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They weren't. None of my partners in hs or college asked to choke me, aggressively deepthroat, anal, or hit or call me degrading names. Men at their most hormonal still treated me respectfully, then 5 yrs later those things became mainstream in porn and those things began being normalized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:45 AM
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Many claim you have to learn to like it. What the women like is the feeling they get from making their partner happy. Or some are conditioned to enjoy pain. That's it. Like you get to feel proud of how much you endure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:40 AM
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Most of the men asking for anal don't even know how to do it safely. They don't care. They saw it in porn and they want to do it. There was a time when men widely thought anal was gross and they didn't demand it. Porn changed their attitudes on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:38 AM
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Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:00 AM
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Bubble Bass is not a character to emulate or identify with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:26 AM
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I mean, they are watching her tiktoks when usually a guy's friends ignore his girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 04:21 AM
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We already have that. All the incels are very angry with their mothers and are vocal about it. They're angry that they had weak father figures or no father figure at all. But while it does suck to have a poor father, they then turn their anger towards all women, instead of trying to improve themselves as best as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:57 AM
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Too many of those dudes have the attitude that 'morality is subjective' which just gives them the free pass to do whatever they want. Nothing matters so that means they just are selfish and destructive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:01 AM
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Being all excited to get naked to make $200? People need to wake up. Nobody is making tons of cash off that or just being an ig model, same as nobody makes money off mlms. Many people who do 'make money' are making it by recruiting or selling services on the side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:11 AM
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Sadly there's never only one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:20 PM
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You can tell them and they just assume they are born ugly. That's what all the incels assume, because bathing and dressing well are unmanly . When did looking nice become unmanly? Why would anyone think the epitome of manliness is sitting in a wifebeater and boxers for days, pissing in bottles and having a gaming/porn addiction?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:32 AM
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We all already have Teflon in our blood and microplastics in our water. I know you are doing your best to avoid things as much as possible though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:32 PM
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Whenever they try to sterilize people from certain groups it's always women targeted and not men. They even worry about the fertility of male animals and make such a big deal about neutering them but you never hear them worry for their female pets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:55 PM
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He probably makes her prove to him that she's not into it for the money. Rich scrote playbook. Acting all hurt that women only want him for his money and makes her jump through hoops to prove she's worthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 05:22 AM
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It's not even 'no sense of humor' because they freak the fuck out if you do it to them. Never try to tickle a man, they will kick. Don't spray him with a hose, instant rage fueled meltdown. Don't make any personal joke, he can't handle it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:43 AM
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I feel like you should talk to your kids about porn the same way people talk to children about drugs and alcohol or racism and reiterate how porn can harm their brain and ruin their relationships with others as well as the reality that most of those people are trafficked and abused and that violence and disrespect are never ok. Talk to them young and talk to them often and talk to them about your values. If possible get male relatives or role models to reiterate this (may be challenging to find)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:52 AM
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Censorship for children and teens needs to be in the focus again. Parents have become increasingly lax in what their children consume and also very lax in how they discourage unwanted behaviors. They seem to think the schools will do all the heavy lifting for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:26 AM
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It's about consideration for others, if you walk faster than your friends then that's pretty rude as well. Or walking faster than your mom. If you'd rather do the walking alone then do it alone, don't leave others in the dust unless it's an established thing. Like I tell my mom I'm going to run on the track while she walks and she's good with that, but when I walk I walk with her because I enjoy talking to her as I do it, most people do this. That's why they block the sidewalk, most people want …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:01 AM
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I heard that a few places did have men's shelters, but they closed because of lack of demand. Like everything else, it's crocodile tears. Men do not care about male rape victims or about homeless men, they could shut down the Church if they really cared about stuff like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:41 AM
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Hopefully you don't have to interact with him no more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:24 AM
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Please do be careful and keep safe. This sub is literal gold, if only it was available when I was younger, so much could have been avoided, or at least explained. We live in a world that actively encourages women to go against their best interests and constantly gaslights us about our experiences. I wish you the best of luck and I'm sorry about the things you've had to go through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 04:51 PM
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My friend's son was viewing porn at age 10, she gave him a phone at a very young age and I know she doesn't monitor what he is watching, I only know because I heard him and his friend giggling about it and could hear the clip. He is now 15. Many teenagers are getting ed because they are getting addicted to porn so young. Hopefully he isn't one of those kids. I am 31, when I was in hs school it was still rare for people to have home computers or phones and the porn wasn't as extreme as it is now.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 04:29 PM
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From reading this sub, you will find that this is very common. It's the whole 'this person got to do this to you so why can't I', it doesn't even matter if it was against your wishes or not. They will always compare to anybody before them and they don't want to feel like they're getting the worse deal, if somebody else abused you they want to abuse you and feel entitled to do so. It's not wise to bring up virginity either, because they will want to take it. Most men are predatory and gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:58 PM
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Part of the way to combat this is for parents to have real sex talks with their children of both genders and not depend on the schools to do it, they also need to have real conversations about internet usage and actively monitor what their kids are viewing and who their kids are hanging out with and all of this needs to be done very early. Kids are becoming exposed to porn at age 8. So before then parents need to broach these uncomfortable topics. Kids need to be informed about the brain damage …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:32 PM
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Do not tell men about your assault, it makes think that they can do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:29 PM
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He wasn't joking. Someday he would do it, and he is expressing a desire to do so. Do not tell men about your assaults!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:28 PM
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Radfem is more on the nature side of the nature vs nuture debate when it comes to male behaviour, at least from what I've seen. They don't really think you can raise men to be better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 04:33 PM
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Exactly. I want people to be aware that porn is definitely shaping the tastes of men. Because I was in college during the early hookup days and mainstreaming of home internet. The frat boys were not asking me to do degrading shit because they weren't hooked on porn yet. It disturbs me so much that teenagers and middles schoolers are worried about kinks and porn addiction, it's not normal. It's not normal. I don't care if it is very common but it is not normal to be exposed and influenced by porn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 02:19 PM
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It's almost never really an accident. They know exactly what they are doing and it is very common now that anal is the darling of porn. Men didn't really ever request anal until it was featured prominently in porn. Same with choking or slapping or cumming on the face, these were all introduced through porn and not organic desires. When I was in college nobody ever requested these things but then around 2015 they are all requested. Men don't even know what they want, they just want to copy what t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 02:03 PM
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Just block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 09:21 PM
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There were people in the comments of this post arguing about what constitutes rape or assault, because the man had forced her to jerk him off. Even in that thread people were trying to downplay what had been done and what was being attempted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:09 PM
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Never fake, it doesn't do you good, it doesn't do the man good, and it doesn't do anybody he meets next good. Big L's for everybody and he gets an inflated ego and never listens to what a woman says again, because somebody told him 'they liked that!'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 12:17 PM
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Anal is the number one thing men pester for now. And there's so many cases where as soon as the girl says she likes it and pushes for it, the man is no longer interested. It's more about controlling and hurting someone rather than it being genuinely pleasurable for them. And sadly because of the messaging young girls recieve, they start to believe that they deserve to be abused and controlled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 12:13 PM
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So you want a vacation almost as long as your relationship? This is bad juju, girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 12:15 AM
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If they do start a relationship, he'll probably try to find a way to force her out of her job, like being jealous of other male coworkers or be like he wants her to stay at his home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:14 PM
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Quality doesn't have to be expensive, effort doesn't have to be expensive, but both of those things still need to be there. Many times women are told to not expect quality or effort at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 09:58 PM
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Major decline since 2015. The guys I dated from 2008-2012 weren't addicted to porn and weren't asking for degrading sex acts and they still went on dates and wanted to be active and social, these were broke college kids too. I'm astounded at how the guys from my midtwenties til now are much worse than the ones in my college days. Older and richer yet cheaper and more pathetic in behavior. More selfish too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 09:34 PM
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It has to be that way in order to not upset the status quo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:37 PM
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Will she still love him , when he starts shorting her on pay?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:38 PM
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I've never had an orgasm either and honestly the best sex was with my early boyfriends who didn't watch porn and I was their first girlfriend. When I went to college relationships and respect went out the door and it's never returned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:37 PM
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They make no attempt to be sexually compatible with any woman. It's all about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:15 PM
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It's not gold digging to want a good foundation for your family. The guys screeching about gold digging have no intention of ever providing for a family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:52 PM
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Joint facebook!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 09:52 PM
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Yes, don't forget that men get raped too and we need to cover this aspect of reality! The meninists will be overjoyed, don't they want to bring atttention to men's issues?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 09:46 PM
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There's a saying "Lose a tooth for every child." This happened to my friend, both of her pregnancies made her teeth weaken and then because she has pcos both her pregnancies were high risk, both were premature because her cervix couldn't hold the weight. Just lots of health problems and then she had to have two emergency c sections and almost bled out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 09:35 PM
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When you ask men when they started, it's always young and they see nothing wrong with it and they act like what they're addicted to is the most vanilla stuff and it's all innocent but we know they're lying through their teeth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 09:00 PM
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It's worse than giving every kid alcohol and cigarettes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:34 PM
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Yeah I think it was for porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:32 PM
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Sadly I've found many lesbians to have a lot of internalized misogyny. They try to further themselves from the stereotypes of women so that they aren't targeted by men. It's sad. I have several friends that are bi or lesbian that I love dearly yet they still spout sexist and crude things to try to prove themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:31 PM
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Nobody fantasizes about being beaten at 13yrs old. I was in middle school when home computers began being common and we'd talk about boys and what we wanted was to be kissed and to go on dates and hold hands. Nobody was talking about kinks, we still thought sex was icky at that age. Now people think it's natural for preteens to watch porn and have kinks and be super sexual. I don't think that is true, you have curiosity at that age but don't really want to act on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:17 PM
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Read somewhere majority only stay about 3-6 months because they are treated so terribly and competition is terrible. Doesn't even matter though because they always want new faces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:09 PM
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Women often improve things as well. The way that things are done currently is not the only way it can be done or even the best way it can be done, there are simpler and easier ways but they are ignored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 10:26 PM
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She only thinks it's whiny because she's conditioned to. Women are conditioned to be small. Instead of focusing on the blatant disrespect her husband is doing, she feels whiny because he got her expensive gifts only to cover his ass and to deflect from the expensive gift he got himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:20 PM
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He probably tells her he didn't want children or he's not ready yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:10 PM
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We're not even supposed to drink in letters. That was a big no no. We couldn't wear letters to parties. They don't want bad press.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:48 PM
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I was on an asexual sub and the post was about porn and I commented about how porn is harmful. And all of them rose up to defend it, yet as asexuals they're not even the target demographic. There were a few sane people on there who didn't but most just talked about 'choice'. I do feel like societies should try to dissuade young people from bad choices though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:46 PM
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I wonder when they got married. How much of that 8yrs was being married and did she have to pester him for it? Was the child planned? 8yrs and wasn't even there for when she was in labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 11:21 PM
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It's not just a fanstasy either because they often try to do the things they watched on the women they get intimate with. They really want to do that stuff and if there wouldn't be trouble with the law they would. Think about sex tourism or raping during war, they know there's no consequences when they are outside their country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:56 PM
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I doubt it. My friend had to marry her Christian husband because he demanded so after feeling guilty and blaming her for causing him to sin. Their marriage is not good and I feel so sad for her, he has her hidden away now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:43 PM
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Hilary got a rapist free and then also married a rapist and stuck by him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:52 AM
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But remember they are smarter than women and built civilization
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:17 AM
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'It's justa joke!' 'Not all men!' 'I'm not a mind reader!' The phrases to excuse anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:15 AM
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Men at age thirty don't see women at age 20 as equals. They just don't. You're pretty much his sugar baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:37 PM
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When he's a stay at home dad, will he give up gaming? Did you see the post about the dude who didn't change his baby for 9 hours?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:46 PM
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You don't need this older lazy man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:44 PM
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These are the things their parents should have instilled in them. How come every woman knows what is expected of them to become a girlfriend or a wife yet every man seems to not know? It's because nobody says to little boys 'you'll never get a girlfriend if you don't do xyz...'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 06:26 PM
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They don't think rape destroys women's lives. Anytime a guy learns about a woman's rape, he just tries to find a way to exploit her too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:24 PM
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I'm glad you are back, BTW. I missed you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 06:36 AM
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They have a bot that scans for people subbed to things they oppose and hands out bans, but I'm sure it doesn't scan for the porn subs even though that's literally filmed abuse and rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 01:11 AM
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I've been banned just cuz of being subbed here and to pinkpill. The ban still holds even though it's been a year and I never commented on WvP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:05 PM
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My mom taught me to be a doormat because it was convenient for her. But now she's like 'Why don't you stand up for yourself?' Now I'm having to unlearn all that bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 04:18 PM
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Don't tell him stuff. Just block and delete. Anything you say will be used against you and he's probably telling his girl that you're the obsessed one. They believe their own lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:58 AM
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Maybe they have to practice on men only for 'x' amount of years. No children, teens or women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:37 PM
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He's probably doubly mad she's keeping them afloat and will probably try to sabotage her, if he already isn't. The more successful she does, the less he'll do to try to punish her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:51 PM
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I feel this too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 10:42 PM
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Can you post this to pornismisogyny as well? I think they would welcome this post. Thank you very much for speaking out! I have seen a great change in guys as well, when I was a teen it was normal to have gradual and loving sexual experiences but after 2015 they all want immediate porn sex and no dates and no love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 10:41 PM
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I would love it if this was a prank and all she does is message creepy guys and then do this to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 10:26 PM
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They should be the same since it's the same organ that creates the orgasm, I wouldn't know from experience though. The clitoris is kinda wishbone shaped and goes around the vaginal canal. Since I haven't experienced an orgasm, I don't find sex all that great and I don't find it bonding. Bonding requires the release of good feeling chemicals so if a man doesn't do anything to stimulate that, it's not going to happen. It's the same with talking, some people are just able to stimulate emotional fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 10:09 PM
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Many people claim to be just [insert religion] and then take it way too far
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 10:40 AM
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Cults are bad, mkay?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 10:38 AM
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Wife beating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 06:53 AM
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There are surgeries for hymen replacement, fake blood capsules, condoms that fake a hymen, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 06:49 AM
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Too emotionally repressed. Kisses are very tame. God is not gonna get mad at somebody for kissing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 06:46 AM
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I think orgasms bind people. Women on average have less orgasms, many going into their thirties without one. Sex isn't a big deal if you don't have orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 06:45 AM
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That is true, the type of men I've been attracted to most were always pretty boys and emo and scene guys were pretty too so a guy in makeup doesn't phase me. Most men in my teen days were also very handsome, so I don't buy the 'men are just born ugly' cope that many have. It is the failure to take good care of themselves that makes men look bad, even in college there was a huge difference between the freshman and the seniors because of weight gain, stress and too much alcohol. Now at 31, my male…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 09:42 PM
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You have a better chance going with people in your class. If you make a lot of money it's better to find a woman who also comes from money, rather than trying to pull up a poor woman. Yes rich guys date models, but those models are also rich. Rich guys aren't dating sales clerks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 08:37 PM
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Anxious? I don't think that's the word for it. Anxious makes it sound like he might hurt somebody and is a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 08:31 PM
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When I was in school, most of the guys were attractive. Kids in school are in sports, or active in other ways, their parents help enforce hygiene standards, they're eating well, and they do want to attract girls so they make more effort in looking good. When men are out of school they quit all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 08:29 PM
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There are other ways to be masculine, money wasn't always a thing. Men being proud of their homes is attractive, men expecting to be babied is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 08:26 PM
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Society is what's creating ugly people. Give people lots of candy and no desire to improve and then you get this generation of ugly men. Most people are not ugly, they just live ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 08:23 PM
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Because women are not okay with lazy men staying home. Men who want to stay home and have the wife work will need to contribute to the household and most men have no interest in that. Maybe more women would accept a man staying home if men did housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 08:19 PM
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I mean the people I've seen in Nat Geo. People living in the Amazon, pics of indigenous people from the 1800's. They all have nice clear skin, good skull formation and good teeth and if you would read about mewing you would know why. The diet and mouth breathing affects how faces are formed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 08:16 PM
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Did you have this experience in school where there was lots of guys to crush on? I had plenty of crushes on guys at school and remember most of them looking good. My theory of this is that they looked good because their parents took care of them, enforced hygiene standards and bought them nice clothes. Some guys cared about their looks (on their own) in order to be part of a social group, the alternative dudes put a lot of work into it. Young men do put effort into their appearance but once out …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 08:12 PM
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All of the people in old photos are attractive, because they ate real food and did physical activity. Modern ways of living have fucked us up and we're malnourished because the soils are depleted. Starches and sugars have fucked everyone up, that's why it's so easy to get fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 08:03 PM
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And burping and farting! Such wondrous creatures!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 08:00 PM
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You were too built. Most women want a lightly muscled man. When guys have too much muscle I think of roid rage and domestic violence which my be unfair but that's my instinct, that super muscled men are dangerous and scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 07:56 PM
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Maybe she dates you for a long time and then you finally reveal you have a lot of money and then she suddenly becomes materialistic. So that hiding money did nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 07:49 PM
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I think that is wrong, before men were very interested in appearance and interested in dressing and smelling well because that was considered manly and then somehow later on that attitude changed and taking good care of yourself was gay (at least in the US). All of the pictures of the past shows well dressed men looking good, it used to be a thing to dress up anytime you were going to leave the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 07:41 PM
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The husband at home has to actually do stuff instead of gaming, that's the caveat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 07:36 PM
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When I was a teen none of my friends were lusting after fat rich men. They want hot young men. I think that what teens want is the rawest of sexuality but then real life beats the shit out of you and they have to adjust accordingly. A hot man playing guitar on the couch won't keep the kids fed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 07:32 PM
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40% of genes are turned on through lifestyle habits, so for optimal gene expression you do need to be eating healthy and working out and taking good care of yourself, which the average man has no interest in doing. Also facial structure can deform if you were a mouth breather as a kid, look up mewing. When they do videos of tribal people almost all the young people look attractive and healthy because they aren't sitting on a couch mouth breathing and eating cheetos.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 07:28 PM
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To do that stuff is physically taxing and painful, they do take time off. There rips and tears that occur and just because they have some instagram pics and vids saved up to post later doesn't mean they aren't taking time off to heal. Femdom is different, it's not majority of men that enjoy that, it's like bringing up rape by females when compared to male rape. The majority of abuse is against women, overwhelmingly so. Even so, since you do not seem to be concerned about how the people in porn a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 09:01 PM
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Men are inherently dominate just by their build, there is no reason to choke out a 90lb girl. Pornstars have to take days and sometimes weeks off to recover from shooting their vids because they are literally being injured. Why do men get off on injuring women? If you truly cared bout porn and how it works then you'd also know about how it feeds demand for sex trafficking and prostitution. If porn did its job,then sex trafficking and prostitution would go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 08:37 PM
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You can look up the rapes hosted on porn hub and the complaints about underage and nonconsensual vids not being taken down after being reported multiple times. Porn hub has lobbied that they are not responsible for what is hosted on their site so they don't give two shits if someone posts a rape unless media attention or a lawyer comes after them. You can also lookup online about how the porn industry is run by listening to expornstars and what they have to say. Basically they all say they just …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 08:23 PM
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That is not true, especially new actors are tricked on set all the time. Either the director or the male porn actor decides to change things on the fly and if the girl doesn't do it she can either be blackmailed or sent home and most people are counting on being paid. Do you think a hs dropout have enough savings to skip a check? They can sign papers and do bullshit preinterviews all they want but also porn hub does host rapes and underage shit as well and they're slow to take it down without le…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 07:56 PM
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There is still sexual slavery in this world and it's practiced in all countries. It's bad to be a slave, but sexual slavery is worse. Wouldn't you much rather work 20hrs a day than be raped multiple times a day? Rapes can cause internal bleeding and cause urine and fecal matter to mix together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 05:48 PM
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Are you a lesbian?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 04:44 PM
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Lesbian porn is still mostly watched by men and made with men in mind. Just because women are making porn doesn't mean it's how women like to have sex. Lesbians also tend to deal with a lot of internal misogyny, so if a lesbian is going out of her way to treat other women like objects and dirt, that's very harmful. They don't like how they are treated in society so they're gonna subjugate another woman to make them feel better and have that power fantasy. Tomboys also do this, they reject femini…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 04:41 PM
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I love this comment. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 03:32 PM
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It's more common now because people in general have more free speech. Before, antimale sentiments were written in flowery Victorian poems. Now all of society likes to swear and tweet their every thought
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 03:17 PM
1

Are you fearful of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 03:14 PM
1

I too wish black people would just shut up. The 1960's was a million years ago and everybody became equal! Everyone should be happy they don't live in Saudia Arabia. Once something becomes law people automatically change their bad thoughts and there's no more racism or sexism any more. All the rapes and murders have stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 03:13 PM
1

Depends on the work environment, some places everybody is a snitch and if you don't snitch too then you become the target. Other places everybody knows how to mind their damn business and do their job. It's usually up to management what the work environment will be. Sometimes management just listens to the first person to make a complaint and then anything you do to defend yourself is seen as retaliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 03:06 PM
0

I do believe all of it should be banned. Just because a woman makes something doesn't mean it's not misogynistic. People are very malleable way more than they'd like to admit. I mean look at how Trump got elected. Yeah some women watch porn, but it's still way far less than men and so if somebody is making porn solely with women in mind they are going to struggle. Instead women like romance novels much more. So from a business standpoint that 'women's porn' is still going to cater to men to capt…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 02:59 PM
0

Women watch porn far less than men and it's only taken the internet age to get teens hooked on it. If you've been watching porn since age 8, you're going to think that stuff is normal. Since adults and schools refuse to teach what healthy sex and relationships look like, we just get porn and it gets worse and worse as time goes on. I remember when dudes thought anal was for gay people and they never cared about it. Porn creates demand. Porn has created the demand for anal and the desire to choke…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 02:50 PM
2

Where is the gay male porn of beating the fuck out a man? Where's the subs about male dead eyes, or making him have painal? For some reason male gay porn is nicer to men than straight male porn is to women. Many men admit they like anal only because it hurts women. At least when gays guys have sex they both can enjoy it. If men really like that shit then gay male porn would be just as abusive as straight porn. We'd see gay male pornstars writing books about the abuse they go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 02:38 PM
1

What about China and India? They purposely kill children because of their customs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 02:35 PM
-2

All the porn subs are full of hate. Porn is misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 02:30 PM
68

They have so many trashy shirts referring to their dick or something like needing to bang and just generally derogatory and misogynistic. Boomer humor redneck crap but that is ok for some reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:12 AM
10

I feel like they do that until they get tired. Even Hugh Hefner wanted to be married, George Clooney got married. When the age of adult diapers looms, men want an unpaid nanny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 10:43 AM
11

I remember on a thread a man was complaining about women's dv shelters and how come men don't have dv shelters too and somebody pulled up an article about a men's shelter and how it had to close since there wasn't enough demand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 01:21 PM
4

Porn has changed men greatly and women need to understand this. The way guys have sex now and what they demand is much different from how it was 15yrs ago. It is not simply about women not communicating with men enough, many will push boundaries and ignore consent and they think that's okay because the porn explicitly shows the actors ignoring the actresses pain and discomfort. They literally use porn as a sex guide and they believe that that is how it is supposed to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 01:13 PM
6

They do it because porn has conditioned them to do that. There's even subs on reddit devoted to the tears and gagging. It's sickening that this is being normalized, hurting women is being normalized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 01:05 PM
11

He was imagining his favorite porn and you weren't even there to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:56 PM
2

And now blowjobs aren't enough, anal and choking are demanded. And it will continue to escalate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:55 PM
5

Some can taste good but it's rare. Usually the guys whose skin smells very good to me and they eat clean and have healthy habits. Sad it's so rare, to find a man with natural chemistry and takes good care of himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:49 PM
3

That the whole reason why they want anal now too. They know it's painful but they want to have control over women so badly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:45 PM
3

They think women want men with stability because of 'selfishness' but women want somebody they can raise a family with or have a good life with. Men barely ever consider what a child's living conditions would be like with them as a father, or they delude themselves that they will magically get better when they do have a child. It's like thinking that a relationship will get magically better with marriage too. There is no timing of deciding to show up, they either want to or they won't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:35 PM
1

He views you as a child and always will
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:21 PM
4

They only make weddings like that so the husband (and family and friends) can hold it over the bride's head for the rest of her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:14 PM
5

I feel so very sad for teenage girls in this decade. Most of the people in my class didn't have Internet until mid 2000's, nobody was pornsick yet but it was just beginning. I'm sorry you've had to deal with all that but I'm proud of you for speaking up. I hope all women start speaking up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 10:41 AM
4

I'm 31 and plenty of young dudes want to date me. You shouldn't worry about it. I also have no interest in dating old men. They are expecting you to change their diapers when the time comes. I want a man who keeps himself up physically and respects me, older men are unlikely to be this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 10:30 AM
2

