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| 202 | Parasitic Nesting-Mode activated: Buddy's GF starts competing with me, as soon as he buys his own place. | Rant/Venting | revengeofthecrazy | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/15 09:06 PM |
| 5 | Weird shit test after 3 weeks of domination in the bedroom | revengeofthecrazy | /r/askTRP | 10/09/15 05:27 PM |
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| 3 | Why wives spend all your moneyI bought new LED lights for my car (500+). The old ones were weak and I don't have the best vision in darkness in winter and so on. 27 year old: "Nice to know where your priorities are..." Really meaning: "I don't respect you as much anymore, so fuck your safety, your priorities, your life, become my beta cash machine you bitch, you should be spending your cash on pleasing me materially because I can't and don't want to take care of myself." | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/17 09:06 AM |
| 3 | New Year's Resolutions Are Bullshit: Learn How To Achieve Your Goals(Sun Tzu Style)The typical new year's resolutioner is an undisciplined person who doesn't take responsibility for his current state of being (+90% of people on earth). The blame is shifted on "lack of motivation." and usually forward in time. Motivation is abused as a crutch by pathetic people. Without discipline, no change happens. Motivation should be the beautiful baby of discipline, born consequentially, out of pride. When disciplined people talk about new year's resolutions shit gets real. Because they ta… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/17 07:02 PM |
| 1 | I saw this on Facebook and was disgustedBy the way that image is a shit test. She's crying for attention and most people here respond with a hurt ego. It's pathetic. You should be flirtatiously making fun or her with the intent of fucking her down that long giraffe throat with that little bushy cow dick of yours. That's actually what I would comment on that image. Gets the conversation started. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/16 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Avoid nerd stuff. This isn't emphasized nearly enough.History doesn't have many examples of nerd-like activities which are kind of a phenomenon of recent times. I doubt the generals of ancient Rome would care if they were into dungeons and dragons for some relaxing in between slaughtering. Once you are as bad-ass as you always wanted to be, you can get away with anything. Until that's happened, avoiding nerdy things and people is generally a good idea because they can prevent growth and social climbing. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/16 07:11 PM |
| 36 | You want to gain social status among guys, become the master of banter and never take stuff seriously.Yeah you appeared weak to everyone when your frame broke and you revealed your feelz. You should have "outframed" him by not letting him affect your behavior. The opportunity to completely break the guy in front of everyone would have come around by itself. When you get "bullied" by an alpha type at the job the best tactic is to counter 50% of the attacks and completely ignore/act busy on the rest. The attacker learns that he might get torched if he says something or humiliated by being ignored.… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/16 02:40 PM |
| 1 | You are the prize - Act Like You AreWhat? You are saying all guys who don't look like male strippers don't get women? There might be some flaws in that logic. Obviously looks are a factor, but average people fuck too. So "looks don't matter" is the most useful, sex-enabling, excuse-free mindset to adopt. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/16 03:08 PM |
| 2 | You are the prize - Act Like You AreGame is for men upwards of 5 who want to maximize their access to women upwards of 5. Seriously if you're handicapped you have other problems than personal development. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/16 02:59 PM |
| 5 | You are the prize - Act Like You Areeach girl is attracted to different lifestyles Women are all attracted to the same things, but on a spectrum that is related to their self worth. With increasing intelligence and quality of upbringing, the intensity of stimulus required to provoke her interest are decreasing. With increasing sexual experience, the intensity will increase. Women will mold into ANY lifestyle if they deem the guy worthy enough. even though all lead back to power/money, looks, and confidence. Power/money = She will … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/16 10:16 AM |
| 1 | If you ever get called a Narcissist- tell them thank you. You've made it.He can't really better himself, because his condition makes him think he's already amazing. It's just the way they think, it's quite interesting. He does therapy and it takes him enormous energy just to admit small weaknesses. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/16 03:14 PM |
| 2 | I've had dozens of lays from Tinder alone. Here's how I do it.To most Europeans, Americans appear very open, friendly and conversational. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/16 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend of two years wants to take a month break, advice needed.Fuck someone else. She'll be angry, then come back. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/16 03:08 PM |
| 11 | I've had dozens of lays from Tinder alone. Here's how I do it.For the first time in my life I've been considering actually doing this Tinder shit. Thanks for the no bullshit advice. I'm wondering if the same will be applicable in Europe, where people are somewhat more reserved. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/16 07:06 PM |
| 2 | My LTR is 28Don't rob yourself of the experience by cutting it short. Ride the buffalo as long as it's fun. When you see the fence coming (wall), jump off. Don't worry. The betas will feed her. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/16 11:57 AM |
| 4 | If you ever get called a Narcissist- tell them thank you. You've made it.True. I know a guy with narcissistic personality disorder and he's suffering. He's not fun to be around. The condition basically prevents his brain from critically analyzing himself because he always has to believe that he is amazing. Stagnates growth and makes him appear arrogant and many times silly. People roll their eyes when he talks. However, I've learned a lot from his behaviors: if I managed to take myself as seriously as he takes himself, I'd be further in life. His unshakable belief th… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/16 11:49 AM |
| 2 | My LTR is 28Had similar recently, 26. She was hotter when younger but still desirable: blonde, tall, skinny, had tits and a pussy as well, yadayada. I knew the wall was coming soon but I enjoyed her a lot: Eastern girl, decent traditional foundation. Submissive in general. LTR ideas floated around my head for a whle but I stayed in control of myself because of her age and I didn't know her count and never asked. She was always good to me and we barely argued. However I made sure to hold off some of my commi… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/16 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Pornography: society's slave master.I'm getting the impression that guys who get offended and deny what you said here fall into two categories: Addicts who lie to themselves Guys who have sex AND enjoy porn The third category can agree because they have realized how porn kept/keeps them from trying for sex with real women, so they notice these factors. Subjective stuff though. Nobody is trying to take porn away from anyone. Smoking kills too, yet many men enjoy it, rightfully so. Being mindful of the dangers porn holds isn't the s… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/16 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Chasing Chad: An important issue that will plague a lot of guys coming on to TRP.Girls don't converse, they chat. If you want to talk sense, talk to men. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/16 05:36 PM |
