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On a busy street, if you live in a city it's easier. It's a common thing to ask for directions. If not, try to talk to someone where you live not specifically a girl your age. Begin with the mindset, i want to become a more sociable person. It's a long road but it's worth it, I'm doing it too :)
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:53 AM
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Don't do it. Avoid drinking alcohol or taking any drug to talk to girls. If you do so, you'll create a bad habit and you'll tell yourself that if you want to talk to girls you need to drink or take medication. My advice to you, is to go with a wing if you are able to find one, take it slow. If you're awkward talking to people start talking with guys/old people, it will take out the stress out of it. Then talk to girls your age, as I told you, go baby steps, ask for time, directions etc untill yo…
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:34 AM
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Make sure to go to the beach for some tan aswell
/r/seduction19/07/22 11:31 PM
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Probably you should isolated him from the girls, and make your intentions obvious from the start. If you only reveal your intentions at the end of course it will be awkward. Well at least you went for it.
/r/seduction29/06/22 07:16 PM
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Fuck him. Probably he was the one that ruined the girl's day by stoping the interaction. They want to become heroes but all they become is losers. Just do what you want to do and don't give a fuck about what other people think, because in the end they don't matter.
/r/seduction05/05/22 03:49 AM
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Or a dick lmao
/r/seduction24/03/22 04:00 AM
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Don't tell her your friend is cheating on her. That is needy behavior. Just make clear that you are attracted by her and you want her. Who the fuck cares about your friend is doing. It's not about what's going on with their lives, it's about what you want for yours.
/r/seduction22/02/22 06:16 PM
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Nope, they just don't know what they want. They think they want something but they want the complete opposite, that's why nice guys finish last.
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:53 PM
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Gym definitely helps i getting laid, because you get ripped and more confidence. But if you're going to the gym to get laid, once you get a girlfriend you'll stop going to the gym. You need a better why, because when you stop going to the gym your gf will notice you're a lazy bones and she'll leave you. So yes find a better why for working out.
/r/seduction19/02/22 05:30 PM
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How to approach girls you see often, it's not like you'll never see her ever again.
/r/seduction17/02/22 07:23 PM
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Not really probably an external person will notice, but not the girl your locking eyes with. Eyes are like magnets. The most she could feel is uncomfortable if not interested.
/r/seduction14/02/22 12:50 AM
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I can't go more detailed than that you look into the other person/girl's eyes. You think to yourself that you want her. Everything becomes blurry around in that moment, It has to be genuine attraction. And girls get crazy about that. I think the problem is that it's very difficult to do it on command since it has to be genuine attraction, and sometimes you're not in a good mood or your confidence is not peaking, or you didn't get enough sleep, a lot of reasons. Like once I was going out with fri…
/r/seduction14/02/22 12:47 AM
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I feel like I can do a lot with only eye contact. There's a time when you hold eye contact and when you show genuine desire everything becomes like motion blur around her and that's when you attract her. Its like a cheat code for game. If you can do this on command you'll attract most of your dates. I still can't do it on command because as I said it has to be genuine desire and sometimes it's hard to express it. You have to be comfortable with it. If you are not confortable with your desire you…
/r/seduction01/02/22 02:10 AM
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If you're already shy it's better to approach them first. For the simple reason even If you get approached you won't know what to say and probably the conversation will die. Just go easy and start small say hi present yourself, or ask for something, then give a compliment, then try to talk more with her. Build up momentum with several interactions, you'll get used to it and it will be easier.
/r/seduction19/01/22 08:11 AM
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You have to start to love yourself first. If you're not loving yourself, how do you expect someone else to love you? Start by doing a journey towards the inward, meditation, read books about self improvement, find your passions, and once you've found yourself, you can start accepting other people into your life. The only person you've got untill the end of your life it's you, other external persons and things can come and go. I've learnt that the hard way. A good book i can recommend is the powe…
/r/seduction14/01/22 04:25 AM
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Daygame
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:04 AM
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Money and status only becomes important with age. For a 20 yo girl it's not very important, but for a 30 yo it becomes more important.
