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Definitely a shit test. Don't listen to what she says. Listen to what she does
/r/askTRP14/07/17 06:00 PM
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Are you sure you're not thinking of Augustine? He's the one most associated with neoplatonism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 05:56 PM
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Ah, I didn't realise that you were a special unique snowflake Christian. Yep. Tell me how Aquinas, Doctor of the Church, was secretly a gnostic and ancap
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 10:49 AM
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Your personal salvation has nothing to do with slavery. In fact Paul specifically says there is no man or woman, Jew or Greek, slave or free in Christ. That part about "render unto Caesar" is specifically instructing Christians to pay their taxes. I really don't know how we got onto this, but if this is the quality of theological instruction you tea-party types get, no wonder people think Jesus was a capitalist. While the Whore of Babylon is often identified as Rome, it has also been interpreted…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 06:18 PM
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Sorry, you need to expand your acronyms. The only one I understand is WASP. Until the industrial revolution, all families were extended families, across households or within one. That started to change, but it wasn't until the 20th century where we really started to buy into the fantasy wholesale.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 07:05 AM
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Give unto caesar doesn't mean "slavery is okay". Tbf you can find parts of the Bible that do imply that, but you're going to have to do a lot better than that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 06:58 AM
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On the one hand, when I first started going to the gym, I thought everyone was looking at me struggling and getting it wrong. Later, as I've seen other people start, I realised nobody cares at the gym. Dude, if someone is excited about something, anything, I want to hear about it. I don't care if you're happy because there was no queue at the covfefe shop this morning! I can't imagine a world worse than if nobody talked about anything because they are afraid they might be boring someone else. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 06:55 AM
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Oh we are so close... how do you feel about the following statement: "Taxes, government, employers... everything is slavery; except slavery, which wasn't so bad"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 03:56 PM
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I feel like I should read it first! Thanks for the recommend
/r/askTRP12/07/17 03:53 PM
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RPers certainly are as bunch pretty sexist and mysogynistic. And it's also very reductionist to say "men want x" and "women want y". But it's not wrong to observe that regardless of your personal view, or even the views of the majority of people, the perception that men and women value different things and have different methods of attaining them affects society. Sooner or later we all have to stop pretending how little we care about what other people think or say or do. "Oh I care a thousand ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 03:52 PM
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I guess that's what I'm trying to do. But could I sneak a little into his coffee? He's gonna do what he's gonna do, but what's the best way of hedging against the worst of it?
/r/askTRP12/07/17 02:42 PM
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Nope. I'm not on board with you. Left wing or right wing, it doesn't matter - owning people is wrong. They have one life and you figure someone else can own it? We use "taking a life" to mean murder which is our society's highest crime. When you deprive a free man or woman of their freedom, you have taken a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 02:39 PM
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To be clear, not me. Secondly, the second half of your comment comes across as rude and unhelpful
/r/askTRP12/07/17 09:40 AM
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It's because we see it backwards. You're able to not care when (a) you observe abundance, or (b) you fail to observe actual scarcity. In that sense, you only care because you don't have leverage
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 08:54 AM
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Yes and no. Martin Luther King said that poor whites have more in common with poor blacks than with rich whites. So why did poor whites fight against equal rights for black Americans? Because however low you are in a hierarchical system, it's soothing to know there's someone below you. Blues are the "good guys" working hard and following the rules, but the rules aren't there to serve low status blues. They are there to serve high status people. Every time a blue fails, we condemn him for not fol…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 08:44 AM
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Grateful but not satisfied is the spirit of every entrepreneur. I think it applies here too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 08:12 AM
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In a large enough population I would say the relationship is positive because of the existence of slobs/unfortunates who are neither (just like shoe sizes correlate with intelligence because babies are stupid and have small feet). Within the population you regarding as peers or potential mates, I expect the relationship would disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 08:08 AM
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I think this works with a plate. Not someone you've anchored your financial destiny to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 08:03 AM
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Help me out pls, MRP? I don't know this acronym yet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 08:00 AM
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This sounds like the relationship game. You win by caring the least http://www.smbc-comics.com/comic/2010-12-12
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 07:57 AM
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Just to reiterate, nuclear families aren't traditional. Extended families are traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 07:46 AM
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nuclear family Nuclear families aren't traditional and I contend they are unhelpful and unhealthy. Humans have always lived in extended families and communities. It puts far too much pressure on three people, two of whom are children, to be your whole network of support.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 07:43 AM
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So you'd like to see more examples of positive masculinity? Good. Get on it. Be the change you want to see.
/r/MensRights16/06/17 10:53 AM
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Seeing conspiracy everywhere you look isn't what healthy people do
/r/MensRights16/06/17 10:39 AM
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I don't see how you're getting there from here. This was a paper lauding a heroic action. Is this a paper you hate?
/r/MensRights16/06/17 10:37 AM
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Kill/arrest all the men? I dunno, that seems a little loopy
/r/MensRights16/06/17 10:35 AM
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Then why are you still getting this wrong?
/r/MensRights16/06/17 10:28 AM
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So you think they should fight you rather than hide behind police? Isn't society a better place because people don't have to die for their beliefs anymore? It sounds like you're annoyed that they get more attention than you do. Do you or your anarchist cause have a better claim for attention?
/r/MensRights16/06/17 10:27 AM
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Wait wait wait... we hold police accountable because they are who we call for help. And the opposite circumstance is worse - if we don't call the police the only alternative is to take justice into our own hands. I know this sub has a small government bias, but even libertarians agree this is a legitimate role of government. Would you prefer feminists and BLM to start exercising violence instead?
/r/MensRights16/06/17 09:55 AM
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So there's a misunderstanding that the term "toxic masculinity" means masculinity is toxic. In fact it is implying that there is masculinity that is toxic and non-toxic. The trouble is, we only talk about the toxic form, lead to the impression that there is only one form. Heroism is by definition "non-toxic". Confusing heroism with violence is toxic. The answer to "toxic masculinity" is to promote a generous or thriving masculinity (as this newspaper does)
/r/MensRights16/06/17 09:50 AM
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To repeat another post - you might as well be angry about the colour of the sky. Why don't you ask for special treatment? Are you too big for it? Too Alpha? If it genuinely wouldn't help you then fine, but if not - your moral victory doesn't count for shit.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 10:21 AM
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Disclaimers: male, not married. Also, I have a chip on my shoulder about this question but I'm trying to put that aside. Obviously, this is a far more personal question, and I wouldn't dream of telling you what to do just because I did it. Certain religious traditions put their expectations on this. Obviously, I don't know your background but if this is something you value, don't be afraid to factor this into your decision (this is where my personal issues lie and that's why I'm moving swiftly a…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/17 03:33 PM
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Not to sound like an asshole, but my experience is a lot of attention from women claiming to want platonic relationships. I just tell them what they want to hear, flirt shamelessly, and end up sleeping with them. You gotta show you have more going on than just her. Strong frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 07:53 AM
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This story has been rattling around the Internet for years now. Even if this were rushed to market and greenlit all the way, it would be many years before it would be available to the masses. Unless you're 15, don't expect to ever use this
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 08:11 AM
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Some people see it as the same thing. Do you?
/r/MensRights21/04/17 08:05 AM
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It is important to remember that people do die of prostate cancer, and many die young. I remember hearing that statement about dying with prostate cancer word-for-word but I had a sudden and rude awakening.
/r/MensRights04/04/17 07:09 PM
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get on it. It changed my life. Seriously, it has everything that 3.5 had, a few extras (like advantage rolls which I like), and a lot less tedium. There's still plenty of crunch for the min-maxers too
/r/MensRights04/04/17 05:25 PM
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this guy plays pathfinder.
/r/MensRights04/04/17 05:24 PM
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But like, why are men different? I'm afraid of criminals too. I just didn't have the goddam common sense to ask for more lighting and security. The answer is because I have to pretend to be a badassmotherfucker who doesn't take shit from anyone - and my reward is getting stabbed and robbed. Fuck, we should be on board with all of this - more light and security for everyone!
/r/MensRights04/04/17 05:23 PM
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I gotta say, I like this thinking. All this time, I've been walking through dark, dangerous areas thinking "I ain't no pussy" when I should have been thinking "why don't we get some lights up in this shit-hole?"
/r/MensRights04/04/17 05:19 PM
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git gud
/r/MensRights04/04/17 05:17 PM
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A long long time ago, I did martial arts and self defence. Being one of the bigger guys there, and assuming I can take a punch, I was recruited to stand in as the "attacker" for others to practice against. The trouble was, it meant I never really learned how to defend myself. And worse - I learned how to be a really effective attacker! :(
/r/MensRights04/04/17 05:16 PM
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Someone once made the comparison to the housing market. I might like things you don't and that's fine, but some things are universally liked, or liked by enough people to significantly increase demand. I'm not interested in the nearby schools, but enough people are that it drives up the market value regardless of what I want. You might night be interested in tall guys, but enough girls are that the SMV still applies. Niche appeal generally doesn't increase value, and in some cases may impair it …
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 05:49 PM
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Reporting bias is one thing. But I have never been sexually harassed by a woman on the street. Most women will be able to recall an experience in the past week. Yes, that one occurrance stands out more than the hundred or thousands of anonymous encounters but then it should, shouldn't it? You're right in that self report shouldn't be used to tell you how bad a problem is. Most people perceive violent crime as rising when in fact it is falling. BUT it is a problem.
/r/MensRights08/11/16 01:01 PM
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I'm not asking you to tell me what they are, like you said, we are all too different. But there must be a more effective way to think about it that helps cover them all, particularly the ones we don't think about until there's a clash.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/16 07:12 AM
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Do you have any advice for figuring out what my/our priorities or conditions are?
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/16 12:54 AM
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A really interesting, well made video. Thank you for sharing. Part of Men's Rights has to be the right for men to imperfect. We aren't always the best we can be and sometimes we're the worst we could be. AND that's okay. I mean it's not great, but it is okay. Knowing that, we don't all have to be John Wayne and we don't all have to aspire to be him. Here comes the hate though: no, we all have to be rugged individualists successful, smart, strong, and good with a gun. Why? Because dividing us is …
/r/MensRights07/11/16 08:14 PM
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Or you could ask women. I suppose you could ask the guys that do this, but I have a feeling they will pretend it never happens
/r/MensRights07/11/16 07:56 PM
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Only the cost of building and maintaining a golf course?
/r/MensRights07/11/16 07:55 PM
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Lucky you
/r/MensRights07/11/16 07:54 PM
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Ah you're being sarcastic! How original! Men who harass women do so when othe men aren't around. Is that clear enough for you, you goddam autist?
/r/MensRights07/11/16 03:29 PM
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It happens a lot. Working in a gym makes me invisible. It happens when male patrons (ie, you) aren't around.
/r/MensRights07/11/16 12:29 PM
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Can we not just enforce a conduct policy Instead?
/r/MensRights06/11/16 11:18 PM
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From my experience, it's not arduous to have a men only gym. You just have not specifically encourage women to join and have no classes.
/r/MensRights06/11/16 11:16 PM
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The difference with golf clubs is that it means women aren't allowed to compete in tournaments.
/r/MensRights06/11/16 11:14 PM
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Women only hours tend to be the least busy hours of the day. Or they are at my gym. 10-11am is the time when it has no women, instead of just having no customers
/r/MensRights06/11/16 11:12 PM
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Admittedly one guy with a pretty big head start
/r/askTRP06/11/16 10:25 PM
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Bluntly, no one can do that because nobody thinks that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 08:35 PM
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It sounds to me like you're safe enough to be dangerous with. You don't expect them to be parachuting into warzones, but you might see them taking a riskwith a guy who is well put together but not her husband.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 08:33 PM
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as the other guy says. Charm the crowd, not just the woman you're after
/r/askTRP06/11/16 04:01 PM
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small problems, small people. I suspect they're feeling threatened.
/r/seduction06/11/16 03:58 PM
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I think you're demonstrating a deep misunderstanding of this. A lot of women will use sex as a way of getting commitment out of a man. RP says, that's great, but you don't have to commit just because you're getting sex. It's the fear of scarcity that leads you to do that. Forming a long term relationship with someone is not a decision you make based on how soon she had sex with you. You seem to be under the impression that it is, and that's where you keep finding it hard to reconcile. I'm really…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 03:55 PM
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hahahaha you know what? Autocorrect can be so funny that I'm not even mad
/r/MensRights06/11/16 03:20 PM
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Thanks! Same to you (I think?) :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 12:27 PM
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In the UK, there was a story about a man having to pay child support for is donated supermarket because they decided not to use a clinic in order to save money.
/r/MensRights06/11/16 12:06 PM
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so desperate Blunty, yes. A tiny bit of validation is a powerful thing. A married woman is pretty high on the measure of unattainable, at least in theory. And feeling like you're not actually the bottom rung on a very long ladder is a powerful motivator.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 11:52 AM
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I can see why they lie too. Height isn't the winning factor, but you have to get your foot in the door somehow. The guys those girls are going for are taller than me. I'm not short, but I am rarely the tallest guy in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 11:38 AM
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It would help if you clarify if you're male or female, short or tall. I'm a taller than average guy for where I live. I find a lot of tall women prefer me, in part because they want a guy taller than her. That opens the pool of women available to me substantially. The only problem is I actually prefer petite women, but I feel like to get them, you need to be towering or closer to her height. I used to include my height (183cm) on a dating app. Women I met would tell me they were surprised that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 11:16 AM
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At least the second half sounds about right. The word you're looking for is discernment, or good judgement. But it's descriptive, not normative. What works, and what doesn't, rather than right and wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 11:00 AM
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What's that? People feeling left out seeking to feel special in counterproductive ways? How long has this been happening? Does the government know? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 10:54 AM
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Isn't that the classic conflict of all relationships? Find a guy who treats you like a princess and you get bored of him. Find a guy who excites you and frequently it forms a dysfunctional relationship. Find a girl who satisfies your sex drive and you get bored. Find a girl who won't touch you and eventually you burn out. That's why healthy relationships involve doing things apart and doing new things together (as well as sexy things together). I don't think I'm saying anything that isn't plainl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 10:51 AM
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The (male) red pill is explicitly about women not winning. It's about understanding the reality of the situation and how to do best within that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 10:45 AM
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There's a classic Marx Brothers joke about not wanting to be a member of any club that accept me as a member. I suspect this comes from a feeling of insecurity. The logic is "if you would sleep with me, there's probably something wrong with you - something I dont know about but that disqualifies you from being desirable to me." Obviously this is warped logic. It also comes from worrying about what others would think of the girl I'm with, and about me by extension. Understood in that light it bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 10:43 AM
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I think the idea is that the RP looks at the world as it is, and tries to maximise their lot in that, whereas BP looks at the world as a fairy tale, a mixture of idealism and self-delusion. The difference is more stark for men than for women. Women kinda know how things work if the specifics are fuzzy, or have the specifics down but lack the big picture. Men, on the other hand, have everything wrong: from specifics to big picture, everything they're told is wrong. For instance men are told to be…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/16 09:50 AM
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It's not just fertility. It's also about options. A man can get a woman in her 30's into his 50's with on average less difficulty than the other way around. Obviously there's exceptions, but most of us are not exceptional.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/16 09:32 AM
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Male perspective here: first thing I want to say is don't expect him to be lying. He won't magically change for you. He might change his position over time but work on the assumption he won't. I've seen too many women go for the rebellious "play by nobody's rules but his own" type, expecting him to give up everything he's ever said he believed just for her. Next thing: marriage isn't a balanced thing. It DOES favour women over men. BUT it does offer some advantages to the man. If he's interested…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/16 08:51 AM
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Red Pill and feminist here. No. Mainly because humanist already means something (actually several things). I don't think feminism is incompatible with humanism, and I would probably also agree with the label of humanist. "As well as", not "instead of"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 08:19 PM
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Alternatively answer: What does every woman do after sex? Take up space
/r/askTRP04/10/16 03:08 PM
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I'm wondering about your perspective here: you have been pawing the earth all week to get some. When you don't have your pussy goggles on, you see what she's always like and you don't like it
/r/askTRP04/10/16 03:04 PM
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Letting her choose the time and place came across passive and please-y.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 04:03 AM
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See, that's the thing. I'm 6 foot on the dot. Tall enough to have no problems. Not tall enough to cause tingles. And I could also always get more jacked. Fact of life
/r/askTRP20/07/16 11:19 PM
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"Up your SMV" seems to be the go-to answer. It's a bit like "get good". One the other hand, it's the single best piece of advice and it works! so thanks
/r/askTRP20/07/16 11:16 PM
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I'm pretty gutsy in my approach. In a word, cheeky. I don't do as much bar game as I used to - tinder just makes everything much more efficient. But if I'm at a party, plenty of jokes and stories, preferably ones which demonstrate high value without being the point of the story (eg "the view of the stars from the boat at night really helps me relax" vs "I have a boat"). Usually gets the ball rolling. A bit of physical contact and a drink or two. And petite girls seem to like my jokes and stories…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 05:21 PM
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Noooooo!
/r/askTRP20/07/16 04:16 PM
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I am conscious that I am considerably larger and stronger than the average petite girl, but they don't seem to be as impressed as tall or big girls are
/r/askTRP20/07/16 03:53 PM
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You might be right, but ignoring them isn't getting me very far either. There must be a knack to it
/r/askTRP20/07/16 03:46 PM
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That's what I was thinking. Like petite girls are the secret end boss of SMV. Models scare away most approachers, and they have a higher need for validation.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 03:45 PM
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Nope. Not interested. Prefer to not know. I always use protection, even if she's on the pill
/r/askTRP20/07/16 03:22 PM
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nuclear family Actually, have an extended family for help as long as they're not too chaotic. Extended family relieves stress on the nuclear family.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 03:20 PM
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Sure, and he'll want to be listened to on occasion too.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 09:12 AM
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It's like saying "if a nuke went off in manhattan, I would buy real estate cheap." Not gonna happen.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 04:18 PM
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Real talk: nobody gives a shit about a 45 year old woman unless they're related. Go to any ER. Older women wait just as long as young men.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 04:16 PM
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Protip: it's not the punishment that deters as much as the perceived risk of getting caught.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 04:11 PM
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:/ I dunno man. Being loud and callous has got me more than a few that are looking for longer, steady relationships. It's actually my experience that the louder and more callous I am, the more they want a longer steady relationship with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 04:39 PM
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My bonus round answer is this: Except for the last one, sign me up. Ambitious, strong, sexy, dedicated. I would take that girl to town (and I have). I don't really know what fuck boy means (probably means I qualify right?)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 08:17 PM
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Very interesting post - very insightful AWALT is a generalisation. There are exceptions but the point is that your situation is not the exception. I have often wondered if all girls like a good fucking, or if its just the girls that I attract that do. To be clear, I don't hate the women I sleep with. Except only occasionally, I have very positive feelings towards them. For a while, I was exclusively attracting girls who were bisexual (not deliberately). All but the first and last, I would agree …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 08:11 PM
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I'm reading that over and over and it's not clear. Someone raped her on the off chance that she was into rape-play? or raped her thinking she was into it? pls clarify Also, I think it's a tough sell to convince me that liking rape-play is the result of having been raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 07:03 PM
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wait. so you didn't even consider the possibility that your view that the personal beliefs of a president are irrelevant was wrong? You seem genuinely surprised by the glaringly obvious fact that the POTUS is a big fucking deal. In an ideal world, you would have received a respectful, considered reason why you are wrong. But you're a grown man at a (presumably college level) political science class. That much should be assumed knowledge. btw, yes, I misunderstood the purpose of your edits. I tho…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 06:49 PM
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most reasonable response I have read so far
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 06:37 PM
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Nope. Everyone knows what no means. Kids know what No means before they know what Yes means. Some guys don't care what no means. Weirdly, from past experience, some girls seem to misuse "no". This happened to me a while back. I was making out with this girl and he says "no" but doesn't try to stop me. Regardless, I stop. I took a step back and put my hands behind my back. She asked why, and I said "You said no. and I have a rule - no means no." Anyway she starts kissing me again, and things cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 06:35 PM
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"but you proooomised" is not sexy. I also don't believe is RP. It sounds like there was the implication I don't feel it was rape from the way it was described, but then no one writes a post that paints themselves as a rapist. I would imagine hers version would be like "so he takes me back to his creepy place with no signal and like 6 other guys there. Then he's like you're not leaving until I've fucked you. Then he snatched my phone from me and forced himself on me." Pretty sad over all. I'm not…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 06:25 PM
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That list of edits to your post tells me you have a victim mentality. It makes me reassess your view of what happened in your class. It sounds like you say provably false things everyday, and you're shocked when people call you out on them
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 06:09 PM
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you're in your head Drink less Get more imaginative about things you can do to her while you wait for your dong to sober up
/r/askTRP30/01/16 05:22 PM
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Them talking about you is a good thing. The result is other girls become interested. If you want to communicate disinterest, do it by shifting your body language
/r/askTRP30/01/16 05:20 PM
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I can't tell you if she did or not. But even if she didn't cheat, it sounds like your relationship is done. Sorry about that.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 05:12 PM
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I don't think they're actually trying to attain the higher status mate. Their fetish is sending those pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 05:05 PM
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I think it's a sign of something but I'm not sure it is hypergamy. You could argue that while women seek to "trade up" to a man of higher status, men seek to do the same with hotter women... Certainly plausible but ultimately a superficial reading. I don't send dick pics to people so I'm not sure what the appeal of it is. I think these men aren't so much trying to win these women with dick pics, as much as they are fulfilling their own fetish - possibly related to risk, exposure, power, or somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 04:59 PM
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she hides it well
/r/askTRP26/01/16 12:47 PM
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it's not a lack of enthusiasm - that bit is certain. I think no one has ever told her how
/r/askTRP23/01/16 07:55 PM
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She's definitely enthusiastic. That part isn't a problem at all. I'm trying to not discourage that enthusiasm. But yeah, just telling her might really work
/r/askTRP23/01/16 07:53 PM
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partly, I don't know what the lack actually is. I think it needs more tongue.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 07:50 PM
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but what if its doing nothing for you? I mean I don't want to discourage her from blowing me.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 07:49 PM
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It's definitely the second. I like your advice. The trouble is I really don't know what goes into a good blowjob. I'm rarely paying attention when its good. I think it needs more tongue. And sure. I could just say "use your tongue more." thanks
/r/askTRP23/01/16 07:47 PM
1

