| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 15 | Be interesting and interested | Conversation | rhymingmonk | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 09:02 AM |
| 7 | The small things matter largely | Fundamentals | rhymingmonk | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 09:58 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How to keep her interestedit is | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | 4 ONS in a month, How to get laid in college for young men.Mine like 70 | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 08:37 AM |
| 13 | Wanna try out online dating? Here's some tips.That’s weird logic. There are other possibilities than paying for a photographer or hoes. You can buy nice clothes and deodorant and get a good haircut for less than €100 and then just talk to girls at social events. | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Wanna try out online dating? Here's some tips.Bebebeebbebe | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Wanna try out online dating? Here's some tips.Bebebeebbebe | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 04:08 PM |
| -2 | Wanna try out online dating? Here's some tips.Bebebebe | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 04:08 PM |
| -8 | Wanna try out online dating? Here's some tips.Nerd | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 01:19 PM |
| -2 | Wanna try out online dating? Here's some tips.Haha okay, I love internet debates. You really dug into my life there and found the truth | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 12:55 PM |
| -17 | Wanna try out online dating? Here's some tips.Then you need to learn how to be sarcastic with your friends Oh I didn’t even say I would tell them to duck off, just that they can duck off | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 12:43 PM |
| -23 | Wanna try out online dating? Here's some tips.Haha, I wrote this with my photographer friends in mind | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 12:40 PM |
| -7 | Wanna try out online dating? Here's some tips.Peanutbutter | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 12:39 PM |
| -45 | Wanna try out online dating? Here's some tips.Nerd, I’ll just ask them to do it for free and otherwise they can fuck off | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 12:30 PM |
| 49 | Wanna try out online dating? Here's some tips.€800, wtf? | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 11:31 AM |
| 7 | Unpopular opinion: most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex. We just feel immense amount of pressure to make moves on dates because we don't want to be friendzoned.Plato* | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 05:11 AM |
| 4 | Idealization is the enemy of love?Idealizing a girl -> attaching more value to a girl than she really has -> placing her on a pedestal-> acting needy/simpy/weak -> she doesn’t respect you -> she doesn’t love you. Yea, idealization as a guy is not the smartest move. | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 02:15 PM |
| 2 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Eyo we have the same pf | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 07:38 PM |
| 2 | I’m into taller women, how should I go about seducing them?So just like normal | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 01:21 PM |
| 1 | What to do when everything is in order except the most important thing?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=08sXxIx6ots https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W1uucwvSpw0 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CGwQR_A2faA https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=--B5hwpqPuY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fzKZeaCa9lc | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 09:47 AM |
| 3 | I've been getting way more attention from girls recently and I don't know what to doLol. Don’t worry I just need one | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 07:20 PM |
| 1 | What to do when everything is in order except the most important thing?Yea what’s your point? I can know certain things, and not know other things. | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 09:18 PM |
| 0 | What to do when everything is in order except the most important thing?Yea I don’t know what is wrong with my personality, sometimes I say weird things. Like that if I fuck up in life I don’t have any problems with killing myself, because I’d rather die than be a nobody. But other than that people think I’m fun and compliment my way of delving into their minds. | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | What to do when everything is in order except the most important thing?🫡 | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | What to do when everything is in order except the most important thing?Thanks | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | What to do when everything is in order except the most important thing?yeah makes sense. But it can't come out of the blue right? There has to be some romantic chemistry before that right? | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | What to do when everything is in order except the most important thing?Great, this is exactly what I needed | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 02:31 PM |
| 1 | What to do when everything is in order except the most important thing?Sounds like you are the entertainer but not a closer. Do you mean that girls just see me as entertainment, and not as a romantic candidate? Because it's true that I'm the type of person that is more focussed on making sure we're having fun then on flirting. So you're saying the solution is to start taking serious steps instead of just having fun? | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 02:28 PM |
| 1 | What to do when everything is in order except the most important thing?What do your interactions with girls look like in this context? | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 01:59 PM |
| 1 | What to do when everything is in order except the most important thing?😎🤝😎 | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 01:58 PM |
| 2 | What to do when everything is in order except the most important thing?Great advice dude. It fits perfectly into my life. | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 01:30 PM |
| 4 | What to do when everything is in order except the most important thing?Yea you’re right. I think after having an interesting and fun conversation for a while I get scared because I know I have to do something (either make a direct move or ask for number/instagram) and then I think of an excuse and leave. If I want to do it right I need to keep going instead of ending it. I mean, that one cute girl seemed really engaged and she was laughing the entire time, I could’ve at least asked her for her instagram. | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 01:21 PM |