I've had several men tell me that when they are really into a woman emotionally they have less desire to have sex with her and in my personal life this has also been true. The men who didn't push for sex right away treated me much better and respected me, they wanted to do things right. It's sad though that men just can't seem to inherently respect women because they are people though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 09:52 AM
2

Men only bring up how the patriarchy hurts them when women talk about feminism and instead of creating their own movement to deal with that, they want the feminist movement to take care of it. The movements they do create are focused on how to batter women into sex and subservience again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 09:38 AM
4

They think how somebody's body looks can tell how much sex somebody has. They literally think very unscientific things about the female body and do not care if they are wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 09:14 AM
3

12 is not young enough, it's much earlier. More like age 8 now. 12 was average in the mid 2000's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 09:00 AM
24

Agegap and complaining about how a teacher dresses, uses mother as scapegoat, doesn't expect girlfriend to be decent person enough to apologize to someone, mad at fallout of being caught.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 05:13 AM
1

They seem pretty useless too when they all belong to people living in apartments.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:45 AM
2

Parking spots are so little though and like I said the people driving get lazy, because they feel so secure. I'm actually a better driver now, because with my car I'm very aware that a crash could crush my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 04:18 PM
2

Which I also hate. I love my zippy little convertible and the trucks and SUVS lull people into lazy dangerous driving. I do whatever I can to not be near these vehicles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 04:04 PM
2

Almost everybody has trucks now, car manufacturers are focusing on trucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 01:41 PM
9

Most of the dudes were thinner back in the day, possibly when they met. They just drink too much beer and with getting older it caught up to them. Women don't typically break up with a dude just cuz he got fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 01:40 PM
12

When it's something good 'men created society' When it's something bad 'women are at fault too!'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 12:39 AM
1

So yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 09:37 PM
49

Worked in several mostly male factories and most of the men do not consider their wife/gf their friend. Some do and are genuinely in love and proud of her, but the majority aren't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:46 AM
1

I'm 31. I feel like the men near my age look more 40. They drink and smoke too much and go fishing and have lots of sun damage, pot bellies, and are balding. I know balding is genetic but I believe that poor diet is also a big factor, very rare to see a healthy looking man and him be bald at 30. I wish they would make more effort in taking care of themselves. I am attracted to men who take care of themselves because if I have a relationship with a healthy looking man I expect him to live a long …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:20 PM
1

I'm so glad you take care of your skin! I wish guys my age did but when I was in college it was still taboo for them. Now all the dudes look old if they didn't take good care of themselves. I see more men on reddit taking an interest in skincare now and it makes me happy because I want all people to be healthy and taking care of themselves and skin is just as important as healthy teeth and healthy muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:06 PM
1

It's a meme, his jaw is overly square and his cheeks are hollow. It's an extreme look. While with the examples I gave those guys look young and youthful but still handsome. Having too thin of a face is aging. You should look up Handsome Squidward :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 10:50 PM
1

Don't be a handsome squidward. That look creeps me out. Or like those guys who photoshop or use fillers for a weird jawline.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 10:45 PM
1

Nobody blames people who are stabbed for being stabbed. We don't ostracize victims of stabbings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 10:41 PM
1

Who do I find attractive? Enrique Iglesias early 2000's and Brad Pitt in Fight Club, I don't usually like white guys but he looked very good in that movie and was styled well. Oh and Apolo Ohno. That kinda look. I like dudes with medium skintones and cute faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 10:32 PM
1

Were the men raped by their bosses?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 10:17 PM
1

I do not know, all I know is Cavill is horrendously ugly to me, he offends my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 10:10 PM
1

Yeah they compared you to an ugly celeb but at least they didn't say Jack Black right. Maybe your grandma only mentioned Cavill so you wouldn't think she was hitting on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 10:07 PM
1

He is ugly anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 10:03 PM
1

Well they shouldn't be attracted to their relatives anyway so yeah, looks don't matter to THEM. Relatives and friends are never going to be honest, they're trying to be reassuring. As a general rule, only strangers on the net will tell you you're ugly. Or if you are hassling someone, then they might get fed up and say it to your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 09:32 PM
14

My dad wasn't abusive but when we went to him it was mostly us hanging out with his girlfriend's kids and them not being present. He just really didn't want to be with us all that much and visitations quickly dropped off. Some kids are lucky and they do have dads that don't resent them. I know a guy who got a divorce and he fought very hard to get full custody of his kids, the mom had accused him of abuse and put a restraining order on him but he was at work the day she claims it happened and be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:34 PM
25

Watch the Gabriel Fernandez documentary and you will see how hard it is to get CPS's attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:24 PM
5

More like 8yr olds now. First exposure keeps getting younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:38 PM
6

It is definitely porn use that has happened to men. And male forums where they started talking together and decided that dating was too hard and why try to look good or make any effort to be a decent person. Girls should love men just because they exist. Who wouldn't want to watch them get stoned and game all day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:33 PM
1

Aww that's sad to hear :(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 12:46 PM
3

She's trying to take my slaves! I mean farmhands, I mean sons dagnabbit!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 12:38 PM
1

Some people live for the job and families are just an accessory.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 12:24 PM
1

Is that why wages were low?! Damn children, mucking up the workforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 12:16 PM
1

It used to be free to pop one out, now the hospital bills you and the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 12:14 PM
1

Is that more because they are not interested in the child or more because they have a demanding job? Most people would like to stay home with their families, no matter their class or education. Employers do not care about families though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 12:12 PM
10

India and China are wrecking havoc on their neighboring borders because of all bridesnatching.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 11:59 AM
2

GENERATIONAL TRAUMA
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 11:57 AM
5

It's so great that children are still being beat simply because their parents were beat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 11:56 AM
14

The unmarried women will also take good care of their parents, if they keep on good terms with their parents. Plenty of 50yr olds taking care of their moms and dad's
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 11:29 AM
1

If they are good looking and still do poorly then it's usually because they have low iq/ low eq, poor manners, are lazy, cruel or unkempt. Elliot Rodgers was actually pretty handsome but his attitude was disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 05:05 PM
2

They are repulsed because of behaviour. Nobody wants to marry a rude and unhygienic person, or they marry because they either have such broken self esteem from terrible parents they feel they cannot do better or the rude unhygienic person has a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 10:44 AM
0

They would still bang the men that give them attention, since the main guy cannot give and will not give each wife the attention they need. It's like siblings, everyone knows which one is their parent's favorite, kids definitely know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 10:12 AM
2

Some people do find true love but it is very rare, at least as rare as becoming super rich, if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 10:08 AM
1

I don't think cheating happens when people get to pair with the best possible match(in all qualities) for them, that's what 'true love' refers to. But most people do not get to pair with their best possible match.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 10:05 AM
1

It would result in more beautiful men that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 07:59 AM
3

This could all be solved if genetically inferior people were allowed to die like they always have before. Do we really have to save every single bit of genetic material?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 07:58 AM
7

I think porn definitely shapes men's fetishes. You can't develop a fetish without exposure first and they always need to escalate. It's kinda like how in some cultures practicing beastiality or having a sexual relationship with teen boys were normalized and common. Women were seen as dirty and for procreation only. I think men's sexuality means they can get aroused by anything and they reinforce it with repeated exposure. I think there are real lgbt that are born that way but they seem to be mor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:44 PM
23

It doesn't help that they actively try to thwart your self care either. They always complain about makeup or going to the gym or not eating when they want to. Any efforts you make to try to be healthy they trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:16 PM
139

100% designed as by a man and 100% not meant for a woman's comfort or pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:52 PM
1

I wish most people would die out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 07:25 PM
0

They're attracted to having access to the power. Like Melania isn't in love with Trump. Some people are willing to do that just to be rich. Some people are attracted to abusers cause it feels familiar. Some people are easily lead along and can be sold anything, cult leaders are salesmen and they dupe the stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 12:06 PM
1

Self respecting people don't allow abuse, broken people do. Sadly most people were abused and neglected by their parents so abuse feels normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 11:49 AM
2

I hate that world rewards shitty people. We've killed off every danger in the land except other dangerous men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 11:38 AM
2

You can't be emotionally available to people right away. Do you like when people spill their guts to you all at once? No it's weird and too much. Slow reveals are much better. Also people are willing to put up with more the more attractive a person is so now that you're fit people put up with you being an asshole. Being a fat asshole though? Nobody likes fat assholes. People will also put up with more shit if the person has authority and money as well which is why all uppermanagement and politic…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:39 AM
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Also she didn't Google him or scope him out? Gtfoh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:39 PM
2

He still doesn't look pregnant or like he has a hernia though. Again the fat doesn't look like it's between his organs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 11:41 PM
1

So a beer belly means a man is strong? Gtfo it's very clear when it's a beer belly vs what a heavy weightlifter has. Heavy weightlifters bellies are still flat vs a pregnant looking curve due to fat dispersed between the organs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 09:24 PM
3

There are tons of fat men and they are very visible
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 09:05 PM
3

It is very weird seeing lots of guys with toned arms and legs and then a pregnant ass belly at the gym. Can't give up the beer!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 09:01 PM
2

You could stay in bed all day, but isn't that boring and boring lets you think about eating. Staying occupied (like with exercising or doing things) takes your attention off food.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 08:55 PM
2

You have a partner, be happy. All problems solved. Jk but that is how people make it seem on here. You just have to do what you feel will make you whole and that is very hard work, hard to identify and hard to follow through. I realized that whether I was fat or thin or single or coupled ultimately I still felt the same, so now I'm trying to do things that make me feel good and accomplished and just working towards my ideal self.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:46 AM
1

There's always room for improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:35 AM
0

I really don't believe that's true, that most of their options are good options. But this sub only cares about looks the most and so to them even a good looking person with a crap personality is a great option to them and then they wonder why divorce rate is so high. When I'm doing the best of my best and absolutely killing it at life in all areas, I have tons of options too but the bulk of it is still average to underwhelming and then a increase in good looking but still crappy personalities or…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:32 AM
1

Or a person can cycle through states? Like I'm a homebody half the time and and adventurer the rest, it's good because the homebody period allows me to save up for things and take care of things a little bit. I don't want to be with a man who wants to watch football and drink beer every single day. We can do that some of the time but not all of the time. Or a man who wants to be out all the time, that's exhausting. Before work beat all the creativity out of us, most people are good at being stab…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:22 AM
1

Having a lot of options seems great at first but then you realize most of the options are crap. The dating landscape is like shopping at Walmart, everything is cheap and flimsy. Why put lots of effort into something when most people aren't that deep? I don't blame rarer types for not putting much effort into something that will never bear fruit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:07 AM
3

I mean people enjoy people who make them feel good and can relate to them. Emotions do matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:06 PM
1

Why is that man rare though? Shouldn't men work to make that the norm? To be the best person possible should be the norm for all people. Women and men alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:03 PM
2

When the sex dries up men aren't happy in their 'good' relationship. I've had good relationships where everything was great but I wasn't attracted to them and they obviously noticed. It's not good to have to be drunk to sleep with someone even if everything else about them is very nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 09:45 PM
2

In the US everything is a product
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 06:34 AM
1

About the same as Hispanic men and white men. Most people are not that big.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 06:06 AM
5

Asian American men are very hot and they are also usually very clean and dress nicely and age nicely too. They aren't afraid to look nice or take care of their skin and their body, Asian cuisine usually is pretty healthy too. Most are slim as well, seem pretty family oriented. Into cutting edge technology and new things, willing to take on challenging career paths and are ambitious. Most of my experiences with men of Asian descent have been very favorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 06:04 AM
6

Most people are not having kids with much older people. It's still the norm to have kids with people your own age. I see this all over my state, it's poor rural and our education system is lacking and religion has a deep hold, but all the young women with babies had them with their high school sweethearts and then he left a year or two later. It's overwhelmingly this story. It's not, I met some 30yr old dude (from where? How?) And he was such a stud I needed his baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 11:21 AM
3

I mean you should know and leave when you aren't being treated correctly. All people should do that but many are weak and too lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 10:57 AM
3

They're having kids with their age group? Shock and horror. To be fair, if better sex education was pushed instead of religious bull crap most of those kids would be gone. I live in a small religious town and everybody was in such a hurry to start families right after high school just to escape their parents and then it blew up in their faces a few years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 10:49 AM
1

Most teens don't have kids or bills to pay so of course they're going to spend more and more on the fun things. I would still spend lots of money on video games and makeup and clothes if I didn't have to pay rent or buy groceries. Most people have to budget when they become adults because not everybody is affluent. At least in my area, men here like to buy big fancy trucks and sweet gaming setups even though they eat Ramen and rent a small apartment. Those are wealth signifiers here. I miss when…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 09:07 AM
1

We aren't raised very well either. It benefits the economy to have lazy stupid fat people buying shit constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 07:55 AM
2

It's working that sucks all the life out of people. Doing the same exact thing every single day kills creativity. Unless you have a job specifically for being creative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 04:59 AM
3

Most people can remain attractive if they put the effort into it but our culture largely inhibits it, forcing us to work long hours and putting sugar and plastics into everything. I also said most of the guys in high school were attractive too, most kids in the US get to attend high school so your theory falls apart there. As we can see from celebrities, you don't have to disintegrate into dogshit by age 30 if you actually have good dietary and exercise habits. Even without beauty enhancements, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 03:14 PM
1

Well your friends seem smarter than most. Good!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 01:28 PM
0

You know you would
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 01:25 PM
1

Almost all of the people I know were born unplanned and then went on to have unplanned kids and are only with their partner because of said kids. Very few people got married before getting pregnant or had their kid after 4yrs of being together. It might just be the area I live in, it's a very poor rural uneducated populace. The more educated and wealthy people are the more likely they are to have a stable relationship and planned kids. First children in this area are usually unplanned, other kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 01:20 PM
1

You seem like the guy who would post that pic of the country girl and the wet ear of corn. Your taste is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 01:16 PM
3

In that pic he almost looks like Keanu, same coloring, but with a little Michael Cera thrown in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 01:15 PM
7

Yeah you have the appearance of trying to make something out of yourself. Women would much rather have a grad student rather than a cashier who smokes weed and games in his free time and plans to do nothing else. Edit: all of your memes are very low tier and crass. How did you get in to grad school? Seem very boomerish.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 01:04 PM
6

He's attractive like Adrien Brody is attractive, if they had a beer belly they wouldn't be attractive. Still tall and thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 01:01 PM
1

Everybody should try to be fit and healthy, even though our current society is set up to make us as unhealthy as possible. It'd be much better for people to instill good healthy eating and fitness habits into their children, so that they are likely to grow into healthy and responsible adults. Mouth breathing, thumbsucking, poor posture, all of these cause the child to develop abnormally and ruins their future attractiveness. Parents need to do better and educate themselves on nutrition and child…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 12:58 PM
3

Men's personality detector fails when they see beauty too. People want to like attractive people and they want to fuck attractive people. It's not that hard. The attractive people don't have to post angry rants because they get what they want most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 12:50 PM
20

When I was in college and high school there were plenty of young attractive men. Almost all men can be fairly attractive if they stay clean and fit, and the nice thing about being in school was that it also made the men seem active and ambitious. So everybody had pretty good social standing as well. It's that when men are no longer in school they get lazy and don't keep up their appearance or with ambitious activities. I understand it's hard, work grinds people down and then all you want to do i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 12:38 PM
1

Women like video games, they just feel bad for playing them rather than doing something seen as more productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 08:42 AM
1

I mean how are videogames gonna help you raise kids? It's a no brainer. Why does somebody deserve a family if they just want to ignore them all day?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 08:39 AM
1

How can they treat a ONS better? It's literally be drunk at the bar, make out, go bang and that's it. Sometimes afterwards the dude will be like 'Can I have your number' and I tell them no. Because they were bad in bed or they smelled like b.o.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 01:08 AM
1

I don't think porn benefits people in any way, it literally damages the brain and reduces empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:37 PM
1

Most porn is not produced in safe ways. But if you enjoy watching people be abused and coerced on camera then so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:24 PM
1

You let him watch porn. He shouldn't need it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 08:54 PM
3

The US is still meddling in shit, won't leave South America alone cuz what would we do without cheap chocolate? Gotta make Nestlé happy!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 03:10 PM
3

The US constantly starts wars and also has the largest prison population and many of those people are petty crimes like smoking weed. Always lying about things to start wars and any country who tries to better themselves they either try to coup or they bomb. Also protect rich pedos.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 02:41 PM
1

Well sadly yes, people do not matter to rich men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 02:39 PM
11

He made it sound like he was grateful she wasn't angry or crazy because of it. Not some manhating bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:13 PM
47

Definitely. That's how men describe things. I don't think about dicks like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 11:37 AM
1

Oh hello!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 08:14 AM
1

Older people are laughing at stay at home dads. Younger folks not so much, stay at home dads are like the ultimate dads because they're spending the most time with their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 06:40 AM
2

All it did was hasten things. So what's the difference? Capitalism is just kicking the can down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 06:38 AM
2

There's always more ways to make those dangerous jobs less taxing or dangerous though, but improving things don't make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 06:36 AM
1

Work doesn't need to be long or grueling, the system needs to change. It doesn't matter who's doing the work, most companies are run horribly inefficiently and it's more about keeping people in their place and keeping them tired. If the populace was happy and healthy then governments would be overthrown.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 06:31 AM
7

If everybody had a happy marriage that allowed this, well then this sub wouldn't be here. Not every man is rich enough or good hearted enough though. Most people are in unhappy relationships and marriages. I'm glad that you are so lucky. What really should be the focus of society is improving working conditions, work is unnecessarily grueling. The hours are unnecessarily long and everybody gets burned out no matter what they are doing, physical work or not, and managers are incredibly mean to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 06:26 AM
3

Younger people just have less life experience and haven't been beaten down by work yet. It's our working culture that ruins people, yet most people don't want to admit that. Older men are just as full of baggage as older women, it is nice to date someone who hasn't spent years being screamed at by their boss, they still have hope and optimism. Which is why people with good paying flexible jobs are still fun and active into old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 11:00 PM
1

You may find that as you grow older or if you find the right person you may soften in that regard. I'm 31 and a lot of things have changed since I was in my early 20's. The human brain is still developing until around age 25. I definitely do feel like I became more of a person around that time, it's very weird. Like until then I wasn't really concerned about other people either. Now I am not concerned about most people but I am concerned about the ones who I'm able to connect with mentally and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:59 AM
1

As long as you do a good job and don't swindle people then why not go in to healthcare? Especially being a surgeon, that's not so much facetime with patients.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:18 AM
2

I'm 31. I've seen a definite difference in men and the change has come mostly from Internet porn and dating apps being widespread. Most men believe that pornified sex is the way to go, before when I was in college nobody was demanding anal or choking or wanting bdsm. Now it is expected, they want nudes all the time, they are very crude and only want to Netflix and chill. I would say the change became very marked and noticeable around 2015. I think people our age are the last to have not been rai…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:48 AM
3

I'm from a small town and most people tried to avoid sleeping with people their friends knew (out of respect for their friends). If a person is sleeping with somebody their friend or coworker was with, that is seen as an aggressive and competitive move. It's not preselection in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:27 AM
1

Dude that's just being self actualized and being a developed person. It's not being selfish. My ex, he was a good man and our relationship was good because he was a fully developed person, his success or happiness didn't hinge on me. He got a degree in mechanical engineering and did ham radio and worked on sub orbital rockets, so pretty put together. It's nice to be with someone who doesn't need to be badgered into self improvement, he just did it because he wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:23 AM
1

I think enriching your mind is a much better way to spend your time anyway. Having sex is like doing drugs, it's fun but it doesn't really make you more 'woke' than everybody else. Maybe someday he will want a serious relationship, but most likely if all the sex he has is just selfish then he won't be able to loving or intimate sex very well and that kind matters most in a partnership. I will tell you in my experience the best men in bed were the low n count attentive ones who cared about both o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 11:10 PM
0

Well either he is very well spoken or he just asks a ton of people until somebody goes with him. That's why I said pretty much every man could bang 5 women a week if they really wanted to. It just takes the effort and also not really caring about the quality. Because there are some women who do just want to get laid on that particular night. So they're scrolling through tinder or hanging out at the bars or parties too. So you don't know if he was just asking every girl in the room and then found…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 10:50 PM
3

My point was that the people who do that have low character and are crass. The majority of people in this world have low character though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 10:42 PM
1

He just knows where to look I guess. I know a guy from my high school who banged everybody in the town, over 300 people. But he wasn't discerning at all and was very handsome and confident but he just wanted to rack up numbers. I don't think having a mixed bag of 300 people, some very ugly and obese and some very attractive is that great. His number would have been way less if they were all just attractive people. Any guy could bang 5 people in a week if they really wanted, just most options wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 10:12 PM
0

I think the passing nudes is the invasive part. Women will talk about men with their friends but they're not passing around nudes of their husbands or serious boyfriends. Women tend to keep their serious relationships more private. You should not be sharing nudes of people you are serious with out of respect for the other person. Edit: I see it is convos you're sharing but still that is weird. Why would you want to see somebody's sexting?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:50 PM
1

I'm just saying that I wouldn't listen to what a cheater says and you have to suss out their character from observation. A person could be the smoothest talker but their actions will betray them. Plenty of bad crappy people have passed the background checks and get employed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:46 PM
3

Nah. Me and my first boyfriend were each other's first for everything and it was very nice because he wasn't sex obsessed (or didn't show any signs of it) and our relationship was solidly secure, it wasn't about our bodies and we were able to progress sexually in a slow mature and loving way. Once a dude has sex though, that is his main focus and everything else about a relationship goes to the wayside. I was very lucky that my first few relationships were with genuine low n-counts people, after…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:09 PM
4

It's either they got curious or they are competitive with the person in question. Like he fucked Karen? I'm gonna show him that I'm better than Karen, suck it Karen. I know you don't care why you get laid but that is a common reason, people get weirdly competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:02 PM
2

Lol most cheaters lie about their cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 08:58 PM
3

I work in a factory with mostly men and some of the younger guys will pass nudes around. Most of the more honest and kinder men say that's gross and think it is an invasion of the girl's privacy, curiosity still makes them look but they're not asking these guys to show them nudes, their day is not made better having seen them and it's really a more gross out factor. The same dudes passing around the nudes are also showing pics of themselves pooping or showing pics of gore. Nobody thinks of these…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 08:55 PM
2

That's just mate guarding instinct. There have been studies shown that when people think other people might try to take away their mate, they make more sexual advances towards their mate. It's to distract you from other potential partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 08:45 PM
1

It seems like low intellect behaviour honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 08:42 PM
3

Didn't he miss the memo where's he's supposed to deny there's a patriarchy? How are people supposed to believe it's a feminist boogeymen if they don't keep their story straight?! Bruh moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 10:56 AM
47

We need a campaign aimed at men, like Smokey the Bear saying 'Only you can prevent unwanted pregnancies!' Because men have full control over their sperm. They can control where it goes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:28 AM
253

Men act like they have no control over their semen or where it goes. They always say women should close their legs but they don't seem to be able to control their dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:25 AM
59

They can't even handle condoms though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:20 AM
1

Tons of people want hot female convicts too. It literally means nothing. Trailer parks are full of trashy people and they meet and fuck and have kids and do crime. So unless you're after those trashy women they literally do not matter because they aren't what you are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 04:45 AM
1

You're assuming that convicts are attracting good women. If they're low quality women then who cares. Unless you're only viewing quality by hotness, so simping over the attractive women. Sad that the convicts get a hot but trashy woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 04:36 AM
44

I believe this is true. I can definitely tell you that men of all ages are different now in a worse way. When I was in high school in the mid 2000's most guys were not obsessed with Internet porn. It is sad that the guys I met as a teen and in my early 20's are way more respectful than any guy I meet now. So they literally devolved instead of growing up. When I was a teen, nudes were not expected, anal wasn't expected, choking wasn't expected, guys didn't fret over taking someone to the movies o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:28 PM
2

Most of those women are probably low self esteem obese goth girls and that is something that you're ignoring. We live in the age of ironic edginess and what's edgier than pretending to be in love with a serial killer? Even if they somehow magically start dating that dude, guess what? Cheating will be rampant because he's in jail and can't do shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 02:12 PM
1

Almost all people experimenting in their twenties move on to better things and grow up, or they get rich enough that it doesn't matter. Plenty of rich successful men still using cocaine while being doctors and engineers. Almost all the smart kids in my college were still partying and using drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 01:38 PM
1

Not if they want kids. Some people do eventually grow up and want to have stable lives. It's just that early twenties most do not want that and unfortunately that's the only time men find women valuable so good luck older men trying to get a younger woman to be boring and stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 12:55 PM
1

I'm so happy for you! That's awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 12:22 AM
1

Who is holding men's sperm hostage?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 06:08 PM
1

