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Can’t hear also gfycat deleted your gif
/r/seduction05/06/20 06:01 AM
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I certainly agree with this for hookups and one night stands. However if you want to really connect with someone, I think being natural and letting pauses come in can really help with that connection. How they respond can tell you a lot about a person. Plus, hyperactive talk a lot isn't my style!
/r/seduction17/12/14 02:14 AM
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hahah come on man, if it was worth it then it's still worth it now!
/r/seduction01/03/14 12:45 AM
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My mini review: This book is a brutally honest story that tracks the journey from a hormonally imbalanced asshole teen to a pickup coach. Tony has a unique sense of humour (Would you rather fight 100 midgets with pitchforks or a T-Rex?) and drops a lot of knowledge in a fun, quick, easy read (just like any good lay) He's got another book on day game: http://www.amazon.ca/Hope-its-Sunny-Out-ebook/dp/B00F13MD3I/ref=sr_1_2?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1380773284&sr=1-2
/r/seduction03/10/13 04:07 AM
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Nice! Thanks for the book man.
/r/seduction21/09/13 08:16 PM
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Hahah. I've never been called that before. Achievement unlocked. You're right in that I'm not new to these concepts, I simply like to question herd behavior. I learned a fuckton of a lot more from the intellectual debate in this thread than I did from any of the self-affirming pat-on-the-back comments in other threads. Then again, I'm probably going to get banned from this subreddit for attempting to question the status quo. Shows how much meme-inbreeding goes on around here.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 05:02 PM
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It's also worth pointing out that Salon.com has a dating site.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 04:41 PM
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Okay, I read the post you pointed out, and I get it. The line can be blurry between women who want material things and the women who wants concessions in a relationship, but I tend to recognize these gambits and avoid any woman who wants these things. So that brings up the point, is she really causing harm here? If she makes herself clear in what she wants out of a relationship, for example only sexual fling, or a longer term relationship, then the man knows what he is getting into. He should re…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 04:30 PM
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I used quotes because the author is using it in a demeaning way, but that's also really the nature of all those words. There's really no positive word or even neutral word, for a sexual woman. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6jyr7Du32aQ
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 04:16 PM
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A prostitution metaphor, is that really necessary? I've seen this a couple times now (like where /u/enticingasthatmaybe states men "literally" have to buy access to have sex with her) There's no transaction here. From what I understand here using TRP logic, The woman wants the man to appreciate her worth and realized that she was unable to retain an "alpha" by sleeping with them right away. Why is that wrong and deserving of shame and insults?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 08:31 PM
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I think the author himself didn't make it far out of trees. His anger, bitterness, self-entitlement and blatant sexism is clothed lightly in TRP ideology but it's more hate speech than scientific or sociological discourse.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 08:18 PM
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Right. Correlation does not make for causation. I just noticed I hit -17 karma on the first comment and this all got hidden, so thanks for answering my questions and not simply downvoting.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 07:01 PM
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I see now, you're right I did miss that. I really dislike the concept of social value (especially when used in a hierarchical sense or even assume that value could be equated to a number). therefore I did not think of it at all while reading the article when it should have been obvious to me. Still getting used to this redpill stuff. It seems cold and sociopathic to see psychology in this manner. I mean, couldn't they actually be in love, getting married, and not caring about eachothers pasts?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 06:47 PM
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I don't know, it seemed to me like he was saying that because she was previously a "slut" and changed her ways - the guy he calls out as a beta should not accept her as a woman who wants a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 05:45 PM
-55

What a terrible article. Author clearly has severe issues and bitterness towards the female population. If you want to have an effective dialog, there's no need for such negative shaming of a single person then using that as a generalization. Author also seems to have no concept of an individual changing from one year to the next.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 04:46 PM
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A ,modern version-- the fall- . beautiful worldly cinematography.