| 2 | How do I make the first move with my crush through text?Yea exactly. You have a crush on her, and therefore feel like you guys are not strangers, but if you haven’t talked to her she will think of you as a stranger. And it’s pretty weird to get a random text from a stranger, especially for a girl. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Day game or cold approaching is advanced shit. Stop killing your self and go game at a dive bar.I like your mindset. Your focus is internal, which is the the true source of confidence as well. If you approach someone you pushed through your fears and did the thing you wanted to do. That mean you did the right thing. And that’s it, whether she says yes or no doesn’t matter. It only represents her feelings, which say nothing about you. The only thing that says something about you are your own actions, and these were good in this situation. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 08:09 PM |
| 6 | How do I talk to a girl at a concert? Do I make it quick?Username checks out | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 05:36 PM |
| 19 | For the people who learned mystery method he mentions female attraction mechanism, what is it that activates itIm going to die alone bro | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 02:46 PM |
| 12 | For the people who learned mystery method he mentions female attraction mechanism, what is it that activates itYea bro | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 02:46 PM |
| 14 | For the people who learned mystery method he mentions female attraction mechanism, what is it that activates itI’m 5 9 and women don’t seem to dislike me, the only thing holding me back is my shyness around them. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Sorry to bring up an offencive topic but what do you think of confidence vs the size of the man?You sound like a pussy | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 09:24 AM |
| 17 | Getting girls is easyThe problem isn’t that we don’t know how to do the right thing, which is the simple thing as well: talk and escalate. But that things are preventing us from following the straight path. Like anxiety, shyness, bad looks, poor social skills and what not. The goal is to remove as many obstacles as possible but some of us are blessed with a good childhood and others aren’t. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Why do guy friends stop talking to you after you reject them?Dude you made this post from both perspectives. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 09:48 PM |
| 3 | Neurodivergent people, what is your experience like in dating?You Sound like a cool person tbh | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 08:27 PM |
| 67 | Why do guy friends stop talking to you after you reject them?Definitely the first one for me | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet girls outside of parties/clubs/festivals?I want to meet women at other places as well | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet girls outside of parties/clubs/festivals?Hmm? | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 07:22 PM |
| 4 | is your goal one woman or multiple?Yo mama | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 12:54 PM |
| -8 | How to cold approach during the daytime in parks?Just leave people alone | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 05:49 PM |
| 1 | I know this question has been asked a 1000 times but let me ask it…..Women in this forum what’s your biggest turn off(no sugar coating)I understand, no worries. I’m 20 I know a lot of people. Mainly individuals but I’m part of 4 groups or so. It’s funny because those groups consist of very different people, so they’re not compatible with each other but I can hang out with them separately. I have a general idea of my values and I have some goals but they’re not concrete yet. For now I’m following a general direction, doing things that match my values and can give me experience and networks. But when I’m older I can nail everythi… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 09:21 PM |
| 3 | What's a no no during texting?just be normal | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 10:05 AM |
| 1 | I know this question has been asked a 1000 times but let me ask it…..Women in this forum what’s your biggest turn off(no sugar coating)Don’t you think being consistent is boring? Don’t you want to explore different parts of yourself? And expres hidden parts of yourself? Or develop new parts of yourself? Why would you stick to having one persona? I’m curious since we are opposites in this regard. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 07:57 AM |
| 3 | I know this question has been asked a 1000 times but let me ask it…..Women in this forum what’s your biggest turn off(no sugar coating)I don’t know entirely so this isn’t the final explanation. But I feel like a different person all the time. I proces a lot of information, either from the situation, the past, connections I made, predictions, day dreams. And each new insight or observation influences my emotions. So not only my thoughts but also my emotions are in continuous flux. This means I don’t have a stable (sense of) self. So I’m basically weaving my mask as I go, without stopping. Going through several phases each day, a… | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 09:46 PM |
| 8 | I know this question has been asked a 1000 times but let me ask it…..Women in this forum what’s your biggest turn off(no sugar coating)I’m naturally inconsistent. Im everyone and no one. Fuck. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 03:44 PM |
| 0 | hard to getIf you respect yourself, you understand that she’s not worth the trouble. But you can play a long a little and have some fun while it’s still possible to have fun. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 04:36 PM |
| 5 | If you never approach, then you might be the greatest lady’s man of all time.Great post dude | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys tell girls that you are older than you actually are to get with them ?No | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 09:21 AM |
| 0 | I've build myself up from the ground and now I've reached the final stepI can assume what step I’m on because it is distinct from the previous steps and I can assume this is the final step because in theory it seems like how to romance someone is the final step in my progress | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 07:07 AM |
| 0 | I've build myself up from the ground and now I've reached the final stepI didn’t know that was flirting. I thought flirting to be something more sexual. Not just normal conversations. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 07:53 PM |