Is any father around preferable to no father around? I was raised by a single mother and it wasn't all roses but at least I didn't have to deal with daily fights or screaming or a drunk angry man, we always had enough money to put food on the table and the electricity was on and we had clothes and a comfy bed. My mom told me about as much as she loved her father, they were poor mostly because of his drinking habit. That's terribly sad. My friend is married to an alcoholic and he has beaten both …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 06:02 PM
1

The tricky part is finding a reliable person. You seem to have gotten lucky and that's awesome for you. But many women that I have known, were cheated on during or right after their pregnancy, married or single, it happens an incredible amount. When I was young, whenever a man's partner was pregnant, that also seemed to be when the flirty banter picked up. It made me terribly uncomfortable. Same scenario happened at three different workplaces, with many different men, not just towards me but als…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 05:48 PM
1

There are plenty of cues into what a person might be like. If a person is shouting at an animal or rude to waitstaff, then it's pretty likely they have a shit personality and are rude to those that they feel are beneath them. I don't need to hang out with them five months to see that. Reading facial expressions and body language is also good insight. Yes most people do learn those things from personal experience but you can also learn it through the research of others. It's not crap if police an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 05:34 PM
3

Skill matters. Most hot men don't have any skill either cause all they bring is looks to the table. A hot man can be just as bad in bed as a homely man. Just like how most hot people seem to have an underdeveloped personality. But if every woman was guaranteed an orgasm from casual sex then I feel that far less people would feel jipped or used from it. We live in a world where most men learn about sex from porn and then copy it. Porn doesn't teach men how to pleasure women at all. And when women…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 05:23 PM
1

The standards are the same as what makes a good father is. Most people do not suddenly change when they have a baby, a few might, but the majority of people do not become suddenly industrious and attentive when a baby comes. It isn't smart to take a chance on a man and hope that when the baby comes he shapes up. Most people of either gender do not deserve to become parents just because having a baby will not magically reform them. It has to already be there in their character, they shouldn't be …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 05:15 PM
2

You've never met anybody who initially charmed you but then turned out to be a toxic person? People still need guidance on how to filter those types of people out as well. Fool's gold and all that. There's tons of stories of men being taken advantage of by pretty faces and velvet voices on reddit, don't you think those people want help filtering that out as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 05:08 PM
4

Yeah people should just live with abuse and mistreatment. Suck it up and take the beatings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 05:00 PM
-1

That most likely sounds like a joke and is obviously parroting things that certain mens subs have been saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 04:58 PM
2

Seriously? A high activity sweaty day and I'm not going to rewear those clothes. A low activity day with low sweating, then yes. Even the guy at work in a low activity position, he smells more as the day goes on. Most of the men do get smellier as the day goes on. They come to work freshly showered and with deodorant and cologne but at the end of the day you can smell their sweat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 08:02 PM
1

Not enough time to air out. Most people do not want to stink.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 07:47 PM
0

I don't think masturbation in itself is harmful. It's the porn that accompanies it. Literally shown to decrease brain matter and empathy. But there are no studies on men just wanking it out using their imaginations. I would think that that would improve creativity and boost brain activity. But no man wants to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 07:45 PM
3

Would you be satisfied in a place that wasn't built well? Like no right corners where the walls meet, floors unlevel, random toilet in the kitchen? Planning and design do matter and they do matter to most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 07:38 PM
1

Animal heads are cool but even then they have to be well done. Nobody wants bad taxidermy. So yes, even in that area, I think most men would want quality. Your kill is gonna be spoiled if the mount has wonky eyes. Point to the wall, yep there's my retarded bobcat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 07:34 PM
2

There are two types of gamers: the one whose setup is like the one above and all their money goes to weed and beer and there's the one who takes the time to make his gaming spot comfortable and customized and he buys everything to support his hobby. The second guy is going to get more respect and is investing in himself. Women want men who invest in themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 07:27 PM
4

This is why we need to tell teenagers about their rights too, so they can try to emancipate themselves or live with the parent of their choosing. But just like everything else, people are kept in the dark so they are easier for governments to control.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 02:16 PM
10

Most of them aren't ready to change or even considered that changing is a possibility. I don't think people are overly hostile here, usually when they do a pickme post it's a good example of what not to do. I don't really see too much bashing and lots of other commenters do try to shut that do and reiterate that putting women down is not fds behaviour. I have seen that lots of times in the comments, trying to correct people because you really can't be superior over others, just the best version …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:32 AM
9

Can I ask you a question? How many repeated unwanted messages have you gotten from women? And how many have you gotten from men? Have you ever had a man message you repeatedly on fb or through text with no response from you? And they just space it out like every few weeks. That's pretty common behaviour among men that are interested in you, now what do you think the behavior of a troll or harasser is like. Women are not doing that en masse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:20 AM
17

The pickmes throw us all under the bus though. It's the same with self hating POC who champion white supremacy. I do feel bad for them, but I am not going to let them step on me either. It's that whole 'where's the tolerant left now?' cop-out when somebody stands up against Nazis. I feel sorry that these people are broken and I hope they heal but I will not tolerate their behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:06 AM
3

Can't help those who don't want it sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:22 AM
11

She needs to find some self esteem. That should have been a huge wakeup to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:02 PM
1

Porn literally lowers empathy and decreases grey matter in the brain. I find that scary enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 06:49 AM
2

No they watch the normal stuff till they get bored and then watch the weird stuff for a laugh, but then they soon get attracted to that, and then eventually that becomes stale and they look for harder and harder stuff. Porn definitely shapes the tastes in men. Porn is what made the preference for shaved bush and it lead to blowjob being demanded, nudes being demanded, and now anal and choking. Soon bdsm will be demanded and we are on our way to normalizing pedophilia. Men are back to wanting to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 06:34 AM
2

Most men are not good partners. You are being overly generous. I would love it if good caring partners were the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 03:12 AM
1

Most people don't have as much control over themselves as they think. The boys I had to deal with during my teens, they were lucky to watch some blurry porn on cable or get their hands on a nude mag. There were no demands for choking or anal (anal was laughed about and seen as something only for gays) and nobody had kinks because they were still thoroughly kids. I have no envy of teens today who are expected to be porn stars right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 03:06 AM
-1

When I was in high school internet porn was very new and nobody was trying to imitate it. Now teen boys are so addicted, they already want to choke people and demand anal and they think that sex is like porn. Cases of child on child rape is going up because young boys are exposed to it so early now and cases of teens having erectile dysfunction are also going up. It really does seem like all that men care about is masturbation and sex if they can get it and video games. I'm sure guys masturbated…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 12:05 AM
-1

I dunno, all the boys I met in high school and college were civil and not addicted to porn and now that's not the case. It's sad that porn has ruined young men now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 11:56 PM
0

The practice should have been during school, that's when you learn to treat girls and women like people and you have plenty of exposure to them. I really don't understand why most guys act like they were segregated all their lives and only met women in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 11:12 PM
1

Oh good!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 12:35 PM
1

Are you living with that partner too? Who gets to keep it if you broke up?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 11:54 AM
3

What if she married a guy who did insider trading? Same outcome right? Except the guy gets house arrest and just a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 08:20 AM
34

Whoever made this wasn't being honest. It is most men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:46 AM
1

I just want to remind people that there are plenty of good hardworking people that are poor. It is not a matter of how hard someone works or how smart they are, they can still be poor if the opportunities aren't available to them and capitalism will not work without a large poor workforce to draw from. The bulk of jobs available are low paying service industry jobs. That would be the same even if everybody had prestigious degrees. Very few people have upward mobility, especially after the 70's. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 03:06 PM
1

Not everyone can be middle class. There is the global south and there is also the large working class. The middle class is shrinking and many Americans falsely believe they are middle class but they're not. It doesn't matter if people have payments on fancy houses and cars, being in debt is not a good thing. Degrees and college education are also being cheapened. You pay more for college now and get way less out of it and somebody from India will be more educated and willing to work cheaper anyw…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 02:50 PM
2

The reality of the world is that the system cannot be full of millionaires and billionaires and even the saying goes that smart men work for rich men. Being smart is not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 02:29 PM
11

Soft focus lens, looking at the world with shit brown glasses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:32 AM
27

They used to never ask for it until Internet porn came along. I think between 2008-2015 it was seen as a huge joke. Nobody asked me for it in college and online people were making jokes about how gross it was. They were also making jokes about choking and ddlg. And now all of that is popularized and expected. In ten years those things have gone from being derided to demanded. It's terribly sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:54 AM
4

Are those former fuckbois going after women their age? Are they the ones being alpha widowed? Like they're sad they can't get stacies anymore? Why didn't they commit when they had the chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 02:30 AM
2

Average guys are fat or skinnyfat with a beer belly. There are very few men with attractive bodies past their college days. Beer bellies are the most unattractive thing to me, it just says this man has a likely alcohol problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 02:25 AM
1

People are very sensitive about stuff like that, especially now. They really don't want to hear about other's wins, misery loves company. If I tell people about my accomplishments they do stop talking to me. Even the guys at work, they'll talk motorcycles I guess, but later on they're bitching about how it must be nice to afford that bike and that equipment and how that other guy has no clue on what it's like to be poor. So at work there's a lot of frenemies and jealousy and it's all dudes who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 01:58 AM
1

She's saying 'move to Europe you commie!'
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 01:48 AM
1

Even rich well off people don't have tons of children any more, raising tons of babies just is very exhausting and not fun. The baby stage sucks. I don't think it's about overpopulation at all. If work wasn't so demanding and people had plenty of family and friends to help raise the kids then maybe they'd go back to large families. But a ton of kids for two people and no support staff is very hard and draining.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 01:38 PM
1

I honestly don't know. There will be some portion of men who won't stick to the dolls though. I think that's the argument. Like the idea of not giving pedophiles children sex dolls, because enough of them will not be satisfied with the doll and will go rape children anyway. Sex dolls will not keep men from raping.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 01:32 PM
1

I would love it if sex scenes and romantic subplots were removed. Like if I want to watch a superhero movie, I just want to watch a superhero movie. I don't need to see them fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 01:04 PM
2

If people would take good care of themselves then aging wouldn't be so bad. A lot can be avoided if people maintained their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 12:46 PM
3

If men became like women, humans would become more perfect over time and better DNA. Like swans, swans are beautiful, I don't think they are riddled with disease either. Yet humans have lots of disease, because they fuck animals and inanimate objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 12:41 PM
2

Yes the gays are very industrious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 12:28 PM
1

It just means the men who do not enjoy or view women as people will self select themselves out of the gene pool
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 12:04 PM
3

Those fancy sex dolls men get? They deteriorate really quickly because the men won't clean and care for them properly. Those housewife robots are gonna be constantly broken and dudes are gonna get inflamed dicks from letting things fester. That's just the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 12:02 PM
6

Intelligent people are already not procreating, they have less kids because kids are that much a pain in the ass to take care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:58 AM
5

The majority of people are not incredible at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:57 AM
2

Most people don't make the cut anyway. It's just for some reason we keep trying to save everyone, save every dummy and every unfortunate genetic mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:55 AM
9

Not with an unclean man. Most resist shower and soap so much, they resist veggies. Don't care about their own health, why would they care for yours?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:11 AM
8

He sounds like an ESL person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:32 PM
20

Because single motherhood is rising, more women are the breadwinners in their household. I've also met tons of women who earn more than their husband, or who are more educated than their husbands. The gap is closing and men are already whining, claiming that education (designed by men for men) favors women more. Yes it favors women more /s , when only fairly recently in human history women were able to pursue an education at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:27 PM
41

Their cum is full of yeasts and bacteria and viruses. The reason vaginas are acidic is to try to avoid getting sick from cum. But modern diets weaken the immune system, so it's a constant battle now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:58 PM
4

No. Like I said, both people live there and both should care about the home. When the work is shared, it's barely any work at all. My relationship with my ex was very nice in that respect because I didn't have to treat him like a child and say take out the trash. He just did things on his own and it was just a matter of who noticed it first. It was nice because he was a self motivated person and didn't need to be micromanaged. I believe everyone should try to achieve that. It's very easy to put …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 03:02 AM
1

Society just needs restructuring but that will never happen as long as 80yr old rich men drag their heels. Long working hours are unnecessary and they actually inhibit productivity rather than improving efficiency. The current system is meant to oppress and make everyone too tired to demand better. Men should take care of their homes though because they live there. I have dated men who are perfectly able to take care of their places while also working long hours and I have dated men who are neat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 02:51 AM
2

So if you both work 8hr days then yes both should do housework unless one job is way more physical than the other. I work a very physical factory job, if my partner works a deskjob and we both work 8hrs, he should do housework too. It's only capitalism that says the job that makes more is worth more. Clean toilets are very important for public health yet nobody gives a shit about janitors. That affects people of all classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 01:38 AM
2

Poor people don't exist on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 01:26 AM
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But they say that education is designed for women! Waah! I don't know how you got your degree, must have a womanly brain!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 01:23 AM
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Will keep in memory hole with the other tips thanks. I'm surprised my friend didn't catch that, but I don't know how much she was actually in the shop with her dad or how many tires she changed. Also, she was kinda panicky, we were halfway through the drive, maybe being calmer would have helped. I know that being anxious can make you forget steps or do things out of order.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 01:07 AM
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I think that did happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 12:59 AM
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Not everybody is MacGyver. Even very smart people in one area can be absolutely clueless in another. I will now keep those suggestions in my memory hole for future use but 18yr old me was a very green person. I know my friend was worried about the quality of the tools she did have, afraid they might break. I don't know how many tools were available to us. I think the toolset came in the trunk. The guy who helped us struggled a bit too. He didn't think to use a breaker bar, if one was even availa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 12:53 AM
1

Men reject any new contraceptive methods for them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 12:26 AM
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Men have control of the sperm
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 12:25 AM
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I can't change a tire by myself because the tools to change a tire aren't made for me to use. Tools will need to change so that women are able to use them, tools that account for lack of strength and tiny hands. There is a strength gap that even working out will not close. One time on our way going back to college, my friend had a flat tire. My friend's dad is an auto mechanic so she knew what to do and had the tools. She jacked the car up and we couldn't get the nuts off. I even stood on the to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 12:22 AM
1

Good comment! Why present the worst version of yourself to others? Everyone can become healthier and more put together.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 04:00 PM
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My profile has no references to sex or explicit imagery, I only post my face. It's the same with fb and a normal bio, just a lot of thirst out there and men like making women uncomfortable. It's the same reason they send dick pics. They want to gross women out and get off on the outrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 03:06 PM
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Are you old? Is that why you don't seem to understand. When we live in a world where guys think the waitress is hitting on them, why wouldn't a man assume a woman approaching him is just interested in sex. Most guys want sex first and foremost and maybe they want a girlfriend but only because that is a steady stream of sex. Especially since tinder and the rise of Internet porn, men are much more sex focused now. Haven't you seen all the guys on here? They want sex first too. Approaching a man fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:20 PM
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Maybe it's a class thing or an upbringing thing. Or maybe you're just more self motivated than other people. Most people, of either gender, are sloppy and rudderless. I live in a poorly educated, low wage rural state. Most people are rednecks, I work in a factory and the people are either rednecks or immigrants. I do this job because it is very well paid compared to other jobs in the state, even if you have a good degree you will be paid way below national average for any occupation in this stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:13 PM
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That's cause men get more out of relationships in general. You have someone to teach feed and clothe you, it's like getting a new mom you can bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:38 PM
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It's not that they're expecting 100% success, it's that most guys are gonna say yes to a woman's approach just to get sex. They're gonna agree the majority of the time because of male thirst. Only unless she's unattractive or something is disturbing about her is he gonna say no. So getting the date or getting the fuck means nothing. Unless he's a very shy guy, most dudes are gonna think this girl wants to bone and I'm gonna bone her. They're not thinking about relationship potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:33 PM
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For most people a successful relationship is one that ends in marriage and building a family and home.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:22 PM
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No. I'm not interested choking or anal and those are what guys constantly ask for on dating sites even before meeting. It's all they want and it's a direct influence of Internet porn. Ten years ago most guys were actually interested in going on dates and learning about someone instead of hookup requests. Now it's just a constant flood of lazy begging for sex. There is no reason for me to go on dates or have sex when I know that quality will not be good. Most men take porn as gospel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:20 PM
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I'm celibate and not dating right now. I'm gonna focus on myself for a bit. Would like to get married and have kids but not if it means being a slave and having to deal with constant requests for choking and anal. So I'm just gonna try to enjoy life without, maybe I'll stumble upon someone but it's not likely. The last time I met a compatible man, he was already married so we both had to ignore that. Eventually stopped talking to him (as friends) because it was just kinda awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:08 PM
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No. I'm single. If I were of lower intelligence or like being a subservient bangmaid then I probably would be married. I can get along fine with others when I'm drunk, seems to close that gap for a bit. I'm like the rest of everybody here, on the spectrum. I'd rather not be a woman, I don't like the role women have to play or the reality of men's sexuality. Internet porn has made things so much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:49 PM
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You're not listening. It benefits the government to have easily controllable people who are weighed down by kids. No uprisings if everyone is a stupid wageslave. That's why governments are afraid of DINKs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:38 PM
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Aren't you excited though? Then you can buy a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:31 PM
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The secret is the government needs people to pop out kids. So that's why those laws are passed, so the government and corporations have a large lowskilled low education taxbase/workforce to draw from. The pyramid needs a large base. Single mothers and their children are what fill the brothels and the clothing factories in third world countries and in first world they are the cashiers and waitstaff. Somebody needs to make happy meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:29 PM
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I broke up with every man I dated except for one. Some did offer a ring after the break up as a hail Mary to save things. They didn't want to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:23 PM
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No different. Every religion is convert or die.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:19 PM
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But you didn't marry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:03 PM
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The women who approached you didn't get a ring though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:02 PM
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She was 13 when they got married. Her own family life isn't that great, her parents are immigrants from Mexico and they don't know how to read or write. It's generational poverty and lack of education. Very few people are lucky to have good parents who try to guide them and know how to protect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 03:55 PM
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She works but has 4 kids. He works but is an alcoholic and also he tried to kill her one time and he knocked her up at age 13 while he was age 20. Yes he is shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 03:40 PM
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I don't know why you're worried about Islam. Western men are already wanting to control women like that, by the way they talk, they want sharia. Also it's only one step further from Christianity. Basically Christianity with more rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 03:09 PM
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If a parent has enough money and a supportive extended family then I think single parenting doesn't have as much of an impact. Like say the rich lady who gets a sperm donor but can afford prep school, aftershool activities, a live in nanny and has several siblings and both grandparents alive. That kid could be very well taken care of as long as the mom doesn't have any disorders. But most single parents had kids young or came from backgrounds where good choices were not modeled for them or they …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 01:09 PM
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I think women would be more happier with a looksmatch or below looksmatch if he did share household duties and childrearing at near equal levels. Men should care about their homes and their children more. But if the treatment is gonna be the same from a average dude vs a rich dude vs a hot dude then why not go for the richer or hotter man or go without? There has to be some benefit to the partnership. In my personal experience having a man in my life has always made my life harder. It is like ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:53 PM
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There'd be less of that if only responsible people had kids. It's not necessarily that single parents are bad, it's just less responsible people are more likely to get knocked up unintentionally and also believe that abortion is bad cause jeebus said so, yet they still had premarital sex so they must not really care about jeebus that much, showing they have poor critical thinking skills. Educated responsible people can become great single parents if they choose to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:32 PM
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Your third and fourth paragraph describes a great deal of men too. The majority of Americans aren't able to cook or clean and are fat and entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:19 PM
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Lol people can avoid immigrant enclaves. They absolutely can. Just avoid Lil Arabia.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:13 PM
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I'm telling you, most problems are problems of capitalism. When I don't work and my friends don't work and we get to hang out, my life feels pretty full. But I am always working and then my weekends are recovering from that work and my friends' time is limited because they work and have kids and have shitty husbands. Shitty husbands are way more common than great ones. I don't know anyone from my high school who has a great husband. My friend's shitty husband purposely gets drunk on the days we …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:05 PM
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Most men overestimate as well. The hoards of guys who think drinking craft beer is enough to give them a personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 11:53 AM
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Escorts my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 02:09 AM
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Sound like you're happy then. Good :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 01:28 AM
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Most people don't give a shit about history or learning about other cultures. I will give you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 12:45 AM
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Single and a crappy attitude. Shouldn't you be happier? Nobody to bitch at you but your boss and you're still like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 12:09 AM
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They were raised on tumblr and porn. They're all trying to be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 11:32 PM
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Then don't fuck and swallow your lumps.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 11:31 PM
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Tinder is the place for casual sex and most people are expecting a ONS or fwb from it. I'm surprised you don't know this seeing how I was born in 1989 and I know it. But you are right, gen z is less scared of stranger danger and less likely to use condoms. They just aren't scared cuz the 'not all men!' screeching has been working. That's why we've been having female travelers going to the Middle East and getting killed and raped because 'Not all men!' And they also don't want to be racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 11:21 PM
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You have a lovely attitude. No wonder ladies flock to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 11:14 PM
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Are you sad that blackpill is gone?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 12:11 AM
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The problem is that people actively hate the poor and blame them for everything. Yes a few people are able to climb out of poverty but capitalism doesn't work if the majority are able to. Somewhere we need to pay ppl pennies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 05:37 PM
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Oh come now, yes you can. You have even more reason to vet. You need a partner who can deal with those challenges in a compassionate way rather than resent and abuse you. If you didn't care about vetting you'd be in a relationship right now if your goal was just to have somebody. I'm not neurotypical either and I turn 31 soon. I will not put up with abuse just to be halfloved by a man. If I have to be alone all my life so be it. But I also realize I have a lot to work on and I don't have the cap…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 02:21 PM
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No money doesn't keep babies fed, and then they will soon have to feed and provide for themselves. Maybe you had good parents who were able to provide for you and bestow their class advantages unto you but many are born into poverty and abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 01:14 PM
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Yes men are visual. More free time also means being able to take better care of oneself if one is motivated to do so. The repeated exposure is for you to meet a good match, not for a man to fall in love over time. It allows you to vet better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 01:12 PM
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Yes but if people worked less, they'd be more able to join clubs or sports, be more able to live like they did during their school years. Good opportunities to meet other people more likely to be in a similar situation. That's the only reason meeting in school is easy, everybody is there for a nondating reason and they are usually have the same level of freedom and responsibilities. Even though more people will be paired up, it's still good exposure and worth it to become buddies with them becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 01:02 PM
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And yet you were complaining about wageslaving. Bring more slaves into this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 12:37 PM
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It's because they took the housewife pep pills away. No more happy drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 12:34 PM
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The people need to push for an overhaul in work culture. It is not necessary to work 40hrs a week, that's just to keep people tired and docile.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 12:30 PM
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Most people are not intelligent. There are average people in all professions. Every job is like that. All college does is show that a person can follow instructions and learn. So if you are able to grind and get through that, then the degree is earned. There are plenty of intelligent people too depressed to make anything of themselves. There are also intelligent people who never had the opportunity to go to school at all. People who are privileged to go to college are just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 12:28 PM
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Even if you end up doing all the work for the family? I want kids too but I also want a fully involved partner that will care about his children as well and that's a unicorn of a man. Growing up, most children in my class didn't like their dads because their dads ignored them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 12:19 PM
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When working conditions change, then life will be much better. Working 40+ hrs a week is outdated and unnecessary, we just need to get the dinosaurs in governments and corporations out. It's a bad model and most jobs are just purely busywork to control the masses.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 12:14 PM
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I have
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 10:27 PM
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Did I say I look for bears? Maybe I'm not saying what the appeal is correctly, for me it's complete self reliance and trusting in myself that I can survive. When I went to Puerto Rico alone, I assumed I would have cell service, I didn't. I still had to navigate my vacation without that safety line. I still had to get to my activities on time and I still had to move between Airbnbs (I didn't stay in just one place went to several areas), and I had to navigate myself around in a place where I didn…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 10:09 PM
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No. But it's sense of adventure. I don't put myself into unnecessary risk but I do have to be on higher alert because I'm in a place where I don't know the people. Or like camping in the woods, that's freeing but you still have to watch out for bears and have a plan if you encounter one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 09:39 PM
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That's quite amazing, especially when this post is about men wanting to rape and destroy and being sad that society won't let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 09:26 PM
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Look at how their idea of Chad looks. They don't even know what women find attractive. I've met plenty of very attractive men thinking that they weren't attractive at all because they don't look like the male power fantasy. Conversely these guys were all very sweet and kind while overconfident trolls act nasty and horrid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:11 PM
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Lol I didn't say going with friends. I hate going with people, I travel alone. Going with others is restrictive. It's completely freeing to me at least and even a bit daring, to go to some unfamiliar place alone and knowing you have to keep your wits about you to stay safe. Maybe for man it's not daring, guys don't worry about abduction and rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 09:01 PM
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Oh I get that. It's the process. It didn't use to be so bad before 9/11. TSA fucked up everything and I deeply resent the Patriot Act.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 08:55 PM
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The maid was not hot. Or she wasn't at the time things were exposed. It doesn't matter, many political scandals the woman was less hot than the wife. Men will take whatever, they just want to only present beautiful women to the public
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 08:35 PM
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Are you one of those people who never left their hometown? Also travel might be more fun if you got to do what you wanted, rather than be with other people dictating. There's no places you'd like to see, really?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 08:28 PM
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Dude you are silly, even the Arnold fucked the maid. Men regularly cheat with people that are less hot than their spouse, rich and poor do it. Guys are not being picky when a woman is horny for them. Yes they want mostly beauties, but they also want everything. He had the best women reserved for him, but he also took whatever else he wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 08:25 PM
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I've just seen men in this thread before complain about how the world is more dangerous and scary for them and now here is a post (and there have been others like this) where they want the world to be more dangerous and thrilling. It's always waah I can't rape or kill anymore (they can, anybody can at anytime) but they just mean they can't do those things without being caught. Also lots of men say not all men are rapists yet here they say yes we want to rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 08:21 PM
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Playing video games based or inspired by natural scenery in the real world. Ok. I get the virtual world is just easier, I love games myself, but people are born to be outside. Depression is affected by vitamin d and you need sunlight to make it, literally our moods are improved by being outside in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 08:15 PM
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What? You're just going to tourist traps. You just generally seem unadventurous and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 08:11 PM
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You chose to have a high bar for yourself and yet you whine about it. Where's your upper boundary that says yes this is good enough for me? Are you having a hard time finding a wife? Most people if they left their home country, they go back to find a wife because they have greater appeal there. Can't you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 08:08 PM
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Yeah, but your original argument was that everybody would select for quality and be pickier and I said that wasn't true. Most people are greedy. Chad isn't only fucking hot women, he's fucking whatever. Genghis Khan didn't fuck only hot women, he fucked whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 08:01 PM
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There is always competition unless there resources are unlimited. Maybe there is less competition with species that produce asexually, but they still have to compete with other species and organisms in their environment for resources. So even if women suddenly disappeared today, men would still be competing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 07:58 PM
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Pfft, move to a non first world country then. If you are really worried about power. Instantly you'll have more power in those places as well as lower cost of living. Move to the Middle East and feel powerful then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 07:54 PM
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Well the world isn't built for us to sit under trees all day, I dunno what to tell you. Even lazy people are booted from tribes if all they do is take and don't contribute. Lazy monkeys are booted as well. It is not productive to keep the specimen that only takes and does not give, Leeches cause others to suffer. I'm not happy with capitalism either. It's a huge lie that businesses care about efficiency and controlling loss, it's not fair that hourlies are treated like garbage while it's managem…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 07:41 PM
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This is true! Physical jobs make me feel better than more sedentary jobs. The way I see it is I'm getting paid to exercise, not being paid to be bored. Physical jobs made me more energized at the end of the day rather than tired and having brainfog from sitting at a desk all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 07:34 PM
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If men really wanted that life they'd be immigrating in droves to join more 'natural cultures'. I don't see tons of Westernized people flocking to countries in the middle east or in Africa, or moving to India. White men aren't joining gangs either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 07:26 PM
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If a girls gonna starfish, are you picking the hot starfish or the unattractive one? Sex will still be bad with either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 07:17 PM
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Nah men just want to fuck. Some men have self control and standards, I know a dude who has only slept with 2 people even though he had many opportunities because he actually cares about love and personality and values that over getting pussy. But he is rare and more self actualized than most. He is very fit and has lots of discipline. Discipline is rare in people these days. Plenty of hot guys will fuck someone just because they can. Knew a guy with over 300 bodies, he didn't care, he did it bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 07:15 PM
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Just become really good at gaming dude. And also shower and shave when you go to cons. Cleanest dude there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 07:07 PM
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But then you guys complain that men die more of murder at the hands of other men or that you die more at the workplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 07:05 PM
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Most people don't even explore now. They don't go visit campsites or go hiking, they don't travel. In fact many men have scoffed at women having travel as an interest. All people want to do is sit on the couch and daydream.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 07:03 PM
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Women are only horny and thirsty for men they find attractive, that's it. They are not horny and thirsty for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 09:25 AM
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Because the meal didn't give you an orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:06 PM
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Most handsome dudes suck in bed, most ugly and average guys do too. It really depends on how much porn the guys watches. Big porn watcher= selfish and bad in bed. Most men watch porn way too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 11:51 AM
0