/r/seduction19/07/13 03:42 AM
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The best way to get result is simply not to shower. Your overwhelming smell of manliness and pheromones will make her panties bust open like a dam stuffed with dynamite. Your dynamite. #brosciencefist
/r/seduction26/11/12 05:37 PM
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/r/seductioncirclejerk
/r/seduction12/07/12 04:52 PM
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Take a look at DavidX. I think it's mentioned in The Game that he pulls mad pussy.
/r/seduction15/06/12 12:13 PM
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Much respect! you are one down to earth guy.
/r/seduction29/05/12 02:49 AM
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That's what my mother told me.
/r/seduction08/11/11 01:55 PM
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Don't go straight from randomly touching my hand once to putting your arm around me. THE CLAWWWWWWW!!!!
/r/seduction22/07/11 09:47 AM
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I was winging with a friend, and pulled aside this older (yet very attractive) woman. My friend was dancing away with the younger blonde on the dancefloor, so my only thought was isolate. We went onto a bench and I offered to read her palm. She smiled at me and said "you don't know me very well..." I responded "Well perhaps I could learn more by reading your palm.." She pulled out her arm from underneath her shawl and her hand was disfigured.
/r/seduction05/07/11 04:55 PM
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There's a reason many pick up artists refuse to drink anymore. Loss of control at pivotal moments like you have seen. Sometimes it can be good to let the women lead the interaction in a situation like yours. However now that this has been done, and intent for all parties has been revealed, you should take the lead. You will have a much easier and erotic experience this time around because there will be much less pressure. Make sure everyone is relaxed. Focusing on your primary first is a good id…
/r/seduction14/06/11 01:03 PM
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Perhaps it should be mentioned in the sidebar along with the other related subreddits.
/r/seduction13/06/11 11:21 PM
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The scene for dubstep and electronic shows is quite different from your normal bar/club pick up, so you have to know what your plan is ahead of time. Asking if someone is rolling, as others said, is not a good plan. Most of the game in these venues is entirely social. The club-goers are closer knit, in that the community for dubstep and dj scenes stick together. The girls there are seeking the alpha males of the social groupings, not some random guy. Especially if said guy is showing disrespect …
/r/seduction12/06/11 07:34 PM
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She may have not been down for PDA. That could be all.
/r/seduction29/05/11 01:40 PM
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Good stuff! You said you were a larger chap, and I noticed your username. Have you lost weight? read /loseit or /fitness? The kiss at the end was cute, but I wouldn't call it a kiss close!
/r/seduction27/05/11 12:02 AM
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I know those people too. I generally don't call them friends. Q. What strategy from Seddit do you use most frequently? For men or women?
/r/seduction24/05/11 11:56 PM
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It is a HUGE turn off when a guy approaches me with the assumption that I am brain dead. Subcommunication: I am incredibly attractive.
/r/seduction24/05/11 11:38 PM
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I've done this. Girl freaked out, moved across the room, and then when I handled all her shit tests non reactively she said I was ballsy and fondled my genitals.
/r/seduction23/05/11 03:01 PM
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Once Steve P said to me "All these guys these days sport fucking. If you wanna do sport fucking, go do that. Wear a condom." He went on to explain how partnerships with women can be like soul mates, heart chakras connected. Cool guy, Steve.
/r/seduction18/05/11 05:57 PM
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Seems like a superficial routine, and I'm sure it comes across as controlling or awkward the way you are doing it. I wouldn't use it all personally.
/r/seduction17/05/11 04:56 PM
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Keep in mind this article is from the BBC, depending on where you live, YMMV
/r/seduction15/05/11 11:48 PM
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Very impressive given what they had to work with for lines. Also they seem to go for some taller, more attractive women in this video. I notice some guys go out and pick up only short, cute girls. Maybe they think they are easier...
/r/seduction14/05/11 12:54 AM
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Fantastic stories guys! I missed the first post, but i'm intrigued to hear about your progress. You all have lots of potential.
/r/seduction04/05/11 09:46 PM
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Thanks man, I'm glad you got something out of this. I sure did.