start lifting. She's saying you look nerdy. what to reply "I look like I <insert the coolest thing you've ever done.>?" I work in a hospital, so for me it's "I look like I've touched a beating heart??? - what does that even look like?" "I look like I fixed my first car at age 10?" "I look like test explosives?" "I look like I build houses?"
/r/askTRP21/01/16 02:51 PM
2

I'm pretty sure that's a feature, not a bug
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 12:32 PM
1

The red pill is a moment of honesty. We know what we are. We're the bad guys in this story. Not quite. We are what we decide to be, rather than letting that decision be made by others. Some will decide to turn heel, others will become champions of feminism and fuck everyone in sight. The power is in the choice. Nobody chooses to be crap at something. You are crap until you choose not to be. (note, merely choosing doesn't make you good. It is merely the first step to not being crap). It does scar…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 10:30 PM
36

Unfortunately, this is not your best work. By which I mean it is absofuckinglutely retarded. I knew it was retarded when you started with Marx and Lenin. You do realise that Marx literally wrote the book on Capital? Yes he does go on to criticise capitalism, and predicts all of its inadequacies, but this is from being a student of capitalism not a blind critic. The number of feminists I have fucked tells me one thing: they are not hostile to heterosexual relationships. They crave them. They crav…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 10:09 PM
1

It's much closer between 30 year old guy and 20 year old guy. At 30, the guy is likely to have more money, more connections and more options. At 20, he's got youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 06:40 PM
2

yeah. but i'm not interested in winning over the long term. I'm interested in winning now, while I'm still young enough to care
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 06:36 PM
1

tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 06:34 PM
4

http://www.smbc-comics.com/images/relationshipthecardgame.pdf Sounds a lot like what you describe. Except you end up in a race to see who cares the least. And at that point you're not in a relationship anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 06:18 PM
3

I think "dread game" sounds a lot like "not being totally obsessive over one person." And sure. You spend all of your time clinging obsessively to one person, then you're going to damage that relationship. It important for couples to have "away time" - it isn't a betrayal if anything it makes you appreciate your partner more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 06:15 PM
1

they're too busy having fun with other girls :P
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 06:10 PM
3

