n-count would you say is attributed to your possessions and how much is attributed to game? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?wtf are you even saying, you'd rather be a woman than a short man.. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?Take this insight, you sound autistic. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?What's your n-count? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 03:07 AM |
| 0 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?don't want to rock the boat, just like a good little niceguy beta. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?this guy is far from alpha. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?I have a feeling you putting up all those stats like that and not getting laid have a correlation.... just sayin. your problem is you are banking all your SMV on possessions and attributes and not your attitude, game, frame. Women don't look at guys like a resume, it's either alpha or not alpha. Women don't give a rats ass about your credit score. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?I'm glad you are woke. At 30 you must be ready. Hell i'd imagine a gust of wind would cause you to blow a load. I'm going to say don't go to a prostitute, which is often the touted advice to guys like you. The chase is worth it. The frustration must be unimaginable at times? TRP 4 years ago? …. I've been on for a year. What's going on here? Why still a virgin? Makes me question how powerful TRP is. Some dudes come here and thrive after a few months and others just stay stuck spinning their wheel… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?I absolutely I am not trying to drag you down. Just a dose of reality, because most guys are delusional about where the fall on the SMV scale. You get some billy betas thinking they are 8s and some Chads thinking they are 4s. Do you often have girls giving you IOIs out in public? At a 7 or 8 you should be having no issues at all. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?Give me your progress report. You are a 30 year old virgin, OKAY and just now assessing yourself and seeing reality for what it actually is, not some BP fantasy land. Now what have you been doing to stop being this beta? Have you watched The Last American Virgin? Are you Gary? That movie is a RP wake-up call. When you watch that you might actually feel ashamed at how much you relate to the character. He's a beta beyond belief and makes all the silly mistakes betas do (to a comical extreme). Basi… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 02:35 AM |
| 11 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?Yeah I've had this thought before. Religion was set up because shit got out of control in the way way before time. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 11:32 PM |
| 11 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?It's a feedback loop. They are incel because of other reasons first (like looks/personality)... then they start watching porn and videogames, they don't approach, get depressed. The more depressed they get the more porn and video games they play. It is a cycle people get stuck in, only gets worse and worse unless the person pulls themselves out of it. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?You mean the "distance"? Yes, rich and poor. Femininity and masculinity. Incel and MegaChad. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?It's not getting better, how possibly could it? Technology is only going to advance more. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 11:24 PM |
| 7 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?It makes for a more chaotic society too. Because the more incels and more competition for females, the more aggressive men will get.. Amogging to extremes. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 11:22 PM |
| 13 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?Another thing people forget is that it's all relative to the people around you. If you are a SMV6 and all the men in your bumfuck town are SMV3's you basically become a SMV8 by proxy. SMV is relative to the guys women have access to. Your SMV goes up if others around you are lower. Again, SMV is relative. Novelty is a big factor, they might swing just because another guy is funnier. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?We gauge ourselves a lot less harsh than the majority of people would. Possessions don't mean shit. As much as Hollywood would have you believe. Face and attitude are crucial. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?Just because YOU think you are 7 or 8 doesn't mean you are. Possessions don't make you those numbers. Women like a good face and attitude. They will date asshole bums after all. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 11:15 PM |
| 2 | How to maintain youthful appearance for as long as possible?Jeez so why isn't everyone taking HGH? Is there any side-effects? | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Anybody else notice the similarities between pickup and sales?Any good books that covers topics like these? | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 08:18 PM |
| 26 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?^This. Porn + Video Games + Social media = men with no social skills, apathy, and depression. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 08:15 PM |
| 18 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?It's not obsesity it's apathety and lack of social skills due to porn, video games, and social apps. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 08:14 PM |
| 36 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?It is likely higher. Because men overestimate their sexual activity and women underestimate their sexual activity. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 08:12 PM |
| 9 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?Men aren't trying and failing to see the point. I think most are just simply frustrated and feeling apathy. Like the whole "the juice aint worth the squeeze" mentality. Plus you have Porn and Video-Games, keeps all the beta men at bay, so they don't try as hard. And growing rates of autism, and people are becoming consumed by their phones so social skills are at all time lows. Social skills get you laid. I think there is a growing consensus amongst the 80% that they aren't playing at a level pla… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 08:08 PM |