/r/seduction03/05/11 07:58 PM
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Cool. One day I'll write a post about this other community to introduce it to the Seddit. I think there is a lot of value and knowledge that Sedditors could gain from there.
/r/seduction03/05/11 07:52 PM
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Another forum that knows me for who I am and not an anonymous pua. It's true, I shouldn't be whining and should earn my place here.
/r/seduction03/05/11 07:42 PM
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Wow, that's some serious feedback, which I welcome. Thank you for taking the time to write that. I have to say, this post has actually caused me to reconsider why I'm writing FR's, and whether I should or not. I did copy this from another forum I post in. I edited out some parts, but obviously missed others. I wrote this hurriedly on break at work, and did not seriously consider that the consequences would never be the same. NYE = New Years Eve You're right, I was being intentionally vague, I gu…
/r/seduction03/05/11 07:39 PM
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You're right, I shouldn't of posted it to Seddit without taking time to consider what kind of value I'm bringing to Seddit. I was being cynical of game as inauthenticity, which a lot of people go through, fake it till you make it. I copypasta'd this from another forum where people were interested in the story and inner game, I thought Seddit would wanna hear about it too. Guess nobody cares! Forever Seddit Alone.
/r/seduction03/05/11 07:18 PM
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Hey, thanks for the cynicism and downvotes Throwaway! Yeah, she picked me up in that she invited me to join her and we had already slept together. I didn't feel any pressure to close. The way I addressed her needs was by not pushing for sex, being completely outcome independent and enjoying the process rather than the end result. I was trying to capture my inner game in this post so I didn't put in the relevant stuff like lines or techniques. If it sounds like bragging about hanging out with pus…
/r/seduction03/05/11 05:49 PM
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It really depends on the woman. I would be straight up with her about what your desires are for her. If it's simply a sexual relationship, you gotta let her know. If you want her for a relationship, let her know that sex is a very important part of your relationships with women. Tell her that you are enthusiastic about it and want her to be comfortable enough to get into it as well. In your own words of course.
/r/seduction03/05/11 04:52 PM
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Correlation is not causation.
/r/seduction28/04/11 06:20 PM
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I think you can find info on cliffslist...
/r/seduction27/04/11 02:04 AM
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Oh gotcha- they are not Seddit lairs.
/r/seduction26/04/11 06:05 PM
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Uhh, I'm pretty sure Toronto has 2 or 3 lairs.
/r/seduction26/04/11 05:33 PM
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There are different kinds of herpes, best to know what kind you have. If you have something that can come back every once and a while, that's dangerous. If you have herpes that only flares up once and then disappears, it's not so much of an issue. Talk to your doctor and know what you have and educate yourself on it's transmission methods. If you think it's possible that it could be transmitted, unfortunately you should be informing any partners. A pre-emptive message is necessary because they m…
/r/seduction25/04/11 11:21 PM
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ANDROTICS DIRECT - androtics.com (I think I opened a barrel of monkeys here.)
/r/seduction20/04/11 10:02 PM
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Yeah. Bad psychiatrists are basically a "tell me your problems" listening session followed by a sales pitch for a pharmaceutical product that could ruin your life. You don't need that.
/r/seduction19/04/11 03:22 AM
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Join your local lair. When I moved to a new town this let me quickly build friends and get into some cool activities. Some of the guys in your local lair will be on a positive path of self improvement. Go for these guys. You can find local lairs, and a great newsletter, here: http://www.cliffslist.com/
/r/seduction19/04/11 03:20 AM
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I heard the psychologists are always fucked up in some way or another. That's ok. STAY FAR AWAY FROM PSYCHIATRISTS. Sounds like you want a good friend you can open up to.
