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| 3 | I'm jealous of female mate choice. I want this to stop.Bold of you to assume I EVER got approached three times a week, even in my prime. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/20 11:57 AM |
| 8 | I'm jealous of female mate choice. I want this to stop.Please remember, romantic opportunities don’t just walk up to women. You think they do, but they don’t. Actually have an honest conversation with any woman and she will tell you, finding a good relationship is hard. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/20 01:48 AM |
| 15 | DissonanceHi! I’m a 40 year old mother of two. I lost my virginity to my husband and I’ve never cheated. waves. So there you go, add that data point to your set. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Is the red pill really that bad?Yes. Very much so. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/01/20 07:34 PM |
| 16 | Trying to gain some insight, because I felt I may have almost become red pilled.I have to literally laugh out loud when someone says to attract women by being indifferent to them. That’s why women leave their men, because of indifference. It’s not attractive. At all. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/19 02:02 AM |
| 12 | (BF30) becoming more distant after I(F21) told him the truth about having only one other sexual partner.He either trusts you or he doesn’t. You can’t make him believe or disbelieve either way. Just ask him if he thinks you’re lying, and if he says yes, you should probably rethink the relationship. Not necessarily leave, but slow it down, and look for any other red flags. If he says no, then basically tell him that’s that and the conversation is over. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/12/19 02:01 AM |
| 22 | Every since exploring at new content outside of the red pill...I’ve come to terms with how unintelligent the red pill really isCongratulations! It’s like leaving a cult, once you’r eyes are opened and you see through the lies and bullshit, you feel so much better about yourself, the world, everything. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/12/19 09:20 PM |
| 7 | Disillusionment with relationships.A successful marriage is very high in reward, so I disagree with your assessment. However, some people are just meant to be bachelors. My BIL is one who is just happier on his own. No shame in that. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/11/19 07:17 PM |
| 1 | If woman want to reproduce alphas why are we not all born of alpha fathers?I’m not even sure what “alpha” means when you’re referring to people. The whole concept is idiotic. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/11/19 09:14 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys deal with hypergamy?Yes. Links please. Because when I married my husband I didn’t care one whit about his “social status.” Whatever that means. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/11/19 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Do you guy believe in the Dual Mating theoryThen what would the purpose be? Any “benefit” is severely outweighed by the consequences. If we’re supposed to partner up, then what is the point of behavior that damages the pair bond? And if you say “better genes” then wouldn’t it be more efficient to just pair bond with the affair partner instead? And then there’s the issue of the affair partner, by default, being a crappy partner or gene carrier, because they display hurtful, dangerous and selfish behavior that threatens the safety of the fa… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/10/19 08:41 PM |
| 1 | When woman leave LTR,does she always has another man?He’s wrong, terribly, terribly wrong. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/10/19 06:37 PM |
| 3 | When woman leave LTR,does she always has another man?It took me one year after leaving my ex to start dating again. I’ve been with that man for twenty years now. #notallwomenyoumysoginistprick | /r/ExRedPill | 24/10/19 06:36 PM |
| 5 | Do you guy believe in the Dual Mating theoryThey feel they’re entitled to cheat, so they do. I’ve never had an “instinct” to cheat, most people don’t. They do it because they don’t care how much they hurt their partner, they just want to. But the point was that there’s an evolutionary reason for it, but there isn’t. There isn’t one single evolutionary benefit to it. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/10/19 06:32 PM |
| 6 | Do you guy believe in the Dual Mating theoryNope, I don’t agree. People cheat because they’re awful people. They can control themselves but they’re selfish and narcissistic. And I watched my dad destroy every relationship he had by cheating, he was an awful partner and a worse father. It doesn’t work out. So if all were looking at is an evolutionary perspective, then that is a shitty idea because it undermines the very concept of two parents raising the children. I expect that even in the Stone Age that was the case, that unfaithful mates… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/10/19 05:05 PM |
| 6 | Do you guy believe in the Dual Mating theoryI’ve never seen it happen. I’ve seen adultery, sure, but if the woman gets pregnant with her lover instead of her husband she sees it as a bad thing, the marriage crumbles and it’s her fault. Sometimes she gets an abortion. Likewise, if a man gets his side chick pregnant, it’s a bad thing and his wife leaves him. Basically cheaters are awful people, and make selfish and narcissistic choices because they’re awful people. They aren’t trying to “maximize genes” or any shit like that. They’re trying… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/10/19 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Go fired after walking out of therapist Office. Is there any point in trying to be attractive anymore.If they’re going to fire you over something that stupid, either there’s something your not telling us, or you REALLY don’t want to work for them anyway. I’ve worked for companies like that and it’s Hell, walking on eggshells, getting written up for having a computer issue, or something else stupid. Look at it another way: This is a blessing in disguise. What a great day! You got your meds, AND you have the opportunity of go find a job you really like! | /r/ExRedPill | 05/09/19 12:21 PM |
| 3 | The manosphere has ruined my dating lifeYour first statement is just plain wrong. My cousin had a fiancé she loved, but when he found out how serious her anxiety was (she went off her meds, it wasn’t her fault, a pharmacy or insurance issue), he jumped ship like a rat on the Titanic. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/09/19 07:49 PM |
| 2 | The manosphere has ruined my dating lifeWhile I would never say that being single is “dreamy,” I would consider that a guy who’s never been single for any length of time to be a red flag. It suggests someone who jumps from one relationship to another with no thought or sled awareness. “Gotta have a girlfriend, any girlfriend” is the opposite of sexy. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/09/19 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Why are woman so scaredWell, my dude, even slutiness has standards. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/19 09:43 PM |
| 1 | I feel that my inability to be friends with women is the main reason I’m not getting into a relationship or even having casual sex?I had a new thought: f you aren’t willing to put in any effort to getting to know someone first, the only girls you’re going to attract are going to be the kind to not put any effort into you. Make sense? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/19 01:03 AM |
| 3 | I feel that my inability to be friends with women is the main reason I’m not getting into a relationship or even having casual sex?They’re idiots? Why wouldn’t you befriend them first? Even if you only end up as FWB, you still have to be a F first. And both of my grandfathers told me that they’d “married their best friends,” marriages that have lasted 50 plus years. As opposed to my parents horrific marriage where they got married because mom “was afraid no one else would ask” and I could never get a strait answer from my dad as to why he even asked in the first place. I’m not sure why you would even be attracted to a woman… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/19 12:55 AM |
| 1 | I feel that my inability to be friends with women is the main reason I’m not getting into a relationship or even having casual sex?Personally, I could never date someone who wasn’t my friend first. My husband was my friend for two years before we ever got together, and we’ve been together 20 years now. I have an instant distrust of people (men and women) whose first instinct is right to flirting, I feel like they only want one thing. Take it slow, find a hobby and be active in your local community, and remember that women are just people. Some of them suck, but some men are awful, too. Take each person as they come. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/19 12:20 AM |
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