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Thank you for the gentleman who wrote this, and for you to share it. Energic, no BS, no in what category are you, just act like a man: I needed it!
/r/seduction07/07/25 02:16 PM
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Yes, but a lot of female do not really respect their friend men. They often use them when they are single to feed appreciated, and then forget them when in relation. So why should we take the time and effort for them ?
/r/seduction27/05/25 12:53 PM
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This is a kahon zazen.
/r/seduction09/02/25 02:55 PM
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And "you are such a good friend" :D
/r/seduction24/01/25 03:54 PM
23

We need a MMA for social skills ! :D
/r/seduction24/01/25 01:31 PM
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Exactly that. I was a lot romantic, writing poetry, dreaming true love, and it was so stupid. Better to be a narcissistic ! :) This is not a world to dream to Chivalry and Princesses.
/r/seduction24/01/25 01:31 PM
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Ok, but when you are used to be ignored for years it is hard to be confident :D I have too began martial art. It make me perhaps a little more enduring/aggressive But I can not say it make me magically more attractive :) I do not disagree, but when you are tired in your soul it is not easy to be happy in social situations
/r/seduction24/01/25 01:29 PM
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Sadly it can only make us more and more angry.
/r/MensRights19/11/24 01:19 PM
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It's jut a necessity for the body and hte mind, to feel that someone can love you and you can share intimity.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/24 05:45 PM
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Ok. So you have to sexually attractive in the first few seconds ?? It seems next to impossible without being a rock star.
/r/seduction17/10/24 07:20 AM
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That's true. When social dancing, I often make laugh the girl I'm dancing with, but she forgets me after.
/r/seduction16/10/24 11:49 AM
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Right, they don't even really care what can happen to you as a "friend", they just want to vent and have attention.
/r/seduction12/10/24 11:22 AM
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"all they did is consume media." That is a good one, and to remember that they need us to have real fun.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/24 09:52 AM
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Struggle and death ! But perhaps also some wonders
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:49 PM
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Yes, but not everyone become great by being alone Because it is hard to be confident without some love. Years after years you can also just become recluse with an average life, and less chances as you become older to found a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:45 PM
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Do you really make her sign a paper before sex ??
/r/TheRedPill09/10/24 06:33 PM
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So forget all about poetry and romance.
/r/seduction07/10/24 12:16 PM
4