Why are you not wanting a fat low self esteem girlfriend? You could be miserable together!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 10:32 PM
1

You're not OP. OP is jealous that people in bad relationships have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 10:47 AM
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Get me a girlfriend right meow! Honestly you could have one right away, just lower any and all standards you have and get rid of preferences. There's the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 11:44 PM
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Are you thinking about a woman's political ideals before you sleep with her? Seriously. Some people are able to marry despite having different religions and different backgrounds. They just choose not to talk about those things and choose to focus on the rest that is good. Some people don't take politics seriously and they just have a 'let's not talk about it' policy. Is it healthy? Probably not but a lot of people are in terrible drama filled relationships. Why are you envious of that? Maybe la…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 11:08 PM
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Is suicide really that bad? Honestly I'm for assisted suicide. I think people should be able to choose to end their lives in a safe peaceful way. Choosing not to participate should be seen as exercising freedom and if society doesn't want people to exercise that freedom then society should make life more enjoyable. People are checking out and living online already but nobody cares as long as bills are paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 11:00 PM
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It's really clear that your mentality isn't in the correct state. Maybe you haven't hit rock bottom enough. Sometimes that's all it is, that you haven't been at the lowest point yet. There is no magic pill or formula for you, because everybody is an individual. Maybe you are at peak fitness and health and in your day to day life you are mentally stable but honestly it doesn't sound like it. I mean I want to lose weight and take my vitamins and exercise too, but I'm not really at the point I want…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 10:56 PM
1

Good response.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 10:49 PM
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I don't necessarily think that is a bad thing. Modern life isn't suited for everyone. I want to give up too. I do think that if work wasn't so grueling and terrible, then most people would be happier. Working so many hours and working so hard makes everybody miserable but since social conditioning makes it seem like work has to be that way, I don't think people are able to recognize it. It's really hard to have a good and healthy relationship when work takes up all your time and energy. Maybe th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 10:03 PM
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Small parties would be nice if I had good stable friends, but I don't and the people they always have over are sketchy. They are childhood friends, I don't want to give them up, but I only like one on one time with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 09:58 PM
2

What about South Korea? Cosmetic surgery and skincare for men is popular and common. Those men sound like they're trying to adapt rather than give up and sulk.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 09:54 PM
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I like parties, and concerts and bars. Even if I don't talk to anybody, I like the energy around cuz at least most people are in a good mood and happy. And a lot of the time people are dressed uniquely, like they'll have a silly hat or some interesting accessory, easy opener.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 09:50 PM
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People are able to control if they're pleasant to be around. Getting good sleep, nutritious diet, and adequate exercise can help boost mood and then people won't be so cranky and sullen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 09:10 PM
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Well, the most basic suggestions are improving yourself and I'm sure you've heard it all before. Diet and exercise has a great impact on mood, and then socializing does too. If you aren't eating correctly and at least moving around a bit and being able to do those things on your own consistently, then how can you apply anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 09:06 PM
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I can only speak on what I've seen. I do not have a degree in this and have not conducted multiple studies which is what may be the only thing to convince you. Nothing will be proof enough for you. Even a perfect study will likely not sway you. There's even been studies on that, where people are not likely to change their opinion. I don't think evidence is going to suddenly motivate you to adopt better behaviours.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 08:38 PM
1

Also implies. Most bad parents doesn't seem to be very smart or attractive either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 08:13 PM
0

Well most bad parents shouldn't conceive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:46 PM
1

What about those games like Habbo Hotel and IMVU and Second Life? Those are virtual simulations to act with people and you can create your best version of your self and see how others react to it and then incorporate that idealized version into your real world self.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 06:46 PM
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Are these incels not going to school? It's only isolated homeschooled kids or kids that came from bad homes that really struggle with this. Or anything isolated, like religious groups but at least they have people from those groups to marry I guess. If they don't have that they can try talking to people at work unless there's only men where they work. But people on the spectrum, they have difficulties too but they have resources that they can learn from there's lots of guides on how to read body…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 06:41 PM
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I'm not a researcher on this topic. Maybe you can become a researcher yourself. Unless I'm getting a grant and a grade to do research work, I'm not gonna type you up a paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 06:33 PM
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I dunno, I see people hookup at bars all the time. Dormies might have a worse time, if they just hole themselves up with their computer. No chance of getting laid if you stay confined to your room.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 06:13 PM
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When I was in college, Facebook was new and it was funny cause at first it was seen as creepy to look at a person's page, even if they friended you! And people weren't even just spouting whatever came through their heads like they do now. No knowing of their kinks and weird interests, no porn or sexual content for all the world to see. I would say that I do believe that what teens and young women are posting is just mostly for show and trend following. Like the makeup and clothing trends that ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 06:01 PM
2

I do think it's a bit extreme and would only work on men who are religious. A month is more doable. For me, the waiting period should also include the time before mutual interest was indicated, like knowing a coworker for awhile before dating, I think that's pretty good, there's no stake in the game yet so their treatment of you might be more genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 05:46 PM
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Well there's lot to be had at college at parties good start there. Probably the best way rather than hoping a crappy tinder profile will save them. Bars where other young ppl congregate, also good. Of course he can't just be in the corner all alone, still has to make the effort to talk to people and try to enjoy the party.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 05:39 PM
1

Most people are able to know when they are being used, they just ignore it. I think waiting for sex is generally good, I had a boyfriend in college who wanted to wait when we met because he genuinely wanted to get to know me, it was his idea to do so. All my best relationships were with people I didn't have sex with right away when meeting, because the attraction wasn't just based on that. It's just so much harder in this sex focused culture now than it was 10yrs ago. We have less opportunities …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 05:37 PM
1

That's why they say oneitis is bad, it's not a gender thing, it's that you like someone so much you are willing to let them cross your boundaries and are lowering your selfworth to be with them and you have the false idea that without them you won't be able to survive or there won't be other people you can be compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 05:27 PM
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Modeling good behaviour. It's why they say you are the sum of your friends. If he has quality friends he's more likely to not be a social outcast. Unfortunately most kids who are outcasted come from bad homes in some way. It took me reaching adulthood to realize that the kids we picked on in grade school had terribly abusive parents. Incels can only really take accountability reaching adulthood, or maybe even being a teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 05:18 PM
4

It just sounds like you missed or ignored a lot of red flags because you wanted to be with her that much. This happens to women a lot too, where they just want to be with someone so much they ignore what's going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 05:04 PM
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Those women shouldn't be pissed, you are automatically disqualifying yourself and they should be thankful for that. Don't get pissed when people disagree, move on. It's that simple. Also don't act like you aren't also trying to date multiple ppl.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 05:00 PM
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Nah, it's before dating that incels need to be taken care of. Incelhood starts at preschool. So the onus isn't just on women to date and befriend them, they need healthy male friends too instead of just cliquing up with other incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 04:57 PM
1

Factories are called plants lol I don't know why, quirk of English I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 04:22 PM
1

I work a factory job, it pays very well since the other plants our company owns are in union states like Washington, Oregon, California. Our plant is non-union so I think they just pay higher to make it seem fairer, they pay $20/hr when most jobs here start at $10-12/hr, even ones requiring degrees or schooling. Very good benefits and insurance, even with cutbacks each year it's still way better than other places are offering. If I get lucky maybe I can eventually transfer to another plant, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 03:43 PM
1

I make pretty good money for the area and am able to support myself alone without a degree. My family is here as well, my job has good benefits and I have seniority and pto. I don't want to start from scratch and have to move to a higher cost of living area, start at a lower wage, and have no benefits or family. People from other states are moving here in droves because they can sell their home at a high price and buy a cheaper bigger home here and it offsets the wage reduction they'll be receiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 03:23 PM
1

Yeah I'm saying that people just stop at the surface, I think it's a cultural problem especially when culture tells men that all they need is their stomachs full and their balls empty. Or it may just be the environment I'm in, it's a very rural low education simple state; people like hamburgers beer guns and football. Most educated people have left the state to pursue higher wages. I'm not able to move for financial reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 02:49 PM
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People need to reveal themselves slowly over time but we're not really able to do that now with the fast pace of life or being constantly connected to the world. I don't think just talking online for hours is good enough, because even though a sense of intimacy is there, there is no way to verify that they are who they are til meeting or there's situations where the minds are compatible but body chemistry is not. The only way now adults have a slow no pressure way to get to know each other is in…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 02:45 PM
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He's not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:28 AM
0

Not true! I've seen so many people at my job fail upwards just because they made it seem like they were doing 'something' and it's been at several jobs like this. Everybody has had a bad manager but they got there cause they were good at making it look like they got shit done and were succesful. Actual success doesn't matter, appearing like it is enough. It's them just doing stuff, whether it useful or needed doesn't matter. People want to see others doing stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 01:22 AM
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But they mostly likely used being a dentist as leverage, or even wanted to be dentists just to get a pretty lady. However I'm gonna say this. An average person has the most likelyhood of being loved for who they are, either gender. Because they are average, nothing is particularly offensive or attractive about them so personality is allowed to shine and they have the largest base of ppl to choose from, since most people are average as well. Being plain and average is what nature wants since it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 01:14 AM
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Dentists and specialists are a more prestigious job. Are their wives more pretty than average too? Almost every dentist I've met had a thin pretty wife so they're selecting for that. They're not selecting normal looking women. They're selecting for beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 12:38 AM
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Yeah but you guys don't realize how much you do the same thing. Like almost every time I've watched a movie with a man they have to mention how hot the actresses are, and it's like dude, I'm not your guy friend. Or out in public and a chick walks by. It's very much a reflex for men to comment on women's appearance. Maybe just ask them to not do that around you, they might listen. They can find other times to do that when you're not around. Point out that it'd probably make them uncomfortable if …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 12:36 AM
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Is it really over just money? That's so surface level. It's almost always the death of a thousand cuts rather than just straight up money unless the woman is taking Anna Nicole Smith as inspiration. Rich people are rare. It's statistically impossible for every relationship to be based on money and to fall out only over money. A person who doesn't handle money well most likely also has other faulty traits and it's just easier to say 'money issues' rather than go into detail over all the person's …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 12:28 AM
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I don't think I've ever been loved for who I am lol, nobody digs that far. They just see cute and nice and good enough. Men almost never take the time to get to know a woman deeply.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 12:22 AM
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You do need action. Many people have lofty dreams and lots of potential but without action it means nothing. I think in a way that's why entrepreneurs are admired, most of them are gonna fail spectacularly but at least they are actively chasing that dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 12:20 AM
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Your female friends won't say that you're cute cause they don't want to open that door. If they want you to stay a friend they will not say you are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 12:15 AM
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Most people are not in it for the money because most people are working class. There is no money to be had. Everybody on this sub seems to be well off so it seems like you guys ignore that poor people have relationships too. Also, young men have relationships as well and they haven't had time or opportunities to accomplish much. More things are based on personality than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 12:10 AM
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Forever a cashier am I right? Smh Many people go into jobs purely because they need one. Not everyone can have a job that reflects their personality. That is a luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 12:05 AM
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It makes me sad that the sex with the guys in college was way more enjoyable than the sex I have now, way more enjoyable than what was had 5yrs ago too. Internet porn has really ruined things in the last 10 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 11:56 PM
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They really do not care though. See all the men demanding sex from wives recently after giving birth or being on chemo. They do not care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 11:43 PM
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I've read that cases of older children molesting younger children are going up, because of the easy access to porn and them copying what they see. Teens were already being pressured to send nudes when I was in high school. Now they are expected to participate in anal and choking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 08:29 AM
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They always use it as an excuse to just Netflix and chill forever. Lucky to get a spot on his couch, but not his favorite spot though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:53 AM
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Look, these people found out they were incompatible right away. That's a good thing rather than months or years later. It's not missing out. If it was they would have patched it up. Obviously they had different values How many fat chicks are you passing up? You sad about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 07:48 AM
1

Damn that seductive scanning.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 01:31 AM
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You missed your chance with that cashier you briefly talked to at Walmart. Feels bad man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 12:16 AM
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If you think too hard about it then nobody is ever good enough. Missing out on the great guy living in China that she'll never meet....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 11:43 PM
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If you're half dead on the couch please tell me! I'm not a mind reader and who knows? Maybe you're only moaning and twitching because you have tourettes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:22 PM
1

Still a good start. Healthy people are on average happier and more confident. More likely to feel good rather than underlying aches and pains causing a grumpy mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:20 PM
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Because it's literally crass and they just blurt it out. It's like those seagulls that scream 'Mine!' but when men do it it's 'Sex?!'
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 11:05 AM
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I thinks hints are also a good way to test somebody's awareness and emotional iq. Like if somebody can't read nonverbal language, the relationship will suffer. If you are in the middle of an illness, you shouldn't have to tell the other person how to tend to you, you shouldn't have to say I'm sick bring me soup or get me a blanket. Shouldn't have to say It's my birthday and get me a present. In fact most men resent being asked for stuff, they resent you for asking to take the trash out or doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 10:54 AM
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Why is not focusing your life on men called 'man hating'? That's the thing that bothers me the most. Everything women do is blown out of proportion while all the violence and actual hate cause by men is minimized. Leaving men alone is 'violence', having your own life is 'hatred'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:00 AM
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This is so cute! Thank you! :3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:52 AM
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Most guys think porn IS their research.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:50 AM
3

It's pretty easy to use your school years to build up your base and then just do maintenance during your working years. Maintenance is much easier than trying to start from nothing. Maybe if more people were fit than yeah the face would matter more, but just being at a healthy weight is so rare in the US, you are already at a major advantage. Also with the common idea that caring about skincare or health & hygiene makes you gay, again you're at a major advantage compared to most dudes. The avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:39 AM
3

Who needs science? Most people will improve greatly just by eating more greens and running a bit. They can't even cross that hurdle yet, not willing to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:27 AM
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Most aren't anywhere near their cap though and most aren't really willing to do what it takes to get there. Very few are maxxed as best as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:01 PM
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If you have toxic parents you might want to check the raisedbynarcissist/raisedbyborderlines subs. A lot of people are telling their stories and you might find that you have experienced a lot of those things. They also suggest reading materials and tactics to deal with these people. My mom wasn't terrible, but she also did a lot of things that were not okay and needed to be looked at with a critical eye. It's not right for parents to pass their fears and insecurities onto you or to take their fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:25 AM
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When it looked like they were gonna divorce, there were articles about how much Offset would hypothetically get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 07:58 AM
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No I think if they really want your attention and affection they will pay. Poor guys save to get things for the women they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 07:02 AM
4

It always irritates me that the guy who can't figure out how to cook is also the same guy who can Google how to maintenance a car or build a pc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:26 PM
1

In my apartment complex we have a lot of refugees and low income renters and they pack so many kids into those apartments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 09:54 PM
1

Definitely depends on if your city is up and coming though. Nobody in my city can afford a home because people from California are able to buy way over asking price.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 08:03 AM
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No we'd still be hiring Indian engineers for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 12:28 AM
1

I agree with you. But they pay people less because they can, the system needs people at the bottom and it needs them to stay there. When other countries try to do something different we bomb them or start a coup.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 11:21 PM
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Inflation makes things unaffordable. It's just been accelerated. Even if women didn't work, inflation would still happen. Even if women didn't work, globalisation would have still happened. The jobs would have still moved overseas and immigration would still happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 09:05 PM
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People are less defined in their early twenties than in their thirties though. So it's silly to think they will want the same things. With more experience and knowledge comes different expectations. At 20 the pleather belt looks good and it's what you can afford, at 30 you might want a leather belt well made that can last.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 08:58 PM
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I think working conditions will improve greatly if/when women move en masse into less traditional jobs (because they will protest). Also, I think that eventually it'll shift into either less days in a week or less hours per day. Work is unnecessarily grueling in most cases, and that's by design. If the populace isn't tired and demoralized, they'll be harder to control. Most places aren't even designed with the thought of who'll be working in them. Like factories, they just put in the pipes and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 08:37 PM
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True! They see women as distractions mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 08:13 PM
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We have to convince people that they are not above farm work or factory work. Many people do think they are above that, or above janitors and plumbers. But when people are soft and used to being indoors they're gonna walk on physical jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 08:11 PM
11

Remember when the farmers were complaining that white people didn't want to work on their farms for the pay they were offered? Nobody wanted to pick the apples or be in the hot sun all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 08:01 PM
7

It's not hard to get nice used cars. You just have to shop around and have a little cash. It's the saving up and waiting for a good deal that's hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 07:58 PM
5

Everybody who plays fps games gets the draft.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 07:50 PM
5

What if the women were Amazonian and wanted snu snu?🤔💭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 07:48 PM
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Most people cannot buy a house. But they can buy weed, beer and video games and live with the buds.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 07:43 PM
1

I don't think so. Norms change all the time, men's sexuality is very changeable as we seen the rise in choking and anal when 10yrs ago those things weren't common. Asking for sex by the 3rd date wasn't common. And like I said before the demand was only 1 or 2 previous partners, and now it's less than ten. Especially when the men's n count rises too, as more successful men seem to be less picky about it. The man just has to feel sufficiently experienced mainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 08:40 PM
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Porn is the first thing though. Kids are starting to watch porn @ age 8-10. They watch it before they really do any dating at all. Because of porn, anal and choking has been normalized. Ten yrs ago anal was a joke, choking was a joke. Those things were made fun of. Nobody asked me for nudes or for anal back then, not even hookups. Men really do not realize how their tastes and attitudes are shaped by porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 06:41 PM
1

Well nobody can be caring all the time otherwise it causes mental burnout. Nobody wants a doormat. Life can't all be roses and cake, it's impractical. But most guys do not want to do anything. Definitely a shift in mentality since it wasn't like this ten yrs ago. Even broke dudes would be like 'let's go for a country drive' or 'let's take a walk in the park.' Now nobody wants to do anything at all if it's not sex or watching TV. Relationships can't grow on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 06:35 PM
2

I haven't dated only 'attractive' men. Because I thought maybe personality could make up for looks but really you need both for something real to happen. I've dated a wide variety of people and they had a variety of n-counts. The high n count man wasn't much better than the low or mid range man and they all sucked cuz most men think sex is exactly like porn. It was the guys who don't watch porn that are better. Best men were the ones I met in college 10 yrs ago, they weren't porn addicted yet an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 06:29 PM
1

I want that, but only from a man I find attractive. I believe in holidays and romance and it makes things fun. You said you do kind gestures for your person, if it's lame as fuck then why do you do those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 06:22 PM
1

You still have to wade through them. Especially when lots of guys are like 'I was kind and caring (to the wrong person) and now I'm never going to be caring again!' Like that's almost all the people on this sub and yet they still want dates and relationships and sex but don't want to give anything. It's silly. If I frown at everyone, it's silly for me to expect smiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 06:18 PM
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When most men are bad, it makes sense to go for the hot one. If you have two annoying women but are dtf, are you gonna pick the chubby one? Also even though the sex is bad, kissing and hugging is nice, touch starvation is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 06:14 PM
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I dunno why but oral does nothing for me either but maybe that's just cuz they didn't know what they were doing. You seem like a very rare man, at least from your self reporting. Good on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 06:12 PM
1

Oh I had a feeling you were my age, I'll be 31 next month. But yeah, that's when the pressure of marriage starts creeping, I feel it and I had never really wanted it until like the last year or so but mostly because almost everyone around me is married. I dislike this age because it feels lonely cuz everybody else is tied down and it took a while for me to make good money but I enjoy my freedom too. I was able to travel to Puerto Rico last year by myself and do everything I wanted and it was gre…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 06:06 PM
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I think what's considered low n count will change. Before it was 1-3, now I'm hearing less than 10. As society progresses(devolves, whatever) I think 'acceptable n counts' will increase because people are not limited to only dating people in their city, they can date anyone anywhere. Especially if a person went to college and partied, those people are not going to have low n counts cause lots of opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:35 PM
2

You only dated your wife and everything went perfect. No bad dates for you. Found love on the first try.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:22 PM
2

You've most likely had hpv. Almost everybody has had it. Almost everybody clears it though. Maybe you'll get prostate cancer later in life though, only bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:21 PM
1

You met your partner first try right? Never had anything off ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:18 PM
2

Probably doesn't wear a face mask either. Impervious to disease and risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:15 PM
0

Dating is a lie. As soon as the relationship begins the dating stops and men expect sandwiches and sex on command.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:13 PM
1

High n count men are usually very terrible in bed. They're just handsome and good talkers. Kinda like how super pretty women are also said to be bad in bed. They both just get laid and do nothing for the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:09 PM
3