| 4 | Turned a Liberal Girl Into a ConservativeCorrect. Women will do whatever it takes to associate themselves with the man they respect and/or submit to. But as we all know this is a very conditional behavior. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/16 05:24 PM |
| 1 | For Better or WorseWhat you're saying is true, but most guys will read this as "let her break my rules so the mood doesn't get ruined." I'd rather ruin the mood for a minute and teach her a little lesson in respect. The giggles can come right back after that. I run the show anyway. Smiles and respect are more powerful than just smiles. I guess it depends on what you want out of the woman. Also I'm in Europe. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/16 11:38 AM |
| 34 | Recovering from OneitisHow to get over a girl: Step 1: Realize that the connection you still feel is chemical aka feelz. Step 2: Realize that since you are a man, you are actually in control of your emotions, unlike women. Use this. Step 3: Stop obsessing and take steps towards sex with other women every day. You will be happier. Step 4: Fuck another woman. Congratulations, you're healed. Lessons learned: Your brain makes you think you care about a female by putting feelsy chemicals in your bloodstream. Then you fuck … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 04:38 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Lesson learned = fuck her ASAP.Moral of your story: Close on a high. Sometimes, we are Chad. I went to an office and a cute looking girl sits there, typing. I said "I'm so glad to see you." as if I knew her. Jackpot. She had insta-twinkly eyes. Then I teased hard. We hang out for a day or two, I escalate and give her feelings. She breaks up with her boyfriend of 7 years. Poor guy, probably wondering "Why is she not texting back??". I tell her to come over and not be late. We take a walk and I tease her. She explains the thing… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 04:08 PM |
| 5 | For Better or Worse[...]if I go to the bathroom [...] and come back to find them on their phone, I tease them [...] So you psychologically reward them for having used the phone by giving them emotional spikes that make them giggle. You're on the wrong track. You need to blame them hard, then withdraw attention ("love"), then continue as if nothing had happened. Example: When a woman uses her phone when you get back from the bathroom you need to have a dead serious face and say: "Oh you're one of those who can't be… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Controling Female Sexuality: We've been doing it wrongI do mass-prozac-ing or transhumanism, chipping, some sci-fi stuff, that will eventually come into our reality. About the small scale societies: A man being useful used to give females tingles. This was when what we now call "beta" was sort of a good thing. Now the state and smartphones take care of women's needs. We should take both away from them. Not sure how... :) | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Controling Female Sexuality: We've been doing it wrongInteresting ideas. Very collectivist at the base. A few factors I think that should be considered or you could think about: In your thinking, you don't talk about reproduction, only about sexual gratification. This is only relevant in highly advanced societies where pregnancy can be almost entirely avoided. In fact, these societies aren't far from changing the way in which sex drive works biologically, so maybe controlling the human species by ideology won't soon be necessary anymore? (Removal o… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/16 10:29 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Fullfilling fantasiesIt's just nature saying "be very pregnant" really loudly. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/16 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Dread with my SO and sticking to my gunsI liked the story, no hate from me. LTR despite TRP (Purple?) is not anyone else's business. Be careful with those chubby ones: They can explode, especially around words like "relationship", "love", "our future" and such. If a chubby one does lose weight it's always a tactical move to lock something good down now (you in this case). But it's almost guaranteed that they will fall back into old patterns. You don't want you spend your life having to dread-game her every time she gains. Tendency tow… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/16 09:28 PM |
| 1 | When even mainstream media tells you: DON'T GET MARRIED! (and love doesn't exist by the way)What do you mean "even" the mainstream media? Of course the mainstream media doesn't want you to get married. Hollywood and the media have been propagandizing against marriage for decades. They want to kill the family nucleus, marry the women to the state to own the children (=future). | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/16 09:02 PM |
| 8 | Yes, actually, they do want to be dominatedDon't make excuses. Act now, the perfect situation that you imagine will never come. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/16 02:44 PM |
| 0 | Your Plates Most Likely Plate You As Well : Never Get Attached.Now, while AWALT, remember that NAWALT. Of course, if you can't handle it, don't touch it. Furthermore, this isn't just ALMOST prostitute level. It's WORSE, because a prostitute's time is worth money. Aah yes, the decline... | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/16 02:39 PM |
| 1 | What men truly want from a woman is nurturing.I think all men want their women to be as nurturing towards them as possible. It's comfortable, seems reliable if something actually happened to us and it promises the same towards our potential offspring with her. This is primal stuff. I think most men aren't getting enough of this nurturing but there is a reason for it: I personally want my woman to show me signs of physical affection after a long and draining work day. I want her to want to relax me but it rarely happens. One day I realized t… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/16 08:49 AM |
| 10 | TRP Real Time Exercise - Plate ManagementIn this situation, we men are now going to think about what we can do to deal with this situation and spin it around in our favor. We are trying to control this situation. Actually, a situation like this is entirely out of our control. If you radio silence, she will decide whether to be submissive, apologize, or angry and bitchy. If you say: "Actually I was planning to..." there is a 90% chance she will read it as a beta excuse. She will be more disappointed than happy that you justified yoursel… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/16 07:38 AM |
| 1 | 'Performance artist' lets strangers fondle her breasts and vagina in publicYeah, sometimes I wish there was something else we could do. Unwin certainly proves we can't. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/16 07:51 AM |
