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| 2 | Why Won’t You Pay For Sex?Eh I paid for a lap dance once and I didn't fill the craving I had, so I don't think paying for sex will do anything for me. I want the girl I'm with to have sex with me enthusiastically because she wants to, that's the only kind of sex I find fulfilling. It doesn't even have to be good sex tbh, just that I'm equally appreciated as I appreciate my current partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 04:34 PM |
| 1 | EVEN if you could FORCE monogamy and "redistribute" love and relationships, you can't force a woman to genuinely love you and you FEEL the differenceI don't know tbh. I never looked into it - I thought we are still miles away from anything that feels real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 01:30 PM |
| -1 | EVEN if you could FORCE monogamy and "redistribute" love and relationships, you can't force a woman to genuinely love you and you FEEL the differenceOne thing you don't explain, why should there be less true love in a society that doesn't enforce monogamy vs. one that does? The amount of true love relationships is low to begin with, it could be actually higher when monogamy is enforced by people learning to love each other. I think the constant search for true love is the cause we will never find it. At one point you need to realize, this is the best you can do and try to make it into something worthwhile. The better argument against societa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 08:06 PM |
| 7 | Can a man truly give up on sex and be happy ?Most men have a fragile identity that is only held together by the pursuit of women and mating I'd argue most people have a fragile identity. Women's identity is hold together by their belief they will always be young and have the same pull and power they had when they were 23. Anyway, most men aren't successful but I think this problem will be solved in a century, they will just work to buy some dolls which will be extremely realistic at that point and be fine with that. Men can be pretty norma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Just because dating pool for career women "shrink" it doesn't mean that they should abandon the opportunity to grow academically/financially.I don't think this is an issue - it's something to be accepted to be the case at the moment, it's an observation and nothing more. But I do think - and I'm sorry if that sound misogynistic, it isn't meant to be, it's just an observation: Intelligent women will breed themselves out of existence in the next centuries. And I'm not saying this to go "Ha ha" or to have any satisfaction in it. I'm not going to live long enough to notice something anyway, in fact we have to go through this whole spiel … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Does a woman's appearance really matter THAT much?I think having fewer options makes you settle sooner. If you are in any way attractive and use some sort of social media, you are basically spoiled for choice as a woman. This will always lead to the thought that you could do better, there might be a totally fine, attractive, successful and handsome guy in your social circle - but he won't get a chance because the more attractive, successful and handsome guy DMed you to fly you in for a party weekend at the beach. And even if you don't take it, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 04:25 PM |
| 4 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.At my age range I think of 50% of girls as pretty enough to date. I don't think this is comparable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.If you ever think you can fix him or you need to fix him it's over. It doesn't matter at what point. The question should never be "can he change?" it should be "can I live with this, are the positives outweighing the negatives?". And yes I fully know that this would even mean some women will stay in an abusive relationship because they think the good outweighs the bad. I don't think this case is fixable, but I do think the case "If I fix that, we could be happy" can be stopped. No - it's not goi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Do redpill guys feel love?I'm 27. Is there a girl in my age range that wants a deeper connection? Do you have or want a deeper connection with every guy you were together with? I'm not seeing those girls personally ... are they even out dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 06:36 PM |
| 0 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to the type of men - those out of their leagueThe weirdest thing - you need to stay inside your age range. But no rule to stay inside your wage range. Because we all know there is no power difference when marrying someone who has 10x times your money unlike someone who is 10 years older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 06:19 PM |
| 0 | Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly?I'm 27 m. Yes it's possible if you do not go for the university student - they are partying too much (I understand, I did as well) and are good for ons but not dateable if you have to work. The full-time working young 20 year old is, in comparison, so ... so much easier to talk to (in the sense of actually having conversations about real topics, you don't have to hear the idealistic nonsense of college students) and imo hotter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.I chose not to call you out on the idea that “women don’t care” because it’s blatantly untrue, at least in my experience. I have said it countless times, not only online. Nobody ever went: "wait a minute". Nobody even realized what I really said until I point it out myself - if it were really based on my experience, why didn't anyone ever go call me out immediately on it, since it's a pretty grand claim IF I care to point it out. If it's in your experience - towards all men? Or towards a man? I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 06:50 PM |
| 2 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.Men didn’t die for women to vote, please spare me. I'll spare you from the truth. Except that men benevolently gave women rights to make them feel better because they like them lmao. Yup. If it weren't the case, things would look a lot different. We love women. Women are indifferent to men. That's life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 06:03 PM |