This is true. At the end, you feel invisible and useless to live
/r/seduction07/10/24 08:53 AM
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So the technic is to insult the girl ?
/r/seduction25/09/24 11:48 AM
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No legal action possible??
/r/MensRights24/09/24 03:00 PM
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Could you develop what you mean by being proactive please ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:34 PM
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I'm not certain if you really can laid girls with these. You have to be a little famous in your community, if not girls find strange that you want to take them in photos. And it is not because she agree to take photos she will agree to anything else.
/r/seduction20/09/24 02:37 PM
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Yes but you must dance the same dances ! :) Ex she is in rock or salsa and you are in swing, not the same circles
/r/seduction20/09/24 02:36 PM
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Yes but a lot of instruments are solo, like piano. Nobody will know how you play because it is in your home. You are talking about building a band ? It is not easy !
/r/seduction20/09/24 02:36 PM
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Yes, too much caring about what woman would think means never being a "man". And seeing other men just talk and provoke her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:52 AM
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True for the depression, and with depression come laziness and giving up. Or you have to keep the anger to not give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:30 AM
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Could you develop how you use instagram ?
/r/seduction19/09/24 11:25 AM
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yes for me I was surprised by the aggressivity from some girls. I would never be like these withbthem so I never know how to react.
/r/seduction19/09/24 11:14 AM
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Same thing, I eas so timid and hurting myself !
/r/seduction19/09/24 08:26 AM
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We need this, pushing ourselves to be more assertive indtead of always being afraid of what other think. But there is one cavenat: in little circles like social dancing it is perhaps riskier.
/r/seduction19/09/24 08:26 AM
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For me. It is not so much about sex than intimacy and trust. And it is now very hard to believe it is possible.
/r/seduction18/09/24 09:21 PM
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Yes, I was so romantic, sending them poems, buying little presents... And I was never respected.
/r/seduction18/09/24 09:18 PM
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Exactly. How crazy we had became in these modern society
/r/seduction18/09/24 09:16 PM
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Yes. I think the most important is to have fun for yourself and do not care about what she thinks. It needs a lot of energy and some crazy spirit :D
/r/seduction04/09/24 09:49 PM
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Yes, we have to accept to be ridicule to improve. But I think to test it we must go out of our social circle because it is risky.
/r/seduction04/09/24 09:46 PM
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Ok, but could you develop how to work on conversation, humor and charm like you said ?
/r/seduction03/09/24 04:37 PM
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Could you develop how you have improved your conversations skills ? I think it is more global that "game" ?
/r/seduction03/09/24 04:35 PM
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Is it not risky to ask a number ? Is not asking for insta better ?
/r/seduction03/09/24 09:54 AM
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In reality, do not girls feel weird that you approach them to talk about their clothing or other thing ? Do they really accept on the go to take a drink ? I mean, why would she wants to talk with a stranger when she is on her way, unless the guy is super attractive ?
/r/seduction03/09/24 09:54 AM
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Good point.
/r/seduction27/08/24 02:40 PM
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Hard but true. But would you really change job just to have a chance to meet more girls ? It does not seem realistic. You earn more in more "boring" jobs (IT) than in "art". And it is an option only when you are young. For me it is more about hobbies, for example making photo in a specific community to be see as interesting here (and I hope make good photos).
/r/seduction27/08/24 11:07 AM
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Man, when I tried Muay Thai there was some "short" guys (for me) I found very impressive: muscular, tatoos, bear, intenses. Me I'm being tall and it does help me so much :D
/r/seduction27/08/24 11:00 AM
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Yes but if not in a country where it is legal, big risks
/r/seduction27/08/24 10:51 AM
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Man there is inflation now
/r/seduction27/08/24 10:51 AM
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So one year of effort in gym without recompense to hope to one day be more attractive ?
/r/seduction27/08/24 10:45 AM
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When balding, I suppose a "good haircut" would be shaving it and having a beard.
/r/seduction27/08/24 10:44 AM
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Just be famous or/and rich. What is the problem ?
/r/seduction27/08/24 10:42 AM
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True. It is always going to be harder older, so don't wait !
/r/seduction24/08/24 03:41 PM
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I was exactly in the case 1. I thinked the woman I knew for years was a good friend. But in fact she talked to me exactly like a girl, about her shopping, her problems at job and crushs, with zero respect for me as a man. Perhaps because I didn't respond to her advances years ago. Morality: Don't need women as friend because they do not respect us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:13 PM
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Yes, but he was just crazy. I think the risk is more about men becoming political extremism. And less tolerance and help with women. Yes I don't see how there could be any reconciliation. For these it should have been some support in medias, culture about men, and there is not, so...
/r/MensRights22/08/24 04:22 PM
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Thank you. I think in militant movements extremists always take power. And now there is no culture to respond to it and keep it in check. What is sad for everyone is that men are going to become more angry and extremists as a response.
/r/MensRights22/08/24 11:51 AM
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Yes, when we discover that the narrative of being a good guy breaks, we search for any model to explain how to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:36 AM
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Could you give some examples ? Good luck man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:35 AM
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Yes. That was my default I always adored them. Too much romantic !
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:16 AM
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I understand what you mean. But to deny the pain and struggling of people different of you, because you do not live it, can only lead to more anger in the future. It is not because they are an invisible minority in your world that they do not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:33 AM
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It depends for who.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:55 PM
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True. I have seen stupid people preferring going down, so I don't romanticize it. But we can be inspired by the real good in what some people created/wrote... without idolazing them. About Dr Peterson, have you at least read his book 12 rules for life ? It is really well written, and speak well about the pain and the struggle of some men. Because yes, men also have struggles and pains ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:53 PM
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A lot of artists and creators had messed lives. But they had also greatness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:20 PM
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And get social assistance, don't forget it please ! :)
/r/seduction18/08/24 07:47 PM
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you should firstly learn how to naturally present interest and study girl’s subtleties and body language. How would you structure it ? There are books like models and the game but it is not really a program.
/r/seduction18/08/24 07:03 PM
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You are not wrong. Could you develop about the "presenting masculine" ? If it is about muscular, there are limits and it take time. Or is it about body language? And if yes have you some more ressources about it ?
/r/seduction18/08/24 07:00 PM
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You are not wrong. Like going to gym everyday, without question.
/r/seduction18/08/24 06:57 PM
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Thank you, good points. I see, you are not just inspired, you are "copying" him like an actor, until his body language. When you talk to women, do you imagine being him, how he would react ?
/r/seduction18/08/24 06:54 PM
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Sometimes there are physics problems that have not easy response. Funny the number men who become invisible and depressed or angry. Or not funny if you look a the futur consequences for society. But I do not disagree about trying to improve for yourself. There are just some realities that are hard for women to grasp, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:24 PM
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Yes I have to be careful in my little social circle. In fact I think all the dancing scene are too much little groups where people talk about other people they knew, so it is risky Perhaps, but I'm in west europe and it is hard to differenciate true coachs vs scams.
/r/seduction18/08/24 05:55 PM
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Exactly that ! :D
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:52 PM
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When you say communication, isn't it more about manipulation, to have dominance in conversation ?
/r/seduction18/08/24 02:07 PM