He still has doubts. I think he is getting married cause it seems like the right thing to do. And they have been together 7yrs so at that point she probably was pushing for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:06 PM
3

This guy has said he has never felt 'in love' with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:02 PM
0

How are you not afraid of cheating? Are you simply too old and so you do not think you will cheat? Or is it just the machismo where men can cheat but women cannot? I like Latinos a lot but they are notorious cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 04:59 PM
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I do this too. I have been living alone for 6yrs so far, since I was 24. I'm just not overly friendly and keep aware of the people around me but I feel like I have the right to do what I want. Just be sure of yourself and know that you can handle anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 01:43 PM
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Basically, don't give him ideas of how to mistreat you. The more they know about your exes the more they try to compete with them and start acting like them. Also they will slutshame you for having exes, even if they were longterm relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:20 AM
1

In between could be anything, like kissing flirting hookups makeouts, whatever a guy would count significant in his own personal view. Up to interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 06:24 PM
1

I mean there are the Mormons, but nobody likes them. And I don't move in the circles of the richy types. Everybody here loves beer and football and guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 06:21 PM
1

Well it's just different priorities. I used to be very ambitious but ultimately it wasn't worth losing my mental health over. I can't enjoy money or free time if I'm stressed out all the time and spread too thin. A second passive income stream would be nice but not everybody is able to set that up, high initial barriers usually. Most people are struggling to even put $1000 away and don't have the discipline and forethought to do so. If people held onto their money, the economy would slow, so sav…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 06:19 PM
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I feel like you don't understand that most people do not understand financial stuff at all and they rarely seek to learn about it. They're doing what school taught them to do, be a good worker not smart one. It took me landing a job with good benefits and offering a 401k before I even started learning about those things. Before they were out of reach, but when they were offered to me then it made sense to learn about it. There's also the tradeoff, people could hustle or climb the ladder but mayb…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 05:46 PM
1

Teachers didn't like this but I would just do the previous classes homework in the next class. So at the end of the day I had no homework to do. But I didn't have study skills and flopped in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 05:25 PM
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You're experience sounds normal. When I was in college (10 yrs ago) almost everybody had the same experience. Like maybe a serious girlfriend in high school, maybe one in college, and then whatever things happened between those.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 05:06 PM
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It's the cultural norm of my state. I don't seek these people out. Not meeting them at bars. These are just everyday people from everyday life here. Most people driving trucks also have a can between their knees. Just an observance of the people around me. Not everybody is UMC and educated. I guess you would call my state the Bogan state from where you're from. I would like to move but money doesn't allow yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 08:28 AM
3

Dream would be to be with someone who drinks and games as much as you do so it can be a together activity. If there's a huge mismatch then the disappointment comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 06:08 AM
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Yes, I love video games too, but most guys are not good at limiting themselves. They tend to consume too much: too much porn, too much video games, too much beer etc. Nobody would complain if it was a moderate amount. Same with women, nobody likes women spending too much time on social media or candy crush. Do all women do that? No, but it's enough to meme about. In the 12yrs I've been out of high school, I've never met a man who drinks only 1 or 2 beers a night or plays video games only 1 or 2 …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:36 AM
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Nobody in my sorority was dating old dudes. To us older was maybe a grad student but everybody wanted to bang the Greek dudes their own age. They even made fun of the fifth yrs calling them old, kinda like how hs kids make fun of super seniors, they're seen as fails. Anybody banging an old dude kept it a secret, it wasn't on the braglist for next morning gossip. This was ten yrs ago though, nobody was glorifying sugar babies or being a camwhore. Maybe now it is more common because Hollywood give…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 02:16 AM
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Yes I think so. It means eating healthy and working out and being ambitious at work and not falling into what's easy which is drinking beer, watching porn, and playing video games. Neckbeards are a meme for a reason. They are the epitome of an unattractive man. It takes discipline to not be that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 02:09 AM
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I think it depends on how it ended and how you feel and how long ago. I wouldn't say hi to somebody who treated me badly, they can rot. The only thing is you don't want to open the door back up. Many guys will think you're still into them if you're nice to them. They can't seem to understand politeness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 10:27 PM
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Do you think women as a whole will continue capitalism though? I think it's clear to see that this system doesn't work. I would hope that female leads, when in the majority, will try to shape a better world that doesn't depend on most of the globe being impoverished.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:51 PM
4

You don't need to be nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:35 PM
1

I actually feel that that is the case for many people but it is not talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 08:17 AM
1

The people who care about their health and appearance look younger. The people who don't age very fast (both genders). I don't have any sources, just the people I've met during my 20's. Men still have an attitude of not eating veggies and smoking and drinking as much as they want and then with those attitudes are more likely to have thinner hair, worse teeth, and a beer belly. They think it's 'rugged' but poor health is always a turn off. Men who keep up with exercise and eat well usually also h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 03:45 AM
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Balding is occurring at younger ages now. I'm talking top of the crown thinning, not the hairline receding. Graying is also happening. Could be many factors into why people are aging earlier and worse but I do believe it's all the chemicals in the environment and processed foods and binge drinking that American culture promotes. 25yr olds are looking older unless they are taking good care of themselves. Having a beer belly is terribly sad and dangerous to have. Single dudes look very rough becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 02:51 AM
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Don't go anywhere with him. He might try to kidnap you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:49 AM
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Agree with this. Exams are pre-planned and formal, it would be weird for him to not already have a slot lined up. There's no waiting for a spot to take an exam, especially not last minute and not online. Either he got the time he signed up for or didn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:21 AM
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Why did it take seven years to marry her? Most people say that men know right away if they want to marry someone. She has a lot of patience to wait that long. That is practically already being married so it just seems weird for you to have fears when it's already 7yrs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 09:09 AM
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Hard lifestyles do make 25yr olds look old. The frat dude who binge drank through college and had a million sunburns is gonna look old. That lifestyle brings the baldness and the pounds faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 09:06 AM
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Newsflash most people don't. I've worked months where I've only had 2 days off the whole month and I've worked 12hr+ days frequently. I work in a factory and it's very physical and they prefer to be understaffed. I don't feel sorry for people working long hrs and I don't appreciate when they say that women do not do that as well. Plus side about never being home is that you can't make the house dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 01:13 AM
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This is such a good reply
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 10:25 AM
1

Internet porn ruined the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 10:24 AM
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Were they working nightshifts? Nightshifts and overtime is what's really killing people. No life if you're working nights or over 40hrs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 09:36 AM
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You chose money and poor treatment. Capitalism says you're free to find better anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 09:33 AM
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Yeah but it doesn't work for everybody. Some people do not get jobs even if the baby is there. If the baby isn't wanted the parents aren't gonna do right by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 08:28 AM
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I feel like the whole onlyfans, premium snaps, sending nudes and asking for anal and choking, making sextapes as a way to get fame never should have happened. Kim Kardashian and Paris Hilton set women far back, but those vids were leaked by the men so they did make the best of it by capitalizing on it, capitalism allows you to profit from a shitty situation if you can market well. But all of these things are tied to porn consumption. The rise of porn has been terrible for women. I think the earl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 08:09 AM
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Foreplay is very important! If you know how to get a woman warmed up and are skilled with your hands and mouth then it doesn't matter about the dick situation so much, piv orgasms are harder to achieve than clitoral ones. Being a good kisser is very important, sensual touch is important. Smelling good is important! If you have pooped and haven't washed up you shouldn't be having sex cuz your ass will smell. Wash your balls and peen too. Smells kill the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 07:57 AM
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Aww thanks for the compliment. But I do believe the t-shirt works. At least for me, been in several convos where the stranger talks about my shirt and a good conversation follows. It's an instant commonality, a person who likes the band or show on your shirt probably also likes similar things related to it. It's a very good jumping off point. My sister makes fun of me for wearing those shirts but it makes me seem more approachable and allows a guy to talk to me without seeming creepy and if it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 06:14 AM
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I've had lots of dudes strike up a convo about the shirts I'm wearing. Guys who aren't only interested in sex do care about having similar interests and it is a great opener. I know you only care about sex right now so caring about a woman and her interests are foreign to you. And maybe cultural differences too. Maybe in Argentina women do not like rock bands or comic book characters or they always dress super feminine, but even then a guy could mention how nicely she's dressed and that will mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 02:28 AM
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Online you get a million hey beautifuls. It's repetitive and boring and which hey beautiful are you gonna choose? None unless the profile pic is cute cuz why not go for the hot guy in that situation. The other dudes all had the exact same greeting. Now if a guy pointed out something unique like saying they like her earring or the t-shirt she's wearing cuz they also like that band, that shows a little more effort and also allows for a conversation to develop instead of a 'hey thanks' response tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 02:20 AM
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How though? I don't know about Argentinians specifically but many Latinos pair up right after high school and have kids. So unless you weren't interested in dating during school, I don't know how early girlfriends could have had too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 02:14 AM
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But does they truly want her to be fat? As like what is said often here, they're rather take the sex than no sex at all and fat is what they can get. Unless they are specifically attracted to fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 01:42 AM
7

Churchy types still cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 07:21 PM
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I think there are only really a few types of single men at age 30, there's the fit and motivated bachelor types (rare and not really done playing around) and the guys who are somewhat lazy and unmotivated. The unmotivated man is not taking care of his health and is drinking and gaming his life away, he wants to be loved as is but doesn't make for a good partner since there is no ambition. I have tried to date this dude and tried to make suggestions on how they can look better (since I was losing…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 06:30 PM
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They don't always look better but when they got a movie then yes they bust out the trainers. In between they look like average slobs and we know cause Stars posts every bad pic they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:30 PM
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It's cause men think taking care of themselves is gay. Veggies are gay. Sunblock is gay. Gym is gay. It's not even at 40, some dudes at 25 look super rough and all it would take is some moisturizer and maybe some running and they'd bounce back quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:59 PM
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I don't think you can have a real relationship with someone and not be kind to them or want to treat them nice. It just makes me sad when guys say they don't want to be romantic or cute, it means you're not really in love. And it does go both ways, like getting a man tix to his favorite team or baking him cookies. I don't think getting burned means you should completely cut all that off, being a stone lessens your chances of someone wanting to be with you seriously. Unless you want a mail order …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:50 PM
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The men are whining that they didn't get to experiment. Incels or married at 18, men complained about not getting to sample enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:28 PM
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So you're never gonna be considerate or kind to any woman ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:18 PM
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They don't know how to be romantic in the right way and how to taylor it to a specific woman. So orbiters are just annoying, you're not the only one they're orbiting and a million hey beautifuls means nothing. It's like telling a tall person that they're tall. Is he supposed to love me cause I pointed out his height just like everybody else does?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:03 PM
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People don't have to become neckbeards. They just choose to. Very few want to date an obese gamer girl, so why would they think anybody would want to date them? If a person doesn't try to make themselves a good and attractive partner then I do not feel sad for them. I don't expect ppl to date me when I'm at my lowest. Most people need to be real with themselves and not expect others to love them for their potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 03:41 PM
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Marriage only matters if a kid is involved. Marriage isn't really about the man and the woman, it's about whatever kids may come about. It's why kings had legitimate heirs with the queen and the consort kids got nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 03:33 PM
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If men had more focus on their looks and health then desire would be more evenly matched. But when men think it's gay to bathe or to trim their beards or to do anything that might make them cleaner or look better they rail against it. Almost all dudes in hs or college look very good but then they stop primping when they enter the workforce. And also since most men learn from porn and take it as sexual gospel, they also do not know how to properly warm a woman up, they only care about piv as fast…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 03:25 PM
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You forget porn. Porn aimed at men and makes them suck in bed. Most guys do not believe in foreplay anymore. So porn for the men and libfem bs for the women and then we get this shitstorm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 03:14 PM
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And lots are whining that they didn't get to experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 03:12 PM
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'My ex was mean to me in the 5th grade and that's why I can't treat you right'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 08:31 AM
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Good thing is you don't have to interact with people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:24 AM
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Well that is like the biggest duh ever. Even the influencers, they're secretly being bought by Saudis. It's marketing on a massive scale. Everybody has seen the fast food hamburgers and how they don't match what's on the box. Honestly. The show catfish has been around for ages, Nigerian Prince scams are ancient. Ever heard of those fish stories where the fish gets bigger every time? Ppl have been like this forever, it's nothing new. That keeping up with the Jones es. It's why poor ppl always hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 07:02 AM
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The majority of women aren't lying and the ones who do, well their photoshop and storytelling is bad. Everybody needs to be able to see through a con, it's not gender specific. Tons of guys are lying about their age, weight, occupation, whether they're single or not etc... Anybody on the other end could just be a guy from India. Naivety has no place in the world and never did.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 06:42 AM
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It's really not any different than scrapbooking or having a diary honestly. It's just public. People want to chronicle their lives and they want to be praised for the things they've done.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 06:18 AM
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I'm gonna say that internet porn has as much if not more influence than social media has on dating and negativity between the sexes but I know this sub isn't ready for that convo. It's almost a given though that online dating is not the way to go for a lasting relationship. It's only more convenient. Most people do see it as only a hookup tool and most profiles are insincere. The dating sites themselves are designed to have failed matches. If people are successful on these sites, then they lose …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 06:04 AM
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Awww thanx! :3
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 02:34 AM
2

It really is and you can't recover. It's called the 'Ick' and literally something has changed and the body odor and saliva becomes repulsive :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 02:10 AM
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I don't understand this dating purely from online though. Surely before Covid most young people were meeting in college and high school and having organic interactions. Online dating is for people who do not meet others in daily life and everybody knows not to take tinder or IG seriously. If a guy is on IG and only scrolling through hot chicks, then there's gonna be a disconnect from what he sees on there and the girls he meets on campus.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 01:05 AM
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Most of those women aren't being respected. It's the death of a thousand cuts when marriage fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 11:41 PM
2

I like sports but I do not like watching them, much rather be in the game myself. And I don't play casually either because the other players frustrate me when they aren't skilled. So that leads me to not having sports in my life after being out of school. Very sad about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:42 PM
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Lots of people like fighting games, best way to include other players other than racing games. They just maybe not be AS into fighting games cuz constantly being beaten is demoralizing. I think women get demoralized more easily so if they're not instantly good at something they quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:37 PM
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I think the women who are that type are just the most visible to men since they are in men's preferred age demographic and are what men are looking at. If their feeds are all composed of this type of woman then they'll think that's how all women are but normal ppl aren't constantly posting, the men aren't considering their viewing habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:33 PM
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I like your catchphrase. Barren boxchecking MC Karen. Rolls off the tongue so nicely. No way there's any snark.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:28 PM
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Didn't you know? That as soon as you graduate college all the boomers in your field immediately retire to make room for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:26 PM
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Argentinian women need to learn how to play and have their own weekly game. It's fun and good exercise. Or take the time the men are away to do whatever they think is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:23 PM
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Women like men who do those things but not excessively or when ignoring other important things. If I could I would game 12hrs+ but to maintain my quality of life I cannot do that or expect people to want to be with me when I do that. If someone is pissing in a bottle because of their hobby, they better find a partner who is doing the same thing or realize that they're undesirable because of this addiction. Neetlife is cool though, wish I had rich parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:21 PM
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Are you an anarchocommunist? Honestly I know you aren't trying to be funny but the punctuation and vocabulary you use is humerous. Without seeing your face I don't think I can interpret correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:17 PM
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Oh religious cult explains it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:14 PM
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I think this happens in large part because women think the man will improve over time or with encouragement. They think that yes he has all these unattacrive qualities but when he lives with me they will go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:13 PM
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The 'thanks liberation!' made it sound like you don't morally approve of out of wedlock births.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:11 PM
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Morality shaming!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:08 PM
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I really don't understand why you're supportive of laws when they are based somewhat on 'morality'? You rail against morality and then say it's necessary. Also you seem very frustrated and angry for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:02 PM
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Why? Wives can't make you stay at home and if she doesn't trust you to be loyal then what would marriage do for her? Marriage does nothing to keep a man loyal, he either is or isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:57 PM
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There are definitely bad moms out there, being pregnant and popping one out didn't make them better ppl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:55 PM
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What class are you? Honestly, can't even tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:53 PM
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I honestly don't understand why a person in college wouldn't date the other people in college. Personally I loved college, everybody was in the same bucket as me and everybody was good looking. Never had an interest in an older man. But I'm also very independent, more so than most people. I do feel that if people are seeking something from their elders, they aren't very confident or secure in themselves. I dunno what that girl was looking for with you but she didn't find it if you didn't marry. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:52 PM
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Why do you even care about legality then? Lol you're one of those people who are barely holding things in cause you don't want punishment from the law huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:46 PM
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I don't think being a mother instantly matures somebody. There are also plenty of boomers who are immature and fragile and they've had their children. People will be forever adolescent as long as their lifestyle can support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:43 PM
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I don't think being half a person is better. But some people do prefer a restricted and structured life, like those in the military or those who keep returning to prison cuz at least it's regular and predictable. I do feel like those types of people are low iq though and not striving to better themselves. Living in a gilded cage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:41 PM
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No I think it's obvious that most people do not think 18yrs olds are mature or have full mental capacity. They only argue that when they have a use for the 18yr old such as being cannon fodder or something to cum on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:35 PM
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Men often comment on wanting to 'mould' their partner. A 'complete' person is boring to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:32 PM
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I know you are against taxes but would you rather go back to having most of the populace uneducated? It's taxes that have made education accessible for everyone. Do you know how frustrating it is to work with someone who can't read? Constantly asking questions because they can't read the signs in the workplace? I'd rather most people being able to read so they can leave me the eff alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:30 PM
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Why can't 18yr olds be President then? Why do we require our government leaders to be a certain age? We can send them to war but they can't run the country? If men really believe that 18yrs olds are as capable as 30 yrs or 50yr olds then we would not place age restrictions on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:20 PM
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But it's not manly to take good care of yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:16 PM
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I think that if a 35yr old man has the mental capacity of an 18yr old girl, well that's not very good for humanity. Why does it take 35yrs for a man to mature? That just says that women mentally have the upper hand over men then, which also goes against the 'men built society and men have all the Nobel prizes and are naturally smarter!' 18yr olds are secret geniuses!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:12 PM
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Men don't talk about their younger wives with respect, they always comment on how needy and whiny they are and how much money they cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:09 PM
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When the Spaniards came to Puerto Rico they slaughtered all the men and raped the women and children. It was noted that the 12yr olds were in particularly high demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:07 PM
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Might be more due to education. As a 6y old, it was apparent that I knew more than my mom, about facts and science. Let's see the 12yr old run the household though or go to work though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:05 PM
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There was this Native American guy who said his dad was 70 when he was born, his dad was a chief. And it's like that's cool but did you even get to know him? Poor guy, all he has is other people's memories of his dad, and a shit ton of siblings lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:01 PM
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The 18yr olds are not mentally or behaviourly attractive. And maybe look too boyish for some. There's some women who are really into the hairy and big look which I really don't get but they say that it makes them feel delicate and small.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 08:47 PM
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They want the edge of puberty, more likely to have not been touched. It's not about fertility, it's about being first.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 08:44 PM
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At least you're honest. Tell her you want to go to Patagonia sometimes and be by yourself. She's not a good wife if she doesn't let you go, sometimes at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 08:38 PM
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Men get very sad when they learn you are not a teenager. Looks brought them up to me and age sent them away, especially in my early twenties. They'd try to guess and be like 'Are you 16?' and looked disappointed briefly when the answer was no. When I was a teen, guys would try to age me up. 'No way you're 13! You must be 19!'
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 08:37 PM
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If we had a society that allowed people to be free and not grind them under the machine, everybody would be like that. Take celebrities, I'm sure they're all as carefree as can be at any age, because they can do whatever they want no worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 08:30 PM
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When you're young you don't have any idea about how the world works and are still hopeful about landing the dream life. That's all that is. In that way, young men are more fun too. They still want to skate and aren't worried about bumps and scrapes, it's no thing to live in a van cuz they'll make it someday. It's sad when people feed off the youth of others like a vampire.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 08:29 PM
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I think women who date older men have no souls personally. They aren't able to be self-fulfilling people if they need someone else to provide what they want. Going from parents to a man and not growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 08:23 PM
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I really do think that balding can be slowed but not with today's typical diet and sedentary lifestyle. When we see pictures of tribal people, they are never bald or fat. There's a really fit guy at my job who's early 30's but he's bald and sterile, unfortunately I think he was messing with his hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 08:19 PM
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Does your gf know you think she is dumb and have a low view of her? Or is she the 'exception'?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 08:06 PM
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You forget that education was actively barred for women and slaves. Yes before, poor men were barred as well and only nobles and the clergy could read. If you had a nice master or father though, they would teach you. All poor people worked though. Men and women in the fields and factories. Slave women were in the fields same as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 07:17 AM
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Workplace deaths are because employers don't give a fuck and wait til after they get in trouble to improve working conditions. Also, many people are not as careful as they should be with heavy machinery, too many people putting their hands into machines and trying to get around machine guards, because stopping the machine is 'inconvenient'.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 07:07 AM
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How many of them were poor? If you were a rich woman then yes, feminism wasn't needed cuz money talks. Money allows anybody to do whatever they want if they have enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 07:01 AM
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Many men get very offended if you tell them to wash their hands or flush their pee or to do the laundry. They say 'I am who I am' and expect to be loved when all they do is game and shitpost. People may not like the cat ladies or the blue haired feminist types but I do think they still try to contribute to society, like volunteering and community service. Neckbeard types don't really contribute much. They may develop mods for games but really seems about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 06:53 AM
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Many men actually get jealous of their own babies. They get jealous of the babies yet don't want to help out with the babies either. What can a mom do?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 06:47 AM
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So why do people fear the Middle EAST or China then? If their culture is so wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 06:40 AM
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They always say 18 but bitch and moan about the age of consent and statutory rape laws. When I was in my early twenties many dudes approached me thinking I was a teenager and were visibly disappointed when they found out I was an adult. So it's not even just looks for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:22 AM
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Hey! Your post is so relatable and I resonate with it a lot. I also feel and think the things you do (am 30) and I get bummed out by it. But seeing how most of the people from my high school class ended up, it's a mixed bag. Nobody has a perfect life. Many ended up as single mothers or in on/off relationships, turbulent marriages, or maybe a few truly do have a great marriage but then their struggles are in other areas of life. My own sister is an ambitious chick but she has to prod her boyfrien…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:30 AM
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He's looking for other people already, most likely. Already thinking of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:50 AM
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Since Internet porn, the quality of sex for women has gone way down. Believe me or not, but when boys are using porn as their education they are not learning how to please a woman. Porn is meant for men. Guys in college were way better than the men I encounter now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 02:30 AM
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Sex isn't the pinnacle of life for women. They don't get into relationships just for sex. You think Donald Trump is giving Melania mind blowing orgasms?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 12:59 AM
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If you're making your girl cum. She will likely stay since that is so very rare. So rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 09:23 AM
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What about the 80's. He looked not great then either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 09:14 AM
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He looks good in that pic though, and my memories of hs and college were that most men looked good. That's before the hair loss and weight gain happens though. Seniors in college either looked super good or beginning to look rough with all the beer drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 09:13 AM
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She didn't meet him then lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 09:11 AM
1