/r/seduction25/12/21 06:35 AM
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Well you are living the life up to your values by being honest and being yourself. How do you handle to not put girls on a pedestal? I kinda struggle with that when I'm really attracted to a women.
/r/seduction06/12/21 02:24 AM
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Doesn't matter you are a nice person, keep up living up to your values and don't give a fuck about what other people say. Good job man 👍
/r/seduction03/12/21 01:08 PM
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Hey I know a nice place/restaurant/park/museum, wanna go there sometime? Make it casual, once you're out of the workplace tell him how you feel, give some eye contact.
/r/seduction02/12/21 12:16 PM
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Hey I think I never introduced myself properly yet I'm name nice too meet you. Shake hands She says her name. Oh ok what do you do around here. She talks about job stuff boring Ok nice. I'm new around here I don't know everyone yet do you want to grab lunch together. Your turn to go for the rest of the script. this is just an example but don't memorize or you will mess it up lol
/r/seduction02/12/21 12:40 AM
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Normally I would go for 100%/100% But since that's not an option I would put 10% in looks and 90% in personality. I don't imagine myself living with a shitty or toxic person. I presume that 50% personality is just your average Julie. Looks don't matter that match a women can be attractive without being good looking.
/r/seduction30/11/21 08:11 AM
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This is easy just go a little bit earlier with your personal trainer So you can finish your routine, then just do some cardio like bike or something and when you see her talk to her. Problem solved
/r/seduction30/11/21 06:26 AM
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I'm not American but I've traveled a lot to the US. For me the best cities with the most beautiful women were Chicago and New York. Seems like when it's a big city women are more fit and fashionable. Then Nashville and Miami are pretty good too. But this is all relative there's attractive women everywhere, you just need to find them.
/r/seduction30/11/21 03:44 AM
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Not anyone can be good looking but everyone can be attractive. Go to the gym get fit, get clothes that fit You. These 2 will change your attractiveness in no other way possible. Have a minimum hygiene, shave, haircut, clean clothes, clean nails. Train your voice speak from the chest not from the nose, fix your posture with exercises. Put a deadline and do these you will see the difference. Of course age, looks and money matter but not as much as confidence in the long run. The more you're old th…
/r/seduction29/11/21 02:45 PM
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"Hey I had fun last night you seemed like a interesting person, I want to get to know you better" Then say like I know a cool activity/bar/museum something you can share an experience with her. Do you want to join me? Make it casual don't ask her or beg = needy If she doesn't accept I'm sorry to say but it mostly isn't going anywhere. If she flakes, try again, if she flakes again delete.
/r/seduction28/11/21 06:15 PM
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All I can recommend to you is the books no more Mr nice guy, and models. You need to change your mindset, it's your biggest problem right now. Start asking yourself "what if it was a gift?" You lost 5 years in a toxic relationship, but was it really a loss? You improved your sex life and experience, you learnt that sex and beauty is not the most important thing to have a good relationship. Maybe the fact that you guys broke was a gift and a new beginning for you. Life is a journey, and your stil…
/r/seduction28/11/21 04:58 PM
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Always good to know
/r/seduction27/11/21 06:42 AM
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I tried this visualisation thing and doesn't work for me. The more I visualize the outcome or scenarios the more I get nervous and mess it up. I tried this to go talk to a girl I liked. when I got there with her my heart was beating at 200 miles per hour and I answered very quickly and overreacting, I wanted to get out of there. And I did as soon as possible.
/r/seduction27/11/21 06:37 AM
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Actually you can, go to the gym, get fit and buy nice clothes. Every perspective will change, you won't attract all but more.
/r/seduction25/11/21 11:41 PM
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Once you know her and you have her number, you want to get a date with her in the following days or week, if you wait too long it's lost. You can do anything for a date, even a walk in a park, or jogging, think like this the more fun you have together the better. Once you get on the date, if things are going well, you need to escalate physically, something simple like comparing hands or holding hands is a good place to start. Do this and you get their interest.
