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because you can only be responsible for yourself. you have no control over what the woman will do with the baby, so your only option to be 100% sure you won't make oops babie is to not have sex.
/r/MensRights18/09/24 02:19 AM
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i mean, this one specifically is an abuser. It's normal for anyone to need a confidante, but that's usually like, a single friend and it's to load off, not as a party trick.
/r/MensRights22/03/24 10:11 PM
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I think you just need new friends, bro.
/r/MensRights04/03/24 10:39 PM
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damn its as if women have different desires and that horniness fluctuates in time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:39 PM
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they're just shitty men that no one wants to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:31 AM
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I don't want to get into the details because i'm lazy, but my mom wasn't a stay at home mom. She worked while we were kids, but it still affected it. Either way, when people get married, they know that this is what will happen if they divorce. But I do agree that prenups should be mandatory. I told my boyfriend we would sign one if we ever get married. would be dunb not to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:21 AM
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If my father decided to divorce my 59 years old mother, who has never been able to fully get in the work place after taking care of the kids for years, there is no 3-5 years to get back on her feet. She's too old now, and if my father decide to not help support her - after saying he would for decades - she would be fucked. Thankfully they have all of this figured out in writing, but my point is that, for most people born before 1970, alimony is exactly what they literally signed up for. Now, I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:37 AM
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its not any different from anti vax; there's always gonna be people who want to put all the blame on something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:43 AM
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no, they are reccomended because they are beneficial to yourself. not everything in life has to be about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:38 AM
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are you asking why society is expecting a specimen of an advanced, intelligent and civilized specie to be able to evolve socially when a speciment of a wild and uncivilized specie cannot????
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:03 AM
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why would anyone not care about what other people do to their body with their consent?
/r/MensRights05/07/22 10:12 PM
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well that sounds like a you problem, because most men can deal with it properly if you have the ickies, its not society's problem genitals aren't supposed to smell and taste good
/r/MensRights05/07/22 10:11 PM
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"If you do a thing more often you are more likely to succeed" really isn't a thing unique to dating my man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:01 PM
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My man here trying to min/max his stats thinking women are NPCs and not human beings with emotions and dept
/r/seduction26/03/22 01:18 PM
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47% i'm good lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:52 AM
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The same way men do. In short it's "attractive and nice personality and we're at the same place in our lives"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:29 AM
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That's kinda true, but not for the reasons you think. You just need to watch what is acceptable to do between friends (in their face, not behind their back) usually more during high school. Guys will just be rude to each other and be ok with it. Girls are taught to be careful about what they say because there is this societal pressure to always be perfect, so any negative confrontation is a personal attack. Most people grow out of it tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:27 AM
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That's your fetish Broth, stop confusing things together
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:23 AM
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Abusive people are usually very confident which is a good 50% of someone's attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:21 AM
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It's not about respect. Most women who don't sleep with people they are interested in don't do it to "make him wait". It's more because they don't want the relationship to be only sex, because society has made us believe that sec is the end goal. The kind of sex is also different; casual sex is just sex, sex with someone you like can be more emotional and make you feel more vulnerable. Also not wanting to be hurt. Sex can be intense emotionally and amplify your feelings, so you want to wait unti…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:20 AM
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Every woman is different. That's the simple answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:13 AM
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it's a mix of many things. The feeling of protection and warmth and safety. Being able to steal their shirts. Societal norms. Peer pressure. Immaturity. Shallowness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:12 AM
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It's as if everyone has preferences and different lives and personalities that influence who they are dating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:06 AM
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It's pretty easy to know if someone just wants you for your looks. And there is so, so much more to attraction than looks, it's really not that complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:42 AM
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maybe you just start acting creepy when you start having feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:38 AM
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They make selling sex legal so that people who are trafficked can go to the police without being scared of being arrested
/r/MensRights12/07/21 10:00 PM
