| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 108 | Dating American men | RANT | reveniiso | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 09:46 PM |
| 29 | Acting like men | DISCUSSION | reveniiso | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 04:11 PM |
| 6 | Was I too sensitive or is it my fault | SEEKING ADVICE | reveniiso | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 10:01 AM |
| 1 | I lost weight and it changed everything | reveniiso | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 01:16 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | New euphemisms for Netflix and ChillJust dont go to private place with a guy. Its easy. If i meet a guy, im only meeting him in public places that requires effort to meet me. If it doesnt require effort, i dont bother seeing him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 12:36 PM |
| 3 | If he reaches out after months, do not think of this as meaningfulOne of the guy i was seeing during quarantine reaches out every monday, “how r u?”, was his text. Didnt reply and ghosted on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Differences in Men Due to Ethnicity/Cultural DifferencesYes thats what i heard, but at least highso ppl in thailand and chinese descendants aka, rich ones as they hold power in south east Asia across economy and politics, they marry within their own race. I have never met single one of my rich educated asian friends marry white guys. Whether koreans or chinese if theyre rich they dont marry white. Ans also heres the thing. They are also attractive within their own race. Some of my friends have white boyfriends but unfortunately, these guys lack in lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 12:46 AM |
| -1 | Do LVM treat women differently based on their attractiveness level?What i noticed was good looking guys, whether fuckboys or not never send dick pics. So if you receive dick pics, the trash took itself or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 10:32 PM |
| 0 | Take a seat, Declan.If a guy brings up his sob story or trauma too early on, i immediately regard him as someone with personality disorder and use mirroring by going one step further If he says hes been abused by Dad? I tell him ive been abused by years at school (which is lie) And still have trauma from it. Its good way to shut up the guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Men think they’re forever alone just because they can’t get hot girlsI dont think youre trying to defend but you just wanted to show ugly side of some guys. When you encounter guy like that, all you could do is feel pity. But anyways, thats why FDS is so right in not providing wifey things unless married bc you never know his true intentions and if hes HVM or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 05:16 PM |
| 2 | How much does it really matter if you’re not his type physically?Also, i used to go for only guys with black hair who looked really young with slim and tall bod. I met german who was 6,3 slim and toned but had dark blonde. I wasnt into him at first but realized i really was head over heels for him. So i feel like hair color can be different and slight things but things like body type snd race is hard to change and rarely they do. I never feel attraction towards and even if therr is attraction, the attraction towards short or guys with averagr or chubby or too… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Men think they’re forever alone just because they can’t get hot girlsBut lot of men are like this. They settle for girls and if they do in terms of looks, thet require other benefits such as housekeeping, etc. close guy friend stated his new gf isnt his type, but chose her bc she brings food, cleans and cooks for him. So basically a maid. Thats why its so imporant not to approach guys unless they do first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 02:01 PM |
| 7 | Women who don’t want to marry or have not married: what place do men have in your life sexually and romantically?I took me long time to wrap fds mindset, I won’t marry unless the guy brings definite value in my life whether financially or emotionally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Hopefully after leveling up, we choose neither!The hot nerd I dated was German but he was bit odd. He was the only hot one among his friends, he’d literally have very few clothes and too cheap sometimes, and told me he masturbated in public bathrooms sometimes. He’d turn on some random anime to turn me on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Hopefully after leveling up, we choose neither!I like nerds but be careful of covert narcs. They’re more dangerous than straight up jerks. At one point in my life, I worked with abused single moms as assistant psychologist, and it was shitshow. Anyways, I like nerds but hot ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 11:01 AM |
| 2 | Differences in Men Due to Ethnicity/Cultural DifferencesTbh, I’ll be blunt. It depends on social economical status rather than being from south east Asia. When I was in London, lot of students were from SEA, and they were all extremely rich and mostly Chinese background. Do their parents encourage them to date with white guys ? NO There were literally ZERO rich, well educated SEA dating white. So it depends on your back ground. When I was working in Bangkok and befriend many co workers from Chulalongkorn university most of them dated within their rac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 09:36 AM |
| 3 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.I think the best way is to remain platonic until I’m engaged to be married and date multiple men. I’m sure most guys wouldn’t able to sustain this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 04:23 PM |
| 5 | Differences in Men Due to Ethnicity/Cultural DifferencesIME, white guys that my friends date (I’m asian) are almost 100% bottom on the look scale. I always roll my eyes when they bring guys that white girls would never date. So I believe in case of white and asian couples, the left over guys date asian girls. They can be smart or have good career and one of my guy friend openly stated that he likes Asians as he can’t get American or European girls. He knows he have hard time getting one and have to put in more effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 04:06 PM |
| 26 | Dating American menYes it’s like pros and cons. But American men are so fat in general. I think that’s why I like European men far better. At least they’re good to look at. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 01:24 AM |
| 3 | I used to think my boyfriend was HV but now I’m not so sure. I need to know if I’m being too harsh.Dated someone like this except he was an intern. Don’t date manchild. It just won’t work. The guy I dated was super good looking. He invited me to his student housing accommodation. It was shit show. He wore same thing almost everyday and had oil stains everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 11:37 AM |
| 5 | If the shoe was on the other foot, would your man be accepting of it?This is actually good tactic to use against narcissist. I was suspicious of my ex cheating on me. He’d say I’m crazy. What I did was I went on tinder and went on a date the very next day and also invited my guy friends over to my place. When the guy says you’re too sensitive. Don’t say anything and agree to it and mirror their actions exactly. When they get upset ? Tell them they’re too sensitive and ignore them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 07:46 PM |
| 13 | Inside the mind of LVM.I’ve noticed, it’s always the ugly guys who put huge importance on looks. They subconsciously are aware they lack in the department. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 11:38 AM |
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