/r/seduction23/11/21 12:39 PM
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Loosen up in clubs it's easy, one step to the left, one step to the right, and get your arms loosen up, balance them slightly. Follow the rythm of the music, train yourself in front of the mirror.
/r/seduction23/11/21 03:00 AM
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Let me explain it to you, you are now asking how to dance so you can get the attention and the social validation of women which describes as needy. Don't be like that, have fun dancing do you're thing even if you are silly just have fun. If you expect something you will get nothing, if you expect nothing you'll have something.
/r/seduction21/11/21 05:44 PM
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Whatever you're comfortable with, but to be honest handshake is too formal. In Europe it's normal to go for a kiss on the cheek but depends where you live in.
/r/seduction17/11/21 10:51 AM
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I think chase it's not the best word here. If you want a girl go for it but she has to respond to your standards and values otherwise it's a waste of time. It's not about being the prize it's about finding complicity.
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:09 PM
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No alcohol, confidence comes from interactions you just need to have a good momentum. When you get there you'll start to speak to everyone without any problem.
/r/seduction13/11/21 06:54 PM
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I think it's not about nice guys but more about needy guys. Usually nice guys are needy but not all of them. You can be nice and still be confident. You don't need to be a douche.
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:58 AM
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My love for you it's like diarrhea. Can't hold it in.
/r/seduction04/11/21 09:38 AM
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Creep is a strong word, people need to interact to become good at social interactions. Don't think you're a creep, instead think that your social skills are still not on point and you need to keep training until you level up. It's all about mindset. Observe where and what are you failing at and correct yourself. Keep going
/r/seduction01/11/21 10:55 AM
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Not completely agree with your statement. Drunk people take impulsive decisions without thinking on the consequences, so sometimes they don't mean what they say. They just go with the vibe.
/r/seduction01/11/21 12:30 AM
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Depends, how many times she has been approach, is she in a rush, are the approaches friendly or vulgar, are they confortable. There are a lot of aspects to take in account. Maybe that girl that posted the reddit thread is tired of being pranked and wants a stable relationship. That's why you have to show your true intentions before continue the approach, otherwise your just wasting each other's time.
/r/seduction31/10/21 07:50 AM
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Get fit, get fashionable, date other women. Get her jealous in socials. Don't give a fuck because your dating better women now. GG
/r/seduction30/10/21 02:06 PM
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No don't tell them you have no experience, unless they ask. Confidence builds up with experiences and there's no shame on starting late. There are old people in college graduating and they don't give a fuck. It's never to late learn, some women will even enjoy teaching you some things. Just be open minded and go for it tiger.
/r/seduction29/10/21 05:59 AM
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Yeah try to know her better through messaging she already got a glimpse of what you look like irl. So now is just making her comfortable and asking her out for a walk or something.
/r/seduction28/10/21 08:16 PM
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Try something out, ask her out to a walk in a park whatever. Don't wait months until you go on a date that's a waste of time. Go for it and if she says no, no big deal, just block and move on. That's how it works.
/r/seduction28/10/21 08:44 AM
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When she says she is going on a day with another guy that's when you block her and move on. At one point it's no longer cool guy it's more like needy guy. Don't waste your time mate.
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:52 AM
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If you wanted go for it, maybe he's afraid of rejection and doesn't want to ask. And if he says that he doesn't want to be in a relationship well he'd just saved you some time.
/r/seduction27/10/21 09:50 AM
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Send a meme pic something funny about your first interaction or something you want to share that make her laugh, then ask after a little small talk. Are you still ok for tomorrow?
/r/seduction26/10/21 06:50 AM
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Speak to her ear
/r/seduction24/10/21 04:23 PM
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Send her this song: https://youtu.be/dQw4w9WgXcQ And then block her Leave like a boss 😎
/r/seduction22/10/21 10:54 AM
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Empathy, aknowledge her feelings and adapt your actions words with that in mind.