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OK but are you comparing apples to apples? I'm not saying there's no double standards, but unfortunately this is a legal-or-not subject so we can't really base it off what we consider "the same thing" Paying a prostitute is a thing, paying for a massage that just so happen to include genitals is another. Legally speaking. It's a loophole. Now if you tell me that men were jailed for getting a massage that just so happen to include genitals, then yeah, it's a double standard
/r/MensRights12/07/21 09:57 PM
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It’s not about being attacked. It’s just general harassment. EDIT: after reading the comments, it really just looks like no one cares if YOU get home safe or not.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 09:20 PM
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You’re talking as if it’s abnormal for someone to not be perfect. Like bitch, everyone has problems. It’s normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:37 PM
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bro literally the second paragraph mentions boys. The article is about the huge difference between last year and this year for girls, because it’s 50% more as opposed to 4%. It does recognize boys, it’s just not what this specific article is about
/r/MensRights14/06/21 09:27 PM
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she’s been out for over two years by now
/r/PussyPassDenied06/06/21 07:01 PM
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It’s just not that simple. I’m still high on sleeping meds but, being attracted to someone doesn’t mean you want or need to act on it. My best friend is my ex and we were sexually involved until I started dating my boyfriend, and I haven’t been lusting after her since then. I still find her as gorgeous and hot, but I have no desire or intent to sleep with her. I guess what I’m trying to say is; it’s not just about whether you find the other sexually or romantically interesting, because humans ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:32 AM
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Did any of you actually spent like, a second to think about what the article is about? The journalist had a chart about sexual abuse from police officers made on women and children. That’s what he’s reporting on. What did you want him to do? Make up stats for men? Not write an article he was probably paid to do because his data wasn’t as complete as it should have been? The post isn’t even about the whole “women and children first” y’all are talking about. It’s just stats. It has nothing to do w…
/r/MensRights18/05/21 08:02 PM
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If you wanted to make a legit comparison, you should have compared to romance movies and novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 11:28 PM
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“unique issues faced by women and girls” how can you be so straightforward saying you don’t think men can be victims of domestic violence
/r/MensRights03/05/21 04:42 PM
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I don’t know man, like... have you ever heard of uh, gays?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 03:08 PM
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yeah but what society considers a beauty standard isn’t healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 03:06 PM
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That’s not how being fat works.. Also if it was all about reproduction like y’all seem to think, being fat would be the beauty standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:42 AM
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I don’t even know where to start... The fact that people make fun of fat people is why we NEED body positivity, but it’s not the entire goal. And people fuck because it’s fun. The body is made so that having sex is fun. That’s all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:40 AM
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The body positivity movement has never been about changing people’s taste or willingness to fuck you. It’s always been about accepting and loving yourself. Contrary to what everyone on this subreddit seems to think, humans have evolved past the animalistic instinct to reproduce at all cost. Most people’s tastes are not dictated by evolution. It’s a lot more complicated than that, and many, many things play into what people find attractive. And turns out that your own opinion of yourself is a HUG…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 12:59 AM
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so your hot take is from the fact that this one woman realized she still love her boyfriend after he got fit ok, sure buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 12:14 PM
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It’s not creepy and unwanted if you’re into the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 12:35 AM
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That sounds like a whole lotta bs. It’s just hot. If you want to over analyze it, it’s probably just the logical evolution of the alt fashion for millenials. When we were younger, emo/scene was hot. Over the years those people grew up and refines their style. So did the taste of people who liked it back then. Also the meme. Most of it is just from the meme. They don’t like “big tiddies goth gf” any more than any big tiddies gf. It’s just that it’s a meme so it get its own subreddit. It’s really …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:13 PM
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That’s bullshit. I’m a bisexual woman and I’ve dated both men and women, and there’s no difference. Except there is. Because each person is different. But that whole “men have to work harder “ is bullshit and if you have a woman who expect you to do it, she’s a dumb bitch. There’s dumb bitches on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 10:52 PM
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that’s.... not what they meant by toxic. It’s toxic to tell men they can’t cry because crying is normal and healthy and it can lead to them bottling up their emotions and never deal with it and then have issues in the future because they were never allowed to express their emotions.
/r/MensRights15/04/21 06:13 PM
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Well it’s a negative thing, so I think “toxic” is the right word for it. Because, well, it IS toxic.
/r/MensRights15/04/21 01:05 PM
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Toxic feminity do exist, we just don’t call it that. And don’t fucking ask me why, I’m not controlling language. Of course that incident didn’t matter in why I stopped seeing him, and if my current boyfriend did the same thing I wouldn’t dump him just because of that. But I’m bisexual, so obviously homophobic shit doesn’t sit well with me.