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Beautiful expression.
/r/seduction18/08/24 02:06 PM
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Good point about finding a role model. Who would you advice to look for in dandy style masculinity ? I like elegance, culture... I'm inspired by Dr Peterson but hes is in a different class and older, Jocko but after thinking I'm not a fighter or a bodybuilder :D And if possible a bald man because I'm very balding but have not eat the bullet to shave it... Did you mean Elon Musk ? All right, that's a great inspiration. But I'm not certain I can become billionaire and build rockets :D
/r/seduction18/08/24 01:56 PM
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Good points. You can’t afford to keep hesitating or second-guessing yourself. You’ve got to take action, consistently. It’s not about being perfect; it’s about being persistent. I just go out in a little circle of social dancing. I'm afraid by trying too much here I will be labeled as creep. But as a middle-age man I find hard to go to clubs. So it is not easy to have opportunities to practice without bad social consequences.
/r/seduction18/08/24 01:49 PM
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Yes. The truth is the more we are sensible, the more we are fragile. But women and in fact friends don't want to know these. And there is no pity for the fragility of a man. I'm also afraid that after a woman will use what she knows about me.
/r/seduction18/08/24 01:30 PM
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Yes. It is good to have different lives
/r/seduction18/08/24 01:29 PM
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To be or not to be (laid)
/r/seduction18/08/24 01:28 PM
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Not false.
/r/seduction18/08/24 01:28 PM
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Easy to say, but what if you have to fake a persona to have some relationships ? Because "just be yourself dude" does NOT work.
/r/seduction18/08/24 01:27 PM
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What do you think is the cause of your failure rate now ? Conversation, confidence ?
/r/seduction18/08/24 01:25 PM
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I like these advices, "it is easy man: just be muscular, have a lot of money, have a very good job, and be good in bed !" :)
/r/seduction18/08/24 01:24 PM
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These are good points that make me think: the guy that approaches a woman goes there to find if she likes him or if he can impress her rather than to see if he likes her or see if she gets her to impress him. When you are focused on proving your worth, or in trying to find out if you she likes you, you are acting needy and approval seeking and your entire demeanour is more unattractive as a result of that. I was a lot like these, hoping to be "accepted" by her, when in fact if should be the reve…
/r/seduction18/08/24 01:22 PM
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Seems easy :)
/r/seduction18/08/24 01:06 PM
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Well said.
/r/seduction18/08/24 01:03 PM
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How to work the voice and body language ? Theater, communication lessons ?
/r/seduction18/08/24 01:00 PM
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The survivors are going to do great.
/r/seduction18/08/24 12:59 PM
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This is seems great, but also risky in a little social circle. For example I'm in social dancing were a lot of people know each other, and I'm afraid they will be laughing in my back if I began to tease like this. But I don't try it won't improve...
/r/seduction18/08/24 12:58 PM
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I agree about talking to strangers to practice. I was more an introvert and not really interested by small-talks. Now I treat each interaction as a way to learn something about the person and enrich my life. For example I had a medical appointment with a woman doctor. She was very business-like, but at the end I made her talk about her projects and she was smiling and engaging. Following the timeless advices from Dale Carnegie, just listening and being interested in what the person says go a lon…
/r/seduction18/08/24 12:48 PM
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I agree, before I avoided useless banter, now I see each interaction as an occasion to learn something about the person and practice conversation. For example I had a medical appointment with a woman doctor I didn't know. At the begin she was very businesslike. But at the end I made her talk about her projects, and she was smiling and seemed happy. I find that the best way to talk to people is just to listen and be interested.
/r/seduction18/08/24 12:45 PM
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Thank you, I'm going to look at it.
/r/seduction18/08/24 12:42 PM
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A funny bunny ? I'm sure she would be impressed :)
/r/seduction18/08/24 12:41 PM
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Because there are some things impossible to change. Perhaps it would be better to focus on money and personal life than on impossible relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:42 AM
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Could you point to some posts you have made about making their know your intent ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:23 AM
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Agree with you. As a kid we need a good male model, someone to help build us stronger. If not, we are for a life of self-doubt and suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:22 AM
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If I can say, I'm always one of the most elegant. But perhaps not enough attractive (balding without resolving to shave, tall but not muscular). So good conversation go nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:19 AM
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Most men want some intimacy I think. Yes it is not just sex, but it is a part. In fact a lot would want to just devote their self to a woman they trust and adore, but it seems a recipe to being walked over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:32 AM
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Thank you for your explanation. Honest question: So from first minute the man have to be in mode seduction, and at the end of 10 minutes of conversations ask for instagram, because after it is too late to change the intention ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:30 AM
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When I tried Muay Thai, there were short (for me) guys I found impressive: very muscular, big beards and tatoos, and aggressive when needed - but if not friendly. I'm sure there were way more successful in dating than me even if I'm taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:25 AM
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Attractive physically, than in character ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:23 AM
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You were a quick learner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:18 AM
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Yes, inventing some persona. I had some success when young in rock scene because people thought I was "rock", when in fact I was an insecure nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:18 AM
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I would say big cities have the advantage to have a lot of cultural events, so easier to find people to connect if you are a regular.
/r/seduction18/08/24 09:16 AM
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Yes I understand that now IF you want to flirt. BUT I thought as them as friends and friends are interested in each other, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:34 AM
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Exactly that. Young men do not know how to protect themselves. They want to be nice and respectful - and are being walk over by women they think as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:32 AM
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It seems only male can be true friends with a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:31 AM
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For a woman, being soft have a good chance of finding someone to protect her, and the society in general try to protect women. For a man, it means being bullied, losing self-esteem, being enable to have relationship, and nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:17 PM
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Like a blue pill woman who caricaturist a man in pain ? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:11 PM
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I like the Dr Peterson books. But having these power is not clear for me. Is it the capacity to fight, which seem a little primary for me in modern society ? Or capacity to lead or other ? What do you think ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:10 PM
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Well, in social dancing when I feel for a girl I sometimes make her laugh, invent her a story, sometimes poetry, all in dancing, but I'm always ignored after. So I don't know if women really want conversations with romance and emotion, or just fun and sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:07 PM
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Or would not want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:04 PM
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I had a friend girl like these, dates with long conversations. At the end I realized she talked to me like one of her friend women (shopping, her problems...) and did not have any real interest in my problems. It was not about wanting romance, but just respect and interest like a human being. Other situation: a diner with three women I thought as friend, and during all the diner they talked between herself like I was not here, and in fact ignoring me. Again, I didn't want romance, but just respe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:59 PM
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"ensure you’re above the “fuckable line” in terms of attraction. The direct approach requires a higher level of skill because it puts everything on the line right away—no room for error." Hard but well said
/r/seduction16/08/24 06:55 AM
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Just read the room Luck !
/r/seduction16/08/24 06:54 AM
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What is a course on sexual and emotional intimacy skills please ?
/r/seduction14/08/24 10:26 AM
