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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	Help becoming a man [long post]		retydi	/r/becomeaman	02/12/14 02:46 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Help becoming a man [long post] The alpha and beta distinction for me is mostly alpha being confident, assertive and in charge where beta is the opposite. I agree 100% with what TRP says but I don't believe in woman bashing or anything, my view point is that, I wouldn't want to date myself right now so why would a girl date me. I have been battling depression but I'm hopeful I can beat it if I continue with my current plan, I've been doing push ups and sits up every morning/night before bed. So far I can do 30 push ups and 50 …	/r/becomeaman	02/12/14 07:22 AM
1	Help becoming a man [long post] Thank you for responding and I'm sorry for your upbringing also. It's definitely a big handicap to overcome and many times I've felt like giving up and just blaming the world for my problems. But like you there are plenty of people that have had it just as bad and managed to work it all out which gives it hope I can work my situation out. I've read a bit about neuroplastisity which makes me more hopeful that as long as I continue on the right path my brain can change the way I think. I need to f…	/r/becomeaman	02/12/14 05:09 AM
1	Help becoming a man [long post] I guess what I expected to gain was perhaps an insight into what I have to do next, I'm lost in a sense. I feel a lot of the time like giving up because of this shit I've had to deal with, but like the other guy that posted there are plenty of people that have had it bad and still come out on top, it feels like a mountain obstacle I have to climb over right now. I know I have to get a job, then I can afford to go the gym properly, and from there I have to figure it out.	/r/becomeaman	02/12/14 05:03 AM

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