| 2 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.Issues to make women “feel better”? Like what? Allowing women to fully participate in society like men without forcing them to defend it if the need arises. Women fought and died for the rights we have. Which war was that again? How many millennia have men taken away the right to vote for women after thousands, in some cases in the world, millions of men died for it? Put things a bit into perspective. It should have been earlier and in many countries it was at the same time. But getting to democ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 05:24 PM |
| 2 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.The thing is - their views aren't really misogynistic, it's the the reaction and the fear some women have of the reaction that some men might display. Let me explain: In my first answer to you, if you translate what I said, I basically described women as cold and heartless towards men. I didn't get called out on that though. Not once. Not by any women nor men. Why is that the case? And the answer to that is pretty easy - I accept it like a natural law. I don't feel anger towards women, it is wro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 04:55 PM |
| 2 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.Treating women the way those manosphere men advise I disagree with many manosphere talking points about how to treat women. There is no way to treat women any different than any other person in your life. The only thing that matters is building attraction that should be the focus. How you use that is than up to the individual. You don't get to know the quality women or men if you don't know how to built attraction. This is the step we are talking about and many men fail at it. Women forget that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.I think looking for companionship and romance to fill a need as a man is futile. TRP gives you the information that if you are average, you are invisible. You should know what that means - no woman does care about you. Hoping to change this is futile. Arguing is futile. The only way to change the playing field is to improve yourself and make yourself desirable but even than there is no companionship that will fill that hole you are describing because knowing how you got your romantic relationshi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 02:48 PM |
| 2 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.I still think what F&F and AT preach is the healthiest way for men to live. Because the reality is and what we can see in this comment section, no woman will ever care for the vast majority of men and asking them why is meaningless - there is no way to get any woman to care, it's like asking why water is wet, it just is. And thus men should know, caring for women doesn't make them entitled to sex. Men need to burn that into their brains that they aren't entitled to sex - we agree completely thou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 02:40 PM |
| 1 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.I think what makes it hard for women to be sympathetic to this is because ultimately it’s men putting women at the center of men’s unhappiness. Isn't that weird though, we had generations of women that were unhappy blaming men for their lot in life (which I would argue wasn't worse than most of men's but that is another discussion) and many men being sympathetic, at least bit by bit in every generation, doing and voting to try to make women feel better because most men do like women and try to c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Abortion & consequences: the reason a man gets no sayDo you really think a financial abortion would not be able to hurt men? I'm pretty sure many would take that option and half of them would go to court to somehow get their rights even if it means paying back with interests few years down the road. Saying there is no consequences for men is denying that men can and want to be fathers, even if they don't realize it at that moment. And no, they should not be granted the right if they regret it. You make that decision once and it should be final. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 02:07 PM |
| 7 | The Rise Of International Dating (And The Opposition To It)But it’s always good to monitor and be suspicious when an economic and legal imbalance exists. I think this is a weird statement. Most women are looking for economic differences - I mean in the same country. Is it suspicious if my tinder match says I need to make six figures? Am I exploiting her or is she actually exploiting me at that point. Because from my feeling, I'm being the one exploited here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 02:05 PM |
| – | College men are increasingly shifting right, while college women are shifting left. Why do you think that is?The irony of your observation about emotionally-charged language is that saying "men are sexist" doesn't make any numerical claims. It is you who read such claims into the language, on the basis of pure emotion. Insert FBI statistic. You should think about what your excuses for sexism against men enable if the same logic were to be applied elsewhere. You could justify saying xxxx are thugs by your logic. I don't believe that, nor do I think you do, so your logic must be flawed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 01:53 PM |
| – | College men are increasingly shifting right, while college women are shifting left. Why do you think that is?While I don’t disagree with your assessment of the left in regards to being anti men I disagree with everything you said, but to this I really like to know what the left offers for men that is not emasculating? And I get the economic picture, I'm pretty much a social democrat politically and would implement a welfare state if it was up to me. But the left hates masculinity. Every kind of masculinity. Especially the excellent masculinity that wants to win, is competitive, rational, wants to own a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 01:47 PM |