/r/seduction20/10/21 04:20 PM
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Here's what you can do: Go buy your rabbit food Talk to her and ask something about your rabbit or start the conversation on whatever. Try to make her laugh with something on your conversation, or some foolish story about your rabbit lol. After she laughed, pause, and ask her out, make it seem casual and natural. Just talk to her like you talk everyday you go there. And btw your reply "what's not to like" is totally ok, I would probably say the same lol. Trust in your gut
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:15 PM
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Yup the only thing you can do is stop thinking about it. If she said no and you're still going for it you're only digging up your shame hole even more. Just stop, hit the gym and improve your looks/clothes. You'll make more women notice you, and who knows maybe she'll think about it when she sees how good you look and ask you out then. That's you're moment to shine and say no to her : "sorry, I'm to good for you honey" 😂
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:29 PM
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Don't ask her on an engaging date like a dinner or something like that. Ask her to do something fun, like a sport or activity, even eating an ice cream and a walk in the park will do. You'll increase your chances on her accepting and plus it will be more engaging. When you ask it make it casual like "what are you up to Friday afternoon?" So it doesn't seem to engaging. You're so focused on what to say if she says no. Try to focus on what to do if she says yes. If she's says no just move on, no b…
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:39 AM
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I would say for most women looks > money. Anyways these can help but you'll have one night stands or gold diggers. To get the good honey it's all about balance and a good personality. 😎
/r/seduction15/10/21 08:00 PM
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You can dm her, you just need to stand out from the other thousands of dms. And pray that she will see yours. Or you can stop going on Instagram making fake assumptions and talk to real girls outside.
/r/seduction15/10/21 12:06 PM
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He's an actor, it's all scripted. But anyways actor have experience in theater and stuff so they are really charismatic and have their own style of flirting. Talking and flirting with people is an art and skill, once you train that skill you become successful.
/r/seduction13/10/21 02:24 AM
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When you don't respect someone else boundaries, it stops being seduction, and starts being manipulation. Then it's up to you and your values, the kind of person you are.
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:34 AM
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If she doesn't want to reply to the phone it's ok she just refuses the call, no big deal. And you will continue texting and life goes on. At least you show you have the balls to call her. There's no obligation but it can be a good thing. There's no need to overcomplicate and speculate.
/r/seduction08/10/21 10:33 PM
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Call her, if you feel comfortable with it. First this will reassure her and probably hearing your voice will turn her on.
/r/seduction06/10/21 06:51 PM
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Improve your fitness and fashion. You will become more attractive to women. If women are still not interested engage in activities you enjoy, so you can talk about them with passion. In order to become interesting to someone you have to become a interesting person that's all. Maybe you are already but your not applying it correctly.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:52 PM
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Just try with an escort if that troubles your mind so much. You'll see after that, that virginity is not such a big deal as u thought it was. After the experience try to improve your looks, hygiene and confidence to go for the dates and relationships that's when the sex begins to be good. Effort = reward
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:13 PM
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They are possible to approach but not used to be. Maybe you should see being approach as victory aswell, being approach means that someone finds you beautiful, don't know how that's a turnoff. You just have the wrong mindset. If you have 2 dominant people in a relationship, often that doesn't end well. It's like putting 2 agressive pitbulls in same cage. Try to date submissive men or change your behavior with dominant men. You being dominant can be a big turnoff for them aswell.
/r/seduction05/10/21 12:19 PM
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Be fit, and fashionable, don't be needy, have good posture and good non verbal communication. That's mostly what girls are looking for.
/r/seduction01/10/21 10:26 AM
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Unless you're really good looking your not going to attract good looking girls online. It's like the market rules, there are more males than females on dating apps, so just in there, the odds are already against you. The difference between tinder and live game it's that in tinder it's only pics and text. IRL you can talk to the girl make her laugh, and trigger some emotions you can't through a dating app. You're not obliged to go to a club, try daygame. It's way better and easier since you can h…
/r/seduction20/09/21 10:59 AM
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Unless you are really good looking, like a model or something. You will rarely get dates with good looking girls online. I did the experience and that's how it is. Just go out and do some day game.
/r/seduction20/09/21 09:51 AM
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Maybe she was talking about your dancing. Even if she is talking about you escalating, it is a good sign, it means you're not hitting on every girl every night. You have her contact info it's already a win, just program a date in the following week and you're good to go.