/r/seduction19/04/11 03:17 AM
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I sincerely recommend going to the gym at least 3 times a week - /r/fitness This will keep you emotionally stable, and increase your confidence. Make sure you are eating good whole foods. Make a practice of meditating, or at least putting aside some time each day to step off the hamster wheel and think. These are the methods I used to get control when my life seemed out of control, and it has helped me stabilize my life so much more. Now I can begin to pursue my longer term goals.
/r/seduction18/04/11 11:31 PM
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Awesome, way to act in the moment and get the girl.
/r/seduction18/04/11 04:33 AM
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The chances that someone else raised her BT is pretty low, and more likely she was ovulating.
/r/seduction18/04/11 04:32 AM
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Oh yeah I did that once too. Fuck.
/r/seduction18/04/11 12:41 AM
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I've picked up a lesbian before. Weirdest pickup of my life. After she left I think I laughed for 30min straight.
/r/seduction18/04/11 12:32 AM
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Was that a neg? My nipples are tingling.
/r/seduction12/04/11 10:36 PM
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Wow, a lot of hand solo reponses here. I rely a lot on intuition and spontaneity in the field. I say Thanks generally when I'm not interested.
/r/seduction12/04/11 10:35 PM
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Ugh, hate this rehashed MM advice. You should seriously have some more skills other than NEG ON and NEG OFF.
/r/seduction12/04/11 09:59 PM
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One girl does not the woman make. Friend zone means something different for a lot of people, male or female. A real friend would not abuse someone.
/r/seduction12/04/11 09:55 PM
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I think it's a photochop.
/r/seduction12/04/11 07:29 PM
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Both. If I ask for a number, it's assumed that I will call. I guess you could argue it's "revenge" for girls who never called... but still a scumbag move. Come on these are cute girls you're letting down here!
/r/seduction12/04/11 07:27 PM
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When you get an accomplishment intro from someone you don't even know. http://i.imgur.com/fCKH0.jpg
/r/seduction12/04/11 07:23 PM
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Why bother winging? http://imgur.com/wr2jn
/r/seduction12/04/11 07:18 PM
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Oh and here's the most common wingman faux pas http://imgur.com/psxZl
/r/seduction12/04/11 12:27 PM
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The link to make your own is http://memegenerator.net/scumbag-pua I thought it might be fun and useful to put all the bad practices in meme form. Here are a couple more... http://imgur.com/a/QXR9Y
/r/seduction12/04/11 12:19 PM
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It's kind of sad when branding (or fanboyism, I don't really care about wygant) takes over something as powerful and simply human as "creating a moment".
/r/seduction08/04/11 02:20 PM
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You're one handsome fellow. Smooth as a muthafucka, no doubt.
/r/seduction24/03/11 09:06 PM
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You're welcome! We will expect an FR after your first date/close.
/r/seduction21/03/11 09:30 PM
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My inner frame when I do this is FUN SOCIAL OUTGOING GUY. I would flirt with all the girls in my office, and they loved me for it. The curiosity part could easily play into this!!! It's the state senator??? There are a lot of avenues. Basically all that's holding you up is other people's opinions of you. Fuck em' all. Seriously. You are an upright, cheerful guy who brightens ladies lives by saying hello and flirting lightly. There's a difference between flirting and hitting on, and it's a very v…
/r/seduction21/03/11 08:59 PM
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My way of getting away with this is genuine curiousity. IE: "What do you guys do in here?" "Where do you like to go for lunch around here, we should go for lunch one day..." "Did you see that fight outside, some girls top came off and she had fake teeth!?" or whatever works. Okay maybe not the last one. Unless you're into that.
/r/seduction21/03/11 08:04 PM
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Time to reframe your inner game. An observation: you blew off a less attractive girl who was all over you. Did you know the girl who grabbed your crotch? Then you were blown off by an attractive girl for being less attractive. I'm thinking that's why she wasn't into you. Sometimes when you are plowing forward pell-mell you miss out on those innocent female signals. They don't really make them easy for us to see usually, but you should watch for them.