| 5 | South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The WestHow do you fix male loneliness problems without actually forcing people to become friends? Allow male only spaces to be a thing again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 02:52 PM |
| 4 | South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The WestI'd rather have gender segregated schools until they are 10-12 years. Which also means looking for more male teachers for male schools. I think men could have a better understanding of smaller boys in their early development. They could steer them into releasing their energy in a positive way and not try to force them to be dysfunctional girls. When they are old enough (10-12) they should have learned how to control their energy by than and be better at focusing on school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 02:38 PM |
| 3 | RedPill - sexual deviancy and casual sex is bad for society. Why endorse it instead of building families?Nothing. TRP isn't a political manifesto you could gather around to change things. Nor do many of us want to. I'm an atheist, I still have maybe 60 years. I'm not going to put my life on the line to safe this world. We could be attacked tomorrow and I'd flee the country in the next second before they close the border for men. If this society and or country disappears or not is none of my concern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | RedPill - sexual deviancy and casual sex is bad for society. Why endorse it instead of building families?There is no decline. This is but a temporary phase. The birth control pill has and will have even more extreme changes to society. The Genes of women who do not want children and men who can not abandon the thinking that providing is all they need to be successful (and the men that also do not want children) will remove themselves out of our gene pool on their own choice. This line may be something I'd be canceled for everywhere else but here: At average, intelligent women are breeding their kin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | RedPill - sexual deviancy and casual sex is bad for society. Why endorse it instead of building families?TRP seems very willing to call out women for their bad sexual behavior I'm not. TRP doesn't call out anything anyway. Maybe it's trad-rpers. I'm living a good life, the trad-rpers and bluepillers are both things I don't want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | The traits men want in a DAUGHTER vs WIFENope, I wanted to say that assertiveness and confidence usually come with a lot of bad traits. And getting rid of the bad traits will get rid of assertiveness and confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 02:34 PM |
| 4 | Young women encourage toxic masculinityOne of my friends went down the orbiter, pua, black pill road. I told him to work out, he is 6′1, he had a good face, he'd be swimming in pussy in no time. This all because he was used by one b****. So much potential ... I'm gonna call him today, we are both nearly 27 now - maybe I can get him to visit the gym with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 02:31 PM |
| 1 | The traits men want in a DAUGHTER vs WIFEAn assertive and confident man will always use those traits in ways you might like and you might not like. There is no perfect human being. You can nudge this maybe to a bit more positive side, say 55/45 but not much more than that. An assertive and confident man that is mostly bad, is still way more attractive - in fact probably more since he will be the type that gets what he wants. Getting confidence and assertiveness in a perfectly good guy is like the male version of a red pill unicorn. It … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | The traits men want in a DAUGHTER vs WIFEI never told any woman to be a certain way. She is her own person with her own agency and she is accountable for her actions. I don't think women should be forced in a role they don't want to be in and I would treat my daughter the same way. It's completely her decision if she wants to experience a hoe phase and use her sexuality for money or if she wants to be a trad wife. Anything comes with upsides and downsides. I'm an impulsive man who can enjoy delayed gratification for a certain amount of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 02:08 PM |
| 7 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.But if they were to look a step further, it makes men suffer with paying child support for the next 18 years. How are they going to pay child support? I mean it's pretty easy to call into question fatherhood if you didn't have sex with that woman or barely any in your life. Honestly now that I think about it, I wonder if it's more that they want Chad to pay. Yup that's basically it. Banning abortion, the pill and any contraception is going back to the old days. Yes there was a chad in the 50s wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 04:47 PM |
| 3 | Age Gap Relationships/Leonardo DiCaprio Mega-ThreadNah. If you are old enough to be able to die for your country you should be able to chose who you want to fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic IdealThis Swiss cheese model does not work. Watch this first - it's very interesting on it's own and forms the basis of what I think: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HsIibD-TLcM Basically, you can't pick and chose traits in animals (humans are animals as well). If a woman picks a guy for being dominant, tall and assertive - aggressiveness, being territorial and wanting be the leader comes with it. So if anyone thinks they can get that Swiss cheese masculinity, they are deluding themselves. Taking awa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 01:52 PM |
| 2 | It doesn't matter that men of all ages are attracted to 20 year oldsI don't think the idea was that you won't be chosen past a certain age. The reason why it is mentioned is that some women think they are as attractive or more when they got their life in order, a career and whatever other characteristic they think is attractive but really isn't. It is a reminder that the highest possible smv for women is roughly at 20-26. That's where you can get everything with your looks alone. Like you mentioned, the millionaire, your green card, the dating a celebrity status… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 01:23 PM |