| 1 | What do women like more sex or love?When we believe science, we make medicines, airplanes, computers, skyscrapers. When we believe superstitions, we believe authorities, rituals, magic, customs, bullshit. So then you would say RP = scientific method, BP = superstition, not based on reality. What works, and what does not. The thing that gets me about passing on genes and pua/trp/game is that none of this existed for men. So how did they get women? They didn't need abundance mentality, mantras, canned-material, they just did what th… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 07:50 PM |
| 1 | What do women like more sex or love?they made the promise to “love and respect” the beta male, as if they had the capacity of voluntarily love and respect Cause they don't love and respect a guy voluntarily they love and respect a guy biologically, instinctually, and through their evolutionary psychology, not by choice. Like the alpha is going to be naturally attractive to all woman and the beta is going to be naturally unattractive to all women. In association with the dominance hierarchy / SMV scale. But society steps in and enf… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 07:19 PM |
| 1 | What do women like more sex or love?No. The alpha doesn’t needs any external validation. An alpha is the one who fuck women. Nothing else. He may have no social value at all. He doesn’t needs money. He doesn’t needs fame. He doesn’t needs anything. What exactly is an alpha composed of? Is it simply confidence in himself and his worldview? Just doing what he wants and not following others? Isn't the whole idea of being alpha about getting group approval, getting other men to follow you. Being a good leader. I think of the alpha wol… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 06:35 PM |
| 1 | What do women like more sex or love?When I was a boy I recall spending sometimes 10 hours a day watching TV. My parents would just plop me in front of the TV and they just went and did their own thing. There was little parenting, structure, or any warranted discipline (simply abuse). Just total chaos as I remember it. Then father passed when I was still young and was then was continued to be raised by my mom, and she was a bit of a basket-case. I think these variables played a significant part in why I am the way I am right now. I… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 05:16 PM |
| 1 | How to maintain youthful appearance for as long as possible?Make sure the products fit with your skin-type. That thayers makes me skin red af. And I needed very gentle exfloiators and such. Just have to make that determination by understanding your skin-type. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 04:03 AM |
| 1 | How to maintain youthful appearance for as long as possible?How does that help his looks exactly? | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Overthinking/Mental Masturbation ProblemSame problem, interactions with people are getting weird and awkward because I keep thinking about Frame, not overinvesting, and IDGAF mentality. Interested to here replies. I also keep writing down RP truths all over the place so I don't forget them | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 03:59 AM |
| 1 | I think i found the ultimate Red Pill movie.I thought that Rick is an asshole and Karen is an innocent child manipulated and taken advantage by him. I think this is absolutely key. It's a critical realization that we all must come to in life. She wanted him. Don't be bitter, it's just biological. She isn't being manipulated, she may even make it appear to you that she is being manipulated to keep her "good girl" image and use you for validation. If anyone is being manipulated it is you by her. But ultimately she likes it like that. It is … | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Girl acting strange whenever I try to escalate to sex, nervous or am I fucking up somewhere?Of course... If you have a option to seem more bold and natural why wouldn't you. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 08:31 PM |
| 2 | What do women like more sex or love?Society puts the psychopathic taboo of “what you need is bad”. Women go after man who only want sex, but they have to pretend that they conform to societal norms, to avoid being judged. Yes. I see two worlds on MSM one deeming/shaming that Sex is bad and what you need is evil. And then another side is promoting/selling it. What a confusing world we live in. Very dualistic. One appears to be the female perspective or BP-male perspective. And the other is more masculine perspective or RP-female pe… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | What do women like more sex or love?I've found out I have some deep-rooted insecurities. I have major co-dependency which I am working through. I think that is where a lot of my scarcity and neediness comes from. Codependency has me living in their frame. I need to break codependency and build up my abundance through my masculinity, money, personality, humor, and body. My views on love and relationships are old scripts... like middle-schooler BP non-sense. Love'em, treat'em like princesses, take'em to the movies. I feel strongly n… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | What do women like more sex or love?You had been brainwashed by other betas, which want to get rid of you as competitor for cunt. I came to that same conclusion about 2 years ago. That this brainwashing is a way to kick me out of the competition. Best way to make a man unattractive to females is to keep him beta and poor. But then again, the biggest enemy to your attraction and overall well-being is yourself, and not others. So like you said, killing the beta starts with me realizing that I don't need to be beta, and females don't… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | There’s a girl I might want to see that lives two hours away, she wants to go on a “small” dinner date and I agreed because...I don't totally agree with texting only for logistics. But keep things as stoic and as to-the-point as possible. Haha my man... this girl really has her hooks in you good. Try on some mental exercises and see things from the female perspective, this always helps me get grounded more in reality rather than just the male perspective. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Girl acting strange whenever I try to escalate to sex, nervous or am I fucking up somewhere?Girls don't react to you as they are, they react to you as you are. They mirror your behavior and do things based on your social standards. You may be are acting too conservative and it's making her reluctant to do things for fear of your sexual judgement of her. Focus on what the actions are not the words. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 04:07 PM |