/r/seduction21/03/11 08:02 PM
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I can't watch the video, I'm at work... but guessing by the fact that he's an asian guy with a mohawk i'm guessing it's Dj Fuji? I've seen him in the field and he's spoke at two different lairs, offering free infield assistance. He likes to wire guys up with a mic and then give them advice on what he found out while "listening in". All around good guy with good advice.
/r/seduction21/03/11 07:55 PM
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Thank you for the clarification. What may be obvious to one is subtle to another.
/r/seduction21/03/11 04:35 PM
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join the montreal seddit! /r/MTLSeddit
/r/seduction20/03/11 11:33 PM
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That's some deep inner game shit right there. Keep at it. jumping into a lake...Did you fall in the toilet?
/r/seduction20/03/11 04:26 AM
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I am amuse.
/r/seduction20/03/11 04:24 AM
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I never ended up calling this girl because the logistics were bad. I live an hour away and don't have a vehicle yet. ON TO THE NEXT!
/r/seduction20/03/11 02:58 AM
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I used to have a friend who would always say this in a peculiar way around girls. Now I know why. "Hello."
/r/seduction20/03/11 01:53 AM
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Fck I loved SmooveB. Thanks for the memories. "Freakstasy"
/r/seduction19/03/11 10:15 PM
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I'm getting downvoted, so allow me to explain. 1) $10 everytime he keeps talking is ripped right out of venusian arts as an attraction builder. Even if said seriously, it's not going to dissuade someone to leave and will most likely be ignored. Weak. 2) He's not sweet. He's a creeper and is not leaving. I'm sure she thought of telling him to go away. 3) Avoidance does not stop these people. They will keep coming. 4) Why is a loner going to protect a girl? Why would she be worried about her reput…
/r/seduction19/03/11 10:06 PM
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Awesome awesome report. Aren't Sedditors great people to know? For Blowout girl: You could of used this as a disqualifier easily and kept the set hooked. "Who said I wanted to sleep with you?" may be a bit too direct but that's the attitude I would used and quickly transitioned into something funny and attention grabbing to get off the hot topic. For Fedora girl: Great set. I'm not sure here but I think you may have over done the kino. I'm sure you understand that the solution is not to touch as…
/r/seduction19/03/11 09:36 PM
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These are bad solutions, and you insulted seddit. Not cool brah.
/r/seduction19/03/11 09:20 PM
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Thank you for your words of caution, a female perspective is most welcome. I'm sure that this is a simple case of an attributional error, mistaking the person for the situation. Maybe the guy who creeped on you knew nothing of the seductive arts. Every interaction is different, and so are people. A blanket statement that covers everything can certainly do harm. Remember sedditors, it's what happens under the blankets that matters. There is a lot of knowledge on seddit that if given to the wrong …
/r/seduction19/03/11 09:15 PM
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Girth.
/r/seduction19/03/11 09:11 PM
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I'm gonna be real with you here, because I think you would appreciate me speaking my mind and not holding anything back. Bar 1: Early in the night, you pushed the kino too much and then she shut you out. Seems like you focused way too much on her and didn't bring enough to the group? Not sure where your stories were directed. There's a natural flow of conversation that is working, where both sides equally bring value. It seems like you got caught up in your ego and pushed too much in kino and co…
/r/seduction19/03/11 09:07 PM
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I used to ride the metro in Montreal a lot and could generally close a girl. The only times it didn't work was when I was really being a creeper, ie: trying to get a k-close before we leave the train etc. Keep a positive attitude, make it light nothing serious, tease and have fun. No outcome dependence or desperation. Point is to keep yourself and her entertained while you are in the social isolation of a train. Make good use of body language to not telegraph too much interest. And yes, if a gir…
/r/seduction19/03/11 08:55 PM
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A lot of good advice already. I love dance floor game. All body language and mindset. It seems like you have given up on yourself already in the club arena, why do you think that is? YOU CAN DO ANYTHING IF YOU PUT YOUR MIND TO IT. If you do not address your limitations you will encounter them again and again. There's usually a point when you have been dancing with a girl for long enough that a crap song comes on. At that point it's "let's get a drink" or "let's sit down for a minute". Then it's …
/r/seduction19/03/11 08:51 PM
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Nice solid report. I don't think you were "in it to win it", seems like you wanted a few phone numbers but were not prepared to caveman a girl and then bring her back to your hut to eat roast boar or whatever you do in southern Germany. I like your attitude, all I can recommend is focus your killer instinct and push yourself. #planbetter
/r/seduction19/03/11 08:46 PM
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Take this man up on his offer!!!