I think it's a couple of things. you don't see the girls that do exciting things with other girls or by themselves. yeah, a lot of girls are pretty unimaginative... shit, if I was pretty enough and helpless enough that people got a kick out of doing everything for me, I wouldn't plan or pay for a thing. you're part of the problem. You're doing all the work so they don't have to. If you're going to a gig tonight and you tell me about it, why would I research gigs this evening? - I have a perfectl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 10:43 AM
7

come on... No drama, no consequences, no having to explain yourself to your peers and family... pleeeenty of reasons to travel the world. Besides which, you're already doing things you that are different to you. Why not some strange D too? I'm not even judging. Fucking go for it. Have a blast. Post lots of happy pictures on facebook and tell everyone all about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 10:36 AM
1

Instead they were afraid of being called racists because it was brown people doing the grooming, which is exactly what's happening here. That's a convenient excuse, but the fact is these girls being raped were just beneath the police's attention. They were seen as bringing it upon themselves by going along with disreputable guys in exchange for alcohol, presents and drugs. This was a product of a right-wing elitist mentality that said poor and working class girls are lost-causes or sluts, not un…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 01:35 PM
1

Well for me, red pill is about how the world is, not how we would like it to be. Just like a cat will always chase that red dot, there are some short-circuit more or less baked into the human psychology. You might say it is because of the kind of woman I attract, but most of them seem to want security and strength, but also to be manhandled. Just like that cat and the red dot, a dominant male is more attractive than a submissive male. Of course, everyone likes to mix it up from time to time but …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 01:20 PM
2

Oh yeah, that bastion of left-wing politics that is the UK police force. Shall we ask them what they think of trade union rights and anti-war protests? Pull the other one, it's got bells on it mate
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 10:23 PM
1

First, you're political agenda isn't part of the Red Pill. Leave it out. Second. Progressives are endlessly going on about human rights abuses in third world countries. Third. It's more likely to be regressive right-wing that lets this shit slide as long as someone makes a buck. It's not left-wingers who want to work with abusive dictatorships.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 10:19 PM
1

Is that really your view of what the red pill is all about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 08:14 PM
1

I think this ignores the fact that women can and do use Red Pill theory and thinking when finding a man. The Blue Pill version for women would be to imagine that true love, a handsome doctor on a white horse will just appear out of nowhere and sweep her up in his helicopter while she just carries on just being herself, making no effort or input. Red Pill women see that there is a sexual market value and actively seek to maximise it. This is more empowering for women than just being told "you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 12:24 PM
2

I think there is more than the average share of straight up racism going around. Also a lot of opinion being labelled fact. And also a lot of stereotypes that are assumed to be true. As for me, I think it's just a rationalisation of my primate brain wants what my primate brain wants, and for me that's redheads with big tits. Not many non-white redheads...
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 12:06 PM
1

I grew up overseas. There was a really interesting mixture of people from different backgrounds there. I definitely saw a greater emphasis on academic achievement from the Indian guys, whereas many of the Pakistani guys were often more interested appearing "cool." I know that amongst other Indians, Indian guys have game but I'm working through a theory when it comes to second and third generation Indian people. You see, the "Indian System" (a horrifying simplification for a huge (>1Billion) and …
/r/askTRP05/01/16 11:58 AM
1

for someone who clearly doesn't seem the fit a gender binary, you sure do sound like you see things that way. Males are not sociopaths and females aren't emotional wet-blankets. You don't have to be one or the other. If you don't match the paradigm then fine. Most people don't match it. RP theory talks in generalities. If you feel happier MGTOW or WGTOW, then go for it. If you feel it's not for you, then use the knowledge you have in the situation you're and your assets (tangible and intangible)…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 11:18 AM
1

I'm not sure I understand. Maybe if you told me what you think Red Pill is about, it might be clearer to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 10:46 AM
3

There's only so many girls a guy can bone? and if you're a nerdy girl at the bottom of the pecking order, you might not get an opportunity. Furthermore, there's an expectation that boys do the asking. These gals might want more sex than they are getting because no one will ask them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 12:39 AM
3

Not sure why you're lying to protect this guy. If he's man enough to mash your face, he's man enough to answer for it. let him apologize because that's what the bigger man does. But I don't see any reason to continue being friends with him. Alternatively, confront him. Why does he think it's okay to assault a friend like that, under any circumstances?
/r/askTRP29/12/15 12:32 AM
1

gotta say, I'm finding it tough to feel bad for you bro. Accountancy is fucking dull too sometimes, but the fact is if it was fun they wouldn't have to pay you to do it.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 06:14 PM
1

It's cool. just get your blowjobs somewhere else. In fact suddenly not mentioning it any more might clue her in. It sounds pretty needy, frankly
/r/askTRP15/05/15 05:58 PM
1

but never lie to me. or I'm gone. She's already lying to you. But you knew that already It doesn't sound to me like she is LTR material bud. What does she bring to the table other than a nice rack?
/r/askTRP14/05/15 09:23 PM
1

Keep suggesting it to people. Tell them how working together creates better results. Someone out there needs help and may latch on. edit: just reread that. sounds lame as fuck. but you're right - cooperation and accountability work (just ask /r/nofap).
/r/askTRP14/05/15 07:46 PM
1

Abundance man. They're out there and they do want to fuck you. Shed the scarcity mindset
/r/askTRP14/05/15 07:44 PM
6

fuck it man. You helped a friend out when your friend needed it. Don't expect the same back though. And especially, don't expect to get laid out of this.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 07:41 PM
1

In law, thoughts and attitudes do matter. That doctor would be under a lot more heat if he killed someone out of malice, and if you could rescue the woman without wrecking her shoulders but chose not to, then damn right you're going to be punished. It might not mean anything to you, but intentions mean a lot to a lot of people, including people with power over you. So start paying attention to it.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 07:36 PM
3

In the 21st century being an effective worker means knowing how to deal with people. And knowing how to deal with people means knowing when to smile and gladhand, and when to flip your shit. The upshot is, you want respect, you have to get results. It's not even about how hard you work. You can work like a dog, but if your shit isn't up to scratch then all your talk about respect makes you look weak and needy. In fact you sound like a woman. Start an Aretha Franklin cover band but the real answe…
/r/askTRP14/05/15 07:19 PM
3

It's not because you're a hard worker. It's because you get results. Sure, you might get those results because of your hard work but hard work alone ain't shit.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 07:15 PM
2

The defender no doubt does feel bad. That's part of not being an autistic/sociopathic jerk. It's a tragic accident. If you're going to say "he should have thought of that before he tried to defend that goal" then you need to meet Captain Hindsight. Will he face punishment? I don't know. It doesn't seem malicious or even reckless. Should we blame the stadium designers? If they broke a rule by building it that way, maybe. But from the looks of it, that barrier is a good 6 feet from the line if not…
/r/askTRP14/05/15 07:06 PM
1

mainly because they have a spotty record of success. Furthermore, in different jurisdictions they might have all the weight of Oscar Pistorius' Valentine's Day card . Better than nothing though. I wonder if there is any value is discussing the best way to make them successful
/r/askTRP12/03/15 07:19 PM
1

mainly because they have a spotty record of success. Furthermore, in different jurisdictions they might have all the weight of Oscar Pistorius' Valentine's Day card . Better than nothing though. I wonder if there is any value is discussing the best way to make them successful
/r/askTRP12/03/15 07:19 PM
1

I've never heard of the Cathedral before. Is this new? EDIT: from other posts I gather that the Cathedral is term for academia combined with media. A pretty good metaphor. I guess that would make me both a red-piller and a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 08:19 PM
2

pretty certain you should next her ass. Soft next. But no more free rides
/r/askTRP05/03/15 05:49 PM
1

Someone once said (and I stole) alpha isn't a destination, it's a route. That said, the on-ramp involves being physically imposing, but not threatening. You want to gather attention but not ruled or craving it. Well-read and educated. Well groomed (this means different things in different contexts - you don't have to wear a $600 suit, but everyone needs to be clean, with clothes that fit correctly). Also, try to smile. Laugh and have a good time.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 06:29 PM
-1

I'm very hesitant to go into my hobby because I'm afraid if I tell everyone, there won't be any left for me. Suffice to say it involves online gambling and you really have to fuck up pretty stupidly to lose. The profits are pathetic but it keeps me out of trouble.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 07:54 PM
2

♂ I can't actually give one of these but you deserve one. I encourage those out there who can to do so. It's exactly this sort of quality comment that we need to encourage
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 07:51 PM
47

These lapel cams are going to be huge in the not so distant future.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 07:41 PM
1

Women often worry about exercise leading to them looking manly or butch. If you speak to a female body builder, she will tell you just how much harder it is for a woman to put on muscle mass than a man; since men have to actively work on it, you seriously don't have to worry about overdoing it. As a second point, have a look at some of the female Olympic weight lifters. Some of those women are stunning
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/14 05:02 PM
26

I think you're (deliberately) misunderstanding the topic of hypergamy and the principle of the Red Pill. It's not about whether women (or indeed men) should or shouldn't engage in hypergamy - it is that they are engaging in it, and it's worth understand the different forms of it. But to answer your question, it is not socially legitimized for a man to be hypergamous - men aren't expected to "marry up" but instead be the breadwinner. And furthermore, men are actively discouraged from changing par…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 04:40 PM
4

From the Simpsons "I learned to kiss siphoning gas. I never tasted super premium half as good as you." The trick is really to be doing pretty much the same thing she is. Mirroring - kind of like a dance. Kinda imagine the pace of a waltz. Sometimes you have to take the lead, but if we're talking practice with cupcakes, we can leave advanced classes for later.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 02:57 PM
1

Ah I see my mistake here. I though I was talking to someone who was actually interested in econometrics rather than banging some ridiculous Randian gong. Yeah. We get it. Government sucks. Parasites suck. Takers suck. Hayak was right. Friedman didn't go far enough. blah blah blah.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 10:08 PM
0

You're right that government spending contributes to GDP but I don't see why this is inappropriate. Investment and consumption and exports all contribute positively, why do you think government spending should be carved off singly? Imports are deducted to avoid counting including non-domestic production in consumption. The government invests and consumes - why carve this spending out of the GDP? this money goes into the economy Are you arguing that GNI is a more appropriate measure because the c…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 12:41 AM
1

Also Americans like their bacon a lot more fatty than others. In the UK they have back-bacon instead of belly-bacon - kind of like Canadian bacon. It couldn't be more different to what we have and have the same name
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 09:47 AM
1

Well GDP is a measure of spending in the country. It would be wrong to carve out government spending because that's a big part of the economy. If we take the same dollar bill and hand it back and forth between us for the same can of paint, we are effectively artificially inflating the GDP, but we are at the same time microscopically devaluing the currency as there is more of it "in supply". That's where purchasing power parity, and pegging everything to $US comes in. GDP is not how "rich" a coun…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 09:39 AM
1

That's a very interesting take and I think it's worth investigating further. I did think it might be about economics - when I was in Russia I noticed just how few worthwhile Russian men I saw, and if you're a woman trying to get one, you need to look your best. That makes sense. But nowhere is as fucked up as Russia. And a lot of places, a lot let fucked up, still leave US girls standing. and I think it's all about attitude and culture. Some places reward effort and achievement, even failure if …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 09:28 AM
1

The main thing I noticed was the difference in weight (by far) and I actually like the big eyes and high cheekbones - and by God, the EFFORT. I appreciate the effort these women go to to look good. Come visit me in Podunk, XY and you'll be amazed by the facial similarity of women to bags of dough - and you're an asshole for not finding this sweaty corpulent mass beautiful! "For perpetuating unrealistic expectations of women" - if it was so unrealistic, how come half of Poland (and presumably Ger…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 09:06 AM
1

You're right, in as far as a fat guy and a average looking guy get zero attention from women based on looks. An overweight guy with status can beat both though
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 08:17 AM
5

So these are unrealistic expectations given the cheapness of high calorie food. I hadn't thought of it that way. Food is really cheap here, and I'm not sure I would want to pay more because some people can't manage portion sizes.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 12:14 PM
0

no, it says that a high partner count is a huge warning sign. But to go from that to 0 is the ideal is an extrapolation.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 04:21 PM
0

