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''the exact gender I'm trying to court tells me one thing, yet my lived experience tells me the other'' - this should tell you everything you need to know
/r/seduction10/09/22 11:16 PM
1

Text her to set up a date, othervise never if she doesn't do it.
/r/seduction28/07/22 08:36 AM
1

How many dates have you been with her, did you initiate any physical contact at all?
/r/seduction19/07/22 01:18 PM
2

I love how she skips over the most obvious answer.
/r/seduction12/07/22 12:44 AM
6

Can't believe I'm reading something here that is actually useful.
/r/seduction10/07/22 10:02 PM
1

Nice, try going a bit further. I'd suggest light Oxford shirt with dark jeans & some brogues or chelsea boots. Add a nice watch to it with maybe a silver ring and a great perfume and see your numbers rise exponentaly if that's what you want. Good luck.
/r/seduction07/07/22 12:39 AM
1

Having a personal style says something about you before you say something about yourself...are you using that?
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:33 PM
1

This is the way.
/r/seduction29/06/22 02:10 PM
1

What are you usually wearing to a social event? If your answer is trainers and a tshirt you have your answer to why they don't notice you.
/r/seduction02/06/22 10:32 PM
0

Don't bother, I've literally sent out hundreds of comments for people to not double text...just for to someone say in a comment yesterday that I'm wrong and he's just gonna insist and reach out after a double text because he just wants to see her...and somehow his comment got up voted and mine down (not that I care) lol. Just goes to show how dellusional people are when it comes to dating.
/r/seduction30/05/22 01:50 AM
1

'I've talked to a lot of guys on there but they never ask me out and act like they have nothing to say?' - so just like 90% of the women on the dating aps...minus the 'a lot' part?
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:57 AM
1

Yes, cos real life people totally talk like that. Dude, I had girls that left their bf for me, none of them said cringe stuff like that. But let me tell you this bro, this fantasy kinda fits with this whole sub...as in 90% of people here literally don't know what they are talking about and give the worst advice ever based on feeling and pers opinions so. Good job I guess.
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:32 PM
1

Pull back on texting/calling her, just like her message and stop communications.
/r/seduction13/05/22 02:36 PM
1

''I'd happily be willing to take the time and effort to please.'' Sorry mate, these are nice guy vibes...pleasing should be the main attribute of a woman, a man needs to lead. I'm talking about the big picture, not sex.
/r/seduction29/04/22 11:57 AM
1

YES, always, ALWAYS look your very best in a social situation. Don't wory about the others.
/r/seduction16/04/22 12:12 PM
3

It's a scientific fact women are more attracted to men who's feelings are unclear...sorry but the rest of the comments are just opinions.
/r/seduction16/04/22 11:29 AM
2

It's ok but don't send goodnight texts unless she sends one first or you guys are already in love, gf/bf, etc. If she reaches out act as cool as possible, don't chit-chat & set up another date.
/r/seduction14/04/22 09:15 AM
7

Pull back, no texts/calls. DON'T DOUBLE TEXT EVER!!!
/r/seduction14/04/22 12:22 AM
1

Same, 2 times. :)) It's awesome!
/r/seduction06/04/22 02:03 PM
3

*women logic
/r/seduction06/04/22 01:28 PM
1

I refuse to believe that this is a serious question mate...I hope it isn't.
/r/seduction06/04/22 01:27 PM
1

Lurking about on these dating subs really makes question how anyone could ever be in a relationship with someone. This isn't funny anymore, this is truly absurd...damn. Not long before humanity will go extinct, I'm certain of it.
/r/seduction06/04/22 01:25 PM
0

You wait her to text.
/r/seduction06/04/22 09:21 AM
2

You have to go out to have a great time mindset...not to pick up girls. They'll let you know if they want to be picked up. The more you try the more chances you'll get. But try going out to have fun, you know what I mean??
/r/seduction02/04/22 12:32 AM
6