| 12 | 'Performance artist' lets strangers fondle her breasts and vagina in publicI'm not a religious guy but I can't help but think of Sodom and Gomorrah. There is probably a place for this (a slut being fingered by strangers) in a society, but it's down in a basement in some whorehouse. All the bitch knows is being a bitch, so it's not even her fault and aren't we men happy that women are pliable enough to be turned into such things. The problem is that this is in public. It's a great example of the hamster aka the utter insanity of women (attention > self preservation). Bu… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/16 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Weird shit test after 3 weeks of domination in the bedroomYou're right I've been texting way too much. The content wasn't like friendly bantering that could give her any ideas, it was mostly flirting and teasing but I did end up saying something lame. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/15 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Weird shit test after 3 weeks of domination in the bedroomRight, that's what I meant with "a bit too much after all". She actually tried to win me over for a long time, so from this dynamic, I'm expecting that she wants a LTR and everything she's doing is to get me hooked. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/15 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Weird shit test after 3 weeks of domination in the bedroomI agree, nothing she does or says is very authentic. I expect that she's going to change her behavior drastically as soon as she thinks she has to turn it into a LTR. I don't treat her particularly well and I'm not planning on changing that. Probably going to have to cut her loose soon. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/15 08:39 AM |
| 3 | Control your plateIf you told this story to a guy, he wouldn't think it was bragging. Tell the same story to a girl, she may think you're bragging. I should have clarified. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/15 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Should I avoid feeling "superior" when nobody I know is into self-improvement and motivated as me?I can strongly relate to what you said here. I was like that. I am also overcompensating my past shyness and lack of success with a big ego. I know how far I've come and I feel like "nobody is ever going to take this away from me." My ego and slight arrogance allow me to hold frame better. Maybe later it'll turn into wisdom. But for now the girls I interact with rarely question it, so I'd say it's not something you have to pay too much attention to. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/15 04:35 PM |
| 5 | Control your plateTalking about achievements/bragging is lame. You're asking for shit tests. This girl is maybe a bit on the extreme side, so don't calibrate too much to her. It can really screw up your calibration for normal girls if you're learning this stuff. This girl can seem like a hard-ass, but don't fall into her game of mind fuckery. She's probably got a very fragile ego underneath and she's learned to confuse people with her cockiness. When she tries to provoke you with shittests, you have to find a way… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/15 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Should I avoid feeling "superior" when nobody I know is into self-improvement and motivated as me?People who are constantly working on themselves are rare, not sure how healthy it is in the long term to think you're better than everyone else. That said.. you ARE better than most people and this mindset can further fuel your journey. Having a big ego doesn't have a big downside if you don't become an arrogant know-it-all who can't back up what he's talking about. You know what I mean, you don't have to talk about it. Young women certainly forgive male arrogance quickly. They may shit test you… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/15 04:21 PM |
| 8 | "Men shouldn't expect sex from relationships with women" is really offensive.As soon as you say yes to a relationship a timer starts. It marks her decreasing attraction for you. She's going to extract as much value from you as possible. She can be more or less subtle at this. During this time she would normally get pregnant and dependent and develop love for the value you are capable of producing as a man. If this doesn't happen, her attraction will keep fading but you will still be increasingly expected to provide and fix her stuff AS IF she were dependent. Of course, y… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/15 09:00 AM |
| 7 | Women will do almost anything for an Alpha MaleI don't get this either. How fucked up in the head do you have to be, to accept this kind of gift? How seriously do you have to take yourself, how narcissistic do you have to be, how valuable do you have to think you are? Someone tell me. Those creatures man... Bring on the sex bots already, I'll get 3 for the price of that ring. I'm joking. Or am I? I don't know anymore ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/15 12:18 PM |
| 3 | RooshV slams the Red PillTyler stole from Mystery. Even the term "social dynamics" first appeared in Mystery's book. Tyler's company is entirely based on stuff he didn't invent. But he took it to levels that Mystery couldn't have. Many men profited from that, there's no denying it. Zuckerberg stole the idea of a social website, but his version was a million times better than the original and he took it to a level the inventors never would have. Don't be envious beta bitches but because Roosh's methods may appear unjust.… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/15 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Learned HelplessnessYes. You build your mental horizon (should I say prison?) with the things you experience. You may not be happy with what you see, but you don't know that there is something behind the horizon. Beyond your reality, there is an invisible ocean of unknown. The mind can't simply imagine something it hasn't seen before. Our intelligence works mostly by reflection on impressions. I remember my beta days. I was unhappy, but had no source of inspiration, so there was no way to change. I had to learn the… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/15 08:35 PM |
| 2 | I'm sick and tired of being sick and fucking tiredExactly. I think anger in the modern man is auto-suppressed. Anger doesn't mean you automatically must behave in a destructive way. Anger is just the fuel you sometimes need to get off your ass, beat the anxiety, stop thinking what everyone thinks and what the results of your actions are going to be. It turns off your brain a bit and brings out a more raw version of you. Women love a man who is in touch with his anger, but not owned by it. Be too nice just once and women lose respect. Be too mad… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/15 05:11 PM |
| 10 | I'm sick and tired of being sick and fucking tiredMy quick tip turned into a description of my game. Take a minute to read it because I had the same problem. I may exaggerate for illustration purposes. I'll try to describe my attitude with some examples, maybe something is of use to you. Maybe you're a bit too focused on the process of game. This happened to me. Going out there and playing the game intensely can sometimes make you come across as too smooth or rather too "reactive". I'll explain: I'm a sensitive guy in such a way, that it allows… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/15 09:03 PM |