| 3 | Are men unable to secure relationships with women due to their misogyny? A look at the data.It's their concept of "low value women" that's extremely misogynistic. Pretty much seems closer to evaluating livestock than human beings. It's not what you say is how you say it... Either you are a woman or argue like one. TRP is usually way harsher on men, so much so than some even go as far to throw it all out and drown in nihilism. TRP absolutely laments that progress because if the discussion goes far enough it always eventually gets back to women having greater financial freedom, independe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Redpill seems to be exploding in popularityMost likely I'll be dead. But it's not something I can stop. But I think if we let things go this way, will have a revolution at hand at some point. More and more young, testosterone driven young men with no roots or stake in our society (no wife, no children, no social life) is a powder keg waiting to explode. I mean, I see BPers here being horny to see more and more desperate men being put down by society. You complain about people who are horny about what will happen one step further. I see n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 01:53 PM |
| 0 | Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest?I agree that it is indeed survival of the fittest. But telling you the reason might actually change your mind. Most men didn't reproduce, we know this from our DNA. The goal of a gene is to reproduce though - only the genes that make us being able to reproduce will survive over time. That means only the more successful genes will stay. Our society was monogamous because of stability - arguably a polyamorous society will lead to a downfall of society sooner or later - the reason is simple: we kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 01:31 AM |
| 12 | Do women want guys to be confident or what?They want to be fuck objects. Exactly. My best experience was with an attractive girl I was with who tore my clothes of and pushed me onto my bed to fuck my brains out. Being treated as a fuck object is the highest praise you can give many men. There is a difference in values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Attractive men are really rare70% of women are fatties in the USA Is that all women or the ones aged 18-25? I don't know the statistics, but anecdotally, I haven't seen that many fat girls around me and I'm 26. But than again, I am mostly at work or working out so it could be the social circles I'm in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 11:27 PM |
| 2 | What do you advise a young woman (18-21) to do?Imagine where you want to be in 10 or 5 or 2 years. Write that down. Write down what you have to do to reach that. Do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 07:31 AM |
| 9 | do women envy men in dating?Why do men masturbate way more? I mean the whole porn industry, billions of videos, clips and games and whatever cater specifically to men, like at least, and I mean at least, 95% of it. That's not really an explanation to the question for the higher sex drive - I mean it's kicking the explanation down the road. What is the reason for the massive difference in masturbation than? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 07:23 AM |
| 0 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillRules aren't some list you can put check marks on, let me give you examples: Before, I don't know you. So I have to give you examples that you probably can't relate to, but I expect a certain abstraction capability. You meet the guy you have good chemistry with and high comfort levels, let's call him hot chad, usually you want to know them better before inviting them to your home - you are not that kind of girl - but he is the one, chemistry and comfort levels are of the charts, you need to show… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 08:29 PM |
| 0 | The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy.That something you need to teach your struggling male peers at every opportunity. Tell them, they can be only themselves if they look a certain way. For sex at that point it doesn't matter anymore what your personality is, if you want a relationship you might have to work on it - but your first goal should be experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 08:19 PM |
| -1 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillMaybe you'd like it better if instead of calling it breaking the rules, there are only rules for people with lower chemistry/comfort levels. I don't really care, I see that as semantic argumentation. It's not changing the overarching concept of what I described. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 08:07 PM |
| 2 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillhuh? my sentence was: is lying to keep you along dangling a LTR I don't understand your question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 07:56 PM |
| – | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillWhy this huge wall of text when it simply breaks down into independent of when and where and why the rules were set, some guys are worth breaking the rules for, some are not. And the guys that are not worth breaking the rules for should know. So when saying "I'm not going to be intimate before the 5th date" add the truth, for example: ", anymore" - ", because of bad experiences" or whatever. Not that difficult, but it will be completely differently received than leaving that part out, that I can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 07:54 PM |
| 2 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillLast time I looked at it, the opinion on abortion is not divided by gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 07:45 PM |