You only text to set up dates mate, if she asks you something then give a quick respond and bail or say something like: "I'll give you the answer to that when I get to look at those beutiful eyes of yours." I always got a great response out of it. I guess techinally it's a looks based comp which isn't generally a good idea unless you guys are in love but they say the eyes are the window of your soul so you kinda compliment who they are as well, not just how they look. Good luck man.
/r/seduction22/03/22 01:44 AM
3

NO!
/r/seduction15/02/22 12:24 PM
1

I'm not going out to a club or party to get laid, I'm going out to have fun cos I like dancing and drinking...it makes me happy, picking up a girl is just the cherry on top.
/r/seduction12/02/22 11:31 PM
3

I've almost wrote the exact same thing before checking your comment. :) Btw. I'm literally in denial that some guy wrote that he should just 'go along with it' and got like 7 upvotes from other people. Whenever I check comments on topics like this there just has to be that guy/guys who clearly doesn't have a clue about how attraction works...and yet he comments anyways. This gave me an idea for a sub on reddit where only people who are pre-approoved for giving advice can give advice...and the re…
/r/seduction11/02/22 01:50 AM
1

'Go along with it.' Nice.
/r/seduction11/02/22 01:39 AM
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Other people have explained what it really means so I'm just gonna write up how I'd respond: 'Why don't we compromise hang out over a drink and have some fun?...Cos you know, I'm a busy guy to. :)' Never ever invite girls for coffee during the day...WHY?! Cos it gives you less (and by less I mean close to none) opportunities to make a romantic move. Don't be a simp and give away your power just cos she's hot...with girls respect is tied to attraction...if you act like a fanboy she will 100% loos…
/r/seduction11/02/22 01:37 AM
1

Read '3% Men' by Corey Wayne at least 3 times.
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:40 AM
1

Do it.
/r/seduction04/02/22 01:36 PM
1

At the end of the day you need to do these things for yourself and not to get laid. Dating and creating attraction can't be done by doing a checkbox list but I am here to tell you that you are def ON THE RIGHT TRACK. If you're in college go to as many parties you can go to with your friends and just have a good time and try positioning yourself as cool & alpha. Over the time things should become more easy and you should start attracting girls. READ THE 3% MEN BY COREY WAYNE, it's free on audbile…
/r/seduction04/02/22 11:47 AM
1

Damn straigh.
/r/seduction03/02/22 04:17 PM
13

The best way to move to the next level or find out if she sees in you more than a friend is to MAKE A MOVE! (try kissing her, hold her hand, ect.) DON'T ASK HER TO BE YOUR GF, NEVER ASK HER!!! Make her be your gf by doing cool shit together that will make you attractive in her eyes. Know what I'm saying bud?
/r/seduction03/02/22 01:31 PM
2

Say nothing.
/r/seduction02/02/22 03:55 PM
1

No man, less is more when dating. You need to abandon useless chit-chat over texting and seal the date asap. You are never ever going to create attraction through texting no matter how clever you try to be. Trust me.
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:48 AM
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I understand pal, but right now the only thing that is stopping you from being the kinda guy you want to be is yourself. (I know it's corny but it's the truth) Regarding your friends just talk to them while out. Tell them that it would be cool if you guys got away for a weekend from the city or wherever. If they don't want to do it try finding others who would. A dear person to me wanted to go to Iceland really badly but nobody in her social circle wanted to so she started planing it by herself …
/r/seduction25/01/22 12:56 AM
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Good for you bud. What kind of social circle do you have? If you have all this value in your life girls should be approaching you as well. Gaining confidence essentialy boils down to doing cool shit on your own/with friends to spark attraction and to show of how cool you are to girls and yourself. You get what I'm saying?
/r/seduction24/01/22 11:37 PM
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The best way to build confidence is to look/feel good. Get a haircut, some nice clothes and a great perfume maybe even a nice watch. Flirting isn't about what you say, it's how you say it. Feel free to ignore the other comments who got it all wrong.
/r/seduction24/01/22 11:25 PM
3