| 2 | "Women have higher emotional intelligence," and Sympathy vs. EmpathyUgh. Look mate (or sweetie, I'm starting to wonder), emotional intelligence is defined as the ability to monitor one's own and other people's emotions. That did not fly us to the moon. Math and engineering did. Not feelings. Actually I am familiar with the type of intelligence that is wrongfully called emotional intelligence. It's defined as the ability to be empathetic, to tolerate, to trust, to function in stress and so on. Calling it emotional intelligence sound like a bit of an agenda to me.… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 05:24 PM |
| -6 | Solipsism: the feminine psyche is masturbatory.That's exactly what OP is telling you. If she wears the right emotional glasses, it almost completely doesn't matter what you say. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/15 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Solipsism: the feminine psyche is masturbatory.Written with style and I like your argument. Another way of putting it: Men enjoy women directly, because what we desire is visually built into them. We enjoy their bodies, that belong to them. Our focus is outside of ourselves. If a woman is enjoying herself around you, then she's not really enjoying something that belongs to you, she's rather enjoying her own emotions inside of herself that you kindly eased her into. Haha, I am almost completely over my bitter phase but this big boy goes down … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/15 05:53 PM |
| 6 | "Women have higher emotional intelligence," and Sympathy vs. EmpathyI understand what you're saying, I'm saying it's irrelevant. Even if they do use their cognitive system like you say, what does that change? I use my cognitive system when I take a dump, but it's not impressive behavior. "Emotional intelligence" didn't get us to the moon like logical intelligence did. You can't compare the two and say they're equally noteworthy. Not all attributes, or as you say specializations, are born equal. The word "emotional intelligence" has a feminist facet to it because… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/15 05:09 PM |
| 6 | "Women have higher emotional intelligence," and Sympathy vs. EmpathyCertainly not all men are constructive but put 10 men in a room with bricks, chances are they will discuss what to do and try to build something. Put 10 women in a room with bricks and chances are they will sit on them and chat. There are popular examples of this, I'm sure you know many of them. The best is still the reality show from the netherlands, where the producers made the big mistake of putting 10 women on one island and 10 men on another. After a few days, they had to change the concept… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/15 08:22 AM |
| 40 | "Women have higher emotional intelligence," and Sympathy vs. EmpathyI'll add: Women's social attitude is selfish. They work against other women and men to isolate an individual man and indirectly extract as much from him as they can. Men's social attitude is the opposite: They work with other men to learn, create and improve things for the benefit of everyone around them. They may sacrifice themselves for a single woman. That's why men don't understand how women think socially, women's agendas are hidden. Men think about improving and creating, women think about… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/15 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Women's emotional volatility is an unconscious and evolved mechanism to secure men's commitment by wiring his ego into the role of the provider.I wonder what's going to happen if this knowledge becomes mainstream in a distilled version, like pickup did. It would be a big step in human consciousness if the critical mass got a hold of this information. I can see it happening. A species realizes its subconscious imperative and gains control over it. Imagine the consequences. It's not easy knowing all this. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Women's emotional volatility is an unconscious and evolved mechanism to secure men's commitment by wiring his ego into the role of the provider.Yes. We actually have the same override but it takes much more to trigger it. I'm thinking of a fistfight, at some point your rage will block your intelligence and you'll do insane things automatically without regrets. It's funny to use this as an example because women must be feeling this stuff every day in the most mundane situations. That "losing control" feeling. Even in joyful moments. It must be quite something to give into it. I have never lost control in a joyful moment, my emotions neve… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Women's emotional volatility is an unconscious and evolved mechanism to secure men's commitment by wiring his ego into the role of the provider.Interesting, I don't know much about biology at all. Also, good to know a female teacher exists who openly said something like that. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 07:43 PM |
| 26 | Women's emotional volatility is an unconscious and evolved mechanism to secure men's commitment by wiring his ego into the role of the provider.I agree with this. From my experience, when a woman feels attracted to a man, she will first display submissive, good girl behaviors to charm him. He will consider her practical, cute, harmless and attractive. However, as soon as the man has the lay, she will start and try to take back the territory by voicing expectations. If they aren't immediately met, she will go through emotional outbursts to trick the peace loving, relaxation seeking man into doing all kinds of stuff for her, just so that … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/15 08:54 AM |
| 2 | Jesus, women are just so open to cuckoldry it's not even funny!From the perspective of evolution, IT IS. Her offspring will have a higher chance of survival if they have better, more "alpha" genes, no matter if they are raised by a dad that's not theirs. I was trying to make this point with a friend who's a doctor and he argued that there is no way to know the quality of genes by looking at the behavior of a person. He went into detail. There are no alpha genes. The offspring will have higher chance of survival if any male provider is present when they grow… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 08:48 PM |
| 0 | [Red Pill Theory] Tall guys of TRP, how do you remind yourself to keep good posture?I'm tall. Lift and start getting bigger. Do the "winning pose" (holding arms up) a lot. Each time after you do it, you will have a tendency to keep better posture. Put a few post-its around the house that say "I will have great posture today." You'll sometimes run into them unexpectedly. You can move them to other places sometimes. Whether you expect them to be there or whether they surprise you doesn't matter: The continuous bombardment with the message will program your brain. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 08:37 PM |
| 4 | Sex is not that goodThat was the moment when these girls lost not just all their power, but also their life purpose. How could you man ;). | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 02:58 AM |