/r/seduction19/03/11 02:17 PM
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shhh... www.bitseduce.com
/r/seduction18/03/11 10:05 PM
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ALWAYS BE CLOSING It's good practice.
/r/seduction18/03/11 10:03 PM
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I tend to favor the calling method. Send her a text saying "let's work out when to meet up, i'll call you on ______" then you call and figure it out with her on the phone. Don't forget to make your voice deep like barry white and say "lady" after every third sentence.
/r/seduction18/03/11 10:00 PM
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I would of either disqualified myself "We are never going to get along then" when she originally mentioned it and then continued to ignore or tease her when she continued, depending on how she reacted. If it continued, I would of GOT REAL ON THAT BITCH and told her straight up I am not gonna stand her attitude and been as blunt and as authentic as I had to be to get my point across. Bitches love authentic.
/r/seduction18/03/11 09:56 PM
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According to Mystery, you should stop the negging when you have moved past the attraction phase. I find that to be a good suggestion.However, I understand completely that you are teasing her and was probably pretty congruent with your attitude. She seems like she has a bit low self esteem ("not worth it if you are not there", attracted to guy who insults her). I think you could of escalated smoothly and done the dirty deed in the laundry hamper. You say escalating...I'm not sure you know what th…
/r/seduction18/03/11 09:50 PM
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Nice FR, you don't really have anything to worry about.
/r/seduction18/03/11 04:57 PM
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Another reason the number rating system doesn't quite work, it doesn't take into account personality and intelligence. This girl doesn't seem too smart... and a bit of a bitch. LMFAO - Laughing my fat ass off.
/r/seduction14/03/11 04:38 PM
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Sure! I thought they might be friends because most guys don't normally walk up to girls and talk about world of warcraft, ya know? I think your attitude towards the guy showed your annoyance and frustration quite clearly. Your negs or teases I'm not sure what they were, but maybe they were a bit cocky and not calibrated. When the guy is defending the girl, it does make you appear to be the aggressor, not him, who you labelled "overaggressive" guy although he has made no untoward moves besides co…
/r/seduction12/03/11 09:56 PM
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It's a fine line. You definately run the risk of attributional errors on both parties. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fundamental_attribution_error If someone relies on influence and manipulation to overcome someones values, they don't have my respect. In most cases I either move on or get her number for a day 2. On the rare chance that I see she's testing me and does want to go home, I stick it out and see how she responds later in the evening.
/r/seduction12/03/11 09:18 PM
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No interaction means nothing to keep you on her list. I wouldn't worry about it, she's probably thinking "4 months, no contact, this guys just watching my profile."
/r/seduction12/03/11 09:05 PM
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You sound kind of innocent and so does she. I would say try to talk to her outside the normal realm of work and captivate her with topics that get her engaged. Then you can "escalate" by being friends with her. Def. seems like a beautiful one-itis is about to bloom here. Cherish it.
/r/seduction12/03/11 08:57 PM
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LadyPUA has some great posts that should help you with being a wing woman.
/r/seduction12/03/11 08:54 PM
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Plan a day 2. Not to get something out of her that night but to actually have a Day 2. Because, hey why not. Avoid any type of buyers remorse and have another chance to show her your glorious personality in a daytime venue.