| 1 | There’s a girl I might want to see that lives two hours away, she wants to go on a “small” dinner date and I agreed because...Just don't overinvest. Accept this situation as it really is. You seem to be bending over backwards for this chick, aka overinvesting. Why aren't there local girls you are Gaming too? | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Critique my future plan from todayGo Monk Mode. And hold off on the women atm. You do you. Focus on building yourself up. You are in no position to be Gaming. If what you are saying is true you have a lot of internal work to do. Right now Gaming would just hurt your self-confidence. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 04:03 PM |
| 1 | There’s a girl I might want to see that lives two hours away, she wants to go on a “small” dinner date and I agreed because...This is a waste of time. I've done shit like this and it never ended on good terms. Long-distance relationships rarely work, even fuck-buddy type. But go head if you must. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Best books on GameI read the synopsis. Basically sex wasn't some scarce thing, and humans didn't always live in some monogenous pair sexual relationship. More like we were all fucking each other and it was Sperm Competition rather than alphas vs betas or finding our "soul-mate". Basically everyone was fucking everyone, no wives, no girlfriends, just a big fuck-fest. Like how cats are, there aren't any relationships, just all around fucking. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | There’s a girl I might want to see that lives two hours away, she wants to go on a “small” dinner date and I agreed because...You are already overinvesting. That sort of thing will show in your body language, tone of voice, word-choice... just look at her as any other. I interact with hot women the same as I would as some fat old granny. The more you invest the more power you give her over you. I mean fuck.. 2 hours? No woman is worth driving 2 hours. Recipe for disaster right here. She's got you in her grips. Why the fuck can't you get her to come to 2 hours to come see you? See the power-dynamics at play here? | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Guide to eye contact?It's a dominance thing. A shit-test to see if she can make you feel nervous, shy, uncomfortable. If she does you fail the shit-test. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Guide to eye contact?Always K.I.S.S. People on TRP always be making things way more complicated than they have to be. It's all really quite simple. That's why you see some of the dumbest guys with hot women, because they naturally keep things as simple as possible. Don't stare at them, maintain/hold eye-contact. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Guide to eye contact?Very true. Eye contact is extremely sexual and easily builds attraction/interest in you from women. Because 90% of guys don't do this. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Guide to eye contact?Just be IDGAF while you maintain talking to them. That way you don't overinvest. Let your actions speak louder than your body-language, tone of voice, and words. The fact that you maintain your presence around them and are talking is more powerful to them than emotionally investing in them. In short, your body language, tone of voice, and words should be that of IDGAF mentality while being at the same time talking to them and in their presence. It's like being two things at once, showing interes… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Guide to eye contact?A strong masculine gaze sets a sexual tone and builds attaction for sure. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Guide to eye contact?Look into developing a dominant/strong gaze. You don't want to look intense, you want to gaze into them. Eye contact is critical. The number of times I've heard women say they love eye-contact is uncountable. Remember eyes are the window to the soul. They aren't kidding. People don't put enough thought into this idea. They just think "yeah..." no joking it might be one of the most powerful pieces of attraction building. Avoiding eye-contact is a sign of weakness, and holding a gaze is a sign of … | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Talking to women in the workplace?Don't shit where you eat. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Best books on GameThe Game is dated now. TRM as well as the newer RSD material are next level because it goes a step further and forces one to realize that internalizing > all. It covers the evolutionary psychology of why Game even works. I appreicate The Game from a historical standpoint but realistically it's not all that useful other than a source of inspiration. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Best books on GameThank you. There is no point-by-point, not enough analysis, there is no here's what you do when X happens, here's what you say when Y happens. It's just an exploration / experience into one guys life. It's almost like a comedy / novel, hardly anything that one can apply into his actual day-to-day life approaching women. It's actually quite counter-productive because the book is useless aside from the fact that it's somewhat a source of inspiration because the guy was a manlet Gaming dimes. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Best books on GameThe Game is also the only book on Game you can actually find it book stores... meaning it's PC. That tells you something right there. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Best books on GameThe Game is some comedy / novel bullshit. It's like a history book at this point. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Best books on GameWhat's your takeaway? I heard about this years ago but never read it. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Frame and asking vs telling?Shit test from women. Frame test from men. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Who are your favourite comedians?Yes, surprised not more people are saying Patrice | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 03:14 PM |
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