| 1 | I'm having trouble accepting this.You're right and I agree entirely, but this doesn't change the objective reality. A woman's main quality is her vagina. A man's main quality is his work. If a man doesn't work at all, he won't score at all. The more work a man does, the higher he can score. A woman can't do that, but excellence is not her priority and it wouldn't be man's priority either if he could get vagina without it. If a woman gets lazy, her vagina won't simply disappear. These are the cards the sexes are dealt. It's true,… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 11:15 AM |
| 1 | I'm having trouble accepting this.I think you didn't understand what I meant. She may be worthless to you romantically, but you're forgetting the betas. Imagine a world, in which you would wake up in the morning and there would be hundreds of thousands of people wanting to fuck you right then and there. You wouldn't have to lift a single finger. Many of them would even stay afterwards or come back with flowers. You don't have to be all that hot. That's not a man's reality, not even Chad's. Imagine how society was a few hundred y… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 11:01 AM |
| 1 | I'm having trouble accepting this.The Dalai Lama has written quite a few books on the eastern philosophies that are directed towards the west. I'd suggest "How to see yourself as you really are". He explains the concepts in abstract manners and it's not a fast read. Sometimes his explanations seem a bit more complicated than they would have to be but he's very down to earth. As I've said, practicing the philosophies is not easy in the west if you're not around like-minded people. But knowing them allows you to retract into a sta… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 10:11 AM |
| 10 | I'm having trouble accepting this.You can't. The more you understand women and how their life works, the more you realize how bad you have it as a man: Nature has made women so men desire them for certain attributes, but not others, of which there are many. Nature has made women so they desire certain male qualities but not others and are thus programmed to manipulate men will to another end. Our attraction does not meet in symbiosis. Our procreation bio-programming is weirdly twisted, we can never become happy from it. But then… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/15 10:26 AM |
| 4 | "I think I was raised to be a beta male cuckold". People in r/foreveralone start waking up.Yes. They don't know what mechanical workings are going on in the car and they don't care. A car isn't a machine to them, it's an idea. They expect it "to just work", if something bad happens "it didn't perform like it was supposed to", read "I didn't get what I felt I deserved." Women are like this with all technical things, they push through them with their emotions and their ignorance. If it breaks, it was shit. Women have no appreciation for material things and they abuse them whether they o… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/15 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Other guys in their early 30's... becoming more ambivalent about dating?Thanks. Good to know. I'm on the right path. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Other guys in their early 30's... becoming more ambivalent about dating?Can you give examples of the age difference you mention? This is something that causes me some worry. I'm 29 and I'm trying to understand my decrease in motivation concerning women. They bore me and I love my freedom too much to spend time going through the motions with them. I'm worried because I didn't have much success when I was younger and now that I got my shit together, I think I should be catching up. Especially before aging more and ending up having to go for older/used/wall women. I'd … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Go see a counselor or therapist. Especially if you are new to TRPI agree with this. I befriend the old eccentrics where I work. Their mentality varies but none of them take any sort of shit and they all do exactly what they want. They are deemed "uncontrollable" by the administration because they are constantly challenging the power structure. (I live in Europe and we have very safe jobs, so they may get away with a lot.) They are unpopular with many coworkers, but they spit red pill gems every day and their mentality is an inspiration to a younger guy like m… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/15 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Parasitic Nesting-Mode activated: Buddy's GF starts competing with me, as soon as he buys his own place.Lol, it's quite obvious what happened here. Good luck with that ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Parasitic Nesting-Mode activated: Buddy's GF starts competing with me, as soon as he buys his own place.While that's true, allowing the girl to contribute also increases her leverage and feelings of entitlement. I'd rather have her feeling a bit like a tourist all the time. I guess that's not truly possible for LTR's. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 07:58 AM |
| 6 | Don't Obsess Over SexI want to expand on that: I stopped being very interested in sex when I realized its price. I'm currently in a phase where I absolutely love my life and the fact that nobody ever questions how I spend my time. I do what the fuck I want and the process of convincing women to have sex with me simply isn't that fun. It has given me a feeling of precise control over my life and my freedom. FREEDOM I tell you. I'm not the victim of my urges anymore because I've gone through the all the phases of with… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Parasitic Nesting-Mode activated: Buddy's GF starts competing with me, as soon as he buys his own place.Yeah the whole behavioral patterns are very strange to observe like this. It's hard to say if it's right or wrong, because it works, right? Human's mating mechanisms are based on vacuums and interests that don't match, it's super strange. Couldn't it be more symbiotic? What was nature thinking? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Parasitic Nesting-Mode activated: Buddy's GF starts competing with me, as soon as he buys his own place.No, I just got burned by women like this and I'm very sensitive to being controlled now. I wish to nobody what I let women get away with in my life, that's why I seem so involved. I see it happen in front of my eyes and I'm finally on the other side of the fence. Feels weird to not be able to help. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Parasitic Nesting-Mode activated: Buddy's GF starts competing with me, as soon as he buys his own place.I live in Europe, I'm gonna have to check how it is here. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Parasitic Nesting-Mode activated: Buddy's GF starts competing with me, as soon as he buys his own place.That's exactly what I was planning on doing. No lingo, just a few cans, see where it goes. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Parasitic Nesting-Mode activated: Buddy's GF starts competing with me, as soon as he buys his own place.Man your story hits twenty times harder than his. Fucking hell. I ask girls the tough questions in my life when they annoy me. But I guess I should let him discover the problem for himself a bit. If you're completely outcome independent you can point out the hamster women and it sometimes works. Some find it attractive when you find yourself inside their heads (figuratively, for now.). But many times they just discard it, or rationalize it off, because their limited intelligence doesn't allow th… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Parasitic Nesting-Mode activated: Buddy's GF starts competing with me, as soon as he buys his own place.Absolutely. The whole story works an example of how a woman can ensnare a man when he's blind to her ways. I don't personally care about his lifting progress, I just think it's sad - objectively seen. I can't help but imagine what it would be like if my plans were being ruined by a woman in this way, this makes me feel compassionate. I have red pill buddies who don't need saving, so that's not an issue. