retrospectr3 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	[Question] How do you keep a girl solely into you at a party? Don't be her lap dog and let her do her thing. Go talk to other people and other girls.	/r/seduction	05/09/14 08:56 PM
5	I just cant stop being uncomfortable around girls. Just curious, how old are you?	/r/seduction	05/09/14 08:50 PM
1	As ridiculous as this sounds, I'm a 22 year old male and I feel like I'm running out of time. What do I do? Work on yourself and be the type that women are attracted to.	/r/seduction	12/08/14 04:24 PM
1	When meeting girls on meetme or any other dating site. I seem to have this issue where after some pretty good flirting and its obvious the girl is into me, I seem to struggle with keeping her interested after the first couple of days. Any tips? I'm glad I saw this thread because I had the SAME exact problem and recently found the solution. I'd have great conversations and the girls would seem interested and then it would die out. This happened multiple times and then I was wondering if I was just taking too long to ask them out. So I tried the opposite, the next girl I got paired with I asked her out almost immediately, and guess what? Totally worked!	/r/seduction	01/08/14 04:36 AM
2	What are you favorite questions to build rapport and connection? Memorizing questions will come off scripted and awkward, what you should do instead is relate to people. Ask open ended questions and learn things about her, but bring in your own ideas and relevant stories to the conversation. You need to be able to talk about anything, even if it's outside your comfort zone. Ask questions and find things to relate to, think on your feet. Its easy if you have the same interests but sometimes you'll come from far different backgrounds. But there's also gonna be …	/r/seduction	01/08/14 04:32 AM
1	I look young for my age and keep getting hit on by 15 year old girls Dress more mature, hit the gym.	/r/seduction	20/07/14 03:19 PM
0	Don't Know What to Text? Win-Win Method That Helped Me Just in the past few days I've read tips on here that describe "spinning" a girl when you initially meet her (like the dance move), openly talking about a girl's boobs and asking to touch them, and here we are recommended to send rude text messages detailing our horny state to women we don't really know. This subreddit is worse than Cosmo when it comes to advice. You don't have to reinvent in the wheel and come up with some strange new tactic for approaching women. Most guys fail because it's th…	/r/seduction	20/07/14 01:41 PM
2	Tell me what I'm doing wrong Complete strangers don't give OP the time of day and laugh at him. Looks are not only relevant but probably the only explanation for that. As unfair as it is looks matter a great deal, almost always.	/r/seduction	20/07/14 01:32 PM
2	Don't Know What to Text? Win-Win Method That Helped Me I guarantee most girls would find this crass and rude. Take your chances if you want, just because it worked on one girl doesn't make it sound advice.	/r/seduction	20/07/14 02:26 AM
8	Don't Know What to Text? Win-Win Method That Helped Me Word of advice, don't text girls telling them you have hard ons for them.	/r/seduction	20/07/14 12:35 AM
4	I have 3 dates set up for next week Stop making shit posts, please. Your post had less sustenance than celery.	/r/seduction	19/07/14 11:26 PM
1	Tell me what I'm doing wrong Pictures, please.	/r/seduction	19/07/14 11:24 PM
2	Help with closing a nice girl on Day 3? If you can somehow manage not to drool on yourself and go through the evening without shitting your pants, this is pretty much a sealed deal.	/r/seduction	19/07/14 11:22 PM
2	How to touch a woman´s breasts quite easily This subreddit has some real shitty advice sometimes.	/r/seduction	19/07/14 11:19 PM
1	Trouble with big groups Coming from a town of 100k does not make you a city boy, boy.	/r/seduction	19/07/14 11:15 PM
3	I have 3 dates set up for next week Everybody benefitted from your post, thank you.	/r/seduction	19/07/14 11:13 PM
3	How to become good at storytelling/more magnetic? This American Life is one of my favorites. You can stream episodes online for free or there's an iPhone app for $3 that gives you access to all the episodes which I highly recommend. Freakonomics is a great podcast that talks about economics in every day life in an accessible and fun way. Though there's not as much story telling in it listening and paying attention to how people speak can give you useful pointers and ideas.	/r/seduction	18/07/14 10:57 PM
2	I have no idea how to approach dance floor/ physical game This is the key: Find a dance floor in your city that plays music you like and go out and dance by yourself. I got a club for the music and when I am out there on the floor enjoying myself I naturally meet all kinds of people, guys and girls. Make eye contact, smile, and look inviting. If you exchange a smile with a girl go up and dance with her - DON'T START GRINDING ON HER. Dance with her platonically, HAVE FUN! Laugh, enjoy yourself. Dance for a while, lean in and ask to buy her a drink. Talk…	/r/seduction	18/07/14 08:08 PM
8	How to become good at storytelling/more magnetic? Good storytelling is all about suspense and release. Listen to talk radio or podcasts and pay attention how they tell a story that sets a stage, escalates, and usually has a punchline. Even though it might not be funny every story needs a "punchline," which is the point of the story.	/r/seduction	18/07/14 08:02 PM
6	Couple of quick tips that have helped me. Maybe useful for you as well. Sounds weird as fuck to be honest with you.	/r/seduction	18/07/14 06:58 PM
1	Text after a first date? Here is what I go by that has always worked for me: text her proportionally to how well the date went. If the date went well and sparks are flying then I'll sure as hell text her goodnight. If it went just "okay" then maybe give it a day or two. It's important to strike while the iron is hot but also not too be eager.	/r/seduction	18/07/14 03:15 PM
5	Couple of quick tips that have helped me. Maybe useful for you as well. Spinning? Can you please explain?	/r/seduction	17/07/14 11:43 PM
8	Just grow some balls already. That ending sounds like Dwight Shrute wrote it. But good job lol	/r/seduction	17/07/14 10:56 PM