Ask if she does anything fun for her bday and WAIT for her to respond. (no double texting) After she does (wait a couple of hours) just ask if you can buy her a drink.
/r/seduction24/01/22 11:19 PM
6

The truth is too 'misogynistic' to handle. Nice.
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:07 PM
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I've been saying this (and getting downvoted) here & on the dating sub from the very beginning.
/r/seduction19/01/22 12:26 AM
2

No, this is the most realistic advice ever. And I say that by doing really good in this area.
/r/seduction18/01/22 01:01 PM
6

People should really be banned from this group after comments like that.
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:45 PM
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Try never contacting her again, this will show her that you are in power...it will also create attraction if there ever was. Good luck.
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:11 PM
3

Hahahahahahahah
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:10 PM
9

No disrespect to anyone but...if the day might come that I (or anyone else really) have to take Salsa & Bachata lessons to socialize or get get laid...I want us to admit that we failed social life as human beings...and someone just shoot me in the face to get it over with. Before I get downvoted like a mf again, no disrespect.
/r/seduction13/01/22 03:22 PM
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No, you don't. Also, they're on their 3RD DATE man. If you really have the experience you're talking about you'd know that it's time to get hot 'n' heavy on the 3rd date...not ducking asking permission to hold hands.
/r/seduction08/01/22 03:03 PM
1

I'm sorry but all these people with 'ask her' comments are just plain wrong. That's just incredibly beta and she might go along but that's not gonna create attraction. If you want to hold her hands...HOLD HER HANDS!!! If she really likes you she will hold it. You guys are ON THE THIRD DATE ALREADY where you should be having sex man...not ducking asking permission to hold hands. If she pulls away she's not attracted and you need to talk to other girls that simple. I literally CAN NOT believe some…
/r/seduction08/01/22 02:22 PM
2

He should ask her to hold her hand?! Ok, but after that he should ask her if she gives him permission to breathe around her...cos if not I guess he'll just have to figure out how to hold his breath for a really long time. That's how attraction works.
/r/seduction08/01/22 02:13 PM
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Have you read 3% Men by Correy Wayne? If not do so! You need to put yourself in situations where you can actually meet women and that shouldn't be to hard if you have money and a nice looking car. Don't worry too much about friends or being social, you can fake those...but again you do need to talk to women. Also, don't over complicate what to say. If you 'see an opening' just go up to her and say: 'What's your name?' and see how she responds. Let me know if you have anymore questions.
/r/seduction03/01/22 01:18 PM
0

You ask her when she is free if she reaches out...because that's why women reach out. ;) If you already said you'll call then do it (keep it short) and arrange a movie date over the weekend. Don't push for sex but do more of the same unless she brings it up. Yo go for it on the 3rd date (next weekend) when you guys make dinner together at yours or hers. Typically what works out perfectly to increase sexual escalation is: 1st date - dinner or drinks at a restaurant/bar on Mondays or Tuesdays 2nd …
/r/seduction03/01/22 01:02 PM
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You didn't mess up but she knew it might have ended in sex and she wasn't ready. It's ok. Don't set up the next date right away! Wait a couple of days and see if she reaches out. Also, no stupid hikes or walks during the day...if you want to seal the deal you need dates at night! If she reaches out just say: 'I want to see you, when are you free to get together?' AND WAIT FOR HER TO RESPOND NO DOUBLE TEXTING FOR THE LOVE OF! If she doesn't - like I already said - wait a couple of days and arrang…
/r/seduction03/01/22 12:39 PM
1

By not texting her again? Plus you already came of as needy by double texting...so. Also she hasn't texted back and the best plan you came up with is calling her?! :)) Dude, come on...
/r/seduction24/12/21 07:34 PM
1