/r/seduction12/03/11 08:15 PM
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I would retort that often times it's not "game" that is it at fault. Rather I would say althought it could be that, it is often the females personal values and morals at play.
/r/seduction12/03/11 08:13 PM
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Guy could of been her friend, so your zingers may have worked against you. They also seem kind of like douche baggery. You really have to gauge your progress by paying attention to your target and try to increase your awareness of the female. Pausing after speaking, and focusing on listening are good ways to do this.
/r/seduction12/03/11 08:10 PM
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I can practically feel the frustration bleeding through my screen. First off, wipe your definition of what the friend zone is completely clean. Consider that there's no such thing. You have already slept with both of these girls. You whine so much about the friend zone that I think you should replace that word with "taco". Now the girls are going to "taco" you. Not too bad is it? The other girl, who gives a damn. Your angst about the threesome and your early signals could of led to them inviting…
/r/seduction12/03/11 08:03 PM
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Great movie, with Richard Dreyfuss.
/r/seduction12/03/11 04:23 AM
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Aww, you did great and i'm sure it was a blast. Nothing better than opening when your knees are knocking and your hearts a flutter with the closeness of a beautiful girl.
/r/seduction11/03/11 11:59 PM
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Scumbag PUA: Hangs out with perfect 10 models / Doesn't number close Should of asked anyways. "Even when you know....you never know. You know?" -Let it Ride
/r/seduction11/03/11 11:16 PM
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It's been said before over at RSD, but "state is crutch". You don't need state to talk to chicks. Go out and have fun. It sounds like you have been making great progress and enjoy the game. I know things like "DHV" and "Social Proof" are almost like steam achievements in a way, but you have to realize that they really only matter to you. You go to the other side of the bar and interrupt a conversation and they may only have a vague idea of who you are. Attention is little. They do assist you in …
/r/seduction11/03/11 10:10 PM
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Yet Mr. Overeager got a number, and our bitter 'you ain't doin' it right' pua OP got nothing... I'd like to see you push yourself a bit more genobeam. Follow the light. The light is grey.
/r/seduction11/03/11 10:06 PM
1

I agree with these guys. I also think that you are deliberately limiting your options. You are not seeing the forest for the trees. "If I don't hook up, I will be forever tormented by her game. Do I just straight up tell her its on or we can't be friends or do I just move forward sexually." this quote specifically says that you painted yourself into a corner on this one. Think outside the social circle.
/r/seduction11/03/11 08:21 PM
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It seems like she's a bit fucked up compared to what you may want in a relationship. Go out and seek other women, heck bring her with you and tell her about what you want to do. If she doesn't want to do threesomes tell her she has to be your wingwoman. I wouldn't stick with this woman as all your instincts from what I can read are screaming DONT DO IT. Meanwhile your dick is getting a bit territorial and wants to go white knight on yo' ass. Monogamy is normal. Go outside the lines, deal with yo…
/r/seduction11/03/11 08:08 PM
5

You got tooled by your friends. To them, it seems like you are doing these ridiculous things to get their attention or win their approval. Much in the way a child would act out in order to get attention. Particularly when people start learning PUA they think they have super powers compared to 'normals' and start behaving to seek approval. You know the answer yourself on whether or not you are actually seeking approval. If you do not think you are doing so, then your external self-image does not …
/r/seduction11/03/11 08:02 PM
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it's lots of beneficial. (lol grammar) I suggest you compare yourself to short people a lot. Taller guys think with their dicks and women appreciate that. Small changes to the appearance of a tall person are amplified because they stand out.
/r/seduction11/03/11 06:22 PM
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Fucking loser women wanting to feel the texture of my baby smooth palms!!! Now I have to re-moisturize!!! Gah!!!
/r/seduction11/03/11 06:17 PM
1

The sooner you can wean yourself off of using other people's words, the sooner your confidence will skyrocket. The urge to use lines and other words is huge, and it trains you to be helpless until the next ebook or product comes out. Keep throwin' that shit at the wall until it sticks.