I would say 80% are married to someone they aren't sexually attracted to anymore. Maybe 60% at time of marriage though, the attraction goes away after they see what married life is like, becoming a permanent maid. In most relationships the woman isn't sexually satisfied though, because even if the man is attractive it doesn't mean he is skilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 08:47 AM
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Nobody that isn't working on their self should be given a chance. But there are some cases that are harder than others, since people can't really dump their kids. I mean technically they could. I haven't looked into the rules of putting older kids into adoption. Quick Google says you can put kids up to age 4 up for adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 08:41 AM
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Why should women give men with baggage and no desire to improve a chance though? You can't force someone to work on themself or make them want to do things. The dude who only cares about beer and video games is not gonna suddenly change just because he has a supportive gf. That gf just becomes another enabler. Just like a man with a depressed gf, he cannot love her into being less depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 05:01 AM
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Men seem to think their baggage doesn't matter either. I'm glad you seem to have more sense then most of the people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 03:37 AM
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Some people really have no experience with alcohol until they go to college and yeah it hits them hard and they're not equipped for it. Sheltered people are not equipped for drugs and sex the way other people are and yes that's due to parenting fails. Most people in college are not capable adults anymore because they are much more sheltered than past generations. So yes, I do believe people under the age of 25 (both men and women) are immature and should be left alone by other more experienced p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 03:29 AM
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I like that you don't see how alcohol clouds judgement and allows losers to get laid. It's the original date rape drug, get the girl plastered and then you can do whatever you want. And you claim that it's 'ovaries' doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:35 AM
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Lol if it wasn't for alcohol many dudes would not get laid. Also it's only in the past few years that ppl like Johnny Depp and Brad Pitt have fallen out of favor because even movie magic can't hide their age anymore. It is not pure status, they both have really good genes and bone structure and that's why they've been handsome for long instead of declining @ age 26 like most dudes. Even at the end of college dudes are starting to bald and get beer bellies. It's so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:29 AM
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Lol men will never leave unless forced to or if the side piece is a sure thing. Like almost every cheating guy still says they're happy with their wife, it's basically only cuz she's not young and new that they're looking for something. I've worked in many male dominated places and all the guys say they're happily married until a new hot girl comes and then they try to gain her sympathy and get into her pants with the 'my wife is a bitch card.' Everybody knows it too, they roll their eyes at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:21 AM
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People still naturally slow down. I'm thirty, still like going to the bars and dancing but now it's more an occasional thing rather than it being THE thing to do, like in my early 20's. Now the things I want to do have changed, I have more money and flexibility with my job now so I'd rather travel to new places or improve my home and my car so that when I do find a partner they will feel comfy there with me. Guys my age don't seem to want to go to the bar every weekend either, but many are conte…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:17 AM
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He will drive high with the baby in the car and tell you he doesn't do that or ooopsie he forgot. He will do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:53 PM
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This guy is a rape apologist. He thinks rape is no big deal and probably forces himself on her too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:09 PM
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Do you mean muscle? Like a man can still have a pretty face and be fit. Everybody liked Brad Pitt and he had both.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 12:25 PM
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It's more about attitude. Rockstars and actors are pretty and they wear silly things, but the aura they give off is manly and confident. The late 2000's emo trend saw both genders dressing pretty much the same, same hair same eyeliner same pants same shoes. Basically only thing different was guys didn't wear bows. It also was trendy for men to be softer and more cutesy trendy to be sad and romantic and sweet. If you're a man and confident in being a man, it will show. It's just that if you're go…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 11:28 AM
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Cuz that's all that matters to men. They love being a caricature of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 10:19 AM
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You act like women don't age. They slow down too. It's just that men always want much younger women. A young woman might not be ready for kids and might let you treat her worse, but she will want to do things and have things bought for her and won't be satisfied with years of beer drinking and couch sitting. While an older woman will want things like for you to help with housework and raising the kids and Sunday drives in the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 09:46 AM
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It's cuz social perception of harems is bad. Some Royal people still practice though (Saudis, Thailand). Other countries probably keep it quiet so they can still trade and have a good reputation in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 09:08 AM
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It's in a man's best interest to keep interesting and to keep looking good. Same for women too. People who do the exact same thing every single day are miserable to be around, wet blankets. It's like eating biscuits and gravy every single day. A man's options can change too. Like a new coworker. The man won't leave but he will do what the coworker will let him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 08:57 AM
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Many men don't take suggestions very well. If they don't wanna groom better or eat better, then yes attraction goes away.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 08:24 AM
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I mean, if the man is boring. That's why they say to act as if you're always dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 08:22 AM
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Pfffft. All those trophy wives are cheating. It's only maybe super religious ones that aren't, like Mormon wives. Fearing God. Being married to a man that doesn't feed your mind and emotions is gonna be a man that's deadbedroomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 07:16 AM
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Lol she meant that if her man becomes a lazy dumpster fire then she will leave. Men don't want to be married to a lazy blob, neither do women. If people showed their lazy blob self right from the start, no body would get married or date. Many people's strategy is to just pretend until they trap somebody.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 07:14 AM
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Gay gays are fun because they do not harass you for sex, you are right about that. They will talk about hot guys with you and when they are around other men do not come to hit on you, so protective in that area and if a dude does try to do something they will defend you. Gay men are still men, but they are better friends than straight men since their sexual energy is directed elsewhere. The only other way to get this is like with a brother or cousin but then you have to hear their creepy comment…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 07:09 AM
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If all those guys had muted sex drives then it wouldn't be exhausting to do that. Women do have multiple men in college hookup culture though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 07:04 AM
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Teen girls love pretty men, and all men no matter their age want teen girls. It would be in men's interest to pay attention to what those women desire. Nobody is dreaming about a man who thinks wiping his own butt is gay and that bathing is feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 07:01 AM
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Every teen girl wants lots of boyfriends but they quickly learn to be quiet about it. It's only something mentioned at sleepovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 06:59 AM
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I agree with this, especially in teen girls, they wish to have many boyfriends and tend to have lots of crushes during that age too. It's pretty common but again women would never tell men that cuz men immediately get butthurt and call them names.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 06:58 AM
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Yes I understand, notice how everything is given cutesy names like breathplay and choking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 08:23 PM
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Men are like that cuz their dads didn't encourage them to be better than beer and gaming. And they are not aging out of that stage. Most dudes in their thirties are still in that stage and only have a mattress on the floor and a console to show for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 08:14 PM
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It's so dumb, all the subs say it's worth it for the 'aftercare'. So you're gonna let someone abuse you just so they treat you with kindness and attention later. It's basically the same as having abusive relationship and then waiting for the lovebombing and the sorrys and the chocolates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:00 PM
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There was a King of the Hill episode about Halloween being demonized. Trunk o treats is also perfect for lazy parents. There's articles about how sad this new tradition is and how parents fear prevents kids from having fun and being independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 03:27 PM
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Idaho. Trunk or treats are being heavily promoted by churches. Sometimes the neighbors will do it in the cul de sac on their own but they're always midday, far away from the sunset. Pumpkin patches. The religious right seems scared of Halloween now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 03:19 PM
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Yes. There are still some really good streets left where all the neighbors participate and those get flocked to, but then that causes more people to give up on their own street since nobody came to their house. Instead of promoting generosity and joy, it's being destroyed. I feel sad for those old people who loved Halloween cuz of all the visitors and the opportunity to bake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 10:26 AM
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I do not get the concept of 'he only beats me and abuses me in bed.' Or 'It's just a fantasy!'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:17 AM
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Porn actors aren't sexually skilled though, many are rapists and do things that are not on script and against the actresses wishes. So that dude is watching a guy rape and abuse someone and then he thinks that that's how sex should be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:11 AM
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Yeah they're not paying attention to nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:05 AM
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Lol every body can kill animal to eat, but it's strange if they rape and torture it first. But maybe that's natural too. Maybe men are just waiting to rape and torture but sadly it's Bic macs and mountain dew keeping them from it. In fact it's strange to not satisfy the peen before eating. It's a must.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 09:55 AM
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You are right. We should go back to eating people. Then overpopulation would be solved. Also then it is right, that the worst of people is the most natural. You are just barely holding back your urge to rape and kill and are no different from a cat or a mouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 09:20 AM
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Seems like not all people behave the same way. There are definitely those parents who are happy for all the kids on the team and there are definitely parents who only want their kid to shine, fuck the team. Most people want all the kids to do well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 02:53 AM
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Female separatist bad, men going their own way good. It's silly but some people want to be hermits, maybe they should use that word. It's gender neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 02:49 AM
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That is a bad example since of course a cat is gonna kill a mouse, it'd be strange not to. But if my child killed somebody they can rot in jail, and I'd mourn the loss of the child I knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 02:39 AM
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Halloween is a sad shadow of itself with the preference for 'trunk or treats' and many people do not decorate or participate. Christmas is also getting there, very little decoration when it used to be all houses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 02:29 AM
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He won't give you one anyway. It's been a year and you don't know. Should have stopped talking to him long ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:51 PM
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The spoils of war has always been rape. Also what is India's excuse? I think the number of sicko is much greater than you think. If there weren't laws rape would occur much more, because men would literally think it is ok. As they always have. They just don't want their own family members raped but anyone else is fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 09:09 PM
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If you're under 18 you are pretty much sheltered from reality. Everybody gets fooled by the big college scam, thinking that a degree will make them rich. Everybody lies to you and says follow your dreams. Nobody say that when you try to be a model the photographers are gonna try to sleep with you. Nobody says the same thing happens with producers and directors either. And with porn, they say it's safe cuz there's rules. All these girls are just trusting that the rules will protect them. And they…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:09 PM
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So ptsd is why the Russian army gang raped together? Male sexuality is very malleable. We see how changes are coming about in preferences now that Internet porn is widely available. The trend is becoming more violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 03:13 PM
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Some people are just animals. The issue with women is if someone makes a mess they ignore it. Like if the toilet is automatic and went off the wrong time, then next person is afraid to flush it. Which is silly, just press the button.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 05:25 PM
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Tall dudes are hard to sleep with. Personally I don't like being eyelvel to a bellybutton. 5'8 is perfect for me but 5'4 is good too. That's my window.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 04:24 PM
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Missed point entirely. I wasn't talking about what is current now. I personally prefer Latinos and not whites but I also have my own money and place so it's not a status thing. It is regretful that Mexican men have a reputation of being abusive or cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 04:10 PM
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Prolaspe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 04:05 PM
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Is it a dick pic?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 02:58 PM
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Which is why India and African countries have population problems. Most of those women didn't become pregnant on their terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 02:57 PM
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Yeah men are thinking of their dick being in the vagina, they don't really like vagina itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 02:56 PM
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History does. Mexicans have Spanish blood because it was forced onto them. It's not because the indigenous women overwhelmingly preferred white men. Men rape when it's accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 02:53 PM
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You are
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 02:47 PM
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All Puerto Ricans only have maternal indigenous blood. It was the first place the Spaniards landed. They killed all the men and raped all the women and children. This was recorded in their journals. Rape is where most people come from historically. It why Genghis Kahn was able to father so many children. It's very very recent that we have countries where rape is low and women have more control over their lives. Very recent that women are able to choose who they love freely, without societal cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 02:46 PM
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From history. Men aren't only raping the prettiest women. They aren't only marrying the prettiest women. They aren't fucking only the prettiest women. No human can be born naturally without sperm, so if a more undesirable person gets pregnant that's the man's fault. Every man wants a ton of women and if some uglies get pregnant then oh well. Every man wants to fuck and they don't care if the ugly girl gets pregnant, or the disabled one, or the one too young. Because of all the wars and raping a …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 02:40 PM
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Hahah you are so silly! You think a person is gonna laugh at a dick from somebody they want? There's no point in making a person that you're interested in feel bad, and no reason to shame them. If a woman really likes a man, she will tolerate the micropeen and never say a word to him about it. But randos that are unwanted will be shamed because it is gross behaviour and they usually have gross dicks too. Grossness seeps out in many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 02:28 PM
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Send a flaccid one. Like I said. Why would a flaccid dick and an erect dick be any different if women love the look of dicks. It's still the same dick right? It's cause the erect one is useful to the woman. Also unsolicited dick pics are hilarious. Me and my friends would share them around and make fun of them and the dudes who do that weirdo crap. A guy I'm seeing, I'm gonna like his dick if it feels nice and I like him. Without the dude attached a dick means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 02:12 PM
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They just might like your pics. Not that it looks nice but they think it will feel nice. Nobody ever really thinks 'Damn that's a beautiful dick.' Dicks look like naked mole rats. Send an unerect dick if you think women like to look at dicks so much. Do it. Send a flaccid one and try to get complements.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:56 PM
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Most guys would do those things if they were socially acceptable. Since we had tons of cultures where those things were acceptable and still have cultures where those things are acceptable. Male sexuality is very fluid. If pederasty is accepted everybody gonna pedo, if taking child brides is accepted, everybody has a child bride, if fucking goats is accepted, they fuck goats.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:53 PM
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Lol women do think penises are gross. Everybody on the internet trashes dick pics. Women just want to see if the dick can do the job, not that they think it's beautiful. Nice penises are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:48 PM
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It was in Ancient Greece. It was accepted and widely done. There are still groups in the Middle East that practice pederasty currently as well. And the long tradition of Catholic Priests, I believe it is a carry over.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:45 PM
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Yes but they also think penises are gross and still suck them. Pretty much have to suck peen to even have a bf but men have whole marriages where they do nothing for the wife sexually. Servicing a man is more culturally accepted than pleasuring a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:37 PM
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Then how come the Greeks were able to normalize pederasty? Plenty of people were on board. Definitely socialized to see that as acceptable. There's a village in Brazil where fucking goats is seen as a normal thing. Is it just because the goats are so hot or is it because social perception says that this is an okay thing to do. Plenty of the villagers are doing it because they're not shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:32 PM
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Raping causes more ugly and retarded people. The low standards of men cause the gene pool to be soured. Syphilis came from goats. A guy will fuck what he can fuck. Whether it's a child a goat or a person against their will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:26 PM
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Most people would be more attractive if they had better health and good hygiene/grooming. Most of the men in food factories I've worked in are not washing their hands after they pee and then they handle your food. These guys, they make the whole hallway smell of piss because of the state of their bathroom. There's stories of people shitting on top of another person's shit just because the toilet was plugged and yet these people do routine maintenace all the time. They can't use a plunger? If a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:24 PM
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Somehow people still reproduced before makeup was invented. It's because even if a woman is ugly a man will still fuck. And it's mostly because of raping, do you think when the Spaniards came, they only raped the pretty natives. They raped them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:14 PM
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Men think vaginas are ugly and gross. They are usually repulsed because it doesn't look like the ones in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:11 PM
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I don't think anuses are meant for anything but pooping. They are not sexy. Gay men don't really have a choice so they get a pass cuz they need something. Anal was very taboo when I was a teenagers and it was for gays only. Pooping on other people is not sexy, getting off to rape and abuse, not sexy. Goats aren't sexy, children aren't sexy, necrophilia not sexy. I think that's why people think male sexuality is disgusting, because you guys can condition yourselves to find anything arousing. Nobo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:06 PM
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I don't believe anybody should call their exes crazy. It's a sign that they aren't exactly angels themselves and aren't willing to own up to their part. Very few people are actually crazy. People who are dangerous and destructive, like breaking your stuff after an argument, are crazy. People who might cause physical harm, crazy. Having arguments isn't crazy. Nagging isn't crazy. Anything you don't like doesn't equal crazy. I've only had one 'crazy' ex and I left because the possibility of physic…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 07:28 PM
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As always keep your guard up and have an emergency fund that only you know about. Again, dudes may hide their true nature for years and then when something big happens (ex a pregnancy) they can completely change. As long as he is doing the work he needs to do to with his issues (like taking his meds consistently and doing whatever therapy he needs) then it might be ok. Very rarely do men do the inner work they need though. Always protect youself for you are your strongest asset. And that doesn't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:39 AM
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Does he tell you you are childish? I hope not. That age gap is concerning to me but I wish you luck and if it goes south this sub is here to help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:13 AM
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Oh well that is different but still be aware that there are plenty of stories on reddit where the man says he doesn't want children and strings his gf along for years and then has a baby with the next one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:04 AM
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Why stick with someone who doesn't have the same goals as you? Obviously there is no such thing as a perfect partner but you shouldn't have to compromise on important things like that. It's not the same as him liking rocky road ice cream and you liking vanilla.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:00 AM
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Oppressive porn use
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 07:06 PM
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Then men are dehumanizing women and children on a massive scale. These things are very popular but they aren't the type of things that people are going to openly admit. There is a massive market.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 03:12 PM
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The fact that mass tragedies happen at all. All those people joined in to cause the suffering and death of another group of people. The fact that child pornography is incredibly popular, sex trafficking very popular. I understand shooting someone to win a war, anything other is unnecessary. Kinda like cop beatings, much of the force is unnecessary and excessive. Those people who do those beatings do it because they like it and want to, not cause there's a stipulation that says a person's face mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 02:50 PM
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Well I don't think being a rapist or pedophile is an anomaly. It's probably a part of someone's true self and then if you have circumstances where those things are acceptable then it just shows that most ppl's true selves are barbaric and cruel. Therefore the true self must be reigned in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 02:37 PM
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Well the ones that okayed pedophilia, like the post described. Vikings, they were allowed to rape and pillage. Spaniards went around raping and killing everybody, nobody told them to stop. It's pretty much okay to rape people in war, plenty of rapes in WWll.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 12:05 PM
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If everybody was their 'true self' the world would be even uglier than it already is. We had civilizations that catered to that already as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 09:20 AM
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Why do men think that becoming healthy and picking up socks is changing them from their 'true self'. We already see what happens to feral and neglected children, that's the human true self if order isn't imposed and self improvement not pursued.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 08:27 AM
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Because getting a blowjob makes emotional bonds stronger and that's why once a guy has a blowjob from too many women he's emotionally damaged and can't pairbond.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 08:24 AM
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Mainstream culture makes it seem like men do not really want or care about those things though and would rather have a blowjob. It's only worth being romantic like that if they reciprocate in kind and are also appreciative.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 07:32 PM
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I'm glad that you see the act of 'getting girls' is mainly a performance to impress other men. If your whole life is just about impressing other men and trading nudes like Pokémon cards, then it's pretty pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 07:28 PM
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Nobody other than in higher education or on Reddit really cares about the exact definition. People are going to use the definition that they use in daily language. You're acting obtuse. If I went to the Favelas telling people that they're using a word wrong and it's not the first definition, do you'd think they care? At the end of the day I know what they mean and I don't have to put on false airs about my proper speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 06:18 AM
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Your English is dictionary English, it's only useful for studies. Nobody here would classify doctors, politicians, and policeman as enablers. It is technically correct, yes, but the usage of a word does matter and in the US we do not use it like that. Is Brazilian Portuguese exactly like the one in Portugal?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 06:02 AM
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Why would a word ever have more than one meaning?- you probably
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 05:50 AM
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Yes ignore the other uses of the word that don't fit your agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 05:37 AM
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Quick Google of the word will show you the second definition of it and it's more common usage in the US. Nobody in the US would commonly describe service providers as enablers. You are the troll claiming to be ignorant of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 04:42 AM
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I personally don't view police men or doctors as enablers, they provide a service and are paid for it in money. Your definition of enabling isn't what most people think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 03:49 AM
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They are enablers. They bury their heads in the sand when a man acts badly and allow him to continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 02:44 AM
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Yes cuz I expect my dr to do everything for me and it's their fault if I'm overweight lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 02:43 AM
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His parents should have taught him way earlier to be considerate of others. At 25 it's more likely he doesn't want to. Also, almost everybody understands how to act when ppl are sleeping. Mainly because as teenagers they want to watch tv or play games and not wake their parents past bedtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 01:16 PM
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Why won't women enable me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 01:06 PM
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Why does he lack awareness about the sound? Nobody wants to hear vacuuming or mowing when they're sleeping. Why would exploding zombies be any different? If he can hear he should be aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 12:54 PM
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What is that saying? When people show you who they are, believe them. Men who want to improve will research how to do so. Like if they don't want to go to the gym, all the support in the world will not get them there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 12:52 PM
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Becoming an enabler does nothing. Nobody respects their enablers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 12:46 PM
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At the end of the day it's like helping an addict. You cannot help an addict unless they really want to change. Unless the man truly wants to change he will not. Being an enabler is unhelpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 12:41 PM
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A man that actually is willing to put money into his appearance. Amazing. Hopefully you do not find this emasculating. Most men look like trolls simply because they're told that putting effort into looking good is emasculating. We want to encourage good behaviour. Other than that just focus on if he is treating you well and respecting you properly and that you are into him as a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:13 PM
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He'll do this shit and then act like he didn't know it was wrong. Terrible. All rapists like to pretend they don't know what rape is. And then men say that they don't need to be told not to rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 10:31 AM
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First few years are jumping through hoops. They purposely only offer required classes once a year just to make students attend longer. Constantly changing required classes or changing credit hours. Forcing you to buy a book you'll use once or a book you only need for the homework key and insult to injury the online homework program is sloppily made and glitchy. All of it is just finding ways to extract money from students. They don't make money by graduating people so it's in their best interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 07:47 PM
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Not lazy, just too idealistic. I guess if college is meant to drive the creativity out of you then it fulfills the purpose, cuz if you're too creative and ambitious then how are you gonna listen to a boss? Since joining the workforce I have repeatedly seen that it is not the smartest or hardworking people that get promoted. In fact, those that try to make the workplace better are scapegoated, because it makes people nervous about their jobs and their own performance. Your boss is not going to hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 06:09 PM
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Maybe assisted suicide will become popular. Most people do not want to live disabled or mentally feeble. If assisted suicide was allowed then the sick can remove themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 05:53 PM
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Less kids being born, less paternity fraud. Men should be happy. Less pregnancy scares. Maybe only wanted children will be born. Wanted children are loved and well taken care of. Happier adults. People opting out of parenting might be doing everyone a favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 05:45 PM
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What needs to happen is college needs to be fixed. Lots of people want to be engineers but jumping through hoops just to get a degree sucks. I didn't drop out cuz the coursework was too hard or I wasn't smart enough, but realizing that college is just like any other business that only cares about money really took my passion for learning away. Maybe engineering should be given to trade schools. Being taught by grad students and professors who don't want to teach and are only there because they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 05:38 PM
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You mean she's normal and plain I guess. As in no exciting back story, not that she's not interesting for you to interact with as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:02 PM
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It's not a fact. There are many types of humor and for whatever reason your type is not popular with whatever women you've come across. I don't know what your type of humor is. I don't say all men are humorless just because some men think pooping and farting is top tier or they like Jeff Foxworthy. I just ignore those ppl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 11:51 AM
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Have you told your fiance she isn't interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 11:42 AM
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If all your humor is about demeaning women or being gross then yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 11:40 AM
6

Best way possible for me tends to equal least amount of effort. If women took care of children that way, children would go hungry and unbathed. You can't always do what's only best for you if you want to have a family and stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:19 PM
6

Well what about when the guy is a high earner and still has a clean house when he lives alone but then when he gets married he suddenly doesn't know how to do anything? You can't deny that housework is seen as women's work even by very neat dudes. It's not really about how much work he is doing. There are high earning women who have long hours too. So it's not about the job at all, it's that men perceive that that stuff is for women, even when he has a successful hard working wife too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:13 PM
2

Women want to be desired only by the people they desire. Like if I'm taken I only want to be desired by the man I'm with. When single I want to be desired by the men I like. And I want those men to be respectful too. Grabbing or hollering is disgusting by anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:37 PM
2

Graceful men are like KPOP stars or Will Smith. They just look good all the time. Bad boy alphas look like they smell.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:07 PM
0

Women don't have hair trigger horniness. So yeah they probably wouldn't have much casual sex cuz nothing would get them in the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:00 PM
12

Why be graceful when so many just want to fuck? The men aren't graceful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 10:06 AM
1

Yeah but men say women shouldn't fuck unless they want to date. So nobody will be fucking without dating first.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 06:49 PM
6

Because they need bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:50 PM
4

It probably is too late for him on the porn thing. Try to show him the studies that it leads to reducing grey matter and ability to empathise, show him the articles about how porn is linked to sex trafficking and encourages abuse against women, show him how it destroys relationships. He may not care but show him. Show him what ex porn actresses say. Many guys cling to the happy interviews that porn actresses give to justify it, not wanting to acknowledge that just like waitresses and cashiers th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 08:58 PM
48

That makes me so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 08:19 PM
2

Why would it be through health insurance?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 08:01 PM
-1

If nobody were fucking there'd be a lot more raping. And there's already lots of raping as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 07:40 PM
2

So the man will pay for his mandatory paternity test
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 07:36 PM
8

I can tell it's a major fear for you but you're a brave soldier. Giving head is actually really dangerous because of the choking and the man literally towering over you and holding your head and being able to toss you across the room at a moment notice. Men are afraid of this as much as they are afraid of a woman jumping out of the bushes and raping them. In fact how can forced oral be a thing if it was really that much of a threat?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 05:27 PM
6

Well what lots of men do when women bite them is either choke or slap them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 05:21 PM
10

Men want women to have sex on first date but also say those women are undateable and not worthy of love and affection. Also we're told to vet better or not be easy. Pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 05:17 PM
3

Men should not cum in women. Sorry fellas, I know you don't want to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 05:15 PM
4

Who pays for the paternity test? If the govt and employers won't pay for birth control then it's unlikely they'll pay for paternity. It's paid by who wants it and if men want it they certainly can pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 05:10 PM
4

Plenty of women work in fields and factories, they're just brown so we don't care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 05:06 PM
18

People have rallied for less. They're rallying about masks right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 04:58 PM
1

Protect your property, never let women near condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 06:32 AM
1

Men have the choice to control their cum. There is no way a woman can get pregnant without cum. Protect yourselves dudes. Wearing condoms and pulling out is your best defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 02:56 AM
6

Nobody is gaslighting you. For whatever reason people saying don't join the military is hurting you. Are you worried about the military not being able to get recruits? Almost everybody is there for the education benefits. Most people see that the wars are shams. You were amazingly brave to serve and that is awesome. But the military doesn't need your defense, it has all the government's money, it will be fine. Most people in the US don't even know about the abuses the military has done to those …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 07:29 PM
5