In regards to what?
/r/seduction09/12/21 01:30 PM
8

That guy though in the video who ''explains'' it all & ''wrote'' a book should not be giving advice on creating attraction though. From the looks of it his practical experience is slim to none. So yeah.
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:40 PM
2

Here you go: https://www.brathwait.com/mens/watches/classic/rosegold/brown-leather-strap
/r/seduction24/11/21 05:36 PM
3

''they play sports, do skate, play guitar, they’re fit, they got tattoos'' Do you see a pattern? It's not about literally getting tattoos...it's about being cool, wouldn't you want to be with a cool girl? Do you consider yourself cool? If not you need to mix it up. How? - go work out - pick up an instrument - get some great perfume (I use Acqua di Giò and had great feedback) - get a nice watch (I have a Classic Slim Brathwait that gets compliments a lot) - get some really cool shades - get a hig…
/r/seduction24/11/21 10:53 AM
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Don't block her, if you still want her and you get the 'hey how are you' type message just say: 'Hey I'm doing great! It's nice to hear from you, when are you free to grab a drink?' If she says 'no' you go 'it was nice talking but I gotto run now, take care.' If she says yes MAKE A DEFINITE DATE, NO CHIT-CHAT! Good luck mate.
/r/seduction22/10/21 01:06 PM
1

Best thing to do is not to look/ask for it in a relationship vibe girl. It needs to be a casual thing with 2 girlfriends...that's how I did it anyways.
/r/seduction14/10/21 04:27 PM
2

You don't have to start an 'interesting conversation', you use texting but only to set up dates...unless she writes first. Chit-chats without meaning between dates kills attraction. Be interesting & start meaningfull conversations when you meet her.
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:38 PM
2

Ok man, I read the post and some of the comments...let's just say that I've been where you are right now or smth similar. Here's my advice: If you want something you never had (in this case a cute girlfriend) you need to do something you've never done. Yes, you need to go out by yourself. Yes, you neeed to try online dating. Yes, you need to be a man and make the 1st step. Yes, you need to upgrade your style & look. Yes, you need to study how to be better at this stuff. And yes, you need to do a…
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:27 PM
1

Made me laugh out loud while having lunch. :))
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:07 PM
5

Nice, I've hooked up with my sister's gfriends so here's how I did it and a couple of pointers: Don't act like she's your sisters friend, treat her like any other girl that you'd like to...get to know better. When she's around, look your best, be calm cool and charming...body language is key as well, always act like you're doing a photoshoot for Vanity or something. Don't introduce yourself, be misterious, maybe tease her about her looks in a playfull way...let her ask about you over your sister…
/r/seduction10/10/21 09:58 AM
1

You won't ever find out if you want that or not over texting my guy. I promise you won't.
/r/seduction09/10/21 09:53 PM
1

Isn't the point of talking to a girl asking her out? Don't let fear stand in your way, if she says no you just move on to another girl...there's always someone else. If she says yes you make a DEFINITE date. For example: 'Monday/Tuesday night at 8 I'm gonna pick you up and we're going for dinner or drinks.' Being direct is masculine energy, she can take it or leave it. Being submissive is feminine energy...you need to understand that if you're going to date.
/r/seduction09/10/21 08:44 PM
1

After the opener ask her out maybe?
/r/seduction09/10/21 07:07 PM
3

3rd date and no kiss...you might as well be friends. Don't call her again, wait for her to call about meeting you. If she doesn't move on...if she does say: "It's good to hear from you, when are you free to get together?" Make a definite date then KISS HER or you'll get friendzoned for good...you might already be. Good luck.
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:29 PM
2

You are supposed to set a time for her to meet you or pick her up from the get go. What to do when you see her at work? Ignore her.
/r/seduction03/10/21 04:11 PM
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After the last text you should have said: "Great! Let me know when you'll figure out your schedule cos I'd love to see you again." AND LET HER GET BACK TO YOU, NO DOUBLE TEXTING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If her interest level was in the 50% range she will, if she didn't you move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction29/09/21 12:30 AM
6