/r/seduction11/03/11 06:13 PM
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Shit test is a bit strong, I was partially joking about that. You can respect her wishes while carefully trying to seduce her to being more than friends of course. Reactive is when you emotionally invest too much into the response you are getting from the girl. So instead of taking action, like initiating kino, building attraction, stuff that you knew in retrospect you should of done, you were stuck. The reason why you were stuck is that you were basically seeking her approval to proceed with yo…
/r/seduction11/03/11 02:48 AM
1

I'm guessing you have already tried to meet redditors and sedditors in the area. If you haven't already put your name on the SEDDIT LOCATOR. I completely identify with your plight. I moved from a big city to the boonies and I have no car to get too the target rich areas around me. The most important thing you can do is stay on your mission. If it's doing good in school, do that. If it's getting your income sorted out, DO THAT. That actually sounds pretty important, and there are lots of ways to …
/r/seduction11/03/11 01:26 AM
2

She's trying to hide her boner
/r/seduction11/03/11 01:21 AM
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You're going to enjoy Uni!
/r/seduction11/03/11 01:17 AM
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Fuck yeah. I love Poon. Like anything, these are* suggestions* and are to be taken with perspective.
/r/seduction11/03/11 01:11 AM
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As a guy who always loved nightclubs, I started out nervous but eventually it became the defacto place to practice because of the reasons you state. There's no place to improve your game like a nightclub or bar. The social pressure is high but when you get the momentum going it's THRILLING. Think all the anxiety you feel turned inside out into GOOD FEELINGS. Way to go guy, you have the motivation to make it happen!!! Yeah you totally could of got that girl (even after hot dude marked his territo…
/r/seduction11/03/11 01:04 AM
3

There's very little permanent or strong value created while dancing with a girl outside of physical attraction. That depends on how well you dance and how you feel about it. Salsa? Merengue? Funky Chicken? The Dishwasher?????
/r/seduction11/03/11 12:59 AM
1

Hey, now you're reacting to me. You gotta take the lead!!! This is especially true when dealing with younger girls. They want you to take the lead. It's important that you see her signals but stop being so reactive. It seems like you invested too much too early. Meeting on skype and then going on a date seems like you are trying to maximize the amount of time that you see eachother. In her youth she probably didn't realize that you were getting way to deep in "relationship mode" before even init…
/r/seduction11/03/11 12:49 AM
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You probably wanted to get something from her, and your logical or reasonable way to snatch that pussy from her was to try to impress her. "I'll impress her so much that she wants me". To your dick it makes sense. It's animal like mating ritual stuff. Go out with the intent of having fun with her or stay at home and have fun with yourself.
/r/seduction11/03/11 12:19 AM
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From your writing it seems like you are hyper sensitive to her and reacting to her every move. You want it to be the other around! It seems like you already know this though, no big loss. You quit early though, I wouldn't let something like this stop yah. Keep it platonic and continue to make kino something you do naturally, not with the intent to seduce. Show that you are a fun guy to be around and act like it didn't happen. This "lezzbeeefreenndz" usually happens when you are too desperate or …
/r/seduction11/03/11 12:13 AM
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Study less, practice more.
/r/seduction10/03/11 10:50 PM
13

She could see your intentions clear as day on that first date. You didn't treat it as a date though, you were clearly going for the kill. I don't see it as going that bad, she wants to continue so don't be so hard on yourself. You probably got nervous when you saw how cute she was, I can tell because of how you refer to your MISTAKES like they were terrible shames. Were you even having a good time on your date? Basically you learned some PUA "tricks". Good for you! However you forgot how to be c…
/r/seduction10/03/11 10:48 PM
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Book stores, HMV, Libraries (pray she isn't a screamer)
/r/seduction09/03/11 01:24 AM
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You gotta read Neil Strauss' book "The Game" bro.
/r/seduction08/03/11 08:44 PM
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