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Parasitic Nesting-Mode activated: Buddy's GF starts competing with me, as soon as he buys his own place.Good to know. Another friend of mine bought a place with the woman together. Fucking idiot. I tried my best there too, and I wasn't even red pill back then. She cheated on him a year later, because she got bored. Do you think she had the decency to let herself out of the deal? Yeah right, they still live there, together. She knows I distrust her completely. She's not tried to befriend me later, but it's very likely with this one. Scary shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Parasitic Nesting-Mode activated: Buddy's GF starts competing with me, as soon as he buys his own place.Haha, I've had this story in the back of my mind for a long time. Didn't think it would resonate so strongly with you guys. You're right, the mindset you need to prevent this from happening is the willingness to walk away as soon as you sense the slightest amount of manipulation. It won't even hurt the relationship that much. I'll maybe shorten it a bit but it will also make her more crazy about you. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Parasitic Nesting-Mode activated: Buddy's GF starts competing with me, as soon as he buys his own place.He's actually already told me that he's bored, since he moved in. I told him: You have to make sure you take up at least two new hobbies now. He's expressed some indecisive ideas but it's the kind he won't do for real. Last time I was there, they both sat on the couch, and I asked them "so what do you do for fun around here?". She said that she always had something to do, and she was never bored. He didn't say shit. The woman will keep herself busy as long as the man is there. She doesn't give a… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Parasitic Nesting-Mode activated: Buddy's GF starts competing with me, as soon as he buys his own place.I get what you mean, maybe you can ease the pain if you try to remember that it's partly their bio-programming that makes them do this stuff, and it's sort of what has resulted in our birth..? Not very comforting, I know. Women's very existence revolves around the entrapment of a male. In insects, some females eat the male after procreation, the human female isn't very far from that. It's the brainwashing we've been exposed to and our sense of right and wrong that makes us think this is unjust a… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Parasitic Nesting-Mode activated: Buddy's GF starts competing with me, as soon as he buys his own place.Wow, that girl knows EXACTLY what she's doing. You can only try your best to teach your brother some truth before she drives the wedge down further. Reading what you say here makes me realize how even another man's woman can be dangerous to your very existence. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you have a strong group of male friends, a tribe? If yes, how did it form and what do you do, how do you define yourselves as a group?All extremely blue, I didn't know a single red pill guy in my whole social circle. Some have traits but they're still very blue pill. Sometimes when you can't find something, it's best to just create it. Tips? Maybe keep it fun and relaxed in the beginning. Do get drunk. Remember to emphasize the no women aspect. It takes any pressure away a blue pill guy might feel and there's no outcome dependence. Also, we don't talk about the "rules". They just fell into place automatically when we were joki… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/15 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Kill your egoThe positions are meant to allow more of a free flow of chi. If you're not into knowing about that, then indeed the position doesn't matter. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Kill your egoYes, there's also focused meditation, where you try to keep a realization / a conclusion to a train of thought on the surface of your consciousness for as long as you can. The Buddhist monks do this. They have their minds wander around the same idea very long. Its use is to take in abstract ideas written down by the great masters. Apparently, if you get extremely skilled at it, you can have enormous mental breakthroughs and very deep understanding of things. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 09:12 PM |
| 1 | I'll keep this short and sweet- Woman's definition of love...It hit me quite hard as well, and I've never even felt loved by a woman in a relationship. I just always had this idea that it was possible, and if I changed into the right thing, it could happen to me. I'm finally starting to get over it. It's not going to happen and it's been very liberating to let go of these false expectations. What also helped me was to admit that my expectations were my own and not based in reality. Reality isn't there to cater to our personal or collective illusions and f… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 08:58 PM |
| 7 | Do you have a strong group of male friends, a tribe? If yes, how did it form and what do you do, how do you define yourselves as a group?I have consciously created a tight group of 5 quality male friends. It was the best idea I've ever had in my life. Here's how I did it: Invited them all individually to join me for workouts and slowly pushed them to start lifting (We all lift now, and most do a second sport.) Slowly introduced the red pill to them using simple examples. Invited them all to stereotypical man-activities I love: Hiking, camping, off-roading and similar. Created the ironic "bro-night", an utterly woman free Wednesda… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 09:04 PM |
| 2 | RP I fucked up and I am a loser.IAs a man, the only way to get the room to look at you and attribute some value to you is if you put a lot of effort into contributing to the mood of the place. You have to seize control of yourself, your friends and your environment. If you don't do this, you're a nobody. RSD have good stuff on the club environment and you can be successful there if you think it's worth it. But if you're not naturally extroverted, you have to learn a lot and work hard on improving your social skills to get anywh… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/15 10:40 AM |
| 1 | RP I fucked up and I am a loser.IWe've all been there. You have the benefit of having written this while drunk, but your mentality isn't working for you and your attitude sucks. I'll try to keep this constructive: You probably felt immense pressure to live up to your own standards, making you stink of desperation. That's why you get rejected. A club is a horrible place to try to self-actualize. Clubs are ego validation caves for women. It's a very hostile environment for men. If you go to a club, go with people who purely go to… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 05:53 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Got invited out from work, failed. Lesson learned.You've got a lot to learn. Read much more. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Are you still faking it, even when you've "made it"? Find the voice that makes you love yourself.Appreciated. Read what I've replied to the other guy, it applies just as much to your comment. I also meditate and read a lot. You need to become very wise about many subjects in order to free yourself completely. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 03:34 PM |