It's not just you man, I have had all the succes I ever wanted (still do) with girls and still have it when I'm talking to someone I really like. :) The key is to talk as little as you possibly can over texting, try using it only for setting up dates unless she writes first.
/r/seduction29/09/21 12:20 AM
2

The 3% Men by Corey Wayne. You can find it free.
/r/seduction21/09/21 11:35 PM
2

How do you dress? You need to remember that men are visual creatures, while women are emotional. We can gain 100% instant attraction by just looking at someone.
/r/seduction16/09/21 10:50 AM
5

That's like one of my main rules I tell guys who need help with this stuff...never, Ever, EVER take dating advice from women. NEVER.
/r/seduction14/08/21 09:05 AM
1

Just out of curiosity, from where did you get that I have low opinion of women? Cos I really don't... I already explained why the girl will probablly not message him...yes, he's working out but so does she right? Also, this conversation started about the 1st impression (and what he did wrong) and not what it takes to live happily ever after. You know what, I will wait a couple of days and message the op in regards if she texted him or not. My money is on not.
/r/seduction03/07/21 06:34 PM
0

Ok, what about socials? You're missing the point, it's not about her number man...it's about you having a direct line to her to set up a date.
/r/seduction03/07/21 01:43 PM
1

Thanks for the lenghty response. Respect is always a great thing so is being treated as an equal, valuable, kind and being yourself... However none of those things actually create attraction. I knew guys like that who had all those things and they couldn't get laid even if their life depended on it. So what does create attraction then? Confidence, game & looks...and by looks I mean personal style as well not just genes. The setting apart thing does work but only in rare cases...he had to make a …
/r/seduction03/07/21 01:38 PM
1

No need for 'too much thought'...you only need game and it will work for most of the times.
/r/seduction03/07/21 12:56 PM
1

I might disagree but I always listen.
/r/seduction02/07/21 01:20 AM
1

I agree with you major, she should initiate the contact...and lapdances should be free after the 5th drink but that's not the world we live in is it... Let's assume that they're both at least avarage looking or above. Even an avarage girl will have way more choices than the avarage guy...therefore she doesn't need to initiate and she won't. She ALREADY agreed to hang out, the right move after that would have been smth like: 'Cool (responding to said willingness to hang out), why don't you shoot …
/r/seduction02/07/21 12:57 AM
-1

I get it, I'm full of it. :) Please educate me what should he have done or what should he do to bring this home? You obv know better so let's hear it please.
/r/seduction02/07/21 12:03 AM
1

Because girls don't know what they want, even if they think they do. Or just give you advice that isn't really practical...while men are practical creatures. That's just the reality of it all. But there is advice that objectively works based on the experience of other guys...why not use that?? It's the only real way to keep your mental health and get laid at the same time from what I gather from this sub. (wasn't talking about myself btw)
/r/seduction01/07/21 11:57 PM
2

You didn't want to go for her number for whatever reason, I understand...what about her instagram or something where you can dm her?? Don't give the choice to her man, it's you who needs to make the choices like it or not.
/r/seduction01/07/21 11:50 PM
2

No disrespect to the ladies, but guys should never ever take dating advice from girls. So no, I wouldn't listen to them and neither should this guy. No disrespect again.
/r/seduction01/07/21 11:48 PM
0

You can think anything you want to but it wasn't the right choice man.
/r/seduction01/07/21 11:44 PM
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Not really, a man should send the first text setting up the date. If anything this makes girls feel uncomfortable cos they can't be truly feminine if they have to make these types of choices.
/r/seduction01/07/21 11:43 PM
2

Gave her your bcard? :)) Come on man! You should have asked for her number or one of her smedia pages man...man are responsible for setting up the date, making the date a fun experience and getting the girl to bed. If she doesn't call you it's kinda over and it's your fault...she even said she'd be down for it man. Don't go over to talk to her unless she gives you a sign that she'd want you to.
/r/seduction01/07/21 11:39 PM
1