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i agree, I try now to build my projects and improve for myself. But let's be real, it is hard to live without intimicy.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/24 08:53 AM
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Thank you But it is hard to keep self-esteem when without relationship for years. But of course we need to gain value by ourselves and not worship women because they are women.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/24 08:49 AM
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Same thing here. It is hard to renounce to being romantic, poetic... And to become an indifferent jerk
/r/seduction11/08/24 09:32 AM
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What is not a good idea ?
/r/seduction11/08/24 09:31 AM
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Example. I'm photographying a girl at an event and make fun with her. After:. Do I ask her directly her Instagram or phone, Do I propose her to walk around Or do I leave and hope she is going to make the effort to see me again to have photos and talk ? Thank you.
/r/seduction11/08/24 09:27 AM
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Have you make posts or could you elaborate about how to network? I don't see how people can be really interested into random people talking to them.
/r/seduction11/08/24 09:14 AM
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Could you elaborate why hight guys status give more ?. Isn't it the contrary to make boundaries and being able to say no ? Is it giving time, advice, help to make friends? Thank you
/r/seduction11/08/24 09:12 AM
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Beautiful story. Yes, after being depressed I'm now angry with myself. Because I have to change, and advance with what I have. Without worrying about my imperfections or please others.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/24 09:53 AM
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It really makes sense. When I was young and made rock photos, I had a lot of crazy energy and people around were attracted by it. I had forgetten it ! Trying to be serious. I'm going to awake it again, and have fun for myself Instead of being afraid to be judged !
/r/TheRedPill07/08/24 09:44 AM
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How could it be more women in a big city ?
/r/seduction06/08/24 08:11 AM
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Thank you sir. Yes totally agree with the need to action. Thank you I'm going to look at it ! Can you tell me if the following makes sense for you as actions for being more masculine ? For building discipline and fitness: I have began again to wake up early to make exercices, and for the first time from months I went to the gym. I'm going again to try boxing, because it is better to be punched than sleeping, eating and being miserable with myself I feel being angry with myself help to force myse…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/24 06:59 AM
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Thank you. It makes sense. Could you share the posts where you discuted about closing and obtaining a girl’s contact information ?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/24 03:12 PM
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Very interesting with practical example Well, I just have to become ripped and exulte self-confidence, easy :D
/r/TheRedPill05/08/24 03:10 PM
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This a very hard and one of the best posts I have read, thank you. I'm in these boat, telling myself I do not want to go out or trying to have a relationship, when in fact I'm just without self confidence and social skills. Could you give some ways to improve its self image ? Because just saying yourself be confident does not really work :) For example I'm more like a geek but I'm trying boxing to be more assertive and physical confident. But for now I do not like to be punched, should I force m…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/24 11:51 AM
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Exactly that. When I was young I made photos in rock scene. Beautiful girls were interested by me but in myself I was always the bullied deek and couldn't imagine to have a relationship. So yes, inner beliefs are vital. It is not fair when you have suffered but life is hard
/r/TheRedPill05/08/24 11:31 AM
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Thank you for sharing. I feel like you it is hard to change self image and beliefs. I had a journal but more like a todo, I'm going to more write thoughts and emotions. I try ro make sports but it is harder when you feel you are always the weakest I agree it is very important to progress in thise because it is like I always self sabotage myself, and at the end I just want to sleep and forget :( I'm going to look at meditation and NLP
/r/TheRedPill05/08/24 11:28 AM
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Could you give some sources or pointers to improve yourself ? Do you think you need to learn to sell to be better at social ?
/r/seduction04/08/24 06:09 PM
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Ok, so what is it to have respect for yourself ? To become a fighter to be more aggresive ? To force yourself to get up early ? It is not evident when you see no hope
/r/seduction04/08/24 06:05 PM
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What is masculanity energy? It is a fine concept but it does not make a lot of sense when with self-doubt and alone for years. Could you develop how to build it ? Is it going to gym, saying what I think... For example I tried boxing but I feel being punched does not make me more confident:D should I force myself to keep going ?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/24 02:13 PM
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Thanks, it resonates with me, but more about entrepreneurship.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/24 02:08 PM
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Thank you, but "just be more confident my guy" is not really helpful :) Could you develop how to develop thise self-confidence in concrete ways ? Fir example I have a hood job and make fine photos (if I may say it myself) but it helps not me to be more confident with women. Perhaps the key is more to be used into social situations (for me I prefer books to going out!), business selling formation... I have tried boxing to be more assertive, but being punched did not really boost my self-confidenc…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/24 02:02 PM
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Twelve rules is really well written.
/r/seduction01/08/24 01:26 PM
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Yes. Curses and the laughing from abyss.
/r/seduction31/07/24 08:19 PM
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I like the analogy!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:57 PM
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Exactly right on getting fit. I have tried boxing to be more aggressive and fit, stopped because don't like to be punched. But asking myself if I should not force myself to have objective. I can not motivate myself to just go to gum :D
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:50 PM
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Difficult when doubting yourself but yes I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:27 PM
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Good point. What do you mean by generous ? Because it seems you have also to make boundaries, be assertive...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:24 PM
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not doing anything because of lack of confidence: Exactly me when I eas young
/r/seduction31/07/24 04:20 PM
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Yes, for me it was like a mild-traumatism becoming an habit of being alone. Until it becomes very hard to go out and socialize. But the truth is life is sad without true friends and intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:56 PM
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Thank you So for you the way to become more social is to make team sport activities ? In my experience there was not a lot of chatting after, and people just do their stuff. Be in shap ugly :D
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:06 AM
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If I may, about social media, do you think developing an Instagram is a necessity for a man to improve its status for women ? I struggle to use it. Does it have to be personal, can it be more about art projects... ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:39 AM
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Can you develop how did you build confidence and talking ability? It seems vital for charisma and status but it is hard when not self-assured. Theatrer perhaps ? Making and publishing art projects ? Business commercial formations ? I have tried boxing but it made me just more aggressive and thinking a lot how to not be too much punched in sparring :D
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:32 AM
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I don't disagree with working to improve. But in Europe, top guys in dating I see are not very muscular. They are fit, naturally good looking, have charisma, high social status... So I think it is more complex that just going to gym (but it is necessary!)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:59 AM
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Can you tell more about the changes and efforts you made, and how you changed your Frame ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:45 AM
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And if I may, I think your were brave to take therapy and medication. Perhaps I should have fone the same ! In myself I think I should be able to fight to be a man because I was bullied and alone a lot I have forced myself to go boxing gym but it takes all my energy, it is not me, and at the end do nothing to help me find a relationship. Now I try to focus on artistic projects, express my sensibility. Being ok with what I am. And believing in futur.
/r/seduction30/07/24 06:07 PM
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Thank you. And it gives assurance to know what to say.
/r/seduction30/07/24 06:01 PM
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That's exactly that about social dancing. Thank you for your advices ! I feel stupid becayse I never take the time to stay and chat after a dance Because I'm timid - and well there is always another dance coming ! Definitely going to do it but nicely like you say. Another thing is I take sometimes photos and make portraits because I like the atmosphere. But it never goes anywhere. I have decided to take the time to make more photos and publish them instead of letting them sleep. I do not want to…
/r/seduction30/07/24 05:57 PM
1