| 2 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillMy question is why would said man tell me any of this? He wouldn't. It was just an example I made up. He'd probably do the same a woman with a wild sexual past would do, lie or better, omit the truth. Like your example, it's not equivalent either. The difference would be small but would mean the world. "I don't have sex with anyone before three months of dating" while the actual sentence should be "I don't have sex with anyone before three months of dating anymore." (also this, unlike asking for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 03:23 PM |
| 1 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pilland assume they’ll be one of the patriarchs instead of the cannon fodder? Yes, I try to tell people this. The old masculinity is and should be dead. Here I agree with feminism. I disagree with the new version they want to introduce and have my own based on TRP, where I care for myself, keep fit, make myself worthy in my eyes, not the ones of society or women and seek women who can complement me, looking what they bring to the table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 02:43 PM |
| 3 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillExactly. Completely agree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 01:55 PM |
| 0 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillWhen you want to settle down and look for a responsible men - did you ever treat him differently? Like, did you introduce rules for sexual intimacy that you didn't introduce before? (If not ignore the rest of the post!) And how did you do that - have you told him that 1. you only have sex after three months of dating, or did you tell him that 2. now, you only have sex after three months of dating. This small word in the beginning will change your chances with him tremendously. If you said the se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 01:50 PM |
| 1 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillI think conservatives do. Wanting to ban abortion and anti-baby pills, getting into societies mind to again shame people who don't want children or leave the mother of their children. I think it's an attack on those men who are lucky they can fuck anything 5 and over with two legs and not be tied down ever. I disagree with that, I think it's better for men now - you should actually care more about yourself and you fitness it. Instead of banning abortion I'd actually argue to introduce financial … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 01:37 PM |
| 3 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillHe absolutely wouldn’t have dated a 5 if he could’ve gotten a 9 either. Men do that. We will fuck 5s even if the guy in question is a 9 or 10, no questions asked. If not the 80 20 rule wouldn't have that much of an impact. If the 20% would be constantly unavailable, married and/or had children, I think TRP wouldn't exist. That's what trad people want to solve with banning abortion and having people forced into marriage again. Chad can't go around fucking everything 4 and up with anti-baby pills,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 01:28 PM |
| 4 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillSo ‘taking dick’ is bad because it’s not you she’s taking it from even though hypothetically you haven’t met yet. It's not bad. You can of course have and enjoy your hoe phase. Let's turn this around for a bit though, maybe it's clearer than: You meet a guy who made millions, throws parties, travels the world, meets important people. In a date he tells you - yes I did all that, but I changed, now I'm serious, I won't invite you to expensive restaurants, fly you around the world and have fun with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillYes. TRP doesn't suggest anything for anyone. It gives you information to act or not act upon as you see fit. If you think the ideas are representing real life and want to act accordingly you can. You are not forced, in fact you can actually be the exception and it doesn't fit your situation. You can also decide that you don't want to take the rp and decide it's all lies. It's completely up to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Men dont have much to offer in datingI’m not talking about what gets you laid I’m talking about what happens in long term relationship with someone you love going through life’s hardships with them and getting your edges knocked off. I was doing that too though. You are not going through life's hardships when the men's main motivator was to get laid on a dating app. But if that were to be taken care off, it would be easier to find that man - that's where I was going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 05:58 AM |
| 4 | Men dont have much to offer in datingI kinda disagree. What made me better at the dating game than before was actually caring about me and what the girl can bring to the table instead of constant worrying how I can prove I'm worthy - because now I go into it thinking: yes definitely, actually show me that my life would be better with you. I achieved that through increasing my physical fitness, this netted me nicer responses to my approaches which made me try more and actually improve my communication skills. I think if we take male… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 04:46 AM |
| 1 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleThere is nothing to get us back to the "good old times" (which were imo horrible for men, I wouldn't want to be drafted into that shitfest that was vietnam). These times are dead, and thank god I don't live in them. I'm also kind of a social libertarian, so I would oppose anything the government says we should or shouldn't do in our private times. These includes every citizen, regardless of gender or race. That leaves only one thing that can help us against half or more of young men, full of tes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 10:23 PM |
