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Predators must stay in control of their image and their dynamic with you at all times, and in order for them to do that, they must create and push an unfavourable narrative of you for it to work until you start believing it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 11:54 PM
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I also think men use this tactic in the early love-bombing stages in order to establish trust with you, however, they are calculated and don’t immediately use it against you to see how you’d react. They exploit that pet peeve/vulnerability later on after the relationship progresses and once trust is established. I always stay weary of these 2 opposite possibilities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:57 PM
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Tell him you can’t stand it when people are late and watch that mofo never show up on time ever again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:37 PM
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Honestly, this is a very accurate description, and it applies to so many white women around my age that I come across in my demographic(large city). Most of them live in stinky basements with their cheap lazy forever-boyfriends thinking they’re winning at life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:11 AM
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I resonate with every word! For me, it’s been 4 years since I’ve had this realization. Sometimes I do still get angry that I’ve wasted so much of my precious years always being ‘on call’ for everybody else when I could’ve put that time into investing in myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:15 PM
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I’ve always been open to dating outside of my race but a specific race is not an indication whether a man will be HV. In my opinion, men are all very similar to each other. I always stay cautious and know that race and religion is not something I want to be fooled by.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 04:32 PM
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Honestly, I guarantee that one day, you will look back on this and realize that he wasn’t really all that, and that you’re way out of his league actually. I know I have, every time, and you will too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 05:35 AM
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If a man suddenly leaves you or wants divorce out of nowhere, 99% of the time that’s because there is another woman involved. A bit off topic but similarly, the man Pamela Anderson is currently married to, basically cheated on his spouse and left his family for her. I didn’t know until I read this article. It’s always the same story, it happened to me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:19 PM
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I’m glad you shared this because I’ve seen the very same scenario play out among couples I know in real life (older and younger couples) and of course, from my own experience of being married to a NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:49 PM
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Exactly! This is a dealbreaker for me, that’s one of the questions I always ask. I would never date a guy fresh out of a relationship/marriage/whatever, or one that hops from one woman to another, that’s why it’s important for me to gather that info. If you are offended when someone asks you about that or you hide that info, it’s a red flag to me and I won’t even bother to pursue it further.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:04 PM
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Even if you are married, you don’t need to do all those ‘wife duties’ to keep him, it won’t, remember that. I have several married female friends who ‘don’t cook & don’t clean’ and their husbands provide for them, don’t pressure them to work, take them on vacations, give them gifts, take them on dates regularly and are genuinely supportive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:32 AM
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If your ‘friends’ doesn’t show equal desire and excitement to see and hang out with you (like your friend didn’t in this case, it’s so obvious she didn’t want to go but was too passive aggressive to tell you, red flag) don’t even bother, drop it. It sounds like your self worth is still low to accept lowball effort, would you accept this behaviour from a man? If you’re spending your hard earn money on people to hang out with you, you’re still a pickme. I’m not judging, I was like this a few years…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:23 PM
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If a guy ever tells me that Elon Musk is his inspiration, I always cringe and run the other way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:23 PM
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This is true. I’ve went through an ugly phase and hot phase and the level of treatment between that was astonishing, it’s unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:03 PM
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I’ve watched a documentary where a lot of men were busted for being a part of a child pornography ring and mojority of them had professional jobs in IT or were working in some type of software engineering field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:02 PM
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That’s a tough one but you don’t need to make any decisions right now, take more time to assess. In my case, it’s always been true that the issues that came up & were red flags at the beginning of the relationship were the same reasons for it breaking up at the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 06:49 PM
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Sorry what am I missing here... how is he honest if he intentionally told you something that wasn’t true? Did he after confess it wasn’t true or did you find out on your own? Both would be a red flag to me and I would proceed cautiously. It may be an inherit thing he does when he feels he is backed into a corner, maybe stemming from some kind of unresolved shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 06:35 PM
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IMO, a HVM will never turn into a LVM. If he does, you weren’t with a HVM to begin with, you were with a con-man and a narcissist who sold you a fake persona.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:38 AM
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My dad did and still does the same! Never settle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:12 PM
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