I've been there, and that is work. Particularly when I don't even know how to pleasure me or at least I didn't until different women showed me what's possible - stuff I wouldn't even believe if you told me. Sure it might work for some people, but I prefer a girl with everything together, not a work in progress (this might also be a matter of getting older - at my age, I haven't got time to teach).
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/14 05:53 PM
1

I really don't think virginity is even an ideal to most RP men. There's no substitute for experience.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/14 08:10 PM
1

Short answer is yes. I suppose there are only differing amounts of yes. If you bawl like a baby and beg her to not leave you, then that's a big yes. I don't think there is a good way of talking about it. I think the best way is brush it off and go your own way.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 08:04 PM
1

In my dreams I'm always doing women. You'd think that would be enjoyable but I'm a very happy LTR. Sometimes fights. Occasionally flying. Arguments.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 07:55 PM
3

In a purely financial sense yes, you're right (except that student loans typically carry a much lower rate of interest than credit cards). I just meant that a heap of credit card debt tells you something very specific.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 07:53 PM
4

I think we all knew what the answer was there. The question was whether they would make her say it.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 07:35 PM
2

student loans are one thing. If this was credit card debt then no freaking way.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 07:30 PM
5

You can't take this lying down. Tell her to explain what happened. If she rolls her eyes and says "nothing happened" or anything like that, dump her. If she admits to cheating dump her. Pretty much every outcome ends in dumping her. Not interested in attention whoring and power games.
/r/askTRP19/07/14 01:10 PM
2

Obviously it depends on your context, but let me tell you a story. A couple years ago, I was at a club. I was having a smoke talking to some friends (yeah this was back when you could smoke in clubs). This fine little thing walks up to me, and without saying a word, she took the cigarette out of my mouth, used it to light her own, gave me hers and walked off with my own. Can confidence be sexy - hell yeah
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 10:07 AM
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they make child-like mistakes, sure, but they're punished like men. Any 18 year old girl has refused sex enough times to know how to say no. And also how to spin a yarn that everyone wants to believe.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 11:54 PM
6

man this video got my heart pounding.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 08:53 PM
1

You're replying too urgently. It suggests you have nothing else going on and you're desperate. Try waiting an hour (at least) before you reply.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 10:56 AM
1

Work on your day game?
/r/askTRP06/06/14 10:49 AM
43

"My word is my bond." - Guess what? Your GF was also sworn to secrecy, and you're probably not the only one she told. That said I always find with these sorts of questions that you know what the right thing to do is, and you know what you want to do. Possibly there are other factors as well that you are considering. You just want other people to validate what you're going to do anyway. There is no agenda going on here. TRP isn't an activist group. We're not a group that interested in punishing c…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 01:59 PM
3

I think the contention is in the "Mutual Aggression" part. Also the degree of the aggression. I think all violence is wrong, regardless of it's degree. I also think its awful that male teenagers are heaped with all the expectations of male adults, including the lack of support despite being children.
/r/PussyPass04/06/14 01:49 PM
4

There's an old saying about stopped clocks
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 01:41 PM
16

I hate the term "radical feminism" - if feminism really is about equality of the sexes (sure it's odd to have a gendered term but whatever, roll with it) then radical feminism should be about radical equality right? If environmentalism is about protecting the environment, then radical environmentalism would be about extreme theories and methods for protecting the environment. Or is feminism not really about equality, but about benefiting women? Sure, those goals may overlap, but they're not the …
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 12:46 AM
-1

NOT misleading title. I don't know who put that in there.
/r/PussyPass31/05/14 02:13 PM
20

Because girls are innocent angel flowers without any agency, while males, even boy children are malicious rapist/murderers/oppressors/manipulators and the only ones to make decisions.
/r/PussyPass31/05/14 01:45 PM
1

There's a lot of hate here for you, but I like what you did. You didn't just tell her, you showed her, in a language she understands but never expected to hear from a shitlordomgrapistpig. I think pretty early on, you reckoned that you weren't getting her number, and then you're like - don't give me your number, I'm too dangerous, fear me. The guys she's afraid of aren't supposed to be the ones holding regular conversations - they're supposed to be slobbering omegas.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 01:39 PM
3

A friend of mine would always go balls deep with alpha hints at when a girl would say that. He'd say things like "yeah, I have a huge dick so I don't have to pretend to be nice for people to like me." He was a cocky sonofabitch, but he explained it to me that it's already in her head that you must be pretty boss to treat a girl that way, and he's not a great looker so he must have a big dick, he's just nailing that idea in place.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 12:40 PM
1

I saw this tried. Didn't work. I got the feeling you're better off saying you were so drunk your junk didn't work. There is a notion that if your penis works, you must have been consenting.
/r/MensRights21/05/14 11:16 AM
3

the sad truth is that neither would be taken seriously, when in fact they should both be.
/r/MensRights21/05/14 11:12 AM
5

Maybe we should consider separate clubs and bars for men and women - after all, all men are rapists and it's only a matter of time before they attack someone /irony
/r/MensRights21/05/14 11:10 AM
1

the difference is that while you may be charged with manslaughter, you wouldn't be convicted of murder. Or maybe you would. I don't think you should be though.
/r/MensRights21/05/14 11:09 AM
2

Yes. Because just as you can't assume a woman would say yes, you can't assume a man would either. There is this impression that all men always want sex, but that's actually bullshit. This guy might be in a relationship, or a messy divorce, or have strong religious views or any of a bajillion different reasons for not agreeing to have sex with her. Worse yet, if his partner/spouse/confessor/society found out, who is going to believe that he didn't really want it? So yes, she did rape him. It's up…
/r/MensRights21/05/14 11:06 AM
5

Rather than looking and feeling smugly superior to this guy, could you have said or done anything to help him out? BTW, calling the cops isn't a bad idea. What he might not be telling you is that there was a case of domestic abuse, which he won't tell you, but just being there you're helping him out.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 02:44 PM
1

I don't know why people are downvoting you but some honesty is refreshing. Sarcasm and put downs can make you feel superior to other people, and it sounds like you're using it to turn people away as well. but why do women boast about being sarcastic? I have a theory, I'd like your views: but if someone makes me feel good about myself, I want to air it as much as I can. There's the mistaken assumption that sarcastic = clever and therefore people boast about being sarcastic. What do you think?
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 01:27 PM
0

Maybe it's just this guy's goofy grin? Back in my pua days, I used to get a lot more action by smiling a lot more. but also thinking back, I would stop smiling in a set... Maybe it's that goofy fixed grin that's the problem.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 07:34 PM
1

everything right. What did you do after kicked you and wouldn't talk to you again? Did you fuck it up? It sounds like you fucked it up
/r/askTRP22/04/14 02:07 PM
1

I'm no where fucking near these levels. I think I might need a new gym buddy - someone who pushes me. EDIT: just found out it's actually 1 rep max in the chart. I'd still probably be below par but that does make me feel better. Still considering a new gym buddy though, we've fallen into a rut rather than ambitious gains (partly my fault too)
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 08:17 AM
6

so immodestly the men around them can think about something besides sex. I don't like this because it implies that men are powerless to stop themselves raping. It's basically what both the fundamentalist religious and these rape-culture radical feminists say.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 02:32 AM
3

6 hours later and no change? Or... you know you need to have a double pace to make a paragraph don't you? Incidentally, if you're new to reddit and haven't already, check out Reddit Enhancement Suite It will make your browsing a lot more pleasant.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 02:29 AM
2

according to wikipedia, that's true only for spotted hyenas. Interesting nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/14 12:47 AM
3

The other part of "unicorn" is that they don't exist (or at least you and I have never seen one).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/14 12:39 AM
-1

she may have made a better choice of guy in the first place may
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 02:35 PM
1

Young single men have little offered to them by churches these days. I go because it's a damn good form of networking where I live (that, and I'm surprisingly religious). The music doesn't appeal to guys (I'm pro gay-rights and everything but I'm still not comfortable singing about how I'm in love with Jesus). The activities are mostly for kids or families. Before I moved, the church I went to supported a homeless shelter and a soup kitchen, and I felt useful there. Even when the are "men's" gro…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 02:29 PM
1

Tried doing this a while back, and had some success. First of all, you want to find a church with a youngish population - near a university or something. Second: this is a meat market. These women go to church to find a man. If you can go in there and look a girl in the face without heaps of guilt, there's a good chance you're at least in the top 15%. Third: Shit tests. Shit tests like you would never believe. Finally: you have to do your homework. If you can't use "fellowship" as a verb or the …
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 02:04 PM
1

ಠ_ಠ The phrase you're looking for is African American.
/r/seduction01/04/14 12:54 PM
0

It's really clever, and subtle as fuck. I love it.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 05:39 PM
2

I think the correct form of address is "Your Holiness". Indeed he is wise.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 05:26 PM
1

Hot chocolate if you live in a cold part of the world.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 05:16 PM
5

dude, that's not just best, that's mandatory.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 05:14 PM
4

perfect job with the plausible deniability: "We're not going to fuck, we're going to eat ice cream and watch a movie."
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 05:13 PM
9

The thing I would add is to be observant and imaginative. Her hoodie might be a bit meh, and her shoes might be nothing special, but if you want to complement this bitch and make it work, you might have think a little laterally. Look for the thing they've tried to emphasise and if you're feeling nice, give them a little validation. I don't know how far this works for seduction, but getting this knack down will help you everywhere in life. EDIT: If the only thing you took away from this is the wo…
/r/seduction31/03/14 04:13 PM
35

alpha as fuck
/r/seduction30/03/14 01:14 PM
2

If the guy wasn't balls to the wall nuts, I'd say I'm pretty fucking impressed.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 11:43 PM
5

She asked me not to use her name because she’d been falsely identified online as a student who’d slept with him. yeah... I bet.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 11:37 PM
3

that sounds almost exactly like the PUA method of freeze-out. The thing I've done is "if a girl says no, or stop or it's too soon or anything like that, I stop." Get out of bed, go grab a soda from the fridge. I've even checked my email. When she asks, I say "no means no, and I respect that." I don't read minds and I'm not going to tiptoe up to any line to cross. A while back, I had a rule that I didn't have sex on the first night with the girl. Confused the fuck out of them, but it did save me …
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 11:15 PM
1

while it might be satisfying, i don't see any point.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 02:10 PM
3

replace rape with rob and it sounds farcical. The accused was found innocent because he intended to rob a woman, but instead robbed a man.
/r/MensRights25/03/14 08:31 PM
-5

If you're at school, you're probably better off waiting till you're older.
/r/seduction25/03/14 04:48 PM
3

That's a very good point. The beta orbiter is not a threat to her, partly because he's not a threat to anyone. I knew a girl who once described it as "awe" - maybe a little melodramatic, but that was her style. A mixture of love, fear and respect. I admit, I thought (and still think) fear and love don't mix well, but that fear is where the sense of safety comes from. She described it as like stroking a lion - lions are dangerous, but who is going to mess with a girl petting a lion?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 05:48 AM
1

That's an interesting answer. Would you expand on that for me please?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/14 09:12 AM
8

I think I see what both of you are saying. On the one hand, it is exhausting to deal with constantly rude people. On the other hand, you don't want to settle too lightly - make them sweat for you.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 01:24 AM
13

Or, as someone else said, go straight to "you're welcome" - keep your frame strong
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 01:17 AM
1

actually there's something in that. "eh? that was your glass? I thought it was mine!"
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 01:16 AM
1

My go to response for anything like that is "It's been a very long time since anyone has called me that." If they ask why, I might say something like "wait till you get know me better." or "I'm a bit of an asshole" Usually opens up the conversation onto other things or keeps it on my favorite topic: me!
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 01:09 AM
11

There is such a thing as "too safe" - basically, by that I mean a neutered shell of a man or little more than a child. If you're a beta-orbiter, she's likely to feel safe around you. If anything, that's worse than not feeling safe around you. This is a powerful emotion though, and I think its something that we men simply won't ever entirely appreciate. We don't live our lives in fear in the modern world. I know it's not a perfect analogy but imagine if you had a suit made out of money, now imagi…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 12:58 AM
2

Countdown to SRS 3...2...
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 05:04 PM
1

SJW?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 03:07 PM
2

I think you're claiming people for RP who may have nothing to do with it. Just because you're alpha doesn't mean you agree with RP.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 03:03 PM
1

A number of the things you mentioned seem to suggest you find TRP (and you mention PUA) threatening. Do you feel that's a fair assessment?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 02:50 PM
1

thank you for sharing that. It can be difficult to be introspective like that so I really appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 10:49 AM
1