Yes, I understand. It is great that you were able to free from your past! I had have problems with a lot of self-doubts too, from past. I take solace into Jocko and Peterson books, about taking ownership, accepting life is a lot of pain and trying to improve for myself.
/r/seduction30/07/24 03:38 PM
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Thank you for fhe explanation! Sorry, what is IHABF? I mostly go out at social dancing, events of a few hours. I dance one or two times with the girl, make her (sometimes) laugh. But after that another man always invite her, so no way to keep contact. Usually I try to ask her at the end if she wants to keep contact but it goes nowhere. If I follow you, I could try: After dancing, keep talking with her and try some routines, and reinvite her - but a lot of chances that soneone cone to invite her …
/r/seduction30/07/24 01:28 PM
1

Because girls will do not like it if you go alone ??
/r/seduction30/07/24 11:32 AM
1

Could you tell more about how years of therapy and reading stoic and existential philosophy helped your game ?
/r/seduction30/07/24 11:07 AM
1

I don't get this. If you meet IRL at an event how can it be 80% status ?
/r/seduction30/07/24 10:59 AM
2

Why that ?
/r/seduction30/07/24 10:54 AM
1

So instead of just reacting you have to know in advance what you are going to tell and do to the girl, like a tree decision ? To have some stories ready ? I can have some first contacts but after it goes nowhere so perhaps it is the key.
/r/seduction30/07/24 10:54 AM
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I'm reading The Menu from Clarey, a great book about accepting and living without long relationship. It is hard, but after we accept it once for all, we can find purpose and happiness by other ways. Instead of always struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:23 AM
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Very good point about not asking number. Should I say I would like to see her again to talk, or just ask she wants to see me again ? Is it better then to have digit, insta... ?
/r/seduction30/07/24 08:05 AM
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Yes I do social dancing but people are here to dance not really to talk. And it is hard because after making some fun with the girl and good dancing, she is just invited by another man and I don't see her until the end when she leaves ! Perhaps better to try it at the after, going to tables
/r/seduction29/07/24 12:32 PM
1

Same thing, do you do social dancing ?
/r/seduction29/07/24 12:30 PM
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These is great, thank you ! I'm going to try it at the next social dancing ! It gaves purpose and fun, just trying to talk to everyone. A mistake I make is after dancing or at the end of the ball to ask for number. It is aleays awkward. I understand she must going to me, express interest before these step.
/r/seduction29/07/24 12:29 PM
1

That's the spirit !
/r/seduction27/07/24 12:59 AM
1

Thanks. No more time to lose !
/r/seduction27/07/24 12:58 AM
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Same thing. Was in rock scene, making photos, girls were coming to talk to me, but I was certain they could not be interested in me... Know when I see old photos of me, I cringe as how attractive I was without knowing it. It is really hard to believe in yourself when you have no happy memory.
/r/seduction27/07/24 12:23 AM
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Like in startups: fake it until you make it ! :) Thank you.
/r/seduction27/07/24 12:19 AM
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Thanks for all the videos ideas ! I didn't know there were these treasure on youtube !
/r/seduction27/07/24 12:18 AM
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I see it is a real study, Not counting on romance and soul attraction. I have to put time in it and experiment. The title of the video "See Yourself As 'High Status'" make me want to give up and return to my books :D But I must not.
/r/seduction27/07/24 12:03 AM
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Thank you. The title I have found is : Revelation: The venusian arts, from Mystery and Lovedrop.
/r/seduction26/07/24 11:58 PM
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Yes, talking with stoicism and indifference All the contrary of me: when I make them dance, I talk to them with romance, make them laugh, and after they ignore me. So yes I must seem without options, which is true :D
/r/seduction26/07/24 11:55 PM
1

I like you magnets analogy. That's true, when similar, sensible, romantic, I'm in a friendly zone. So I have to not be afraid to provoke her.
/r/seduction26/07/24 11:47 PM
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I have found it on amazon. The editing is not optimized (more like images) but it is readable. Thank you.
/r/seduction26/07/24 11:40 PM
1

Yes, being more assertive and assuming what you want is improving your life. Do you think forcing yourself to do a martial art like Muay Thai is good to reprogram the mind into being more "dominant" ? Or is just using anger and discipline to force yourself to change ?
/r/seduction26/07/24 11:36 PM
1

Could you tell more about some routines to be more confident to socialize and go out ?
/r/seduction26/07/24 07:35 PM
1

Hello, I have looked at your posts but it is not clear for me. What methods do you recommand now for a beginner lacking self-confidence ? Thank you.
/r/seduction26/07/24 06:21 PM
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Good point about being social with everyone to avoid pressure. I didn't find infroamtion about Brend Smith, its site seems empty. If you don't recommand the Mystery method, what are some basics to know how flirt and socialize ?
/r/seduction26/07/24 05:48 PM
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Could you share some resource to learn IE, mirroring, pacing and leading someone. ? Good point about just practice to remove anxiety.
/r/seduction26/07/24 05:45 PM
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Strange, it does not seem to have a good version in kindle/ebook.
/r/seduction26/07/24 04:18 PM
2

From M Maltz ? How did it help you ?
/r/seduction26/07/24 04:14 PM
1

It is rude even in dancing
/r/seduction26/07/24 04:08 PM
1

It seems there are a lot of scam online, what do you recommend ?
/r/seduction26/07/24 03:59 PM
1

I have read you have to seems indifferent to be the prize, is it not contradictory with making her know you like her ?
/r/seduction26/07/24 03:58 PM
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Stupid question, but what is flirting ? How do you talk like this ?
/r/seduction26/07/24 03:54 PM
2

Can you tell more on about escalating ? Would you have some resources to learn ?
/r/seduction26/07/24 03:53 PM
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When I was young, I went into the rock scene and began to make photos. And after a time a lot of girls were coming to see me. I had the rock look, I was an artist, and I imagine I didn't look so bad. But you know what ? I had zero confidence in myself, because I was bullied a lot in school for being nerdy. So I stayed alone, couldn't imagine dating them, didn't know how to talk to them. And after that ? Too late. Talk about self-sabotage. So yes, self-confidence is key.
/r/seduction26/07/24 03:50 PM
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Could you share how did you study game to improve in real life ?
/r/seduction26/07/24 03:48 PM
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Could you elaborate what you mean by competent ? Professional to earn money ? Or game, and if yes how ? Thank you.
/r/seduction26/07/24 03:46 PM
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I have read a lot that you have to seems indifferent, to be the price... How do you conciliate it with smiling to her, giving her attention ?
/r/seduction26/07/24 03:42 PM
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What is try hard ? I mean, you have to try to talk to her, no ?
/r/seduction26/07/24 03:39 PM
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Have you some advice, books recommendations about what to say, how to interact ? Thank you.
/r/seduction26/07/24 03:38 PM
1