/r/MensRights15/04/21 12:14 PM
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Using something pink does not make someone “look gay”. Thinking it does is homophobia. Yes there are things that are associated with “being gay” that are more legitimate; the gay accent, some mannerisms, etc. Those are things that the LGBTQ community uses to (consciously or not) recognize each other. Not wanting to be perceived as gay when you’re not isn’t a bad thing and is just natural in a context that makes sense (like, not wanting to look gay when you’re home by yourself is dumb). Homophobi…
/r/MensRights15/04/21 11:56 AM
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Please read the whole conversation if you wanna pretend to be a smartass. Or at least like 2 more comments idfk
/r/MensRights14/04/21 10:45 PM
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no, misandry doesn’t have anything to do with misogyny. Like, I hope you’re just trolling, because that’s some SJW level of mental gymnastics lmao
/r/MensRights14/04/21 06:30 PM
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Because it’s based on society’s view on gender roles, where the man is strong and the woman is weak. If a man do anything feminine, it’s perceived as weak. If a woman do anything masculine, it’s perceived as powerful. But yeah, I’m not saying “toxic feminity” is not a thing, because some people can’t accept that a woman is not feminine, but it’s more about “knowing her place” than “not showing weakness” Or actually nah, toxic feminity would just be whatever radfem are about lmao It’s pretty much…
/r/MensRights14/04/21 06:14 PM
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I don’t know where any of you got the “insecure in his sexuality” thing from. It was not the case. Toxic masculinity is pretty much both homophobia and misogyny. So no, if a girl doesn’t want to wear flannel because she doesn’t want to look like a lesbian, it’s not toxic masculinity, it’s just homophobia. You’re all just putting words in my mouth and making assumptions on me based on one thing I’ve said. Y’all must be really popular with people if you’re gonna be like that lmao
/r/MensRights14/04/21 05:31 PM
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Yeah I think you’re the one who missed a couple things lmao. This was just an example, and it’s only toxic because of the reason. If someone just don’t like pink, it’s whatever. If someone doesn’t like pink because pink is for women and he’s not gay, that’s toxic masculinity. But obviously that’s too complicated for some people I guess lmao
/r/MensRights14/04/21 05:03 PM
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I’m not bitching? That was just an example. And I don’t care if someone doesn’t like pink, it’s the reason behind it. I’ll ask again since y’all acting like anti-vaxx and like to avoid questions: If it’s not toxic masculinity, what is it?
/r/MensRights14/04/21 04:12 PM
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yeah, maybe they just want to be homophobic and misogynistic without being called out lmao
/r/MensRights14/04/21 02:45 PM
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I mean, you do you my guy. There’s nothing I can do about it lmao
/r/MensRights14/04/21 01:51 PM
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Is “a dude didn’t want to use pink dice because he thought it was gay” really that hard to believe or do you just really hate women so much you think they all lie for... what exactly would I gain from that?
/r/MensRights14/04/21 01:23 PM
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Damn dude who hurt you?
/r/MensRights14/04/21 12:31 PM
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He literally said “Uh no ew I’m a dude not a girl I’m not gay” and laughed at the other guy for using my pink dice. You’re the one putting words in my mouth because I gave ONE example of this one guy I dated had toxic masculinity.
/r/MensRights14/04/21 11:31 AM
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What is it then? Homophobia? Misogyny?
/r/MensRights14/04/21 11:20 AM
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I mean, toxic masculinity is a thing, but it shouldn’t be used to silence men. Like, I’ve dated guys who wouldn’t even use my pink dice because of the color. If that ain’t toxic masculinity then I don’t know what it is. EDIT: the problem is not that he doesn’t like pink, it’s his reason (which was that pink is a girl color and he’s not gay) that is a problem. And no, he’s not questioning his sexuality, he’s straight, he just has a fragile masculinity and thinks using something pink will emascula…
/r/MensRights14/04/21 11:17 AM
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dude I had girls tell me that they consider jerking off as cheating. like bitch youre allowed to not cum as much as hes allowed to cum!!!! youre not the only one who can decide because society think men are obsessed with sex!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 06:52 PM
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LMAO I want that last sentence on my grave But yeah like sometimes I’m horny but my bf is busy and im tired anyway so i just get the vibrator out and 5 minutes later im done!!!! like yeah eating with someone is better, but im not gonna let myself starve because im by myself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 06:41 PM
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ok but a man doesn’t need a reason or excuse to watch porn. jerking off isnt the same kind of effort as having sex. sometimes you just wanna cum but not deal with the whole sex thing. like, can we just stop acting like jerking off is a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 01:54 PM
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I honestly don’t give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 11:44 PM
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That’s insulting for mentally ill people. It’s just women blaming men and society for their own misery.