/r/seduction19/09/21 04:08 PM
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Yes there are certain situations like in a funeral lol, that would be kinda weird. The whole concept of a night club is to dance have fun and meet new people, if you find those girls interesting enough just go meet them. What you and your friend have right now are just excuses. I started a conversation with a girl alone in the bar once and her boyfriend arrived suddenly from the toilet and I started a friendly talk with both of them. You just need to be socially aware that's all.
/r/seduction18/09/21 04:15 PM
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Sometimes they will smile back, it will make your day and hers as well
/r/seduction18/09/21 09:39 AM
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If you are attracting men after you meet them it's a good sign, you have a good personality. Now you just need to improve your looks, make up, hair dresser, and clothes. My mom watchs a TV show where they completely transform a person only with an hair dresser, a make up artist and a clothing stylish and the results are astonishing. Your BMI it's slightly above average, just continue your workout and you're good ;) Give yourself goals and complete them one by one, you will see the results. :)
/r/seduction16/09/21 03:39 PM
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I think it's not really how women like to be approached but by whom women like to be approached. Are you living an interesting life and have nice topics of conversations, or stories you can tell? Are you in shape and have a good hygiene? Are you funny or just a boring person? You have to ask yourself these questions and improve these points if you want to get them interested in you, either if you are making friends or looking for a date. Training yourself on becoming better at these points is pa…
/r/seduction16/09/21 08:16 AM
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Live by your values and you will become a high quality person by your standards. If your waiting to be high quality for someone else you are not being truthful with yourself.
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:58 AM
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Dunno for certain, but probably gave some address of someone he knows or family. I'm not living his life lol
/r/seduction15/09/21 05:04 PM
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Well buying/renting a house is way more expensive. And he earned money by doing some coaching to some students. This way he got enough money to pay for a gym. He stayed homeless for a year I think
/r/seduction15/09/21 04:56 PM
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I knew a dating coach on his thirties that was homeless, and he still was smashing a lot. The only thing he had was a gym yearly membership to workout and take a shower and he was good.
/r/seduction15/09/21 03:40 PM
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True or it can backfire
/r/seduction10/09/21 05:09 AM
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Improve your Instagram then try again. Put some fun photos, of you with friends, some activities like sports and other stuff, that proves you do stuff and proves your a social person. Then you may caught her attention and try again, even it doesn't work at least you build a good profile on Instagram for other dates. I would recommend you to meet people in real life than on Instagram, it's quite easier. It's easier to ignore someone thought a screen, than ignore someone in real life.
/r/seduction09/09/21 12:28 PM
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I would say that respecting yourself is sticking to your values. The day you let someone step on your values, or when you are not living by your values, you are no longer respecting yourself. You just need to know your values and you will understand what respect means.
/r/seduction09/09/21 08:01 AM
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I think a best way to put it is, if you do nothing with your life you will have nothing to talk about with a woman. The more you do activities and interact with people, the more you will have experience socializing and talk about. If you live an interesting life you become an interesting person. That's all.
/r/seduction08/09/21 11:19 AM
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At her place.
/r/seduction08/09/21 05:07 AM
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I'll try shrooms next time I go to Amsterdam then. Thanks for the info :)
/r/seduction08/09/21 04:09 AM
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Well if you're young they can't really know if you are in the colllege, and even if they bring it up on the conversation like "what are you majoring in?" You can just answer I'm not studying here, Im just waiting for a friend. Nothing creepy about it. Just don't wander around for too much time and it's good, and have the mindset to take action.
/r/seduction08/09/21 04:06 AM
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Nope, normally anyone can walk around, if they ask you something tell that you are just seeing/waiting for a friend or something. It's pretty normal to have young people around the college campus, so you are safe. Inform youself as well.