Come on man! :))))))
/r/seduction28/06/21 08:55 PM
1

I agree with that 100%...people here are starting to know what's the deal...and how to get it best.
/r/seduction28/06/21 08:54 PM
2

Ok, give me one example...since you've obv seen some many of those comments that it motivated you to write in.
/r/seduction28/06/21 08:52 PM
1

Sounds a lot like you (or people whining about it) can't take criticism. Sometimes 'tough love' really helps dude.
/r/seduction28/06/21 08:43 PM
-6

No they didn't...
/r/seduction28/06/21 08:41 PM
4

100% FACTUALLY TRUE! That's all I've been saying to my friends who needed help in the dating department.
/r/seduction24/06/21 12:39 PM
3

It happens because they're the scum of the earth...don't worry about it, there's more where that came from...A LOT more.
/r/seduction18/06/21 01:32 AM
1

If you spent all that time really doing what you said you are doing...I'm sorry but you did it wrong. You need to study with more focus and understand the behaviour of females in order to create attraction. Feel free to ask me any questions you might have.
/r/seduction26/05/21 08:57 AM
-1

She's saying only men can give bad advice, which is idiotic.
/r/seduction26/05/21 08:45 AM
5

Second this 110% man!!! That's what I've been saying for a LONG time...dudes literally talk the girl out of sleeping with them.
/r/seduction21/05/21 07:34 PM
1

This is a seduction sub...this isn't helping anyone seducing anything man.
/r/seduction14/05/21 09:06 AM
1

Good on you man! But I did kiss a 9/10 in a club, after which we got to my place and banged it out till the crack of dawn...that was nice.
/r/seduction18/01/21 10:45 AM
0

It's bad advice.
/r/seduction05/01/21 12:57 AM
7

Because women don't really do things that make sense. That's why the only real way to go for men is to dip their nacho in salsa & guacamole as well.
/r/seduction07/12/20 09:55 AM
1

No, men have to do the work just in the beginning cos most women don't like to be responsable for sex. You have to know what to do & more importantly...what not to do to successfully bed women. After that it should be an equal amount of work, less from your part in an ideal situation. If it isn't you just move on to the next one.
/r/seduction05/11/20 11:41 AM
2

Then nothing, you'll text me cos you liked me back & I'll just set up the next date.
/r/seduction22/10/20 12:41 AM
1

Texting is a waste of time because you need to get to a date to really know someone...if you've been on a date then you already know if you want to see him/her again...so it's even a bigger waste of time. Plus over-sharing is needy & girls are not attracted to that.
/r/seduction22/10/20 12:38 AM
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Look, there is A chance of this working out. But that chance is little to almost none I'm afraid...that's just the truth. The very best way is still to work on yourself in every way & make yourself as valuable as you can be.
/r/seduction11/10/20 08:15 PM
3

How do you try to improve yourself buddy? As in what way?
/r/seduction11/10/20 08:08 PM
2

Why would you write her local news?! Are you a human teleprompter?
/r/seduction09/10/20 07:09 AM
5

Don't ask for the kiss, feel it out & go for it. Good luck!
/r/seduction07/10/20 01:19 PM
1

You got friendzoned, that's why you're still talking. The only thing you can really do to change her mind is to move on from her. Or be her friend until she casually mentions she started seeing someone & use you as her emotional tampon.
/r/seduction07/10/20 01:38 AM
1

Why would you text her that? Instead of you know...doing it? I only talk to girls like that if they're already my gf and into it. Just wait for like a week without texting her & see if she makes a move, she doesn't move on. She does, make a date & seal the deal. No more apologizing!
/r/seduction07/10/20 01:05 AM
6

With al due respect, If men would just grow a pair and stop acting like useless simps then women would literally chase them on the streets.
/r/seduction07/10/20 12:43 AM
1

