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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	How do i stop being a loser who cant talk to women and cant make friends? I think im not good enough for anyone. I hate my self and my family.. what do i do to make people like me?? Whats my biggest problem? Sounds like you need to work on yourself first. I guarantee a good 80% of what you think the other people you’re talking to are thinking is entirely just inside your head. You’ve got low esteem and confidence and you won’t find it magically from other people’s approval. It’s a very unhealthy thing to place your worth in other people eyes. Chances are whatever interaction you get, you also come off very needy because of all the anxiety in your head. If you constantly bring yourself down in conver…	/r/seduction	25/07/19 05:44 PM
2	I don't see myself being in a relationship. Can affirm similar life experiences. Though in my case it’s less being unable to feel, I was/am capable of feeling love, it’s more finding every/any reason I can to self-sabotage.	/r/seduction	22/07/19 03:05 AM
1	Caught a girl that I like looking at me after her friend was talking to her. What does this mean? (Please read below) Well it sounds like you’re answering your own question about why she could’ve not accepted yours. Ask her out. Worst case you save yourself a lot of regret and needless fawning and mental agonizing.	/r/seduction	20/07/19 11:11 PM
1	Caught a girl that I like looking at me after her friend was talking to her. What does this mean? (Please read below) Ever try smiling while looking at her? If she smiles in response its a good sign. Shortest path is of course just asking her out to something low pressure where you two can just talk and go from there.	/r/seduction	20/07/19 10:56 PM
1	It’s all in the eyes She accepted a friend request and I asked her a day later, so I’m doubtful it’s a miscommunication.	/r/seduction	20/07/19 10:33 PM
3	It’s all in the eyes Anecdotal counterpoint: last week I met this girl in a group/friend-of-a-friend setting. We don’t know each other but as the evening goes on I notice she keeps shooting me glances whenever I scan the room. I feel confident that evening, I’m both amused and intrigued because I’m not used to this sort of one-sided attention. So I figure what the hell, I start meeting her gaze and she seems to always linger rather than do the aversion I’m expecting by now. The mutual eye contact lengthens every tim…	/r/seduction	20/07/19 07:19 PM
1	If you chase/ pursuit 1 girl at a time you will loose your mind You could always try to find her on social media.	/r/seduction	20/07/19 05:29 PM

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