This is a view that I hadn't considered before, thanks for sharing it. I'm finding it a little difficult to wrap my head around though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 12:23 AM
1

I think I'm a bit like you on after reading your post. The elements I like most are the self-improvement and strength and character building aspects. There is a bit of siege mentality going on over there, which isn't difficult to understand, but sometimes it goes a little overboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 12:19 AM
2

Thank you for sharing that. I see what you mean about it making assumptions about your relationship, and how frustrating it must be to be unable to answer against these assumptions. There is a remarkable right-wing slant to a lot of the posts. I'm not sure why it is - I think it fits well with the ideal of "rugged individualist" which, while attractive, is poppycock. I think this is something really worth exploring.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 12:12 AM
1

I'm not familiar with the term "post counter culture society" - a quick google search points me towards 1960's counter culture. Is that it? or is it about a society which is done with counter cultures (I'm not sure that exists). Your view on stereotypes ending is interesting. Thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 12:04 AM
3

Easier in what sense? Could you explain what you're asking in a bit more detail? Sorry if I came across as cagey, I was only trying to avoid pushing an answer on you. If I give you an example maybe it will clarify it a bit: IRL, I've been described as undiplomatic and even confrontational. Naturally, I prefer to think of myself principled, and while there are many things I will compromise on, there are some things I won't (or will rarely). I often feel life would be so much easier if I could let…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 11:57 PM
1

I'm not here to teach. I'm here to learn. I'm sorry if it came across as if I'm trying to lead this discussion somewhere. Although now that you mention it, I think after a bit more research there's room for a really good purple pill post about the misconceptions of blue pillers and red pillers. If you still want an answer, one of the things people mentioned was the view that men are natural leaders and women are natural followers. I think that's bullshit, but I also think we find it easier to fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 05:31 PM
2

So is it the quality of the posting that you don't like? (tbpf, I didn't think much of that video either).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 04:54 PM
1

Thank you for your views. I'd just like to ask a few things more. You seem to see this as a sort of anthropological view, basically observing something that might not be for you but interesting to see nonetheless. Would you say that women who aren't as averse to being submissive have it easier (generally speaking) than yourself? Also, has your impatience ever been a hindrance or a barrier to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 04:45 PM
1

I don't want to sound like a test or anything, but in your view, what do you see the goal of RP as being? and what are the ideas it purports that are sexist? I could have a guess but I don't want to put words in your mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 04:12 PM
2

I'd like to ask a couple more questions. I hope that's okay with you? Is it the red pill principles or the culture that you find dehumanising? or both? or is there not much difference between the two? Or is it something else? How do you feel about red pill women? Thanks for responding :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 12:42 PM
9

yes yes yes Raising a family is a huge deal. It massively affects a person's health and wellbeing. The cost of abortion or contraception is very little compared to the cost of raising a child on the tax payers dime. That and I very strongly don't want to be a parent, at least at this point of my life. I've seen what it does to others and I've not interested in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/14 11:14 PM
2

There's a danger of being too elitist about this though. I just bought a set of weights dirt cheap. My friend said "buy the quality ones, they'll last longer" - fuck that, they're weights, what are they gonna do? lose weight? Even if they break, its cheaper to replaced these ugly slugs ten times over than to buy those shiny "professional" ones.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 11:09 PM
1

cars depreciate most of their value in the first year. A 3 year old car isn't going to run much different to a brand new one. So let the previous owner eat that drop in value.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 11:04 PM
1

On the other hand, don't be conned into thinking "more expensive is better." A coffee cup is a coffee cup. It holds coffee. If it costs $10 or $1, save your nine bucks.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 10:50 PM
1

"TRP game" isn't really "game" the same way they talk about it on /r/seduction for instance. If you're talking about maximising your SMV, a lot of things come into it. For instance, if your parents have a fucking sweet house, and the alternative is a tiny apartment with damp and rats - stay at your parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/14 10:24 PM
2

yeah. I never quite understood why "if you're attracted to each other it isn't friendship." most of my friends are attractive. But to answer the question: as soon as someone puts him/herself "out there" the friendship will never be the same. While you both may know it and function perfectly well as friends, as soon as someone says it, everything changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/14 10:12 PM
1

I don't think it's too bold but it sounds to me like you're trying to save face. Other blogger suggested talking "feelings" rather than scolding. I don't know how much I agree. Definitely, women understand the language of feelings more than duty or responsibility. What about something like "I was genuinely looking forward to seeing you again last night and I felt let down when you didn't turn up." http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1nzedf/dont_scold_women/ maybe something like what you w…
/r/askTRP16/03/14 06:31 PM
1

Dammit, one of these days, I'm going to find that post for you. I bet lots of RP guys know the one, but we'll be dammed if we can ever fucking find it. Basically it was a FR of a guy dealing with a really flaky girl. Fuck, I wish I could find it because I'm not going to do it justice. Basically, he told her that he was disappointed that she was so unreliable. /r/seduction has a lot of advice on this sort of thing. One thing I liked when I was looking for the post for you was this one: "Hey, didn…
/r/askTRP16/03/14 11:27 AM
1

fuck it, sure! why not? "Hey Rhett, that's an interesting belt you're wearing." "Heh, yeah you caught me. It's actually part of my uniform, I shouldn't really be wearing it off duty." "Hey Rhett, it's freezing outside - why are you wearing shorts and sunglasses?" "Well, it's sort of a funny story..." "Hey IRScientist, what's up with the labcoat?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/14 12:11 AM
1

http://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/209akr/online_dating_profiles_if_a_girl_has_long_hair_in/cg1x5ru You and OP both...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/14 12:01 AM
3

I'm not going to pretend to know your boyfriend better than you do, but have you considered that he prefers you to have short hair because you prefer it that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/14 11:51 PM
0

don't let them get away with it. call them out on it like you would a child.
/r/askTRP15/03/14 01:11 PM
1

From my experience, the only times I've been "just friends" with a girl I didn't want to do, she ended up falling for me instead. So no. Theoretically maybe. I share an apartment with some girls. I don't talk to hook up with any of them. To be fair, I wouldn't be overly surprised if it turned out that more than one of them wanted to get with me though. :/ So the answer? yes. Men and women can be friends if they bottle up and hide their emotions well enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/14 12:42 PM
2

None of us are as dumb as all of us. Otherwise demagoguing would be meaningless
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 12:35 PM
6

"If you can only do one thing well, lie. If you can lie well, you can do anything."
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 12:33 PM
9

Just a couple of things: if you do this, you have to be the man of the house, not just a man in the house. This will be your house. While I'm not telling you to be a pervert, they should should not feel "comfortable" around you - by that I mean you mustn't slip into being the house eunuch. Whether or not you fuck them is up to you. I haven't, but that's because I get my puss elsewhere. Someone else said you can't walk around the house in just shorts. I do what I like. If its the first thing in t…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 11:52 PM
-1

While I like this and I think it might be fun, if you get into the habit of doing this, it will lead to some very dysfunctional long term relationships.
/r/askTRP11/03/14 10:15 AM
1

I'm not sure how it conflicts with RP theory. Education level doesn't make you alpha or beta. Sure it might help, but it really isn't the most determining factor. In fact having a beta husband under-your-thumb sounds exactly like RP theory. I'm not sure where the challenge is here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/14 03:01 AM
3

It's a nice idea but I don't think the blokes are going to like being turfed out and corralled into new reddit, especially if its to that the women will feel more comfortable posting there. It would be easier to make a RPM+W than to repurpose TRP and start a new RPM
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/14 02:49 AM
1

male here. I hope that doesn't break any rules A couple of points: there's a fine line between being a damsel in distress and a burden. Being dependent isn't a golden ticket (I don't know who implied it was). The trick is to make your mark feel like he's needed or wanted. There are things that you can obviously do yourself - you seem like a smart woman - but letting a guy be your hero, even if its something really minor, will have him. Reward him in a quote/unquote "submissive" way and boom, he'…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/14 02:34 AM
1

But there seems to be something beyond the supply and demand arrangement. On dating sites, it seems like the pretty girls are significantly less demanding and obnoxious than the ugly ones. Is it because lots of men aim lower, expecting an easier time from a less attractive woman and thus reversing the balance? :/ Maybe I'm just biased?
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 02:04 AM
1

isn't it libel then? I heard there's money in libel
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 03:23 AM
1

huh. just googled my name, some guy with my name just committed a really appalling hate crime. :/ I guess I'm fucked.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 03:13 AM
3

by the time he graduates I don't think anyone is going to even remember his name
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 08:30 PM
4

That's because no male ever has never suffered physical or sexual violence. "It's tough being a woman in a man's world." "Pfff, you should try being a man."
/r/MensRights05/03/14 12:42 PM
1

It's perceived low value sexual attention. The fear or danger is implicit in everything males regardless of value get called from stud to asshole - it's part of how women perceive all men, not just low value men.
/r/MensRights05/03/14 12:34 PM
4

Isn't it a "slut"? Someone whose sexual advances or attention becomes suspicious, odious or tiresome.
/r/MensRights03/03/14 11:47 PM
1

maybe you were the bully?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 03:48 PM
-5

How does this relate to RP? Sounds more like an MRA or armed forces issue
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 06:04 PM
-1

when you explore the murky world of microaggression and "micro-rape" and you realise you're actually right, please post a mfw
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 11:51 AM
7

For clarity, this isn't about racist bullshit. I expect this discussion to be only about how your race affects sexual market value - not an opportunity to attack people's race. I recognise OKCupid isn't going to be generalisable for the whole population. Also there might be some problems with the study. That said it is interesting that while the vast majority of users would say that inter-racial marriage is okay, the majority of white women who would prefer not to date someone of a different rac…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 11:38 AM
1

I was curious what the "one" thing would be in this graph. Sure we're not as active as we were back in the 1950's but I think that's only part of the issue. I think this would only account for a certain proportion of the problem though
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 02:42 AM
2

There was one pua guy who had the instant AMOG killer. Basically, you pull one of these O.o looking at the girl and then at the guy, saying "what is this guy on?" without actually saying it. Another thing you can do is shutting him down. Let me explain what I mean by that: have you ever told a joke, made a comment or something and nobody laughed or even acknowledged it? Remember how stupid that made you feel. I guy I work with is always making stupid puns or jokes, trying to sidetrack the group …
/r/askTRP14/02/14 07:52 PM
3

In addition to everything everyone else has said about pre-selection, also remember that school romances don't fucking matter. The second you go to college all of that drama doesn't matter one jot any more. As for your plate - it's cool. there's a good chance she still wants your d so keep spinning
/r/askTRP08/02/14 11:11 PM
10

I really liked this post, and I found it very interesting. It's a nice counterpoint to the idea that a lot of people often get from this board that we're all just women-hating shitheads. I think one point is a question of allegiance. Who do you empathise with more easily, a stupid, violent, alcoholic man or a poor but hard-working and ambitious woman? to me, the answer is clear, and it's not because I'm a white knight. It's also important that many subsaharan cultures and communities are so diff…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 02:04 PM
10

because we're supposed to live in a world where everyone is treated equally, at least under the law, but instead we find ourselves falling into patterns of assumptions. Men aren't violent sexual predators and women aren't pliable manipulable victims, but for some reason we want that to be true to fit a narrative. A guy and a girl talking to their exes for 20 minutes should on the face of it mean exactly the same thing, but we pretend that she's just being polite and he's out for pussy, as if she…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 02:18 PM
14

Why is this always so powerful? Reverse the genders and you suddenly see the inequalities we all pretend to ignore.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 10:11 AM
11

If you go to some churches, expect a meat market. Every woman there who isn't married is looking to get married - soon. The thing is, so many of the guys there are just such drips. A decent guy is just so hard to come by that if you can look a girl in the eye while you talk to her you're already in the top 10%. But expect shit-tests. Shit tests like you wouldn't believe. It helps to know Christian-speak too. You might think you know everything about religion because you spent time on /r/atheism …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 10:05 AM
1

start asking them to do your job for you? "I won't get you coffee, but I'll let you get me one." Is the classic pua thing when girls ask for drinks.
/r/askTRP24/01/14 06:10 PM
4

that sounds even more beta.
/r/askTRP24/01/14 06:08 PM
1

damn. good thinking. Easy mistake to make though - too fucking tempting.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 09:45 PM
0