It is 100% in womens nature to chase a guy. Happened to me a couple of times & I wasn't out of their league or smth.
/r/seduction07/10/20 12:38 AM
1

You might, but why are you making such a big deal out if it? Dating & hooking up needs to be casual not some big event.
/r/seduction07/10/20 12:31 AM
1

Whatever you do...don't ask!!!
/r/seduction30/09/20 09:51 PM
-4

I'm gonna answer the question on how you make girls approach you & then that approach to lead to sex (or in my case a threesome with 2 young hot girls)...but first I'm gonna ask you something. What do you do now to make yourself approachable?
/r/seduction23/09/20 12:27 PM
3

Never text or call later that day or ask them out the same week on friday or the weekend, gives of a needy vibe. Wait 1-2 days to text & be on point as you possibly can: "So, you free monday night to grab dinner?" Also, 1st dates always on monday or tuesday & always dinner. Wear a shirt, some nice shoes (oxfords, brogues) & a nice cologne. This should do for starters.
/r/seduction21/09/20 09:23 AM
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Incredibly generous, but I'm not a pick up artist nor am I interested in doing this for money. I'm more like Batman in a way, but criminals & vengeance isn't what's keeping me up at night...it's pussy & ass.
/r/seduction04/09/20 10:43 PM
1

You can't get a date but you're thinking about a sandwich? That's reaching for the stars, but good on you man.
/r/seduction03/09/20 05:50 PM
1

Pleade don't ever reply to stories anymore of you're interested in them romantically.
/r/seduction03/09/20 10:40 AM
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Because the OP clearly has some problems finding a girlfriend and what you're basically saying is: Be yourself and hope it'll work out. What if it doesn't? To me (and I say this with respect) "Be yourself" is THE WORST dating advice of all time. By the logic of "being yourself" every human who ever existed should have found their special someone and lived happily ever after. But that's not the reality that we live in, is it... Men are practical creatures that need clear commands not nonsensical,…
/r/seduction02/09/20 09:33 PM
1

Let me know if I can help you out in any way bro.
/r/seduction02/09/20 08:25 PM
5

Better than 99% of the all the other peoples advice to be honest.
/r/seduction02/09/20 08:18 PM
5

Happy for you. But you know that this is useless advice for a guy right?
/r/seduction02/09/20 08:16 PM
1

Cute. But this isn't gonna help him, will it...
/r/seduction02/09/20 08:11 PM
1

Just get a leather jacket, wear sunglasses all the time (even when you don't need to) & act like you don't care with the ladies...or even better, don't care for real.
/r/seduction02/09/20 08:09 PM
2

The things to focus on if you want to escalate is hangin' out, having fun & hooking up. You seem to be doing the first two so you need to make a move on her & do the "Kiss Test". Have lots of eye contact then transition to small glimpses to her lips, see if she's doing the same to you. Get physical! I can't empathize this enough, put your hands on her shoulder, hips ect. See if she does it back to you. Tease & escalate all these actions until you see an opening then make the move and kiss her! I…
/r/seduction27/08/20 12:55 PM
1

Please don't do this.
/r/seduction27/08/20 12:41 PM
9

If you want to get rid of all beta tendencies think of yourself as a great big mountain in the middle of an ocean. The waves will come, the waves will go & the waves will come back. But you don't care by any of that cos you're unmovable. You're too busy being yourself, building yourself & being epic. Also, Hang out, have fun, hook up...that's all you need to focus on. The rest will come.
/r/seduction19/08/20 09:17 PM
2

How did you specifically ask her out...as in what did you say?
/r/seduction12/08/20 07:43 PM
2

The correct approach to that situation is to respond "Cool! Let me know if you change your mind." Then just go & talk to other girls. The secret to not feeling down is to be ALWAYS talking to more than just one girl.
/r/seduction12/08/20 07:30 PM
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