| 7 | Are you still faking it, even when you've "made it"? Find the voice that makes you love yourself.I know exactly what you mean. I have the answer for you. As humans, we don't chase things, we chase feelings. Feeling a certain way about something or ourselves is what drives us to do anything. Like me, you're probably spending a lot of time thinking about what would make you happy. The deal is, you're not chasing things, you're chasing feelings and there's a million barriers between you and getting to those feelings. To get to them, you have to identify the barriers. Don't focus on what will m… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 11:29 AM |
| 16 | Are you still faking it, even when you've "made it"? Find the voice that makes you love yourself.Much has been written about the difference between being alpha and displaying alpha traits. If you have been born not alpha and want to become truly alpha, you have realize the extreme journey that it is: I had rough teenage years, with no girls, being a skinny ass nobody who was scared of everything and everyone. Over the years, I identified everything that was holding me back, discovered psychological blind spots, overcame depressions and hard hitting realizations, massively changed bad habits… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 10:54 PM |
| 22 | Stop trying to be a "good" guy or "balanced" guy. Women have a DUALISTIC mating strategy. Alpha or beta: pick one. If you try to be both you will fail.I want to add: We know that women are parasitic in nature, and want to cling onto the strongest man with the best genes. They are well equipped to extract what they need from this alpha figure. He eats the whole animal he's just hunted, and she can lick the rest of the meat off the carcass. She loves it. If you hand her a piece of good meat, your value instantly drops, never to rise again. Women's whole nature is about finding the strongest, meanest alpha with the best genes to extract those and… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Fatherly AdviceHe's has strong beta tendencies. He had a rough childhood and wanted to give his kids the opposite of that. He knows alpha thoughts, but has repressed them in search for acceptance and love from other people all his life. When I realized this, I knew he'd never change and I was on my own. And you know this isn't even about romance. It's about dealing with bullshit and putting yourself first. I don't think it's too much to ask of a man to tell his son to not take shit. It's a complex subject thou… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Fatherly AdviceYeah, it's easy for a young man to blame his father. It's arrogant. My starting point was the work of his life combined, after all. Game and women's bullshit have played zero role in his life, there's no wisdom to be expected there. It's just frustrating to see this kind of ignorance in your father. It's frustrating to know that my lack of success in my youth can be explained by his lack of experience and that there will never be a role model for me. Strange, this whole thing... Edit: Mom yes, s… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Hate is the new loveAgreed. I like to indulge in that thought: "This is it. It's happening as we speak." It may have happened before, and it may still be happening. Maybe in waves, but it's the tendency that counts, and we're on it. I think of it as dyeing my social circle red. It's not the same as painting it. Like you say, by planting thoughts in your best friends heads, you can bring them around without being a preacher. Since I've introduced the red pill to my circle of male friends, we've grown together into a… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 10:23 PM |
| 16 | Fatherly AdviceI'm 29. To this day, I have not received a single word of advice about women from my dad. The subject makes him uncomfortable. He married his first love... they're still together too. Makes sense he doesn't know much. Not his fault I guess. But man, the piles of shit I had to wade through until I could finally wake up. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/15 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Exposing How Women Manipulate MenIt's shocking when you first understand these methods. In a sad past relationship of mine, a girl was manipulating me using a variety of methods. I did everything for her. She'd learned the tactics from her depressive, unloving mother. I ended up picking up the methods and I'm now able to use them myself. When I sense a woman is trying to manipulate me I'll sometimes join the game and return the favor. I often feel bad when I do, because it's wrong, even though she deserves the treatment. Someti… | /r/MGTOW | 22/02/15 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Losing my attraction to womenI know the comment is old, but I agree with this. It's a very interesting way of thinking about it, especially when you combine it with other developments currently happening in society / humanity. Glad I'm not the only one who thinks this. It seems like a key moment of awakening to certain realities. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 08:01 PM |
| 1 | The Art of AMOGAh yes, you're right... my consideration doesn't hold up in reality. I liked the nuance though. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 05:06 PM |
| 7 | Hate is the new loveExactly, I agree. There are some men of this type left. I call them the "nice men". They aren't completely beta but they are keeping success with women out of their own lives because they live by a code that's useless to them. They are the ones who can't fully distract themselves with video games and all that stuff and they are suffering the most in this madhouse. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Going after girls from wealthier/more affluent backgrounds.I live in Europe, so I have no access to the culture you're describing. It just feels great to read that someone is seeing the turning of the tide. Europe is still about 5-10 years behind the US in terms of cultural developments of this type so I sometimes fear the worst is yet to come here. It's good to know that the potential is there for improvement. I don't live there, but on German TV, the single mom is only starting to be celebrated as hip and normal. It's going to be a drag to see this al… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 10:32 AM |
| 1 | The Art of AMOGI wasn't being sarcastic, I liked the nuance of having that choice. I didn't understand though, that you meant a bully who actively seeks to bully you. I meant someone who was bullying other people. Makes a big difference. No man, I agree, if you get bullied the game is on and anything goes. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 10:23 AM |