/r/MensRights24/03/21 07:16 PM
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I would tell him that there’s people who aren’t worth his time that might dismiss him because of these, but that he’s worthy of love just like anyone else. That I’ll be here for him whenever he needs me, and that people who decides beforehand what their partner must have are not mature enough to date anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 08:43 PM
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people don’t seem to realize that “caring about women issues” and “caring about mens issues” are not mutually exclusive
/r/MensRights19/03/21 12:31 PM
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or they straight up told me they were not “really” bisexual? just a thought
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 08:09 AM
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yeah my whole point was that some women will say they are bi, but they really arent
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:54 AM
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OH SHIT I didn’t see it was different persons. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:57 PM
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telling someone they arent a woman because you dont agree with them is some ironic bullshit level of feminism. I don’t give a shit whether you like it or not, I, a bisexual woman, had friends tell men they were bisexual because the men liked that. I, still a bisexual woman, also had ‘bisexual women, react with almost disgust when mentioning the idea of having a relationship with another woman. And I didn’t go through that whole accepting who I am and coming out just to have some girl claim to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:53 PM
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bro im a woman lmao wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:41 PM
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I don’t know which point you are trying to prove, but I’ve been told “oh ew no, not like that” often enough to know what I’m talking about, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:35 PM
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That’s not what I said either. It’s linked to my second point. And yes, some girls do say they are bisexual cause men like it. Maybe not anymore, but I hd a bunch of them when I was younger. It’s a small portion tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:30 PM
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It’s a very complicated thing, but I’ll try my best: First, there’s the belief that men want a bisexual girl. And on top of that, you have girls thinking that “I kissed a girl and I liked it” or “I would have a threesome with another girl” means you’re bisexual. Often times you’d ask them if they would have an actual relationship, either romantic or only sexual, with another girl, and they’ll say no. Sexuality is a spectrum, but they think that as soon as youre not 100% straight, youre bi. Final…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:22 PM
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yeah women weren’t invited to thise
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 09:20 PM
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I’m eating a cucumber right now. Would I like it if I was eating an apple instead? Yeah. But in the end, I still ate something good, I’m not hungry, and I’m happy. It doesn’t change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 07:00 PM
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By using my brain to understand these are not mutually exclusives? I don’t understand how this is difficult to imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 06:55 PM
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Ideal body type if you remove all other emotion from the equation? Jason Momoa Realistic body type for an actual relationship? Almost anything. The beauty of someone you love is just different. Would I like it if my boyfriend looked like Jason Momoa? Yeah. Would it change anything if he looked like Jason Momoa? Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 12:21 PM
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what about the greeks then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:13 PM
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I’m so sorry this happened to you and that you have to deal with dumbasses. There is a serious lack in recognizing male rape, and this stupid theory isn’t helping.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 08:42 PM
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I think it’s dumb. You can’t compare not wanting sex to not wanting to do the dishes. Having sex means physical interaction, and someone touching us without our consent will always be different from having to do something unrelated to your body. It’s more akin to “I don’t want you to scratch my arm.” Anyone would be more uncomfortable about this than doing the dishes. Body autonomy is not a women-exclusive concept. EDIT: also this concept would mean that a man being raped isn’t the same level of…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 07:06 PM
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Gays.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:45 PM
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it’s a lot more complicated than that. First, it’s about how you present yourself. Don’t flaunt your money right away, and the gold diggers will stay away. Then, when you start dating, don’t throw your money at her. Everyone loves gifts and free lunches, but women shouldn’t expect any of this to be all at the expense of the man. Also, if you use your money to try and seduce her, she’ll either 1) think that’s all you have to offer, or 2) get used to it and start expecting it. Finally, when things…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 12:09 PM
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Most of the time, when someone uses the “privilege “ card, they’re trying to blame someone else for their problems. It’s not more complicated than that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:46 PM
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I don’t know what kind if women you’ve been meeting, but I’m like, 99% they’re either shit or you’ve got self-esteem issues
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:36 AM
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i think you don’t realize how the way you perceive yourself is where most of your attractiveness comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:23 AM
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having high standards goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:21 AM
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never said all women were after him. didnt say no one ever made fun of him for his height. never said he wasnt self conscious about his height. im just saying that you’re never gonna be everyone’s type. you just need to get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:02 AM
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your reaction is just sad. i hope you can see past that height bs soon tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:00 AM
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is it though? my boyfriend and i are both small (5’3) and i’m slightly taller than him. despite being small and not especially conventionally attractive, he’s always been really successful with women. the women i met that would really only date taller men are always women who are obviously not mature enough to be in a serious, normal relationship. they’re still looking for prince charming and don’t realize yet that relationships arent like the movies. i just think short kings need to realize the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 05:25 PM
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Oh this was painful to watch. I'm a woman who manspread and no one gives a shit. Most people will take less space if someone comes to sit next to them. Of course some don't, but those are just assholes.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/02/20 02:25 AM
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I don't know if I missed anything, but I don't get how she's wrong? From what I understand, they agreed to have an open relationship, established conditions. He realized after some time that it wasn't working for him, but instead of talking to her about it, he got emotionally involved with another woman. I fail to see why she wouldn't be allowed to be upset about it? I'm probably missing something.
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