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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | (Nearly) Harmless Flirtation | Fundamentals | reverse_excalibur | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 03:31 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | (Nearly) Harmless FlirtationOkay—this is more my speed, thank you. Can I point out: despite being a fairly easygoing and flirty female, I do have a pretty high “friend zone” rate. I think I put out more of a friendly energy subconsciously than anything. Any ideas on how to tweak this? (e.g. Direct pull from my life but not this situation. The other party says “You know, if they hired you without experience, it means they find you very attractive” as a flirty joke to which I manage a GIGGLE and and ROLL MY EYES, god help me… | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 01:18 PM |
| 1 | (Nearly) Harmless FlirtationOops! My bad. Didn’t read thread rules well enough. | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 01:08 PM |
| 1 | (Nearly) Harmless FlirtationThat’s a risk I’m here for. Now, do you have a sick flirt technique or what? | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 12:14 PM |
| 1 | (Nearly) Harmless FlirtationLiving my best life. (Kind of being sarcastic and kind of not.) | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 12:13 PM |
| 1 | (Nearly) Harmless FlirtationCool. Must have missed the memo when seduction went prude. And, dear apologist, I am an asshole. Wouldn’t post this if I weren’t. You’re not hurting me here. If you could cut my soul with your argument, I would be thankful, but this is toast at best. | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 12:12 PM |
| 0 | (Nearly) Harmless FlirtationI’ve thought about this too and it’s at this point a very chicken-or-the-egg problem. I’m not drawn to other men like this. But then again I guess I don’t have to be drawn to all men to blame it on a lack of attention from BF. This is fairly confusing for me. | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 04:53 AM |
| 0 | (Nearly) Harmless FlirtationYou’re totally right with that. I’m being light in the post because I’m skirting this part of the issue entirely. Of course it puts me directly in the position of doing something shitty to two people. But also from the perspective of defending myself, I’m trying to make this into a fun thing as opposed to something serious and life-wrecking. I’m looking for a particular style of flirting that’s more toned down and less about sex and more about enjoying the other person. If that makes sense? But … | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 04:39 AM |
| 0 | (Nearly) Harmless FlirtationFair assessment but not down with the ad hominem. | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 04:34 AM |
| 5 | How to approach without being creepyTake risks and do it calmly. Play it nonchalant until you see her next and then ask for her number yourself. Nothing hotter than a man who is confident and knows that he can afford to wait to get what he wants. | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 03:51 AM |
| 1 | (Nearly) Harmless FlirtationOkay. I've done that before with him, and then backed off to try to be more platonic. I'll try to re-initiate this again. | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 03:39 AM |
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