| 23 | Hate is the new loveThey know they can't handle their emotions and once you understand how they work, you can play them like a piano. They don't like that successful red pillers and PUA have the key to their holes. Objectively, women are utterly defenseless against getting fucked and pregnant. They rely on social/moral constructs for protection to maintain their freedom and independence. Morally, that's probably a good thing, but they're taking it further than freedom: There needs to be a balance between "finding y… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Going after girls from wealthier/more affluent backgrounds.That's one of the most optimistic posts I've ever read here. I agree that if men continue reclaiming their worth, power and role in the family, things can fall back into place. It's just very tough to believe it will happen soon because of the constant bad news. Maybe the challenge will become another once your daughters become exposed to feminist propaganda when they are older? I don't know, I don't have kids. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 09:36 AM |
| 3 | Are you Alpha, Beta, Omega or another?We try our best to categorize in order to simplify very complex phenomena and behaviors. It's very western to do this and it only makes sense to a certain point. Once past that point, everyone starts disagreeing about the minutiae and the endless discussions start. To be able to appreciate categories and work with them, you need to appreciate their limitations as well as their usefulness. No man is "alpha" or "omega" 100% of the time (not sure about the betas haha). Such congruence is fiction. T… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 08:58 AM |
| 1 | The Art of AMOGThis is great. You describe the line between not giving a shit about someone and going your own way vs. aggressively defusing them for your own profit and entertainment. It can seem a bit bitter, but it makes sense. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 08:23 AM |
| 3 | Detecting a "slut phase."Yes. She needs attention. Just a new haircut can result in weeks of ego stroking for a woman. She can easily extend it to a month with a few selfies on facebook. That attention is so overwhelming for her, her partner of that moment won't be able to compete. Take a moment and imagine guys, if you changed your hair, and you got complimented for a month. Your character would turn to soup and you'd become a superficial, narcissistic piece of trash within a few days. Any questions about women's perso… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 02:14 PM |
| 0 | Your height is not an excuse.Don't overrate height. I'm 6.4 and I've seen it as a disadvantage all my beta life, because 1) I was extremely skinny and 2) because I had a hunched posture. When you are skinny, being tall works against you. My height would be threatening to people, and I'd read that as a negative sign. I kept trying to make myself appear smaller to be more approachable and less threatening. If only I had known better. I've been lifting for 6 years now but I'm still working on my posture. Height only works for … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/14 04:58 PM |
| 2 | How do you overcome poisonous/limiting beliefs that are affecting your happiness and success in life?I'm not a psychiatrist, but I wanted to be one when I was young :). I know these things because I've spent my whole life reading and working on myself just like you, in order to become less fucked up and more free. I've only just unlocked this mechanism at this deep level last week (epiphany at the gym), that's why I read your post. Topic: Your brain says: "Don't approach that All american girl, it can't be done because race." What your brain means: "I hate experiencing absence of love, so avoid… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/14 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Telling a man I've just started dating - and am interested in! - that I don't want to have sex too early. How can I do this without it coming off badly?The problem you're facing could be the following: The men you're used to being around could probably be rated more alpha. They have options and high standards and since there is no forgiveness in nature, your past is yours forever. There's certainly men who'd be willing to overlook anything you've done or gone through, but those men will probably lack the perks of those you're used to. They will be beta. Many beta men are great guys. I see them as the pillars of civilization because they are loy… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/14 07:48 PM |
| 3 | How do you overcome poisonous/limiting beliefs that are affecting your happiness and success in life?It's not that hard to recognize a self limiting belief. You've identified what you're trying to overcome, but that doesn't mean the challenge is gone. The reality is, you have to identify what you're trying to avoid by holding on to this false belief. It's an emotion. You're holding on to an idea that justifies you not having to experience an emotion that you're afraid of. If you leave that mental prison, you may experience that emotion you're scared of, or you may not. Until you find out, you'r… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/14 07:08 PM |
| 2 | She's always on her phone.Been there. Get ready to walk. Don't let your emotions get in the way, something like this has the potential to fuck you up. Listen, why does she need her phone when she's around you? Because she's used to constant stimuli that you are unable to provide. Being on social networks means she's hunting for validation, which you're not giving her for whatever reason. Should you start thinking about entertaining her more? Fuck no. She's an addict and nothing will ever be enough for her. This will anno… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/14 06:58 PM |
| 12 | Do men in Western society who miss out on young love (high school and college) and sex ever mentally recover?Very similar case here. I think we CAN overcome this and heal our deeply rooted psychological wounds. You say you find it hard to open up and trust women because of your past. I feel the same way, but we shouldn't trust them anyway. As long as we come from the mindset of wanting to be loved and accepted, we will get the same results. We have to learn to think about it differently: All women are worthless except for the pleasures and functions their bodies provide. It is to our weakness that this… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/14 09:53 AM |
| 0 | Telling a man I've just started dating - and am interested in! - that I don't want to have sex too early. How can I do this without it coming off badly?Man here: A quality girl who has had very few sexual partners and who withholds sex deserves respect and the time she thinks she needs. A girl who has had a lot of sexual partners and who withholds sex is fooling herself. If you tell him what you've described here, and he gets it, he probably won't disappoint you in this matter. If he keeps pushing and trying to convince you, he should go find himself someone else. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/14 06:26 PM |
| 2 | I really dropped the ball on this one ladies. How would you have reacted?Man here, it's good you didn't intervene. If I was him, I'd have disliked for my GF to say something at this point. Tests like this get thrown left and right and many of them are much, much worse than this, I mean this wasn't even hurtful. He doesn't need your protection. If he did, you wouldn't respect him like you do now. He might enjoy to know that you cared though, depending on how much love he wants to receive. They may have a more buddy-like tone among each other and you can dismiss it. On… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/14 06:14 PM |
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