If a worker in a factory dies because of unsafe conditions allowed by the factory, is it right for other workers in the factory to chime in saying 'I was safe tho' under the comments? Does that really add to the conversation about improving factory working conditions? It's like men saying 'not all men' or white people saying racism is gone cuz they haven't seen any cases of it. It's a kneejerk reaction, for some reason you're taking criticism of the military personally. I'm glad that the militar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 07:02 PM
10

What a nice apology. I can tell that you really understand where you crossed the line and why. Edit: also nobody is faulting you for working hard and finding success in military. We are very thankful that you are safe and sound.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:53 PM
11

Was the bullying worse than what you got during serving? For all the breaking down and building up you went through it seems a little criticism is too much for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:15 PM
14

Seems terribly tone death. Glad you weren't assaulted but the military doesn't need defending, they have the largest budget ever for pr and anything else they need. Just like the police they need to own up to their failings and fix them, not buckle down harder and saying well that's just how it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:08 PM
18

It's kinda like when moms let their children be assaulted by the same family member who assaulted them and then tell their children to deal with it. Terribly sad and fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:59 PM
2

What is awful sex for you? Not being sucked right? Not moaning enough or pandering enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 11:25 PM
4

Awful sex by women is because they're not enjoying it or were coerced. If men truly cared about their partner's enjoyment then they'd be more responsive. Men still nut whether a woman cums or not so they do not care. But if they like a woman they will try harder, but a stranger they do not care. Most women will say that their ONS experiences were sucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 11:19 PM
5

A man's orgasm is nearly guaranteed. Even if women are quiet or stiff they still nut.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 10:39 PM
6

ONS were a lot better before Internet porn took over and shaped the tastes of men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 08:25 PM
2

90% of ppl weren't born wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:30 PM
2

No not the good rougher.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:38 PM
8

Because they got drunk and horny. Once in a while there will be a good one night stand but for the most part the guy is rude and crappy in bed for the reasons stated above. He just wants his nut. Women's orgasms take more effort and the men who will take on that effort are very rare and it's rarer they'd do it for a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:33 PM
12

That's why they refer to hookup sex as 'crazy wild fun' sex. Cuz it's all about what they want and doing things that they wouldn't ask a wife or gf to do. They also have said that they're even worse when it's a fat girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:04 PM
26

Men like ONS because to them they don't have to worry about the other person at all. They don't care if she enjoys and they are actually rougher with the girls because fuck what's her name it's all about theirs. Guys only give good sex to ppl they love and care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 03:58 PM
2

I think if you want a family then ltrs are important. No families are made with fwb. It's the desire for family that makes fwbs implode. Someone will want something serious someday and then those arguments that OP is afraid of will happen and then he gets a new fwb. He must not want a family at this time or may not want one ever. Perfectly ok, he can have as many girls who want to sleep with him he can get. All guys can do that, unless they care about family.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 03:55 PM
5

Those are not normal. That's abuse. Not all longterm relationships are abusive but many are. Many people are fucked up from their shitty parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 03:50 PM
6

Sexist much? What's wrong with enjoying good food once in a while? Fun activities could include hiking or camping or a bonfire or gaming or anything under the sun. How is spending money on DLC for a game any less frivolous than buying a fancy coffee? Dudes spend tons on items for their games, or bet money on fantasy football. Or just sitting in a circle stoned as hell. Men have frivolous silly hobbies too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 03:07 PM
1

If someone went missing, how long would it take for you to worry?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 02:57 PM
10

Just like when everybody was jealous of their friends who had the 'cool' parents but then you grow up you realize those parents are shitty and irresponsible. You seem to be only into fair weather things if you think an fwb who barely cares about you is better than a loving stable partner. Sometimes showing people you care means worrying about their safety or encouraging them to improve. People are not just one sided 'for fun only' playthings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 02:55 PM
3

Running is a man's thing. So when a predator attacks you or when you're in danger, don't run. That's for men. Only men can run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 06:09 AM
2

All of my relationships just caused more problems. Even the fairly good ones. It is a lot of work to date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 04:28 PM
18

No upskirting either. Literally all of the sneaky ways they try to film women would go away, porn would be a shell of itself, if it existed at all. Everything out in the open, mystery gone, pervy fantasies gone. Women are just normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 10:37 AM
3

Oooh everyone suddenly gets healthy, scary! Jk I think you underestimate how lazy and gluttonous ppl in the civilized world are. We have way too much food available and suddenly being naked isn't gonna make the ppl of Walmart disappear. If everything about the culture is the same, ppl will still be fat lazy slobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 08:44 AM
24

Burkas don't stop them. Nothing does.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 08:41 AM
36

If nakedness was normalized, chaos wouldn't ensue like everybody thinks it will. All the naked peoples of the past weren't constantly fucking, they still had shit to get done like looking for food or raising kids. Even nudist colonies aren't giant orgies everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 08:40 AM
40

I think this would be good because then all the sexual tension would be gone, men would not be immediately undressing women with their eyes and they'd have normal conversations with women without reading into things. It would be a big improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 08:35 AM
2

Men's whole idea is the pill means condoms aren't needed anymore even though they should really protect themselves not rely on the word or accuracy of another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 01:41 AM
8

Can he afford vacations ONLY because his parents pay rent? Honestly I wouldn't take a man living with his parents seriously unless he was there to help THEM out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:45 PM
2

Nobody uses protection anymore either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 05:02 AM
25

Women: don't want to spend time to parent their lazy boyfriends and husbands: Evil psycho heartless bitches!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:18 PM
53

Why do men act like they have no control over their sperm?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:13 PM
19

It's clear he did it out of spite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:04 PM
35

It sounds real. There's too many post like these on reddit where the girl slips that something has sentimental value to her and her bf then destroys it. Can't let women enjoy anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:03 PM
131

They can serve it but can't take it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 03:59 PM
11

Unwanted children become unwanted adults
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 08:41 AM
1

All the men on here practically shout it from the rooftops that beauty and sex are what's most important to them. It's all over this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 04:20 AM
5

From my years of working in male dominated factories, most of those guys are somehow married and yet many say they wish they had not married and that their wife is ugly and they only married to have kids but those same men get their meals made by their wife, their children raised by their wife, their bills paid by their wife (many actually have wives that make more or the ones who don't their wives still manage finances for them), and their houses cleaned by their wife. They are absolute pigs to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 12:22 AM
5

From the way men talk online, nobody finds love. So even if you land a guy, he will never truly love, because he wants someone younger and dumber and prettier to lord over.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:52 PM
6

They want your stability and money, not your old dick. Every woman would want a young hot man if he was rich and stable too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:49 PM
2

Cuz those women want resources. They don't think that guy is a hot stud. They just have to pretend to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:48 PM
-3

They can wipe their tears with money and free time though, better than wiping a baby's butt. Men certainly don't line up to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:44 PM
5

Well they will have to after they stop earning money from onlyfans and private snaps and they all have blown out assholes from being pornstars. When everybody has their hand at sex work and suddenly realizes that not everybody can be successful doing it, then they'll see how not empowering it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:42 PM
9

Like those weird yoga guys who somehow end up with a harem and turns out to be a huge piece of shit but it's okay cuz he smokes pot and chants namaste.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:37 PM
3

And men want sex but not her as a person. I think that's more dehumanizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:35 PM
0

Most of the dudes working bottom wage jobs are not the most motivated or caring of ppl. All they care about are weed, beer, and gaming and then expect their gf to play mommy to them. That's why they are losers, it's not the job. Low wage jobs are actually very hard and taxing and employers treat you like shit, it's wrong to say those ppl are lazy. But they do tend to be lazy outside of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:30 PM
2

Nerd types are abusive too, just not physically
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:26 PM
6

Nobody likes men who are nice only to get pussy. It's that simple. Only be nice to women you may actually care about as a partner. Nobody likes fake shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 12:00 AM
136

She needs to notify her neighbor about the predatory pervert they live next to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:14 AM
1

But you're not everyone else clearly so why the hell aren't you happy? If you x re working out, have a great personality, good hygiene then why you whining? Clearly you're already winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 03:25 PM
5

Are you one of the few men who doesn't think Xbox and porn are the greatest things? Millennial men top 3 is porn, Xbox, then real pussy but paying attention to another human being is hard so real pussy isn't a must anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 03:23 PM
-3

I would hope that I'd have guided my son enough to avoid having him be a dweeb. I will let him know that appearance and social skills matter and that just because you are nice to people doesn't mean they are obligated to date you or love you. I will teach him good grooming and tell him no woman wants a man that can't wash his hands or brush his teeth, or that only games and masturbating as his main hobbies. Nobody wants a man like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 03:02 PM
6

They don't prevent rape but most men are afraid of repercussions from other men or the law. When it's legal to marry children, rape is plenty. If it was law to sleep with tweens, men would do so. All over the Internet men are saying 18 is too old. Everyone wants to be first and the only way to achieve that is to sleep with a young girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 02:21 PM
5

They would if there wasn't police. See India and everywhere else other than white ppl countries. Also white ppl do the most sex tourism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 02:09 PM
9

Ugly fat men rape women and children in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 01:57 PM
1

Nudes are a pain in the ass to take, and unfortunately can have very big social consequences. I also think it's weird to take sexy pics when bored. And your right about men not being fit enough for a session. Last end of my twenties more breaks were needed by the fellas, unless they consistently work out. Taking breaks fizzled the energy :(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 06:00 PM
1

Anectdote: When I was in college hookup culture was alive and well but nobody ever asked me for nudes, anal, or if they could choke me. Now those are like the first questions a man has when talking to someone and it is now seen that if a woman doesn't do those things she doesn't love you. It's gotten so warped.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 05:04 PM
3

KPOP men have surgery to look like that. Their jaws are literally shaved down, I don't think they'll outgrow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 03:55 PM
1

I understand hiding a gut. But the skinny or normal weight men are no strangers to wearing things too big. Also in the several factories I've worked at, the men choose to wear large disposable gloves even though mediums are available, not every man has large hands. We have plenty of short or slight men here. For me I need smalls, the mediums work in a pinch but it makes grabbing things difficult and the ends get caught when I'm tightening clamps or reassembling machine parts. I'd think a man wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 03:37 PM
3

Diet and fitness play a big role. Men with poorer genetics age very badly during their 20's. A person with good genetics may be able to hold out longer but it will also catch up to them. I've seen guys who were absolute cuties in my high school turn into poor schlubs because they spent their time drinking, eating, and gaming. Even in college the freshmen look better mostly because they don't have 4 years of booze and bachelor food under their belt. Good diet also helps stave off hairless and gre…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:04 PM
1

Looks wise, I prefer men in their early twenties because few have beer bellies or are balding, many are still fit and dressing nice, they still have an interest in working out and going places. Mentally, men 2-4 years older have been good cuz they're not too wild or immature but also their partying and bad habits are starting to take a toll on their looks and they aren't as adventurous and want to stay home and drink. Maybe a responsible 26yr old would be good. People +/- 4yrs are the most likel…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 01:48 PM
4

It's true all you have to do is see who rockstars are choosing. Every decade too, not just the 60's-70's, emo scene tons were sleeping with their young fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 01:40 PM
2

I was in college about 8 yrs ago and yes I remember people wearing sweats to class but not to parties. Maybe that has changed. Some girls did wear sweats to parties but they were always the upperclassmen who were good friends with the hosts and not really looking to meet anybody at the parties. Makeup in general is just a lot of work. I only wear it when I want to look super good, but I would wear it everyday when I was much younger. You do get treated much nicer if it's on though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 01:18 PM
5

I wear clothes of all sizes too but I'm also aware that ppl are not likely to hit me up in my comfy casual wear, not my best look. Few men dress nicer for their dates now, they do not care to put on a crisper shirt. People think 'take me as I am' means accepting their low effort but then they want a partner who looks nice for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 11:34 AM
2

Well I mean it is be localized to my state and my country but I have traveled elsewhere and see the same things. Many dudes find something familiar and comfortable and stick with it and it's usually influenced by what their moms made them wear or even what she didn't make them wear. A mom who didn't care usually gets a son that wears a t-shirt too big for him and awkward looking pants or basketball short as their daily uniform.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:54 AM
3

Dude Latino Men can be any shade. And most are attractive because the culture usually encourages everybody to look spiffy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:43 AM
5

Then why are they whining?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:41 AM
6

I have eyes and I move freely about the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:41 AM
6

There's tons of ppl not fat or bald and yet they still look like a poor ten yr old. Many dudes wear the same crap they've been wearing since 5th grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:40 AM
3

The people who are doing it for aesthetic are not the ones in trouble lmao. Aesthetic implies they care about a style, even if it might not be the mainstream style. Ppl wearing Jnco know what they're doing and they're gonna attract ppl in that niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:37 AM
5

Many dudes buy clothes too big for them. Many mediums are wearing larges cuz of vanity and wanting to feel manly. They also wear condoms too big for them as well. They'll apply that thinking to anything. No man wants to wear a small.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:34 AM
2

Latino Men are hot. It's cuz they have a very nice color and also are usually clean and want to look good, keeping up with trends. Similar colored Indians, Arabians, or Asians could look just as good but often they dress nerdy or are still wearing whatever their moms put on them in the 90's. There are style guides for men and now there are famous men of all colors too. I do not know why men do not just copy what celebrities wear. It's easy. You can even Google images of ppl of your ethnicity and…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:31 AM
2

Can I tell you something? Teenage and college age men, at least the ones I knew and saw around me when I was also in school with them, did put effort into their look. Even cowboys dressed sharp and cared about having nice hair and Cologne and nice jeans and boots. Young men, who aren't poor or aren't lazy, do put effort into what they wear, how they smell, and how their hair and beards look. But for some reason either after leaving college or after having a stable ltr their attention to these th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:24 AM
14

Sounds kinda like autogynephilia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 07:22 PM
3

I think they had a post of why they don't give beauty or fitness advice and that is because women have plenty of available resources for that. They also link to those subs with that focus. Every woman from the beginning of her childhood has it drummed into her that attractiveness in important and if they're on the internet searching for dating advice they've probably already searched for for that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 04:32 PM
26

Men's version is he's bald, 40, and has a beer belly and maybe a baby momma or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:53 AM
2

Women don't like foreigners because usually ppl straight off the boat are rude and sexist and hold the crappy beliefs of their old country. There can be many good looking foreign men but if they don't attempt to assimilate into their new culture they will be rejected. Unfortunately for second generation immigrants, this stereotype is then projected onto them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:07 PM
4

Honestly ppl who like being degraded in bed but also care about being pc and woke can go fuck themselves. Abuse is never ok and I hate those people for encouraging and normalizing abuse as kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:52 PM
11

I would like to be married and have a family too but I also want to be the best I can possibly be so that I can handle that stuff. Anytime I get a little sad I just think about my old relationships and how proud I am at walking away from the disrespect and neglect I endured from them. I'm not going to put up with that crap no more. Even if I am single for the rest of my days, it's way better than being yelled at or constantly crying. My time and energy belongs to me and there's no better freedom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:33 PM
3

Most people don't even know what healthy sex is because all they give a damn about is getting off and to hell with the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 02:46 PM
1

Also, I dunno about how the how Covid thing is going on college campuses but is there any way for you to spend as much time as possible in the Commons, or wherever they have Internet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 09:16 PM
3

Try getting a part time job or work study to help pay for your commute or find something closer. He's not obligated to let you stay. Do you have any friends you could couch surf with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 09:14 PM
0

Hard things to do, understandably.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:56 PM
1

Intelligence and beauty are not mutually exclusive. The best genes bestow both.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:09 AM
2

I don't think men have ever thought they needed women except for kids and sex and a clean house.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 11:40 AM
3

I like the parts about Free the Nipple where classical art shouldn't be censored and that women's nipples shouldn't be seen as scandalous and the idea of nonsexualizing them so that women can breastfeed when they need to. But I have no desire to walk around topless. It's the same as the breast cancer campaign that says 'Save the boobies!' It doesn't seem to care about women at all and is instead focusing on a body part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:29 AM
1

Family values always meant letting your husband sleep around and beat you for the good of the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:24 AM
1

But they blame their bad behaviour by being raised by single moms. You just said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 09:38 PM
1

Do you enjoy most people and think that they were raised correctly? Do you really think that the world is wholesome? Most ppl in India are raised by two married parents and it's still a rape fest there. Why aren't the men happy?!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 09:35 PM
1

How many ppl are married to good mates? Most marriages are absolute shit and most ppl are raised by absolute shit parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 09:25 PM
2

The majority of men are bad mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 07:07 PM
1

He sounds worthless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 06:40 AM
2

Wtf is this horseshit? He's sounds like those 'may I please have a crumb of pussy' memos on fb but those are meant to be satirical, not a guide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 07:36 PM
1

Basically everyone in my whole state
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 07:29 PM
1

Also the guys you described sound like dweebs as in they are probably boring and look like they're going to seminary. What guys think is looking nice is different from what girls think is looking nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 11:16 PM
1

So that guy, he is being perceived as the sensitive artist that college girls love. His band is gonna take off any day now and the couch surfing will stop, I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 11:08 PM
32

Lots of men have shitty prison tatts done by their friends and tons of debt. In fact most of the men in my area are in debt just to have a fancy truck and gaming setup. Won't pay a dime for a nice tattoo though. They can stfu.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 12:21 AM
48

A lot of the solutions are 'have you tried watching porn with him???'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 12:15 AM
4

You were right to be annoyed that he said he would visit some other girl but not you. If you really mattered to him, he could do it. He would somehow find a way to save. Men go out of their way to see the lady they really want. Fortunately, you are not that person for this guy, and so you can clear yourself of this worry and direct your energy to things that will benefit your life instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 12:00 AM
10

He may like you, but not enough for actual effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 07:45 PM
14

He's not into you and has said that several times. You can still be friends but the next time a guy doesn't want to give you a real relationship and offers with sex only, please listen and do not give him anymore romantic attention. A person who is into you will let you know. Some ppl just really like the thrill of flirting but it's just an ego boost for them and not serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 07:20 PM
10

Yes cuz 'suck my dick' is a respectful opener.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 03:23 AM
3

I've seen some beautiful short men who have tons of swagger and confidence, they know they look good and I've seen tons of tall men with gross humped backs because they won't own their height.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 03:20 AM
1

Many incels still want women and they joke about raping women even though they jerk off plenty
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 03:18 AM
8

80/20 means only 20% of men aren't afraid to take good care of themselves and donxt think looking nice is gay. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 09:14 PM
31

Women aren't on there because being on there is terribly unpleasant. There are a lot of sketchy profiles, a lot of rude convos. It's just not fun other than looking through profiles, kinda like looking @ baseball cards. That's the main entertainment there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 09:08 PM
12

Yes women are known for murdering their partners in violent rage. It's a big fear for men. In fact men always avoid me because they are so fearful of women and it hurts my feelings when men cross the street in fear to avoid walking next to me. It hurts my feelings cuz I'm one of the 'good women' and would never try to hurt someone although I pressure ppl into sex all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 08:03 PM
2

You make it sound like you already have dozens of kids
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 05:14 AM
3

Maybe men are bad because they hump those things. So the standards are so low, like doesn't hump animals or children= good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 09:54 AM
10

Good question. Maybe he can't tell their age until after he sleeps with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 09:51 AM
1

How many kids do you have? Are you planning on a child army?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 09:49 AM
4

Working makes ppl depressed and apathetic. Nobody enjoys work, if we didn't have to work in unfriendly environments every single day then I think ppl would enjoy life more. Like I understand why men turn to video games and drinking, I want to do that too but I care about having food and a place to live more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 09:47 AM
30

He looks ok for 30 in my area. Not balding, overall chubby- not a beer belly, has decent skin, looks happy. Still could do a lot better though. Most dudes in my area look busted as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 10:04 AM
32

Do you think the virus will actually get men to wash their damn hands?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:57 AM
0

Because before it was just occasional 'for your birthday' type stuff. But no, people are demanding weird shit every single time right off the bat. And eventually that stuff gets boring and blase too and now we are having people dying during sex cuz they're always upping the ante.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 04:27 AM
1

Weak
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 09:46 PM
1

Pfffft. Overpaid assholes that only says 'work harder! Work faster!' Must be fun to lick boots.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 01:55 AM
2

You must have nice supervisors who aren't on your ass just to inflate their ego. Almost everything a supervisor says is dumb as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 01:52 AM
0

Lol dads don't raise kids
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 07:49 PM
4

Lol supervisors bitch so much. The only difference is it's a man bitchin to another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 07:46 PM
5

The only problem is will those men be really satisfied with just a doll? It's the same argument for not giving pedos child dolls, eventually they will want a real child.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 07:09 AM
3

Everytime I show a guy what my ideal man looks like they call him a pussy because that's not what their idea of manliness looks like. And they always tell me that what I desire is wrong and it's like nope, sorry I'm not into cavemen who don't groom or bathe, I don't need a lumberjack with a jaw the size of Texas. I'm just really not into rugged men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 05:40 PM
2

To be fair, I think it takes a lot of work to get obese. It is a conscious decision to overeat and over indulge in beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 09:12 PM
1

Don't go into malls then. Pick a standalone store or do online shopping. It's the mall atmosphere that's confusing you, making it seem like you don't have time to choose. Every guy knows how to use a tape measure, surely he can learn what his measurements are. People need to temper their expectations. You're not gonna lose 20 lbs in one month but maybe the 5 that you do lose helps you gain more points socially and boosts your confidence enough to try to lose more. You have to be a novice first b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 08:56 PM
6

You are a rarity on the internet! But I think you are more selfassured than most guys on here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 08:30 PM
3

Men don't have anywhere for their fat to go, it's either a pot belly or they get breasts and both are femininity for men so that's why nobody likes chubby men, they look pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 08:22 PM
6

I want you to know that I support you and that I know you are a strong person and that you can get out of this situation. And I also know how hard it it when someone pulls the suicide card out, it's heatwrenching but they know what they are doing to manipulate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 06:59 AM
3

I'm going to tell you that this is a guy who does not share. He should trust you and those investing apps require pin numbers to get into anyway so that's a weird reaction for him to have. Like I have my bank app and my investing one and my financial tracking one, all require a pin or password everytime. I don't think he's really worried about you hacking his investments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 06:47 AM
7

I'm surprised she's on the internet. :( Will she get beaten for posting this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 06:11 AM
4

And I'm going to tell you that maybe being around this man is not good for your illness either. How can your body have a chance if your mind is constantly suffering?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 06:07 AM
12

Try to save as much money in secrecy as you can! Find any way! And look to see if there are shelters you can go to. You are being abused and you do not deserve this. There is a better life out there for you! You are not responsible for this man and his bad choices. Do not let him bully you into thinking so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 06:03 AM
6

People know men are stronger, they just don't realize how much stronger. People who have been beaten by a man know, but not the general public.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 12:00 AM
5

You make children seem way too wonderful, as if they're a pet. Most parents never wanted their children and that's why people are so terribly fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 05:24 PM
197

It's women trying to make their men feel better. Cuz men get super huffy when you say a movie star or popstar is hot but it's okay for their eyes to follow every woman walking about when you're having lunch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:33 AM
1

She probably shared cuz she wanted you to do that thing too. But I think people should not use their real life experiences to ask for something. People just can't handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:40 AM
8

Maybe women stop doing those kinky things because those kinky things never actually felt good to them? I donxt think anybody wants to participate in bad sex, people will do almost anything for good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:35 AM
10

They should be taught that porn is shameful! It is rape and men want to hang on so much to their delusion of happy pornstars and prostitutes. The only time they say porn is bad is when they have ED or other areas of their life is slipping. They are not thinking about the lives of those they're watching. And hypocrites that they are, they don't want their daughters going down that path cuz they know the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:42 PM
3

I actually like Musk, he seems relateable somehow. I just used him as an example of a rich person, he could, if he wanted, get really fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 09:13 AM
1

You are very dim. Anal sex really became a big thing ten yrs ago. And now it's expected to be on the menu. Before then it was just left to the ppl who wanted it, not a thing that everybody must try or it shows that you don't love your partner. It went from being politely asked about it to men trying to say 'they slipped' and 'Just to try it for a little.' These aren't anal enthusiasts, they're not worried about properly prepping, they just go for it on impulse and that tells me it's cuz they saw…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 10:12 PM
1

Young ppl jump on trends all the time! About 5yrs ago eating ass was a joke, but now ppl are seriously requesting it. It has has to do with exposure. Once you are constantly exposed to something you get used to it and it becomes the new normal. Men genuinely think that women like being jackhammered! They barely know about the clit. They get most of their education about the female body from porn since it's certainly not provided in school. They think 5 secs of fingering is gonna get us off. Youn…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 10:04 PM
1

Aww thank you that is an especially sweet reply. I just really do fear for kids growing up now, the landscape is much different. I feel sad that kids aren't playing outside anymore and that they're not being watched closely enough on the internet. I think it's scary how much people think they aren't influenced by the things they consume. Lots of people defend Internet porn but its a whole different beast and I've seen the changes in men. I'm glad that you have talked to your children about this …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:47 PM
2