/r/seduction08/09/21 02:26 AM
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Collège campus like every campus has an outside for students to switch classes or lunch and stuff, just meet girls there. College campus girls are usually very open
/r/seduction08/09/21 01:39 AM
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Wow that's quite a journey, it is really motivating reading your accomplishments. I think I need some of those shrooms haha. I always wanted to try shrooms in Amsterdam but too afraid of having a bad trip. Self-discovering journey is really important to improve your confidence. Mediation is a really good way to detach yourself from your thoughts and ease your anxiety. It worked sometime for me, but sometimes I have trouble of doing it everyday. I guess sometimes noise gets in the way and I get s…
/r/seduction07/09/21 05:18 AM
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Congrats man! It's always good the feeling when you work for something and you get it. May I ask what did you do to practice your charisma? Thanks In my college I was not very popular, I still had fun with friends, socialized and went to parties somehow. but most of the time I was busy studying. I'm improving myself aswell but covid slowed the things down since social interaction activities got worse.
/r/seduction07/09/21 04:40 AM
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Next time send a text 1h before confirming, always do this with your dates, if no response just do your thing because you know it's a flake. No let them take your time, time is precious and 4 hours it's a long wait.
/r/seduction07/09/21 04:30 AM
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I'll tell what you have to do: Workout Stop drinking or it will mess your workout Start practicing meditation to ease your anxiety problem Train yourself speaking with anyone on the street, ask for the time, every time you approach anyone else add something else to your sentence. Learn to talk about anything, read a subject online or in a newspaper, bring it up as theme in your conversation. It's all about field testing. You said you have no value as a friend, but being a friend is already a val…
/r/seduction07/09/21 04:21 AM
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Yeah approaching a lot of people will help your nervousness. Start slowly with asking the time and build up your momentum with the approaches so you can easily approach afterwards. If you feel nervous giving speech's you probably have what I have, scared of being judged by others. Just take some public speaking classes it will help you a lot. And sometimes it's ok to feel nervous, because girls will take on that and know you are being genuine, and you won't seem like the guy who's flirting with …
/r/seduction07/09/21 04:04 AM
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Bro let me tell you something, virginity is just a bad myth. People tend to put that on the pedestal because they think it's holy Grail and will change your life and you will become a man after that (because of movies, society, etc). Spoiler alert: it's all bullshit. Having sex it's almost the same thing as jerking off, you probably get the same amount of pleasure so that's it. Now sharing a moment with someone you love and have a relationship that's a completely different story. I lost my virgi…
/r/seduction07/09/21 03:41 AM
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Not worth at all. Just do your thing and show that you are a cool person to be around, if she's really into you she can end breaking up with her boyfriend. But kinda hard since they already have a relationship built, depends on the time they've been together. There's still plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:51 PM
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Well there is an old saying " before looking for a love one, learn to love yourself". Stop approaching thinking that another person is the solution for your void. Try to make passionate things and activities that you genuinely enjoy doing. Once you get to that step try to share your activities or passions with someone else, you will see that that will improve your dates and their interest in you. Women like men that are genuinely passionate about something, even if it is video games haha. To imp…
/r/seduction02/09/21 10:49 AM
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Hiit - high intensity interval training
/r/seduction29/07/21 06:57 PM
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Try to find her Facebook/ instagram or something and text her something you guys talked about and finish with something like once all this coronavirus bullshit is over wanna hangout.
/r/seduction21/03/20 03:47 PM
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I think depends really on the girl, Portuguese are like the Spanish girls. A little bit more character and conservative, but worth the work. But the most are really nice and will talk with you, in Lisbon almost no one does DayGame so you have a lot of chances on your side.