So I know the common wisdom is that you should kick that cheating bitch out, but there's something about that word "ANYTHING." ANYTHING... Remember, you can still kick her to the curb after that. And if she won't do it, well you were getting rid of her anyway. What would you do?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 09:25 PM
3

Lets take this to the top motherfuckers!
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 09:10 PM
5

If you believe in personal responsibility, you should never apologise on behalf of someone else. Nor should you accept such an apology
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 02:04 AM
5

Except for all the heart disease, cancer, alcoholism, suicide, violence, mental illness, drug abuse.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 01:30 PM
20

"It's tough being a woman in a man's world." "Pfff, you should try being a man."
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 01:25 PM
4

Here's a question though. How would you do it differently now that you're older and smarter?
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 01:00 PM
-1

no idea. Fuck it, ask one?
/r/askTRP18/01/14 11:11 PM
8

Protip: High school really isn't as important as people pretend it is. Sure, it gets you into college, and sometimes stuff happens that matters but the fact is nothing that is important to you now will matter in a couple of years time. So my advice is this: don't wait for college. College is a great time to reinvent yourself, but if you've never tried being different, you won't when you get to college. Do it now in highschool when nothing really counts (unless you kill someone or get someone pre…
/r/askTRP18/01/14 11:07 PM
3

Masculinity is much more fundamental than reading a map. Self-sufficiency is the quality to you want to encourage, fixing shit and map reading is how you get there. But learning how to get help effectively is also a skill and boys really aren't taught it. I agree with that woman who said we treat boys like defective girls. We need to stop this. But we also need to stop handicapping boys by not teaching them how to negotiate social situations or emotional issues properly.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 06:48 PM
4

I don't know if it's even frowned upon. In many ways its considered the most pure form of a relationship - you get sex, they get your money. The common wisdom around here is that every woman is a prostitute if you're rich enough. The trick is to get what you want without parting with your hard-earned cash. But if you don't mind paying, go for it.
/r/askTRP15/01/14 11:32 AM
5

I think it's really interesting that a song about cheating is reinterpretted as one of rape. UNLESS... and here's the kicker: This is a song about a presumably married (or otherwise "attached") woman flirting and being seduced by another man. A recipe for regret leading to rape accusation? You see, women have no agency. If they sleep with a man who isn't their boyfriend, they must have been raped by him - or at least that's what I've come to understand from the critics.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 05:49 PM
4

I think this is seriously worth considering.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 01:51 PM
1

There is some RP truth in this: you have to "own your shit" as she puts it. Okay I'm down with that. You have to want to grow and develop - ambition and confidence are sexy, who would have guessed(!) But then she starts talking like a pretty self-absorbed airhead. That sort of "you ain't man enough for me" bullshit. *yawn*
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 01:41 PM
1

lol, why is she different to most women? BECAUSE MEN HAVE BEEN PULLING THIS LINE SINCE TIME BEGAN!
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 01:33 PM
1

preach it, brother!
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 11:39 AM
1

shit. I even know where that is. It's the Radcliffe Camera in Oxford. As for what he's saying - fuck it, if you enjoy strap-ons or anything else for that matter, that's your business. People aren't calling him unmanly for that reason alone - I don't even know him and I promise you there are more reasons than that.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 11:38 AM
-1

I don't know how you feel about this but a lot of churches, particularly those with lots of younger people, are really good for meeting quality women
/r/askTRP08/12/13 09:22 AM
4

Truly the worst. Blood wasn't even the worst of it. I never looked at women the same way after that. I was shocked and disappointed. That idea of girls in the toilet fixing their make-up while talking is a lie. In reality they're running shit up the walls like demon-possessed 5 year olds.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 09:13 AM
3

Seems odd. Everyone says feminism is about equality, so let's roll with it. "You can believe in equality, or you can hate women - nothing else." You see, being able to ignore the existence of other people's problems is considered the definition of privilege right? if that's the case Ani DiFranco is pretty damn privileged isn't she. She's basically saying that men have no prejudices against them, which is patently false.
/r/MensRights06/12/13 04:50 PM
1

Dammit, I can't find it anywhere. There's a really good example someone posted of a conversation between him and this girl. Basically, he maintained his frame perfectly, explained that he wasn't going to waste his time on someone who didn't value it. He told her he was disappointed in her. By the end of it she was begging to make it up to him. If i ever find it, I'll post it.
/r/askTRP05/12/13 09:26 PM
2

I'm a big fan of Film noir. I mean I think I am - it's a pretty loose genre to define. Sin City is Film Noir, and the Maltese Falcon - not much in common between the two in my opinion. Could you give some examples of your favourites?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 01:17 PM
17

Do you reckon it was a case of First-girlfrienditis?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 12:50 PM
10

This made me really sad to watch.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 02:05 AM
30

When you have no real points to make, you can instead attract attention to your flappy titties.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 02:05 AM
3

then again, "all those hours I wasted on reddit when I could have been watching porn!"
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 12:32 PM
4

Neither does dysentery...
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 12:28 PM
4

Feeling disposable are we? (I'm not completely sure I meant that was sarcastically)
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 12:26 PM
3

a stripper name
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 11:46 AM
1

This is a new thing to me. There's always an ignorant asshole who says "they all look the same to me!" I just never thought it would be me. I thought most of the people in Haiti were of West African decent? I also don't think she would have mentioned Malcolm X or framed it in terms of race if it wasn't a black man who raped her...
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 02:32 AM
2

also, "de le" is wrong, if anything it should be "du" - although I think "J'ai étudié Malcolm X" is best of all
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 02:19 AM
5

Even if you take that into account, could you imagine the sexes being reversed? Just because I chose you to be my rescuer doesn't mean you get to rape me!
/r/MensRights12/11/13 09:25 PM
1

can't seem to add flair - should be askTRP
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 01:36 PM
1

ah, so when it's a guy doing it, it's male power fantasies but when a woman does it, it's female empowerment. Huh, it's almost as if power is something everyone wants. Kinda like sex in a way. Except when a guy is interest in sex, he's a potential rapist and a pervert but when a woman is, she's "sex-positive"
/r/MensRights12/11/13 09:46 AM
16

It's all clear now. I have seen the light
/r/MensRights11/11/13 07:52 PM
12

Alpha Protocol has a scene where the male main character is strapped to a table and a female character forces him to agree to have sex with her before she would release him. I cannot imagine that being okay if the sexes were reversed.
/r/MensRights11/11/13 07:49 PM
17

I don't like the statistics that put words into peoples mouths. "999% of men think it's okay to rape when you call it something else." I just don't trust an asshole who is out to catch people out like that. "Hey you know how there are people people out there just asking for an ass-kicking?" "yeah..." "OMG you think people want to be violently assaulted? You're a fucking monster"
/r/MensRights11/11/13 07:46 PM
3

I found that very interesting, however I don't think I see your point?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 06:51 PM
3

You don't often feel like you have to have ALL those arrows? You wouldn't believe how much I would forgive in a woman as long as she's slim but dammit if I'm not the richest, smartest, funniest, most confident guy in the room NOTHING
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 09:07 PM
1

Doesn't the success of this tell you that spouting this shit is GOLD?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 07:42 PM
12

It's not a huge leap to make that this is intended to be sage advice coming from one man to another man and from him to other men. You're right to say it is dressed up as being neutral, but consider if it was written by a woman as advice from her mother to other women (and men) - it certainly wouldn't have the same impact. Plenty of people would regard it as "internalised sexism."
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 07:31 PM
1

slowclap
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 07:23 PM
2

I'm on the board of a local charity. I used to do the books for a homeless shelter. I'm a volunteer paramedic. I don't donate money (coz I got none). I donate time. edit: oh yeah, blood too
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 11:45 PM
1

So I took your advice and pushed myself harder. benching 70kg wasn't nearly as bad as I thought it would be, going up to 80 starting monday. Did the same weight on squats, I reckon I could do more. What's your advice on having a spotter? I find I can lift more with the assurance of someone there even if they're not intervening. The trouble is finding someone to spot me. The friend who I normally hit the gym with is a 140lb girl who really can't lift 80kg but she can manage the few kg I might nee…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 04:25 PM
8

I imagine girls would need much less validation growing up.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 10:13 AM
1

I've asked this question before a few times. The consensus answer I'm getting is possibly, but only if you both feel like victims after the event, and only if both of you are so drunk that you can't consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/13 05:11 PM
1

As someone who has studied psychology, a lot of what passes for psychology and sociology is unscientific if you define scientific as the process of formulating and testing hypotheses in a quantifiable and repeatable manner. A lot of disciplines are guilty of this, but psychology, sociology and maybe economics are often more guilty than others. The trouble is then that the "good" science in these fields then has to be immaculate to overcome all the negative attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/13 05:00 PM
1

I think you misunderstood
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/13 04:50 PM
5

I never thought my gaze was so powerful. Do you feel intimidated by the way I look at you? If so, guess what I'm going to do. Someone once said power isn't taken, it's given. If you buy this male gaze bullshit guess who now has power over you? Every guy in the room. The moment you buy into that, every guy is more powerful than Medusa. She only turned people into stone, I can turn you to jelly. So fine, buy into it. Believe that just by looking at you I have power over you. And when you try tell …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 03:53 PM
1

but do you know what sounds pretty safe but isn't? Carbon (II) oxide - that shit is insidious.
/r/MensRights30/10/13 03:45 PM
7

Incidentally, Dihydrogen Monoxide is not a standard name for this molecule. There are other technically correct, nonstandard names (hydroxyl acid) but hydrogen oxide is one with the least redundancy. If you really want to confuse people, tell them about Oxidane - the other standard name for H2O (along with water)
/r/MensRights29/10/13 09:56 PM
28

nothing wrong with whores either. Trading money for sex is the most honest kind of relationship ever.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 09:32 PM
0

Ah, so that's why so many men have a problem with theft and vandalism too, since they rely on the "subjective evaluation" of the person affected? Oh wait. I never see men complaining about those things despite them being exactly the same. It's almost as if they're trying to justify rape.. Theft and vandalism are crimes regardless of who the victim feels about it. Its up them whether they would press charges. I see we're arguing past each other. You're saying some needs to feel like a victim for …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/13 01:28 PM
0

Of course it does. Are you suggesting that if I visit my grandma for tea, and I drop one of her mugs causing it to smash on the ground, that I am guilty of destroying private property? Of course not. Did you or did you not smash her cup? Is it or isn't it private property? The crime is there. The difference is that your Granny loves you and you love your Granny so she's not going to call the cops on you. She could though. We talk about rape being under-reported. If it isn't reported, is it still…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/13 11:42 AM
-1

it's probable that two drunk people can sexually assault each other. In that case, given the amount of sex that goes on, and the amount of drinking that goes on, and the amount of other crimes that are committed while drunk - why has no one ever actually heard of this happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/13 10:21 AM
0

Indeed, so no rape took place. Um, no. We just agreed that having sex with someone who is unable to consent is rape. The crime is not subjective - sex with a minor (who can't consent) is a crime regardless of how the minor feels about it afterwards. Just because I don't press charges if you broke my window doesn't make it any less of a crime. This is why people have a fucked up idea about what rape is. The rules seem to change at a whim. Sex with someone who is drunk is rape unless they don't mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/13 10:07 AM
1

how extremely unlikely it is I had to smile at this. Drunk people meet, and do the dirty like every single day. (also, it's still rape even if they never realise they would not have done it sober - that's kind of important to bring charges but not in the fact of the crime) But it leads to a problem of gray areas - where does one's capacity to consent end? Obviously not at the first drink nor is the line unconsciousness. Is it the legal limit for driving? Is it when you can't remember what happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/13 02:39 AM
5

I swore off violence a long time ago and it's done me nothing but good. I'm not going to prison to make some chick "feel safe" or risk getting stabbed because I couldn't walk away. Fuck that shit - That's what I pay cops for. There is something to what you're saying about psychic violence though. I've been in emergencies and kept my head. Taking command and leading - that's the shit that makes pussies quiver and moist
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 02:14 AM
0

Yeah, I'm familiar with the "reasonable person" in cases of negligence (which, in a hospital very quickly becomes a "reasonable person - with OCD"). I just don't know if that is the test being applied here, but you seem pretty confident that is how it works. btw, I've tried looking up what happens if both parties are drunk. http://www.teenhealthfx.com/answers/general/46417 - obviously not an authoritative source - says no rape has occurred. Surprisingly little information out there on this...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/13 01:41 AM
1