| 9 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MalePersonally I think it's neither. It's not money, status, emotional intelligence or communication skills. We men need to take care of ourselves. We treat our bodies and minds like they aren't worth anything and than hope that women find us worthy. Which is fucking ridiculous. It shouldn't be that way, a guy should treat himself like he is worth it, worth to suffer to keep his body and mind fit and everything after that will be a cakewalk (talking strictly from my anecdotal experience - as 6'1 it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: guys shouldn’t pay for the first dateI don't think this is unpopular. In fact I would say never pay for a date before a person officially assumes the girlfriend or boyfriend position. You should not pay for a stranger's dinner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 05:53 PM |
| 6 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menSex is part of a relationship, if the sex is bad you two aren't meant for each-other. Thus if a guy or a girl (mostly) is making you wait for sex, you should leave. Why invest so much time into someone when after three months, one night later, you want to leave them? Sex should come before commitment. It should be the same for women - why spend even two days with someone you aren't compatible with sexually if a sexually fulfilling relationship isn't your goal? If sex is so fucking unimportant to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 06:17 PM |
| 0 | The Andrew Tate phenomenon shows that the mainstream responds very positively to "pill" ideas, but they are artificially suppressed by Western media companiesI think he is funny. But so over the top that it has to be a grift. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 11:15 PM |
| 8 | Most girls are conditioned to think that what's most important about them is how they look.Good argument. I felt this myself. I was much more a mommy's boy and liked to read and play video games until I went to middle school and was pressured to be the stereotypical aggressive male teenager to be in the in group, play and watch sports and so on, which now has become part of me and I actually enjoy it. But I don't know if I would have been the same if home-schooled for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 03:43 PM |
| 0 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'Every men everywhere should be upset when hearing that below 40. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 03:38 PM |
| 0 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?Wha..? No man ever started revolutions, wars or civil wars because of real or perceived power imbalances or lack of power for centuries. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 01:18 AM |
| 0 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'kindness, empathy, etc So hot, makes any woman want to rip the clothes off your body immediately /s. I want a woman to be attracted to me, your "husband material" advice is maybe great later on - I don't know and care, I'm too young for that - what I know, it nets you 0 attraction or negative. You are not only lying to me, but to yourself with this delusion. But well, it's the advice that brings men into trp, so thanks for actively recruiting for us I guess? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'So you don't see the irony in women giving out actionable dating advice What? Just told you the whole BP drivel is a lie and I want the cold hard truth and you can just repeat yourself? You know where you are, do you? This is PP so you meet RPers. TRP exists because of that utterly useless dating advice from women. "have a better face" and telling us we're the bad actors Exactly. Bad actors because every second of my life and experience are telling me you are lying. Empathy as dating strategy, I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | “Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountableNot covering anyone. That would mean spending energy for criminals - I'm against spending time on anything that I don't like and that is especially true for criminals. But the last thing I'd do is put myself in the line of fire for a damsel in distress. Where do you think we live? In the 50s? I don't think either of us wants that time back, there is no situation that I would prefer to go back to a world where oppressing women is the norm but I had to sacrifice myself for them for whatever random… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 10:08 PM |
| 0 | Do you think women place the same rules on ugly guys and attractive guys?You are right. Though I would say men in general find women as a whole more attractive then women find men attractive and that makes quite a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'You don't think empathy improves relationships? Sure, it doesn't help to get into one a lot though. Or at all in my experience. Yeah, now see, this is top shelf level dating advice. Just have a better face ladies. The whole point about this comment was to encourage being brutally honest to men as well. Have you not read the two sentences before it, come on, don't bad faith me here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 09:49 PM |
| 4 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'to inspire men to be more empathetic towards women or to relate to us better and in ways we prefer. I don't think that's bad overall in both directions. But the point of this sub is to be in a relationship, not to make the world a better place. They got a point, telling us the raw an unfiltered truth about attraction is better than the "what is the best way to represent my views that shows my virtue to society" kind of way nobody really cares about. Mine is for example a woman's face (I do not m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you genuinely think OF is easy/worth it?I live in Europe, in a country where you can call girls and arrange a meeting in her preferred place, usually a brothel that has security and you usually just take the money for what you've ordered. I live in a city, so it's one phone call away and 15-30 minutes later I'd get laid. Still not going to do it, like I said, I want enthusiastic attraction or at least some desire to do it with me or I won't enjoy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?If it were to magically happen I would want a few years back as well, like a decade because it wouldn't work at my current age. Before sex work, I'd try to make a following doing tiktoks and twitch streams in the egirl / gamergirl kind of way (I was surprised by the way that Gen Z seems to not see