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| 1 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.Can you please prove to me how writing more than two sentences on a dating app profile will get you many more matches? I'd love to see it. You're parroting the same arguments when I've already debunked them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Women’s problem is overestimating the amount of common sense men have.100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.No, when a man asks on Reddit why he can't get a date the number one answer is get off the dating apps and approach people in real life because dating apps are shallow by default. Also when men are swiping right on almost every woman on a dating app they are not filtering out women that care about substance. Unless you think there's no woman on a dating app that cares about substance. You are using circular arguments, I've already debunked you're claim several times. If you don't care to listen … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.First, dating apps are not made so that you care about substance, everyone knows this. Second, those are some men you picked, there are other countless men in the comments, even me who based on their own experience can attest that this is what happens. Third, I showed a chick scrolling that proves women don't check the profile before swiping left, something you said didn't happened. Fourth, no one is filtering women, every guy at the very least swipes right on 60-70% of women. That guy that swip… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.I am stressing again that while I agree he could've improved his dating profile, it would not have changed much, saying it would have is falling into a just world fallacy. And I also gave you an example of another person that don't have weird stuff in their bio that still have the same problem. Substance does matter in dating, but like I showed in the previous link I provided, it doesn't matter much in DATING APPS ... note the word APPS ... because whether people swipe right or left is almost en… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.The guy didn't cause his own situation, changing his bio would not have changed much and you know it. I've swiped tens of thousands of times and I got as much matches as I have fingers in my hands, and I'm not excluding anyone like he does, this happens to tons of other men just because this one guy said something about only wanting women that fish does not prove that in general men are as picky as women. Also I do have proof that women don't read profiles: https://np.reddit.com/r/IndianBoysOnTi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.The swipe statistic is still relevant, because it literally does not matter as much as you think what people say on their profiles because in a dating app people judge you based on your looks. Either way, here's another study: https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/women-men-dating-websites-picky-australia-study-a8418886.html Again why would he be intentionally picky if he swiped 2 million times... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.Women being pickier than men is not redpill or incel ideology. This is a known fact, there's been studies that have been made about this and in all women are more picky than men. You listed one example, which is a really bad one and I pointed it out, but you're ignoring it because it fucks with your narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.This is not about incels and the redpill. No one spends all this time swiping if they don't actually want to date women and just want to not admit they're the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.How could you possibly know that haha? So he spent countless hours swiping right on millions of women over several years just because he doesn't want to admit he's the problem?! That is insane, so he planned this all along haha? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.I have not ignored anything you said in fact I have done the exact opposite, not my fault you can't come up with better arguments. So? Did it occur to you that he’s being humorous about how obsessed he is with fishing? Otherwise, why would he swipe right on 2 million women? He must know that there aren't 2 million women into fishing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.What's that famous quote everyone uses? Ah yes!... "Judge a man by his actions, not his words". A GUY THAT SWIPES RIGHT ON 2 MILLION WOMEN IS NOT PICKY. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.A GUY THAT SWIPES RIGHT ON 2 MILLION WOMEN IS NOT PICKY but you are still ignoring that fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.Yes I brought up the swiping statistics of everyone involved in the dating app, not just one guy like you did. Again I said it doesn't matter he was picky in his bio because dating apps are mostly about how someone looks not what they write, so it wouldn't have changed much. You are still using "other guys said" arguments which are not relevant to the discussion about what the facts are, I can say I have swiped a lot and never got a single match, so does my experience destroys your narrative now… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.Of course how could I not see that a guy that swiped 2 million times on a dating app and did not get a single relationship out of it is destroying the narrative about how women are pickier than men. Are you honestly listening to yourself? You have provided nothing of substance, no data, no study, only a viral TikTok that you think shows how it "destroys the narrative" because he wrote stupid stuff on his bio on a dating app of all places, where the overwhelming majority of people judge you on ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.It might narrow it a little bit, but you're still not answering my question. Do you actually think the majority of people swipe right or left depending on what their profile said? Also not ignoring your point, I'm just pointing out how it is flawed, because it is based on the experience of a singular guy. How do you know the guy that looks like him is telling the truth? He didn't show his Tinder stats, he just mentioned it as an anecdote. This is the problem with your point, it is based on "he s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.No, I wasn't going to ignore it, in fact I've addressed it multiple times, but I don't understand why obsessing over the story of one guy, just because he went viral, when there is other information that doesn't support your argument. Also it doesn't matter that much if it conveys pickiness because it's a dating app, people judge on appearances, so I'll ask again, do you actually think many women even read his stuff before deciding to swipe left? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.Sure higher percentage of men in dating apps might create more selective behavior on women, but even if the ratio where to be 50/50 you'd still have women be more selective than men because this is just one example of many, there are enough studies out there and in none does it show that men are as picky as women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 11:50 PM |
| 6 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.Oh my god with the obsession over this guy. Maybe he was trying to be funny by saying “If you’re not trying to go fishing I dont want it” maybe he was being picky, either way he still swiped right 2 million f times. Do you actually think many women even read that before swiping left? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 11:05 PM |
| 12 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.You're whole point was that men are as picky as women. I showed you stats that seem to clearly indicate they aren't. I said you can't blame women for it because it is just dating market dynamics. You give me an example of a guy who swiped 2 million times and couldn't get a relationship out of it, I implied that the universe doesn't owe him a relationship. You seem to think that this guys failure is entirely his fault. Could he have done better, yes of course. Would it really have change much? No… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 10:40 PM |
| 7 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.First time I've ever heard of anyone doing this, usually you swipe right on whoever you find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 10:20 PM |
| 11 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.You're assuming I think women are the problem for being picky. I don't. The market is what it is, if the guy with the snakes can't get a girl after swiping 2 million times, what can I say? Life just sucks for some people maybe he was born in the wrong time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 10:15 PM |
| 54 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.Women swipe right 5% to 10% of profiles on dating apps, men swipe right on about 60% to 70% of profiles. You can't pretend women are not pickier than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 10:04 PM |
| 15 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.This is exactly why so many men follow redpill ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:33 PM |
| 1 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.I'd love to know what do you think men should change to? I understand the current system is not working and men clinging to the past is just driving further friction. But not many people are articulating alternatives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:28 PM |
| 18 | Women appreciate compliments, just not from guys who obviously want sex as a thank you.It's a very different thing when a woman is complimenting another woman and when a guy is complimenting a woman. Women don't tend to appreciate compliments from men, unless it's their significant other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 10:33 AM |
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