Yeah, I'm familiar with the "reasonable person" in cases of negligence (which, in a hospital very quickly becomes a "reasonable person - with OCD"). I just don't know if that is the test being applied here, but you seem pretty confident that is how it works. btw, I've tried looking up what happens if both parties are drunk. http://www.teenhealthfx.com/answers/general/46417 - obviously not an authoritative source - says no rape has occurred. Surprisingly little information out there on this...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/13 01:28 AM
0

Has this ever been the case? (Both being guilty of rape, I mean)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/13 12:55 AM
1

that's not how I understood the phrasing in the law: (3) Where a person is prevented from resisting by any intoxicating or anesthetic substance, or any controlled substance, and this condition was known, or reasonably should have been known by the accused. Is it reasonable that somebody, him/herself drunk out of his/her head would be able to assess if someone else is drunk? :/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/13 12:55 AM
0

Has this ever been the case? (Both being guilty of rape, I mean)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/13 12:50 AM
1

Has this ever been the case? (Both being guilty of rape, I mean)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/13 12:50 AM
1

I work in a hospital. I read it as MRSAmsa I need a holiday... OTZ
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/13 12:21 AM
1

But we're not discussing drunk sex, we're discussing being so drunk that they can no longer legally consent to anything (i.e. rape). Can both parties be so drunk that they can no longer consent to anything? In which case if they did have sex would it not then stand that they in fact sexually assaulted each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/13 12:16 AM
3

There's a false equivalence there. Drunk driving is a crime because you're doing something potentially dangerous while incapable to make decisions. It's perfectly legal to drive a car when sober (and qualified). The crime here is contingent on the partner/victim not consenting to it. If we assume that (s)he would not have given consent while sober, should we not do the same for the other partner/rapist? It's perfectly possible for two drunk people to physically assault one another - is it inconc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/13 12:13 AM
1

been trying to learn. I'll look some up. Hopefully I'll be able to follow it
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 09:44 PM
2

I like this partly because I like Phil Ochs and partly because it's the antithesis to all of those pedestal type songs about how fantastic the One is. Get over your One-itis. Whoever she is, get over her. I've had her, she's not that special.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 08:13 PM
12

"the world's a mess and I need to rule it!" MRAs try to fix it. TRP is about living/taking advantage of it
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 07:25 PM
2

well you wouldn't believe it if you didn't think it was true
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 07:21 PM
3

Some people get a great big hardon from rules - for some reason they often seem to be fat, middleaged, female middlemanagers. I'm not sure if that's just where I live or a universal thing. I was at a restaurant with some friends for some lunch and they wouldn't serve us unless we all had ID (and of course one guy doesn't - because you know, lunch!). She expected us to wait like chumps for him to go back to the office and get it before anyone could order. So we left and took that juicy tip with u…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 07:07 PM
2

um yeah. ew. Who would like that. Hey, excuse me. I gotta go... do... a thing. Seriously though, these women are hawt. DAMMIT they're hot. I don't understand guys who don't like this. Are you threatened by it? You feel like you'll have to compete with here? Put makeup and a dress on any one of these women and they will wow you more than any "feminine" girl you've ever dated.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 01:53 PM
1

I thought of TRP when I heard this song. Proto-redpill wisdom maybe?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 01:29 PM
0

This is how me make ourselves better
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 01:16 PM
3

not familiar with this one. What's monkey branching
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 01:01 PM
11

Yeah, buddy. The vibe I get off you is that you're an aggressive person - smart maybe but always looking for a fight. You like having the sort of body that means that no one can tell you what to do so you think that give you licence to look down on people. You've put in the hours, you've worked hard and that's a good thing. I'm not going to take that away from you. Fuck it, its what you love - go nuts. But chill the fuck out. Not everyone is out to get you. Some people might even help you if you…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 12:35 PM
2

I've never thought about it like that before. Thanks, that really helps. 155, here I come. Yeah, one thing I've been super conscious about is injuring myself. I think that's why I haven't been pushing myself as hard as I could be. Don't get me wrong, I do "cheat", but I thought the problem with it was that you weren't really recruiting me muscles, you were just exercising your vanity. Thanks for the advice
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 12:24 PM
1

That's insecure beta bullshit. Earning isn't as attractive to me as ambition - maybe that's because I'm a dirt poor future millionaire myself? A guy who makes less will only drop in attractiveness if he lets himself. If you're your wife's charity case (I call him Oscar after guy I know, but it also works if you imagine he's the little man she can carry around in her handbag) then yes - she'll grow some self esteem and kick your ass to the curb (or at least cheat on you with some real men). But i…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 11:57 AM
1

I guess we'll never know
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 04:36 PM
2

huh? why does that help anyone?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 04:36 PM
6

wow. you're just unpleasant
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 01:01 PM
1

Still, this cycle is only going to continue as long as we keep punishing children for being born to deadbeat parents.
/r/MensRights27/10/13 12:58 PM
3

maybe because leverage in this context requires a crane?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 05:50 AM
9

unless she killed him! (dramatic plot twist!)
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 05:44 AM
5

doesn't change the fact that most of these reasons are bullshit, and with the exception of widows most are financially insecure.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 05:43 AM
6

I'd be pretty impressed to see a complete newbie benching 135lb. I've been hitting the gym pretty regularly and that's what I bench. I've been hitting the gym with a female friend of mine. She's definitely interested in trying new things but it does take me a moment to recalculate things for her. What I learned is that even if you take into account the difference in weight, she simply isn't as strong as you are - considerably less. I usually curl 20kg (44lb) which is a tough weight for me. I fig…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 04:57 AM
2

I thought the man looked guilty rather than sad. Also, the States thing doesn't really tell me anything other than THIS CAN HAPPEN TO YOU!!! Should those states have people murder women who don't know them to boost their results?
/r/MensRights27/10/13 03:36 AM
2

Man: noun disposable rapist/murderer and patriarchist. Dumb and violent. Never an innocent victim (of any note)
/r/MensRights27/10/13 03:32 AM
11

Even gangsters and narcos often know the people they're shooting.
/r/MensRights27/10/13 03:16 AM
-1

If you want your government officials to be accountable to you, you have to make them accountable to you. You have to get politically active - be that guy who writes to his counsellor and his congressman. People don't like to have other people forcing them to behave responsibly. That's why governments have a system of separation of powers - because we aren't naturally like that. You aren't alone - there are many taxpayer groups out there who agree with you. Join one, start one. It starts with yo…
/r/MensRights27/10/13 03:03 AM
0

How dare we take a united stand against poverty? /s
/r/MensRights27/10/13 02:55 AM
40

The problem she had with his tone was that he had one
/r/MensRights27/10/13 01:39 AM
6

As much as I agree with you, I'm happy to pay for this because I don't want children to be raised in poverty - no matter how much I dislike the parents
/r/MensRights27/10/13 01:38 AM
3

I think you have the best response to be honest. Someone once said that the person who "wins" in a relationship is the person who cares the least. You have to be willing to murder your babies (figuratively, of course). But is that a way to live? Maybe it is.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 12:35 AM
1

not a helpful explanation.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 11:19 AM
1

It's not the best explanation. Left me scratching my head
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 11:18 AM
3

I think there may really be something in this. I'll start keeping an eye out
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 01:25 AM
2

haha, I work in a hospital.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 01:24 AM
3

I keep reading articles that say "near ovulation X happens" or "around menstruation Y happens" - while interesting, it's not very helpful unless you know which girls are ovulating and which ones aren't. Has anyone come across anyway of knowing?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 04:07 PM
30

There's nothing shameful about asking for advice. The shame comes in if he ignores what everyone is telling him. Fuck me, if my wife told me that she wanted to hook up with some guy the first thing I'd ask is what the fuck she thinks being married means. Do vows mean nothing to her? That relationship is doomed. He needs to start spinning plates.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 10:40 AM
1

There are a lot of people on here who use terms pretty loosely to describe things they don't like. Politically loaded terms and metrosexual are always among them. I'm not convinced that I want to spend a lot of time on my appearance, but good grooming is definitely RP. Even if you're a shaggy beach bum, at least be a well presented shaggy beach bum. Some people may take it a little further than that. I'd like to know if it works for you
/r/askTRP23/10/13 10:52 AM
1

Its shit like this that makes me completely understand men that go their own way.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 02:49 PM
2

That's the thing - people try not to lie. they might bend the truth, say things differently, but if she said "I want you inside me" it's pretty hard to reframe that as anything but consent.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 02:47 AM
1

I don't get why a girl can call me all kinds of names and then expect to sleep in my bed. I've learned to say GTFO
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 02:44 AM
4

no one is being confrontational. It's just that we've seen this story a hundred times, we know how it ends. You say you haven't made a decision yet, but the rest of us are wondering what other option do you have. Also, this other guy doesn't respect you. Guess what? she doesn't either. That's not even the worst bit - You don't even respect yourself.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 02:35 AM
1

a couple of weeks maybe I can convince her Seriously, the only way you're going to convince her is by growing a pair and calling an end to this BS. Something as simple as "I'm not satisfied with how this is going. Either this changes right now or you get your stuff and go." Clear, firm, confident and MEAN it. This might actually be the first time she's respected you in weeks (months?). You're not going to seduce her until you respect yourself enough to walk out. You can't respect someone who doe…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 02:29 AM
5

I don't care if she's actually Angelina Jolie. She's not the catch here, YOU are.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 02:15 AM
1

good point
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 02:02 AM
2

I like the implicit verbal/physical consent but I don't know how much protection it will give you.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 12:54 AM
2

Imma bring you a cake with a file baked inside
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 12:45 AM
2

My rulebook says "no means no" - both because the freeze-out is the best way of beating Last Minute Resistance, AND because I REALLY don't want to go to prison. I told a girl once that when she says "no" or "stop" or anything like that, I'm gone. After the third time she did gasped "no, we mustn't" she said my rule was stupid. I asked "okay, would you prefer it if I ignore you if you tell me to stop?" she thought and said no, and then stopped the whole "no, please, I'm so innocent" BS. Still, I …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 12:32 AM
1

I still can't do the "don't care if/how you get home" getting used to it though
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 12:20 AM
2

I have been to Russia on work, but much more provincial than Moscow and St Petersburg. Shitty little dumps that no one's ever heard of. Drugs were rife. Alcohol was everywhere - I can take a drink, but that's just unhealthy. I'm not trying to be a prude, I've done drugs and I do drink but damn! Russia has some really serious problems. Deep psychological scars. I wasn't there long enough to investigate. If you want men to be leaders in a relationship, that's fine. I'm all for men being assertive …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 12:42 PM
2

I found it was too easy to settle into this mindset. I have to push myself, always gaming.
/r/seduction25/09/13 09:50 PM
0

Arabian Gulf. The average Russian man is not doing that, that's far more a western trait. Did you not read the article? It said exactly that Russian men pay for everything, hold doors open and all the rest. Paying a girl's rent because you hope you might sleep with her is gamma as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 09:46 PM
7

I'm not interested in beating women - or anyone for that matter. I'd rather her pay her share of the rent. I think this is once again women wanting to have it both ways. She wants a man to pay for her and look after her and everything and to have the freedom to do what she wants. As a high SMV women, she has that option. High SMV women have always had that option. And why the fuck is no body here calling these russian men the gammas that they are? Getting fleeced for cash, running around like a …
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 09:19 PM
3

"If you can do something well, never do it for free"
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 12:00 AM
2

http://www.ijreview.com/2013/09/81067-viral-video-americas-health-care-costs-high/ from the same site - pretty interesting
/r/TheRedPill24/09/13 12:16 AM
2

I really have to respect what you're doing here, particularly the way you add a bit of reasonableness into the conversation. TRP can work itself into a spine of "women this" and "women that." It's a plain fact that a lot of the time, women get things in life merely for being attractive. It's true of men also, but a lot less so. (those darn attractive people always attracting people!) When people compare themselves to others, they will say things like "They only got that because they're x" where …
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 10:53 AM
0

then the question comes about: how do we change the world to be a bit more like the ideal? To do that, somebody has to take the chance, to live "as if" it is safe to leave your home unguarded or "as if" it is safe to sleep at night. For all that fighting talk, I don't want anyone I care about to be the ones to take that challenge. I'd much rather they left it to other people to risk. But that's just me, nobody's superman
/r/MensRights15/09/13 10:42 PM
2

that's why we throw them cages and teach them a lesson :)
/r/MensRights15/09/13 09:40 PM
3