gamer girl as a slur anymore but quite the opposite) while posting a fuckton of clips on YouTube, first by myself and if possible hire an editor to do 2-3 10 minutes compilations every week. If this we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: Do you genuinely think OF is easy/worth it?Why not just go to a prostitute or an escort and pay for sex. Exactly. I don't get it - if I ever would pay money, it would be for a real life deal. But I'm not into paying money for sex... I like the woman to be attracted to me - that's why I also do not pay for dates until she occupies the girlfriend status. It just feels weird, I don't want to fuck because I'm seen as a provider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you genuinely think OF is easy/worth it?One question I have in these statistics - how many of the 90% are even active? I mean, I had a streaming channel I tried to revive over 5 years a few times. I was also one of the people in these statistics (only for gaming streams). But it's not that I even tried that hard, it was mostly a "let's see what happens" kind of deal. Add to that it's not only what most men would consider 8-10s doing OF - so I don't think for an 8-10 it's a 1 out of 10 chance to succeed. It could be significantly bette… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 01:49 PM |
| 7 | Adventures in hard screening: "I want to take things slow."Completely agree. If I don't want to take it slowly but my date wants to, I'll leave. My reasoning is different, I do not want to be the guy that has to deal with rules, I want to be the guy for whom she brakes her rules. That is the level of attraction that I want, that is the level of attraction I'm willing to give. If this doesn't match, It's better to leave immediately because it seems there are different outlooks for a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Did allowing women to join the workforce increase their value overall?Their SMV? No. It has some positive impact as I can't stand some comments of a person that never worked to earn a living. But that is usually equally ruined by the amount of stress both partners now bring to the relationship from the outside. So I wouldn't see it as either a net positive or negative. It depends on the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 08:19 AM |
| 2 | Why Andrew Tate is so popularI've seen some memes, but that's it. I don't think he is that popular. What I got out of it is that he is rich and a kickboxer. I'm not surprised that he is successful with women, but I don't think that is something the average guy can reproduce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 08:11 AM |
| 1 | I see a lot of "call outs" where women wish men would share their emotions more, and now men are pushing back saying when they do, it's weaponized against them. What's the healthy balance?Isn't pick-me just a new word for slut? Women love to insult each other for trying to up their smv. But since the slut-walks it has become difficult to call a woman a slut. Though as a man, none of the women who walked in the protest were really appealing. The concept of slut still existed though, I mean - my anecdotal experience: I was in a seminar for a month in college and there was a literal 10/10 blonde goddess (not like the girls in the slut walks). She came in with heels, a mini and confi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 07:23 PM |
| 2 | So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection?Why should women do anything? If it's against what you want, you don't do it. That's perfectly fine. I don't think you should go against your feelings. In the end it just means more men are going to look for and discover trp. So it's a win-win as far as I'm concerned. Don't listen to men that try to shame you. I think it's women centered thinking to say "change! or you won't like it!" and it's using women's language to achieve it. No, don't change, you can't change, you don't need to change. It'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather have common interests with your partner of similar age or a younger women?I'm not that old myself though definitely born too late for tiktok. But I don't mind tiktok and/or going to starbucks. Honestly I'd probably be fine with some sort of e-girl, if she really is into gaming and anime. I don't have as much time as I had in university but sure why not, she could teach me a thing or two about the newest shows and finally convince me to play Valorant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 02:11 AM |
| 0 | “When men sleep around no one cares, in fact, it’s almost applauded. Yet when women sleep around, she’s considered promiscuous and shamed for it.” Sorry ladies, it’s not the same thing, no matter how much you want it to beYes. You are completely right. But who cares? More sex for everyone if they play their cards right. Just do the male version of beta bucks. Get into low or no commitment relationships and when your are in your 40s maybe even in your 50s get a low n count 6 or 7 in her early 30s where she still can have 1-2 children. I don't really see a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | “When men sleep around no one cares, in fact, it’s almost applauded. Yet when women sleep around, she’s considered promiscuous and shamed for it.” Sorry ladies, it’s not the same thing, no matter how much you want it to bePeople complaining are looking for a trad wife. I'm not complaining because I look for sex. Though in a decade or two this might change. I will probably go for a 6 or 7 (easier because I can let myself go a bit too than, I don't want to hit the gym in my 40s-50s) if she is emotionally stable enough to have a family. The opposite of bb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 10:04 PM |
| 2 | What issues do you actually feel for women about?Maybe a rare case of the grass is greener on my side lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 08:39 PM |