Could you expand why keeping them does ? So are you shaving twice a month ?
/r/seduction26/07/24 03:30 PM
1

Can you elaborate on these negatives qualities you see ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:48 PM
1

Hard, but true. Nobody said Darwinism is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:47 PM
1

That's true that if you are not used to dating when young adult - because too shy and timid, it is almost impossible when older. When you become less beautiful and more tired. For some It is a hard and lonely world but it is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:47 PM
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"Don't be a nice girl or a doormat. Don't sit around messaging him, and don't answer his calls when you're busy to leave him longing for you" For me it is all the contrary. How can I love someone who is not nice for me ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:38 PM
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I understand. It us true that practicing a little of MT made me more aggressive when people were disrespectful. But when I look around me people with success in dating and status, absolutely nobody do fighting. So it does not seem very useful for dating, and it takes a lot of energy. That can perhaps better be used into creative and entrepreneur projects. And martial art is not the same as true fighting.
/r/seduction17/07/24 02:04 PM
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And a random game
/r/seduction15/07/24 06:10 PM
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I don't agree with the need to force yourself to do MMA. The majority of people I see who are confident with beautiful girlfriends are not fighters. They are commercial, business, énergic people. MMA if you don't like it takes a lot of energy and time, and can injury you. Of course, just my opinion.
/r/seduction15/07/24 02:32 PM
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That's great, to be able to accept emotions but not be controlled by them. And not to give up to anger. It makes me think about meditation. Whats is a virtuous life for you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:12 PM
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Agree. I'm tired and do not want to lose more energy and sanity for women who in fact do not respect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:11 AM
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Make sense With what RP don't you agree ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:16 PM
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What is bloody and brytal ? Do they free fight begore playing cards ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:03 PM
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So don't try to be funny or poetic ? But how do you attract her attention then ? Is it not good to make her feel special?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:58 PM
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Thank you. But I understood that you have yo be alert to social clues. And not escalate if she express no interest. But you say just try it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:57 PM
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What is to be attractive, apart physical? I just don't understand how to talk. A lot of red pillers seem to say that you must ignore women to not lower oneself, to treat them with indifference. But I don't see how to not talk to girls make them interested in you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:57 PM
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Thank you for sharing!
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 05:39 PM
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Yes it seems than if you do less than 600k your are in hell. I didn't know :D
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 05:38 PM
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If full remote, why not in another country like Asia ?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 05:37 PM
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To have a good job we have to develop expertise and experience, I do not think it it is so easy to change of domain. In Europe companies do hybrid but very less full remote so it is hard to leave cities. How do you manage to have the time (and energy) to work your land while working?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 05:36 PM
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I'm reading The Single Path to Wealth from JL Collins. He says index fund is a good way to keep with inflation, because companies sell at higher price so the global index does not lose value. I would say the first step is to take the habit save and invest a part of the revenue and so adapt a less expensive lifestyle. And to focus on develop better expertise, communication, branding to have more opportunities in our domain. Because to develop a secondary activity whichs can earn true money is not…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 05:31 PM
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It is true the focus must be improvement and business. For me I try to do some muay thai and lifting (beginner in two), each 3x a week. Making meals for a few days. It takes time but I do not want industrial food. But I have to remind me I must keep time just for me, to progress in order and business.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/24 09:33 AM
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A lot of self-defense is about avoiding problems and fighting. I think martial art improves confidence and body, and that's why I have began Muay Thai, but is it is not the same as avoiding agression. And if you are red pill, why do you care about the opinion if a girl who does not care if you are hurt ??
/r/TheRedPill24/04/24 08:55 AM
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You say to "never dodclose your attentions". But it seems that a lot of red pill advice to be bold and show you have sexual interest (instead of being nice and friendly) ? You aay also that "familiarity breeds contempt", but in a long relationship it seems inevitable to know the other ?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/24 08:46 PM
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Lot of content like reddit and reposts and visual, but I don't know if it is now very used.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:34 PM
2

Agree. It is not always easy but I feel lucky too!
/r/MensRights28/02/24 05:31 PM
2

I agree that Socializing is a muscle. A lot of time I want to just stay home but I think I have to force myself to go out and talk to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:04 AM
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Of course you need a good cutlass for bouncing. I recommend naval cutlass: short enough to hack your opponent without hurting influencers filming you. And do not forget to AHRR in the end !
/r/seduction18/02/24 12:42 PM
1

Yes. It is too easy to give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:05 PM
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Just accept it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:59 PM
1

It is hard to stay mentally strong in social events when you are sensible and some girl look at you with contempt or make fun of you because you are alone. In true this is nothing and petty, but it makes want to fly them. Stay masculine when you doubt yourself and no model is hard. Perhaps having some interior rage can help, to not give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:18 AM
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That's true. When life was hard in family and school it is next to impossible after to believe in yourself. And without this confidence it is hard to have relationships. Sometimes you to have fight against yourself for years. Women don't care. Yes it is vital to improve yourself to become more positive, but this is hard work and you have to do it young. Life is harder for some but this is life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 12:54 AM
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Good luck man. Believe in yourself, sometimes it is hard but you will become stronger.
/r/MensRights01/02/24 03:06 PM
5