Doesn't help with pregnancy. And pregnancy comes with all different levels of disability. It really could be the thing that tips someone into poverty because jobs do not want to hire or accommodate pregnant women. Even though there are laws to protect workers, businesses always skirt them and always lobby to have those laws removed or relaxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:28 PM
1

Garbage men make good wages! So do plumbers and other trades. They often make more than ppl with degrees. I don't think anybody is turning down a garbage man, that's a city job and city jobs are good! Retail or cashier work though, that hardly has any benefit. Fast food, I feel sad for those workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:19 PM
2

Sounds like men who will almost always take the chance to cheat if they could. They may. Not leave their wife but they will fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:15 PM
8

I remember a dude being like 'hey don't you want to ride in my ferrari?' And super shocked that I didn't give a fuck. Some people care only about money and things but some don't because they can provide for themselves. Elon Musk is still fugly , Bezos is fugly. They could make themselves look better with their money but don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:14 PM
6

Most ppl in the US wear t-shirts and jeans and ppl are raped and harassed in various types of clothing. Men are always thinking of women sexually no matter how they're dressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:11 PM
1

I'm just saying that one night stands didn't ask for that stuff back then and now they do. It's really offputting and I don't get the obsession with eating ass or anal or trying to hurt your partner. Before, people wanted a consenting partner and they cared more about their partner's enjoyment and comfort. They weren't so crass. Edit: and I was in a sorority. Swapping sexcapades was the preferred bonding activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 08:16 AM
3

As a person who was very active in the college hookup culture at that time, I think I have pretty good knowledge. Nobody was talking about choking or anal, both were still fringey, anal was seen as gay! Nobody ever asked me to do those things either! Maybe it was only my campus who knows, but I just know that the men in my class were not raised on Internet porn from age 8 on. They still were purer in a way, more respectful, more worried about the woman's comfort and pleasure. Tinder wasn't reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:24 AM
1

You are very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:15 AM
1

Not in this thread, you just said you liked rough sex and I'm telling you that the expectations of rough sex are different now. I'm sure lots of men try to do things unasked to you. If you like strangulation then fine, that's you. But now because of Internet porn almost every young man is putting their hands on women's necks or pining for anal. Exposure leads to normalization and desensitized men. Before Internet porn, those things were quietly done and with consent of the partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:14 AM
1

Wanting to please someone because you like them isn't the same as doing something because you genuinely like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:05 AM
4

Enough demands and then you begin to expect. Teens are seeing this stuff in porn and then they think that that's the norm. What’s depicted in porn? It's not love or intimacy or respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:04 AM
2

Well maybe they did ask for it once they got comfortable with their partner and both felt safe with each other. Now you've just got strangers asking for hardcore shit right away and I believe it is because of Internet porn. Unpopular opinion but I miss the days when anal was seen as a gay thing to do. Edit: most men don't even ask, they just do that crap and then look like you killed their puppy when you tell them off. Like they actually believe they have the right to choke ppl or try anal witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:01 AM
0

No! Men are the majority of consumers in porn. We are now just seeing the generations raised up on Internet porn. Internet porn is way more insidious, it's always upping the ante and freely accessible so people are more likely to need more and more stimulation and so they go from tame things to harder stuff quickly. And we have kids looking at this stuff, so kids who are age 8-10 are watching hardcore porn and you don't think they're pressuring their girlfriends to do that stuff? You don't think…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 05:58 AM
0

The difference is those people probably asked their partners first before just doing shit like men never ask anymore. They just start jamming things in your butt or try to choke you. It's expected now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 05:46 AM
2

It was less common, not expected. Now it's expected and almost every guy tries to sneak their hands around my neck or they want anal or they want nudes. I miss the days when those things weren't expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 05:45 AM
1

I too enjoy rough sex but not choking, slapping, spitting. I do not want abuse. Fast and hard isn't rough and if it hurts too much then man should stop. Instead men are ignoring boundaries willy nilly. If you want to be slapped hard in the face and called a cuntt then fine, you're in the minority and the unicorn every man is looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 05:41 AM
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Nobody was doing this crap ten years ago. I was in college then, men were pretty horny but they weren't demanding anal or trying to choke me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:46 PM
3

Ppl who do that off the jump think you'll leave, so they try to predict what you may want. The idea is being the kinkiest girl gets you the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:45 PM
1

Porn
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:43 PM
14

Women want to please men, so tons of teens are doing this rough crap and daddy kink just so their the bfs can get off because they've seen that stuff since age 10. It's a porn influenced thing and porn is aimed at teens and tweens.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:43 PM
12

I do not like a abusive sex and it saddens me that men want to abuse women so badly just because they saw it in porn. Before the rise of internet porn, men weren't jamming things into butts without permission on such a large scale. You guys were way more careful amd respectful back then. Porn rots your brains and soon pedophilia will be mainstream the way things are going.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:40 PM
51

He probally saw her as an easy target. Terribly sad. He should not be allowed around children if he can't control himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 07:07 AM
63

She listened to him because she is a student and students are supposed to listen to their teachers. He's pathetic and sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 06:11 AM
1

It's not vanity to be healthy and clean. I dunno about you, but almost every time I've seen documentaries about indigenous ppl living the oldfashioned and simple way, they always had nice clear skin and weren't fat . We aren't meant to be fat, sick and depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 12:30 AM
2

The point went over your head buddy. If men took pride in their appearance and valued their bodies and lives then you all would look way better. Instead men just wanna hole up in the dungeon playing video games and eating chips, looking 30 going on 50. You don't have to deteriorate that fast! Nobody does! Edit: to your comment about fashion and hygiene, I think more men in the 50's participated in those things more uniformly, it was a set standard and expectation. Now there are people more hygie…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 11:13 PM
4

But if men feel disgusted by themselves, then how do they expect women to want them? Self care makes somebody seem high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 10:22 AM
1

Most men could be very attractive if they took better care of themselves. Most fat ppl are only ugly cuz they're fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 10:19 AM
1

The best thing my mom ever did for our quality of life was divorce my dad. I was very young so maybe I've blocked that whole period of my life out or simply don't remember but I do remember them fighting and how horrible and scary that was. When my mom didn't have to take care of my dad anymore, she was able to be a better parent for me and my sister and she was able to focus on getting a good job. It was very tough at first for my mom but I think small children won't notice the lack of two inco…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:37 AM
4

It might have to do with Japanese culture. I've heard that they don't generally use the phrase 'I love you' instead preferring the one that indicates a 'strong liking' instead and that public displays of affection are also avoided. But even so, you would hope that he would feel comfortable enough to be affectionate with you when you guys are alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 01:29 AM
47

I think you did the right thing. He was just trying to keep you on the hook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 01:17 AM
2

If their biological sex is male then yeah. The butchest lesbian is still a woman, the most effeminate gay man is still a man. He still has way more natural strength and testosterone than I will ever have.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 06:15 AM
7

Check out r/gendercritical. It just kinda points out that it seems more like a fetish than anything. Like if they would act normal and not make everything about sex then nobody would even care I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:32 AM
8

Do I have to be sexually interested in a man to see him as a man? I'm pretty sure a man is just a man if he has male sex characteristics and is past puberty. Are 70yr old dudes men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:10 AM
9

I do. I have a hard time taking trans people seriously though. I don't like when somebody is just performing, ya know. There are manly gay men and then there are the performative people where everything is just a caricature of sexuality. I guess that's what I don't like. So I don't like ppl trying to be super macho or super feminine and trying to be a stereotype, it feels fake. Like I never feel the need to be like 'I'm a woman! Look at my boobs! I have sex!' whereas for some people of either ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:46 AM
2

Why are they having more kids? Like how long have they not wanted their already existing child?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:14 AM
17

For me it started when tinder and tumblr became big. I went to college 2008-2010 and around that time nobody was really asking for anything like anal or choking. They also were more caring and kind. Then about 5yrs later basically everybody was requesting those things or wanting to be called daddy, my fb feed was covered in porn gifs and ppl were sharing photos of women tied up or with massive bruises, terrible. Thankfully the porn gifs are gone now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 08:28 AM
1

I work in a factory and the men there compliment each other all the time. It's really nice. They have no problem with it. Everybody likes compliments and feeling appreciated. They're not afraid to give each other hugs or pats on the back either. It's just too rare elsewhere. But I do think it's weird to say that men don't notice other men, especially with incels constantly worried about "chad". How would you know what "chad" looked like if you didn't notice other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:06 AM
1

I can objectively look at someone and say they're attractive and have it not be a fake compliment or a bid to get into their pants. I can also see when someone might have great appeal to others even though I do not personally find them appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 01:55 AM
2

Sometimes i feel like when men say that it's because of latent homophobia though. You almost never hear a man say another man is subjectively attractive. It's almost like men are afraid to look at each other or appreciate the male form.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:23 AM
1

Many men could be very attractive if they put more effort into their appearance. They also need their self esteem boostered. Even men that I've thought very attractive have told me they see themselves ugly. We need to stop saying men are ugly as a whole. And also encourage better grooming and styling in men. Almost anybody could look dapper if they tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:13 AM
3

Pretty boys are hot! Basically any many on stage takes good care in his grooming and if he's acting or performing has a makeup and styling team. The emo trend? Huge and all those dudes were wearing eyeliner and had dyed hair and lots of accessories. It really helped the ugly skinny dudes to slap some eyeliner on, suddenly they were mysterious. When all those people started dressing 'normal' again you could tell they didn't look as good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:37 PM
9

Not all men!' I dunno, I tend to speak figuratively and when I write or read things on a forum I feel like everybody else is too or using words colloquially. Like when people use all in place of most. It's ridiculous to think that when somebody says that they literally mean all. There shouldn't be any confusion unless you're not a native English speaker, I feel like the general populace would understand. But of course somebody has to be correct on the Internet and say 'well acktually'....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 07:11 AM
3

Video games
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:17 AM
0

The need for likes is more comparable to the need for porn. Nobody needed that stuff until it was invented and now everybody's addicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:07 AM
1

The men of online dating are like zubats and pidgeys. Just kinda annoying. It's a lot to slog through.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 11:05 AM
2

He put no effort into initiating, would try to initiate at inopportune times, and just became very lazy in all areas. People have the idea that once you're official the dates and fun stops and you can basically become roommates that pester for sex. It really does seem that once a man decides to call you his girlfriend then you basically become a maid that dispenses sex. And I don't consider that love. Dating should be fun and seen as fun and something to be continued, not a chore to try to trick…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 11:22 PM
0

I'd work on making myself look as kpop (ie have really good skin and hair) as possible and become witty and romantic. Basically just be smart funny and hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 11:16 PM
1

Where does it say anything about being a prince charming? If I was blind and stupider, then my dating pool would increase greatly. As in it's not fun to be smarter and prettier than average. It sucks. I have few friends because of it too, other people bore me and I can't feign interest in them. It's not an advantage, life is incredible lonely. It's in the advantage to be most like other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 02:34 AM
6

You're just saying these men didn't have fathers to beat them or be afraid of. Most men do not have positive role models because positive role models of any gender are way rarer than you think, almost everybody is seriously lacking that's why there's a mental health crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 05:10 PM
2

And these guys life could end choking on a tendie
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 05:05 PM
1

He can crunch numbers really good, computers like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 07:27 AM
1

OK so you're important to you, like everybody else. I think they failed you, by not teaching you how to relate to others well. I'm sorry you're not well liked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 05:39 AM
3

And before lots of people were dying and unwanted babies were left in the woods. And then we progressed to the point of trying to save every one, even if they have little genetic value.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 05:18 AM
1

It's probably because your most beneficial genes don't want competition but your defective ones do. So you need somebody who's different enough to create a better version of you without drowning out your best traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 05:02 AM
1

It is usually instinctual, as in even adopted kids or step-siblings aren't attracted to each other if they grew up together from a young age. But like those cases of people finding long lost family members and then being attracted to them, it's because they didn't grow up with those people. Part of it is also cultural though, lots of cultures marry cousins and Ancients Greek thought pederasty was cool and the Church still does. And furries and balloon fetishes weren't a thing before the internet…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 04:58 AM
1

There's a big difference in a smart but humble and witty man and a man who does well academically but is also an insufferable know-it-all who takes everything literally. Most of the people I met in STEM were the ones either unable or unwilling to learn social graces and niceties. Nobody likes big brain wojaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 04:42 AM
1

They are abused. Especially when directors try to do shady shit like change up the scenes to something not agreed on or changing their partners. And many of those people who go into porn came from fucked up childhoods.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 04:36 AM
1

Why isn't imagination enough? I just don't understand the appeal of watching other ppl have sex. But I also don't understand the appeal of watching sports either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 04:31 AM
3

Finally a sane person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 04:27 AM
1

You should date a redneck, they'll like living in the woods and not traveling and they're not too picky about looks. Or date a Mormon. Plenty of both in Idaho.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 02:08 AM
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Why do you hate women? It's not women's fault that you're an outlier personality wise. Hate your parents instead for not modeling correctly for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:59 AM
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I think if the true self is unattractive then that's a failure of parenting because children model themselves after their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:56 AM
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I don't think he can genuinely like anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:53 AM
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What about herd mentality? There was plenty of rape in WWII from all troops and I would think that's fairly modern and recent and people had the ideas that rape was horrendous and wrong. What about rapes and killings of children by US soldiers in our wars now? It happens and we don't know the scale because the military keeps tight tabs on it, but they even rape female soldiers plenty. Maybe positions of power attract rapists, or it's the idea that power will let them be able to get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 07:09 PM
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Insult me harder daddy!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 04:08 PM
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Angry isn't an insult. Abrasive is how you are sounding, which may be just my perception, but I'm not able to poll anyone on that. But so far you have used insulting language repeatedly towards me and are trying to act like you are on a highhorse. Porn is the greatest learning tool known to man! It fosters loving and healthy relationships! If only women would see the light!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 04:07 PM
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Well I mean he does have a wife and kids, so he couldn't pursue and he is an honorable man. Other people at work used to tease him about how he acted around me so it's not imagination and his friend even told me that he had a major crush on me. Now he acts normally around me as we don't work closely together anymore, which is the right and good thing to do. I'm just saying a man with a very stable and fulfilling marriage still had a hard time sticking to one person. I'm not trying to brag or cre…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 04:02 PM
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That's not how women work. I do not want to share. And because I do regard this man so highly, I don't want him entertaining thoughts of me. I want to believe truly a pure and wonderful person does exist. I feel like most people are just stuck together because they bred. I want someone truly in love with me and only me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 03:54 PM
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Notice how I'm not the one relying on insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 03:50 PM
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Some men prize their family (kids) a lot. It's almost never really about the wife, they usually say things like they don't want to lose their home or their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 03:49 PM
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Huffpo yes, definitely noted for credibility, just like Jezebel and Buzzfeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 03:46 PM
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How'd you come up with that pecentage? Where's your sources? I need a quote from a reference not related to you to prove that you're really that grateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 03:45 PM
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Torachan, unless I am writing a research paper for a grade, I'm not going to do that. I guess I could link to Jezebel arcticles the same way you link to Pornhub but that's like making a 3rd grade book report. If I decide to go back to higher education I'll make sure to send you one of my papers, bibliography and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 03:42 PM
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Well I mean, I'm not the one capitalizing things for emphasis or trying to insult somebody's intelligence but okay. I'm sorry that you're very frustrated and I dunno how to help you but if you talk the way that you type, I'm sure people find you a bit abrasive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 03:37 PM
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I assure you he's a very good man and has never hit on me and was trying to toe the line but the look he gave me, I know that if he wasn't married he would do anything for me. And that's sad, sad for me cuz nobody has ever treated me that well, and sad for him and his wife, because she deserves that treatment and I bet he does treat her that way, but relationships don't stay electric over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 03:27 PM
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My coworker is madly in love with his wife and they've been together since they were in hs, 17yrs. He still very agressively flirted with me, and it was I that had to create distance between us because it didn't seem like he was going to. This guy is a really genuine kind and caring man and yet he still went loopy for a crush. Feels bad man, if even a good man can do that, just kinda made me feel like what chance do I have if I get married to someone, if I always have to worry about them catchin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 02:40 PM
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You are just so angry. In all your responses. Maybe you think that my comments are angry, I don't mean to come off agressively if that's the case but chill out poor Torachan. It'll be okay, nobody on the internet can harm you I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 02:29 PM
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A large portion of the US is like this. Metro places, men dress nicer, higher competition and wages and standards. Outside of large cities though, men look shabby and are shabby. I've lived on both sides of the country, men are mostly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 02:27 PM
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You are wonderful and I love you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 01:31 PM
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Not true, a guy will always want other women. Even if he has the most hottest, most attentive and loving wife, he will still bang the maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 01:25 PM
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Low value is a mindset unless someone is very deformed or handicapped in some way. There is always room for improvement, just has to be will behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 06:48 AM
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You don't see that the male actors are ignored because men aren't attracted to males and it ruins their fantasy? Men don't watch porn for the men in porn, they watch to see a woman get fucked and abused. Lesbian porn doesn't depict actual lesbian sex, most porn doesn't depict real sex, it's made to please the viewer not the participants so when men use porn as a teaching tool it results in men becoming crappy partners. I don' know why you can't seem to wrap your head around it. When learning to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 03:51 AM
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Look, nomal men are poor men, normal men aren't very educated and they don't do much with themselves. It's like saying 'think of the average person and remember that 50% of people are worse than that.' I live in a midwestern state, we have serious brain drain, all the best men left for better opportunities in wealthier states. My stste is deadlast or near it in terms of education and our marrying age is 22, have high suicide rates and low wages, very Republican and Christian and white. How more …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 03:28 AM
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Why do think I'm against ONS or casual sex? I'm not. I supoort those things as long as they are good experiences for both parties. I am against porn though because most men are not watching informative educational porn, they're watching barely legal incest throatfucking extravaganzas with big black dicks. Most guys aren't watching porn to learn anything. It's not a documentary. 'Lesbian' porn isn't made by lesbians, it's made for the male gaze, most porn is made for the male gaze and does not ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 08:15 PM
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Standard is set by society as a whole. Everybody wants clean healthy looking mates. Like the bachelors I'm talking about, they're on par with people who live in trailer parks. Seems methy. Maybe that's classist but I want men who are middle class or UMC and invests in himself, how a man signals that is by how he looks. Those men always have nice clothes, good skin and a nice aesthetic (could be any aesthetic, the point is he has one). People who don't bathe or brush their teeth regularly usually…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 08:01 PM
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Fucking around and watching porn does not help men become good lovers, those just turn men on but do nothing for the woman. You say that men want to learn to be good lovers but then you just said that they do not because a woman's needs doesn't matter. A man who does not care about how his partner feels during the act is not a good lover. Good sex is attentive and responsive sex. To be good at sex, the person you're sexing has to enjoy it. I can't say I give great blowjobs if all I do is scrape …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 07:44 PM
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I'm not sure. It might be fairly new, where most people are looking more slovenly and the people of walmart style is creeping everywhere. I think in hs and college there is more motivation for men to pay more attention to their looks cuz there's lots of single women their age around and nobody is attached or burdened too much by responsibility. The dating options are tangible and family is also still close to help enforce standards. But once a man lives alone or with other men in a bachelor pad …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 06:49 PM
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There might be people saying 'you go girl, don't shave if you don't want to' but I don't think they're telling her she's gonna have chances with men who prefer women that shave. Nobody really means that. It's kinda like the trans being like 'why won't lesbians date me?' Well because they don't want biological men. No matter what a transperson does a lesbian won't date them. They have requirements for who they date and some people are just not gonna be an option. A man who makes no effort in his …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 06:34 PM
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Eventually, if you are good at reading people during conversation and improving your communication, you will get better at being in tune with people and that will translate in the bedroom. There are some people who are good at making a simple conversation seem intimate and deep just because they are good at reading your response to what they are saying. There are some people naturally good in bed, again because they can read responses. A lot of it is just making a person feel relaxed and safe an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 06:02 PM
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My college boyfriend, he used to go to this site called the art of manliness I think. It had articles about how to dress, how to improve, general lifeskills ... Anyway, what was great about him was he was curious to learn and he knew how to read and use the internet. So many men on the internet and irl say 'wah I dunno how to cook or dress and I dunno what women like! I dunno what they want or how I should model myself!' But internet will teach you these things if you know how to use google. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:38 PM
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A lot of fat women still try to dress nice and put on makeup, yes it isn't dieting or exercise but it's still effort into their appearance. They also try to be friendly and sociable. Women who don't try to look nice or act pleasant shouldn't be upset at lack of attention when they put forth no effort. No effort, no results. Same for fat lazy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:24 PM
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If you wanna fuck or have relationships, you should try to make yourself an attractive and likable human. Can't just show up to an interview looking homeless, can't do the same with a date either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:19 PM
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Internet. Just google 'body language' and lots of articles and youtube videos will pop up. It'll tell you how important eye contact is and can be applied to many things like interviews and learning how to make friends or detect liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:17 PM
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So how about instead of your idea of 'porn' replace it with a guy who's really into my little pony or anime. This guy is so lonely and sexually frustrated that he's using cartoons to cope. Isn't that a little weird or sad? Men went thousands of years without porn. It's only in the last 30yrs that online porn has been available and yet men depend on it so heavily. Isn't that freaking sad? Imagination or a nudie mag should be enough. Not filmed rape and abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 02:23 PM
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I'm going to tell you that people who frequent tourist traps or just stay at the resorts and cruises are boring and basic as hell. But traveling in itself is not, especially if you do it alone and challenge yourself. I don't travel to show off for other people or to take selfies. There is a big difference in people who are about that life and those who aren't. Same with the people who go to festivals. Everybody hates the annoying hippie who feels the need to tell you how woke they are. That's ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 06:12 PM
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That's sad. Women shouldn't have to deal with the 'but he comes home to me' trip. Either he's there for you and only you or he's not there for you at all and a lot of people have to come to grips with that. A loving man can and should be faithful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 05:10 PM
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Young men are also the best looking men, when i was in hs almost all the guys were goodlooking and in their best shape, ten yrs later many are fat and balding or greying, now they get ignored unless they've already snagged somebody. Young men are wasting their youth and health instead of maximising it. Giving up too early, who cares about gettin laid in hs, that's dumbass shit. Get laid in college and be whoever you want, leave your hometown behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 07:04 PM
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I think part of this is ok, like many men have no clue how a date should be and how to act on one. But the mom shouldn't force her kid to pay, he can give a tip. It should be like having a teaparty, where you pretend to be fancy and practice manners but it's still fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 05:39 PM
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Anal is no beach, it feels like having your skin ripped off
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 05:17 PM
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Well yes until you want a partner. For me, my inner world is much better and more interesting than anything the real world can provide me, and I love doing things by myself, I travel by myself, I eat by myself, everything by myself. And I enjoy my freedom greatly. But sometimes I wish I could connect to another, and enjoy other people. The only time I enjoy a crowd is when drunk, I have to impair my brain to enjoy the masses and I think that is really sad. I still want a friend group and I still…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 03:01 PM
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I'm just saying that most of the homeschooled kids were weird when I was a teen, things are wildly different now than ten yrs ago so maybe homeschooling is better. I just know that most of the homeschooled kids came from either very religious families or from two very intelligent but awkward parents. So socializing their kids with other kids was not really a priority for their parents, so maybe they just get along with other homeschooled kids. Also magnet schools kids very weird too. It's good t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 02:34 PM
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I'm not sure about that either, but like they made that Sonic movie. They just keep making terrible shit and ruining my childhood and i hate it all. Not everything has to be 3d animated or genderswapped or whatever. And then they wanna censor all the old stuff. I hate Disney.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:23 PM
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Every homeschooled person I've met was weird. They usually are bad at socializing and can't relate to anybody. Nobody liked them when they joined hs or college, you can tell immediately. Very bright and sheltered though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:22 PM
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Terrible. Fight club is one of my favorite movies and very iconic. They should leave it alone though. I think it's more Hollywood running out of ideas than women wanting everything gender-swapped. The time between remakes is ever growing shorter and they keep getting shittier.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:03 PM
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Well people definitely shouldn't blow things out of proportion. I'm very yelling adverse, it doesn't feel loving.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:16 AM
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Mens threshhold of what constitutes being a cunt is very low. Basically anything they don't like or agree with is being cunty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 09:04 AM
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It's cuz for men the chore is a one time only thing when it's meant to be a subscription service. But the mistake that women made is living with an unclean man. If they don't clean their own apartment, they're not gonna do it when married or when she moves in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 03:25 AM
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I think having somebody you can trust and rely on makes life easier heaps and bounds. Also, about the shit on the toilets, maybe it's just my area. I live in a very poor rural area and manners aren't really a thing. Most people grew up with hoarder parents with a reliance on alcoholvor some other substance. The poor are the largest class, this sub keeps erasing those people. Not everybody is UMC.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 09:57 PM
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