rfd007694 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How can I stop focusing on finding a girlfriend? Dont plan/do your life around a woman, just move on, time heals everything	/r/seduction	07/10/22 11:52 PM
4	I drank alcohol for the first time Be careful! I'm fighting with that problem, when I'm sober my game is really below average -I'm not shy and I dont have problems to start a convo just my game level is not good-, on weekends I sleep with girls that I dont even remember how I met them, now I'm trying to drink less and improve my sober game	/r/seduction	30/09/22 04:00 AM
1	Did Models by Mark Manson actually help you? it depends I think u can find it online for free (im not from usa so I dont have problems with download nolegal books) otherwise you could buy anywhere I think	/r/seduction	01/09/22 10:20 PM
17	Did Models by Mark Manson actually help you? It will sound cliché but it changed my life. A combination between Models + Honest Signalz YT literally changed my life for the better. Give it a chance but dont just read it for the sake of reading, try to read and act as soon as possible. I always liked to re-read or watch HS videos before going out and got great results	/r/seduction	16/08/22 02:24 AM
1	Is being Indirect and Hesitation a turnoff? I prefer being direct always, I'm probably not as expert as some guys here but being direct allows me to go ahead or stop trying to pick up someone. If i'm direct and she doesnt seem to reciprocate I just stop trying to flirt with her - but she knows I'm into her so the ball is in her field. If she reciprocates you are good to go. Anyways, in my experience at least with girls here (South America) being direct works a lot better than being indirect	/r/seduction	05/08/22 11:56 PM
28	I still live at home, does that turn girls off? Dude you are doing the best decision, money/your future should come before girls, if you manage to meet a girl that understands it you will get everything! if not the future you will thank you	/r/seduction	16/07/22 02:20 AM
3	Is it actually that hard for short guys? I know right, I'm 5'6 from Peru and I never got that self-doubt about my height tbh, probably because I lived in a short people country (im above average here) but 2 years ago I went to Germany and I got no problem to pick up girls even taller than me, so I will never understand those height complains, really just try it!	/r/seduction	18/03/22 11:30 PM
3	Pussied out of asking for a girls number today who was in my uni class, won’t see her again. Let you boys down. Feel the pain as intense as you can and then promise yourself to dont run away again. I'm 27 y.o, when I was 24 y.o in the university there was this girl that was so fkcng beautiful, we always saw each other, I thought she wanted something with me, obviously she wanted me to approach her. Long story short, all the opportunities to approach (there were several) were a fail, I was so fkng scared, later a friend in common told me that She liked me, that hurt me a lot more, but this was my best less…	/r/seduction	11/03/22 03:04 AM
1	I am in a desperate need for help Dude first of all you need to change your mindset you're not your past, if you had bad moments its over, stop being hard on you, learn from your experience. Not every girl is the same, you think all girls likes the popular or athlete guy its not true, you just need to socialize more, find a hobby, join some group of topics of your interest. And most important stop thinking that you will get happiness from other people, you are conditioning your happiness to finding a woman. And honestly, its jus…	/r/seduction	18/09/20 03:19 AM
1	Really bad cold approach experience 2 years ago I was living in Europe and meet some russian girls, man I dont know if its only me or what but russian girls were a little more rude and colder in the beggining than other europeans girls I met but then once they know you better they are like every other woman. I remember I really think one of them hated me but it was bs, it was just matter of time we spent really good moments	/r/seduction	17/09/20 02:09 AM
1	You can't make someone love you. In my experience I see this as sales. The majority of people you met will be kind of "neutral" and your personality (social trait in this case) will tip the balance to your favor (not always but like >80%) but of course there are some people that even if you are the best salesman in the world you wont be able to develop rapport and get the sale. So it's true what someone said, social trait wont get you 100% of the women you met, is literally impossible, but developing good social traits will giv…	/r/seduction	16/09/20 03:11 AM
1	20 Years old guys needs help with confidence Just go for it dude, I had the same problem when I was younger, the best advice that I can give you is just go for it, live is short man wherever you are feeling afraid of talk to woman just remember that your time is limited soon you will be dead and nobody will give a fuck if a woman rejects you. It will work also if before approaching a woman you think about all the regrets in your life and use them as a motivator	/r/seduction	11/09/20 02:28 AM
4	Being scared by female beauty?! (hopefully last post you'll need) Amen	/r/seduction	05/09/20 02:30 AM
2	No matter how I feel confident and good I can’t approach The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A Fuck is a MUST	/r/seduction	02/09/20 02:17 AM
3	Overcome Your Fear of Beautiful Women As a buddhist (I'm not a monk or smth like that) I think that mindset is accurate and works in every aspects of life not only in dating, except from the free will thing, I think it's the best mindset to have	/r/seduction	01/09/20 02:58 AM
0	Don't let people cross your boundaries Amen bro! 100% accurate, It happened to me 2 or 3 times in the past and I thought and acted the same as you. If she comes Cool! if she doesn't come Cool! I can't believe there are people that chase women even after something like this happened to them	/r/seduction	01/09/20 02:48 AM