| -1 | I've build myself up from the ground and now I've reached the final stepI said that in the context of my post. I told you what the steps were and what the next step was, which I assumed to be the final step. You could’ve extracted that from my post dude. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 07:50 PM |
| 2 | I've build myself up from the ground and now I've reached the final stepSo no real need for flirting, I just need to make my intentions clear without playing some sort of seduction game? | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | I've build myself up from the ground and now I've reached the final stepSure, so just have fun is what I need to do now. But having fun in this context means flirting, and how am I supposed to flirt if I never done it. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | I've build myself up from the ground and now I've reached the final stepYea sure, either way you get my point. Let’s just call it the next step. Although it can be the final step in terms of preparation. If I have this knowledge I’m done with preparing. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Should I message her?yeah, I finally understand. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Should I message her?Can you do both lol? I really like to figure people out. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Should I message her?Then how should I proceed next time. What should I talk about? How do you create sexual tension? Any tips? | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Should I message her?No, makes sense. Thank you. I messaged her anyway tho. I teased her during work but when we were alone I was more platonic. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Should I message her?Yea but that’s like ten steps ahead, how should you know it from the beginning? We’ve only talked a handful of times, probably no more than 2 hours in total. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Should I message her?I see. What are the romantic/sexual signs then? | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Should I message her?Why do you think that? I thought we were doing good. I probably need more experience. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 04:06 PM |
| 2 | I cold approached a femboy and got publicly humiliated, what did I do wrong?Someone should poop in their mouths | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 09:27 PM |
| 4 | I cold approached a femboy and got publicly humiliated, what did I do wrong?wtf is wrong with people | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Why abundance is importantI'm not angry. But "Why doesn't he have any girls that are into him, if they don't want him, then I feel like I don't either" is the dumbest thing I've heard in a very long time. Just have your own opinions and thoughts, fucking idiot. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 08:52 AM |
| 6 | Why abundance is importantwhy would you change yourself for someone that thinks like a fucking idiot? | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 07:57 AM |
| 11 | Why abundance is importantShe sounds so stupid | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 06:41 AM |
| 1 | My biggest struggle is my low self-esteem and lack of confidence. how can I fix this?Idk dude. For me it happend outside of my control. If you want a different perspective then you will remind yourself of that perspective when things happen. And with time you have programmed yourself to hold that perspective as your own. For instance, if you want to care less about your height. Every time you get rejected because of it, you feel bad. But you remind yourself that you shouldn’t care. And with time this perspective of not caring becomes your own. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 04:29 PM |
| 31 | People who got genuinely good at daygame, how many approaches did it take?Lol you guys sound fucking crazy. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 11:03 AM |
| 1 | My biggest struggle is my low self-esteem and lack of confidence. how can I fix this?I’m as well. But I have good traits that I focus on (a bit too much lol). I like being me and if someone devalues me for being 5 8/9, then that only strengthens the idea that I’m better than them. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | My biggest struggle is my low self-esteem and lack of confidence. how can I fix this?Idk dude. I get attention from girls shorter and taller than me. Not all of them but enough to let me know my height isn’t too big of an obstacle. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | My biggest struggle is my low self-esteem and lack of confidence. how can I fix this?Middle/high school? | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 10:16 PM |
| 1 | My biggest struggle is my low self-esteem and lack of confidence. how can I fix this?Then find girls with different/better personalities | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | My biggest struggle is my low self-esteem and lack of confidence. how can I fix this?How tall are you? And did they explicitly say it’s your height? And what kind of girls did you approach? And yes I’m 175 cm, so I understand it. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 10:03 PM |
| 2 | You attract what you are. Become the type of person that you want to be with.Who said that? I said “By being an unattractive down to earth outdoorsy guy”, implying that it is possible to be an attractive down to earth outdoorsy guy. But that you probably are the former. (Not saying you will be unattractive for ever) | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 05:15 PM |
| 24 | You attract what you are. Become the type of person that you want to be with.By being an unattractive down to earth outdoorsy guy | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | My biggest struggle is my low self-esteem and lack of confidence. how can I fix this?If you can’t make an external change then make an internal one. Does it bring you confidence to be the type of person that calculates the value of a human being based on bodily traits that no one controls? Some part of you will think this is shallow. So be mature and accept your height. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 06:33 AM |
| 5 | My biggest struggle is my low self-esteem and lack of confidence. how can I fix this?I will do my best to not think of you while meditating, but it won’t be easy | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 07:58 AM |
| 1 | My biggest struggle is my low self-esteem and lack of confidence. how can I fix this?I read it twice my guy | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 07:45 AM |
| 1 | My biggest struggle is my low self-esteem and lack of confidence. how can I fix this?Can you explain your mediation technique? And yes this resonates with me. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 07:39 AM |