Well said! :)
/r/MensRights01/02/24 03:05 PM
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That's true that there is more and more a feeling of indifference for all the agitations of society. Fighting for performance, apparence, social... What for ?
/r/MensRights01/02/24 03:03 PM
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That's a good one. And they will invoke you only if they need your help, if not return to the limbo !
/r/MensRights31/01/24 07:26 AM
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It is now really too much energy, wiith high risks to suffer contempt or being labelled as a creep. The more sensible a man is the less he is going to make the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:33 PM
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Let's talk about Theranos, when Elizabeth Holmes was the darling of the Silicon Valley because genius woman, before being convinced of fraud. Yes, outrageous lies and megalomania, no difference with men. Surprise ?
/r/MensRights19/01/24 09:24 PM
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That's nice to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:24 AM
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Honest question, can you not have a serious discussion with her ? Perhaps planning some regular time together without daughter, like mini holidays?
/r/MensRights18/01/24 10:12 PM
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I felt the woman wanted me to have a beautiful mariage and children. Mariage and children were her goal plan. I would have ended as just an accessory. And years after, what ? So no, thank you. And when I was young I was so romantic.. It makes me sad to see this reality.
/r/MensRights18/01/24 08:13 AM
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Yes, it is hard to not be nice by default to women - who do not respect us
/r/MensRights16/01/24 03:37 PM
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I agree that we need a lot of energy on along period to get out of average. When feeling tired and sad it is hard to keep making efforts. Being angry is better than give up. This is a hard life but we have to fight BUT we have to take time for the few people who really are important for us like parents. Because after it is too late...
/r/TheRedPill16/01/24 10:21 AM
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Hard truth. You are right. People care about us only for our value. Only parents can like us as we are. We must fight for our better life.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/24 11:45 AM
3

Dating, when I wanted to encourage a guy
/r/MensRights14/01/24 06:37 PM
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That's true. We have to force ourselves to not take shit from women who do not respect us. That is not easy when at heart we want to be nice.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 12:47 PM
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That's true that early traumas can hurt a long way. Society is not against you it just does not care.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 02:08 PM
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Thank you. We have to carry on and live.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 02:06 PM
2

I feel that being angry (but no hatred) is better than resignation. Angry to keep going on, to not accept and give up. Yes it is hard to not have simple love, but this is life and life is hard sometimes. Good for you to have finding astronomy, the perfect abstraction. There are so much to learn and wonder ! And relativize our little lives. For me it is in books that I forget. Good luck!
/r/MensRights07/01/24 02:05 PM
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Yes. It is very rare to say to a man he is amazing and do great.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 12:42 AM
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Reading a lot, with a nice tea. In the stars, in adventures, in romance, far away of this hard, hard world.
/r/MensRights06/01/24 09:51 PM
1

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:56 PM
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I know. You could add Ada :) That's not a reason for showing men as incompetent in technology vs women. This is very caricatural.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:09 PM
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That's true, I feel I must never tell what my personal fights are. They are not interested. Men must be confidents... And when a woman asks questions it seems more by curiousity than true interest. Experience shows I must also not express my feelings, not make compliments... So what to say in conversations? Just social bullshit and marketing. To be honest, I'm not sure we can also say how we really feel to men friends. This is a sad world, everyone with a smiling mask and indifference in hearths…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:04 PM
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I have seen a few years ago an article in a very serious european magazine (economy, world, society...) that said that women didn't really need penetration, and men were egoists to wanting it... It is difficult sometimes to know what is true, and to resist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:41 PM
2

Like you are dying of famine in a world of abondance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:36 AM
5

Same thing as a man. Never again I'm going to romantise women. Too bad for my younger dreamer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:52 PM
1

When you wre alone, you regret to have lost the few occasions you had because you wanted to have boundaries and be respected. Guess what ? The girl found another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:23 PM
1

It is true. Poetry, romantism, beautiful words make you ghosted But it is hard when you are romantic to not express it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:20 PM
1

Girls can like to dance with you to have a partner, but have zero interest in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:13 PM
3

Nicely said.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 08:45 PM
2

Well I must say I'm like you. Just renouncement.
/r/MensRights01/01/24 05:10 PM
1

Drug users and heavy alcoholic do not really respect.or love you, they love their shoot more. They will do anything without thinking about consequences or you. And they think they are so cool and moral is for little people. You can never really trust them, they will naturally use you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:29 PM
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You know that there is a lot more for humanity evolution that a good look, right ? Try intelligence, sensibility, artistic, moral... All things that do not come from good looking eugenics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:42 PM
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Well sir, I must say I often balance going out in this rude world against a nice book in my gentleman room. Books with stories about honor, ideals, fighting to make a difference, true relations... You know, all that is disappearing in society... But I feel that if we do not force ourselves to go out and meet, we become more and more isolated and it is bad for mental.
/r/MensRights01/01/24 10:52 AM
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Courage....
/r/MensRights01/01/24 10:45 AM
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That's true that the suffering of feeling rejected and humiliated as a man make it harder to build and progress. And as the same time women are always helped because they are women.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 01:50 PM
1

Thank you. I would have thought that the positive of marriage should be to have children? Were there true love ?
/r/MensRights31/12/23 01:43 PM
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I understand that. When we are not attractive instead of continual efforts, it seems there is just paid sex or renouncement.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 01:37 PM
1

This is beautiful but it is not so easy, how can we be happy without some love ? It is not sane to stay alone year after year.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 01:35 PM
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What would you mean by "acting rationally, instead of defeatedly." please ? Because it is hard to live without believing in love. Do we must see life as just an endless fighting for material independence and going passeport bro to have some (conditional) love ? It doesn't seem very joyful for me, but I was a romantic.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 11:30 AM
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What do you mean not investing in society? We live in society, have to pay taxes, be social at work and hobbies... So I do not see your point.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 10:45 AM
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It is true that nobody cares when aman is not comfortable with himself, has self image problems... He must just put a face and struggle alone And never tell any woman about it.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 05:44 PM
2

Yes, you can not really change your physical or replace your personality. And you definitely not can become younger and magically erase personal problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:14 AM
1

It is easier to be happy when you do not feel always rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:12 AM
1

I go sometimes at dancing balls, I make girls smile and they like to dance with me, but at the end it is for nothing. And I feel I lost my energy for being nice with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:48 PM
1

It takes balls to go against the mainstream opinions. We know we would be harassed if we talk about men rights.
/r/MensRights13/12/23 02:56 PM
1

What is the signification of free speech near-absolutist ? Thank you.
/r/MensRights13/12/23 02:51 PM
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When I was younger I was very timid and romantic, so had not a lot of experience. Now, I feel women are manipulator and do not give a fuck when I express romance, poetry... And it was devastating each time for me So I have decided to not give a damn about them when the few times I go out again, and to focus on my job and my hobbies and improvement. I can always dream in old books. I can not say that I'm very happy, but I save a lot of time and energy. And my self-estime. And the true is that is …
/r/MensRights13/12/23 11:40 AM
1