No, but you have the right to. Additionally, you ought to be able to expect to see it there when you come back. Would you take a laptop or a GPS left inside a unlocked car? If you wouldn't, you don't really believe what you wrote.
/r/MensRights15/09/13 11:35 AM
2

whats wrong with posting to theredpill?
/r/MensRights15/09/13 11:11 AM
4

"what's mine is mine, what's yours is ours and what's ours is negotiable." Thats what I feel is running through the heads of people I discuss this to.
/r/MensRights15/09/13 11:06 AM
2

But the presumption is innocence, not merely "couldn't prove he did it"
/r/MensRights15/09/13 10:31 AM
5

this guy has it.
/r/MensRights15/09/13 09:12 AM
8

My view is that while there are things you can do to make yourself safer, you shouldn't have to do any of it. Everyone, man or woman, has the right to dress however they like, wherever they like, at whatever time they like without being sexually assaulted (or assaulted at all for that matter). Yes, the reality is that there are things you can do to reduce the risk of it happening to you, but it's not incumbent on you to do them. Your obligation is not to assault other people, not to account for …
/r/MensRights15/09/13 09:10 AM
1

I love this way of looking at it.
/r/MensRights15/09/13 09:00 AM
1

actually, I agree with this. It could be about reframing the debate, but I don't even think that's it, simply clarifying the debate. trouble is, they have about 50 years of a head start. Though I reckon putting the concept of disposability is one that people understand and is getting traction
/r/MensRights15/09/13 08:56 AM
2

then no day is movember! this winter, get rid of that facial hair and let that space between your lip and your nose steal all of the glory (or dye it green - that's what a friend of mine did because he wanted to join in but couldn't part with his beard)
/r/MensRights15/09/13 08:49 AM
1

Capital Gains, like Payroll tax, is a tax, but not income tax. If it's about paying any tax, well (just about) everyone pays sales tax. I do however like the idea of recognition for paying your taxes in full (still not sure on what). Tax dodging is unpatriotic and we should call it that.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 02:11 AM
13

Yes. Use your powers for good, not evil. Manipulate your bank manager into giving you a better deal on your mortgage: good. Manipulate an underage child to do sexual acts with you: very evil. (I'm not suggesting you would, I'm going overboard for clarity). Being susceptible doesn't qualify someone. Pick on someone with power and it's comedy. Pick on someone without power and it's bullying
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 12:47 AM
1

I'm not convinced that Red Pill means you have to give up marriage and committed relationships. You have to be smart about it though - very smart. Much smarter than you've been in the past. Reconcile yourself to the fact that no matter how much you want that fairy tale marriage and family, you might not be ready for it yet.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 12:28 AM
3

people who don't pay income tax don't get a vote? I can see some very angry seniors, people on middle to low income and investors who pay capital gains tax. (unless you're including filling it in to say you don't need to pay anything)
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 12:10 AM
16

but remember guys, this DOESN'T HAPPEN
/r/MensRights11/09/13 02:45 PM
2

I might be bitter, I'm just not unreasonable about it :)
/r/TheRedPill11/09/13 02:22 PM
1

You have to understand movements relative to their setting, time and place. You describe the left wing as supporting the equality and the right wing as supporting the aristocracy which might be a useful way of understanding it but some things don't easily fall into that category. Take early American politics. Were the Whigs and Democractic-Republicans right or left wing? Well if you look at their policies it's difficult to say, partly because it was such a different time and the arguments of tha…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/13 01:17 PM
2

It's not hate. I think it's more realistic. We're all sexual creatures. Too often orbiters put women on a pedestal and imagine them to be something they're not and never asked for in the first place. There's nothing more degrading and humiliating than being an orbiter. It degrades everything about a relationship. EDIT: there are things more degrading and humiliating than being an orbiter. just not many.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/13 12:09 PM
1

beware you don't become her toy mannequin though. Then it just flips the other way
/r/TheRedPill10/09/13 07:59 PM
8

you should've. Snap that orbiter out of it. His princess is a cocksucking slut - time he took her off that pedestal
/r/TheRedPill10/09/13 07:58 PM
4

Can someone please write an article about why having female friends is good? the only reason I can think of is that its a form of social validation. Being able to bring girls to a party will always make you popular.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/13 07:56 PM
4

Someone to help you move? Fuck that. To me that's the equivalent of having female friends around so they can make you sandwiches. Fuck that, she's a strong independent woman who doesn't need a man for anything. Sort it out yourself.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/13 07:53 PM
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In other words, you're going to keep ignoring the history of your ideas but continue to accuse people you don't like of being fascists. Fantastic. The "history" of my ideas is not Stalinist Communism. But what is it with right-wingers and lumping people as us and them? How would lumping people as different as Stalin, FDR, Beveridge, Martin Luther King and Pope Francis into one group make more sense than understanding the context of their time and their environment? Just because you're on the rig…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/13 07:10 PM
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Only to a point. One of the reasons why there seems to be such a large demand for children for adoption is because children that in the past would be "orphaned" are often being aborted instead. I think the 9 months of pregnancy and delivery are also pretty big. It is an alternative to abortion but not a very attractive one
/r/TheRedPill10/09/13 06:42 PM
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I'm not saying being hypocritical stops you being left-wing. I'm saying not being left-wing stops you being left-wing and starts you being hypocritical if you're claiming to be left. I can't believe I'm going to say this, but the Nazis were barely right wing if at all. Modern "far-right" parties often have more in common with the left than the right. It really depends on what you measure it on - some people say things like "for the good of all" vs "for the good of me" in which case we're all bot…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/13 12:37 AM
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I would agree with you that feminism as far as equal rights, etc is left wing (and as someone on the political left I don't see any problem supporting that). The problem is where women already get preferential treatment, for example in access to homeless shelters, childcare - there are actually a lot. Left-wing feminists will say "equal rights means equal rights!" and that I can respect. The vast majority of women aren't feminists like that though - they're in it for themselves. And "fuck you - …
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 11:57 PM
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EVERYTHING is better judgement than having a baby - particularly if you're going to be raising the fucking ankle biter on your own.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 11:32 PM
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Fuck that! I'm no fan of having kids. I'm more worried that she WON'T have an abortion... I don't see what this has to do with left wing politics
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 11:29 PM
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of course it is - I should have been able to work that out. facepalm.jpg
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 11:26 PM
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what's BP? I didn't see that in the glossary
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 11:20 PM
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My rule has always been "if she says "no" then I immediately stop, get off her and wait." pretty soon she learns to stop saying "no" when she doesn't mean it. "No, this is so wrong, I'm not a slut." - Fine! You're not a slut. Let me know when you're ready to be one. It's cool. I can wait. It serves two purposes - one, is that it avoids rape allegations (at least a little bit). the other is that after the second time she will be gagging for it.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/13 09:08 AM
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That might be, but there would also be huge consequences for a society that just had 10% of paternities dissolved. That's the sort of thing that causes riots.
/r/MensRights17/08/13 02:33 PM
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I think you made a strong point about organisation and discipline. They should be two things men have in buckets but somehow they're not. I think part of the problem is that men don't realise that there is a problem. and when we do try to communicate it, we often sound like Neanderthals, whiny butthurt bitches or angry bitter men. Unfortunately, many of the men who have had to deal with these things are justifiably jaded. It takes some of us who see the danger before its ruined us to point it ou…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 03:52 AM
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do you think a large percentage of women are capable throwing off their solipsism and seeing things as they really are? Whole-heartedly yes. Particularly when you frame it as to a woman's advantage. Most women don't want to think of themselves as bullies and parasites, it's just that we live in a society where that is an acceptable option (yeah, when a man is violent, it's because he's a stupid brute but when a woman is it's because of society!). When you confront them with that cognitive disson…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 01:45 AM
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unless you have more than one man you need to test. Then numbers start stacking up
/r/MensRights17/08/13 12:52 AM
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A study done into blood groups found reasonably quickly that a very large proportion of the children being born could not belong to the reputed fathers. They decided to sit on that information because of just how many lives would be affected by it. I agree in theory, but I think the consequences could be terrifying
/r/MensRights17/08/13 12:50 AM
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Not really an MRA but I'll try to respond. Every time someone tells you to "man up" or to "stop whining and do something about it" they're sending you out into the fight alone with one arm tied behind your back. They're setting you up to fail. Either you can stick your head in the sand and keep at the same old tactics again and again (and look how good that's been for us!) or you can rethink your strategy. If you need to appeal to emotion to get justice for men, then do it - men invented rhetori…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 12:05 AM
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I heard they go to university to get their bachelors...
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 11:12 PM
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Well, I'm not racist but... It means she's sensitive to it. A great man once said "treat the pretty ones like they're smart, and the smart ones like they're pretty." This one wants to be treated like a virgin - whether that will get you laid or not is another matter.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 01:40 AM
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It's because if you're not in a female space, they can't control you. You've taken yourself out of their sphere of influence which means you can do whatever the hell you like. Guess what's more terrifying than a guy you can't control? nothing.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 12:04 AM
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Wow. Poe's law
/r/MensRights14/08/13 11:57 PM
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I thought they all liked skinny emotional weaklings they can "fix"...
/r/MensRights14/08/13 01:20 PM
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why do they need to stay fit to breed?
/r/MensRights14/08/13 02:56 AM
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It's the myth of female hypo-agency. Things only happen to women, but things are only ever done by men. For each of those cases, it's a ultimately a man that pushed her to do them. In fact, the women themselves are victims. On the other hand, men are always cold, calculating, logical and methodical - they're never confused, scared, irrational or coerced. And people wonder why women live longer....
/r/MensRights14/08/13 02:48 AM
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It's really interesting and I suspect it's universally applicable. Women like the idea of being protected, and men like the idea of being able to protect her. What's more there is more to this rape fantasy than I think most people, particularly feminists, care to admit. I used to date this girl who used to thrash around in bed and I asked something like "wtf? If you don't want to be here, then leave." and then she told me something I'll never forget "I know this sounds bad, but I like the idea o…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/13 03:13 PM
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It boosts your SMV if you're not spending your time around people who aren't doctors or deal with doctors on a daily basis. Open your social circle and you'll notice a big difference
/r/TheRedPill11/08/13 06:08 PM
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I reckon both men and women are pretty bad at telling what it is that they're after - that's the whole basis of the advertising industry. The question is, what are people interested in, and how do you offer it to them without sounding like you're trying. Some of my friends are doctors. Those that know how to "work it" are knee deep in clunge, but those that don't realise the SMV associated with it get nothing out of it. But remember, no one is a hero to their valet. Being a doctor will impress s…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/13 06:05 PM
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maybe he has a great sense of humour and he's great with kids? /sarcasm
/r/TheRedPill11/08/13 05:57 PM
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I'm here to discuss Red Pill strategy and experiences, not to debate politics. There are plenty of other websites and subreddits for that.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/13 02:49 PM
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Thank you for this, I think you've hit on a number of different issues and done them a lot more justice than I think I ever could.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/13 01:16 PM
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the Left made Feminism Can you unpack that for me?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/13 01:08 PM
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What is the Red Pill other than the strong helping the weak? Almost all of us were Nice Guys at one time. Many of us have had (and maybe still do) have approach anxiety. When you give AMOG tips, I can't see that as anything other than the strong empowering the weak. Ironically, the conservative and the socialist should be the same then: the socialist says success should depend on your own merit, and should not be dependent on the charity of others or the means a person is born to. As far as the …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/13 01:05 PM
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I couldn't agree more. I'm glad to see I'm not alone here. Heck, I even like like the idea of a rugged individualist who makes his own decisions because I'm a Man! (chest pounding optional). But I recognise that's not how the world works. Like you, I think it's a big part of the problem of the dating scene, society and one of the reasons why boys often struggle in school. but yeah, getting laid isn't an idealistic endeavour, it's about working with what you have where you are.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/13 12:45 PM
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Glad to hear it :)
/r/TheRedPill10/08/13 12:34 PM
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Two wings same bird IMO. I'm not familiar with the idiom, but thanks for the comment.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/13 12:33 PM
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