| 2 | What issues do you actually feel for women about?On average lower sex drive. I can't imagine living life without the getting the constant visual stimulus feeling when seeing someone I'm attracted to. It motivates me in every aspect my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of "unionizing" the same way women do.Men won't help each other simply based on the fact that they are men. They need to be in teams, unions and fraternities based on a goal, even if it is just to party. And than these groups do not support outside-group men just because they are men. So I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Scientific American: Our Brains See Men as Whole and Women as PartsI don't know, I don't have such men in my life besides my father. The though of idolizing anyone is repulsive for me. I will learn and teach but that's the extend of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:22 PM |
| 0 | Scientific American: Our Brains See Men as Whole and Women as Partssince men were viewed as more complete humans Disagree with the word choices here and this whole article to be honest. Being seen as "complete" is not a positive or negative outcome. You still start at 0. I actually would prefer if one part of me was to be objectified, like for example my face shape. That would put me at 0 + object of attraction instead of just 0. You can fill the complete human part after getting to know the other person. I'd kill for that - I mean it. Maybe it's a grass is gre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:12 PM |
| 0 | Scientific American: Our Brains See Men as Whole and Women as PartsFrom my own experience. I do not really remember the body shape of my male friends. In my mind they are almost like ghosts with a face. I can tell you if they are bigger or smaller than me but that's it. But if someone were to ask me to pick one of my friends based on a picture of a torso from 10 other people, I would struggle. I remember the general face shape, eye color, breast size, the length of legs, thighs and hips of all of my former girlfriends. I'd easily be able to tell them apart from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Scientific American: Our Brains See Men as Whole and Women as PartsI don't understand. Isn't this overthinking? Maybe I do not understand because I'm able to do literally nothing but sit on the couch staring at a wall for more than an hour. Switching of the voice that constantly is telling me do x, y and z or others will think you are worthless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you care less if you're cheated on by a woman with another woman?I'm monogamous. I'd end the relationship. I wouldn't mind talking about it if she wanted to explore it with me in it and discussing boundaries and rules. As long as it's rare. But never a guy since I'm not bi. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 02:13 PM |
| 3 | Both Men And Women In "Normal" Society Acknowledge Alpha Fux Beta BuxThat sounds very good. I'm one of the younger millennials so I had and still have lots of interactions with Gen Z, and it's really easy to poke through the wall of what they were taught to think to discover what they actually think. There is a big anti-feminist attitude waiting to be let out after they gained independence. Just look at Korea and its last elections, this is what is in store for us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BBThat guy has probably done more in the last 10 years than most other men on the planet. Women are hopping on his ride, he is a driven entrepreneur that sleeps in his factories if it means to get shit done. He doesn't need to lift a finger to get women because they want to join him in his adventure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BBThe guy is probably not looking for an LTR and feigning interest. I don't condone that kind of behavior. If I see rules and regulations being set by the woman for physical intimacy I'll simply leave, feigning interest is just going to make both parties bitter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference?Men have a wide variety of body types they like on women. Most of the standardization of what body types to like are imo made by women for women. I lived long enough to watch the obsession with ass becoming a thing. And even though I got into it a bit, it never resulted into rejecting a girl because of her small ass. lol - To this date face > everything for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Financially investing in women early on to show that you're not just after sex seems logical. But when women take advantage of this by using men as free meal tickets or giving free sex very quickly to attractive men, men rightfully stop investing in women.Pretty much only pay for dates when she is your girlfriend. And not that simp definition of girlfriend, I mean a person who is attracted to you and has sex with you. Rule of thumb: Don't ever pay for dates before sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 10:49 AM |
| 2 | Have you been in a situation where you were called creepy?I was drunk. I leaned on someone I though was my friend and it turned out it was a girl he was talking to. I later heard that she told him "your friend is creepy". I didn't really affect me though, I was drunk and he had only sex with her that day, no relationship. Never saw her again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Women often like guys who treat them as disposableNormal, well adjusted women do not. Doubt. Women and men will put up with a lot of things depending on the attractiveness of the partner. The difference is, women #notall constantly lie to men and themselves that they put any value on personality - men don't #notall. Lots of men believe these lies and react toxic when they find out that it's not the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men.The implied solution would be correct, if we wanted to "save" society or if we were in anyway invested in it, profiting from it flourishing. Not only is that not correct - I couldn't care less, the kicker is, I don't believe the old ways was a good deal for men to begin with. Why would I want back to a time where accidentally impregnating a girl means I have to marry her and spend my whole life working as a corporate drone to come back to a wife who hates having to be with me and kids that are t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 01:07 AM |
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