| 22 | My biggest struggle is my low self-esteem and lack of confidence. how can I fix this?I did all the usual things like going to the gym, wearing nice clothes and improving my competence. These definitely helped, but after doing something else I realized that these things are only of secondary importance. The first and most important thing I did to improve my confidence is to quit the bad habits that make me feel bad about myself. Smoke too much weed but you don’t want to be a stoner? Quit. You watch porn even though you don’t want to? Fucking quit. These things are lowering your s… | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 07:08 AM |
| 8 | A constant theme I've noticed among my female friends who use dating appsTrue | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 01:21 PM |
| 2 | [FIELD REPORT] I pulled a pornstar in 15 minutes.If the text is short, no If the text is long, it depends on who send it. If it is about some guy going to a night club and fixing some hoe, I’m not going to use energy to figure out who is who because the author wasn’t clear. I read at least 30 pages a day, I prefer to not spend too much energy with reading these types of stories. But writing is always enjoyable. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 01:17 PM |
| 0 | [FIELD REPORT] I pulled a pornstar in 15 minutes.Do you just read a science or philosophy text without context? Because that’s not how it works. And I’m used to that approach. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 12:38 PM |
| 23 | is it not possible to pick up women if i don't drink alcohol?Plus you just seem like a pussy. Be honest about who you are | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 08:14 AM |
| -1 | [FIELD REPORT] I pulled a pornstar in 15 minutes.Idc and that’s what I said | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 02:54 AM |
| 0 | [FIELD REPORT] I pulled a pornstar in 15 minutes.How can you know how my head works | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 02:54 AM |
| -2 | [FIELD REPORT] I pulled a pornstar in 15 minutes.Ok now I read it, but you could’ve just said it | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 10:09 PM |
| 0 | [FIELD REPORT] I pulled a pornstar in 15 minutes.Judging by your name it’s you | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 09:43 PM |
| -3 | [FIELD REPORT] I pulled a pornstar in 15 minutes.Yes, I need context so I wanted to wait until someone answered my question before I read it. | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 09:43 PM |
| 3 | [FIELD REPORT] I pulled a pornstar in 15 minutes.Wait who is a 28 y/o 5 7 eastern Asian person is La? You or her? | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 09:05 PM |
| 5 | She is shy as fuck, and so I am.Well I committed genocide and she didn’t like it so… you’re wrong | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 03:34 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn"You’re amazing | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 10:28 AM |
| 0 | Girl is shy towards me?Nope | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 06:22 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn"Yea I’ll give it a go | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 06:21 PM |
| 28 | What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn"But I do know one thing though, Bitches they come they go. Saturday through Sunday, Monday. Monday through Sunday yo. Maybe I’ll love you one day. Maybe we’ll some day grow. Till then just sit your drunkass on that fucking runway hoe. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 06:10 PM |
| 1 | The power of the non-verbal push-pull technique while flirtingThanks | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 07:08 AM |
| 5 | After years of dating I am convinced that women are the most attracted to men who are so full of themselves, arrogant & rude who can show them their place.I think the problem is that they don’t see you for who you are. In some ways you make the douch seem small. But she doesn’t notice that. But there are people that see that you make the douch appear small. For instance, some people see that you’re wiser, more mature, a beter person, have more genuine confidence, etc.. These are people that either have similar traits or look up to those traits. They are aware of your strengths. While the one that picked the douch only sees his strengths and is ign… | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 10:33 AM |
| 7 | After years of dating I am convinced that women are the most attracted to men who are so full of themselves, arrogant & rude who can show them their place.Doing what you want is what women want you to do | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 09:51 AM |
| 2 | Do girls talk to each other about a guy they think is hot?I feel like screaming | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 07:06 AM |
| 6 | What are good topics to talk to girls about and how can I start conversations with them?Cringe | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 06:49 AM |
| 7 | how do you start a conversationThe first step is to get their attention, this depends on the situation. But it generally comes down to reading body language, figuring out an introduction and deciding when it is the right time to approach. The hard part is figuring out what to say. You could make a remark about something in a way that leaves further conversation open. Like, ‘I see you’re looking for protein bars, do you go the gym as well?’. Just try to wait for the moment when they are open to talk to you, so when they’re not… | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think it's stigmatized for men to be insecure?Your tag checks out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 09:52 AM |
| 6 | Why cops don't take you seriously, and in fact they harass you, when calling 911 on a woman? And they always assume you're the on at fault.Maybe at first, but probably not when they arrive and see them | /r/MensRights | 30/01/22 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Are subreddits still banning ppl for posting here?Ok I’ll look | /r/MensRights | 26/01/22 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Are subreddits still banning ppl for posting here?Wtf why would they ban us? | /r/MensRights | 25/01/22 09:20 PM |
| 5 | “But women have been oppressed for millennia”People from pretty much every race, gender, etc have been oppressed, which means that we’re all special according to her logic, which in turn means that no one is special | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/01/22 08:54 PM |
| 6 | [Satire] The Modern Woman’s Guide to Life, and to Defeating The PatriarchyIf we posted this there, they would think it’s good advice | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 02:29 PM |
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