Thank you for sharing. Do you have support from other men or are you alone ?
/r/MensRights04/12/23 03:29 PM
1

If I may, I'm not sur going to art is the best way to become independent.
/r/MensRights27/11/23 09:56 PM
2

I agree, old books of history are so beautiful.
/r/MensRights27/11/23 09:54 PM
1

There is no grandeur, no epic in these movie. Of course he made some terrible mistakes (Spain, Russia), but they try to downsize him in trivial domestic. And nothing about legal and economic revolution he created Hard times to be inspired to indeed. Ah, if Kubrick had made this movie !
/r/MensRights27/11/23 09:53 PM
2

That's true, I had a woman friend and she had zero empathy when I shared a little of my personal fights, always respond with talking about herself. So at the end I stopped telling her how I felt.
/r/MensRights25/11/23 09:22 PM
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Sometimes a family can be hell inside, but I don't disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:26 PM
1

It is interesting. So we have to not only have money, but also have an original job and life. Too bad for normal people in corporate life, it is not sexy on insta tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:56 PM
1

Better yhan to be nobody pick if you are too old :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:52 PM
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Yes but as a man you can be alone for years because of few social circles and mental tiredness. And the older you become the harder it is ro meet, and make efforts. No woman is going to make efforts for an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:43 PM
1

I agree, movies from 1940 and 1950 are so beautiful, in characters, stories, fashion... When men were Men, and women Ladies, each strong in its role together. Of course now it would be forbidden to make these stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:52 PM
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I remember a comic in Wired a few years ago, about high tech investigation. There were two cops: a young metisse woman and an old white man. Guess what? In the comic the cop man was always stupid, understanding nothing about technology, and it was the woman who explained him how to use cameras or software. Of course the inverse would have been impossible. But who invented all these technologies ? Men :D And I'm sur the audiance of this tech mag was in majority men... When we inflige to ourselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:50 PM
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It is a pain, but I must say it is credible ... What is the DAMN reading ?
/r/MensRights23/11/23 09:58 AM
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Perhaps you are right, but I feel the relationships at these events are superficial: we smile, say we are happy to meet and forget after. I won't call it bond and engagement:) It seems a little futile at the end when I know how all these finish.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:55 PM
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Perhaps you are right. For me, I just read fiction until I forget the world. Of course, it does not resolve my problems :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:42 PM
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I had some lost girls friends who recontacted me. They were some artistic rocknroll girls, that ten years ago didn't have a lot of interest in me. And now they were used and older and have break with their multiple bad boys, they wanted to see me again, and that I house them. Guess what ? I was not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:38 PM
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I think I'm at the limit. I could go out more in some social circles but I'm too mentally tired to make a lot of efforts. So I have less and less opportunities. The true is I find tiring to make efforts to go out for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:26 PM
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Good luck! I'm not into a church but I'm more and more interested by traditional women from churches.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:14 AM
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Perhaps you are not wrong :) Dominant at work and with agressive people, humble with good friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:12 AM
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Hello. I''m sorry, but humble and dominant are opposites. Not the same soul. Or it is acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:53 PM
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Hello. I''m sorry, but humble and dominant are opposites. Not the same soul. Or it is acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:51 PM
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Could you explain your sentence Any man that isn’t blue collar basically becomes black-pilled by default. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:30 PM
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I agree with you, I'm in social dancing and it is hard to talk to women even when you are good. They just want you to make them dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:34 PM
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By the look and stylelife
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:31 PM
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I agree. And at a point it is depressing. I find hard to work to improve my career if there is no reconnaissance and love in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:28 PM
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Well it is easy to say when you have regular sex :D
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:07 PM
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I think you should find s virgin girl, if not she is not going to respect you. In religious community?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:05 PM
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I agree. I'm in a niche social dancing, and all women are happy to dance with me because I'm a good dancer, but none is enough attired to have a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:54 PM
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Well, for me I was a little traumatized by body issues all my life. When I was young sometimes girls approached me but I was too much shy to have true relationships. I do not think that they can understand how a fight it is for men sometimes to just go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:57 AM
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True, but single men slowly die of thirst, while women laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:42 AM
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That's true. I have made the mistake at a dance course to very very gently flirt with a girl, and now she look at me like I'm a killer. Ok I didn't know she had a boyfriend (it was the beginning of the cycle), but he never told me anything about it so I guess I was not so horrible. Now I'm afraid to touch her when we must dance together at the course. In fact I was afraid to come back the following week, because I'm very timid I know she could tell bullshits to other and I could not defend mysel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:52 PM
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Because men are too much romantic! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:42 PM
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Well I have seen that at a startup, a cofounder became toxic because jalous, and take a big sum to leave and stop trying to destroy his company. So this is true that sometimes people are rewarded for breaking their contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:41 PM
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This is adorable. All women I know want a big marriage. (As a man) I prefer your version:)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:38 PM
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About risk taking, it is my reflexion too. I'm trying muy thai, and to feel rage, but it is hard when you are older and not very fit. I have pain for days after, and I'm afraid to take a punch in the face :D
/r/MensRights30/10/23 04:25 PM
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Well, I think that when society repeats to women that they are better, they can be aggressive, they do not need to respect the men... It is harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:14 AM
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Yes. As men now we have only the right to take it and carry on with our pains or isolation or fragility. For society and medias we do not exist, or just to be mocked.
/r/MensRights30/10/23 10:04 AM
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Well sometimes you have physical and mental problems and you can juste keep them in control. And not a lot of energy after work and activities to take rejections.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:02 PM
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Just going more and more indifferent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:57 PM
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I agree. Time go. You become less and less attractive, and more and more tired. Relationship seem for me like an alien world. I can not imagine now what is living with someone. When you are older, you interest just single mothers or divorced. So after years alone, you just go with your life. And because you are a man, nobody care about your suffering. But hey, there is freedom in acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:55 PM
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In my experience, female friends quickly forget you when they find a boyfriend. You are just here to make her feel good when she has none, or (a lot of times) to make her dance because her boyfriend do no like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:43 PM
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