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Yeah! I was a bit self concious about height at the beginning then realised for the women I want it doesn't matter too much
/r/seduction23/08/24 08:34 PM
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Yeah nail on the head. Many men like to victimise themselves, fellow short men included. I literally know a girl who is into shy men lmao. Just have to put yourself out there and not be creepy/needy. Be confident you'll attract someone.
/r/seduction23/08/24 06:26 PM
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I'm south asian, I find my chances tend to be better with south asian girls. I'll easily pull an 8/10 south asian girl but its a bit harder with white girls. Which tbf I don't mind, i love dating people from similar backgrounds. The girls I go out with also usually have good careers and stuff. So city girl, intelligent. My last ex told me her type- sweet, romantic but confident men. She told me she has no physical type, she had dated tall men before but also shorter. Didn't make a difference to …
/r/seduction23/08/24 05:00 PM
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That does make more sense In smaller towns dating probably is more like a tickbox exercise. Bigger cities will have more variety. I'd say career matters alot as well in big cities. Unless you're in your early 20s.
/r/seduction23/08/24 04:43 PM
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Yeah i get you. Being short though i got to have confidence. If you lack both you're screwed lol I'd say looks then confidence then height
/r/seduction23/08/24 04:36 PM
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What about if you're 7/10 but short? Im 5ft 7 and have had good success on dating apps and irl, but I live in a big city
/r/seduction23/08/24 04:26 PM
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I met my first ex irl, her type was tall men lol. You're so right. Confidence is key Its not easy to portray confidence on apps ngl, its why i try to call girls on the app when i can. Texting is tiring and easy to be misinterpreted
/r/seduction23/08/24 04:24 PM
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You shouldn't want it, let it come to you I probably wouldnt use the word want though, its more need. It's ok to want a relationship
/r/seduction23/08/24 04:22 PM
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Maybe on tinder. Hinge I've met plenty of women who actually can carry a conversation and reply to prompts
/r/seduction23/08/24 04:20 PM
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What people want and what people get are 2 very different things
/r/seduction07/10/23 03:26 PM
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Bro ur saying stuff pre teen girls would fantasize about. Most women past the age of 21 go for normal guys. Not Che Guevara
/r/seduction07/10/23 12:23 PM
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Lol you dont need to be john wick to get a girl. Some of this stuff is just typical of reddit
/r/seduction06/10/23 09:40 PM
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Okay not darling. But more cute. He just seems like someone who doesn't take themselves seriously.
/r/seduction17/02/22 09:31 PM
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Bad boy? I've always thought him to be more of a darling...
/r/seduction17/02/22 09:28 PM
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You wanna smell more? As you gesture her towards your neck. If you're pretty deep in, can be a good time to lock eyes and kiss For this to work, obv spray some on your neck
/r/seduction09/01/22 01:40 PM
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Depends on the girl you're trying to impress and the fashion trends in the city you're in. Also your build I'm in london, so I'll dress in a smart leather jacket, black ripped jeans and boots. But I'm lean ripped so it works well. Most bars will have girls there. Just focus om having a good time (go with friends or make friends) and if any girls catch your eye then say Hi. Also I'd avoid using the word female when referring to them. It makes them sound another species lol
/r/seduction30/12/21 08:16 PM
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Whatever you do, make sure you don't sound like its getting to you. Bullies hate when you pay no notice. Deprive her off attention. Go to random bars and find a girl there. Leave work as work
/r/seduction30/12/21 06:05 PM
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It could be you. It could be her. If a girl really likes you though, she wouldnt leave you on seen. Work on either - building attraction better - finding a girl who actually values you Its possible to build chemistry from a few text exchanges. Is there a runbook for it? Nah
/r/seduction14/12/21 12:28 PM
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Id say text as much as you want once you've set the date. If its radio silence till the day of the date, theres always a chance of flaking. Just a casual 'how was your day' would be good imo
/r/seduction14/12/21 12:25 PM
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Depends on the city. Tinders garbage. But bumble and hinge can be good in big cities. As long as you're interesting and have good prompts anyway. I've gone on dates with girls out my league from hinge and bumble. Tinder is just flaky af
/r/seduction14/12/21 12:23 PM
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Nah quit making excuses. Date =/= serious. People hookup from casual dates all the time. Just make sure the date isn't some fancy restaurant, but more like a casual bar. Also a few drinks certainly helps when escalating
/r/seduction04/10/21 07:23 PM
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I learned how to do bachata too but I found it useless in the club. Only time you'll salsa or twirl with a girl is if you're ballroom dancing. My skills were absolutely useless in say a hip hop or edm bar where it's more about grooving and grinding.
/r/seduction24/09/21 08:09 PM
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Lmao then i think you need to recheck your definition of bad. Because the stuff you mentioned is normal - maintaining eye contact, smiling at her, and being silent. Going for a kiss certainly isn't bad, it's cool and confident. That's not bad. Bad is like going on your phone when shes talking to you, airing her for a week, or insulting her. Pretending shes not there basically.
/r/seduction22/09/21 07:53 PM
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Yeh from being in relationships. I also do follow the push/pull stuff, but when youre like a year into a relationship that shit gets old quick. Have you ever been in a relationship? I've never been laid from a first date. I follow the subreddit just for the funny stories. The only advice I think is good here is some of the cold approach stuff.
/r/seduction22/09/21 07:31 PM
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Being respectful is being a gentleman. You don't have to listen to a girls problems to be a gentleman. Its gestures like - guiding her through the small of her back in a crowded place, holding her hand, paying for the first date etc You dont need to fold over, you just don't be an asshole. There's nothing un-manly about being a gentleman. Your tactic probably works on young teens - but in my mid 20's I prefer being a gentleman
/r/seduction22/09/21 07:22 PM
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Beta = using reddit to insult someone
/r/seduction22/09/21 07:12 PM
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Healthy, functioning long term relationships come from mutual respect. Being a dickhead won't get you much down the line
/r/seduction22/09/21 07:11 PM
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Girls who like the shit you're on about probably have issues. Girls with deep rooted issues like the assholes you're describing.
/r/seduction22/09/21 07:04 PM
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