/r/seduction18/08/19 05:11 PM
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Nope I will ask for her FB or something, I only have her number
/r/seduction12/08/19 10:34 AM
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Yeah I perfectly know what you mean,and thanks for point that out, I'm putting this girl on a pedestal. And I said it's unhealthy and I know I shouldn't do it. But since she is far from where I live, I'm just going to text her and give her glimpses of my life doing some fun stuff from time to time so she gets interested and See's that I'm not needy. I'm still going on vacations, and approach other women to improve my game but when I come back from vacations in September, maybe I'll go visit her …
/r/seduction11/08/19 09:40 PM
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Yeah I should've gone to meet the friends but I was really demotivated by the boyfriend part. I wish I could go back in time and do it all over. At least I still got her number maybe I can still meet her at her city and make something happen. Thanks :)
/r/seduction11/08/19 08:27 PM
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My objective is not her to cheat on her boyfriend. This girl ignited a feeling in me that I didn't feel since college. I really like her and when you find a girl like this you don't want her to escape. I know this is unhealthy but fuck, when you want something you go for it or you'll regret it for the rest of your life. I will still respect her choice anyways. I wanted to tell her the truth but the boyfriend thing stopped me because I know what's like to be in a relationship. It's a very difficu…
/r/seduction11/08/19 08:24 PM
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I hope she's lying so I can date her haha
/r/seduction11/08/19 05:15 PM
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Yeah man, I'm new to this stuff that would be a nice response to her. But what I think I've should've done it's when she asked me what my intentions are, I should've tell her to put her phone back in the pocket and continue the role-play like something "I want to rob a bank get millions of dollars and escape to paradise island with you" so it continues to be playful and she doesn't feel pressured. But the phrase I got a boyfriend hit me so hard that my creativity stopped.
/r/seduction11/08/19 03:31 PM
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That's what I thought as well what's the point in having a conversation for 1 hour, giving me really long hugs and having a conversation role playing so close that our noses we're almost touching. And after that tell me she had a boyfriend, that really hit me rock hard.
/r/seduction11/08/19 03:00 PM
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Yeah man I'm really new at this, but during my week in Berlin I met some girls, I went in a insta date with one, but nothing special. But this girl I really fell for her. yeah I'll keep message her from week to week giving her glimpses of my life, and maybe will go on visit her city for a week. I tried to continue the role-play we had in the bar by text, but she wasn't very reciprocal, so I think she really has a boyfriend :/ Or maybe she's only being really hard to get, which would be strange. …
/r/seduction11/08/19 02:57 PM
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Yeah I saw some of her friends and most was only guys, but they were really nice to me. I know I should've been honest about my intentions in a playful way but didn't want to fuck up the moment. Well now it's kinda late for that.
/r/seduction11/08/19 02:32 PM
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That was a awesome experience, respect for the threeway haha. Dude I had some kinda like experience when I went to a club in vacations alone ended meeting a lot of people and met some girls. Meeting girls on the street during daytime, I can't go alone just feels strange to me, I don't know why. But when I am with a wingman I can DayGame approach like 15 girls or more girls easily because we are making it fun. It's a shame because when my wingman can't go, I just go out and don't do shit, and I m…
/r/seduction14/07/19 12:03 AM
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Thank you, wanna go out some time?
/r/seduction13/07/19 10:29 AM
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First of all looks don't matter. Just have good hygiene and smell good. Second being needy is unactractive. I bet you are good at something, videos games, painting, piano... Anything Next time you talk to a girl talk about what you want and don't give a shit if she likes it or not, do what you want. You will the see the outcome changing. If you got rejected 100times you are doing something wrong, record yourself approaching, go out with someone get feedback. And if your feeling bad with mental p…
/r/seduction13/07/19 02:21 AM
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Yeah man, but it's hard to find a wingman at the same level as you.
/r/seduction09/07/19 03:46 PM
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Sorry I meant I watched a lot of videos on pickup and only read a book, but it covered the most topics thought I think. There's maybe a lot to be learn, but my point is, I learned a lot of the theory but did no action. Sorry for my English
/r/seduction08/07/19 01:37 AM
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When I was younger I would usually go on vacations with my uncles and cousins and I always wanted to go out and party but kinda hard when you are with you're family. So one day I decided to go anyways, ended up meeting a lot of people at a bar ended in a night club with them they were a large group of 10. Awesome night. Going by yourself is the best because you are not depending on anyone, you do what you want. I usually meet more people when I'm alone than when I'm with my friends, because you …
/r/seduction23/06/19 02:55 AM
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Thanks for the video
/r/seduction23/05/19 12:10 PM
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Thanks man :)
/r/seduction23/05/19 02:07 AM
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